How to know if an Aquarius man likes you?

I like an Aquarius guy. We seemed great friends when i first talked to him, and now i like him. I told him so and he took it freely. He keeps avoiding me but catches my eye again and again. Do you think he likes me too?

-Pisces waterbaby

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I'm thinking yes
by: David-admin

Based on the limited description.. yes, I'd say he does. Aquarians can be notoriously independent sometimes, which can be mistaken for a lack of interest and even unfaithfulness. They often tend to be emotionally distant or aloof, especially at the start of a relationship.

by: Anonymous

I'm in basically the exact same situation as you. I'm a Pisces as well, and when I first met my Aquarius we got along great. We flirted and talked, and mutual friends kept saying that he couldn't stop talking about
me. He would never text or call me back, though. A few weeks later we saw each other at a party and things got really heated up, so I could tell he was attracted to me.

As soon as the party was over, though, the few texts and calls went back to being more like "just friends." From everything I've looked up
(trust me it's been a lot) I think it's because Aquarians are very independent. One website said that it is better for them to have several casual affairs than to be in one long-term relationship. If they are going to be in a serious relationship it will be with someone they are best friends with already and is intelligent and as ndependent as they are. I've stopped trying to be
as..."Pisces" on him. I'm sure you know what that means. For other visitors I'll just basically say that Pisces tend to wear their emotions on their sleeves and like to express them A LOT. So I've stopped that. I'm trying to get close to him as a friend only, and we'll see where that goes. I'll cross my fingers for me and you. :)

by: Anonymous

Ok, so I met a guy, online, and we hit it off great. Started off by emails, which became more and more frequent. This then progressed to instant messenger. After a few months of this we decided to meet up. There had been some flirting online but not a lot. The evening went great and we didn't get home til the early hours. I didn't think anything other than this was going to be a friend thing at the time and I definitely feel he felt the same, just to be friends, there wasn't a spark for either of us I think....After we did meet he disappeared and I wasn't sure how to feel about that, it confused me as we spoke so much before we met. I became worried he thought I was 'interested' in him and he'd decided to back off. After a few weeks he came back and we began talking on IM again. This increased to everyday and the more we spoke the more I felt I started to feel differently about him. He would open up and tell me things about girls he liked and other personal things, which was hard because I had started to develope feelings but I was his friend and so I 'listened'. He asked several times about meeting up again and reluctantly I agreed. Not because I didnt wasnt to see him but because I was worried about getting any deeper feelings for him...He cancelled on me tho. He disappeared again. About a week later he returns and asks if I want to meet up. We did meet up and again it was great. The difference this time was that I knew right away when I saw him how I truely felt and my heart sank a little because at no point did he make me feel like he was interested. Then he disappears again....He's an aquarius and I'm a sagittarius. Aquarians seem to be able to make you feel like your special when really they are no different with anyone and it can become confusing.

I'm an aquarius male
by: Dahron

To: Pisces waterbaby,

The answer to your question is "ify". You made the first step and letting him know that you like him, good for you, because he would have had you guessing for a million years lol. Don't get me wrong, aquarius' are great at making friends, we are "humanitarians", just don't try to double-cross them, thats when you should watch out, because we have a very tempremental side, and we will do a complete shut down. If an aqarius see's you as being emotionally attatched, then he may tighten up, and get detatched, because we are emotionally detatched. You have him so far, just don't keep persuing the issue at hand, take it easy, because we are very independent, and selective on who we let into our lives. I mean Aquarius and Pisces is a very good match, but remember this.......he'll have to show more emotions than usual towards a Pisces, and that's going to be where problems may come in, because once again, we are emotionally detatched. If you made it this far with him, hold on a little while longer, he may have a change of heart.

Word of advice, follow his lead, stay friends as long as you can, because we love our freedom, and we are outgoing. An aquarius is more likely to be in a relationship with a person he considers a buddy, don't rush it, because we are known to be QUITE SPONTANIOUS ;)

Listen to his ideas, if he offers you something, dont try do the same in return, because that's competition for us. He offers because that makes him feel better as a person and the SPONTANIOUSNESS may kick in. Let him make the final decision.


Oh, and the reason he keep's catching your eye, again and again is because your attracted to his intellect. Between me and you, if you two do happen to be together, ther will be an UNUSUAL INTIMACY that both of you will enjoy. We are adventurous, and like to try new things.

Hope I answered your question.

my 2 cents
by: Anonymous

@2nd pisces lady : how could you just 'turn your pisces things' off in front of your aqua boy? is he that important, your soulmate, your half life or whatever you watersign feel about him? i mean come on, you deserve to be loved and treated as a real pisces from your partner!! i really just dont get it..

@saggi chick : its a common story that aqua-saggi are trapped in this kind of platonic situation.we can see that aqua and saggi best traits are their playfulness, independence, and friendship. thats the problem i think. me as aquarian see this problem (been there done that with my saggi best friend),from my point of view, that im affraid im lowering myself when i choose romance over friendship. but i see its not fair if i dont tell my saggi friend about my feeling to her. from your post you give me that an idea that PERHAPS i should tell her AS A FRIEND of how i feel.

taurus/gemini cusp girl
by: Anonymous

i am married to a gemini, his best friend is an aquarius. my marriage is ok, and i would never consider doing anything with my husbands best friend but...i am just curious what my husbands friend thinks about me. if we are alone together for any reason he rarely talks to me. i am kind of shy around him, i am usually quiet to begin with. but he seems to find an excuse to touch me when saying hello or goodbye and always seems to notice what i am doing and makes comments like how quiet i am. the other night we were all out together and he wanted me to dance with him but i said no, i thought he was just joking, anyway he seemed ok with it, but then he danced with another girl and ignored me the rest of the night, i am just uncomfortable with the whole situation and wonder if i am sending him the wrong signals or reading his signals wrong.

