Libra man Scorpio woman

I'm a 33 year old Scorpio female and my honey is a 42 year old Libra. He is the sweetest, kindest man I have ever met. I'm single, never married without children. I've been asked my hand in marriage a few times, but yet to accept. He was married for 13 years and has been divorced for 3 years with two children a 14 year old son and a 17 year old daughter that just started college.

He's a college football coach and I own an IT consulting firm. So, both of us are very busy, which is good for me. Our intimacy is passionate, intense and on another level. He is already talking about he wants me to fall in love with him, which kind of caught me off guard since we have only been seeing each other for about 2.5 months. I'm really not sure how I feel since he's so laid back and nonchalant about things.

The only thing that really bothers me about him is that he can be inconsistent and horrible at following through with things especially since it is football season. I've been on him about this and he has definitely improved. I'm kind of bossy, but it seems like the more I keep him in line the closer we get. We are kind of weird, huh. I apologized for being mean to him the other day and he said that I wasn't mean but straight forward and to the point, which is one of the reasons he likes me. I was like wow... Then, I asked why he likes me and he said because we are able to talk things through, I'm sexy, I'm smart, and of because sex is great. I had to agree.

But I would have to say, I would not put up with the things I put with him with anyone else, but the Libra man draws you in and is so affectionate and passionate that I end up being putty in his hands. I guess I'm a sucker for him. But, he is so sexy with a body out of this world, and when he smiles at me and softly calls me his little nickname for me in his deep, sexy voice I lose my mind. He will have to do something really stupid for me stop dealing with him.

From the first moment I laid my eyes on him, I felt a connection. Yet, I was not suspecting what I was in for. It all began after a lovely winter break from work. The holidays had uplifted me and made me feel as though I could be hopeful again, and thus this passionate love began.

He was a Libra, seemingly gentle and pure and I, a passionate Scorpio with an open heart. We had always been casual friends, talking, laughing and enjoying each other's company at work. But this one day it went further. He asked me if I would accompany him home, as he had to work late and we both had assignments to complete, so I went along with him.

The night began with some champagne and slow jazz music, but as the evening progressed we moved closer to each other, and suddenly his cherry colored lips touched mine. His skin touched mine and soon everything around us didn't matter, we were blocked out by this romantic eruption. After a night of passion, I left his apartment, only to see him a few hours later at work again. Our eyes met, and once again everything else was blocked out, we knew that we were in for a passionate love. And it was waiting for us to leap into it.

I swear a Scorpio woman could describe doing laundry and it would sound sexy! Great story!

A Libra guy is passionate, kind, and willing to hear you out for whatever but you don't know what you Scorpio women are going to be in for, let me tell you..

They will be really sneaky with you if you give him a lot of drama, and us Scorpio women are really demanding and need to have it our way and win in a fight and yes they will put up with it for a while but then they will get tired of all the fussing and fighting and maybe tend to have an affair with someone else so he can easily forget about all the drama with his Scorpio woman.

So ladies be careful cause not all men are the same but every guy will hurt you, you just have to remember that! Never give in and never give it all you got UNLESS you know you will be with the Libra man for a long lasting time or if you two mates are going to get married... im being serious just be careful my Scorpio women, cause Libra men tend to be sneaky and shady if you give them what they don't want!

Im a Scorpio and let me tell you, im Amazinggggggggg (;

Now let me tell you something, I'm a Libra and yes I a man. I met this Scorpio girl, and I must say she has my attention. I recently just got off another relationship before summer began, and I was sad after she (Virgo) left me for another guy.

Its all good she was a Virgo anyway, besides the horoscope thingy said it wouldn't work, but I didn't want to believe it. See I'm not a cheater, but I do know some Libra's who are cheaters, and I'm not going to defend them.

This Scorpio doesn't haven't to be fine at all, to have my attention, everything about her seems so hypnotizing. I met her under some weird ass circumstances, she was in love with my homie, and I was sprung on her during when school started. My homies got tired of hearing me talk about my ex, but when this girl came into my life. I tried not to rush into things, but can I blame myself for wanting to show her what all her ex's couldn't. Her friends told me she want a real relationship, but I'm afraid of putting her through all that mess.

