I slept with an Aquarius man, then he changed

I have a question! I met this Aquarius guy about two months ago. He was obviously interested and chased me for a month, I mean text messages all
day everyday. He's a little younger than me, so I wasn't really interested until about three weeks ago when I hung out with him again and my feelings began to grow. Since then we've taken it to the next level and, well, spent the night together.

The next day, he does a 180 and I hardly hear from him, its been a week and we haven't hung out since. I'm a Aquarius woman, so I understand the freedom thing, but I just want to know if he got what he wanted and is done, or just getting his own self-time back?? Then I can decide to wait
it out or move on!

Any advice????

Thanks!!!!

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Hmmm
by: David-admin

It's certainly possible that he's gathering his thoughts and doing the aquarian independent thing. It's also possible he's testing to see how needy or clingy you are.

Honestly though at this point it sounds more like his goal was just to get you into bed, with no intention of a relationship or anything further. Guys of every sign can be guilty of this, and women of every sign get fooled by it. If you can, look on it as a warped and indirect compliment - obviously you were so attractive to him that he felt it was worth all that effort chasing you.

I'd get ready to move on, and half anticipate him to become 'obsessed' with you again when he wants another booty call...

Ima sagg
by: Anonymous

Well by most male aquarious having this unpredictable mind.. You would never know what the're thinking. Now ofcourse the aquarious guy and the aquarious women are different. And guys fall short at a lot of things that us women don't.
now come on now we're talking about sex.. aquarious men take time to get to that point if he's really interested in you.They already know the're not interested in a person like that because the're good at reading people. And ima tell you if they hit it, he's out because thats all he wanted. But that also means that he is committed to someone else or working in that direction....and they are very experimental...

Comments are not totally true.
by: Scorp42

The comments that sex is all he wanted may not totally be true. The first time me and my aquarian beau met face to face we had sex. Of course we started as friends w/ benefits, but after we did that for a while we discovered that we liked each other's company. We it has been a year and a half now and both of us are in love now. I get the flowers, sentemental cards and great dates. We are the best of friends as well as lovers. It was a long hard road, but if it started with sex it may have been what you both needed. He will come around again and each time he does he will notice something else that interests him. Who knows.

I'll bring you up to date...
by: Anonymous

Thanks for the comments!
Let me bring you up to date now if your interested.
He eventually told me flat out that he didn't want a relationship but just to have fun with me. I'm not that kind of girl, so I told him I was out. Now he calls me every week or so to come stay the night but no sex. I let him one night to see if he meant it and we just had a good time talking and cuddling. He likes to tell me how perfect I am. And got pretty butt-hurt when I told him I dated another guy after him, and how he hadn't "played" with anyone since me. I get the feeling that he really likes me but is scared to death of a relationship, plus I'm a few years older and I think it intimidates him. I know his dad and he says he's never had a girlfriend before, and thinks he is insecure in that area. I also know he has slept with A LOT of girls though. Anyway, I don't ever contact him because I'm not interested in getting involved. Two weeks after I let him come cuddle, he calls me at 2 in the morning to stay over again. I told him no because I don't want to get attached, then he says kind of quietly, "I may just follow you and get attached too." And goes on to tell me how he's gotten his shit together. Then asks to go to breakfast the next morning which totally surprised me, but then never follows through. Honestly, I think his confidence lies in seducing and getting the girls, but he doesn't know how to go beyond that. Anytime we got into a situation that would require him to act like a boyfriend or date, he'd get totally nervous and his confidence seemed to go down the drain which I think really bugged him because he likes to feel capable. I'd like to know how he REALLY feels about me, but at this point, I don't worry too much what he does or says, I figure actions speak louder than words. Its too bad because aside from all this stuff we really could go good together.
After all this, does it still sound like he's in it just for play-time? Other than him I've never dealt with a guy who was in it for a booty call, I've always had the relationship type. I'm very curious for my future reference! Thanks!

