Libra man Taurus woman

Few years ago I dated a Taurus girl for a year and a half. I'm a Libra. I loved her, partly because of all the small things she did to show her affection. Sometimes she brought me candy I liked, she would hold my hand in a way I like and stupid small things like that. Looking back those small things were significant because they always came in unexpected situations.

First few months were ok, and later we got along as I compromised hoping some thing will change. She had a habit of showing up late to dates which drove me mad. Also, she stopped compromising and trying. Sex was good for the some time until she stopped making effort. For a few months I hung around compromising in hope that things will come back or change, but people rarely change, especially if they are Taurus's I guess. After reading about Taurus women it makes sense now lol

I am a Taurus but right on the cusp of Gemini, though I still feel very much a Taurus - very homey, materialistic and love nice things also very practical. I had a relationship for several years on and off with a Libra male.. Strangely his birthday was the same as my mothers and one day ahead of my sisters. I get on really well with them and therefore - wrongly - assumed that we would be a match made in heaven.

Initially it was. He was incredibly romantic and thoughtful and made me feel as if I was incredibly special. Our sex life also was incredible. We were very inventive and made love all the time! However he was also very possessive and jealous. He could be quite controlling and once took a knife to a skirt of mine which he deemed too provocative.

He implied that I brought out the worst in him and that the behavior was my fault. Even now I have to remind myself it wasn't all my fault.. Our relationship was quite volatile and seemed to involve a rollercoaster of breaking up and reconciliation.

Quite often when we were on a break he would meet another partner and then very obviously flaunt her. This would break my heart as my self esteem was not great back then.. Like I said our best times were truly wonderful, romantic and sexy but the worst were appalling! We lasted three years on and off - mostly on to be fair but we could never have got married - it was like a fairy tale but there was no reality which is what I needed.

Thank god we never had children as he was so self obsessed I would have been so torn. I have had difficulties with Male Librans being rather flighty and childish as well as sexually charged. I am not sure if this is down to their star sign or perhaps I bring out the worst in them!

Strangely I have been happily married to a Capricorn for many years now and we have kids and lots of nice stuff in our nice home! Funny that!

Im a Libra Male and she's a Taurus. We've been together for 20 years and loving almost every minute of it!

I have been on and off with a Taurus woman (I am a Libra male), and after 4 years of being a see-saw, fickle minded Libra, her patience, enduring affection got me. I am now seeing the potential in our relationship, and seeing that we are inseparable. We are great friends, great lovers, and goofballs. If you're a Libra male, what you need is a Taurus woman, long-run.

I am a Taurus woman... with a Libra man. We dated a couple of years back, decided it wasn't our time, and just recently ran into each other again, and picked up right where we left off. The chemistry between us is amazing. We love to laugh together, and have an absolutely amazing sex life. he is very romantic, but deathly afraid of commitment and talking about the future.

After he finally opened up about that, I was able to tell him that I was in no hurry for marriage or anything like that either. I just let him know that we are in it to have fun and enjoy each other! and now he is the one begging me to "be more serious." Funny how that worked.... I don't know at all what the future holds for us, but I can say that this is one of the happiest, most fun relationships I have ever been in!

I have had an on and off relationship with a Libra male, I am a Taurus female. The sex was made in the shade; I guess that was because we are both children of the ruling planet Venus. My only issue was his uncompromising nature, and I noticed that he required a great deal of freedom.

I am a Taurus woman happily married to a Libra Man. We just made it over the 1 year hill, and BOY was it steep! LOL

When we were dating, I immediately fell weak at the knees for his mesmerizing smile and his irresistible sense of humor. And he says he immediately fell for my sweet compassion and my wise cracks. lol

But once we were married, things started getting so complicated because my husband was such a control freak! Everything had to be his way and I was expected to fall at his feet, which COMPLETELY clashed with my stubbornness.

But I loved this man so much I didn't want to see myself without him, so I strengthened my patience and my charm and we compromised. IT WAS DAMN HARD but DAMN WELL WORTH IT.

Today, my husband is the most loving and understanding Prince Charming I could ever dream of, and we are inseparable. I think I love him more than I love myself.

I absolutely love everything about my Libra man! hopefully some day he will marry me. I'm a Taurus woman and I will do anything to keep him happy. I would wipe his ass even if I didn't have to.. lol!

