Capricorn man Sagittarius woman

We met on our first day of college, with a class of mostly boys she was one of 2 girls. I (Capricorn) had a small crush on her which after a few weeks wore off as I got to know her. We would some times sit together and help when the other was having difficulties understanding the work. At this time we were nothing more than classroom friends and rarely talked on the phone or msn messenger (which was a craze at the time).

Second year she took a different subject, Being laid back she couldn’t be bothered to finish the first year course work. Around 6 months later we started talking regularly online and some times sms texts. Although I just saw her as a friend I would text her love poems and jokes because she used to say I don’t call or text her (me not being the chatty type).

Then one day I gave her and her friend a lift as I was going there anyway.. That night while chatting online she told me she liked me!! After a few days when she asked me out again I agreed to see how it goes. Later she told me she had liked me for many months.

First date, I was a bit reserved and she asked me to hug her and in response I held her hand (me being shy). Second date we cuddled and I ended up kissing her.

We were together for nearly 5 years!! The making out was amazing!! We would always be holding hands (mostly in private places) after around 3 years we took the next step and the sex was even better, We would be at it 4-5 times in the space of a few hours. She liked to lay back and let me do the work but I didn’t really mind as long as she was happy. This part of our relationship was just out of this world and I don’t believe it could have been any better.

Communication wise I always felt that she exaggerated and lied sometimes. But she was always open and told me everything where as I held back. At one time we were so close she knew what I was thinking and sometimes she knew what I was about to do before I even did it.

Towards the end we wanted to tie the knot but she got frustrated with my inability to open up to her fully and comfort her even though I wasn’t sure of the future myself. She started to change and become more of a Sagittarius. She could never control her money, and it was always me who would be telling her to stop spending on trivial things.

Shes always been family minded and wanted a nice house with children etc.. as did I but being how I am I didn’t want to talk about it too much in fear of it never happening and being disappointed.

Now we are no longer together, she goes out very often and lives life like its her last day, quite the opposite of how she was before.

A very special girl and one I will never get over!!

Awww. That's a very sweet and honest summary of your experience. I bet there's more than one Sagittarius lady who looks at her Capricorn in a new light after reading that. Thanks for sharing! =)

thanks for sharing that experience. it was very interesting to see it from a Cap's perspective. it was really sad in the end how you said you'll never get over her. I never thought Caps could think that way especially of Sags. I wonder if Sags and Caps can be together forever? because all Ive seen from past experiences is 5-20 yrs. it would be awesome if they could. I have Venus in Capricorn and am a Sagittarius. :D I'm not limited to any sign however. I like them all. :D

OMG LOL.

too serious about relationships for me anyways, as a sag i like a little fun and the chase! while my capricorn ex "fling" liked to chase me and woo me.

I'm not the type for rainbows and flowers when done in such a serious and googly eyed mannor, it makes me wanna laugh. I need a man to woo me with his humour and fun outlook on things, not, "hello my dear, may i open you door?" yes. of course i want a good guy, but be more like: "hello miss lady, may i take your coat or shall I wear it on my head and dance around the room for you?"

So anyways... long story short, ended with me feeling like a bad person for crushing his heart and eating his soul while he STILL kept chasing, im sure if he was like "no, fine, you cant have this anyways, you lost your chance"

I would have been up on it in a split second.

This is so intense ! I'm sorry your missing your love :( but hopefully another Sag. woman will come and pick up for heart and put it back together :)I am a Sags woman (19) and I absolutely love the thrill of life ! I can't even imagine being tied down a day at a time ! Well, I am now dating a Cap. man. He came after me :) just like I like them too . And sure enough the sparks are there :) and guess who I'm partying with ? My Man ! Guess who stays in with me when I'm having those "out of wack" kind of nights instead of going out with his boys? My Man ! . He understands that I need everything to be my way in order for us to work. Yet he still tells me no, so it makes me miss him even more ! He's definately not the most handome man i've seen, but definately the most beautiful mind I have connected with in a VERY long time. I have been single for 4 years from a heartbreak with my ex .Pisces. && trust me when I tell you that I was a heartbreaker after that ! I showed no one any mercy ! I got what I wanted from them. which was all about emotions, some sex ;) and I would disappear. Not anymore though. [ :) he just told me he's on his way! ] so it is definately possible for a relationship to work ! He is amazing. ! doesn't let me talk to him any kind of way like all the other signs have aloud me to . He holds his ground and definately keeps me in check while giving me what I want. So before all the non-believers think theres no hope, remember "Sag. is the most optimistic" don't loose ur roots ladies ! keep the faith !