stupid im not
by: Anonymous

wow I just experienced the same thing. I slept with my Aquarian male friend and he changed big time. He began texting "i miss you", "I love you", I'm thinking of you and no action....I told him It's gonna take more then those words to keep me interested. He also asks to see me we set dates and he always calls and cancels. I decided to move on because I don't like the games and the confusion. After I asked he stop texting and calling me that when he shows better interest but sorry its too late....

those are the aquarius men
by: Anonymous

i had pretty much the same thing , after i had sex with him , he said don't expect me to call or anything and i said yea me too every one of us could do what he wants and if you wanna have sex with some otheer woman u r free and me 2 , we got along and then we started going out together 1 day for sex and the other was for hanging out together and then he starts cuddling me after having sex and started sending me msgs like i miss you , i wanna c u , and then i fell in love with him and when i told him i love you he didn't say a word and then i stopped everything we had together and he started calling me again and saying i didn't wanna lie and you said you didn't any relationships between both of us cuz ur last aquarius bf has cheated on you and you didn't want another broken heart , and now you are asking for another relationship and when i though about his words i found it pretty much reasonable and made sense so we started going out again together and having sex again , but he started doing weird stuff like sending me msgs i don't want to talk with you or see you again and please don't ask me why ,so i didn't ask him however i wanted to know why and then he told me later that he thought i was in-dependable and he didn't feel that i need him and all the time i don't call him expect when i want to have sex or want to go and have some booze or something and he felt worthless,
after a while he traveled and he started talking to me again and sometimes he send me msgs saying that he misses me so much and he wish if i was near him at this moment and then 1 week after i started calling him and he is not answering , so i found out they don't want you to be needy only when they want you , you have the permission to talk to them otherwise you are not welcomed .,,,so treat them bad or forget about them,,they will remember you and vice versa

omg
by: Anonymous

This is sooo true bout the aquarius men.. If the y want u they will contact u, and find u in anyway possible… my ex boyfriend (whom I broke up with 13 years ago) still contacts me, and wants to see me.. n now I know I always have to play hard to get with him, and it turns him on ( soo weird) but we are not together because we are not able too.. ;) But, we enjoy each other to the fullest… and who’s to say when it will end……

It's killing me
by: Anonymous

So my situation is identical to the poster who stopped having sex with the Aqua except I'm still having sex with mine. Just like her, this isn't what I want. I want a relationship, not a f**k buddy. But I like him so much, we get along so well. The conversation is just as good as the sex but I suppose I'm confusing sex with intimacy. I mean, how can you have a meaningful relationship with someone who shows up sporadically? I wish he wanted to be with me but I guess he doesn't. I guess I know what I should do but ...I can't bring myself to break it off. Actually, I've tried and he just comes back--he's figured out how to manipulate me because he knows that I don't want to stop seeing him. ARgh!!

The torture is finally over
by: Anonymous

So I was the last person who posted. Anyway, he finally told me that he was hoping to get back with his ex and I immediately lost interest. Thank God. I was so tired of the bullshit.

Stay away from Aquariua man
by: Anonymous

Oh so true.Aq.guy chasing me sms,msn for 1 month.We meet and hit it off.A week later I go with him to "holiday house" 'alarms ring in my head- what is he hiding?We sneak around in there he says no noise so neighbours won't know we are there!!!Anyway the sex was awesome but since then not a call.I'm just going to ignore him seems to be what u guys recommend.I'm Cap. woman and used to loyalty and trust but...it's not going to work is it?He told me he doesn't want a serious relationship so booty call it is...well not me!!Buggar he's in my head.

Aquarius men
by: Anonymous

I to met an Aquarius man and we hooked up that night. Well I was so embarrassed that I let it go that far, but I had to much to drink. Well anyways I didn't give him my number, I figure it was a one night stand. Well about a week later it found me on the internet and asked if we could hang out again. So we have been, the thing is he hardly calls me. So he called one night at 1 am, and wanted to come over and have sex. So when he got there I told him after midnight was a booty call. He said no, I made a couple of jokes, and comments that he was a good booty call. He said is that really all I am to you. I don't get that because he is the one always stressing that we are just friends and I am not his girlfriend. Is he convincing me or himself? Well I rarely call or text him, I am not going to chase him, far to much pride for that. I was really into him at first, and I do like him but I decided to guard my heart a little better and not get attached. So now I am just waiting for his next move. If he even knows, but I refuse to make an ass of myself and pursue someone who has selective time for you.