I am a male Libra (30yrs old) in love with a female Taurus (25yrs.) we've been acquaintances for 6 years (although in different cities), but have now lived in the same city for a year and a 1/2. We've always had a crush on each other and a magnetism toward each other (and have had a series of past on and off hook-ups) Within the last few months, things have evolved from just occasional, passionate 'hook-ups' to intense and more frequent times together (which have been great)

We've casually expressed that we like each other (I'm really nuts about her) and she has feelings for me but wants to take things 'slow' (which I took as rejection) and said she doesn't want 'commitment' RIGHT NOW (I think she still might have slight feelings from her ex from a year and a 1/2 ago, who lives across the country!) Bottom line is, I want relationship/commitment but I think that she might be scared???

Even her girlfriends ask if we're dating and have said she adores me, but every time I try to take it to the next level w/ commitment, she seems to want nothing but fun and space until she is in the mood to hang out again.

I guess I'm trying to discern how she really feels.... (please help :)

Also, what's the best way to pursue her and win her over by not cramping her if she is a female Taurus in this condition?

Thanks for the help!

I'm a Taurus woman with a Libra man. We've been friends forever. The reason--because we enjoy each other's company. We enjoy the same things.. music, conversation and romantic gestures. We do clash because our views are sometimes so opposite--but we talk it out and learn to compromise. He's the best and I love him dearly.

I am a Libra man and im in love with a Taurus woman who says she in love with me. Im not saying I don't believe her because she show to me that she is. I love her so much I can't live without her to me she my perfect match. However my only problem is she want open her self 100 percent to me, and I think its because of her past with her old boyfriends. But we have a lot in common we barely argue no more we are soulmates. To me to stay in this relationship I have to take things slow and be more patient when it comes to committing her self to me 100 percent she does commit herself but not fully. And being more compromised. Other then that me and her share a unexplainable love that's so passionate and untouchable. I pray we make it cause I damn sure im not giving up. Its to strong we can make it.

I am a Taurus woman who USED to be married to a Libran male. Yes, Libran males can have that charming smile, BUT, don't let it fool you! Because they are the scales, their minds are never made up, and they are very wishy washy. My ex was always changing his stories, lying to cover up the lie before. After over two decades and several children later, it was over for me. Double trouble if your Libran male's mother is also Libran, (mine shared his mom's birthday). My own mother is also Libran, so I had to deal with a lot of wishy washyness, LOL!! Taurus women are upfront, practical, down to earth and know their minds. That is me. I don't have patience for people who play games and lie, and can't make up their minds on just about anything. Taurus women are the opposite; once their minds are made up, that's it, LOL! Libran men, I have also found, are very vindictive if they don't get their own way (aka controlling), and won't stop until they feel they have won, and will do anything to get there. The physical attraction for me was gone fairly quickly in my marriage to the Libran. Since my divorce, I have met other Libran men, but for me, it's better to be friends with them.

I am a Taurus woman dating a Libra man, we knew each other as kids and hadn't seen each other in 16 years when a friend introduced us thinking we'd be the perfect couple. That friend was right, we haven't been dating long, but I've never been happier, just being with him, it's like we were never apart. Even when we were kids we had an undeniable attraction to each other. He's passionate about me and it shows. He does enjoy his freedom, but he's realized that being tied down to me doesn't mean loss of freedom and anytime I spend away from him drives him wild to see me again. He can be lazy, but I love to take care of him, and he likes that too. Our biggest problem? He can be a little too much into partying and spending time with friends and I'm (like most Taurus's) the jealous type, but he's learned when it's time to ask his friends to leave and I've been doing my very best at curbing my jealousy when his female friends stop by. I've also learned to vocalize my appreciation for the things he says and does, it seems we live to make each other happy. Any Taurus woman dating a Libra man has got to feel like the luckiest woman alive, I know I do!

Well what can I say...I just only share (As a Taurus woman) my feeling with my friends that I have a COMPLICATED relation with a Libra guy who was really sincere as well as caring in initial stage. After getting job he somehow might busy very much with his job and now a days he became a ambitious person. He ignored very much. When I asked him for marriage after 3 years relationship he just DENIED.I was shocked. So I also decided to break up with him but I couldn't, then I realized that we are really GOOD friends that's all. So now I am behaving like a friend with him. Suddenly he may again fall in LOVE with me and proposed for marriage.

What can I do? I am still in double mind. Is he really LOVE me or just a FUNNY GAME?

