Capricorn man Aquarius woman

The best match i have had compared to any other sign. We are like best friends and lovers at the same time. Although, once fights occur it is long and he expects me to make up for it. I love my cappy man! very passionate lovers, goal driven and huge hearts.. the best MENTAL connection and very fun!

I'm a 19 year old typical sassy aquarius madam and the stubborn but simply irrisistable capricorn man in my eye is a fair few years older (9 years).

He being the practical and rational one seems to have a BIG issue with this and although I understand his concerns and respect his choice, I am also very taken by him and I have found myself arguing in persuasion of age as merly a number. In my opinion, I posses quite a mature nature for my age, im not possessive, unreasonable, childish etc and not by any means a stereotpyical student, i.e. cheating, out drunk every night etc, which again, is another implication...for him!

I am very honest and very loyal but very proud and above all things I have the utmost respect for my pride and generally never make a first move. But where it may have been a matter of giving up at the first signs of his hesitations I have done quite the opposite and found it is something I want to work hard on, I want to show him I am devoted to my man and I feel we are well suited in terms of our characters and personalities.

This capricorn man in my eye demonstrates pure skill in his social relations, which I think most aquarians (male and female) would appreciate, for example, in a social gathering I enjoy the spotlight and love entertaining a large group of people in an in-depth conversation or debate etc but sometimes I need my partner to re-appear back into the scene from the side lines where he was happily waiting and take over.. with regards to this; he can talk to HIS friends, MY friends and even anyone who's not yet a friend and within a few seconds they are deeply routed in conversation in such a way that you would assume they were life long friends.

He is very easy to talk to and yet there is an aloof and distanceness about him that makes him seem almost 'too good' to be approached by just anyone... meaning I find myself secretly craving his attention and feeling extremely special when I am given it.

He dances well, he challenges my mind, I can talk to him about nothing and he still stimulates me mentally! he is an impressive dresser (again something I thoroughly appreciate about him), he works hard.. everyday! and is self dependant in many ways. He was very assertive and honest from day one about his concerns with our age difference and bluntly informed me that nothing serious could ever happen between us... but!! naturally we randomly bumped into each other out every saturday night after that! then one night, we danced together, sit down together, drank together and finally kissed each other! and my! my!

I have never kissed a man quite like a capricorn man, who seemed to be happy for me to lead and pleasantly suprised by my playfulness, which appealed to all my senses that he was shocked, intrigued, and impressed because I enjoy myself,only, when I know someone is enjoying themselves (in anything..) I appologise for this long, detailed post but I cannot see any other solution to my problem then to have him. I beg of anyone to help! any advice on how to turn this man resonable? or any books on the hardship of the capricorn man and making him take a chance....for once! many thanks Luisa x

Hey Luisa, first off Capricorns tend to be very cautious and practical when selecting long term partners. It's normal that they don't want to rush in. Often the process of making one fall in love is desribed as bringing down their walls (check out the scorpio woman capricorn man message board on this site if you want to see some complaining and strategizing about this!)

In your case one of the walls is the age difference. A valid point to make to him is that as you both get older that 9 years will be less and less significant. At 19 it's a pretty big gap. At 30 it's not nearly as bad etc. Having said that, Capricorns generally prefer mature and dependable lovers. So the obstacle is really demonstrating you are one, more than the age gap itself.

Your patience level, ironically, will be a factor in that demonstration - going off the deep end about it to try and pursuade him for example will hurt a lot more than it will help.

