Capricorn man Virgo woman

Im Virgo and there is this CAP man I've met.... Im not a hoe ive only been with 4 people and im 21 but yea I slept with him and don't really know him all that well. He was kind of a (help me forget about my 6 year relationship I just got out of) guy , that ended up spinning my head!!! So we slept together and things were great we were getting to know each other and I adored him then he quit talking to me and a month later we started talking again and then he quit AGAIN and NOW AGAIN we are talking well before the other day we had only slept together that once in the past 5 months and now he's fading on me again. He called me one night but I was with my x and wouldn't answer about a hour later I got a text from him that said sorry I bothered you I found out why your not answering me. after he found out I had been kind of talking to my x again (because he called my roommate) and he seams like he likes me and he didn't want me back with my x. But now he's slipping on me again not texting and I refuse to text him first every day I feel like a stalker or something!! IS THIS NORMAL OR IS HE USING ME JUST BEING A MAN!! Thing is im kinda on the edge of going back to my x but now I would rather talk to this Cap but not if he's only going to speak to me every other month!

I have a similar story to one above. I'm a Virgo woman who has been dating a cap man. When we first met I was crazy about him. I was especially physically attracted to him. Then I got to know him and found out that we were exactly alike and that he was an amazing person. I ended up falling in love with him and he told me he loved me and things were great. We were dating and everything was just amazing. Then I noticed something. Every time things would get good with us, he would stop talking to me. We haven't necessarily broken up but we might as well have. I'm always texting him first and he is always rue one to not text me back. He'll stop talking to me for a couple of weeks, sometimes even a month and it's hard to handle and its getting old. I do love him but I don't understand what's going on with him. I know I didn't do anything so what is the deal? Help please! I'm starting to get tired of waiting but I won't let him go because I don't want anyone else. is this normal? What does it mean and why? HELP!

I'm a Virgo and I really like a Capricorn boy. For some reason I just can't let him go. I just graduated from Elementary/middle school (from the eigth grade). That was where I met him in 4th grade. Every day he would tell me that he likes me and I should go out with him and every time I'd turn him down. I really regret it now. Like they say, you don't know what you've got 'till it's gone.

I agree with the 1st 2 ladies that's exactly what I've been going thru for 13yrs and about 4 or 5 months with the other 1 a on again off again relationship so 2 speak cause that's what it feel like except no commitment but I figured them (i have 2 Capricorn men) out you have to be patient with a Capricorn man but the ?????? is how long????

I'm facing the same story as well... at the beginning of the relation my Capricorn mate use to be so romantic. he call me up. whenever he use to get free time.... on the holiday we use to almost whole day...but things are changing slowly.. now he does not call me up.. for a week.. sometime behave rude.. some time very much aloof...then again someday he is back with all his emotions... I just wonder does all the Capricorn guy have the same characteristic !!!!

I'm a Virgo and I met this good looking cap! We only been talking for a couple of weeks but I am sooo liking this guy. When he talks its like I wanna know more about him...he so deep n sweet but he's a rough street guy. When I first met him he was quiet n didn't say 2 much unless we asked him something...I didn't say much either but out of all the girls he was attracted 2 me. Im already head over heels for him. LETS C IF THIS WRKS OUT!! :)

Personally I started seeing a CAP when I was having a crisis in my life. I found him on myspace and decided ya know this guy looks like a player so he won't mind that I want nothing from him. I went into the relationship with a "I don't want anything from you mentality just sex".. I refused to text him first because at this point in my life I had enough of men not caring about the woman they are with. I had this issue with the CAP I just told him look I don't need you in my life and I don't want you in my life. I do not deserve you talking to all these girls as if you are dating them also. We are still together and talking about marriage BUT once you do a Virgo wrong she never forgets and it's hard to get over it

Capricorn men will stop talking to a woman for awhile, but when they start talking to you say two months later, nothing has changed, they still feel the same way. So be patient, and trust that if we wants to talk to you he will. And just because he isn't talking to you, could just mean he has a lot going on. And besides they like to be desired, so they like that you message them all the time, and NOT get crazy when they don't reply. Unfortunately it's the Virgo insecurity behind this desire to always hear from him.

