Capricorn man Sagittarius woman

We met on our first day of college, with a class of mostly boys she was one of 2 girls. I (Capricorn) had a small crush on her which after a few weeks wore off as I got to know her. We would some times sit together and help when the other was having difficulties understanding the work. At this time we were nothing more than classroom friends and rarely talked on the phone or msn messenger (which was a craze at the time).

Second year she took a different subject, Being laid back she couldn’t be bothered to finish the first year course work. Around 6 months later we started talking regularly online and some times sms texts. Although I just saw her as a friend I would text her love poems and jokes because she used to say I don’t call or text her (me not being the chatty type).

Then one day I gave her and her friend a lift as I was going there anyway.. That night while chatting online she told me she liked me!! After a few days when she asked me out again I agreed to see how it goes. Later she told me she had liked me for many months.

First date, I was a bit reserved and she asked me to hug her and in response I held her hand (me being shy). Second date we cuddled and I ended up kissing her.

We were together for nearly 5 years!! The making out was amazing!! We would always be holding hands (mostly in private places) after around 3 years we took the next step and the sex was even better, We would be at it 4-5 times in the space of a few hours. She liked to lay back and let me do the work but I didn’t really mind as long as she was happy. This part of our relationship was just out of this world and I don’t believe it could have been any better.

Communication wise I always felt that she exaggerated and lied sometimes. But she was always open and told me everything where as I held back. At one time we were so close she knew what I was thinking and sometimes she knew what I was about to do before I even did it.

Towards the end we wanted to tie the knot but she got frustrated with my inability to open up to her fully and comfort her even though I wasn’t sure of the future myself. She started to change and become more of a Sagittarius. She could never control her money, and it was always me who would be telling her to stop spending on trivial things.

She's always been family minded and wanted a nice house with children etc.. as did I but being how I am I didn’t want to talk about it too much in fear of it never happening and being disappointed.

Now we are no longer together, she goes out very often and lives life like its her last day, quite the opposite of how she was before.

A very special girl and one I will never get over!!

Awww. That's a very sweet and honest summary of your experience. I bet there's more than one Sagittarius lady who looks at her Capricorn in a new light after reading that. Thanks for sharing! =)

thanks for sharing that experience. it was very interesting to see it from a Cap's perspective. it was really sad in the end how you said you'll never get over her. I never thought Caps could think that way especially of Sags. I wonder if Sags and Caps can be together forever? because all Ive seen from past experiences is 5-20 yrs. it would be awesome if they could. I have Venus in Capricorn and am a Sagittarius. :D I'm not limited to any sign however. I like them all. :D

OMG LOL.

too serious about relationships for me anyways, as a sag I like a little fun and the chase! while my Capricorn ex "fling" liked to chase me and woo me.

I'm not the type for rainbows and flowers when done in such a serious and googly eyed mannor, it makes me wanna laugh. I need a man to woo me with his humour and fun outlook on things, not, "hello my dear, may I open you door?" yes. of course I want a good guy, but be more like: "hello miss lady, may I take your coat or shall I wear it on my head and dance around the room for you?"

So anyways... long story short, ended with me feeling like a bad person for crushing his heart and eating his soul while he STILL kept chasing, im sure if he was like "no, fine, you cant have this anyways, you lost your chance" then I would have been up on it in a split second.

This is so intense ! I'm sorry your missing your love :( but hopefully another Sag. woman will come and pick up for heart and put it back together :)I am a Sags woman (19) and I absolutely love the thrill of life ! I can't even imagine being tied down a day at a time ! Well, I am now dating a Cap. man. He came after me :) just like I like them too . And sure enough the sparks are there :) and guess who I'm partying with ? My Man ! Guess who stays in with me when I'm having those "out of wack" kind of nights instead of going out with his boys? My Man ! . He understands that I need everything to be my way in order for us to work. Yet he still tells me no, so it makes me miss him even more ! He's definitely not the most handsome man I've seen, but definitely the most beautiful mind I have connected with in a VERY long time. I have been single for 4 years from a heartbreak with my ex .Pisces. && trust me when I tell you that I was a heartbreaker after that ! I showed no one any mercy ! I got what I wanted from them. which was all about emotions, some sex ;) and I would disappear. Not anymore though. [ :) he just told me he's on his way! ] so it is definitely possible for a relationship to work ! He is amazing. ! doesn't let me talk to him any kind of way like all the other signs have aloud me to . He holds his ground and definitely keeps me in check while giving me what I want. So before all the non-believers think there's no hope, remember "Sag. is the most optimistic" don't loose ur roots ladies ! keep the faith !