dude i met dis sag girl 5 years ago in painting class. she was charming like hell as most sag galz are. i kinda had crush on her but was so focused on my work that i couldnt ever understand dat she used 2 look at me and wanted 2 be good friends wid me for 2 years i was in her class nut neva asked her out or something just talked 2 her like a normal classmate

after a year we met online (orkut). our friendship grew n grew. she den told me after 3 mnths dat she liked me. i alredy had a big crush on her. so i culdnt cease ma mouth and say i love u. she said dude i hav a bf. i was like o gr8. den my inner demon u can call it da capricorn demon just got active. i like a devil ruined her relationship by making her fall in luv wid me and broke her 3 year relationship. dude dese sag girls are public dey r like doormats. no matter how charming dey r dey r sluts. most of them i dont blame all of u lolz. so fk her go hav some fun. anyways no 1 can beat us in professional life we r gods. so dont screw urself personally man

She says she feels like I havn't opened up to her. She says I'm in my own world and I'm not letting her in and I disagree and it's frustrating as hell.

Man I'm in the same position right know !! I'm in the first year college now.I'm capricorn,she's a sagittarius.I see her as a friend,a good friend.Today she said she likes me on the msn.I decided to give it a shot.We'll see how it goes.It's funny how things are the same as your experience :) People,feel free to give me advice

There a similarity in all the cap n sag story,guy likes the girl,only to find out she too likes him,they hook up ,girl dumps the guy.i'm a cap guy,just got ditched by girlfriend of 5 years.i guess in 2 years of live-in relationship,like most of sags she started complaining for not getting enough space,that she needed more time to spend with friends as well,so listened to her,for all i wanted was to c her happy.again her complain started that we are a boring couple we don't go out and all.here i would like to state that if sag girls wants us to love them for what they r,that should imply on them also in't.sag girls are selfish,n mean ,not all, but most of them.man i love her so much,i love her to death.but is time to move on "u don't die of broken heart u only wish u did"

Sagittarius woman are crazy as hell I just got out of a relationship with one: words of advise to all cappricorns interested in sagittarius..........run don't walk........save your self the headache

im curious how many of you cap guys out there also found if they honestly look back , that maybe they took there sag girl for granted ? then she got bored and wanted some excitement and after a while lost interest because you cap guys didnt give her the attention she needed and then she left??

I'm a cap

im a sag girl, never been with a capricorn but ill understand if he doesn't open up its just the way he is :)

i'm a sag woman and my current bf of almost 2 years is a capricorn...

i never noticed him in our class in 1st year of college... he noticed me though, said i was the cutest girl there haha. :) Eventually we ran into each other on our school's shuttle back to the off campus apartments... we lived at the same apartment complex, and right across from each other. Eventually we were just really good friends who partied together, and had the same class. I had my own group of friends and he had his, so we didn't hang out much unless we were at home. I went over his place often, but I never noticed him for more than a friend... there were other guys out there that I've noticed. I always thought and still think he's amazing since I first met him... He's out going, fun, crazy, very sociable.. but other things like he keeps to himself, doesn't like to talk on the phone would rather text, he doesn't keep in contact with friends and often feels like he has no friends, he's pessimistic/realistic is what they call it nowadays.. he's very traditional, and cons ervative, which makes me angry sometimes... he's not so stingy with money, but helps me to save mine, and although it's a trait in the sag department to spend and spend money, I just happen to not have much because of my background in the first place... he doesn't have any source of income, except his parents, and his dad is a capricorn as well, so he's stingy with money, yet buying a lot of material things... anyway... back to the story :)

Eventually I had broken up with a 4 year relationship, and gotten with a new guy I've talked to to get over that past relationship... During that time, I stopped hanging out with my current BF. I guess he missed me, although he never mentioned it or tried to keep contact with me as I haven't with him... But we still partied and eventually I was done with the guy I was with.. (to make it simple even though it sounds wrong) and I was happy being single, because I just stopped liking the guy that I went with... We were drunk and my friend(current bf) kissed me at least 3 times in different places, once when I was with my bf of the time, and twice when he was drunk, and when we were both drunk. He kissed me, I didn't kiss him. Then he confessed to me, and I was shocked, because I never noticed, or realized anything different from the first time we met. I mean, of course I thought something was fishy when he kissed me those 3 times.