scorpio female aquarius male
by: scorpio cougar


I met this man 6 weeks ago he came on very strong at first we dated 2 times times in the first week chatting and texting then he became very illusive literally no texts and do response to mine ...whatever ... i just stopped texting and life goes on then out of the blue makes contact again on the telephone texting wanting to hook up ..i think but never really saying so confusing and dam frustrating on this goes till now he starts texting again and i just say look here is what i am doing here is were i will be if i see ya i see ya ...and walla to my surprise he shows up and now back again to NOTHING. Its absolutely insane. I am very attracted to this guy and honestly each time i see him i like him more ...when he stops texting i delete his number and really just get on with life thinking he is not going to text again and he is just one big pain in the butt anyway ...and he does and it
surprises me because we will be right in the middle of fairly intense interactions ...the bang? Oh he is also 14 years my junior i am late 30's he is early 20's just to mix it up a bit ...I AM CRAZY this i know. can anyone help sort this out for me?

in addition.
by: scorpio cougar

Oh just wanted to add that we never did hook up in between when he was texting and "eluding" to hooking up i felt wasting my time i kindly ...well not so kindly told him to basically go to I also have told him to go to hell another time (in a more polite manner) when he made a plan then changed it at the last minute ...considering it was his idea and I had to adjust my schedule the literally i am walking out the the door and bam...almost every interaction ends with me telling him where to go ...he does not even seem remotely phased by it ...never brings it up and we just carrying on like i am not crazy...the crazy thing is that when we are together its so great ...I dont think i have been afraid of a man in my life ..but this one scares me... addition
by: scorpio cougar

not sure but my other post vanished...i wanted to add that We never did hook up when he was "eluding" to it and he did again just stop texting and i did also stop texting but only after i told him exactly what i thought with a few choice words...and he seems completely not phased by this ..never brought it up and another time as well ...i also in much politer fashion told him to stick it but that was after he came up with this crazy plan ..and i agreed then at the very last minute he "changed his mind" i had to make adjustments in my schedule , he did apologize and i had to make it clear that i do not just sit around waiting for him to call me all day i am very busy if he makes a date i have to make room for him infuriating..however the crazy part is ..that when i am with him ...i am so stupid and giddy and totally smitten and so is he ..what a mess.

Leo woman and Aquarius man???
by: Anonymous

About 11 years about I saw this young man who for some reason or another he stayed on my mind for years to come. Well about 8 months about while entering a local bar there he was with mutual friends. I was in all to see the guy who I from time to time would think about. We were introduced and that night we exchanged numbers. At the time we were both in relationships so we would have casual conversation. Two months into our friendship he broke up with his girl and a month after I broke up with my guy. I began to see a possibility with him but I could not read him. Things he said didnt match his actions and I began to feel like he was just playing games. Well around christmas time I had him along with other friends over for a party and ever since then things have progressed with us. More recently we spend a lot of time together (about 5 times a week) together. But I still dont have an understanding of where he is emotionally and if he sees a future with us. We have yet to consider ourselves a couple so we say we're friends. Im not sure what to think but dont want to overwhelm him either. What should I do? Do he care about me? Any advice would be great....

aquarius sun capricorn moon
by: Anonymous

This aquarius likes me. I wonder why.
I'm not mysterious. He probably thinks i am. I don't really know him. He gets nervous around me and ignores me in group situations. Shy character. He appears cold and i feel him staring at me from a distance and i shiver. Lol. He's very smart. He inspires me with his views. He can read my mind :| Lol.
He always seems to be there. ALWAYS. It's weird. He keeps me in his sight and stares at me. It's creepy. I look at him and then he looks away and continues talking with his buddies and then glances at me.
He made a fool of himself tryna impress me the other day...i managed a smirk ha
He seems nice...he hates being ignored and confrontations. Trust me. He's stubborn. Eugh.
He asks my friends about me. < My friends told me. He wants to know everything about me. Creepy.
He's distant which is good. I value my space.
He wants to be friends first right? I hope so. It would be weird.

I'm Aries
Libra Moon

by: J-Lorella

I am a Pisces gal and I know this aquarius guy. Initially, I didn't think much of him but after a while, I suddenly got the feeling that he is a very important person to me.

I am usually chatty but when I talk to him, I couldn't talk much even though I really want to talk to him. And he doesn't talk much too. So it got really awkward. Sometimes, we ended up staring at each other because we run out of things to say.

Whenever we saw each other in school, we will talk a bit but after that, he kept staring into my eyes for much longer than normal people would do. I don't know what that means?

There was one time in school that I saw him from a far distance, he was in the middle of doing some big action while talking to his guy friends. And when he saw me from a far distance, he stopped immediately in the middle of his big action and kept staring at me. What does this means?

The last time I saw him was during a school dance event in club. He talked much more than usual to me and he was standing rather physically close. I like that. After he finished talking, he continued to stare at me. When I notified him about me leaving the event, he looked disappointed. I am not sure whether this is because he is under the influence of the drinks. Does being drunk lower the guard down of a aquarius, i.e. does he show his true feelings when he is drunk? During this event, I feel different for him but does he feel the same way too?

Unfortunately, i don't have the chance to see him because he has graduated. I don't see him online too. Is there anyway to improve this friendship to a good friend status? My friends keep telling me to give up but I just couldn't. My heart has a strong feeling that he is important, though I don't know why. for an Aquarius man...
by: Anonymous

Wow, I work with this hot, sexy, fun; Aquarian...he caught my eye the moment we met. He is very friendly and funny. However, I have notice that he makes an effort to talk to me when no one is around. Recently, like today, I noticed he would not make eye contact with me when we were talking business alone in his office. However, later when there were several of us talking he made every bit of eye contact he could with me. Is this guy shy? Is he interested? Or do I just make him uncomfortable? I have not come on to him, I have not said anything, nor have I flirted with him. Remember, I am a cool reserved Virgo on the outside and smoking hot Virgo on the inside. What do you think?