dude I met this sag girl 5 years ago in painting class. she was charming like hell as most sag galz are. I kinda had crush on her but was so focused on my work that I couldn't ever understand that she used 2 look at me and wanted 2 be good friends with me for 2 years I was in her class nut never asked her out or something just talked 2 her like a normal classmate

after a year we met online (orkut). our friendship grew n grew. she den told me after 3 months that she liked me. I already had a big crush on her. so I couldn't cease ma mouth and say I love u. she said dude I have a bf. I was like o gr8. den my inner demon u can call it da Capricorn demon just got active. I like a devil ruined her relationship by making her fall in luv with me and broke her 3 year relationship. dude these sag girls are public they r like doormats. no matter how charming they r they r sluts. most of them I don't blame all of u lolz. so fk her go have some fun. anyways no 1 can beat us in professional life we r gods. so don't screw yourself personally man

She says she feels like I haven't opened up to her. She says I'm in my own world and I'm not letting her in and I disagree and it's frustrating as hell.

Man I'm in the same position right now !! I'm in the first year college now. I'm Capricorn, she's a Sagittarius. I see her as a friend, a good friend. Today she said she likes me on the msn. I decided to give it a shot. We'll see how it goes. It's funny how things are the same as your experience :) People, feel free to give me advice

There a similarity in all the cap n sag story, guy likes the girl, only to find out she too likes him, they hook up, girl dumps the guy. I'm a cap guy, just got ditched by girlfriend of 5 years. I guess in 2 years of live-in relationship, like most of sags she started complaining for not getting enough space, that she needed more time to spend with friends as well, so listened to her, for all I wanted was to c her happy. again her complain started that we are a boring couple we don't go out and all. here I would like to state that if sag girls wants us to love them for what they r,that should imply on them also in't.sag girls are selfish mean ,not all, but most of them. man I love her so much, I love her to death. but is time to move on "u don't die of broken heart u only wish u did"

"There a similarity in all the cap n sag story, guy likes the girl, only to find out she too likes him, they hook up, girl dumps the guy."

I'm a Capricorn, and it's interesting you say that. I was just reading some of the other message boards here and nearly all of them have their own patterns such as the one you noticed above. I'm not a big believer in astrology but it does make you wonder lol.. I guess whoever wrote this website knew that would happen and it's why they're here. Interesting as the articles here seem to be more insightful than other sites I've seen also. They're not just regurgitating the same old cliches for once.

Sagittarius woman are crazy as hell I just got out of a relationship with one: words of advise to all Capricorns interested in Sagittarius..........run don't walk........save your self the headache

im curious how many of you cap guys out there also found if they honestly look back , that maybe they took there sag girl for granted ? then she got bored and wanted some excitement and after a while lost interest because you cap guys didn't give her the attention she needed and then she left??

I'm a cap

Cap guy here. I wouldn't say I took mine for granted, but I do think she basically got bored with me, yes.

im a sag girl, never been with a Capricorn but ill understand if he doesn't open up its just the way he is :)

I'm a sag woman and my current bf of almost 2 years is a Capricorn...

I never noticed him in our class in 1st year of college... he noticed me though, said I was the cutest girl there haha. :) Eventually we ran into each other on our school's shuttle back to the off campus apartments... we lived at the same apartment complex, and right across from each other. Eventually we were just really good friends who partied together, and had the same class. I had my own group of friends and he had his, so we didn't hang out much unless we were at home. I went over his place often, but I never noticed him for more than a friend... there were other guys out there that I've noticed. I always thought and still think he's amazing since I first met him... He's out going, fun, crazy, very sociable.. but other things like he keeps to himself, doesn't like to talk on the phone would rather text, he doesn't keep in contact with friends and often feels like he has no friends, he's pessimistic/realistic is what they call it nowadays.. he's very traditional, and cons ervative, which makes me angry sometimes... he's not so stingy with money, but helps me to save mine, and although it's a trait in the sag department to spend and spend money, I just happen to not have much because of my background in the first place... he doesn't have any source of income, except his parents, and his dad is a Capricorn as well, so he's stingy with money, yet buying a lot of material things... anyway... back to the story :)

Eventually I had broken up with a 4 year relationship, and gotten with a new guy I've talked to get over that past relationship... During that time, I stopped hanging out with my current BF. I guess he missed me, although he never mentioned it or tried to keep contact with me as I haven't with him... But we still partied and eventually I was done with the guy I was with.. (to make it simple even though it sounds wrong) and I was happy being single, because I just stopped liking the guy that I went with... We were drunk and my friend (current bf) kissed me at least 3 times in different places, once when I was with my bf of the time, and twice when he was drunk, and when we were both drunk. He kissed me, I didn't kiss him. Then he confessed to me, and I was shocked, because I never noticed, or realized anything different from the first time we met. I mean, of course I thought something was fishy when he kissed me those 3 times.

