Cancer men trust and cheating

by Nicole
(Trinidad and Tobago)

I've been with a cancer man for 14 years. He cheated on me with 2 women and he got them pregnant also while he was still with me. I don't know whether to believe he loves me because the trust has totally gone.

Now we argue all the time because of the mistrust I have in him. He hurt me terribly and I would just like to know. Do cancer men love although they cheated on you?

Will he ever be faithful to me?

He has me scared to be with him in our 14 year relationship because I don't know what he'll do next.

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Cancer men trust and cheating

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Your Cancer Man
by: Good Luck

If he has cheated on you with two other women and 'fathered' children by them, then he will continue to cheat on you. Cancer men have very strong attachments to the past, former flames, ex-wives, girlfriends, and etc. They experience difficulties letting go, {especially to the women they have children with}. There is a very strong possiblity that he might be having sexual relations with them too.

You have to ask yourself. Is loving 'myself' enough? Whether he still loved you or not, is not an option. The lines have been crossed. TWICE!

There may have been problems in your relationship that were not addressed. But Cancers are naturally introverted people, and 'horrific' communicators, that they often prefer to deal with situations in their 'own' sick twisted way. He may still love you. But do you REALLY think that's enough?
Move on..
by: Anonymous

Hey lady

You're not the only person who has been cheated on.Be strong and let go.Its all for the better.You have to go through a hundred jerks before you can find something worthwhile or maybe you found it but you were taken away from it for a while.Go use your "grey" matter and don't let go of the real deal.One year and you should let go of the past and move on.

Good luck to you and him.Not him, but him.
Cancers
by: Jaydah

Reading thoses comments just scared me. Am with a cancer for a year and couple of months and he do have a kid with a trini chick, but one comment said cancers seem to be stuck in the past. Thinking reallyyy hard!!
Thanks everyone
all men
by: capricorn misses

it doesnt really matter if hes a cancer or not it just depends on the man and the relationship. ive been with my cancer man for 7-8 years and hes been totally faithful he has no past relationships that he clings to. i know many other cancer men too who never would cheat. ladies listen, men are all different no matter what astrology says...yes people do carry some of the traits that their sign says they have, but you cant say that a certian zodiac sign will cheat if this happens or wont cheat if that happens. people are people we make our own choices good or bad right or wrong.
All Men
by: Scorpio Sensation

Dear "Capricorn Misses", you are right and I love your comment, it makes a lot of sense. However, the traits of astrology attached to some individuals seem to hit dead on the nail...I know mine does.
Cancer man cheated on me and his wife
by: Anonymous

Sad but true I fell in love with a Cancer man. I do believe he loves me as well. Apparently they never slept together much and he lost interest in his marriage. We were friends before we happened to be dating. He could not let go of his wife because of his kid. Then when he felt pressure from me, he decided to give it one last try on his marriage and his wife became pregnant with his second child. So he was obviously cheating on her. And on me emotionally. There you go with the cancer men. They can not speak the truth. I think he spoke the most truth with me because he had nothing to lose. And therefore he was so close to me. But for them the show of a family and pickett fence is important. However since pluto is in their 7th house, many marriages will break. His marriage broke with me on the eclipse this year Jan 18. Then again i put a closure on Jun 26. Thats just it. His marriage will break with his wife too. Not now but eventually. I dont talk to him anymore. He said he talks to my soul. Crazy.
Once a Cheater.......
by: Florida's Finest

I'm a Gem Girl.Sweetie I was in your situation with a Cancer,not exact but similar. He kept cheating,yes he loved the hell out of me and I loved him to life,but he couldn't control his issues with needing other women for sex. Cheating has nothing to do with astrology. It has to do with the person. The way he/she handles the situation is where astrology comes in. For example,Everytime he cheated I found out,he begged to come back eachtime, I'd hold out and I would milk those apologies for everything I could imagine because hey I'm a Gemini, I like a little drama and I knew he was sensitive about home life and me. We made it 8years,but afterwhile love wasn't enough to keep us together. Once dude cheats and you let him back he'll keep cheating.Let go unless you want an dysfunctional relationship.
cheaters
by: springbaby

I was in a committed relationship (engaged to be married) with an intellectual and charming cancer man for 4 years before I found out that he was married and lived an elaborate double life (he travels a lot due to his work). He showed no remorse and belittled my hurt.
Lied to my face every day. Good-riddance to a habitual cheat.
Virgogal married to cancer man
by: Gracie

I am married to a cancer man for 16 years; and I feel a lot of ladies here that CANCER MEN are habitual cheaters!!! My husband cheated on. Me 3X. Yeah they are home buddy but they also love to cheat when they are off the house!! Cancer wants the ladies to give them a lot of emotional stuff when it comes to them but crap they don't care how the ladies feel when they are cheating!! I will never ever berelationship to any cancer man ever again!!!
I can relate...
by: Anonymous

I am with a Cancer man now and he is already cheating. Only been together for 2 months, acts like everything is fine, and loves me to pieces. See me, I'm a gemini gal and I'm more of the type to get you back at the root of everything. It's just a matter of time that I finally tell him that I know what he's been doing. HA! I couldn't believe it when I saw it... SMH! Oh well... So much for HIS plans of marriage and children with me...