Me too ladies I can't keep this cap..... off my mind we been on and off for bout yr and a half. I hate to think he giving somebody else my lovin I just wanna be with him but he keeps so denial but a relationship I always. Call him first I want his time when he free I get it sometimes that's not enough for a lovin Virgo like me

I am a Capricorn man and I seem to like a Virgo woman but we went out and she broke up with me and she still flirts with me

Ive been with my cap for 3 months now, I have seen a bit of his working hard side of person, and when together alone as one he does great things! he is very occupied which in a sense as a Virgo I understand. we're both mature, hard workers, responsible and down to earth people. there are a few things I thought I grew to hate, but they were just things I could easily get use to. which was fine. we both understand each other and it is going well at the moment. the responds above about the Capricorn's on and off mode (not talking for a while-spending enough time to lovey-dovey and he's there in your face once again) I think its what they do.. I find my cap is a hard worker and very occupied with his work but I know deep inside he's thinking of me and our relationship. so I think that's what drives Virgo women to not understand this on and off side of a cap. although I might agree that Capricorn and Virgo are quite compatible. in the long run we eventually trust each other and loyal to one another. we grow to understanding the things we may hate/dislike of each other but it grows on us. because of the understanding part of one another, this possibly why these two signs are seen together in the long run.. its stable and it works.

I love these im dating a cap right now and yes everything that has been said about the matching has been true. its almost scary. he was my best friend and now he's my boyfriend I love it. I have never been able to talk to one guy that much and be able to be so flexible with him. I can be like u wanna hang and the next minute were of to some where. I love it its an amazing match :D

girl- Capricorn crush

okay so I started with being a classmate to a Capricorn classmate and now where like best friends he is actually one of my top friends in school so far. and a few days ago we had prom night and he was saying stuff who should I be coupled up with to dance on some songs but, before that he said that "my dress looked nice" and even before that he looked at me twice when we were waiting to get inside. what do I do about my crush on a Capricorn boy at school?

Hi this is a Capricorn man.. I like this Virgo woman.. who is cute and has good personality. I want to marry her.. but she says she is not ready yet or not prepared for marriage yet.. I am confused.. but I really love this woman and she is the one I want to get married too.. I don't know how she will agree to marriage. Hope she makes up her mind.. I cant wait to see her.

Cap man are so quite they always said they busy doing this and that and the answer will be a baby with someone else they just teasing you, if they said they love you serious

for all you Virgo ladies out there.. patience is the key with these men.. they are worth the wait, but they put u thru a lot to make sure tour genuine.. mostly because Virgo women tend to be too good to be true to them. well, if u don't have feeling you still have time to back out.. but if u do, don't fret because they will come around as long as you play your cards right!

great match though me and my first Capricorn aren't together anymore we are life long friends

kinda scary how accurate this is. I'm pretty much in love with a Capricorn man I've only known for about 4 months and we only really hang out on weekends and we only started hanging out two weeks ago because I broke up with my boyfriend just recently for him. He is exactly like how everyone describes him basically. When we're alone and together he acts like he likes me and is so sweet and knows what to say to make me feel so happy and he never stops at making me laugh. I love the way he kisses and he seems perfect for me. But at school he rarely talks to me and he told me he kinda liked another girl who is a cancer... He also told me he thought I was too good for him and that I was mint.. He also told me he was scared to get fucked over by me because I broke up with my ex for him and he's scared I'll do the same for him. I try to be patient and leave him a lone. But then when people asked him if he liked me he said no lol. And it only seems like he'll act like he likes me if I initiate it.... and aren't Capricorns suppose to be initiative... he confused me hard.. so how does a Virgo woman go about playing her cards right? lol

I met my CAP at a bar. He is 28 and I am 44. At first I didn't even want to go out with him because of the age difference but after spending an evening with him, it was instant love. We were inseparable from the very beginning and moved in together after only 2 weeks. In the beginning he was very attentive and the sex was amazing. We've been together for almost 3 years now. He runs hot and cold -- just as the other ladies have described. Sometimes he is very talkative, playful and sexually unsatisfiable but then we might go a month with just quiet nights, sparse conversation and no sex at all. I have found however that things always go better if I initiate or I make the plans. At times he is too laid back for me. I do get bored easily and even though I know he deeply loves me and thinks of me always, he doesn't show it. There is never any spontaneity on his part and there is never any gifts or surprises. When I was dating I received flowers at work on a regular basis from this guy or that and I grew very used to be showered with gifts and affection. I have had to learn to look past some of my learned expectations to see that this CAP man has been worth the time I've invested in our relationship. We are extremely close and although he runs hot and cold I always know that he will never leave me for another woman.

Im 40 year old Virgo female and my cap partner is 41. After years of being with the wrong guy having doubts all the time I finally feel complete and secure with a guy I know I will be with forever.. we share everything good and bad and this for me is perfect in every way..

The key to dating a cap man is be an individual but let him know that he is the most important thing in your life. I am a Virgo woman with a cap man. Keep your head about you with this one. He is very independent and hardworking and appreciates being appreciated for it. I met mine thru a popular dating sight. From the first date, he stopped looking. Although I initiate most of the plans and calls (he is extremely busy) I don't mind. I love to plan prepare and mobilize. He loves the ride. I do not need the validation of a man always calling. I go after what I want. he will call if I don't though thinking that I am not interested (I am also extremely busy). Security is a must for these men and they will kill themselves working for it. Just kick back and enjoy and don't get too needy. They are worth the effort girls.