He asked me out, and I refused. I didn't want to ruin our friendship if things didn't work out.. plus it was sudden too. I turned him down 3 times, until I went to him and asked him out. :P

I get how cap men seem very, to themselves, and quiet... but he's a very lazy person.

the sex is amazing... but he doesn't want it as much as me and that's frustrating sometimes... but I'm glad that he's not that kind of guy who just keeps wanting more. And I'm not the type of girl who just gives it up or craves more and more... it's his fault for being amazing haha.

I know sags are day dreamers, like to plan in the future, think optimistically, and do crazy things spontaneously... but I guess my Capricorn bf is scared to think too far ahead. He just wants to live in the NOW/present... as I've been going along with but sometimes it freaks me out, not the whole committing issue, but the idea, that I won't know if he'll just end it or cheat on me.

They say that caps are very emotional deep down, yet don't express it often and look expressionless... so that's annoying, and they don't speak their mind, or say or show how much they care through gestures or actions or gifts... I can see the dullness at times...

They say that Sags want their freedom and not want to be tied down, I beg to differ. My bf gives me a lot of freedom and it's annoying really, while as a Sag I get jealous, and insecure...

Capricorn's are not BORING in anyway, were just people who know the value of life and what needs to be done, we have our priorities in the right place, and we know what's going to get us ahead, in life, now, don't get me wrong, I love to have fun ,i love kicking with my friends, in fact, I get in trouble in school for laughing and joking so much, so were not BORING once again, we just respect folks and treat them the way, we would like to be treated.

I am a Sag woman, and I fit the profile to a T. My boyfriend is a Cap. We are very happy together. The sex is outta this world. We are well matched in that we are both romantic, sensual, and loving. We both also are thinkers. He tells me that he is shy and conservative, but he is lively around me. I love him so much. I have to restrain my excitability and crazy behavior because I am afraid of scaring him off. It is very hard to control my dramatic, crazy streak. When I do go psycho (usually from jealousy), he always forgives me. I am sooo lucky!!! He makes me want to be the best person I can be:))

Omg... I'm a sag girl who was involved with a Capricorn for 4yrs. Yes the sex is over great, but we bumped heads like we were both Taurus. I wanted to fly over the mountain while he wanted to climb it. Well I had a jealousy problem, and honestly caps are very loyal and faithful rarely will they test you or make you jealous. Long story short my cap tested me our relationship ended by him breaking into my house and beating the hell out of me! they can be violent! and yes I provoked him. I also returned the favor by breaking his jaw so he sipped through a straw for quite some time. We currently have restraining orders on one another but six months after our only physical fight we are sleeping together again but with no attachments but its like we are back in a relationship again how ironic... lmaooo I love him! I know I know I'm psycho.. SO! don't judge me!

WOW ITS SUCHA GOOD STORY. I am a Sagittarius and I like a Capricorn guy and he likes me back but he is to shy to say anything. why wont he just ask me out? anyway Sagittarius and Capricorn are very different signs. but that what makes them work out a guy/girl always looks for the opposite of them on a guy/girl. Sagittarius can make sacrifices (I didn't spell that right) their are very open and out going people but if she is taken from her freedom she gets irritated. as Capricorn likes to builds wall around its self because he is to shy. likes to work well and cares a lot about family. Capricorn is also sometimes overwhelmed with Sagittarius for her ability to be open. Sagittarius can crush on a lot of Capricorns but Sagittarius cant be patient forever. there believer they look forward to the future. but main point is that I really enjoyed reading this and it was such a good love experience. (*crying*)

why wont he just ask me out?.....You've gotta be kidding me!

I'm a Sag gal. I never really liked astrology but dayum I love this site! It's officially on my favorites list now! Group hug to everyone who's posted here. I feel you all. Yes, even you boring Caps! Haha =)

I am a Sag female, and I was involved in a very intense love/hate fling on and off for about 2 years with a Cap male.

He did chase me to begin with, but it didn't take long for him to find my constant gotta party, gotta have fun, gotta keep moving thing irritating.

Of course, once he started to slow down his chase, I began to chase him more. Suddenly, he seemed much more attractive to me when he was off doing his own thing not worrying about what I was doing.

Of course, being the cap that he is he opened up about nothing at all, was completely expressionless all the time. This infuriated me. I needed reactions from him.

They say that the sure fire way to lose a Cap is to bring jealousy and games into the picture. Being a Sag, it wasn't hard to flirt with everything I saw and piss him off. Haha. I pissed him off alright.

I was convinced he did not care because he never opened up about anything, never gave me any kind of reaction. It was awful. It wasn't until the very end he started showing anger, never anything else.