The stories got me paranoid, because if this girl cheats on my like all my other ex's damn, hell is going to break loose. Believe me I have no intention and breaking or hurting her, she sweet, and I don't mind growing old. I just don't know what to do =(

I'm dating a Libra now, and it seems like he is the type who cares more about other things than me! He doesn't feel like putting me first to everything and I hate that! I'm always the last, and I get him things all the time, but he thinks I'm buying love or when I bring up the situation he thinks I'm trying to buy his love, which I'm not. But I really love him a lot and I just want this relationship to work!!

I am a Scorpio woman in love with a Libra man. Ever since the day we met we have been in love and we can't be without each other. I worry all the time, but I know deep down he isn't cheating on me, we have ups and downs, but communication is key.

Scorpio women, its best to put yourself in their position and try to think about what you're about to say to your partner before you explode, men in general esp. Libra men don't like to be yelled at. but they will work things out with you if you don't act like a lunatic, sad to say we Scorpio women tend to lose control, which are really intense, sometimes people can't understand that mentality, and we need to contain it to a limit, but of course express it! this is a relationship that one should try, it's a great relationship

My husband is Libra, & I am Scorpio and I hate my marriage. We have worst communication ever

im a Scorpio woman and im dating a Libra man. at first the connection was strong an we had chemistry but now I feel as thou he is not involving me in his plans....I feel second in his life and im wondering if I made the right choice. we really close friends before we were dating an I think now that it is best if we kept t at that level :(

I am a Scorpio woman with a Libra man... and everything on here sounds just like us!!! I had to tell him the other day that I am tired of always doing what he wants... always putting him first.. and getting nothing in return.. I told him that if this was the beginning of the rest of my life I didn't want it. He was quick to agree and say he would do his best to see things my way... we will see.. I love him with all my heart but.. we Scorpios need much more attention.. and I really don't think my Libra is capable of it.. I will give him a few weeks but if there is no change I will move on.. life is too short!!!

I'm the Scorpio female, he's the Libra male. It's amazing, it's intense, it's loving, and it's everything I've ever wanted in a relationship. My advice would be to just go with it because it's sure to be full of life and vigor. Scorpio & Libra = total happiness.

I'm a Scorpio woman and the man I love (and have loved for many years) is a Libra man. I love his intensity and most of all his mind. He is as curious about life as I am and is always willing to learn more about it. He is a man of logic and reason and I must say really knows how to make love passionately. He is definitely sensitive, surprisingly so. Although life in general has separated us, he is the only man that I could ever love as much as I do.

I have been dating my Libra man for 4 months now and he is absolutely amazing, he is everything I hoped, wanted and desired in a man, he has everything I need

im scorpio, he's Libra, I could relate to all the other stories, when we love ,its intense, but when we fight it gets out of control. Libra men tend to hold grudges for a long time and it doesn't help that they are not one to make amends and Scorpios don't give in too easily, we are in it for the passion, Libras are in it because its comforting. but there is good and bad in every sign.

I am Scorpio woman he is Libra man. The honeymoon phase is over, we have had bad fights, he's holding grudges. I am not high on his priority list. Now he is away on a business trip and he is not being honest about his location or date of return. He is uncommunicative although he checks in and talks about some practical business matters only. My intuition warns he may be with another woman. I hope someone here can say something helpful, please!

To the woman worried over her man on a business trip: I have sympathy for you because my guy goes off on business trips too. He could be just working hard, you don't know for a fact. When you are with him he will show you if he is trustworthy and if he is into you.

I'm a Scorpio woman and he is Libra. I have learned with my Libra man that he can be flirtatious and somewhat more out going than I am. I am jealous and vindictive and my outburst can be frightening at times. But overall we are in love and he is so passionate, loving and caring and I wouldn't trade him for nobody else and he says the same about me!

I'm a Scorpio woman and married to a Libra man it started as a fairytale story would. We both were so excited to have met, we hit it off from the first day. He was so charming, attentive and soft hearted. Six years later this is his personality..... argument, stubborn, holds grudges, easily puts blame on others. He has a need to prove a point even if he is wrong he becomes redundant to try to change your mind. In front of others he is charming and puts on a very helpful picture of himself. When he is at a positive stage he loves to buy me the better things in life. When we have arguments they are pretty bad. Communication was good at first now it's so.

