Capricorn man Aquarius woman

The best match I have had compared to any other sign. We are like best friends and lovers at the same time. Although, once fights occur it is long and he expects me to make up for it. I love my cappy man! very passionate lovers, goal driven and huge hearts.. the best MENTAL connection and very fun!

I'm a 19 year old typical sassy Aquarius madam and the stubborn but simply irresistible Capricorn man in my eye is a fair few years older (9 years).

He being the practical and rational one seems to have a BIG issue with this and although I understand his concerns and respect his choice, I am also very taken by him and I have found myself arguing in persuasion of age as merely a number. In my opinion, I posses quite a mature nature for my age, im not possessive, unreasonable, childish etc and not by any means a stereotypical student, i.e. cheating, out drunk every night etc, which again, is another implication...for him!

I am very honest and very loyal but very proud and above all things I have the utmost respect for my pride and generally never make a first move. But where it may have been a matter of giving up at the first signs of his hesitations I have done quite the opposite and found it is something I want to work hard on, I want to show him I am devoted to my man and I feel we are well suited in terms of our characters and personalities.

This Capricorn man in my eye demonstrates pure skill in his social relations, which I think most Aquarians (male and female) would appreciate, for example, in a social gathering I enjoy the spotlight and love entertaining a large group of people in an in-depth conversation or debate etc but sometimes I need my partner to re-appear back into the scene from the side lines where he was happily waiting and take over.. with regards to this; he can talk to HIS friends, MY friends and even anyone who's not yet a friend and within a few seconds they are deeply routed in conversation in such a way that you would assume they were life long friends.

He is very easy to talk to and yet there is an aloof and distant about him that makes him seem almost 'too good' to be approached by just anyone... meaning I find myself secretly craving his attention and feeling extremely special when I am given it.

He dances well, he challenges my mind, I can talk to him about nothing and he still stimulates me mentally! he is an impressive dresser (again something I thoroughly appreciate about him), he works hard.. everyday! and is self dependant in many ways. He was very assertive and honest from day one about his concerns with our age difference and bluntly informed me that nothing serious could ever happen between us... but!! naturally we randomly bumped into each other out every Saturday night after that! then one night, we danced together, sit down together, drank together and finally kissed each other! and my! my!

I have never kissed a man quite like a Capricorn man, who seemed to be happy for me to lead and pleasantly surprised by my playfulness, which appealed to all my senses that he was shocked, intrigued, and impressed because I enjoy myself, only, when I know someone is enjoying themselves (in anything..) I apologize for this long, detailed post but I cannot see any other solution to my problem then to have him. I beg of anyone to help! any advice on how to turn this man reasonable? or any books on the hardship of the Capricorn man and making him take a chance....for once! many thanks Luisa x

Hey Luisa, first off Capricorns tend to be very cautious and practical when selecting long term partners. It's normal that they don't want to rush in. Often the process of making one fall in love is described as bringing down their walls (check out the Scorpio woman Capricorn man message board on this site if you want to see some complaining and strategizing about this!)

In your case one of the walls is the age difference. A valid point to make to him is that as you both get older that 9 years will be less and less significant. At 19 it's a pretty big gap. At 30 it's not nearly as bad etc. Having said that, Capricorns generally prefer mature and dependable lovers. So the obstacle is really demonstrating you are one, more than the age gap itself.

Your patience level will be a factor in that demonstration - going off the deep end about it to try and persuade him for example will hurt a lot more than it will help.

Im an Aquarius woman and my man is a Capricorn. I love him but sometimes he make me want to say its over. Then he do something that make me forget what I was mad at him for and I really can't stand that, if im mad I want him to let me be mad at him. We can't be away from each other more then a hour or we gone really miss each other. In April,2010 we will be together for 3years.We met in 8th grade I know we young but the feelings we have for each other is true and I wouldn't change that for the world. He really is the love of my life.