It is very true though that they do not show their feelings. His mother died this past summer, and he never even told anyone for a whole week. His best friend messaged me telling me when it happened, but only because my Cap had taken off and his friend had been at the house when the police showed up to tell him his mother was dead... I contacted him telling him how sorry I was, and all of that. Even then, he did not open up. I ended up telling his other friends so that they could be there for him, because I didn't know how to be. I felt like he didn't want me to be, but sometimes I think I just didn't understand his quiet nature at all.

Whenever he was really angry with me, he wouldn't say anything at all. He wouldn't even tell me he was mad at me, he would just stop talking to me. It took a long time to figure these things out about him, he came off as an asshole, but he really was a wonderful person.

I believe that I loved him, as much of a crazy asshole I think he was, but I know we never could work out. He is with another girl now, has been for a while. I am okay with it. I have found myself a Leo boy, who seems to be my perfect match. Unfortunately, nothing is perfect and he's got himself a Cap girlfriend. Hopefully the Leo-Cap match is as hopeless as the Sag-Cap match.

I am a Sag and have been involved with a Cap for 3 months now. I am 33 and he is 42. Are families are friends so we have always known each other. Damn we look good together. Sex is awesome although he does ALL the work. I just don't trust him and find myself always trying to sabotage the relationship before he really plays me (in my head). He just told me the other day he loves me. I did not respond because I thought it was bogus drunk man's words. Now what?

I love Capricorns! they are so hot and confident and make us Sag girls feel good! :) they also know how to make us feel terrible though! but for some reason when they're mean to me I like it sometimes! I want to be with Cap but right now I'm trying to get with a Pisces! he likes me! I hope it works out! I really love him.

I am a Capricorn man who was dating a Sagittarius woman for a year and a half until she broke up with me just recently. At first our relationship was amazing and we really enjoyed each other, she has a very insightful outlook on life, and she said the same thing about me. But after a while it turned into a rollercoaster ride, she broke up with me once only to ask me back like two days later, then she ended up cheating on me, and I forgave her because I love her and she knew that she had made a mistake. Then after a while she broke up with me AGAIN, only to ask me back AGAIN and of course I took her back. The sex was amazing with her, she truly is a beautiful person inside and out, I just think she's not sure what she wants. I treated her like gold and she was very good to me as well, but there were times when I was wondering how much I actually did mean to her due to some of her actions in the relationship. She also had stated many times that almost from the beginning of the relationship she wasn't sure if we were going to work, but wanted to work on it because she loved me and genuinely cared for me, and we did have a lot of great times together. I would do anything for her because I do love her and want to see her happy. So we still talk every now and then, we say that we want to be in each other's lives and remain friends, I just hope that does happen.

I'm a sag girl and I am so digging this cap guy I work with...I have felt sexual tension between us since we met and we have some of the most insightful and interesting convos I have ever had...I (like most sags) love to talk and he is my fav person to talk too he is a great listener. He has givin me multiple sign's but he kinda intellectually intimidates me so I can't bring out the beast in me to pounce on this cap. I want him to approach me but from my readings it seems I will have to approach him...omg but how?

ugh I hate people that judge me or are judgmental. why do they always have to tell me my faults? and they say it in such a hurtful way. whatever I'm kinda done with all Caps. I don't really like any of them because they're so mean. although I know a Cap who's nice and I've known him for a long time but even then I don't really like him and don't want to have sex with him because he's ugly. ugh whatever. I'm chasing a Pisces guy who is the right person for me and he's nice to me. I really love him. he's really good looking. so much better looking than me, I don't know why he likes me haha. I met him in 1st year uni too. although I don't think he likes me anymore. :( we're both in summer school but I never see him around anymore and last couple times he just ignored me. we used to hang out all the time.

I'm a Sagittarius falling for a Capricorn guy. Its really funny how almost all the stories have a similar feel to them! It seems like the Cap/Sag relationship starts almost platonically and then develops into friendship then a relationship. My Cap guy and I met at a sports function a year and a half ago by chance. He asked me to play with him and we chatted for a bit and I felt an instant sense of comfort with him. He cracked jokes and I felt flirtatious with him and had a good time. We stayed in touch through the internet talking at the least once every two weeks when we were not talking every day.

We live three hours apart and we would only see each other twice a year at the sports function. I considered him one of my best friends although I definitely would have dated him if he had lived closer. I always sensed a feeling of platonicism though and I was also in relationships during our friendship. He was the only friend male or female I had that consistently stayed in contact with me throughout the year and a half.

