Gemini women and flirting

I'm a Scorpio guy. I got to know a Gemini girl when she started working for my company as an intern. She had just broken up with her (also Scorpio) boyfriend who was unreliable and unfaithful. Due to the job, we spent a lot of time together esp. talking about life and the world around us. She said I was the only one who took her seriously and cared deeply for her well-being despite her having many (superficial) friends. I am much older with a successful career. Unfortunately, I do not share her interests like all-night clubbing and socializing. However, whenever she needs serious conversation or advice, I will be the one she seeks. She has told me that I am different from all others and that she truly loves me as I do her. We will not be having a sexual relationship till marriage (planned after she finishes her training) due to religious reasons. I thought all was going well when I discovered that she had been going out with two different guys at the same time (declaring her love to one of them on her blog!) behind my back. When confronted, she said she's just having some fun and they don't mean anything. I am her one, true love, her soulmate. I guess Scorpios are just too intense and hopelessly romantic and Gemini's are born to flirt and lie! They fall in love too easily and lead people on - which can cause major heartache to the faithful and loyal Scorpio

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I can relate
by: Anonymous

I can relate to your scenario as I am a Scorpio man currently having a relationship with a Gemini woman. I love her deeply and cannot imagine life without her. Gemini's are fascinating creatures with great charm but lack emotional depth. There were many a time when I felt cheated or hurt when I was side-lined or two-timed (they have no sense of guilt!) despite the fact that she has declared her love for me profusely. The pleasure was in the chase and after the relationship is secure, then there is a tendency to flirt and pursue others for the thrill of it. However, they will tire from it and return to you if you are truly the one they love. My advice is for you to understand their innate nature of flirtatiousness and love of excitement (infatuation with a new guy is exciting!). However, these dalliances usually do not last long but your relationship will (I survived three break-ups with her because she dated other guys behind my back). Learn to let go a little and give her space. If not Scorpio, just let these social butterflies fly away for good.
i can tell you why gemini woman flirt
by: gemini

I am a Gemini woman and i had alot of friends that are Geminis and sometimes Geminis we flirt when we are bored form our lover or when they don t give us to much attention or to let them know that we are strong but sometimes is and bad but is are nature but it will be a different story if our lover give us freedom and they are never boarding and they have alot of communication with us and ''WE DONT LIKE JELOUS PEOPLE''THAT IS THE MAIN THING.and we love when they take us shopping or troveling or and the main thing of a Gemini woman ''likes you to do for her is to always be SHAPED'' and and always try to flirt with her and make her laugh and don t be to needy and don t ever ignore her and last thing for you to do be yourself but if thoes things dont work out that means shes a total bicth and a hord but if you dont it is ''OVER''.and if you do that she will never let you go and and try to impress her with something new and always change your looks and try to be her friend and that it good luck.
Not all gemini women are flirts
by: Anonymous

I am a gemini woman. Not all gemini women flirt. According to astrology, gemini women can easily break up a relationship and get into another. That is not true. I had been into a 4 year relationship with a capri man. Things didn't work well between us. Believe me or not, I took one year to actually arrive at a conclusion that we should break up. That was because, inspite of differences, I loved him so much. But, we were way apart. Either he didn't understand what I felt (or what I actually am) Or I didn't try enough to sort out the differences. Either ways, both weren't happy and it was not leading anywhere. That was the reason I broke up. Now, I am married to a cancer man for 6 years, who also knows about my ex-love. Even with my husband, there are differences, but we are able to sort it out, by speaking frankly.