Could It Be More?
by: Anonymous

Just like the last poster,, im ina lil relasionship like that with an aqua man,, I rarely text or call him, the last time i did he came and picked me up we had a goodnight together we didn't even have sex, but i spent the night with him. We haven't spoken since thoo. honestly i looked at it as an booty call i didnt expect a relasionship nor did i want one.. but i guess i kinda like him and i wanna see could there be something. I thot i was just sex but he dosn't treat me like it's just sex idk im very confused tho because i think theres somebody else in his life that he really wants to be with & im just a side chick or something like thatt.. should i just move on with life or should i check him out and get to know him better 7 see where it goes?? also i needed know does he want me to reach out to him cuz when i finally swellow my pride and texted he was like "I was wondering how long it was gunna take yu to hit me up?" I swear im confused lol.

Crazy Aquarius Men
by: Anonymous

I dated an aquarius man for a year and 5 months and he was full of contradiction and paradoxes. They want to spend time with you when they want to spend time and they are self centered soci-path with narcisstic behaviors. All women beware of them because they are shaollow minded smooth talkers that have nothing to offer but bull..... If you are in a relationship with one, dump him because it is never going to go anywhere. Oh, they love the disappearing act and come back like they were never gone. All woman deserve better than that little boy mentality.

I'm more interesting in you than.....
by: Anonymous

Hello I know you're into something with that guy,I hope you'll be better at knowing that kind of whore they are. I live with a whore who is an Aquarius male. WHORE no the caplocks didn't get stuck. The aquarian woman could be or could not be(a whore that is). More than likely with good up bringing and no dark malcontent she'll be a beautiful QUEEN. I hope you'll give an Aries a chance one day. Ciao!

In love with my aqua man
by: Anonymous

Any libra experience with the aqua man. Also how do u know if he (Mr. Aquarius)is just ingnoring me because of the simple fact that he doesn't know how to break up with me or if just plain like me.

How to do it...
by: Anonymous

You ladies, men of all star signs do the same thing, ring you constantly and text before they sleep with you and tell you all the things to make you smile. Well the guy I was chilling with was a Libra he did all of the above for a month and I haven't even slept with him because I knew the game. Lol he doesn't ring as much now because he thought he didn't have to work any longer for it, we also hung out together but when it came to the cinema date he bailed out. I did start to really like him and enjoy the banter, but was glad that i didn't have anything to loose, as i never slept with him. I told him we were just friends but we did kiss twice and there was electricity, however I didn't want to give in.So as he knew I wouldn't take it further he eased off the calling and texting, I thought if i had slept with him this is how he would of been and it would of hurt, but you have to put them to the test and you'll see they're true colours simple. I did use him for lifts but he couldn't use me! The thing is women let guys control them and become booty calls so men think they can have things their own way, when you feel uneasy it's your common sense saying leave it alone you deserve better, why you choose to settle for less I don't know. Men master the art of minipulating because they've done it so many times before and women always end up in some bubble of hope.

ummmm...
by: Anonymous

For all the ladies wanting a relationship,and settling for a F***buddy,stop! You re settling,no matter what his sign is,this is Tue rules that you have established and if he can't play by the rules,then he ain't worth being a player in the game.
I'm a sadge,and Im currently talking to an Aqua guy.The less I feed into his the more he comes running.I told him I love making friends,but if he wants to play games,at least make them challenging...in a sweet voice.I believe they are turned in by mental stimulation,so stimulate his mind first.Throw random things out there to find out what makes him tick,but make sure its done in jokes too,he seems to like that cuz it keeps him guessing...
And for the lovely lady asking the question,girlllll,let him look fine from the sidelines.I've seen his behavior in Aries,Virgo,sadge,Taurus,and leos...its not his sign,its called manipulation,and any man will tell you they'll take what they can get. If he talks a good game and no follow up,there's hope:he just goes intothe friend box (you know,the friend that you only talk to with one word sentences) til he grows up,and you go out there and find a MAN to talk to in the mean time.
Good luck and many blessings ladies