I'm a Scorpio woman and I just began to feel a bit better emotionally, I don't know how long this will take for me to heal after my heartbroken love and failed marriage with a Libra man. I read all these posts thinking to myself that each and every story reflects every bit of our relationship. How much of that sexual chemistry there was at the beginning, and how everything began to fall apart, mainly our communication -yes!!! We simply stopped talking to each other because of lack of trust on my side and my jealousy just made it all impossible for all of us. He is great man and I didn't change my opinion even after 6.5 years of marriage, but our differences, the deep water and air, make it incompatible and impossible to continue. We BOTH came to this bitter agreement after all. He is happy with an Aries woman now... it is painful to see them being in so much love and joy, he seems to be so satisfied and I'm thinking about moving to a different state.

I think that the hardest thing for me is to accept this failure - as we both tried really hard for our marriage to work and he sacrificed for me- nothing bad I can say. But what hurts me the most is that I really see them much more compatible with each other that me and him before. Makes me really think that astrology is a serious science and calls for its advises to be taken respectfully, especially for a long term relationship. My ex and I are still friends as he really dislikes any hatred or conflict to be true to his sign. His Aries lady is what he realized he needed all his life, they've been together for 4 years now and his satisfaction seems to be steadily growing. The more I wish him failure in that -the more he seems to be happy with her in every single way. Just unbearable!

I'm a Libra man & I've dated a Scorpio woman for the past 7 months. We had chemistry from the 1st day we met, from there we probably should've of slowed down (physically) but I'm sure you all know that w/ the union of Scorpio & Libra comes a passionate bond that's damn near unbreakable at it's peak.

We spent the summer together trying get to know each other a little better because we both knew that soon she would be off to school to finish up her last year beginning my 1st true long distance relationship. It was tough but our love & communication made things work more in our favor. However as time went on we had yet to make things official because of our fears of it being too soon.

We have some differences that separate us...but I see too much potential between us to let go that easily. She is stubborn as hell and easily shuts down on people but I love this girl to life. She draws me in, w/ her mysteriousness, independence, aggression & drive to please me that every other girl I dated lacked. But now on her end she is unsure if I'm the Man she really wants to spend her life w/ anymore because of some issues we had but I hope soon she let's me back in so that we can start over.

To all my Libra men; as long as we continue to give them their personal space no matter how much an inconvenience it may be) & assure them that we are the defined men we say we are, by following thru we'll be good.

To all my Scorpio Women… communication is key, I know we annoy you at times but as long as you stop giving up on us & continue to keep it real w/ us we shouldn't have any major issues

I'm a Scorpio women with a Libra when we met we had a automatic connection... Conversation was awesome and we had a lot of good times. But we hada huge drama of going back and forth with each other and we was monogamous with out the title. So of course as a Scorpio I pushed for a relationship and the part that got me was he was indecisive all the time which clashes with my personality being secretive with my feelings.

I have such strong feelings for him till this day and he has a girlfriend now (Virgo) but he still seems to have to be away from me because he instantly gets himself attracted to me again. He would come hang with mutual friends when he knows I am around and even came to my birthday party. (Which is weird because I said a lot of mean things to him for being with his current chick (whom he never claims)).

I'm just hoping that we can finish what we started because there's something about a Libra male that keeps me just as much hooked as he is to me. :/

Matured experienced Libra man with mature younger Scorpio woman together = soulmates (a.k.a. possibilities the perfect couple) This relationship needs time to build for a REAL strong solid foundation, and to be unselfish. The two teams needs to communicate and understand each other, and lay the all the cards out on the table. I am the Scorpio woman with Cancer moon.

I sympathize very much with the woman who was married 6,5 years to a Libra man, but I have to say that I do not understand that part where you wish that his relationship to Aries woman fails. I mean you are not together for a long time and you don t have to be friends but you should try to except that his with someone else. And leaving the country will not help you, you will still love him without seeing him. I Scorpio woman) love a Libra man since I was a kid and we were friends several years. Now we are together for 2,5 years. I think that even if we parted I would like him to be happy and in a good state of mind (even with somebody else). Ok I would also suffer, but because I love him so much in so many ways as a boyfriend, lover, also as a person. If you loved/love your ex husband, maybe you should try to gain some piece (no matter how hard it is) by knowing that he is content. Only this way will you be able to accept the situation and move on. Maybe you blame you urself for divorce thinking you could have worked more on your flaws. But you did everything the way you were supposed to. Nothing is forever, although we want it to be. We can only try to survive and do are best, while we know that we can't control everything. I hope that you will once get over losing him and if you two were really strong than maybe faith will get her hands dirty one more time;-)Take care!

