Dating the Aquarius woman

by Gary
(IA, U.S.A.)

I've had experience with dating an Aquarian woman, but it was an up-and-down experience, for sure. My impression is that she is definitely driven for success, loves intellectual stimulation, and is very up-front with what she wants. Emotionally, she is a disaster area. My family found her detached, competent, but not warm. Shallow and unable to see the big picture where relationships are concerned, but on the ball regarding work and career.

She loves her family more than anything and regards her parents with extremely high regard. She has had some problems with her two sisters, however; there seemed to be friction there. Has few friends, but has a strong bond with them. She accepts there faults and foibles with good cheer.

This is a difficult woman to get to know. Admitted to me a lack of self-awareness, lack of emotionality when it is required or needed. She is absolutely lousy in bed, refusing to give of herself enough. But worst of all, disloyal and prone to betrayal if a better offer of a good time is available elsewhere. This particular Aquarius forced me to break off our relationship after changing an arranged meeting (we lived far apart from each other) with each other, not once but twice. She continued to follow me around online and cajoled my friend to get information about me. Sent me a holiday card which I never read, and for many years did not hear any more about her. When I chanced on meeting up again, the woman was married with children. Emotionally she remained the same inscrutable person I knew.

The Aquarius woman that I knew in general was someone that I wish I had kept as a friend. She was, as a lover, too selfish, too inward, and too disloyal to maintain a long-lasting love life. When she wished to change careers (a thing she still does to this day) I made the mistake of offering advice to not throw her original career away since she just started it, proposing more patience; she took my head off for my effrontery! I didn't feel particularly wanted, and I always felt that I would always take a back seat to her family and friends. A part of me still loves her dearly, and I miss our long conversations, but she is hard to read, harder still to know on an emotional level. I don't know how her husband does it!

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by: Aqua girl

What sign are you Gary?

by: unknown1

Spot on. Aquarius girls are disloyal and too selfish

by: Anonymous

I am going to disagree with the above comment. I am an aquarius woman and am NOT selfish at all and am extremely loyal. Obviously, not every aquarius or sign in general is the same.

by: Anonymous

Obviously this guy is a Lil too butt hurt. I'm an Aquarius some of the things your saying are in fact true but instead we choose who we feel should have our full loyalty, our true emotion and love. If this woman was lousy with you in bed I'm sure she was just bored. I know from my personal experiences I will refuse to give my all to any man who I don't feel is emotionally or intellectually connected with me. My husbands a Leo we have two beautiful children together and can't get enough of each other. But like you said there was ups and downs you just have to find whose worth that roller coaster. It's a good thing you guys split.

My guess
by: Rosalia

... is that Gary might be a Scorpio ?

Aquarius has to be the most misunderstood sign of all...

We hate routine !!!!
by: Anonymous

I agree with above she was so bored, if you want a girl that wants to do the same thing every day because its comfortable then you should never be with an Aquarius. We hate routine infact just typing the word bores me to death. But that doesnt mean that we don't do routine because we know that some things have to have a routine. We want excitement and to be able to express ourselves by not being tied down to routine. If you cant communicate with an Aquarius then her mind has gone way before her body decides to leave the relationship.

I am an Aquarius woman of 32 and every relationship has ended this way for me, if i cant communicate with my partner then i loose interest really quickly. if they to do the same thing and don't want to be a little spontaneous then its not worth my time and effort.

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