Libra man and Virgo woman

Visitor experiences and questions on Libra man Virgo woman relationships

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I'm a Virgo women I like Libra men the one I was with was very caring treated me with respect but we were only sex partners the sex was good but I started getting feeling and he didn't so all niceness went to a minimum when he saw I was acting like he was my man... but I didn't know that was all I was to him I thought we would have sex and it would turn into a relationship we were doing all the things that couples do but it ended



I am in a relationship with a Libra man, and I am a Virgo woman, and let me tell you, his charm is incredible, but his JEALOUSY is miserable!!



Libra man has a great charm and elegance. He is very sociable. He is very intelligent and a diplomatic. He loves to challenge and ask Virgo a lot of questions. Virgo able to answer 9 out 10 of Libra's questions before he can be trusted Virgo. Libra always be there to support and guard his friend-Virgo Lady. Libra is perfect when meet a perfect Virgo, both of them are equally. All Libra are not the same.

I'm Virgo; I have Libra as friend. A true Libra is perfect. I love the way he talks and laughs. We enjoyed the company even though we never sleep or have sex together. He has an expensive taste. These two signs love to make peace.

How is Libra and Virgo's children look like? Are they Beautiful and intelligent? In my heart, I'm attracted to Libra man.



Virgo Women....beware of this relationship. The Libra man will appear to be all that you want from a partner, however, the alone factor of his characteristics will/may cause an issue in the relationship. It can get off to a rocky start but with diligence and patience....it may work.



I have been with my husband for a year now he is a Libra. I love his taste & always wanting to keep the peace but Libras tend to be a bitÂ… nosey & jealous and self absorbed !

he is very charming though I love him but he has issues



Ladies Libra!!! You need advices from your Astrology if you want to find the best mate/relationship; you need to know exactly of someone's Birthday such as month, date, day, and time in order for Astrology to read for you. That all I can say. Since there are twelve zodiac sign, individual zodiac is very different in characteristics and personalities trait. My Zodiac Sign is Virgo. I met one beautiful and handsome engineering-25 years old; I knew he flirt a lot with ladies; just flirting or it is because of his Zodiac nature. He told me, "he never like those ladies for a soul mate for whom he have been flirt with." So, we need to learn and understand any person-sign that you just met. It takes time. An educated Libra man is very intelligent, not street smart, believe or not; I swear. I'm Virgo, I feel for him and I knew he feels for me, but both of us respected to each other. I love him, in my heart, in a higher degree until I have a dream and nightmare...LOL. Though, w e never been sleep together or out to the movie. Well, if you, Ladies Libra or Virgo, lucky enough, you'll meet a perfect mate. But remember, there is no such thing perfect by itself. We need to work out also for the best result. Our zodiac sign is very important; it is symbolizes/shows of how we are behave for each personality for each of the twelve sign. I wish you, for all signs meet the right sign-good luck for all.

I'm a Virgo lady refuse to get hurt-heartbroken. I fall once but never ever again. I'm impressed for this Website. It is benefit to all the visitors. Thank you, David-professor of Astrology; any question or concern for a compatibility, inquire him. I'm addicted with your website and love you, David.

Virgo.



I was born on the 1st day of Libra who is crushing with a gorgeous Virgo lady; she is very pretty and very intelligent as I ever met. She and I are very challenging. I like that kind of girl. I cant say anything than Wow this girl!!! She's not an easy lady that I could wish in my dream. I think I fall in love with this Virgo. I can't forget the remarkable of her characteristics/personality. She is very loyal, loving, and caring. She is perfect as I notice than the most of the Zodiac sign. I'm looking for word to express to Virgo if I can wins her as my princess. I love her and qualities. She turn red on her check each time when I speak to her. What can I do? I need some idea from you.

Libra man in love



Libra man here. This message board seems to be about the least used on this entire site! What's up with that? I've recently discovered that I love Virgo women! I need to find out more about you quiet secretive intellectual ladies.. And I can't if no one is posting here! I love the concept of these message boards, but the ones for the 'quiet' signs are.. Well.. Too quiet! Lol.

If any Virgo women have questions about their Libra men I'd be happy to try and answer them. I figure this might be the best way to get inside your heads.. So ask away! :)



I've recently met an Libra man im an Virgo woman...we met on myspace lol how unromantic but it has turned out ok...he's really sweet to me at all times...loves giving random kisses...we've only hung out this weekend and his already talking about taking me shopping next weekend....to all my Libra men do you guys like showering someone you like in gifts???...One thing I can say that I don't like so far is that he seems a lil needy or needs my attention everyday...We hung Friday and sat and he wanted 2 c me today also kept txts me ova and ova...I don't like needy men at all hope he will stop that cuz I love everything else about him......Another ? Libra guys...Do you try to introduce women to your parents fast? On the second day we hung he was trying to get me to meet his mom I had already introduced myself to his aunts and I guess they liked me...but for me meeting the parents is big and I don't like rushing that



I am a Virgo woman. The Libra man in my life is my boyfriend's brother-in-law. Yes he is married. No, we haven't had sex but it is always there, on both our minds. If our friendship blossoms into something more, it can never be anything more than an affair and that saddens me because I know from our day to day lives that the sex would be passionate and explosive yet tender and loving...what is a girl to do? This is what I wrote in my diary...

