Gemini women and flirting

I'm a Scorpio guy. I got to know a Gemini girl when she started working for my company as an intern. She had just broken up with her (also Scorpio) boyfriend who was unreliable and unfaithful. Due to the job, we spent a lot of time together esp. talking about life and the world around us. She said I was the only one who took her seriously and cared deeply for her well-being despite her having many (superficial) friends. I am much older with a successful career. Unfortunately, I do not share her interests like all-night clubbing and socializing. However, whenever she needs serious conversation or advice, I will be the one she seeks. She has told me that I am different from all others and that she truly loves me as I do her. We will not be having a sexual relationship till marriage (planned after she finishes her training) due to religious reasons. I thought all was going well when I discovered that she had been going out with two different guys at the same time (declaring her love to one of them on her blog!) behind my back. When confronted, she said she's just having some fun and they don't mean anything. I am her one, true love, her soulmate. I guess Scorpios are just too intense and hopelessly romantic and Gemini's are born to flirt and lie! They fall in love too easily and lead people on - which can cause major heartache to the faithful and loyal Scorpio

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I can relate
by: Anonymous

I can relate to your scenario as I am a Scorpio man currently having a relationship with a Gemini woman. I love her deeply and cannot imagine life without her. Gemini's are fascinating creatures with great charm but lack emotional depth. There were many a time when I felt cheated or hurt when I was side-lined or two-timed (they have no sense of guilt!) despite the fact that she has declared her love for me profusely. The pleasure was in the chase and after the relationship is secure, then there is a tendency to flirt and pursue others for the thrill of it. However, they will tire from it and return to you if you are truly the one they love. My advice is for you to understand their innate nature of flirtatiousness and love of excitement (infatuation with a new guy is exciting!). However, these dalliances usually do not last long but your relationship will (I survived three break-ups with her because she dated other guys behind my back). Learn to let go a little and give her space. If not Scorpio, just let these social butterflies fly away for good.

i can tell you why gemini woman flirt
by: gemini

I am a Gemini woman and i had alot of friends that are Geminis and sometimes Geminis we flirt when we are bored form our lover or when they don t give us to much attention or to let them know that we are strong but sometimes is and bad but is are nature but it will be a different story if our lover give us freedom and they are never boarding and they have alot of communication with us and ''WE DONT LIKE JELOUS PEOPLE''THAT IS THE MAIN THING.and we love when they take us shopping or troveling or and the main thing of a Gemini woman ''likes you to do for her is to always be SHAPED'' and and always try to flirt with her and make her laugh and don t be to needy and don t ever ignore her and last thing for you to do be yourself but if thoes things dont work out that means shes a total bicth and a hord but if you dont it is ''OVER''.and if you do that she will never let you go and and try to impress her with something new and always change your looks and try to be her friend and that it good luck.

Not all gemini women are flirts
by: Anonymous

I am a gemini woman. Not all gemini women flirt. According to astrology, gemini women can easily break up a relationship and get into another. That is not true. I had been into a 4 year relationship with a capri man. Things didn't work well between us. Believe me or not, I took one year to actually arrive at a conclusion that we should break up. That was because, inspite of differences, I loved him so much. But, we were way apart. Either he didn't understand what I felt (or what I actually am) Or I didn't try enough to sort out the differences. Either ways, both weren't happy and it was not leading anywhere. That was the reason I broke up. Now, I am married to a cancer man for 6 years, who also knows about my ex-love. Even with my husband, there are differences, but we are able to sort it out, by speaking frankly.

The main thing about a gemini girl is to talk openly. I know lotsa men, who don't show their emotions or wouldn't talk freely, because they feel, 'if they do, then the women might take advantage or feel that he is not a strong man'. That is not the case, atleast with a gemini girl. Try talking to her openly. That might solve the issue. If you feel that he still flirts with other guys, then she was not in love with you. That must have been pure lust. In either case, don't blame 'gemini women', it is just that girl.