I am a Libra male dating a Taurus female, and I have to say, when I met her she was very defensive, she would show me that she liked me but yet wouldn't let me get close enough to even kiss her. when she became my girlfriend, she would tell me how much she had feeling for me, and I kind of stepped back a little because I have been hurt times before, and I just wanted her to be sure of what she was saying......2 months into the relationship, I have to be the one to always calling her, I have to be the one telling her how strong my feelings are for her, and it seems like it spooked her and she took a step back.......but yet my feelings are very strong and im not giving up( typical Libra I guess)

my Libra boyfriend got mad when I went off on him. He said he don't like that because he has been in relationship like that before. how do I get him to start communicating properly with me again?

I am a Taurus women married to a Libran Men for 9 years now & one child. It has always been a very unhappy & struggling years of my life.

Please do not get married to a Libra man if you are a Taurus women.

I am Taurus female and he is Libra. We've been dating 1.5 months and I have so much interest in him but he absolutely DOES NOT show affection. Granted, we met during a very busy time where he is on the road a lot. And, we have so much in common - food, wine, theatre, music - all the finer things. But, he cannot commit to one second of anything. I have never seen anyone like this. Very self-propelled and it seems to be all about him. While Taurus likes to be caregiver, I am getting exhausted of his "fear of being pushed" and it's hard to step back but today, I told him let's just be friends because it seems he cannot commit to anything but. I need appreciation and I am his biggest cheerleader and clearly, his fears create a lack of decision-making abilities. I have never seen anything like it.

me, Taurus, he, Libra, self-serving, selfish, intentionally sends mixed signals to get his way, is indirect and strings me (and I have witnessed and argued with him about stringing other people along to get his way). He calls it "trying to keep the peace" He lies and manipulates (using charm or guilt) DOB: 10-10-60 he is more like a self serving Scorpio...I am trying to get out but he doesn't let me go easily (and I suspect ex-girl friends, who he says contact him and he is "friends" with) or take me SERIOUSLY...and keeps calling/texting...he doesn't let it end with me or them...

I just met a Taurus women on Saturday. it is now Thursday morning (3 am) and I cannot stop thinking about her, ever! I am so infatuated with this girl, the most amazing person I have ever met, truly. I got out of a five year relationship a short time back and I wanted to take things slow, I don't what to get hurt again, but I find myself head over heels for her and doing and saying the things I told myself that I should hold off on saying and expressing feelings I never knew could come so fast. she blows my mind, just the way she is and expresses herself, how we are both so genuine and one of a kind, so different from everyone either of us has ever met yet so alike to each other. I sometimes feel like she tries to keep herself at a distance, then two seconds later she reaches out for me, bringing me right back into her arms. I don't know if I would call it mixed feelings or just her being cautious, but I do know I have never felt like this about anyone ever. granted I am only y twenty one, but I have only known her for less than a week and it is so very strange to feel this strong of a connection with someone, and she agrees. I have never connected with or felt more understood by anyone. its almost as if I wish I loved her already so I could tell her so, just to see those gorgeous eyes light up along with the smile that so delicately grows on her face every time she is taken by surprise by something said or done to make her feel special. I don't know, I am just ranting now I guess. she makes me feel fifteen again, butterflies, my heart melts over her, I cant ever hide the smile she gives me so many times a day. I will come back to tell the results sometime in the future

JM 2010

Taurus woman In Love with a Libra man. I have adore him far away since we were teens. He was my first boyfriend at 14(him) and I was 13. I always carried a picture if him in my wallet until it faded away a few months ago. Then on face book he comes out of no were. He has been my hearts desire since I can remember. He's in Korea and In in the states we chat every other day. He may call me. Im married and about to be seperated (second marriage). Everytime something is wrong in my life he seems to appear right into the picture. Well he decided he's not leaving this tie-In getting myself together. so we may will finally be together. He strings me along doesn't answer my ?'s. But I have dealt with men my whole life and he's no different than them all to me. So I do the same to him. One thing about me thou I was taught my great granny a man needs his le-way and I will grant him that. He can see me and then I want call him or be there of rhimand make him think. He comes around that s with all men) I just long for his love. I don't ask him if he loves or cares for me. I feel he does with the things he say when I have to find it reading between the lines. I asked him could he feel my passion through the computer like I feel his and he agreed. other than that I don't ask him too much. but we have great convo's I love talking to him. we have never shared a bed yet. A couple of kisses way back when we didn't know what we were doing. lol I know this is the man for me he keeps coming back into my life for some reason and we both want to find out why.