I am a Libra man married to a Scorpio woman for the past 12 years things were running very smooth for a few years, then suddenly change, Why I made a few mistakes, and instead of holding on to her dignity and pride she made the said mistakes and that's when things got pretty ugly, I new I was wrong and I took the time a told her that am really sorry, And ask her forgiveness but it did not matter at the time, instead of coming to me an lets work things out she preferred to go to with a another guy, some who was pretending to be my friend that's when I lost all trust I her and things never seem to the same like it was before, Yes I agree that Scorpio women are very loving and ambitious caring I know she's very much a good woman but its hard to accept she is. even though we're still living in our marriage, there no thrust sometimes like giving but deep in my heart I know that I still love her and need the best for both of us I'm afraid that she in love someone. I wan t to love her like I loved her before there's a line I can't cross very easily again. What can I do to get over this?

I am a Libra man and I am trying to get to know this Scorpio woman I don't know there's something about her that draws me in like so hypnotizing she is, she's in sports, red hair, red undertone complexion, Latina, family oriented, light brownish eyes I love all that in a Scorpio woman but haven't yet spoken to her in person ive only seen her profile online.. she seems to be tremendously focused on running track and it's super hard to let her know im interested because I don't think she is expecting a relationship anytime soon but I still want to talk to her as long as possible as just friends because if I come on strong there will be zero chance and she'll ignore me and move on. so as of now I think I just need to get her used to me more as a friend and for her to know that im here and im being patient about everything. by the way, I think it would be a lot better to try to gear towards getting her comfortable enough for us meet in person, I think it would be 10× greater for us meet.

anyone feel free to help me out here lol. if you will ^^

I've been married to a Libra man for 9 years, let me tell my fellow Scorpio woman don't go there, At first their the best lovers in the world, when their comfortable enough with you they forget you exist! Libra men if your interested in a Scorpio woman you have to do your homework, if your not willing to give us what we need, move on! I'm 32 and my hubby's 40, we now have 3 children together and I'm ready to move on. After awhile you realize you need to be emotionally connected as well as physically. We Scorpio woman tend to just lean towards the physical way to often! Hey don't get me wrong sex with a Libra man is exhilarating, but after awhile you need more!

I had a whirlwind experience with a Libra man a few years ago and he broke my heart. I fell head over heels fast for him. Libra men are very romantic - say and do all the right things in the bedroom.

He loves my passion, my confidence, my intensity, etc. but a Libra emotionally he is not equipped at all to handle a Scorpio woman!

Remember this ladies....get yourself an earth guy (Capricorn, Virgo or a Taurus). They can handle the heat!

I am currently dating a Taurus and emotionally he is everything I need and want from a man.

I am still good friends with that Libra guy, and he often says he made a mistake giving me up, but I know in my heart if would have ended eventually. Love is more then just great sex!

Im a Scorpio girl and I really like a Libra man we have been talking for about a week now. He's everything I would ever want in a man, he's sweet, sensitive, good looking, smart, loving and affectionate almost too good to be true. The only thing is he can go for a day or two without any contact with me and I don't like that, I guess im the girl that still needs that reassurance, maybe because its a new relationship and I've been hurt before. I hate feeling this way. Do Libra men play hard to get? Im so confused?

Hey this has been a mixed experience so far for me. Its so exciting at times but not able to figure out where we are exactly. I am trying hard to make this relation work for me but not sure from his side. we are at initial stage and wondering whether to continue or to hold back my feeling for him. I am looking for chemistry where he is asking for friendship are we trying to define the same things in our own language. For sure he is very disconnected at times which makes not only Scorpio but any body feel neglected. It would be helpful for other if some of you experienced people share more thought like what you like , dislike in other and how you were able to keep it together so ling.

I am a Scorpio girl going out with a Libra male :D We only just got together so I can't really give you much information on the compatibility of our relationship :D

I can only sort of make some judgments on the relationship chart but don't forget, what day your born on also affects the result as well! It may work for some, it may not for others but I tell you, it's working for me :)

I haven't had a relationship for over a year now. I don't want a relationship because I've been hurt soo many times but I want someone to love and care for me so I was really confused!

My Libra guy seems really sweet and he's funny and he's fair and I like that :) we were mates before, for a fair few months.

