Libra man Aries woman

I am an Aries woman and my husband is a Libra. We've been together 15 years now , WOW , its been tough . He is too slow, too cold and too lazy for me, and very indecisive even in the smallest issues like should he have a beef burger or a chicken burger? He can't decide!

I'm very outgoing , fun loving and he is not . I like to go out every day he wouldn't mind staying home for a month . the romance is the best part, he is very romantic and I love that. the big issue is that he loves women and I'm very jealous

I am an Aries woman, and I've dated many Libra men. They have been extremely selfish, lazy, thoughtless and non-committal. I am so tired of meeting them; what gives?

My Libra man lied about having a girlfriend until I was in love with him. I broke it off, but I see him at least 3 times a week...

I'm an Aries women, my husband is a Libra. We are married for 15 years. We had so many fights, we even got divorce once then we got back together again, the truth is we love each other so much but we can't live together. He is lazy, very selfish, indecisive and a liar, he lies about everything. Sex is great but that's about it. Our biggest issue now is that he loves beautiful women and he flirts A LOT!! And it's TOTALLY NOT acceptable to me.

To the poster above. Ugh. Almost identical situation here. Been together on and off for over 10 years, divorced and back together.

The sex is incredible, but everything else sucks. We both know it won't work, but somehow end up back together every time one of us leaves.

Some friends are jealous and some feel sorry for me. lol....

I am a Aries women , I have been dating a Libra man off and on for 3yrs now he asked me to marry him several times , but the problem is we can not get along , he always states that he is the man, I know that but he does not seem to believe that around me , he complains all the times always nagging he also drinks and is a flirty but claims he is not, he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend while I was staying with him, she told me when we finally came face to face all he talked about was me she said and she told me she called me a bitch because she got tied of him coming over her house telling her about what I have done now, but he know what he was doing he could have found a lots of people to talk too , he wanted her to get jealous to get what he wanted from her which was money like in the past she knew about me but I did not he kept that hidden he admitted he needed someone to talk to , but her ain't that a trip. I admit I am jealous but I did not him see it, he is always telling about who likes him to see my reaction , but I don't let him see nothing , when he drinks he have talked to me so bad until now I miss him we just broke up again , we had just got back together three month ago before that we had just started talking again three weeks ago I see childish shit here he tell me I am selfish because I want let him move in after talking to me like a dog. help!!!!

WOW! I'm kinda dating a Libra man. He is seems to be very balanced and business minded! You know WE Aries LOVE THAT! My ex husband is a Leo and we got along GREAT! Perfect match! I LOVE BEING AN Aries AND I think because we are Lambs people try to take advantage and WE'RE not having it!

well!! all the boxes above, "I agree".. the thing that works with me and him, a Libran is the fact that the 'sex' is great- he is the sensual one.

The part that he is lazy works well for me cuz when I want to do things on my own he doesn't even bother being around ..and its ok with me cuz I get to go places without him and maybe even with my Ex but the problem starts when we are together and then he starts being lazy!! selfish !! and indecisive.....never able to take control of the situation.... never will say Ok this is what we are doing , this is where we will go, everything thing is 'its ok'

well but he still likes being the man of the house, unsaid respect is what he wants, and I don't give respect when you are not due!! As much as he is logical and intelligent he can be downright rude when he wants to ... he guards his EGO and when hurt will use his cocky tongue and be a bitch lol!!

but the good side of it is, sometimes u need balance in life esp when you are the crazy one... he is logical and is calm..... and when calm and nice he gives you good massage

I'm an Aries women and my guy is a Libra men. Sometimes I'm so confused about him. At times he seems to be sooo loyal like he'll send me love message each and every day and talk to me on the phone everyday. But at the same time he would flirt with other girls (like treating them super nicely and giving in to them), but he wasn't like that at all with guys! when I told him I wasn't happy and confessed that I hated his flirtiness but he said he wasn't flirting!! I just don't understand how Libra men defines the word 'flirting'.

