Gemini and Virgo

Gemini and Virgo Compatibility

Gemini Virgo is a relationship which is highly dependant on compromise, however you are both gifted in this area.

The low scores represent the initial compatibility of this match. However, if you can both adapt to the others style this is a relationship which will improve steadily over time, and eventually rival any other combination.

Compatibility	3
Sexual chemistry	2
Communication	3

(All scores range from 1=low to 5=high)

This article is in two halves, the first is written from the viewpoint of the Gemini man or Gemini woman, and the second is written from the viewpoint of the Virgo man or Virgo woman.

From the Gemini viewpoint

You're both excellent communicators and both very adaptable. This provides a solid foundation to build on, however your temperaments are very different, and a lot of give and take will probably be needed.

You both have fast and active minds, and tend to think more often with your head than your heart. You won't find this partner too needy or clingy, although like most partners they will take issue with any perceived flirting, and this will bring out the worst in them, becoming far more possessive than they would otherwise be.

You both prefer a rational argument, and neither of you hold a grudge. In this respect you have a big advantage in terms of reconciling differences as they arrive. Be sure to use it!

This is very hard working and down to earth partner, and most of your differences relate to how seriously you each take these areas. In short, your partner will rarely leave 'work mode', often stressing over deadlines, duties and responsibility and due to this you may find them somewhat boring, while they view you as somewhat irresponsible for not feeling the same way. As in so many areas of this combination you can both learn from the other here.

This is a highly precise, methodical and organized partner, and given the opportunity will add a lot of structure to your life. Your Virgo seeks perfection in all things, and may at times be critical (not least of themselves). This may seem nit picky at times, but they do it for the right reasons.

Socially, you're much more outgoing than your Virgo, and may at times wish they were less reserved and timid. Money may be an issue in this relationship. As with other aspects your partner likes efficiency, which includes careful spending and monitoring. They may view you as somewhat frivolous while you see them as frugal.

Gemini Virgo sex

It’s important to note however that we’re looking only at sun signs here. There are many other planets which can have an equal or greater effect on someones personality. Makes sense, as ultimately everyone is of course unique. Generalizing too far based just on sun signs can therefore be misleading.

To fully understand someone or how compatible you are with them we need to calculate those other planet placements from their date of birth, and compare them to your own, and then interpret the results.

This unlocks the real power of astrology, and gives much more useful and specific information – everything from how they view you, how to turn them on, how to avoid arguments etc. If you would like to explore this further please see the astrology compatibility reports page.

From the Virgo viewpoint

Virgo and Gemini Compatibility

Mentally you're on a similar page with this partner, both of you have fast minds and are excellent communicators, and both of you are very flexible in a relationship. While your temperaments are fairly different this is solid platform to build upon.

You both tend to think with your head rather than your heart, and as such neither of you are very needy emotionally. With that said, your Gemini may be somewhat of a flirt, and may bring out your possessive side more than most other partners would.

You like some regular alone time to recharge, whereas your Gemini is a lot more outgoing and likely to often want to go out to play while you don't. As in other areas this is a fun loving partner, who you may find wears you out sometimes, though not necessarily in a bad way.

You both prefer a rational style of conversation and argument, and neither of you hold a grudge. You'll probably find this is a partner who is a master at debating (anything!) so don't be surprised if they tend to win often.

You're very likely to feel that your Gemini is somewhat unpredictable and in some ways irresponsible. Keep in mind however that you're very practical and down to earth, and if you can meet somewhere in the middle you'll both benefit from this. If you aren't willing to bend in this direction however you may find this partner somewhat flighty and disorganized.

In many day to day areas it could be said that you almost take things too seriously, while this is a partner who often doesn't take them seriously enough. Again, if you can meet in the middle it's a good combination, encouraging you to relax and let your hair down occasionally, while encouraging your Gemini to get a little more responsible and organized.

You like routine, whereas this is a partner who often welcomes change. This can create a fairly chaotic and even nomadic lifestyle, and you can certainly add some structure and stability in this area if they are willing to let you.

Virgo Gemini sex

In the short term sex with this partner is likely to be light and fun, although in the long term you may question how seriously they view it.

Neither of you tend to be very emotional, and in this respect you may find this relationship somewhat 'shallow' or empty feeling occasionally. There's a good chance that you will both enjoy some sexy conversation before or during, and if things get stale it may be a good way to add some spice.

Summary

So is this article conclusive?

No! This article is based only on sun sign interaction. In order to provide a lot of people with information it's a convenient and fast way to generalize, but it's far from conclusive at this broad level.

To get a complete picture we need to take all the other planets and their interactions into account. If you would like more information for your unique relationship please see the astrology compatibility reports page.

Other resources

Often the hardest questions to ask are the most important - for example, what are their views and expectations for raising children? sharing housework? saving money? career goals? etc.

One subtle and fun way to approach this is by working through a couples question book together - that way it's not really you asking, and delicate subjects can be covered easily. The best book for this I've found is Michael Webb's 1000 Questions For Couples

For reviews of this and other relationship ebooks on subjects ranging from improving your sex life to getting an ex back please see the relationship ebook reviews page.

A third method of further research is to share experiences with other couples of this same sign combination - you may be amazed how consistent they often are. Please see the links below for visitor experiences and questions.

In any relationship there are also very significant external factors. One of these is how well you understand yourself, your partner and your partnership - the more you do, the easier it is to make the relationship more exciting, fulfilling and satisfying for both of you, regardless of your starting position. The articles on how to Make him fall in love with you and Make her fall in love with you have information on how you can use astrology to revitalize a relationship.

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