I'd say we're working because we didn't ask each other out but we fell into it (sounds strange) but it's understandable :)

I know for one thing that Scorpios, especially ones like me, crave stability and don't like unstable things.

It's weird but somehow I have found it with this Libra :D because although we haven't asked each other out yet, it's been a couple of days, I find it stable because I know him as a friend but at the same time someone who cares and loves me :)it's like a friend but you love each other?? (crazy but I like it :) ) at least I know that if things do flipside at one point not one of us will be too hurt by the other one :)

And even though Scorpios can be stubborn, he's taught me soo many things and he's influence me how to loosen up a little :) and it feels great! It's like I've gained even more confidence somehow by not worrying so much about things :)

Daren't I say it, but I love him :) and he loves me :D

Peace out peeps! ;P x x

I am a Scorpio woman, dating a Libra guy, and I have read all the things that sound just like him. indecisive and sometimes damn unpredictable. for example, I told him lets get away for the weekend. we both had a crazy work week, he said yes. and then I didn't see him at all. on Monday he text me and say good morning darling, like we never had plans. I was livid, so I didn't response because trust me it would not be nothing nice said. we both have told each other I love u, but sometimes, I confused. I want to end and then I don't. I love him so much. any advice?

Im a Scorpio woman and I've been friends with a Libra man for quiet some time. We have gone through a couple of things with him putting his friends first, while we was trying to start our relationship. Unfortunately, I didn't hear from him for a couple of months. And now I hear from him again and he wants to pick up where we left off. I don't know what to do. Should I give him another chance to be with me or should I just tell him to keep "us" at a friendship level? :(

I'm a Scorpio woman and he is a Libra man. I think that he stabilizes me very well. At first I was extremely jealous and untrusting of him for no reason at all. What I love about him is that through those years he put up with me and dealt with it. He never judged me for it, and just gave me time. He would always reassure me when I was jealous that I had no need to be, and he would do anything I needed in order to pacify my insecurities. We have been together for 4 years now and my jealousy and possessiveness is long gone! I feel like a different person now, I no longer get jealous for the slightest reason, and it feels like total freedom. I thank my husband for sticking by me through all those tough times when I was being a jealous freak. I have never known what it is to be in a relationship and not be jealous.

He is very affectionate and yes sometimes he can be very aloof and folly. I accept this about him because I know that this is the man I married and I love that he brings that silliness out in me. I was too serious in the past now I now how to be happy and not take life so seriously. We have lots of fun together and we are always out with our friends. When I have to study I have no problem with him going out with his friends without me. I know that he respects me and always tells me how everybody was asking for me. He's awesome! He has taught me that when you are with someone you respect them and love them for who they are just how he loved me through my jealous rages and possessiveness and all my insecurities. Don't try to change your spouse! When it bothers me that he acts like he doesn't care I explain my frustrations to him and bring him back down to earth. Many times Libras can be dense but what is so wonderful about them, is if you explain to them how they are acting and why this bothers you (instead of demanding that they change) they listen very well and take into consideration what you are saying. I love my Libra man!

ok I've read all the above stories , I am a Scorpio girl and I am in a relationship with a Libra man .. all the above stories state one fact , it begins wonderfully between Scorpio and Libra then after awhile it stinks to the bottom for mainly the insecurities and intensity of the Scorpio and the elusiveness and unpredictability of the Libra , this leads to huge loss of communication ... about me I love my Libra but I am not blind to what might separate us , any relation needs settlements and compromises , I was with an earth man (Capricorn) and we were so compatible but we failed ,so nothing is guaranteed or should be taken for granted , I'll say give Libra their space after all it's part of their charm and trust them and always communicate verbally they are an air sign they like it simple and direct so give it to them , a big plus point in Libras that they are fast learners and when they trust their partners they are so giving even sacrificing ,and they are so indecisive true, but once they make up their minds they are strongly committed ,they are also family oriented , I vet been wiz an earth and now wiz a Libra and I'll vote for my Libra's commitment to me ..one last thing , we Scorpios should tame our temper, insecurities and suspicious minds ,after all it worths to trade all this for a simple easy ride with a pure charming person .all the best for everybody.

for Scorpio woman who doubts their Libra man in everything, is just too much. because for a fact Libra will not hide a lot. They are not the secretive type. Infact they in turn worry and will doubt you more if you show such signs, quite frankly he is very uncomfortable with it and will not show it.

But if it goes on too much like that...he will show you the door forever.