Wow from all above post it seems that Libra and Aries are hard to get along. Well this is disappointing since I like a Libra guy myself. By reading all this has kind of made me negative :(. But being an Aries female don't u agree that we mostly get attracted to those guys who knows how to keep us on our toes, we Aries long for excitement I think Libra guys are good at it. it's in our nature that we go too fast and where as Libra prefer to slow down a bit .hmmmm do u guys agree with me :s

I suspect people in unhappy relationships are more likely to post complaints than ones in awesome relationships are likely to post good comments. Having said that I've seen a few message boards here which are just huge worshipping sessions. Makes you kinda jealous lol. I love my Aries woman, but all things considered I'd say I'm fairly neutral on recommending vs. not recommending the relationship. Crap lol that's what some of the posts above have been complaining about isn't it? Doh! Haha

I was in love with a Libra man until he cheated on me with an Aries. I felt bad, but yes, our relationship was rocky because he could never make up his mind on anything. Being a cap and seeing that made me very depressed. But after the cheating scenario I got really depressed. He ended up staying with the Aries. In a funny way, after him I ended up meeting the real man of my life. I feel now every moment is heaven. And I feel sorry for the Aries woman who is staying with that Libra. they keeping breaking up and arguing and what not! He cheated on her and then she cheated on him. Its crazy for them. It is unfortunate for her that now she constantly has to hear what a good girlfriend I was to him. He still has feelings for me. Chased me a bit. But the diamond I have in my life is incomparable and I would die but never leave him.

Aries women, when it comes to choosing a mate go for someone who has it all. Libra men are way too below average. You will understand it only if you open your eyes and see the real kings of other signs waiting for you.

Well...I can definitely say that being in a "relationship" with a Libra man has it's good and it's bad....I've been seeing a Libra man for almost a year...not committed but very devoted to each other....yes...they are very flirty and at times it's hard to handle...but the weird part of it is he wants me around him all the time...even when he may be seeing another female....I will go out with him and the girl...him showing both of us the attention we crave...but he goes home with me....the weird part is I don't mind....I have a very high self esteem...so how can I be okay with his flirting?....he provides for me like I need a man...and we are really good friends....??????

all of these stories sound so similar to mine. I am an Aries woman and have been married to an Libra man for 3 years. we are now currently separated, thank god! it was a dramatic relationship. it was all good in the beginning but then the ugly evil side came out. lazy no ambition and ouch mean with his words.. for some reason we just cant get along, but why do I miss him?

Wow, this is sure surprising! I am an Aries woman and I seek out Libra men. I get along with them fabulously and find them hilarious, classy, very balanced, and extremely intelligent. I had a Libra boss once, and he was the best boss I ever had. What I've read here is so polar opposite to what I've experienced. I'm not discounting the posts at all, I just have had different experiences. What attracts me most to Libra men is that I find them anything but lazy (I trait I despise). My last boyfriend (four months) was a Libra ... the challenge was that I was not physically attracted to him (no chemistry), yet, I loved being around him. Sure, we had to end it because he wanted more than I did out of the relationship. Now, I am seeing another Libra, eight years older than me, and he, too, is extremely ambitious (investment banker), is hilarious, very refined and classy, a real man. Oh, did I mention that they are fantastic in the sack? All I can say to other aries women is "don't give up".

My Libra man always pushes me around and lies about many things. He is charming to me in the earlier marriage but his charm faded away as he becomes a married man maybe because he thought he got everything he wanted from me. He is delightfully sensitive but can be very stubborn. We fought so many times, ending up hurting ourselves but he'd never wanna divorce me. I don't know whether that makes a good marriage or not.

Aries female and Libra man are very compatible. They are both Ying and Yang, and opposites do attract. My Libra Man is extremely caring, loyal, considerate and attentative. We are both very attractive people, and we bring out the best in each other. He is very calm, and I can be crazy, but it balances out. Which needs to be the case. I do not think you can base everything just on star sign alone, it also depends on other factors of such as time of birth, sun rising etc. When Aries women and Libra men generally meet, it is always like an electronic spark..... do not be deterred by the Libra Men, they know how to flirt, but they know who they love !

I have recently started liking a Libra. The first time that we met (we have a few mutual friends) I ended up snapping on him because of a smart remark that he made. I am not sure if he is interested in friendship or romance because we have only ever hung out in a group consisting of me, him, and my best friend. I can't tell who he likes or if he is really interested in either of us. We communicate via text every other day but honestly he seems like the type that would have a lot of female friends. I am going to stay close and see if he makes a move...