How di i Know if this Aqua really likes me or we really are just friends
by: Leo falling for Aqua

I met my Aqua on line about 4 months ago. we started emailing and have a ton in common. we also became intimate very quickly via email and text. We decided to meet. He tried to back out at the last minute but he ended up meeting me anyway. we had a good tiime together and were intimate. He then avoided/ignored me for a few days. I contacted him and told him that the personal part of our friendship was pretty much toast, but that his is brilliant at his profession and I still wanted to work with him. (we are in compatible businesses and can share clients.

This has been going on for about 3 months and we talk every day either via phone, text or email or all in any one day - weekends included. we both initiate but I do much of it. Conversations are both business and personal. We work together fantasticaly and we also have discovered even more things/attitudes/likes /dislikes etc we have in common personally.

He si going on a two week trip and when Ijokingly said that he was going to miss me he got ruffled and said that we arejust friends. Not sure what to think.

Why aquarius sun cap moon behave coldly
by: Cancer gal

Hi Aries lady(libra moon), I had the same experience with aquarius sun capricorn moon. I have known him at workplace for more than 1 year. The constant stares.. I always catch him staring at me. Coming over to sit at my table during lunch, staring at me during lunch! Blushed when I caught him. Got jealous when I talk more to another guy at lunch. He showed signs of liking me, finding chances to come talk to me over trivial matters etc. A few times he upset me he also came to "pacify" me. He has a serious nature to him, he does not engage in trivial talk. He often smiles very happily at me..and when we go out for whole staff retreat in April this year, he came to look for me one-to-one! As a cancer girl, I am cautious, but sigh I am also moody.. sometimes I am moody to him, but I will apologise and patch things up..

But, I cannot understand him. I asked if he sensed something special in our interactions (through email), he said he does not know what I was refering to! He has left for 1 year for studies. Sigh. I think I should give up? Can anyone shed light on this? I just want to know why he behaved he liked me (my virgo best friend with Aqua husband thinks he likes me too), yet when I asked him he replied so coldly? Any feedback is welcome. I just like to know the truth. Thanks alot!:)

aqua male disappearing activity
by: Anonymous

I'm a scorp and I have been dating this aqua male For two months things move very fast with us, the first time we meet we both were blown away with each other, he wanted me and. I wanted him.we slept together on our first date,, now all I read it said that sex takes a while, but with us it didn't and it continues every time we meet, we talk three to five times a day, I was developing deep feeling for him and I told him he disappeare for one evening, back next day like nothing happened, I did not asked what happened, did he freak out, how can I tell what he's feeling without asking directly?

by: Queen

ima [VIRGO]
women and have been earring this Aquarius man for 3mounths at first we where just friends that turned into bestfriends now we are finnally a couple as one after all the times of me wanting to be with him ilove him so much and I know he likes me a lot to but now I wounder even tho he says hel never hurt me i still have doubts because iv been hurt befor I wanna believe it with my heart that he would never hurt me but its hard to trust like he just got a cell phone turned on but when I text him he dont text me back right away Sometimes he dont text me bk for 3 holiest latter does that mean he's cheating on me because we dont live in the same house but i wanna know could if be that he's cheating or what PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME TO UNDERSTAND IMA VIRGO WOMEN...

plzzzzzzzzzzzz helppp !
by: ms .pisces

Okk , I'm a pisces female born on feb. 20 and I'm in love with this aquarius male born on jan.26 , imet him 3mths in 2days aqo , we never had sex because of me ijst wasn't ready but the first niqht we spent time together he walked in told me I was beautiful laid across my bed then he kissed me next thing you know he went down on me after that day he went away for like a month because he had did jail time then iseen him again he kissed me ithink imake his dick hard but anways iwanna know is he in love helpppp or do he jst want me for sex he blows my mgs box up when he's not at work .

another fish in love with an aquarius
by: lovephish

I am a fish too going through the same thing with an aquarius I've been reading all night and I have also come toglobal the conclusion that I am being to "pisces" as well.. I read in an article a second ago that said that I need to start thinking logically not emotionally with him.. I found a few sites that were a big help. And I know now that its not me...he's distant and often Appears to be moody. As a fish I absorb this and can't help but take it personally..that's the key I guess is to let that vibe roll off your are some sites i found EXTREMELY useful..I hope they help you as well as fish we are patient kind and understanding and from what i've read these are the most important traits one needs to have in order to deal with an aquarius good luck k ladies :)

Aqua guy friend!
by: LibGal

Hi all! It was great help going through all the comments. I have an Aqua guy friend who I know since 3 yrs. As far as I know him I've observed (I might be wrong) that Aquas take people who care bout them for granted. If u give lot of attention to an Aqua guy and show him u care, he'll start expecting that attention and care all the time. Its like, if they need u to be there u better be there. And when they expect u to leave them alone, u gotta do that too. Sad part is they don't do it purposely. So if u get angry bout it they will only get confused. They are like small kids who like it when someone understands them. But its difficult for them to realize one basic thing bout relationships: EXPECTATIONS!! They just don't realize that people expect them to understand too.
I asked my Aqua friend: Why don't u share ur feelings openly?
His answer: Because I'm not sure if the person that i want to share my feelings with will value it!
So there.. They want to let u know their true feelings, but simply choose to hide them because they feel they'll get hurt. They take a lot of time to put their trust in someone. But once they start trusting u, u'll definitely see the difference. I know my Aqua friend better than any of his girlfriends have. Because he trusts me and shares his feelings with me.
All the best to everyone who're dealing with an Aqua! U're going to need it.. :-D

My brother & 2 best male friends are aquarius take note
by: Anonymous

Aquarius' are very aloof. They perserve themselves with those who are rational, humanitarian and wise, and witty. My brother is by far distance with certain females, and so is my two male friends. All you can do is 'prove' to them that they can see you as more than just platonic.. This involves just being and doing 'you'. They love independent minds. They can detect from a mile away when your trying to get in their heads and hearts. They just want a real person, and then they will invest their time into your relationship. You have to get on well with their friends and family. That's a must! You must not acknowledge their attraction towards you, as they are always in their heads, and it feeds their imagination, & not the reality. It's better that they 'think' about you privately then openly! Don't question them just listen and talk in a wise fashion. And most importantly just be u. If all else fails or doesn't progress, then it wasn't meant to be.. Just be friends, and be a strong foundation for yourself.. As you never know they may come back.