some men who are still just boys run at first bite!.....
by: Tigs

I don't intend to hurt your feelings but if you don't mind me pointing out the fact you did say he was "younger" than you which could indicate an imaturity agenda and not all cats are alike if you get my drift; But here's power to you for any guy you come accross, make sure from now on to ask what they want out of you be clear about it too, its ok to ask dont let anyone make you think its not cause if they object then they're most likely not worth your time, im just saying this cause i dont like to see people like you getting sucked into a situation such as this.

just be cool
by: aquarian dude

im an aquarius guy so i get it, and honestly it could be anything. maybe all he wanted was to hit it, or he is trying to hard not to pressure u, or he couldve just moved on... but if u just stay cool and unphased he might come back. u can alwase lure him back in too, send him a hot pic or a sexy text and he might not refuse. if you just let him have his freedom he could drift away too, but if he put in effort to get u, i dont think he would just dip out so fast and NEVER come back. just show him what hes missing and if he dosent want it dont force him and move on. (he may want you a little more just because u dont force him to do anything)

Leave Leave Leave!
by: Anonymous

I've been with my aqua male on and off for years, he always comes back and does all of the above.. I've recently fell out of love with him and I've now moved on. These men are not worth it. It's too much of a challenge and will leave u exhausted. They're a different creature from another planet they are not like us. If your having problems with an aqua male just leave, it will never change, they like to chase and not be caught and this will leave u with heartbreak over and over again. Know ur worth and know she it's time to leave. Don't loose ur pride and dignity. There is no better feeling than to walk away with your pride and dignity. It is liberating and believe me when I say u will get over him. They are like 3year old little boys no matter how mature they seem

Fun & Games
by: L

Like many of you have stated here before it's no surprise that I too am in the same boat. I have been seeing this Aquarius guy for more than a few months, but on and off. Sporadically I would say, when he wants to come around and see me. He was in jail and I did visit him once and write him during his incarceration which was not long. This guy made it seem like he really cared and even went on to write me that a "serious conversation was at hand" upon his release. He got out and it was all talk. Prior to his incarceration we had hung out and I was intimate with him. Which was out of this world do. It get me wrong. But I myself like to be kept interested in another person otherwise I will be bored and go running for the hills. I recently hung out with him and tagged along in his wild adventure. He told introduced me as his gf which put me off a little because I was unaware all of a sudden I'm that to you without my consent. It was nice but I don't understand these tests. I get the feeling I am just someone to merely keep him company and make him feel good at his own discretion. He told me he wants to be around more but he is going through some tribulations in his life and he can't offer much, which in turn I do not want anything but honesty at all times. I have gotten "I miss you" and "I want to see you" txt messages. He says he wants to stay in my life but I honestly do not want someone using me for just 1 or 2 things. I see goodness in everyone and i see goodness in him but it's just the fact that he is so wrapped up in living this certain lifestyle that I want no part in. He is nice and due to past broken attachments he had stated he is very distant because he does not want to go through it again. Honestly, I don't want to go through that either again because I too know what it is like. He has told me numerous times that he loves me, during intimacy as well, but I fear it may just being used in the heat of the moment. He "says" he respects me and cares about me because I see goodness deep down in him. He also stated that he "doesn't want to leave out of my life" but followed with "I'm not going anywhere and I know you are gonna keep me around". He Claims when he is not around he is not being intimate with other girls but I find this hard to believe. He has 3 kids by 2 different mothers. Another reason why I can't be with him like that. I too also have kids but not by multiple partners. I have never been the one to judge, either. But this guy is making it a little difficult. He helps me when he can saw do I in return but I can't decipher whether he is ginuinely sincere or if this is a game. He asked me if I love him and I said no simply cuz I choose not to get myself hurt but there are things about his personality that I love. He said he respected my decision and that hopefully he could sway my answer in time. I just don't see it happening anytime soon.