It's so true!
by: Anonymous

I am a Gemini woman & I LOVE to flirt. Even with those I have no actual interest in. It's weird & I found this page by trying to understand it. I usually do it out of straight up boredom or when I feel neglected from my current boyfriend.. Like when they are lacking in communicating with me (major slap in the face-we are very social creatures, we NEED it). A way to solve it is to spoil us a little here and there. Doesn't need to be anything big... Flowers from the neighbors yard will do! Anything to show an effort, or that you were thinking of your Gemini earlier that day . Geminis are very loyal once they are well taken care of, but they do require a little extra :) unfortunately harmless flirting will still be a part of our lives always.

a gemini
by: Cherish From Arizona

it is so very true. i am a gemini.. ido flirt alot, but can be insecure at times but that doest stop me from getting what i want. If i want someone, i usually get them and they tend to get used only for sex. Love? that is very rare. Gemini women will only fall in love once, and it will be to the most opposite person or sign. Even though it will not work, thats her only true love, that she will not forget. She will show a man so many things in the bedroom and is always down to try new things. She will always be searchin for that perfect man to turn her out. But intill then she will have fun w/ any man who comes along. but truth is i do flirt alot, only w/ people i have an attraction to, but really want them in the bedroom. Gemini women do have a tendancy to cheat, even on the ones they love. and yes we do lie, very sneaky i must say. but hey its all for finding the right person n the end :)

boss.... even i too got ditched by a gemini
by: jayant

hey boss, i am from india, i am a aquarian man, i loved my classmate for 7 yrs who is a gemini girl ,i roamed with me for two years, in these two yrs she never said she will leave me,always assured me that she is there for me, but after 2yrs, she hinted that she is looking 4 a much better side of life which her parents choose, and plainly said i donot love u any, now she is planned to ditch her libra husband......
as for ur case,,,,,lucky u did not got that girl in ur life.... brother i certainly assure that there are some good n ok girls there. good luck

scropio first and one true love
by: Just a Gem girl with one love scorpio

Ok well I'm a gem girl and yes we do flirt with anyone and everyone its not a big deal. Just to let you know my one true love was a scorpio we have a love child together and that is all. He broke my heart in two and i will never be the same and cant give my heart twice. We are so different he is so possesive and jealous and in love its wonderful. The thing is we Gems are lonely and the flirting is ...well our way to cope (i can only say this after years of self analyses and being true to myself).Anyway my point is we want someone to love us and take care of us but after undersatnding our true insecurities yes we flirt but once we fall in love we are and will be faithful but it takes a very stong, secure, reliable man and one that can truly love us.(sorry bout the typos)

by: Carra

Hi i am a geminis but i am not a liar i never cheated on my boy freind and guest what hes a scorpio ok!!!

gemini women
by: Anonymous

I am also a gemini women and I believe that yes we tend to flirt a lot ,but what we really need is someone that will understand and accept that about us. If there is one thing I CAN NOT stand in a guy is that they get all clingy and insecure that I will leave them. Trust is the main key in dating a gemini girl, if you trust her enough to give her space when she needs it, and trust the fact that just because she flirts with people doesnt mean shes going to cheat or anything.To me saying all geminis are prone to cheat isnt true. it depends on the person and how they feel about cheating. Honestly I will never cheat due to the fact that I know the difference between right and wrong.

Best sign for a Gem & their flirting ways
by: Irene O

Yes I am a Gem woman (a real Gem!) I love to flirt with men, it's a passing thing and then it's gone in an instant. I flirt because I like knowing that I still have the magic. You Scorpio's shouldn't judge because you are looking at a mirror.

Sometimes the flirting turns into infatuation but with this Gem woman, I know the boundaries and even when men were ready to steal my heart, I would not allow it to be stolen by anyone but my true love. Some signs find flirting traits to mean affairs and infidelity, but it's more the character of the GEM involved than the sweet words that pour out of me. Actions speak louder than words.