aquarius boy & gemini girl
by: Enigma

I'm a gemini girl.There is this aquarian guy whom I had a lil crush in high school,but he dint even knew I existed.That thing ended there.But fortunately I saw him on fb yearsss later,so I added him up.Both of us are single recently.we bcm good frns.This guy n me started talkin in fb chat but that increased to 2 hours on the phone straigh,when he gave me his no saying i sud call him up somtimes..we share lots in common n laugh together alot.once he said he was inspired by me and is able to gt out of the past reltn bcz of me.Im not sure if he likes me or he's just flirting.When i say stop flirtng he says whether u beleive or not..accept or not buti've fallen for u and wud love to be wid u.But im not sure as he alwz jokes around n makes stories to make me feel better.but i've kinda developd this small but serious feeling for him.He does disappear smtyms, but i give him his space to cum bak.n when he does he'll all cute n intellect type.But i dnt know if i sud take this frnshp we have to another level as we have not even met.I beleive any1 can say sweet thing while chatting.He says we sud meet up in our homtwn in feb, bcz its his birthday 4 days after valentines day.i dnt think i'll be able to make it to my hometwn this tym.dnt knw wht sud i do.he is quite friendly wid evry1 n says in his university there are girls who tryn flirt wid him.But says whn my hrt is smwhr else how can i flirt wih other girls jokingly.i dnt knw its its joke bcz i feel so.But he does care for me.n is concernd if i had my dinner or not, asks me to study hard n stuff.Im not sure the lovable talk is wid me only or evrybdy else.I confused if its flirt or he has truely fallen for me as he says it.He hasnt poroposed me by saying "i love u" but he has already said he wud love to be wid me n says his feeling is much more than just liking as a frn.But i dnt think he's serious he might say the same thing to every othr grl, as he's so popular among girls. So idk wht i sud do? I dnt understnd if i sud let him do things his way, let him take the lead, if i do so i hope i wudnt be waiting all my life as he's an aquarian after all.I read this aquarius guy and gemini girl have a good life ahead,they are compatible n stuff on the horoscope thing.Neither do I want to lose a person who can make me laugh, have so much in common n not bore me evn whn we tak on n on.But the main thing is i dnt want to have a broekn hrt at the end of the day! Please suggest whether its love or just flirt!

I don't think I should be interested...
by: Cancer

I'm nineteen years old, and I met this Aquarius man who is twenty-five about six months ago. He is in the military and worked with my mother, and has been asking her can he go out on a date with me three times I thought he was joking, and couldn't believe it since I thought he was marriedd. He stopped asking because my mother refuses for me to be with someone like him because she says that he's engaged to someone who worked with him, but she moved somewhere else because of her job, and has a son by a different woman. This Aquarius man talks about me at work, and everybody knows this. One time I was invited to a going away party, and when he went to tell me goodbye he just shook my had and everybody teased because they said he was being shy, was he really? My mother has invited him along with other people she worked with over during the holidays, but he doesn't really seem like he likes me because he's distant, maybe he's just "playing it cool" ever body teases us saying he my "my man" even though he's really not. The last time he came over my house me, him and a few others were playing cards, he sat next to me and he helped me out the whole time since I didn't know how to play, and I won almost every time, afterwards he stayed sitting next to me I'm not really sure if that is a sign, maybe he didn't feel like sitting anywhere else? After it was time for him to leave I put my arms around his neck and we hugged each other tight. Since then he's asked ME to be friends with him on Facebook, which I noticed the girl he's suppose to be engaged to is not friends with him on Facebook anymore, but he could end up getting back with her, because he's chosen to be stationed (living) where she is. Anyways we talk sometimes on Facebook, and since I've started my first day of College and have my classes during the evening and I have to walk home/catch subway, he told me that "If you ever need me to walk with you at any time hit me up" and gave me his number, which I thought was so sweet. I know its wrong to be interested in this man, but I can't help it because I am. Should I stop talking to him? I'm only trying to be his friend not his girlfriend, that way maybe one day we could end up together...

by: Anonymous

Well im a gemini girl and I meat an aquaruis man about 3 years ago, we started off very good as freinds and by thewaywe met at a vacation, and were from different cities. So, after we got home wecontinued talking on line and wen smoothly as friends for about 2 years, and all of a sudden hestarts flirting, so I take it as a joke and dont pay much attention. Then after a little while we have an intense conversation and he talks about his ex gf and why he left her. I knew about it but I play it like I dont. At that time I had a huge crush on guy at my school, and when I try to tell him about it but he thinks I like him! (The aqua guy) anyway, he seems excited so I tell him a little more, andsuddenly he doesn't wanna listen anymore. We have a little fight and I leave. Eversince it started getting complicated. I was heartbroken bec the guy I liked liked someone else and the aquaruis man was always starting conversations, like all the time. Sometimes he would say the most meaningless shit and go away. And this one time he was upset, I was trying to make him feel better I told him dont worry I get that mood all the time, he was like u get it because of that guy u love! But I get it for another reason. I couldn't believe he talked about him again, atthat time I had already gotten over the school crush, but I didn't tell. The last time we talked about him was 3 months before that! So I was really ahocked. Anyway, we contueed talking for a few weeks and he was always starting conversations, nd one time I did, and he was really rude and all like what do u want from me? A few days later I had to delete my facebook and that was the only way we could communicate, so I started a chat to tell him, and he was really rude again, so I just hung up on him and we never talked again since. That was about 6 months ago. I dont know if he liked me or not but I realized now that im in love with him. I've had crushes on other guys through these 6 months but I always compare them to him and I always end up thinking about and I dream about him alot. I think sometimes that I might never meet him again or that he might fall for another girl and it kills me. Can anyone tell from my story wether he liked me or not?