Im an Aquarius woman dating a younger Capricorn man... its so weird! I know that I love him... and one part of me knows he's good to me and that I want to marry him... the other cant stand his materialism, controlling ways, and constant need for affirmation - but I guess that's the Aquarian in me... we started as friends and after about a year started "talking" and realized we had more in common that we originally thought - and things clicked - then he asked me to be his girl - I said yes - and now we live together - im sure this is all in his nature to act so quickly - cause for me its scary! we haven't even hit a year yet... very scary!! I think what makes me wonder even more is my subconscious comparison to my Gemini ex - now the stars say that the Aquarian and Gemini are damn near perfect for each other - and yet im with a Capricorn... I have to admit - there are pros and cons to being with both signs - sometimes you just wish you could take bits and pieces of every one you've loved and make a 'perfect mate/man' - I guess im just coping... hoping that enough compromise and love will make everything work for us... there's always that thought - what if he's the one and you leave in search for the 'perfect' - who all ladies know does not exist - but also - what if he's NOT the one and you stay... forced to settle for less than what you want or feel you deserve... who knows... only time will tell!

I am an Aquarius female and the man I like and have liked for the past several years is a cappy. Im not sure how to read him. I don't really talk to him but when we see each other out, we are constantly staring at each other. Several years ago, he was wanting to have sex with me and I would never give in. He is a very good looking man, could have anybody he wanted too and I knew this so I would never allow myself to just be another notch on his belt. Anyway. I did see him over the holidays out and about and of course we just stared but nothing is every said. He just broke up with someone a few months back. This is also the only man that has ever intimidated me. Im scared to talk to him, fear I will get rejected and when I don't have any communication coming from him, then I feel like he isn't interested in me. Could anyone give me some good advise here? Oh this whole thing has been going on for about 10 years. sounds crazy. there were head games played in the past. Also after he became a friend of min on FB, he broke up with his g-friend a month later.. any advice would be appreciated! :)

To the person above...just talk to him. Become his friend.

I'm an Aquarian female married to a cappy male and I understand your intimidation. They are very intimidating. But trust me...talk to him. Be his friend. This will show him that he can trust you. Once he's your friend and he understands you, then he'll want to take things to the next level.

Thank you for the advice. My friends keep telling me that too. I just have to try and get past the "intimidation" part of it. LOL. Plus im not sure if he's over the ex yet and Im afraid of getting rejected for that reason!

I am an Aquarian female falling in love with a Cappy from high school. we recently connected again after 15 years. it was like we never were apart. he lives in Florida im in Ohio he would love for me to relocate. he seems to still have sooo much love to give. and I'm still the one looking for love in all the wrong places. should I go? I want to run asap!

I am going through the same things with my Capricorn man. I'm Aquarius and like to show my affections to my man. However, the more open I am with my feelings the more scared he gets. After 6 years of friendship/lovers on and off, I have found the best way to attract and keep him interested, is to play the game his way. Which is actually working out for my own self worth. Be confident, take care of yourself, strive to make yourself happy, and concentrate on your career. This will not only make your Cap man highly attracted to you but you will be happy and at peace within yourself as well. This is what he wants for you. Neediness and insecurity is a total turn off to him. Let him know that you admire him and want to be with him, but you also have a life of your own. Be fun loving and self assured and you will be irresistible to all men esp a Cap. It takes a lot of patience, but the time we spend together is so special, that it is all worth it.

Hey im an Aquarius 19 female im deeply in love with my 39 year old Capricorn boyfriend but im not good at showing to much emotion he shows me and tell me he love me all the time I find it hard 2 give it back I don't no what to do I feel like I should let him go an be happy but I love him im so confused it not about our age that has never been a problem I don't no maybe its just me HELP PLZ. Leesa

ohk Joey is a Capricorn and im of course Aquarius and on the compatibility rate it says we have 1 communication 2 sex and 1 sum other thing but me and Joey hit it off!!! and im just swept off of my feet by him!!! although im only 16 I have gone out with people before but I have never in my life felt like this like I do when he's with mee!!! we have been together for a while and we have this wonderful thing going on and we are getting married in February!!!