I am an Aries.

Be friend
by: Anonymous

I had similar experience with an aquarius man. But I think I handled it ok by Just treating him like my friend. If you think that your aquarius man does not like commitment, just say that you are the same. They will treat you as if they have found someone special. So simple lolll

Try to look at the world from his points of view and Accept who they are, let them be who they are. It's not hard to be with aquarius man.

Although I am a taurus girl (born in April) I never force or push guys to do anything. I want to do my thing he does his thing. When i go and visit him i watch his dvds and he go out to meet his friends. we talk about the our best sex positions or crazy girls/boys we met previously etc etc

When he is quite, i send him sexy photos, videos without words (He always asks me who took these photos and I don't answer loll). Usually He gets really exciting and call me to come to his place. I say yes, but then i cancel or never go . teasing him hard by saying I am with my mom tonight lolll

Just chill out and act cool, tease the aquarus man bad. Act like Cher when she was with Sony loll i usually make my cute aqua man asking me "am I your boyfriend?" Or "are you my girlfriend?" when he asks, I just laugh without answering the question. Lollll

Glad To Know I Am Not Alone...
by: Nicolina

I am a Sagittarius woman, and the same thing happened to me. I was dumped the day after sleeping with an Aquarius dude who was younger than me. What gives? He hasn't contacted me once since and never gave away any signs of being uninterested in me.

help !
by: Anonymous

okay so .. I'm only 15 & the Aquarius boy I slept with is 16 . I don't want any comments saying how young I am & how I shouldn't be having sex & lecturing me . that is what I have a mom for , I already know these things . but I am still human & a teenager & therefore I make a plethoric amount of mistakes . but anyway , I met him a a few months ago at a restaurant . we lost touch but somehow he found me on Instagram & ever since them we hit it off . we started texting ,calling and face timing eachother we would talk for hours . so finally we decided to meet up . last weekend we went on a date to the movies & we went back to his house where I spent the night . even though I told him before hand that we weren't going to do anything , we ended up having sex anyways . we cuddled afterwards & ate breakfast in bed the next morning & took a shower together . then his grandmother took me home . ever since this he has been acting different . I know this is a case where he probably got what he wanted & now it's a done deal . but yet I'm still hoping this is the whole he needs time to think freedom thing because I like him very much & I just lost my virginity to him . It's probably very unlikely but I do hope this ends in a relationship . I know we are still young & I'm not asking for something crazy like marriage or a very serious relationship but I do at least want to maintain some type of connection with him , without seeming thirsty . please help

aqua men lol
by: flvirgo

I've been having the same situation with an aquarius man as far as sleeping together, and the confusing messages...it started out as dating, and one night he asked me to leave after we had finished...i was totally pissed, and left in a hurry. we didn't talk for three months, and then he text me out of the blue as if nothing happened.

He's also constantly making and then breaking plans with me, which is so annoying...i've gotten to the point where i don't sit home and wait for him becuase 60% of the time there is a cancelation only hours before our planned hang out...

but the sex is good. wonderful even. after he asked me to leave the one night i was turned off by having any sort of relationship with a person who would act like this...so now it's just a physical thing and it works...for us. he's also from a different culture, five years older than me, and makes a good bit of money...yet in aquarius form has those intrevert bouts...i find open communication with him difficult, though i know he genuinely cares.

it brings me comfort to see i'm not the only one with this struggle.

Dont Freak Out And Chase Him
by: Anonymous

You have to let him come after you. Please stop Dont do it....texting, emails and no phone call. You hav'nt messed up if you gave him your candy....he will be back. BUT if you contact him at all, have attitude cuz he has'nt called you, you will blow it. Aquarius already loves there and most of them or attractive can pay their own way. Many women are attracted to these guys so that makes him hard for him to settle down. You have to stand away from the crowd, you're not a link on his chain, meaning be sweet to him whenever yiu talk or see him...but keep you're life GOING..hanging out with friends, whatever you are into do it
double time.If you chase him, purse him you LOOSE....