He asked me out, and I refused. I didn't want to ruin our friendship if things didn't work out.. plus it was sudden too. I turned him down 3 times, until I went to him and asked him out. :P

I get how cap men seem very, to themselves, and quiet... but he's a very lazy person.

the sex is amazing... but he doesn't want it as much as me and that's frustrating sometimes... but i'm glad that he's not that kind of guy who just keeps wanting more. And i'm not the type of girl who just gives it up or craves more and more... it's his fault for being amazing haha.

I know sags are day dreamers, like to plan in the future, think optimistically, and do crazy things spontaneously... but I guess my capricorn bf is scared to think too far ahead. He just wants to live in the NOW/present... as I've been going along with but sometimes it freaks me out, not the whole committing issue, but the idea, that I won't know if he'll just end it or cheat on me.

They say that caps are very emotional deep down, yet don't express it often and look expressionless... so that's annoying, and they don't speak their mind, or say or show how much they care through gestures or actions or gifts... I can see the dullness at times...

They say that Sags want their freedom and not want to be tied down, I beg to differ. My bf gives me a lot of freedom and it's annoying really, while as a Sag I get jealous, and insecure...

Capricorn's are not BORING in anyway, were just people who know the value of life and what needs to be done, we have our priorities in the right place, and we know whats going to get us ahead, in life, now, don't get me wrong, i love to have fun,i love kicking with my friends, in fact, i get in trouble in school for laughing and joking so much, so were not BORING once again, we just respect folks and treat them the way, we would like to be treated.

I am a Sag woman, and I fit the profile to a T. My boyfriend is a Cap. We are very happy together. The sex is outta this world. We are well matched in that we are both romantic, sensual, and loving. We both also are thinkers. He tells me that he is shy and conservative, but he is lively around me. I love him so much. I have to restrain my excitability and crazy behavior because I am afraid of scaring him off. It is very hard to control my dramatic, crazy streak. When I do go psycho (usually from jealousy), he always forgives me. I am sooo lucky!!! He makes me want to be the best person I can be:))

Omg... I'm a sag girl who was involved with a capricorn for 4yrs. Yes the sex is over great, but we bumped heads like we were both taurus. I wanted to fly over the mountain while he wanted to climb it. Well I had a jealousy problem, and honestly caps are very loyal and faithful rarely will they test you or make you jealous. Long story short my cap tested me our relationship ended by him breaking into my house and beating the hell out of me! they can be violent! and yes I provoked him. I also returned the favor by breaking his jaw so he sipped through a straw for quite some time. We currently have restraining oredrs on one another but six months after our only physical fight we are sleeping together again but with no attachments but its like we are back in a relationship again how ironic... lmaooo I love him! I know I know I'm psycho.. SO! don't judge me!

WOW ITS SUCHA GOOD STORY. i am a sagittarius and i like a capricorn guy and he likes me back but he is to shy to say anything. why wont he just ask me out? anyway sagitarrius and capricorn are very diffrent signs. but that what makes them work out a guy/girl always looks for the opposite of them on a guy/girl. sagittarius can make sacrifices (i didnt spell that right) their are very open and out going people but if she is taken from her freedem she gets irritated. as capricorn likes to builds wall around its self because he is to shy. likes to work well and cares alot about family. capricorn is also sometimes overwhelemed with sagittariuos for her ability to be open. sagittariuos can crush on alot of capricorns but sagittariuos cant be pationt forever. there believer they look foward to the future.but mainpoint is that i really enjoyed reading this and it was such a good love espirience. (*crying*)

why wont he just ask me out?.....You've gotta be kidding me!