I always had a feeling he liked me as more but then it was hard to tell because he was subtle so I took it in a friend way. I always liked him though. He would say things like he feels like we're the same person (b/c we'd have so much in common) or he'd joke that we need to live next to each other and have our houses connected. Recently we took a road trip together for fun as a way to compensate for the only twice a year of seeing each other. During this road trip we got to really hang out and get to know each other in person and he was exactly the best friend to me in life as he was online. We were laughing the whole time, totally able to be ourselves, and just having a blast! I also realized the platonic feeling changed and I was feeling really attracted to him...

We unconsciously kept sitting close to each other and starting to break the physical barriers between us. I kept thinking its still in a friendly way but then he put his arm around me. We just stayed like that for a bit and then he kissed me. The passion was greater than anything I've ever felt in my life. He was so sweet and gentle and romantic, and just stared into my eyes and would just hold me. We talked about our year online and how we lived too far apart and always wanted to be closer in proximity to each other.

I feel like I'm falling in love with him if I'm not already in love and I feel the same from him...well as much as a Capricorn would show lol He makes my heart race and I can't get him out of my mind, my breath slips from me when I think of his kisses and his touch. But strangely enough even though now we are apart again and he isn't all overly romantic with expressing himself, I still know deep down and have this sense of security that he really cares about me.

We are planning to meet again in two weeks and I can't wait! We are also really compatible, like 10/10 with our moon signs, mine is Taurus and his is Virgo so I've read that it might also have something to do with our compatibility and feeling so comfortable with each other. Good luck to all the other Sag/Cap combinations out there, I think it can really be a great match! :)

I am a Capricorn male and my gal is a Sagittarius and it is an awesome relationship! I think our rising signs of me being Scorpio rising and her Capricorn rising plays a role. We laugh at the hokey "stay away from Sagittarius is you area cap" warnings! We have great times together whether it's staying in or travel! She has a remarkable gift of truly understanding me and I the same for her, also we enjoy many of the same things! we are both very attracted to one another as well as attractive and yet we are pretty geeky! Sexually, it doesn't get any better! We are both FREAKS! So, whether it's a night on the town or playing Call of Duty, I have the PERFECT woman!

My Cap man just posted! I love my Cap man. We have the best communication. We have never been in an argument. That is not to say we don't have differences of opinion just an abiding respect for each other. The sex is the best I've ever had and just gets better every time. We both love the pursuit of knowledge. I'm so glad we didn't listen to the advice that says Caps should avoid Sags. I would've missed out on the greatest love I have ever known! I feel grounded with my Cap man and I love it!

do Capricorns really mean it when they say they "love you so much" cause I've know this Capricorn male since I was 18 and he was younger lol! but he acted much older though (he was 15 now 19). anyways we still talk or at least did and we're much older. he stopped talking to me for like a year cause I pissed him off or something and said he'd never talk to me again although I think he was trying to find a way to by pretending to be someone else lmao! it was hilarious though. lol he's so fucking weird! but I'm so attracted to him although I've never met him. he's from the UK. I don't know I didn't think he'd talk to me again after that and I don't know why he did. but I love him. it's weird I've never loved anyone really I met on the internet but I guess the way he talks, he's interesting but he tells me really mean things so I don't think it'll work out, in plus he's going out with someone else.

I'm going to uni and kinda met a Pisces and he was sooo good looking, best looking person who ever liked me at least I was pretty sure he did. until he started ignoring me and not sitting next to me in class! ugh we used to hang out all the time. and he even kissed me and hugged me when he walked me to my bus stop the week before he started ignoring me I don't even know why he would do that. he's such a prick I didn't think he was. I had faith in him cause I know Pisces and Sag are not supposed to be a good match. I don't know if I'll ever be in a relationship with him because Pisces want a soul mate and I don't think I could ever be his soul mate. we never have anything to talk about though. well we do but not that much compared to other guys I hang out more with! and I love guys who have tons to talk about and can't stop talking. and he also said he was bored.

but back to the Cap. we met cause we liked the same band and I think that's pretty much the only reason we talk haha. I don't know he says he wants to have sex with me although we haven't talked about it in a while, prob cause he has a girlfriend. but tbh I think he's lying all the time whenever he tells me something and I can't stand when guys lie but I think it's pretty lame to believe anyone on the internet that I don't know in person. although I love him for some reason I don't know why probably because he's open with his feelings towards me. he seems interesting to me and he's already talked about being in a relationship with me when he gets older although I'd prefer right now but he's in uni too so it prob won't happen. I don't know it's kinda unrealistic though. in plus I want an artsy guy from my school. I go to an art & design school. but tbh sometimes I think he's the only one for me although he probably doesn't feel the same way and I should probably just give up on him beca use nothing between us will ever happen. although after reading that sex between a Sag and Cap is amazing I'm kinda looking forward to it if it ever happens! I have Venus in Cap like him and he has Mars in Taurus and I have Mars in Scorpio. god I hope he doesn't read this cause all he does is judge me which is another reason I don't really want to be in a relationship with him because I don't like to be judged but when he judges me or says something sometimes that makes me like him even more haha. I don't even know why I love him though. probably because of the way he makes me feel. I'm usually attracted to someone but once they show interest in me I'm not interested anymore but in him I am. I don't know. I've had that problem forever. and I am friends with a ton of Caps or have been. they are loyal but lots of them are not. like my ex best friend just stopped hanging out with me when I got depressed when I was like 13. I don't know I'm kinda glad I'm going somewhere cause I always dreamed of being successful when I was much younger. I hope I will be but lately I haven't been working that hard. probably because with art you can't really work that hard and I'm kinda bored with my coursework. I don't know what I'll do if it isn't art though. I've wanted to do it forever so I can't give up.