Funny thing is that, I asked him if he still wanted to be in our relationship, if he was happy, how does he think we're progressing, and if I smother him. He told me that he's happy & wants to stay together. He also stated that I DON'T SMOTHER HIM..

It's just doesn't add up because if you were so happy, they you wouldn't have cheated. Simple as that...
same old same old
by: miss gem

cancer men are cheaters and huge liers!! i've been with mine since i was 16 and i've known him from i was 8. so small yet so in love, he and i. we have been on and off for 4 yrs..now we r on. everytime he cheats i find out but i always wait on the right moment to slam it in his face, i always do everything to make him feel my hurt i guess cause im a gemini i love treating him like shit in those time and he always comes back crawling and begging. stay away from those cancer men ladies
us cancer men
by: Anonymous

reason why we cheat is because were not getting the love and attention we need from our partners we are very passionate lovers and we want that passion from our loves or we go out n try to find it
Cancers are cheaters!! NEW
by: Anonymous

I've been seing a cancer man for 3 yrs now. I am married and i met him while my marriage was no longer good. He's had a couple of gf since we met. So i guess he also cheated on his girfriends. He tells me he loves me while hes still dating them. And it's true he could not let go of past relationships. I tried so many times to breakup wt him but he always comes back. I also noticed that he's friends wt his ex's again on Facebook. He just cant let go. And he says he is still single no gf. Cancers are cheaters most definitely!!! And I'm not planning to take him seriously after reading all this. Beware of Cancer men cuz theyre worst than cancer desease .
I want him to be true NEW
by: Anonymous

I been dating a Cancer man for about 3 months and I under the assumption that he is cheating when I'm not with him......I have strong feeling for him and he treats me so good. I just think he is cheating and everytime I question him......he withdraw from me. I do believe this man care for me......but I don't want a known cheater
cancers can cheat NEW
by: Anonymous

I had an affair with one for over a yr
He cheated on his wife several times
.five I know of including me
.thing that hard is I dumped him and even now he still texts says he loves me. Really he loves what I made him feel
he wants an affair. Not happening. I want something real
They will be the best caring lovers
U will think they love u. But its just words. Actions speak louder
They love there kids and never will leave
I think he wants to get me back to say be won
I don't trust him

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what to know the truth NEW
by: Anonymous

I decided to check my cancer man phone the other ......and I seen a text of him texting his baby mother......asking her why she treat him like shit and she only do it because she knows he loves her......the previous text was him questioning her where abouts......God know I love this man.....but I just don't understand why he insist on holding on to me if he know he doesn't want me. Its obvious that his heart is someone where else. Don't get me wrong we all live in the same city and he take me everywhere with him and I'm around a lot.....But I don't want to be with him anymore knowing he can't let go of his love he has for his baby mother......Don't get me wrong I will always love my son father but he will never find me sending I love you texts.......I must walk away! I think they still have a sexual relationship going because one text was here it is another Friday night and you MIA....my feelings is so hurt!
Cancer Chester NEW
by: Anonymous

I've was with my cancer bf for 4.5 yrs. when I met him he told me he was divorced. 4 months later found out he was married. I tried to end it with him over the course of the next 8 months. He lied to me that he ended things w his wife but in all the cases, he lied about it. Finally his wife left him and we started dating seriously...over the course of the last 3.5 yrs of our relationship, i kept catching him in lies and his cheating ways. I kept taking him back and believing that he will change and that would have a faithful future together. It never happened. This last time, I caught him cheating with 4 other women. Enough was enough I kicked him to the curb. We have been broken up for 3 months now and his constantly pursue me and reconcile even when he has a steady gf now and who knows how many others! He's a serial cheater with no regard for the people he supposedly loves. Glad he's no longer my burden but someone else's.
End it early on NEW
by: Anonymous

When I first found he cheated on me I should have ended it and not 4 yrs later w so much more hurt
I dont know what to think NEW
by: Anonymous

Since I went thru his phone......he has been more open emotional and even the next time I was around him......he volunteer that I see who calls and text him.....he seem more true but I do know he still lies.....I don't know how to take it. I don't know should I just see how things go or if I should just walk away. I do believe he loves me but I also think he love have multiple women for security purpose......someone please help me because I'm more confuse now than before.
Cancer men are twisted NEW
by: Anonymous

I met this cancer man in grad school. He befriended me and I didn't think much of it. Then he started getting weird on me always calling and texting. At first I blew him off, then I started liking the attention. He told me he was legally separated from his wife. I later found out they were living in the same house, sleeping in separate rooms (wink).The next thing I knew we were going out having a wonderful time. After about 6 months we starting getting intimate, big mistake. That's when I found out he was an omitter. Many people believe if they omitt something they aren't liars, so not true they are. We carried on for nearly a year when he decided to go back to his wife. His behavior began to change and I kept asking questions. I guess all men tell the same lie... my wife cheated on me with my bestfriend, brother, cousin, nephew, etc. Whatever lie we believe. I later found out he cheated on his wife with her bestfriend. For a while we didn't talk, now he calls all the time talking about nothing. I want so bad to never speak to him again but its so hard. I trusted him after not trusting men for so long. I hadn't dated or had sex for seven years. When I did I trusted the man from hell! Now I'm afraid I'll never trust again. Ladies be careful, far too many men are calculating scum bags. One thing I know we all want love even if we're in relationships with men that are incapable of returning love and being honest.

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