Confused and Drained Yet stuck on him
by: Love s a Miracle Sag Girl

OMG like amazing to see so many similarities here with my aqua guy..although not sure i can call him "mine". I met this mature (i think..at 41 u should b mature..n he seemed )aqua like 5 months ago. He chased me...emails. texts..sweet words..when we hang out it s awesome..pure bliss but he has disappearing acts n seems to not like to call..i think he is n love but afraid of a relationship since he s recently divorced..Im a sag girl wh louder than words n u should b able to devote time n care to a r..like calling at night..asking for date..sending flowers. etc..I dont know what we are..cuz after i slept w him..i thought maybe he just wants to have sex n then forget me..since he seems to be lacking in the emotional and communication dept. (he emaisl very few words)but no he still texts n emails..i was out of the country for a month n gave him my number so he could reach me aborad n that aquajerk did not ever call me so im so dissapointed n really want to forget he exists..but ofcourse he s n my head..i have also begun to think he might still b married n wants an "open" relationship..he calims his ex cheated n s the one who wants n open relationship but im not too sure..i investigated him since i have some ties to fed agents n he s still married although maybe his divorce s n process...i think he also has a gambling addiction..so sad n n n debt or lost everything to that..im confused , tired, drained mentally since after 5 months i kind of got used to his charm n he s smart n downtoearth..but reading all these posts n many others on others pages online has made me feel like he will never change or mature or emotionally develo..like i told him to..im mean 41 u should know what u want n b expressive ans proactive bout it..i love flirting like all sags but deep down im a romantic at heart n would never lure someone in n not care about that..i think he s a liar, a player..prideful n ive been reading about these aquas how they never forget 1st loves or exes n this is true as 2 former aqua bfriends still call n email me n are on my FB n always keep n touch n even suggest sexual things which i dont pay attention to but enjoy n try to value their friendship..so i wonder..all aquas arent the same but damn some of these posts are so similar to my bad experience with this strange martian of an aqua i seem to have gotten illusioned by..why romance u if u can't deliver?they really do seem like 3yr olds..i havent heard from him n 2wks n recently he sent me a interest in the online page we met..like i dont know it s him..so damn weird..i love drama n games but only on the moviescreen..im too impatient n old for all this nonsense..hoping that some other romantic interests will develop positively so i can get this aqua dude out of my head sooner..

Remember these
by: Slasherxaquarian

Just remember:
1. Have you done anything stupid?
2. Have you let him know your problems?
3. Have you made him do something for you?

If any of three happens, Voila! on the other hand, he was just experimenting on you subconsciously and you know, its never possible to get an aquarius man fully for yourself. ;)

But if you wanna get him back so much, a little advice - threesome. Chao

- An aquarius man

Same exp. as above
by: ericka

See I'm talking to an aquarius guy and we became friends and then started becoming something more. He asked me should he be catching feelings this fast for me so i explained you cannot help your feelings, so yes catch them. Also, we both got out of a relationship around the same time, and he was like the only person that could keep my mind of my ex. Anyway we went on a couple dates I would go over his house every weekend or anytime I would get the chance, we would hang out chill watch movies, we went to dinner, movies, orioles game etc. and then i started sleeping in his bed he tried having sex the first time, but i never gave in so like the 10th time i stayed in his bed we finally ended up having sex, so that was 3 months later, he still talks to me still to this day. I asked him what does he want from me and he stated eventually he would like it to be just me and him in a relationship; but he isn't trying to rush anything and then we rush in the relationship and then our friendship is done if the relationship ends.

the best thing to do with an aquarius is to build a solid friendship first and really get to know what type of man he is and the kind you want, because he expressed himself to me all the time and he only would do it late at night and we would be cuddling or just watching tv, so it all depends on the impact you put on him, and if you showed him how different you are compared to anyother female. Also, he let me stay at his house while he was going to work.