but back to the Cap. he's pretty much the only person I've known from the internet that I've loved and sometimes I loved him more than guys from real life. but he's not nice and I don't think he really cares about me although he does tell me really nice things sometimes which makes me really love him too. and he tells me he "loves me" sometimes and talks about us being together in the future. I would love to though although I think I'm too emotional for him. I'd really love to have sex with him if he didn't live so far away. but even if he does want to sleep with me I don't think he's sincere and I don't like that but I still love him. ok I'm done though.

but seriously it says Caps forget about you if they think you're holding them back and barely ever look back or something and he said he never wanted to talk to me again and said some really mean things that were true though. lol tbh I don't even know how he could know those things about me. but he was right and I tried to fix them because I want to always keep being a better person. I don't know this is probably really lame and I hope he doesn't read this haha. but whatever. I miss him though. haven't talked to him for about a year or more cause I've been busy with school. and I think he's probably embarrassed to talk to me if it isn't just me and him reading it anyways, cause his friends will think it's weird. and tbh I don't even really like his friends haha.

ok. I can't think of any other Cap I really liked other than this other guy who used to be my brother's friend when I was in elementary school, and he came to my house to work on a project with my brother. I was really attracted to him and hadn't seen him in years then much later in high school I saw him and talked to him. he remembered me I think. and I'm friends with him on facebook now lol I think he likes me though but I can't go out with him because he's friends with a lot of people I used to hate in high school and I don't want any drama. he offered to protect me in high school when other people were giving me a hard time, he's super nice and I love him too. he's gorgeous too. but I don't think it'll work out yet.

I don't know what it is about Venus in Cap but do Cap guys find you more attractive if you have Venus in Cap cause somehow I find Caps more attractive when they have Venus in Cap and other signs too I think. but if both people have Venus in Cap will it be a good match? I don't know I think I'm being kinda unrealistic lol this is gonna be the longest comment ever.

Lol wow @ these testimonies :) I'm marrying a Cap man as a Sag woman. We only dated for a few months and just said Hell with it, we're perfect for each other -- let's get married. Mutually love, respect and care for each other. He's so easy going, but I on the other hand have to control my crazy excited and dramatic ways of showing affection because the poor guy ends up smothered in front of strangers lolol oh well. . . He's so neat, calculated, fashionable (which turns me on), rational and is so hospitable. Sex is amazing... I don't ever wanna stop with him. I'd rather give than take. Ill be back to continue with the entire story of "Fire on Earth" but for now, in short, I love violently with this beautiful man that's soon to be my husband 10.10.10.

I'm a Sag girl and have dated 2 Caps. Both were the most passionate experiences I've ever had. One will soon be my man (so far we're only dating...but exclusively). The other Cap is still one of my best friends and is still in love with me even though we broke up 14 years ago. I love him but he's married and I'm not going there. I keep my emotional distance with him.

brief history first...my mom is blind and not attractive to most and it always killed me that she's had such a lonely life because of this. so when I met my cap man I refused to acknowledge the fact the I wasn't attracted to him physically. he was a great stable guy so who cares right. we've been together almost a yr and a half (MY longest relationship by far) and the fore-mentioned unattractiveness and his clinginess (lol real word??) are starting to get to me. but I love him, he's an amazing guy and I don't know if I'd ever find better somewhere else.... AM SO LOST....DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!! I should want stable and secure, but I crave excitement and adventure.

I am a Sagittarius girl and ive been with a cap for about a year and a half now

I will say is saggi girls were indecisive but to an extent that caps we don't want things planned for us

earth and fire is A HELLLLL YESSSS

we complement each other sooo well he's my best friend as well as my partner and he makes me feel how I know I should like a woman

jealousy is in all of us but I find him above all so interesting like part of him is reserved and us sags love a challenge!!!