I'm a Taurus woman, born on May 13. My Libra man is born on October 3. There's a 14 year age gap. we met and hooked up when I was 19 and he was 32. we are going on 4 years now this coming up august. I actually lost my virginity to him on his 33 birthday. Today we are still together but we are both very insecure about the relationship and each other. I show it way more than him though, he is more introverted about his feelings. we've done some things to each other which were very wrong. but I'm the more forgiving and I have a lot more patience. lately I've been feeling fed up with him. He said he still wants me around because he supposedly still loves me. I think he uses me for my youth. Now that I'm 22 I'm beginning to think that its not worth it anymore and I'm losing all hope to keep us together because really its me that's keeping us together. He acts like he doesn't care if I leave. I'm very much into 2 books called the "secret languages of Relationships and Birthday yes". I'm a Taurus 3, the week of the natural, May 11-18. He's a Libra 2, the week of society, October 3-10. If there's any couple that's born on the same week as us I would greatly appreciate hearing your stories, advices, pointers and if the relationship lasted.

This is a very interesting match. I work with a Taurus woman (Im a Libra male) and there was an instant attraction. After getting to know one another, there are definitely things that turn me off about her ($ driven, too much disclosure too soon, relationship-oriented) but these are very minor in my opinion. On the other hand, she has some unbelievable qualities that few other people I've met have. She's hardworking for the $ she wants vs. gold digging, honest as hell, beautiful eyes, and self-analyses her faults and shows ACCOUNTABILITY by trying to improve upon them. These are wonderful traits that few women possess and intrigue the shit out of me.

I don't know what will happen between us but I recognize it will be my fault if we don't start a wonderful relationship. I love partying and women, and women and partying love me. I can see her being a perfect wife but I don't know if I'll ever get married.

Hi...Im a Taurus and my husband is libra.. We went around for 2 yrs and married for 3 yrs...he is a great companion. and very loyal and sincere....whenever I fight without logic, he gives up opposing and tries to make the place calm...what in life a taurean women need is Libra men....

me and my Libra have been on and off but im always the one to break it off with him because he pisses me off and when Taurus gets mad we go off, but I still love him dearly and I always think about him all the time. We've been broken up for like a year now...but we still kick it and do "other things" too which I know is not good at all but his smile just gets me and uggghhhh I gotta let him go, but now I think I'm pregnant by him...what did I get myself into?

I'm a Taurus woman, dating a Libra man for about 8 months now, it starts out fast in between us, while I still had a boyfriend, but the Libra man seems careless and free minded like a new born baby, that just makes me want to melt for him. as it got more serious about our relationship and we were planning to move in together, we continued fought for different things. I didn't know why, maybe it's because of the age4 differences. I am five year older than him, I feel tired to have to worry about many things while I usually don't have to when I was dating other mature men. but still I love him, a and I am willing to try to work things out with him. I hope. I do hope that he will never cheat on my or lie to me about other girls, he's quite flirtatious with female friends, and that worries me a lot. I need to know if he's really in love with me still after so many fights and reconciled, only thing that I can do is to make myself better and not to fight with him anymore.

I'm a Taurus woman who dated a Libra male for about 9 months. I thought everything was perfect. We connected right away, was very honest with each other. And I was very patient, didn't push anything in terms of marriage or children, since he had already come out of an ugly divorce with a child. All of a sudden without warning, he wanted to break up because he was hesitant about starting a long term relationship with me and didn't want to lead me on any longer. I let him go without drama, and with a lot of self-respect. I was hurt, but it's only been a week and am feeling better. Sometimes if it was meant to be, it will happen very easily. I also believe in my gut, in order to " keep" a Libra, sometimes you have to "let them go". They need to sense that freedom, in order to feel secure to come back. Taurus people have enduring patience which is perfect. And you know what? You might just get over it, and find someone better while you wait for them. Life can do t hat too you know.

I absolutely adore my Libra honey he is the best thing that ever happened in my life. We sometimes don't see eye to eye on certain issues and it's hard for me to change my stubborn ways but he is willing to help me In any possible way. I admire him ,he's sexy and makes me laugh he's a little bit on the crazy side But I adore him . He will do anything to keep a smile on my face . We have our disagreements here and there but 5 minutes later were laughing again .. our love life is the best I have ever had ! We have spoken about marriage hopefully in the near future !'

I'm a 42yo Libran male, and was engaged and living with a Taurean lady 4 years my junior, for 11 years long and very turbulent years. She's 3 children from her previous marriage - I became a step dad overnight! I love and adore my stepdaughter a year after getting together, I became a dad myself! My daughters 12 now, and the light of my life! She's Sagittarian, we're so close it's wonderful!