The main thing about a gemini girl is to talk openly. I know lotsa men, who don't show their emotions or wouldn't talk freely, because they feel, 'if they do, then the women might take advantage or feel that he is not a strong man'. That is not the case, atleast with a gemini girl. Try talking to her openly. That might solve the issue. If you feel that he still flirts with other guys, then she was not in love with you. That must have been pure lust. In either case, don't blame 'gemini women', it is just that girl.
It's so true!
by: Anonymous

I am a Gemini woman & I LOVE to flirt. Even with those I have no actual interest in. It's weird & I found this page by trying to understand it. I usually do it out of straight up boredom or when I feel neglected from my current boyfriend.. Like when they are lacking in communicating with me (major slap in the face-we are very social creatures, we NEED it). A way to solve it is to spoil us a little here and there. Doesn't need to be anything big... Flowers from the neighbors yard will do! Anything to show an effort, or that you were thinking of your Gemini earlier that day . Geminis are very loyal once they are well taken care of, but they do require a little extra :) unfortunately harmless flirting will still be a part of our lives always.
a gemini
by: Cherish From Arizona

it is so very true. i am a gemini.. ido flirt alot, but can be insecure at times but that doest stop me from getting what i want. If i want someone, i usually get them and they tend to get used only for sex. Love? that is very rare. Gemini women will only fall in love once, and it will be to the most opposite person or sign. Even though it will not work, thats her only true love, that she will not forget. She will show a man so many things in the bedroom and is always down to try new things. She will always be searchin for that perfect man to turn her out. But intill then she will have fun w/ any man who comes along. but truth is i do flirt alot, only w/ people i have an attraction to, but really want them in the bedroom. Gemini women do have a tendancy to cheat, even on the ones they love. and yes we do lie, very sneaky i must say. but hey its all for finding the right person n the end :)
boss.... even i too got ditched by a gemini
by: jayant

hey boss, i am from india, i am a aquarian man, i loved my classmate for 7 yrs who is a gemini girl ,i roamed with me for two years, in these two yrs she never said she will leave me,always assured me that she is there for me, but after 2yrs, she hinted that she is looking 4 a much better side of life which her parents choose, and plainly said i donot love u any more.....wtf, now she is planned to ditch her libra husband......
as for ur case,,,,,lucky u did not got that girl in ur life.... brother i certainly assure that there are some good n ok girls there. good luck
scropio first and one true love
by: Just a Gem girl with one love scorpio

Ok well I'm a gem girl and yes we do flirt with anyone and everyone its not a big deal. Just to let you know my one true love was a scorpio we have a love child together and that is all. He broke my heart in two and i will never be the same and cant give my heart twice. We are so different he is so possesive and jealous and in love its wonderful. The thing is we Gems are lonely and the flirting is ...well our way to cope (i can only say this after years of self analyses and being true to myself).Anyway my point is we want someone to love us and take care of us but after undersatnding our true insecurities yes we flirt but once we fall in love we are and will be faithful but it takes a very stong, secure, reliable man and one that can truly love us.(sorry bout the typos)
Geminis
by: Carra

Hi i am a geminis but i am not a liar i never cheated on my boy freind and guest what hes a scorpio ok!!!
gemini women
by: Anonymous

I am also a gemini women and I believe that yes we tend to flirt a lot ,but what we really need is someone that will understand and accept that about us. If there is one thing I CAN NOT stand in a guy is that they get all clingy and insecure that I will leave them. Trust is the main key in dating a gemini girl, if you trust her enough to give her space when she needs it, and trust the fact that just because she flirts with people doesnt mean shes going to cheat or anything.To me saying all geminis are prone to cheat isnt true. it depends on the person and how they feel about cheating. Honestly I will never cheat due to the fact that I know the difference between right and wrong.
Best sign for a Gem & their flirting ways
by: Irene O

Yes I am a Gem woman (a real Gem!) I love to flirt with men, it's a passing thing and then it's gone in an instant. I flirt because I like knowing that I still have the magic. You Scorpio's shouldn't judge because you are looking at a mirror.

Sometimes the flirting turns into infatuation but with this Gem woman, I know the boundaries and even when men were ready to steal my heart, I would not allow it to be stolen by anyone but my true love. Some signs find flirting traits to mean affairs and infidelity, but it's more the character of the GEM involved than the sweet words that pour out of me. Actions speak louder than words.

I too am attracted to Scorpio's....don't know what it is about these men but like a moth to a flame...there I go burning my butterfly wings.