I can honestly say sex is the best ive had

so girls if you want a man I mean a real man FIND A CAP their usually found in mountains when caught their for keeps and don't play mind games a lot

I'm a Sag woman (24), who has been with a Cap man (25) for 6 months today. I am crazy about him and I'm pretty sure he feels the same about me. I've always been into astrology and after predictable relationships with a Piscean and a scorpion, I found myself worrying about whether or not I should allow this relationship to start. Alas, I couldn't deny my feeling for him, so I just had to strap in and enjoy the journey.

My man and I surprisingly are extremely similar. We often have the same thought at the same time, and I often know what he wants to say before he says it.

We have been living together for the whole 6 months we have been dating (in separate rooms) and have known each other for a few years beforehand. WE fight very little and most of the time it's because I have said something that he finds kind of cruel and I offend him. Not purposefully of course, but I really am a tactless human.

I really hope it does work, because I think myself and this man are perfect for each other. I find myself having to make an effort to not be bored, so I need to concentrate on spicing things up and being tactful.

But he deals with my crazy. SO I can compromise too. :D

Im a cap man and I have been attempting to get closer to a sag woman . if I was to use my experience id say this about sag women , yes they are honest , yes they hard to pin down , what seems to be a busy schedule is really not but who am I to say what is really important to her ???

for me im still attracted to her and when I tell her that im going to leave her alone even though I don't want to she says she wants to get together . pretty much typical from what I see on here .

someone else asked the question : could it be that you took your sag woman for granted and then she got bored and left ??? you can use that in any relationship . if you cant keep it exciting then many people get bored with the routine .

as a cap man I do work hard and while I do have a shy side I have over the years learned to put that to one side.

if I find someone who attracts me I tend to do what ever I need to in order to get to know that person . sometimes I realize that I made a mistake and move on . other times

I get to know this person very well and even though there is something missing I keep my friends for years .

ill finish up by saying the Sag woman is a different breed

im not sure though exactly what the difference is . what I see is a different set of priorities and yet a complete honesty at the same time . this to me is very rare and yet also a very good thing at the same time . I would much rather see a person speak there mind .

and as far as caps go , I may have a shy side but I am not in the least bit afraid of opening myself up , I see the opposite in this sag woman ,

I'm a Sag girl who dated a Cap 2 years younger than me, my first love actually. I've read a lot about cap&sag relationships. I agree that we like the chase of a Capricorn because they are so reserved and unpredictable to us. In all the excitement of the chase it keeps us occupied but sometimes we don't want that. Ill always have mixed feelings for my ex, in a love-hate way. But we are a fire sign Capricorns are an earth sign, they just don't last we sag girls get bored easily.

mom is Sagittarius, late dad is Capricorn, dad is soft, mom is a outspoken.. mom has temper and mom's family love my dad.

I suppose I should begin by describing myself, I'm a 19 year old Sagittarius, and a college student. My Capricorn is two years older than I am, and we met in my freshmen year of college. Our relationship started, like all the others, as a friendship. A friend from China actually introduced us, telling me before she took me over to his dorm, that we'd be perfect together. Me, knowing she was an international student thought that this boy was going to be Asian too. When we walked in there was one white boy and one Chinese boy. The Chinese boy was gorgeous, while the white boy was, eh, ok. So my friend introduced us, pointing out that the white guy was the boy she had wanted me to meet while the Chinese guy was just his roommate. After meeting them and talking for a bit, I definitely had a crush on the Chinese boy, but I was more flirty with the white boy because I was embarrassed to flirt with the boy I actually liked. At about that same time, some creepy guy started t o follow me around, so I would take advantage of the fact that Capricorn lived in the same hallway and I would hide in his room. We chatted a lot, he fixed my computer many times, we'd go eat together. Our situation got to the point where when everyone would leave to the football games, him and I would get together to watch the games on his TV. It was on the game right before the 2008 elections that he asked me to be his girlfriend. I, of course, said yes (he is my first boyfriend) and have been very happy since.

I'll admit, we've had our rough moments. Jealousy is a big issue with me, especially because he had a girlfriend all through high school, the same girl, who cheated on him and yet he still took her back. So there was that, coupled with the fact that some of my very good friends are boys, which bothered him a lot. But now, into our second year, all that seems to have faded some. I'll have to admit that sometimes I want to strangle the dork because he doesn't want to go out and do stuff, or sometimes he's just so stingy about his money that he won't want to drive over because of gas money, which makes me feel like he just doesn't want to see me. But, in the end, I sometimes make him feel guilty and he ends up coming over.