I am a Scorpio woman and I recently was dating a Libra man. We went to school together and I dated one of his friends before him, but in a small town its impossible not to date your ex's friend. I was and still unfortunately am very into him even though I couldn't exactly say why? It wasn't that our conversation was even that great, our attraction was just very intense. Whenever I think about him I just think of his huge lips and big brown eyes. Of course Scorpios being very sexual individuals he had me sprung because Libra men know how to please a lady, but it goes a lot deeper than that. I was more involved than him even though he made me think otherwise with his charming ways. He was oh so gentle and sweet when we alone yet at parties he rather give everyone else at the party attention verse me. I never came first no matter how high he was on my priority list. Basically he was really good at mind games, even though no matter how hard I would try for him to communicate with me he wouldn't. Libras seem so emotionally detached. Libras and Scorpios great at keeping their own secrets these relationships are bound to be full of deceit. In the end I think all he really wanted was to keep me around for sex, and wanted me only for him. Asshole.

I've dating with this Libra man for a year. The chemistry was perfect and we really have great time ever, best Sex ever. But what I don't like from him is his Brutal tongue, his suspicious mind, and his jealousy. His brutal tongue Hurt my Pride a lot. I just cant accept that. IF you HAVE A Scorpio girlfriend never ever Talk rude to her, never put her down cause Scorpio have BIG PRIDE, Never Lie cause she will know by looking to your eyes and don't Bluffing it wills turn her off.

He's stubborn and I am stubborn as well.. and sometimes we have a problem with our communication. ALL I KNOW, Libra man is selfish and over control... HATE THAT

I am a Scorpio female & I was dating a Libra for 3 years.

When we got along it was the greatest thing in the world.

When we weren't is was so horrible. I felt unappreciated...I did everything for him & he never gave me the affection I needed...

In my opinion this could have worked if we both tried harder to respect each others nature & communicated more.

I will always love him, there was just to much wrong for me to stay. Just like another Scorpio I don't forgive & I don't forget...

My first relationship with a Libra male was horrible. He was selfish, too proud, egotistical, mean and hurtful. He knocked this Scorpio girl down HARD. He was the worst person I have ever dated! (I tend to end up with Gemini's and I have pretty good relationships with them)

Then I met my husband who is ALSO a Libra. I was afraid...like oh no. not part two....but he was completely different! He is sweet, generous, loving, gives me 100% of his attention, very affectionate. Completely different from the previous Libra I dated.

I wonder if it has anything to do with my ex being a Libra at the end of the month...almost being a Scorpio...and then my husband is right in the center of Libra.

I am a Scorpio woman and I am 14 years old currently, and my Mum's partner is a Libra. I really want to know more about Libra guys! They are sweet, nice and admiring and charming! I have dated a Scorpio and he broke up with me, and I also broke up with an Aries guy not long ago. I like Scorpio men, but are Libra men alright for me? Thanks:)

I am a Scorpio woman who dated a Libra man and every post I've read here sounds like him. Strong attraction at first, he chases me, I'm not interested, this only makes him want me more. I finally give in and we become a couple. He then treats me horribly and sleeps with other women. I end it, of course he is so dramatic...Next round. We get back together, only to have him be just as disrespectful if not even more so. This time, I'm done. I should have trusted my gut instinct which told me to run far away from this lying, piece of sh*t the first time around. The only good that came from being a couple was the incredibly amazing sex, which isn't enough to sustain a loving lasting relationship. I will never date a Libra man again!

To the above girl and lady who wants advice. Ha, 14 years old, Scorpio, is too young to search for a mate. If you want to know who is you compatibility, go to visit Astrology's chart- or ask David. 14 years old do not even have High school grad yet, ha... instead, you should worry about your if you may or may not pass you M CAST or high school exam to college yet. Good men will come to you without your searching if you have a wonderful quality to assure you. "EDUCATION is a PRIORITY." Girl!!! I'm not your guardian counselor or anything. I believe that the future will be depending on a young people.

I'm Virgo, don't think Libra men will be a perfectly match to any Scorpio. Libra is a snobbish and flirts with many ladies but remember that is just for a flirting; its Libra nature. He can be serious with someone that he wants to be with without cheating or sleep around. I believe all the in the zodiac signs- it represents human of how each of them are behave. Human make mistake depends on how is their situation. That all I can say; I'm a success Virgo and... pretty young. You make your own decision; no body better than you, Scorpio girl and lady. Good luck to both and all.