I too am attracted to Scorpio's....don't know what it is about these men but like a moth to a flame...there I go burning my butterfly wings.

I was married to a Virgo....too boring, now I'm involved with a Leo (oh my God the drama...and it's all about him, him, him).

Someday I might meet the man who will capture this Gemini heart but so far no one of interest. An Aries man might be dominant enough and strong to tame a Gem.

hold on a mo...... :0)
by: Anonymous

I am a gemini female and I am really fed up with being labled as a "flirt", a "cheat" "two faced" or even a bitch because of my star sign... I am a loyal person, and refuse to shrink to fit into anyone elses box. I do flirt a little at times but what is the real harm in that because i dont know many people who dont realisticly..I know I may sound like Im ranting here but, how flipping stereo typical....!!! any way My point of view is that I fell really deeply for two scorps at diffedrent times and have found the whole thing a waste of time... dont get me wrong I do really love theese guys as they mean so much more to me on an emotional level than a lot of people do I feel we connect but I am really fed up with trying so hard to get around a wall (invisible) i have tried talking to said person every day to be told to back off i have also tried giving a lot of space to be given the impression that i dont care anymore and then ignored until i have made an effort to patch things up?... if the scorps in question had been openly or even a little forward in letting me know how they felt I would of happily stopped looking around for a soul mate because I would have found one instead of carrying on and trying to move on as I feel its not meant to be (I do leave things to fate at times but have also tried letting both know when it was relevant). I felt it nearlly killed me to move on last time I was in sooo much emotional and psysical pain from the first (almost relationship with he denied but it didnt stop how I felt) and then a few years later I bumped into the second bloke (who really helped me to start moving on up again but he decided to sleep with me then moved on to another girlfriend really quickly)I am now single and talking to both but confused too. as I do love both in thier own way and they are the only people who i have felt a deep enough connection to be really serious about I do have trust issues at times I do take that into account at times and the irratica behaviour dosent help me to be more confidednt in seriously persuing it??? please help?? if you can??

Words from the mouth of a Gemini
by: Gemini girl

I'm Gemini, and, yeah, I do flirt a lot, I really don't know why, maybe I feel bored or ignored by my boyfriend( Taurus). I recently also broke up with him because he doens't talk to me, after 5 minutes chatting on facebook, he wants to play games, we are both 13 years old. Whats more, we are in different schools, his is in the afternoon session and mine is in the morning session, and when I do visit him, he pretends like I'm not even there. So, I ended our relationship..and now I have a crush and I really like him (Capricorn), the other small reason I broke up with my ex is because I feel guilty for having a boyfriend and liking someone else...

by: Anonymous

Hi i am currently dating a Gemini girl and i have started to notice these traits in her. I'm a virgo guy and believe it or not, I have all it needs to get who I want. Is it fair to her that I flirt with pple I get attention from? If she does it, so can I right? what will be your feelings towards me doing it in this case? will it jeopardize the relationship? doesn't it show disrespect towards the person I am with?

by: gemini82

We do cheat if we are not in love we are huge flirt and have a tendency to lie our way out of things. I also know that we like sex way too much and we tend to use men to get it. And never feel guilty. Idk why we're like that.

by: scorpio guy

Hey scorpio here and just need to clear some things up .i was involveg with gem fem for 10 years and its true they flirt which usually leads to cheating its called temptaion ppl hey u play wit fire u get burned .now my gem said she loved me but behind my back yeah she was sneakn arnd with the flirt guy and yea they had sex i forgave but what happens again same thing then the good part Ive gave my life to God she say so we cant sin anymore so ok i say if us being sexual offends your religion ill wat bc i love you so a year of ne waiting was a year of her screwing several different guys and me being lied to so wtf is up wit that Carolyn Martin martinsville va .is the trick that makes me hate gem women to flighty to settle down and they ruin to many ppl bc yhey dont take the time to analyze there actions and really dont care about no one but themselves ,truth is your always looking for mr right but you cant c him when hes in your face bc deep in you love isnt what you want .the chase is all gems like everything else is in the way .her bday may 31