I hooked up with my cappy guy at 13. almost 7 years later we are still sooo in love. but I have to say it is still very hard to figure him out. I love how mysterious he can be but it also makes it very hard to gauge his moods. and these men are moody! I think that's the worst part cuz they can never let ANYTHING go. the only thing I don't agree with on the sexual compatibility. we go VERY well together, but only if both parties are willing to let their guard down. I think cappys are just naturally skilled in that area!

wow! I'm totally relating to these experiences. I am an Aquarius woman dating a Capricorn man who is 10 years older than me. we have a lot of fun together, and a strong sexual chemistry, but he doesn't understand my reasons for having so many friends (men and women alike) and why they are my friends, maybe has trust issues when he's not with me... I am the most faithful person in the world but he just can't grasp that because of my independent nature and the need to love and care for everyone and see the good which they possess - he is kind of judgmental and worries about his reputation, whereas I ignore what people think of me and try to live life according to what I believe is "right", even if others disagree. often times he lets me take the blame for any arguments we have, but being that im highly analytical I can often justify these actions and accept them. I am very forgiving and don't believe in holding grudges. I know I made this sound very negative but there e is more wonderful that keeps me interested in him. we balance each other out nicely a lot of the time, and we always work through conflict which is a huge plus. we have a lot of fun together, share a lot of common interests, and are also good friends! which is a strong foundation for a lasting relationship. I think some of our miscommunication comes from me believing that he is out to get me when in reality its just a difference of perspective. what I'm hearing isn't necessarily what he is saying. when I can keep that in mind, things go much smoother. advice to the Capricorn man: be sensitive! really listen to what the woman is saying, selective hearing and assumption-making will get you into heaps of trouble!

as far as the 1,2,1 compatibility chart says, that is so not true in my experience! for me it's like a 3,5,4

I am a Aquarius woman whom has no clue what to do over this situation. I want to make the best decision for myself but I don't want to be hurt either. I was in love with a Capricorn man when I was a teenager. I messed up big time on our date. I know I made the mistake and yes it was my fault. After that, I was treated by him just horrible. He constantly avoided me and ignored me when I was in the same room with him. I gave up on him and moved away. I moved back 10-12 years later & ran into him again. I never seen a Capricorn man show off but he did his best to grab my attention. About 2 years later, I ran into him at his own band practice. He was singing when I showed up. Again, he starts acting almost loony. I was very turned off by it so I ignored him and sat down. Needless to say, he caused a lot of problems & the band broke up that night. I was soo unimpressed that I called him dumb even to his own brother. I was mad at him and I let his brother k now about it. I didn't expect for the Scorpio brother to start liking me, too! I could talk to him more easily and joke better, also. I fell under the spell of a Scorpio man. So much so that I was sadly depressed when he moved back out of state to be with his kids. Another year or two later, I ran back into the other brother the show off Capricorn. I went out to celebrate my birthday some. Out of the blue, he comes up to me and says, "Are you not going to say hi to me anymore?" I was a little surprised to see him approach me out of the blue anyways. So, I said hi, hugged him, & talked a little to him. I was impressed to see him acting his age. I don't know whether to give him a chance or wait for the other Scorpio brother to show back up. I'm soo afraid that this Capricorn will hurt me again. If I wait for the Scorpio than I could be waiting for nothing on him to move back. If anyone can give me some good advice than I am all ears...help!

Me and my Capricorn hubby are like best friends and we've been together for like...a 1yr and 6 months. I adore him and he feels the same. He's and amazing kisser, very passionate, but...we haven't got into the bed and sheets yet.. just a bit curious on how a Capricorn men is in bed cause I want to know what to expect...so help please.

I have the potential as a very single Aquarian woman to get to know a Cap man (I believe he is 4-5 years younger than me).

For many reasons, I am interested to see where this could go, of course, we have to get started first!

As I become more Aquarian (quirky, changeable yet particular, weird, etc) as I age, I find my patience for the dating game waning. Yet in Aquarian fashion, I'm in no hurry to hitch my wagon to the wrong guy--much rather be alone!

Anyway my question: Is Cap man going to make me wait and wait and prove myself worthy of him? Do I automatically have a myriad of hoops waiting for me to jump through just to catch his attention? At my level of life experience (over 30) that isn't going to fly for me.

Bottom line: how much patience is going to be required of me to emotionally connect to a Capricorn man?