Sorry this is pretty lengthy! I've known my boyfriend for 4 years now as an acquaintance, I made the first move in asking him out. It was really a leap of faith. Though I knew his nature of aloofness and laid-back attitude (complete opposite of me), I told myself not to have ANY expectations. But somehow we are now madly in love.

He is the second Libra I have been in a serious relationship with, and it's the best relationship I have ever had. For some reason, other earth and water signs don't quite cut it for me even though there is some sort of consistency and stability in them. We have been together for 4 months now, and reading how the stories of those that lasted years started out great but are now a ghost of what they used to be truly disheartens me. Because my Libra and I are exactly all the good things. Passionate, sensual love making. He's a real gentleman too. My thoughts and feelings about the relationship are a mirror of his - the same, but inverted in the way we show it.

What I really want to share is that every sign will have its pros and cons. Just because we are Scorpio ladies does not mean we have to be the way we are. I dislike feeling jealous, being compulsive and obsessive, stubborn, and having extreme moods/feelings. But what I learnt is that if you and your Libra man are at the peak of your relationship, he does love you despite how he can act aloof and nonchalant. This is the best time to learn and understand each other. It's not them to want to talk on the phone for hours, or entertain drama. They are objective creatures who will tell you the truth. It's brutal sometimes, but aren't we Scorpios not straightforward too?

Through my Libra, I have learnt to be a lot more patient, a lot less obsessive and needy/demanding, more confident about myself (cause he chose me when he could have anyone else), to really live the moments that are precious and not worry about the past or hold grudges, that trust is really the key to communicating.

It's funny how both of us find it difficult to speak of big decisions, I still get all choked up when I tell him how I have thought about the future together and vice versa. But we're getting there, I'm enjoying the mystery and wonder of revealing these small steps though. I still do not have any expectations for him, I don't expect him to change. He is everything I want in a man although boys will always be boys. My advice for any Scorpios or highly-strung individual dating a Libra man is that you HAVE to be patient. You don't know it but he's not as shallow as he appears, his mind is full of thought and imagination. Give him time to reveal himself to you. Don't go crazy trying to figure everything out! I know we like to plan ahead/organize, etc. But with a Libra man you have to be open to change, to be flexible. They like to keep a balance in their lives so make sure you give him plenty of space. Don't start drama, he might have a lot of patience but his objective mind will not like it. Live the moments. When he's ready to tell you what he's been thinking about, it could be a month or two since he ever started thinking about it, and he does so because he wants to make sure he says the right thing at the right time.

Lady with a lengthy article. Absolutely, many Libra are great. They are organize; planner, patient, no complicate, care and balance also he has a great appearances and tastes; they are very gentlemen. I, Virgo, can't find Libra's flaw. I agree lots of things the way you described about him. Something I like about Libra is to share a conversation in exchange and one of the best thing he has no secret or mystery with you. I never been with him but I feel that I can see and understand him; Sooo honest with you. Nice, you are a Scorpio lady met a perfect Libra!

My little brothers are both in this relationship one of my brothers is a Libra and has a baby with a Scorpio girl =] and the other one is a Scorpio and his fiance is a Libra girl ... the one with the baby it seems as though they fuss and fight a lot and then they are all over each other lol my other brother and his fiance hardly fight well they are really diff so maybe they keep it to themselves all in all I hope they both stay together for ever and im a Pisces hehe

My Libra man, is trying to woo me over again. After 2 years of loving each other like newlyweds I found out I was pregnant. Being the Scorpio woman that I am I made a lot of demands. Being the indecisive prick he is he didn't do what I said. Lol. I can admit that maybe I was asking too much. He let me down 3 times during our relationship, which I forgave (never forgot) him for. The last straw was I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl at 28 weeks, she died 11 days later. All I needed was him to tell me everything was going to be ok, hold me like I was a baby and let me just weep. I mourned alone. This was all 6 months ago. In the last 6 months I probably have talked to him maybe 15 times. Well my cell phone broke and I got a new one, and I sent him a text asking him to send me a picture of our daughter. That was about 5 days ago I still haven't gotten the picture. Since I have sent the text he has called me every day. He asked me 2 days ago if he could t ake me out on a date today. And he is the ultimate date breaker. The thing is he is giving me attention and since I have been in mourning I have shut everyone out and the attention feels good. The big question I keep asking myself is "Do I really want to be back with him?" I know it's just 1 date, but I'm a Scorpio extreme is my nature. Although in the beginning he was attentive, he practically went in to debt helping me when I was broke, and well sex was mind blowing. I still shutter thinking about it. I love him to my core, but at this age in life I don't expect that he will change his ways and I'm perfect why would I change? Lol. Very early on I examined our relationship and I can honestly tell you he is sneakier than the sneakiest Scorpio. I don't know anything about him, almost to the point that I started thinking toward the end of our relationship that he could be married and hiding it from me. I'm stumped. Do I put aside all of this and go back to a relationship where I am wondering why I am alone all the time, or do I just be alone? As easy as that answer sounds I just want to be happy with him. I don't really want to start over with anyone else.