We hooked up one Christmas; she had recently divorced, I was looking for my first serious relationship, & things just kinda happened! It was as if a magical, spiritual hand had laid itself across us. I still remember our first, electric kiss. We had lots of fun together, and had very (VERY!) passionate encounters, our lovemaking was incredible!!

Most of the turbulence in the relationship was due to both of us being between jobs a lot of the time. Money was always tight, but we battled through for the kids sake. Things started going pear shaped in the mid-2000's. I couldn't keep down jobs. Eventually, we broke up - and I can honestly and openly say it was all MY fault.

I've learnt an incredible amount about myself in the 2 years we've been separated. Primarily, I should not have been so selfless in the relationship, and not lulled into a false sense of security and complacency. You have to work at relationships each and every day. Don't assume everything is alright.

For all Libran men attached to Taurean ladies, this ones for you. If you are in love with her, work at it EACH and EVERY DAY. DO NOT REPEAT DO NOT GET COMPLACENT!!!!!!!

You WILL lose her by doing so. I lost my girl, and am so very sad and lonely now - I miss her company terribly :(

Bright spot is we now talk so openly each time we meet, it's comforting to know I consider her my best friend now!

So im a Taurus women. This friend of a friend Libra man decided he was into me. So at first I wasn't feeling him. A few of my friends was like give him a chance. I'm like no he on the short side and I need this and this and that in order for him to be consider to be my man lol. So I fell back a little. Then he approached me. So I decided to give him a chance. Now I cant stop thinking about how charming he is and I barely know the guy at all. Sooo I just wanted to know if we was even compatible. I guess we are...im not sure but I plan on giving this a go. If you have any advice please write. I'll be back to share how it all turned out. Thanks ;O)

I married a Libra man .. he was my best friend .. he listened to my neediness and spoiled me all the time I later divorced him not cause we didn't get along or cause of bad sex but because we married so young that we did everything wrong in the beginning that only young young adults do that grew me to resistant him and vice versa.. As a adult now I know what type of person I am and I know what is right and wrong in a married .. My stubborn has passed and I would marry a Libra again .. I'm dating one now and I couldn't be happier.. I think truthfully people themselves need to grow on there part before anything can really grow and happen .. I have ..

I am a Taurus woman married to a Libra man...Whom I am absolutely in love with! We have been married for 10 years now. I fell in love with him right from the start; it took a little time for him due to the fact that he had just come out of a bad ending marriage. My patience and understanding paid off after some time and we couldn't love each other more. He is everything that I could want in a man, kind, caring, very affectionate! Our sex life has always been amazing. We haven't always agreed on everything but we have great communication and always try and understand each other's point of view and compromise. We accept each other for what we are and it just works! He is the love and light of my life; I wouldn't want to be with anyone in this world but him!

S.D. 2010

How do I attract a Libra 14 year old? I am a girl who is in the same school year as him. How am I supposed to look classy and sophisticated in plain and shapeless school uniform? Please Help! :(

Laura

I feel old saying this, but it's somehow depressing to see 14 year olds posting questions like that. I'm sure we were all exactly the same at 14, but.. Enjoy your childhood while you can. You may be a young adult mentally, but if he's also 14 then being male his mental age is about 10. My Libra is 32 and he act's like he's 16 most days, so I'm actually being generous on that calculation lol.

I am a Taurus women who has had an on off relationship with a Libra man for the past three years. The last year of our relationship there was no intimacy at all. The last 12 months he still keeps in contact by SMS in a friendly manner , I have tried ignoring him, telling him to stop SMS but he still continues as I need to move on to get him out of my system. Why on earth does he still try to keep in contact when he is clearly not interested in a relationship with me?

I am a Taurus woman in love with a Libra man. My past relationships included much conflict and for the first time I have met someone who is "peaceful and harmonious". He is kind to others and does anything to avoid conflict. I have been conditioned to being with people who "react" he does not "react" to much at all. I feel that I can now be at peace in a relationship.

It has only been 4.5 months and I am very expressive about my feelings, where he is not. I am trying not to be insecure with the fact that he is not a good communicator about feelings. He came out of a terrible relationship and perhaps does not want to get hurt. I think I need to stand back and just be patient with him. Even though he does not use words to tell me he loves me, his actions speak louder than words. He is always doing special things for me when I do not ask him to.

The love-making is great and we are passionate and very connected. When we are not making love though, he is not sensual the way I am. I like to touch and be touched, hold hands, and just kiss.. He never initiates any of this and I am hesitant to be the initiator. What should I do?