I cannot believe I have stumbled upon this page. There are so many young Aquarian gals with older Capricorn males. I have recently split from my Capricorn, I moved to the other side of the world to be exact. We have been together for 4 years, the first 2 were great but then things began to unravel. Everything that say about our stars are true. I was so hard for me to leave him but there just was not that exact spark, Aquarians are more sociable by nature, plus the age gap! Hard work, I think if I was older then it would have been perfect. Aquarians and Capricorns do click, it just takes some work. Capricorn be more fun and not so pessimistic. Aquarians get your head out of the clouds and be happy with what you have, it's hard because if your anything like me I am like a bottomless pit, never happy. but I tell you I loved my Capricorn, should have stopped thinking twice.

My first and current boyfriend is a 20 year-old Capricorn. I'm a 19 year old Aquarius. We've been together for nearly five months. Though it hasn't always been running smoothly (he has lingering feelings for some of his exes which makes me extremely jealous, I say things without considering his feelings, etc.), we're like best friends and he means a lot to me. And when I say best friends, I truly mean it. We're so honest with each other. Outwardly, he might not LOOK like much, but inside, he's the guy I've been looking for all along. He's manly-- but in a subtle way, intelligent, outrageously funny, amazing in bed, and has a lot of tastes similar to mine. Maybe a little brooding, serious, and predisposed to bouts of melancholy now and then, but I know he's a strong-minded individual, courageous and stable, even if he's a little shy at first. I genuinely LOVE spending time with him. And it's like I can feel his love for me, so I'm starting to trust him a bit more.

For me, my love is either devastatingly intense and deep, or more casual and friendly. With him, it's more on the friendly side. It's not wild and passionate, it's more like we have a great companionship in each other. He's not possessive or jealous at all, which I kind of regret, because I like something about possessiveness in a guy. And I feel like he could be a BIT more passionate about showing his feelings toward me. Maybe if he had some Scorpio in his chart :p

But like I said, he's my best friend, and I love him deeply for that.

im an Aquarius woman with a young cappy. let me tell you. interesting. I am learning so much with my boo. not even with the older men I've been with. He has enlightened me in so many way's. I do appreciate him and his knowledge. they do have issues, but like the other girl said, you have to be patient. I hope, at least for me, all my dedication and loyalty will pay off. I have come to terms regarding my love for him. he knows, but not really know how I feel. not yet at least. what is it with these cappy men?

im an Aquarius female he is a cappy male we met 4 yrs ago he was seeing me and 4 other girls as well! after a few months we separated I went out with someone else and he chose one of the other girls he was seeing! unfortunately these didn't work out and we remained in contact as friends. the relationship grew and we started dating it took me a while to get past the fact that we were together I felt it was because his ex finished with him not because he really wanted to be with me! maybe I still do?! he is very moody and self indulgent and 9 times out of 10 I give in 2 appease him I feel like I have lost myself if we go out its with his family or friends . our biggest row is that I have 2 boys aged 9 & 6 and he sees them as a direct threat to his attention with him although he would never admit it also he is very reluctant to allow our relationship to move forward because of them and I cant go on like this any more!

my husband is a Capricorn and I am an Aquarius. we love each other dearly. but we often time get into arguments. because of miscommunication...if he says something one way...and then later on says something different (about the same situation). it doesn't seems that both things he said are the same...but in his mind they are. he says, "that's what I said", and im like "no you didn't!" .what should I do as the Aquarius woman to avoid arguments with my Capricorn husband? I love my husband. and I want us to last forever

I am dating a cappy who is 10 years older then me. This is one of the best relationships I have ever had. Even the Sex is mind blowing if I might brag. He is a fantastic man and I like it when he takes control. I am happy to go on the ride of my life. He is truly the love of my life.

I am talking to a Cancer guy he seems like the guy I been wanting for a long time, he provides for me when I need it, very funny and sexy and honest w. how he feels even if it is a mood swing. I just think the fact I am a friendly girl and a lot of people know me and I know some of his people, he thinks that I will never be able to settle down---and lately I been staying low key, but I feel like I'm not being my self ( Aquarius ) but I am worried what if he is not who he is saying he is---but I guess its a chance that I must take---But he always seems like he needs his space-- he doesn't believe in relationships, so I don't know if I am wasting my time --- I like him so much he's always on my mind I would to take care of him and get to know him better I just think I maybe to emotional and I don't want to push its been 9 mnths---and I am still so HAPPY when he's around though I can't show it!--HELP

Aqua-mama!