How to know if an Aquarius man likes you?
by: Anonymous

Ok so I posted a ad on craiglist looking for a downtown to earth guy. So o got several emails from weird guy so when my Aquarius men emailed me it was great. He was everything I was looking for so we email back and forth for 4 day. Then I gave him my number so it was great everything was a bowl of cherries! So then we agreed to meet up at his house for drink and music. So he canceled on me later that night I was so sad so we still haven't meet. And he tells me that I'm beautiful, he wants to meet but he's to scared cause I seem like a causal girl what ever that mean. So he i need help so bad cause I like him alot.

How do I know he really loves me..
by: Moon

I need a help can anyone of you help me plz,I am an Aqua girl and in love with Aqua guy but I did'nt show my interest first.I was just waiting for his first move for about an year but he was giving me some clues by sending romantic songs which I didn't get his what he wants to say.We both online on skype but did'nt talk to each other.He lives in Dubai and me in Pakistan.We didn't talk too much or not frequently.One day he said he wants to marry then I have asked him which type of girl he wants then he said it's better you be mine.I said ok,you have to talk to my family then he said sure,discussion ended.After 3 to 4 days later he said he loves me and wanted to kiss me and wanted to know my opinion abt this but I did'nt show my feelings that I love him too.Actually I was confused at that and don't understand what to say then I asked him he is serious or making fun of me.He said I'm not joking,then he go outside for some reason and discussion was ended.After 2 days I said to him that I want to say something and tell him about my feelings to him and I further said I want to marry with him.After listenning this he said let me think....It's abt a month but he did't say anything and quiet but he used to come online daily,we both see our status online but didn't chat,yesterday I was decided that I will asked him what's the problem with him then he told me he is youngest in the family and his elder bro is also unmarried.He asked his parents abt his marrige but they want to settle down his bro first,he further said he is tension and tired being alone.After that he asked me when you are going to marry.I was shocked abt his question then I simply replied when Allah commands.......I don't know what to do plz help me what to do sholud I contact him,move forward or should wait for him or talk to him straight forward that I really love him????plzzzzzzz help me


I'm a scorpio women and consider by many people very sexy and funny. I've lived and visited many countries and I believe that makes me interesting. But my aquarius male makes me doubt all this about myself. I'm falling head over heels for him and I think he likes me as well... but he left for a month and did not call or text. When he returned and can to where a work to see me and said that he missed me, I then said "really, then why did you not text me just to say "how are you".. he said that he was so sorry that he was busy, then he said sorry again that there was no excuse for him not contacted me to tell me what he was thinking.. sex is wonderful between us.. mind blowing... he said that from now on he well text me when he is out of town, which is often due to his line of work.. should I belive him or is he seeing someone else during his trips away? He swears he does not fool around and that he do not have sex just to have sex, I want to believe him.

aquarian-pisces trouble.
by: cancer girl

Ive know this aquarian for a while now. He tells me he likes me to everyone elsr but not me. Im confused, i do like him too but mind games are a complete turn off for me. Im actually presenttly in love with another pisces guy but i dont understand why i always have to compare them both. Or maybe im yrying not to be too in love with the pisces because im unbelivably in love, head over heels with him. Hes always inmy thoughts but then the aquarian guy pops up. I dont undetstand why. Helpful words pls. Ps : Everyone seems to also be i love with my pisces, recently some aquarian girl tried to break us up. Thats just to mention a few.

Ugh!!! Stuck on an Aquarian Male!!!!!
by: Aries Female

I have fallen hard for a strong and solid Aquarian man. It has been a year and a half, we spent 5 mos together--had a close connection immediately but he went home after getting out of the military and I had to go to another state--due to work but I have NEVER been over him. I have dated others--Libra, Capricorn male (yawn), Cancer (nice but I am not servile enough), I kept in touch with my Aquarius throughout--except for when I would throw a tantrum over him moving too slowly and would spew angry words and cut him off. He was always there when 6 weeks later I would contact him. We are politically polar opposites and we have always been opponents in those hours long conversations but we both always come back for more. Lately, he has been MUCH more proactive and even checks in! I am in CA and he in Nebraska and I can barely stand it (as has been the case from the get-go) and this round it seems he can't either. He keeps mentioning plans for the future with hints of me being there--but won't come out and say ANYTHING. He gets mad when I try to "pull feelings out of him" and says if he is talking to me when he talks to very few that should be enough for me to know how he feels and if I don't get it then I am not as sharp as I seem. If I love someone I say it! No one ever has to wonder how I feel--is it unfair of me to expect the same? I have no patience unless I see a chance. I still cannot let him go! I LOVE him but when do I call it? When is it time to let go? What are my indicators of progress with this brick wall of a man?

Aries Female/Aquarian male and the sex
by: Aries Female

Just to add, he needed some training but I was happy to oblige. I had the ideas, he had the willingness and power to satisfy us both. I miss it. He comes out and says he does too--he also has recently left me sweet messages (sweet for him) about how I have a lot of passion for the causes I care about and he admires that. He wants to be the shot caller and at times I allow that but he does not move when I want him to -- in any way shape or form and it is super frustrating! How do I win my lover? HELP!!! Any Aquarian males have advice for an Aries female who has such limited patience yet such boundless determination? I want no one else--he is it. UGH!!! The dilemna this poses seems impossible!!!