Dont even go there
by: Cancer girl

Aquarius men are the most complicated people ever. Before u even attempt to date anyone, first check if he's an aquarius. If so, just run. Its challenging, torturing and just plain exhausting. The one day they miss u so much and the next, without anything having changed, they forget u exist. They dont want u chasing after them, but they dont like initiating anything either. So u'll like start a text, and get all excited when u see he's ecstatic to hear from u, then the next minute they just disappear. Im tired and i wont do this to myself anymore. Two years is enough. But if u like a challenge, Go for it!!!

stupid aqua man
by: Pisces woman

I had a similar situation to the original post. We had been talking to one another for 5 months, and sleeping together for 4 months, he almost told me he loves me and I stopped him. He has me over every weekend we have sex most times alot of times we do not. We have great conversations, and the sex is phenomenal. I've met his son, and his friends all like me alot. However he just isn't ready for a relationship and I've told him I'm not one to sleep with men whom aren't my boyfriends. Now he is telling me that I am not allowed to sleep with anyone else but I don't have that commitment... seems dumb to me and unfair. I've told him I love him he never said it back, and we barely even talk anymore. Truthfully he probably doesn't want to love me but why the games? why ask for commitment and not give it? My friends say we have the relationship just not the title which I so crave. I'm not a slut or friend with benefit. I don't do that

crazy4aquas
by: Anonymous

Thanks goodness for all the info on these men. If it wasn't for the internet he would've been gone.

Let me just say..give it time. I met my guy online almost a year ago...we had sex on the first date. We literally were each others booty call. Then things these past few months have changed. We talk.. he is very open and honest with me about his past relations and we talk for hours. He is a sweetheart. We always have a blast and he has FINALLY admitted to liking me..but has asked me not to push or he will go the other way.

The only things I feel could be better is the communication between dates. I hear from him about once a week. But...that is how it started in the beginning...even when we just met. I hope with time...that to will change.

He always texts me I miss you..and he calls me his love. So I am hoping like the poster above that maybe within the next 6 months things will really get better.

This is my first aqua experience and I am one also :)

Just met an aquarius
by: Anonymous

So I'm a leo and I just met an Aquarius we have been talking for about a month he messages me everyday we are attracted to each other he told me he was not looking for a relationship I like him but I already know he's not looking for a relationship I've been celibate for a while now and I kinda wanted to have fun with him but I don't want him to dissappear if I do decide we can be friends with benefits :/ he has invited me out for a couple times but I always find an excuse not to go

I need some opinions should I risk it or stay away??

I slept with an aquarian man
by: Anonymous

I met an aquarian man about 20 yrs ago, we slept occasional. Then we both disappear. Then we meet again, I was going through a lot of this, with my husband, did operation, had exam, he was supportive for about, 11 months, unbelievable supportive, call me every morning, sometimes during the day, and every single evening. We had sex during that time, a first it was not good because I my self had not have sex for about a year, he was upset and said that I tramatized him, because initially I was not receptive.I think I think he was measuring the sex that we used to have 20yrs ago (it was like the greatest thing then, and he mentioned how great it was from time to time) Then we decide to do it again
it was good, he wanted come inside me and I told him no but when we did it again, he came inside me, the next day he never called until the evening
I was doing exam so he called me, supported me, wanted to have sex with me but I could not. After exam we had sex again, did not kiss him cause I started to have feelings for him and I am work against that, but I felt more obligated to him and think that I owe him, I can talk to him about anything. I am a Gemini, so I don't really throw my feeling out there, anyway I started telling of my feelings and he does not want to talk about it. Instead he said he would call me back, he actually did about 2 hrs later. Talking about something else and so we talk about what he wanted to talk about, the next day he text me to say good morning and later asked me if I was good, then did not hear from him again for d day, then in the night he called but I did not answer. He lives with his child's mother's for like 12yrs doesn't want to marry her, I asked him y and he said she has ways that he does not like and also afraid of marriage. I know is never gonna leave her don't want to take her place and we agreed that we would have sex and remains friends because we both are strange alike. I want that but I am starting to have feelings for him and I don't want that. Sometimes I wish he was not so caring, I have not gotten those care and attention from my husband.