I was married to a Virgo....too boring, now I'm involved with a Leo (oh my God the drama...and it's all about him, him, him).

Someday I might meet the man who will capture this Gemini heart but so far no one of interest. An Aries man might be dominant enough and strong to tame a Gem.
hold on a mo...... :0)
by: Anonymous

I am a gemini female and I am really fed up with being labled as a "flirt", a "cheat" "two faced" or even a bitch because of my star sign... I am a loyal person, and refuse to shrink to fit into anyone elses box. I do flirt a little at times but what is the real harm in that because i dont know many people who dont realisticly..I know I may sound like Im ranting here but, how flipping stereo typical....!!! any way My point of view is that I fell really deeply for two scorps at diffedrent times and have found the whole thing a waste of time... dont get me wrong I do really love theese guys as they mean so much more to me on an emotional level than a lot of people do I feel we connect but I am really fed up with trying so hard to get around a wall (invisible) i have tried talking to said person every day to be told to back off i have also tried giving a lot of space to be given the impression that i dont care anymore and then ignored until i have made an effort to patch things up?... if the scorps in question had been openly or even a little forward in letting me know how they felt I would of happily stopped looking around for a soul mate because I would have found one instead of carrying on and trying to move on as I feel its not meant to be (I do leave things to fate at times but have also tried letting both know when it was relevant). I felt it nearlly killed me to move on last time I was in sooo much emotional and psysical pain from the first (almost relationship with he denied but it didnt stop how I felt) and then a few years later I bumped into the second bloke (who really helped me to start moving on up again but he decided to sleep with me then moved on to another girlfriend really quickly)I am now single and talking to both but confused too. as I do love both in thier own way and they are the only people who i have felt a deep enough connection to be really serious about I do have trust issues at times I do take that into account at times and the irratica behaviour dosent help me to be more confidednt in seriously persuing it??? please help?? if you can??
Words from the mouth of a Gemini
by: Gemini girl

I'm Gemini, and, yeah, I do flirt a lot, I really don't know why, maybe I feel bored or ignored by my boyfriend( Taurus). I recently also broke up with him because he doens't talk to me, after 5 minutes chatting on facebook, he wants to play games, we are both 13 years old. Whats more, we are in different schools, his is in the afternoon session and mine is in the morning session, and when I do visit him, he pretends like I'm not even there. So, I ended our relationship..and now I have a crush and I really like him (Capricorn), the other small reason I broke up with my ex is because I feel guilty for having a boyfriend and liking someone else...

Hey NEW
by: Anonymous

Hi i am currently dating a Gemini girl and i have started to notice these traits in her. I'm a virgo guy and believe it or not, I have all it needs to get who I want. Is it fair to her that I flirt with pple I get attention from? If she does it, so can I right? what will be your feelings towards me doing it in this case? will it jeopardize the relationship? doesn't it show disrespect towards the person I am with?

true NEW
by: gemini82

We do cheat if we are not in love we are huge flirt and have a tendency to lie our way out of things. I also know that we like sex way too much and we tend to use men to get it. And never feel guilty. Idk why we're like that.
wth NEW
by: scorpio guy

Hey scorpio here and just need to clear some things up .i was involveg with gem fem for 10 years and its true they flirt which usually leads to cheating its called temptaion ppl hey u play wit fire u get burned .now my gem said she loved me but behind my back yeah she was sneakn arnd with the flirt guy and yea they had sex i forgave but what happens again same thing then the good part Ive gave my life to God she say so we cant sin anymore so ok i say if us being sexual offends your religion ill wat bc i love you so a year of ne waiting was a year of her screwing several different guys and me being lied to so wtf is up wit that Carolyn Martin martinsville va .is the trick that makes me hate gem women to flighty to settle down and they ruin to many ppl bc yhey dont take the time to analyze there actions and really dont care about no one but themselves ,truth is your always looking for mr right but you cant c him when hes in your face bc deep in you love isnt what you want .the chase is all gems like everything else is in the way .her bday may 31

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