Is he my soulmate?
by: Libra girl, WY

So when I was a teen I met this boy, with the most beautiful deep look in his eyes, I met him through my brother. Now, almost 17 years after he has come back into our lives. I am now single, but was still with my husband when he reappeared. I found out he is an aqua and now I know why I never forgot those eyes :) We barely talked when my husband was still around, but whenever this aqua came around I could feel his eyes just following me everywhere, and I could see him doing it too. He would shake my hand and hold it longer than usual, joke around and stuff. After my husband left, this aqua and I lost contact for a few months, but reconnected and I told him that I had never forgotten him, bad move I know, but I didn't know he was an aqua yet, anyway, he said he had no feelings for me at all. We still hang out when he comes to visit my brother, we joke, he flirts, we've danced. Not too long as I was putting out the garbage he was standing in the driveway, saying he was sending my brother a text askin him a question, my brother was home too, why text him? He gets nervous around me, shaky hands and all. I really like this guy! Now he's asked me to help him with some work stuff so we spend a few minutes on our own now and then. I am very sensitive to what other people feel, and I feel him feeling for me, and I see it in his eyes too! I am good about reading people. Do you think he's actually into me?

by: Anonymous

Ive been dating oe hanging out one may call it with this aqua guy. We have been talking on and ogf for about 8months now. We really became close thred months later.. We have had sex several times,after we had our firsr sex encounter he called or text me everyday and we saw each other almost everyothe. r day. Now he acts aloof i may hear from him every other day or one/twice a week.. we may see each otger once or twice a month.. by the we work togeth
when we are together we connect well on mentall and physical level. he can describe in detail what i wear the colors and how i style my hair but yet and still he acts aloof.. i need advice should i just completely leave him alone or wait it out.. help please..

im an aries by the way

by: scorp fem for aqua man

so i recently became friends with this aqua male, we hit it off, ate dinner, hung out, and then we texted almost every day. 3-4 days ago he asked if we can slow down the texting and not have immediate communication, saying that if we were to date others, he doesn't want this texting thing to become the norm, bc whoever we're dating might not understand. he said that we should both guard our hearts. after that talk, i felt more comfortable with the aqua but started getting mixed signals from him like he'd butt in on convos i'm having with another guy or stare at me. i'm just getting really mixed signals from him that it's driving me crazy. what is going on?? even my friends noticed that he was aware of me in a group setting... i'm not sure if he knows i like him and that bothers him, or if he likes me. my impression from our talk 3-4 days ago was that he would never assume that i liked him....
what do you all think?

cancer girl confused
by: Anonymous

i'm a cancer girl aged 19 and the aqua man is 30 . he is the hottest man i 've ever met . tall ,glasses , french beard and always polite. we were chatting and i spilled out that i am bored would love to get casual with men and he kept pushing for a chance with him. i asked him if he had a gf and he snapped" its hurting me " !! he d has a a gf and still does. soon later i revealed that i have a crush on me. we texted each other for many nights and revealed a lot ! i really felt connected for the first time in my life.
he had called me to meet him as he said didnt wanted to meet his "judgemental friends" . i declined as i wasn't sure about my feelings for him .
after awhile he called me to meet him to give him "a new perspective" regarding his career choices. he was really confused . i became so self-conscious that i snapped " i don't know" . i could hold it and i instantly revelaed i was distracted . soon we were in a locked room in nude. he was too rough . yet we didnt had midst of our act he asked if i thought him to be loose "LOL . also said suhana is a rebel. i didnt reply . when he grabbed me i kept looking in his eyes and he accused me of getting emotional with him ..i kept saying no.offcourse i was !

i used to text him silly stuff which he acknowledged with no replies ! that hurt me . after a while i realised that i was in love with him and really longing to be with him and decided to stay off . made up my mind and blocked him on whatsapp. one day i accidently unblocked him and there it was ! his message ! saying " hii, where have you been " this really surprised me .

of course he won't leave his gf for me . yet i'm curious did i make any place in his life ?or is he the same all girls ?? i'm obsessed with him ,he is taking over my life .he is very fascinating ,and its him who got me into astrology . as i have no other means of knowing his true feelings .

Help with Aquarius guy
by: Ms Aries

I am an Aries female and I really like this Aquarius guy at my workplace. But I am quiet tired interpreting the mixed signals. I mean he keeps on teasing me all day through, can be quiet outrageous and irritating. I get really pissed off and when I do not play along to his jokes, he would try talking to me. He would talk and make fun at office but, you go out with people, he would behave like this is the first time he is talking to you. Am tired but, should I tell him - that I like him? Help!!

I'm confused, does he like me?
by: Anonymous Gemini

Hi, so I'm a junior in high school and a few months ago I met two aquariuses and they became a part of our group of friends. One of them had a big crush on my friend but she didn't like him back, and he came to me to talk about it and how hurt he felt and I always made him feel better and he would thank me. Then all of a sudden, he became very rude and mean and now all he really does is torment me and make me feel bad about myself by calling me "stupid" and telling me he never takes me seriously(we argue every time we talk). When it was my birthday and our group of friends were together, they all wished me happy birthday except for him and he just changed the subject. During the days he has been hostile towards me, I started getting really close to the other aquarius and he's always sticking up for me, and asking for advice(we've been alone a couple times too). He flirts with me and holds my hand on roller coasters but he has asked me for advice about my other friend before and how he thinks he might be in love with her. He also always casually mentions that we should hang out and that he would surprise me with lunch the next time we hang out. We have long midnight phone calls and he talks about his family and his problems with me. I'm so confused, my friends have seen us together and say we flirt a lot and my family even thought we were dating! Does he like me?