Oh! and another thing he is controlling and I kinda like that and hence I allow him to.

Tell me how do I keep our friendship in tact. Do u think he will ever fall in love with me?
I know he is a hard one

I guess my guy was in the 50% aqua douche bags
by: Anonymous

I had an Aquarius male come up to me on the street outside a club and acted infatuated with me. We started seeing one another which lead to sex as we both felt a "connection". I just got out of something so I was ok with a casual relationship. I met his friends, however he seemed really controlled by his Persian family and work (he was a lawyer at his dads firm). Anyways before going away for a month he bailed on me because we couldn't have sex because I was on my period- and when I got upset he said not to blame him for my period. Then after he knew he hurt me he tried apologizing but I think it was for the sake of his own ego and conscious- he didn't care about me. His excuse for not committing to me was because he didn't have time for a serious relationship- I was ready to stay friends with him until the next day when I went on my pof profile I saw him in my matches.. Saying he was looking for a connection blah blah... What were the odds? When I asked him about it he said he used it to pick up... But he always used "protection"- meaning he was sleeping around when we were having sex. Ick Ick! At the beginning we agreed to tell the other person if we planned on sleeping with someone else as it was a personal boundary that should be respected. Needless to say I blocked him from all aspects of my life-- he is evil.

Aquarian males
by: Anonymous

A lot of what I read here is very close to home. I am a Leo girl and dated an aqua boy for almost a year and a half. I still cannot forget him - sometimes that is because they are so good with words but sometimes it's the shock and disbelief at how quickly they change and the fact they will never explain why they are doing what they're doing. This was the first relationship I had where I felt I was understood completely and then out of the blue he dumped me and with no proper explanation!! Which led me to think, was that really a relationship. We split nearly a year ago and after a number of very painful months trying to get over it and this erratic unexplainable behaviour I feel likeim finally moving on. Their thing is just play games and the more you challenge them the more they continue or get fed up, but there isn't any sign of commitment and that can be very difficult for a woman to comprehend as we do usually want to know it is going somewhere. Any way this site has been great for me and when I am thinking about our relationship- as it has been a useful tool in helping me understand how these people work.

Will I ever learn??
by: Depressed

I have fallen for an Aquarian male. We have worked together on a business project for the last 8 months and things changed about 2 months ago when we became intimate.

He says it takes 1 year to 1/1/2 years to really get to know someone and if the magic is still there, then you can proceed with a serious relationship. I have to agree except in the interim he is hot then cold when getting together with me outside of business. He wants to keep everything "private" since he has a lot of friends in the area and doesn't want us to go public yet.

Sounds like he is unsure of me at this time since it is a new relationship. I know he goes out alone socially because my friends see him out there in the "single" world. He is never with anyone.

I'm so confused and heartbroken at the same time. I let him have his freedom. I don't ask what he is doing all the time. I don't question him about other women and I am well aware I am choosing to be intimate with him for the joy it gives me.

But, it is Saturday night and I am alone. I'm scared and wish I didn't feel this pain right now.

Insane
by: Anonymous

This is so crazy that I had to google this to figure out wtf was going on. I just recently lost my vcard to an aquarius and things have changed. He always seem so into me when we're together but RIGHT AFTER we have sex, something's wrong. I'm so confused & hurt because I don't understand it. He even text me ' I love you ' first sometimes after we fuck. if he doesn't want to talk anymore then why doesn't he just say that? it's like he wants his space (which I give him plenty of it. I'm not clingy & all on him unless he's on me) but he wants to talk to me only when he wants to ... yeah fucking right. I'm a leo, I run the show. lmao but what should I do? ignore him? let him know I'm sad? or what please help

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