Gemini Ladies
by: Anonymous

We gemini ladies will always flirt, but it's only to connect with people and make them like us! If I'm with a guy who doesn't mind the charming nature we put on (even better loves that we charm his friends/family), we have no reason to cheat. It's just our nature to use it and if someone tries to repress that part of us it comes out in secrecy. Geminis are always searching for a one true love, we have children's imagination. The only times we cheat are the instant we know that it can't possibly work out, and once we have decided that, there is no getting our hearts back into it anyway.

i am not a flirt!
by: riya

hello everyone..i m gemini girl here....i dont understand that why gemini girls are called flirts...i am very honest and loyal person..i don't know what is flirting...i am shy and reserved type of gemini....may be this is the reason...but in my view not all geminis are flirts! also depends upon how the person has brought all depend upon the environment in which the person had lived..nothing to do with astrological sunsign....yaa i can say i m only 20% of the description of gemini girl....i love conversing,i m intelligent,impatient,lovable,very good friend....only these things describe me.....and u all will be surprised that i am not a chit chat box..i speek only to the limit..i gain lot of respect from my friends as well as others...and my close ones love me a lot....when i read about my sunsign...i get very surprised becoz that doesnt describe me at all.....:)

I have a gemini gf
by: Dane

After reading a this, it kinda makes me mad because I am dating a Gemini girl. What the point of us dating if she's just gonna cheat on me? She does play mind games and she is a little sneaky. I would like some feedback on this asap

by: scorpio guy

Dump her bc truth is gemini woman know what they are doing when it comes to flirting or being sneaky and as we all know ,if you seem to enjoy flirting and things like this you will soon act on them so save your self some hurt and dump her find a woman who doesnt do the things that we other Humans see as disrespectful or sneaky ,for some strange reason gemini see know wrong in anything they do and this is why dating them is a bunch of mess

We tend to be players
by: Anonymous

I am a Gemini, and If i was a man i would never date us.The reason why i say that is because we are players, but once we find The One we really like/love, we can stop there and try to work it out. Gems are very playful and changable, we need a stimulation of our mind and if we dont get it we lose the interest and move to smth new.. Sorry, but that's how we are. Once you capture our heart we can be Yours 4ver, but it's hard to do that. Good luck guys!

Taurus man gemini woman
by: Anonymous

Right now she swears that i have her heart and she is being completely faithful, but she has pushed me out of her life. Being a man of emotion and her not being there hurts.

i am a gemini girl
by: Anonymous

it is not true that a gemini female ditches her is just that she is trying to find her true love and for some reason, those people didnt let her have it fully. Once she has found one, she will never leave him. she will get a heart break if he leaves her. I love an Aries truly and I cant even think of anybody else in his place though gemini sometimes flirt to get attention and thrills.

The Darkside of my Gemini wife.
by: Poor Guy

When we got married in 1983, my wife is so sweet and after six months, all I've got is the darkside mode for 29 years. But still she's my partner.

Gemini's are not flirt
by: Mabel

I am a gemini woman and am not a flirt nor a cheat. I beleive most gemini women needs true love and an open minded person for a friend.They try to make things work out for them. If you are faithful to a gemini woman,i bet you dat u will never regret taking her as your wife or girlfriend. Remember, gemini are twins which mean some re good and some are bad. I believe that most of the gemini dat feel thet are flirt are the other side of the true gemini bcos we are loving,caring n faithful if we are with our true love.