Confused HELP
by: Anonymous

Okay Met this Aquarius guy at work I ask him for his number and he gave to me. I noticed that I was the one that kept texting him he told me that he wasn't looking for a relationship he was just looking for friends and if I was cool that he was "that after that I text them every two days in each conversation last about 2 to 3 hours there were times when I would text him and he would tell me that he was just thinking about me. I started to notice at work every time I take my breaks he would be there to take the break right along with me and we work into different departments I asked him why he never ask me any questions he told me not to sound like I'm in uninterested asshole but it's because I kind a good idea of your personality already within this conversation he told me that his assessment was I was confident loyal understanding and curious a lot of girl should be like me I'm basically a sweetheart and I have a lot of potential we work together at the last week Sunday he basically was flirting with another girl in front of me but I completely ignored it then he leas without saying bye I text him at 12 o'clock at night to see if he was up he said he was we started talking about relationships and how I view them he been basically told me just like you taking interested me I take an interest in someone else and it isn't fair to you. He then replies to say I hope that answers all the questions you may have about me. I reply yup. He then goes to say wow one worded sentences ouch. I say I just don't know what else to say. He says just keep smiling every time you see me. So now I'm super confused did he like me because he was definitely sending me mixed signals

Does he like me
by: Gemini girl

I know this aqua man for over a year. We never talk but I always catch him looking at me when I'm not paying attention about him. Last month he came to talked to us when I was sitting with a coworker and he kept staring at me when he talked to her. I decided to be friend with him so I sent him a friend request on FB. He didn't accept it but he came down to hang around when I was on both break. Oh, I forgot he always try to see me as he can but just looking from far away. Our company is letting people go in his department. I worried so I in box him but he didn't reply. I'm wondering he likes me or not. Anyone can tell me, pliz?

Older libra woman in crush with younger Aquarius male
by: Anonymous-libra

I can't believe I just wrote that as my title but it's true. So at the risk of sounding like a horrible person I am an unhappily married libra woman. My husband is Capricorn and complete opposite. We have not been intimate in more than a year and cannot go a day without a verbal disagreement. Enter an Aquarius male who I've known almost two years and see daily but have talked to really very little. We work for same large company and he actually struck up conversations with my husband which is how I came to spend more time than in the past around him. Out of nowhere I hit on a topic where we intellectually found common ground and since then we email and text back and forth all the time. He is also married and has shared areas of frustration with his wife where he keeps trying to work on such as her jealousy, insecurities, attachment. He has said to me that he can't believe how connected we seem emotionally and mentally. When he experiences things of interests he will call or text to tell me about it. But some of this meeting of the mind seems typical for an Aquarians make and my being older I am worldly. Although he seems mentally my own age. How do I know without asking and running him off if he's interested or if he's just being a polite Aquarius? I did tell him a few days ago that I didn't want to make him uncomfortable but our conversations have me smiling for no reason and I enjoy our talks a lot. He replied it's been good to talk to me too and get some stuff out. Ugh what does any of this mean?

we could have it all aqa!
by: gemini girl

hi am a Gemini girl and meet acquires guy online a year before, we become friends and he started to like me a lot, told me he loves me a lot, and he came to my city and stay for a month with me, then he go back to he's home town, as a Gemini I ignore him first as I already now he wants to be quit, as all the comment above , he continue being acquires ,then one of those crazy days for me and ask him if he have a feeling for me as I have . coz I hate waiting for no reason if he was playing with me. it was really hard for him to answer to me but he told me that he new I have a feeling for him, so I block him from all of my contacts coz I want to move on with my life. naw we are not friends any more, wish he dare so we cud have beautiful life. started clean up my shit and be with leo, he now's how to spoil me n I now how to satisfies him. I think I did d right thing because, seeing him every day was really make it worst.

by: Anonymous

I met an Aqauarian man who has been working on renovating my new restaurant. We have spent the entire week working side by side to bring my vision to life.
When we were done, I wrote a card expressing my gratitude for his contribution and how emotional I felt with happiness.
I got an about face from him! I am 52, this is crazy!! Now I am mad and hurt. He has even had dreams about the restaurant, we talked all day and every day about everything..when I expressed that I hated it to end and wished he could stay and help me run it..he ran the other way.
I am a Virgo, I express my emotions..I certainly did. Not expect him to move from another state to help me run a restaurant! So frustrating!

Aqua man and aqua girl
by: Aqua girl

We both were good friends. Infact we know each other from college days but just hi bye friend during those days. After my college I went for my higher studies to another state while he took up a job in our city. We used to call each other just to say hi and hw r u kind of stuff! As friends we go for biking and stuff but It all started when showed some intimacy towards me. As another aquarius I know he is really being a good friend which I am also doing. We go for long drive and talk nonsense stuff too which I usually do with girls more. But I am really confused whether he is really interested in me or just that guy thing about fantasies. He started openly touching and hugging me but I stay calm thinking he is just being friendly. I am basically afraid of showing intimacy even though he is nice person. The funny thing is I have started feeling close to him and he is sitting on my head for 24/7 now. One way I like it but sincerely speaking I am afraid too!We know each other for past 7 years. What can I do now? I do not want to ask him either because once we were talking late night. I never felt like a friend talking to me but more than that some one who wants to share his feelings! I know he is still not dating any women. and I am the only women he has as a friend! You know my problem is I really don't know what is going on!! I have stopped texting him and switched off my mobile and he also has stopped texting( some way it is relief in pain but)! Have got any Idea what this is????

Aqua man and aqua girl
by: Aqua girl

We both were good friends. Infact we know each other from college days but just hi bye friend during those days. After my college I went for my higher studies to another state while he took up a job in our city. We used to call each other just to say hi and hw r u kind of stuff! As friends we go for biking and stuff but It all started when showed some intimacy towards me. As another aquarius I know he is really being a good friend which I am also doing. We go for long drive and talk nonsense stuff too which I usually do with girls more. But I am really confused whether he is really interested in me or just that guy thing about fantasies. He started openly touching and hugging me but I stay calm thinking he is just being friendly. I am basically afraid of showing intimacy even though he is nice person. The funny thing is I have started feeling close to him and he is sitting on my head for 24/7 now. One way I like it but sincerely speaking I am afraid too!We know each other for past 7 years. What can I do now? I do not want to ask him either because once we were talking late night. I never felt like a friend talking to me but more than that some one who wants to share his feelings! I know he is still not dating any women. and I am the only women he has as a friend! You know my problem is I really don't know what is going on!! I have stopped texting him and switched off my mobile and he also has stopped texting( some way it is relief in pain but)! Have got any Idea what this is????