I am an Aquarian woman who has been "dating" a Capricorn man for a little over a year now. We met at work 6 months after my husband passed away (lung transplant gone wrong) and he was still married-but came on to me hard, and me being the smart ass that I am made it very clear that I did not want a married man coming on to me. A year later we both end up laid off from our jobs, he's divorced and reluctantly I start talking to him. To start off I'm 9 years older than him, and we live 45 minutes apart. In the beginning he could not do enough for me, brought his 2 girls from the previous marriage over to play with my son on the weekends, it was great-until the holidays came along. He reluctantly bought me a gift, I feel because I told him I had bought him something. My birthday in January- he asked me what I wanted, told him I wanted my shutters painted because I'm trying sell my house. It's May now and still hasn't been done. Valentine's- he starts a fight with me, we don't s ee each other-no gift. Anyway, you get the picture. On top of that he rarely makes attempts to see me (unless I happen to be in town, then he wants me to come over), and goes into these moods where he won't text or call-sometimes for a day or so. When he finally does contact me I'm pissed, I ask him if he wants to just go ahead and end things since we hardly see each other anymore and he tells me I'm crazy and overreacting. If I act cold and aloof he gets mad, but he will pick up the communication for a few days, then it wanes off. The excuse for not seeing me is that he's working a 2nd job on 3rd shift. Idk, in the beginning he would joke that I was going to be his daughter's new step mom. A year later he doesn't bring them around me anymore, and on the rare occasion he comes to see me he pays little attention to my son-which I call him out on. I want to dump him so bad now. I get my nerve up, then I think he senses what I'm about to do and puts his sweet face on again. I am usually a pretty carefree person, and not inclined to be jealous or suspicious-but he brings out the worse in me! The only positive was the sex, but even that is becoming far and few between. I tell him if he's not interested just lmk, I'm no one's beast of burden, again he tells me I'm crazy. Just seems like we play cat and mouse games all the time, as if he gets a perverse thrill from watching me suffer. This is so hard.

I'm an outgoing Aquarius who was set up on a blind date with a Cappy man. I wasn't immediately attracted to him but I instantly fell in love with his personality. We ended up sitting in his car talking till 3:30am after our date. I've never had a connection with anyone like this. I'm gonna see him tonight.... I can't wait!

I am a true Aquarian woman. I have been talking to a true Capricorn man for about a month in a half. I am good friends with his sister and his mother has accepted me as part of the family. The family says I am his next girlfriend and some say I am his girlfriend. His sister says when he really likes someone he takes his time, but if he dint care he would just one night me and never call again. We haven't went to the next level. We have had quite a few long nights sitting up talking sharing our own ideas and opinions of any subject that comes up. but, I don't feel like I am his girl even though I do catch myself sometimes acting like I am, like when I cook at his sisters house, I make sure his plate is specially made the way he likes it, or if I see he needs something and if I can help I will offer it, even though he is reluctant in accepting my help and most of the time turns it down, I try not to feel rejected and view it as his ego/pride is what has him to tell me NO, but thank you. Every time we see each other we kiss and when we part we kiss but, don't let me forget to kiss him , because HE will ask WHERE is my kiss. LOL but the attraction is tormenting, and we will flirt with each other a little, when I challenge his attempts with me, HE tells me to SLOW DOWN! ( what's up with that? sister Aquarians?) please ask your Capricorn man for advice or insight, I am confused sometimes.. I do prioritize, by giving him his space, but also letting him know I am still here at the same time. I am more of a "if we are going to do this, then lets do this , but if were not, then let me know Now! and lets just be friends. I sometimes want to back off because I don't want to get to close and feel I am sitting here for nothing, but the sex appeal is strong, I cant imagine what it would be like, if we ever get sexually involved. NEED INSIGHT PLEASE