Gemini girls are cheats
by: Anonymous

yeah, gemini women are totally cheats with no sense of guilt and no conscience. so my friend, a pisces likes this gemini girl who has a boyfriend but has no problem with having sex with my friend. she's still with her boyfriend and doesn't see anything wrong with her having sex with someone other than her bitch

Geminis are confusing
by: Scorpion to the core

I have a gemini girlfriend or something like that. We broke up for 2 years and started seeing each other again. She has not been the same. I do not have her heart but for some reason she continues to hang on. Many times I am ready to let go. Can't take the secretive flirting with persons entered her life while we were apart. Our once steamy anything for utmost sexual pleasure is completely dead. Everytime I try to make a move for intimacy she makes excuses and starts an argument. I am so sick of it and I know that I will move on and turn my back completely one day. She will move on too because they are not faithful to anyone. She lies, she flirts and she is too secretive. I love her but I know one day I will leave her for good. Once a Scorpion makes a decision to sever a relationship the world becomes a very very cold place. We love and hate with the same intensity.

Who Cares
by: Cancer Man

I take all gemini's lightly. They are fun to be with but really never
want to get involved with them on an emotional level.
Really ... who cares. There are other signs that I am more compatible with so why bother.

Gemini women demand constant attention or they will stray.
They are child like to the point of being very immature at times.

I love them but not ones to be serious with. They are very much into their own happiness without regard to others.

If your bored then date one but never take it too seriously.

Just my two cents.

gemini women dead end
by: Anonymous

this gemini/scorp rising which is really the biggest game hit it off good in the begining with her,she talks freely about sex. you take it to the next level,she pulls the plug or gets mad about something and freezes you out for couple of months. You try to avoid her then she comes around to fish you in again.weve known each other for a while and most times i feel like a stranger,where most others would say hi with a smile.So i wanted to put closure on this and move on so i asked her out,she said no with a look like im better than you,you must be joking

my take on it
by: Anonymous

I am a Gemini woman with high ideals and purity of heart. Speaking for myself I can attest to the fact that once I fall in love with a man, my feelings for him remain strong and even-keeled. I love, adore and cherish every aspect of my lover and I tend to put him on a pedestal. I am devoted to him, until HE disturbs the balance...

In my experience it's always the man who, for no apparent reason other than his own laziness, starts taking me for granted and stops putting in the effort. When that happens, however subtle the difference, I will notice it. It's not my pride that will be hurt and I won't be jealous, possessive or vindictive, but I will once again be reminded that I'm alone and that I don't have a true soulmate--which is what I'm looking for.

I am NEVER the first to give up, but when I offer the best of myself I expect the same in return. When he stops giving that, I will start flirting with others. It's like a defense mechanism.

Besides, I flirt in different ways. One way of flirting--which I extend even to women--is simply a way of breaking the ice or showing people that I appreciate them, bringing a little happiness into their lives. Most of all I recognise that to varying degrees everybody is flirtatious or sensitive, or loyal, or jealous... A little bit of everything is in all of us.

Gemini women cheat
by: Anonymous

I've been dating a gemini woman know for 4 years, and it's been a nightmare . She will lie to my face ,and expect me to have no response to it . when we met she was screwing her best friends boyfriend and has never told her . We decided to get engaged because she got pregnant , but I've never trusted her . I'm a Virgo man and I feel very emotional for the woman I'm with , but this relationship is different . We seperated. for about a month and I started seeing other people , and refuse to stop because of her ways . I won't tell her I plan to leave her soon because she'll conjure up one of her fake , I love you rages . As long as I'm with her I'm going to forever cheat on her because I don't trust the bitch. as far as I can throw her, they are very evil creatures, that tells to many lies .

by: Anonymous

They have so many great ideals and tends to know so much about life and yet they lie and cheat and sneak around. what is that? also think they are right, much talk of communication but never take the lead will always analyze and criticize the other side and never themselves,not grateful always wanting, will give but only when their intrest is apparent. the only reason we don't let them go is because of our big ego.You seewe get sucked in by all the big moral talk, and when you least expect, yur heart is messed up............. i would like to see the shoe on the other foot

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