Im an Aquarius woman and my man is a Capricorn. I love him but sometimes he make me want to say its over.Then he do something that make me forget what I waws mad at him for and I really can't stand that,if im mad I want him to let me be mad at him.We can't be away from each other more then a hour or we gone really miss each other.In April,2010 we will be together for 3years.We met in 8th grade I know we young but the feelings we have for each other is true and i wouldn't change that for the world.He really is the love of my life.

im an aquarius woman dating a younger capricorn man... its so weird! i know that i love him... and one part of me knows hes good to me and that i want to marry him... the other cant stand his materialism, controlling ways, and constant need for affirmation - but i guess thats the aquarian in me... we started as friends and after about a year started "talking" and realized we had more in common that we originally thought - and things clicked - then he asked me to be his girl - i said yes - and now we live together - im sure this is all in his nature to act so quickly - cause for me its scary! we havent even hit a year yet... very scary!! i think wat makes me wonder even more is my subconscience comparison to my gemini ex - now the stars say that the aquarian and gemini are damn near perfect for eachother - and yet im with a capricorn... i have to admit - there are pros and cons to being with both signs - sometimes you just wish you could take bits and peices of every one youve loved and make a 'perfect mate/man' - i guess im just coping... hoping that enough compromise and love will make everything work for us... theres always that thought - what if hes the one and you leave in search for the 'perfect' - who all ladies know does not exist - but also - what if hes NOT the one and you stay... forced to settle for less than what you want or feel you deserve... who knows... only time will tell!

I am an aqaurius female and the man i like and have liked for the past several years is a cappy. Im not sure how to read him. I dont really talk to him but when we see each other out, we are constantly staring at each other. Several years ago, he was wanting to have sex with me and i would never give in. He is a very good looking man, could have anybody he wanted too and i knew this so i would never allow myself to just be another notch on his belt. Anyway..i did see him over the holidays out and about and of course we just stared but nothing is every said. He just broke up with someone a few months back. This is also the only man that has ever intimidated me. Im scared to talk to him, fear i will get rejected and when i dont have any communication coming from him, then i feel like he isnt interested in me. Could anyone give me some good advise here? Oh this whole thing has been going on for about 10 years..sounds crazy..there were head games played in the past. Als o after he became a friend of min on FB, he broke up with his g-friend a month later..any advice would be appreicated! :)

To the person above...just talk to him. Become his friend.

I'm an aquarian female married to a cappy male and i understand your intimidation. They are very intimidating. But trust me...talk to him. Be his friend. This will show him that he can trust you. Once he's your friend and he understands you, then he'll want to take things to the next level.

Thank you for the advice. My friends keep telling me that too. I just have to try and get past the "intimidation" part of it. LOL. Plus im not sure if he's over the ex yet and Im afraid of getting rejected for that reason!

I am an Aquariuan female falling in love with a Cappy from highschool. we recently connected again after 15 years. it was like we never were apart. he lives in florida im in ohio he would love for me to relocate. he seems to still have soooo much love to give. and i'm still the one looking for love in all the wrong places. should i go? i want to run asap!

I am going through the same things with my Capricorn man. I'm Aquarius and like to show my affections to my man. However, the more open I am with my feelings the more scared he get's. After 6 years of friendship/lovers on and off, I have found the best way to attract and keep him interested, is to play the game his way. Which is actually working out for my own self worth. Be confident, take care of yourself, strive to make yourself happy,and concentrate on your carreer. This will not only make your Cap man highly attracted to you but you will be happy and at peace within yourself as well. This is what he wants for you. Neediness and insecurity is a total turn off to him. Let him know that you admire him and want to be with him, but you also have a life of your own. Be fun loving and self assured and you will be irrestable to all men esp a Cap. It takes a lot of patience,but the time we spend together is so special, that it is all worth it.