In comparison to other Sag girls, I'm extremely family oriented and very close to my family (I cry at school if I don't see them in a month), I love stability, I like partying, but in heavy moderation. I don't enjoy being too busy, and I do like staying in...just not as much as my Capricorn. In all, I think we make a very normal couple, although I am very demanding with him, but he's perfect in that he takes it even though I know I sometimes say things that may hurt his feelings. My family is in love with him (something that I love) my nieces, brothers, sisters, and parents, even uncles and aunts look to him for help on anything from computers to organizing family events (my Capricorn knew about a family picnic before I did!). Something that bothers me is his inability to do anything fun unless other people are involved. He's a bit of a follower, but he does create his own path when he's alone. I think that we began our relationship too soon and went too fast, but we're at a standstill now, happy, stable, and content. We're living together next year, which I'm looking forward to as it will help me concentrate on my studies more since I won't have to make time to go see him, he'll already be there! I'm hoping my relationship with my Capricorn won't end as many of the stories above since I really don't want to go through the entire beginning of a relationship anymore since I'm just happy being comfortable :) I hope we get some more positive post for all Sags and Caps!

im a 24yr sag girl and met this 28 cap guy at my last job. I always thought he was fine. and found it attractive how he was quiet. I never had the guts to talk to him as I am kind of shy myself. I c that caps r shy 2. I never thought that I would end up talking to him but after 3 yrs of a crush at work he approached me long after I stopped working there at a gas station. after I stopped working there ive always seen him and the neighborhood but still we would never talk just look at each other in a way of interest. I kinda blame myself because it was more of my pride wanting him to talk to me first ya no. but anyway he has my number we talked a little on the phone and I hope that we can hit it off it would be so perfect. The first thing he said was I wanted to talk to you b4 but just not at work cause he doesn't like people in his business. he asked me to come by his houses yesterday I did and sat in my car a little while he kept trying to tell me I looked good. we small tal ked and it seemed that just agreed with everything I was saying, as I sparked all of the convo. although he is good looking to me it is more so his mannerisms that attract me the most. I always like those mysterious unpredictable guys. but like I said I hope it will turn into something great between us because Capricorns are real discipline and I need that type of structure and stability in my wild life!

I am a 42 yr old sag woman my boyfriend of 2 yrs is a 27 yr old cap man. I have been reading a lot about this match, and its like I am reading about my relationship. My cap is very mature in many ways, which is scary considering our age difference. We have soo much fun, or we used to till my jealousy and insecurity set in. We live together, I was married, and recently told my husband I wanted to separate, and possible divorce. my cap says he wants to marry me, but I think the whole divorce thing really bothers him. I love him soo much it hurts. But he has recently started pulling the infamous "disappearing acts" where after an argument he left for 2 weeks. He came back and claims all is well, and he is still in love with me, and wants to spend his life with me, but.....hello.....where did he go??? Who was he with???? just keeps poppin up in my head????? Should I be worried there is someone else in the picture???? I mean he is a younger very attractive man??? ? I have found phone numbers, and messages, which he claims are meaningless..... Help what should I do?????

im a sag women. been with my cap boyfriend for about 2yrs now. our relationship is AWESOME, we are soo attracted. our sex is GREAT!! but we do have our ups and down, and our differences toward other aspects of life'' my boyfriend (cap) loves his space and soo do us sag'' he's a clean freak!! lol, love fashion as me. he's not a fone person, soo we'll be talking just 5-10mins per day'' of each hr'' smh'' but what I LIKE about a cap boy is that they are really good at solving money lmao, which I (sag) loves 2 spend and explore life, meet new ppl, go hangout, party, which himself (cap) is more family orriented, loves 2 stay home. boring at times. not really out going. but we do go places at times. or just spend quality time in bed:]] we are trustworthy towards each other,& o yea we both have a good sense of humor! hehe=D we are easy 2 make new friends. and btw caps and sag DO get along very well! if you just don't cheat and trust each other you'll be fine!! until then til death do us part x Caps+sag= true long lasting .L.O.V.E!! :]]

I am a Cap man I have had a Sag girlfriend for about a year now. I fell head over heals for this woman. I loved everything about her. she was beautiful and sexy and the sex was great. we could set and talk for hours and just enjoy each others company. and all was well until I put a ring on her and all of her doubts and fears and not trusting can out. this just pushed me away because I knew that I was committed to her and only her. I would express this but if we ever went out to party and I looked wrong at another person it would be on. she finally moved in with me and I was very happy with that and we were happy until my son got mad and move out. and she went right behind him back to her house. I do love her and I was happy with spending my life with her. it has now been about 2 months we have not talked and I am a cap if you don't want me there I want be. I think this match could work but it takes a lot of understand and talking. caps are not much on showing feeling but they are there and you may never here us say it but it will eat at us for long periods of time. we will get over it but I know for a fact it will never leave or minds and we will always be careful and watch for the signs for it to happen the next time.