Does this sound like your Libra?

Lies about little things

Indecisive

Cancels dates

Self-fish behaviors

Flirtatious

Self absorbed

Mine drinks way too much and he's been telling me he was going to quit smoking since the day we met.

To the lady with the lengthy story. I honestly hop your relationship never goes sour. You are too early in to tell though. I am sure most people here would agree that the first months of their relationship went the same way. in the beginning my Libra bought me flowers, once he brought rose petals and candles and filled the tub and scattered roses everywhere. When I got out of the tub he had made a heart out of roses for me on the bed... you get the picture. But it was not all those great things I remember when I reflect on our relationship. Think about how very early on in our relationship when I needed to get somewhere and he told me he would take me and then at the last minute he told me he couldn't. I think of all the times I had to wonder why he didn't want to move our relationship to the next level. I think about how I felt I was always available when he needed me, but he never was. I think about when I wanted to argue, how he just shrugged everything off like nothing. I hope that you have met the exception. I really do! Best of luck. My advise to you is to set your standards based off these stories because if you look at all the negative stuff and made a list we all had the basic same complaints about our Libra men. Believe me at 4 months in, I thought the same way you did.

To the guy that was 7 months in with the young lady that had to go off to school.

You gave some bad advice to the Libra man. If you want to keep your Scorpio woman space is a no, no. I am a Scorpio woman, and you Libras like your space. We like a very attentive man, someone that wants to spend their every waking moment just in our presence. If you want your Scorpio back you need to send her flowers, call her and tell her whatever you did you were wrong and she was right. And you want to understand what she needs from a relationship so you and only you can give her what she needs. If m Libra guy did that , I'd be mush in his arms.

From a Scorpio Woman

I (a Scorpio woman) was married to a Libra man for 16 years and he was a self absorbed prick who ALWAYS made sure to come first before me and the two children we had together. He was a liar and sneaky beyond comprehension! He flirted with everything that came his way and did it in front of me as if I wasn't even there. Then he acted like I was the crazy one for being upset about it. He was disrespectful on every level and had a way of making me second guess myself. (If only I had done this differently or if only I had not gotten so angry at him) Noooooo they are all alike and they will NEVER side with you or put you first in anything they do because they are incapable of this, narcissistic bastards that they are! Oh and nothing is ever THEIR fault either! Hate Em their figgen ASSHOLES!!!!!!!! If I ever found out that I was about to go on a date with a Libra man I would run sooooo fast that I would have road rash on my feet!!!! Word of advice....Everything I have read here is exactly like how my marriage was. By the way in the end he ended up having an affair and walking out on all three of us.

(Does this sound like your Libra?)

That doesn't sound like Libra who I knew. Since you are a Scorpio lady and I'm Virgo. My Libra is different from your, lol... well mine, he always comes to look for me as a cat that follows me; I'm always abandoned him. I loved him very much but I don't want to show him for I don't want him to treat me like a dump ass. He confessed directly to me that he don't want to loose me; he said, "Virgo is too selfish." I just said, oh is that true? He just giggling a little; we hate arguing. That is not our style; we talk when there is something wrong. I knew in his heart, he loves me to death; I cleaned his feet with my hair. He is too loyal to me. Our love is perfect. I never love anyone as him. I loved him because he is always polite to me. He wanted me to have a son for the first born while I'm not ready. I'm sorry for you met a weird Libra man. I hope your Libra will understand and love you even more. I lost my ex Scorpio; he can't keep up with me because he need to take care of his ex and small children. Now I'm happy and wishing you happy too. Okay!!