I'm a Capricorn man and I'm 18,i know I'm young and naive but the thing is love is never too old or young for anyone. What we dent do forget is that falling in love means your taking your chances with him or her but love blinds us all and we as human get selfish, what we need to do is that let love blind us but let your heart be the eyes and trust your heart. After all love can make anyone expose to one's stupidity even me. Relationship is built on trust, so trust him or her.

OMG that's exactly why I turned up at this site! Virgo fem friends with a Cap male... he's hot & cold ALL the time! I keep wondering if something I have said offends him as we text and then he disappears midway through a conversation yet texts back days later as if there is nothing wrong lol He's asked me out on a dinner date but I'm having second thoughts... and its because of this exact reason! lol Oh well... whatever will be will be... :)

I am a Virgo Woman who is married to a Cap Man. We have been together for 8 years now, 3 of which we have been married. He is by far the most loyal man I have ever met, and all his friends say he is still, to this day head of heals in love with me. He is very very respectful of our relationship and values his family above all else. We have two beautiful little girls together. I have never experienced the on again off again situation that other ladies have had with a cap man, all I have had is a very loyal, loving husband and daddy to our kids! He tells me he loves me about 10 times everyday, and compliments me continuously!

I'm in lust with a younger Capricorn man. We work in the same office and all of the above experiences are happening to me. He started by openly flirting and I liked it, now he kinda teases and doesn't flirt so much and I miss it. I hear that I have to be patient but its so frustrating. I'm trying not to change be the same I was when he first noticed me. We have been together alone but he made no advances or suggested a date. One time I think he thought I was going to kiss him and he pulled back which hurt my feelings as I wasn't going to kiss him and it made me think is all this a game to him.

It is Virgos who are the ones that will always be along because we find fault in everything someone does. We nitpick and we like everything right to go our way. We have to learn to let things flow and be. Everyone is different and wants there space. We want to be appreciated for everything and told everyday that we are love, not everyone is going to do that so we have to trust that our partners appreciate us even though they don't say it. Others can be happy but Virgo always have a problem. I'm a Virgo

Im a Virgo woman dating a Capricorn man for a little over a year. I agree with most of the comments above I thought he was bi polar until how'll! But all in all he is a great man and the good is very good. He drifts but he asked me not to over think things as we Virgo women do. He said he loves me and he shows it. As a Virgo woman I have to deal with that needing to have control issue. It has to be complete and make sense for me and if it don't it drives me crazy if I have no control over it. So with this man im learning to trust and let go. I have no doubt of how he feels about me and I am no longer insecure during the "drift" times. Ladies he really likes attention and he also likes quiet alone times he just needs you to understand and find the balance and not get bent out of shape thinking he wants out because that's not the case. Just relax and enjoy the relationship.

For the comment with the beautiful 8 year relationship, good job you got it right in the beginning that's why you have harmony. His "drift" times are probably mutual quiet times that you don't even notice, that's great!

Awee, I really like this cap and I know he likes me ( he told his mom and his mom told my mom :p) He's really cute and sweet. I don't know him that well but I can tell... He will come by ( his mom lives next door) like everyday then for like a couple months he wont. I like him so much then he leaves and so what am I do to? Wait around for some guy.... So I thought well he does have a life.. so ya. But now that I read all this, I see he might not change.. So I don't know if I should date him now since playing this game is not fun for me. He is going to ask em out when I turn 15, sept 13, in the last 2weeks he's been coming by everyday and trying to talk to me more and more.. & when I'm not home he asks my friends when I will be back. Then once I get home he just shows up at the same time! lol its cute but its hard to believe my friends that he was asking for me.. when he doesn't actually talk to me that much when I am home.. We are both pretty shy..

I've been with my cap for almost a yr. A yr is a short time but we are both so in love and falling every day. We are the best of friends before anything so it makes the relationship great. We are so alike and so different at the same time. We're great together.

I have known my cappy man for 4 weeks. I am 39, he is 43. The first day we met he interrogated me for 2 hours about my views on relationships. He keeps me laughing and smiling. He is the perfect gentleman, always respectful and full of compliments. He is very verbal about his feelings when texting me but we face to face he doesn't say much. He is extremely observant, he remembers every word I've said since the day I met him and I am so amazed at how well he knows me in such a short time. I have to initiate dates and phone calls but I think he likes me pursuing him. He told me we are only friends until he gets to know me but gets jealous easy. He is insecure, constantly wanting to know if I will stick around and where I plan to take our relationship. He has 2 jobs, a huge mortgage, 3 teenage daughters, a needy mother and is trying to start a few businesses, so his plate is very full. He makes time for me at the end of his busy day most of the time falling asleep, by accident, beside me on the couch. I saw the Dr Jekyl Mr Hyde come out when I tried to end the relationship because I didn't want to be last on his list. All in all we both have flaws and accept each other for who we are, I couldn't ask for a better man.