I'm sitting at my desk at 5:22am speechless and wide awake because of this particular section. I'm 24 and just recently (couple months) realized who I was and what truly makes me happy in life. I owe this change in mentality to this 30 y/o Capricorn friend. I met him long ago thru an ex, 2 years later I needed help with my car, and was told he can help me out. At the time, he was going through relationship problems. He was about to propose to her and everything, 9 years deep. But she was treating him wrong in all sorts of ways, but he never spoke of it to anyone. Couldn't let go, didn't want to change (their annoying trait!). Being an Aquarian, it was easy to notice something was wrong, but because I wasn't close to him, I had to ask him various questions, which ultimately led me to finally get him to open up. Since then, he's a love Dr. to all his friends, and me...kind of. He says he doesn't want to hurt me because he doesn't want to be with me for "rebound" reasons, and that I deserve so much better than I've had. Yet, he says he wants to show me a good time and how it feels to be treated the right way...but let's not forget "he doesn't want to hurt me." He holds back, I know it, but when we have our alone time, it's like we're a couple. But since his friends know my ex, he keeps it low pro, even though everyone knows it, and respects me, he puts that barrier up. The whole point of this is to the person above me, my answer to you...an honest one, and to myself, I HAVE NO IDEA! =\ But like I told him, I rather enjoy these moments and have it help me stay away from being mistreated as I was from prior boyfriends. I would rather get hurt in this manner, than get hurt in the other ways. I guess I wasn't the only one going through all this.

To everyone else, doesn't it suck to be an Aquarian woman. To put others before you, even if you tried not to, and have it somehow screw you over?

My Leo friend I recently met told me, "it is what it is, you can listen to advice, but at the end of the night, you're gonna be dealing with the problem on your own."

Keep your heads up, be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of your talents, skills, attractiveness, friendliness, kindness, and incomparable traits. x

Ive known this Capricorn guy for about 4 months. when we first met he straight up told me he liked me. and I admit he is cute charming and humorous. problem is, is that he lives a few states away and we talk over internet. he's about a year younger than me. im not sure what to do this is the first guy ive liked that has said it back so im a little hesitant to get to know him. im afraid he'll realize that im no good and go looking for someone else. my confidence in myself is extremely low and I just want to make him smile. we're not dating but we are becoming good friends. im getting mad when he doesn't respond to messages as quickly as I would hope. like he's not as in to me as im in to him. sometimes he doesn't get on for days at a time. am I just fussing over nothing or is this a problem?

I am an Aquarian girl, and seeing a Capri man..we are about the same age (in early thrities)..when we meet, we gel great, chat a lot and are quite physical. he also sometimes takes a day off for me. he is doing quite well in his career and is making way more than I do. though I am also a professional in my own right and doing well by society's standards, still he is much higher than me..but when he meets me, he appears quite down-to- earth..

but then there are some days, when he hardly contacts me...cant really figure out his behavior.. is he interested? since we live in different continents, we meet once in 4-5 months for 1-2 days..

my cap guy I been talking to since march he is very nice but he is kinda hard to figure out one minute he all in to ya then you might hear from him in days, but when we see each other sex is good and acts like he really misses me sometimes I feel like I am in to him more than he is in to me he works hard and he does not hold conversation for very long but I really do care a lot for him, just wish he would show more interest.

I have been married to a cap for three years and lady's run! lol there are higher and lower levels to our zodiac of course but in my experience it just broke my heart, I married my best friend. he's a good man but life is short and if you spend to much time with the wrong man then you'll lose so much time. wouldn't you rather have a man understand you in about eight months or wait years. date a Libra don't waste your precious Aquarius mind and spirit here its pointless trust me

Im an Aquarius female and I have recently met a Capricorn male. He is my close friends brother when we first met it was like it was just me and him...

I had an argument with me friend because of this she told me that he met other friends of hers but was not like that. she said that she felt left out and that she could not create a distance between me and her brother. She said that me and her brother clicked first time around! She said we have a strong connection.

I met family on her birthday and this is when she revealed that 2 of her other friends like her brother and thought I was the same. I denied it. She said she gets very annoyed when her one of her friends likes her brother.

From that I know I can never tell her. I feel as though he is attracted to me I get on great with his mother and family. I have seen in conversations that he cares about me. I know he cares about me more than my friend.

But my friend always gets jealous when he takes care of me.

now I don't know what 2 do .

I have met him twice and feel a lot of eye contact and he notices me a lot he always wants me to be around longer both times!

His sister is in the way. I don't know weather he is interested in me or not.