Im a Virgo dating a Aquarius man
by: Anonymous

I know my aqurius man likes me, when we go on dates it shows, the second we are apart is when he drifts away. he seems to play these games on the phone, one day he will talk for hours on the phone and we could be together. We live a mile down the road but he'd rather be home on the couch than to be with me? Does the is mean he is not interested. He says he wants more, and I think we finally went to the next level as in a relationship and not just friends. He says will go on a date soon, its been weeks. Then I won't hear from him in days, ill text him and he'll say where have you been and start to text me and call me but as soon as I think we are getting close he detaches himself. He never expresses his feelings. How do I get him to open up to me. How do I not nag him to get him closer to me?.

by: Anonymous

Hi I'm a Pisces and my boyfriend is an Aquarius. I think very highly of him and care for him, but there is am complication. He has an ex who he claims to not like but they still talk and stuff okay I don't mind or use to not but this chick doesn't get it. She goes for anyone someone else likes. And in this case someone else likes him and he seems to like me. I mean we r about to get serious but just like him I'm scared he doesn't say he is but I can tell this is a big step for him. He talks about me moving in and getting married so he asks me please let us stick for a long time because he wants a future with me. But I'm scared that it is just talk. He has changed more from when we were first dating. He is more open with me and he seems to really not like this chick but I'm scared that when I tell him how I feel he does actually clam up. When I told him about why I was crying cause the girl that flirts with everyone was doing that and looked at me while she was doing it and he kind of got a little distant for like a halfway of a second lol but he still waited for me before we went to the bus Kissee and hugged and what was sweeter was that when he saw me pissed and walked back to him he just spreader his arms for a hug and he does get jealous when someone else first with me. Like his friend and I were just laughing so from across the to he calls his friend over they talk and his friend comes back I asked what it was about and hr told me he wasad and that he needed to stop flirting with me but where I'm opened about okay no I'm not opened when I'm jealous but still he doesn't come to me about these things so I never know if and what I'm doing wrong and yes he has made me meat his mom and step dad but its just like u said he is detached and i use to not care because I was too. I didn't look for the forever thing but he is confusing me and making me think that he DOES want the forever thing.u

Confused/frustrated with my aquarius
by: Anonymous

Ok im having the same problem too i met my friend at my job and soon as i seen him i knew that i liked him instantly just the way he had approach me by asking my name where im from and etc. Well we started to txt each other and it seemed like it was going well cause i was making him laugh and stuff and one day he ask me what do i want from him and i flip the ? Back on him and he said he wanted to be friemds for now until otherwise and im like yea ok will see about that and every since he ask me that ? And i told him i was feeling him he became distant from me to the point he stop texting and calling me for weeks and when i finally sent him a pic from fb sayin aquarius are good at ignoring people than he txts me bck like we been talking for the longest. Not only that we had got in an argument couple of times and he always tell me im not important to him and he shouldnt be important to me and he always throwing im my face that i dont know him and he doesnt know me, like all this really makes me frustrated because i really do like this boy but all at the same time i just feel like nothing to him and i hate that feeling...somebody please give me some good feedback plz and thank you means alot.

by: Anonymous

Hi I am a LEO Woman totally in LOVE with my best friend who is a TRUE MEANING OF AN AQUA. MAN. I have know my best friend for over 25 years, we got some separation due to certain circumstances of life. But about 1 year ago we found each other again. Allot of time has passed and I have had to regain his trust again but he is really making sweat for it. You see partly the separation that I was not there for him was me who put the distance, and I never knew he had feelings for me, I have expressed to him that I will never leave him again. We have managed to get through allot of turmoil's in this year, and I am here for him. Whenever I think we are moving further towards a relationship, he goes aloof on me. Even though I expressed openly to him that I LOVE HIM, because I could no longer keep it in. He accepted it and he have a sort of SECRET LOVER relationship, in front of every one we are the best of friends and we are really LOVERS. I need some advice because this is driving me crazy. I don't know what signals to read anymore. I know through his actions he has showed me he is definitely interested and he talks aloud sometimes and includes me in his future plans and my kids. So I know that he cares. But he is really making me run here and just when I think things are going relationship direction we seem to take a slow ride again. I am always going to be his best friend before anything and I have also expressed it to him. But I don't have time to waste in my life, running with these games. Sometimes I think he is playing me to have two or three others when my mind gets the best of me.
He has introduced me to some of his friends, his Aunt that means the world to him, his MOM, and allot of his family but I constantly get crossed signals. I am very careful not to pursue to quickly, but what do I do. As a Leo we are very passionate in showing our feelings to whom we LOVE openly, I have had to really settle back in doing that n
to to scare him off. But I am more than ready for the next step with him.

I would appreciate any advice.

Taurus gal.
by: I have a feeling he only sees me as a friend

A year ago a friend of mine introduced me to him. We did everything normally, that is , until recently I had broken up with my libra boyfriend for irreconciable problems. I admit, I felt lonely. He was there for me at the time. One day out of nowhere during lunch he hugs me really tight and I laid on his shoulder. Things have been weird since. I can't get him out of my mind hes the first thing I think about and the last thing I see before going to sleep. Just today same friend of mine(capricorn) tells him I like him and he responds," I'll consider it" but i dont know what it means.. plz tell me what should I do????

Aquarius man/Gemini woman
by: Anonymous

I have been dating an aquarius man for a short time now. We talk daily, usually several times a day.
But now it's only once a day. Im concerned he has lost interest in me already.
I know aquarius are independent and casual about most things. But as a Gemini! Communication is # 1 to me and he knows this. Im a pretty independent person as well. But this lack of communication is really getting to me.
Has he lost interest already? Or am I just too much?

by: Anonymous

They are so confusing,they give u mixed messages,does he like me or not,it drives me crazy,hes not talking to me just now,but i know deep down he really does like me,so my motto is,he knows were i am if he wants me, they run from emotions,and i have been his friend for 4yrs now,it drives me crazy at times

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