SO, I am a Virgo lady, and am getting to know a Capricorn man. We met each other through a mutual friend. He saw my photo somewhere and tried to show me off to our friend like 'check out this beauty'. At which point, our friend said, 'hey that's my friend! I know her!' ... It was very amusing for the both of us. We talked for a few weeks, and formally met after 3 weeks of talking. From the start, I knew he was interested. At times he was distant but I couldn't blame him. Everyone needs their space and time. Over time, he's opened up to me, and for those moments I'm thankful. I think the thing that's helped us a lot is that from the start, we've both made a point to be open and honest. A month after we started seeing each other, he had to move away for work for the summer. I hadn't seen him in 2 months but we talked almost every day, just to wish each other a good day + see what we were up to. During this time apart, I had thought he was taking this thing between us light tly, and so I did the same. But this august long weekend, his family had told me so much! His brother told me he never tells them about his girlfriends but for some reason, he talks about me a lot! Since this cappy man was gone for the summer, I figured a way I could keep us connected was that I could bake him oatmeal choco chip cookies and send them to him. Well when I met his dad this weekend, he said that gesture in itself was the 'hook' that locked it all in for me! His mother told me that he had said I was a very special girl and that he's never said that for anyone before! I was sort of curious about meeting his family, I didn't know I would get such a good response and good wishes for our future! but I did. Our mutual friend had also told me that this cappy man was dumbfounded when he actually received my cookies in the mail and cappy man later told me he ate every single cookie.. Who would have figured a batch of cookies could take you so far with everyone! I had no idea he thought so highly of me, but I appreciate that. Knowing I'm just as special to him as he is to me! So far, I haven't been remotely disappointed in anything between us. He's made up for all his shortcomings one way or another. Every plan we've made has gone through, and there are so many things to look forward to between us. He's included me in a lot of his far off plans, including a possible trip to Germany during winter break! I've never dated a cappy man on this level before but I must admit I love it. we always know what the other desires at the moment by instinct. He never fails to give me the support when I need it. This weekend he was never too far away, usually right by my side, rubbing my back or leaning in for a kiss or two. And when we went to sleep each night we were together, we'd always hold each other and I'd wake up with him kissing my shoulder or my cheek. he's so crazy for me! I've decided I've made a right choice, that this one deserves ALL of my time and effort. I adore him.. :) for all of the Virgo's out there, my advice is to just go with it and let things happen as they do. play your cards right! don't worry so much because whatever is going to happen is going to happen. give cappy time and have patience. they'll appreciate it and give you so much love in return! if he disappears, then let him! he'll be back and like I said already, let things happen as they do. Go in with few expectations and you will come through with many great gifts if you can do the love dance right with cappy!

im just crazy about my cap man.. I don't think were typical in our signs, im totally disorganized but we both love to party.. apparently not typical. there's never a dull moment with us. its really new and im getting scared now as a 40 year old woman with a kid, he's a bit older with none, I getting scared as im getting really deep feelings for him. I keep thinking the bubble will burst.. its just too good and I don't want it to end. I keep thinking that he might want to find someone who is younger and give him kids.. every time were together which is just at the weekends we get closer and things get better and its only in the past few days ive been feeling like this. He makes me feel secure and texts me a lot and plans ahead for the weekends. I keep having the urge to tell him I love him but I don't want to push him away but I know my feelings are getting deeper and deeper. Any ideas should I wait till he tells me first and just enjoy the brilliant time we have. Iv e been so unlucky in love in the past and maybe im just waiting for it to all go pear shaped.. I always start feeling insecure when I get strong feelings and have thought about finishing it for no good reason other than the fear of getting my heart broken. He has no idea I feel like this as when were together its about fun and laughter, ive never met a guy who floats my boat like he does, he's gorgeous, funny and totally affectionate. forever telling me he's proud to be with me.. its just lovely but im scared any help would be appreciated.. thanks peeeps x

I'm a Capricorn male, and while I cannot speak for all my Capricorn brothers... I am very particular in the kind of woman I like and may be slower to open up, but if I express interest in a woman, text, call, set up a date, whatever... I am never playing. Woman who have been f*!#'d over seem to doubt everyone and everything, and I can understand this, but Capricorns take love and friendship seriously, we may move at a slower pace, but our energy is too precious to be wasted playing games. If it feels real.... maybe it is!