Hey im an aquarius 19 female im deeply in love with my 39 year old capricorn boyfriend but im not gud at showin to much emotion he shows me and tell me he love me all the time i find it hard 2 give it back i dont no what to do i feel like i should let him go an be happy but i love him im so confused it not about our age that has neva been a problem i dont no maybe its just me HELP PLZ. Leesa

ohk joey is a capricorn and im of course aquarius and on the capatibility rate it says we have 1 communication 2 sex and 1 sum other thing but me and joey hit it off!!! and im just swept off of my feet by him!!! although im only 16 i have gone out with ppl before but i have never in my life felt like this like i do when he's with mee!!! we have been togather for a while and we have this wonderful thing going on and we are getting married in febuary!!!

i hooked up with my cappy guy at 13. almost 7 years later we are still sooo in love. but i have to say it is still very hard to figure him out. i love how mysterious he can be but it also makes it very hard to gauge his moods. and these men are moody! i think thats the worst part cuz they can never let ANYTHING go. the only thing i dont agree with on the sexual compatibility. we go VERY well together, but only if both parties are willing to let their guard down. i think cappys are just naturally skilled in that area!

wow! i'm totally relating to these experiences. I am an aquarius woman dating a capricorn man who is 10 years older than me. we have a lot of fun together, and a strong sexual chemistry, but he doesn't understand my reasons for having so many friends (men and women alike) and why they are my friends, maybe has trust issues when he's not with me... I am the most faithful person in the world but he just can't grasp that because of my independent nature and the need to love and care for everyone and see the good which they possess - he is kind of judgemental and worries about his reputation, whereas i ignore what people think of me and try to live life according to what i believe is "right", even if others disagree. often times he lets me take the blame for any arguments we have, but being that im highly analytical i can often justify these actions and accept them. I am very forgiving and don't believe in holding grudges. i know i made this sound very negative but ther e is more wonderful that keeps me interested in him. we balance each other out nicely a lot of the time, and we always work through conflict which is a huge plus. we have a lot of fun together, share a lot of common interests, and are also good friends! which is a strong foundation for a lasting relationship. i think some of our miscommunication comes from me believing that he is out to get me when in reality its just a difference of perspective. what i'm hearing isnt necessarily what he is saying. when i can keep that in mind, things go much smoother. advice to the capricorn man: be sensitive! really listen to what the woman is saying, selective hearing and assumption-making will get you into heaps of trouble!

as far as the 1,2,1 compatibility chart says, that is so not true in my experience! for me it's like a 3,5,4

I am a Aquarius woman whom has no clue what to do over this situation. I want to make the best decision for myself but I don't want to be hurt either. I was in love with a Capricorn man when I was a teenager. I messed up big time on our date. I know I made the mistake and yes it was my fault. After that, I was treated by him just horrible. He constantly avoided me and ignored me when I was in the same room with him. I gave up on him and moved away. I moved back 10-12 years later & ran into him again. I never seen a Capricorn man show off but he did his best to grab my attention. About 2 years later, I ran into him at his own band practice. He was singing when I showed up. Again, he starts acting almost looney. I was very turned off by it so I ignored him and sat down. Needless to say, he caused alot of problems & the band broke up that night. I was soo unimpressed that I called him dumb even to his own brother. I was mad at him and I let his brother k now about it. I didn't expect for the Scorpio brother to start liking me, too! I could talk to him more easily and joke better, also. I fell under the spell of a Scorpio man. So much so that I was sadly depressed when he moved back out of state to be with his kids. Another year or two later, I ran back into the other brother the show off Capricorn. I went out to celebrate my birthday some. Out of the blue, he comes up to me and says, "Are you not going to say hi to me anymore?" I was a little surprised to see him approach me out of the blue anyways. So, I said hi, hugged him, & talked a little to him. I was impressed to see him acting his age. I don't know whether to give him a chance or wait for the other Scorpio brother to show back up. I'm soo afraid that this Capricorn will hurt me again. If I wait for the Scorpio than I could be waiting for nothing on him to move back. If anyone can give me some good advice than I am all ears...help!

Me and my capricorn hubby are like best friends and we've been together for like...a 1yr and 6 months. I adore him and he feels the same. He's and amazing kisser, very passionate, but...we haven't got into the bed and sheets yet.. just a bit curious on how a capricorn men is in bed cause i want to know what to expect...so help please.