A brush of his arm on my breast. A smile, a laugh. All the things too subtle to be noticed by others. Am I at his mercy? And why does the forbidden fruit stir such desires, such passions within? There is nothing to be gained by it. Yet it is as if there has been a ravaging awakening it consumes me, body and soul those chills up and down my spine; and why is it so hard to breathe? I cant catch my breath in his presence. Its fire within my veins and ice on my skin. And look in his eyes? I dare not for I know from the panic, the euphoria, the trembling, that his eyes see right through me, right to my soul. I will never be able to lie to him, not even a fib. He knows me somehow better than I know myself. He knows what moves me. We play this game of chance -the chance for a personal touch or a hushed whisper. The opportunity to pamper each other with a simple common courtesy or a small but tasteful gift. Oh the restlessness within. Ever so complicated. A tangled w be of stolen moments. My heart is racing. My mouth is watering. My voice is trembling. My hands are shaking. Why am I so drawn to him? Is he calling for me? He appeals to my dark side. What am I doing? What am I thinking? Ive heard it said that love only comes once in a while, knocks on your door and throws you a smile, takes every breath, leaves every scar, speaks through your soul and sings to your heart I don't know who wrote those words but it is a Libra's rendition of love. Or is it? Is this love? I thought maybe its lust but I cant get him off my mind. Each time I drift off to sleep he runs through my dreams. Each time I start to day dream he is there. He grounds me, tells me to go on,, continue the journey. "It is inevitable." he says. That we will venture into something more than friendship. We both want it. But how when we are rarely alone together. His Aquarius wife is extremely jealous of all women. I know how much she loves him but I also know how much she infuriates him. The constant state of chaos and conflict in the house because of her parenting style wears him down. It is sad. She lost him once and didn't learn a thing. I don't want to be the downfall of their marriage but I can't take responsibility for her actions, only my own...and I am growing weaker by the day. How long will I be able to resist his charm?



Libra is the perfect sign than the rest of the twelve signs on the astrological chart. I read every articles mostly all the signs. I noticed for Libra is the most interesting of all. Libra has the least problem. No one complain that much about Libra man on this page. So, girls and ladies, if you like to date with a man, go with Libra!! I'm Virgo, I have no wishes to be a mate with Libra but I knew Libra men, women are very good. They are fair, well balance, and protect friend from emotional injury. I love this guy sooo much when I think what he said to me "You Jump, I Jump." I was young didn't know what he mean-just now. He so gentle and sweet to the soul. Anyway, he is just my friend nothing else even though he said, "I am too involve now."

I don't know how sweet if we both kiss. Can you Libra, guy tell us about you??? I'm a Modest Virgo lady very curious. I want to hear from Libra man-your words. Okay! Thanks.



I met an agent who is Libra on the phone; younger than me a year. I feel very normal when I call him at his office; I can feel his heart even though it is far a way; he encourages me to contact him more often by callings or email him, so he offered me a lot of helps if I definitely need him in any thing-may talk. The fact he compliments me; I have no flatter at all... Never!

I read his note; I can feel his gentleness toward me. To love him might be not a chance; he looks great; tall. I may be invite him to the restaurant or cook for him at my grandmother's house. His status is higher than me; he told me, "he likes my name." I asked, why??? "You are gorgeous, loyal, smart, and care, said he." No, please leave me alone. I stop email him almost a year or so. Now I feel so lonely. So I start talking to him and text him more. He acted that he is older than me some how but he is cool. He is Greek and I spoke French to him. Still we speak English.

I need help from a real Libra. How is Libra feel toward Virgo??? Since I'm Virgo lady-genius. I start to think of him than I didn't before. Do I fall in love with him?



I am a Libra, 30 years. I met a Virgo gal of 27years age . At first she approached me, and I could se she was attracted. I was too, so I turned on the best on what I had. With in no time, she was in my bed and loving it. She would call me all de time and plead to be with me all the time. I was happy. then things changed........

she said I had changed alot---de truth is I lost my trust in her, and felt very restless/insecure about my relationship with her. I also felt the urge to rush things---introduce her to my relatives, get engaged , make the relationship public etc. I also found myself shouting at her many times for simple reasons. I feel I love her a lot, but her indifference to my needs is overwhelming. To me she appears too selfish, cold, spoiled, anti-social, stingy, ........lifeless. its suffocating me, yet I love her. I don't wanna let her go. we have separated twice, and reunited twice. how can I tell her what I need, when she just nids her head and makes no visible effort to make me happy? aure30



Virgo Lady IN LOVE with a Libra man

I haven't ever met him, I have been talking on the phone to him for 5 years. We exchanged numbers on myspace he is from my hometown he lives far away now. He wants me to come live with him. I do not know if he feels the same way about me. It's hard to tell. He is really wishy-washy. He told me if I come live with him I cannot have any male company. What if we just end up friends like we have been for so long. I am still going to love him. We have 4 or 5 hour conversations everyday. He knows everything about me, the good, bad and ugly. I really do love him. more than I have anyone I have ever been with, and I haven't even MET him, what do I do?



Virgo girl here! Let me just say my experience with a Libra man has been the most confusing and ridiculous kind of relationship ever! Libra has charm, no doubt, but he uses it to make you fall in love with him just because he likes the attention. As soon as you give him that attention, you are no longer special. Libra man seems selfish and detached to me. He is sweet but I think it's because he wants everybody to like him. This has been one of those things I've had to just let go, even though I love the high when I'm around him. The high is not worth it because he does not mean what he says. I don't understand a Libra and he does not understand me!



My experience with a Libra.

I'm from the Caribbean and he was from Botswana. He came to my island to do school. I'm the beginning I really had no interest in him whatever. It all changed when there was an event taking place by our faculty room. my friend an I were on our way to chess club, when she bucked into one of her friend from class as well and they started to chat, then more pple came over and we were all standing and talking. then he(libra guy) came over as well..he was sweating and all(seemed as if he was running from his hall room to present location), and he was asking where exactly the Class event was keeping etc...

Da group of decided to go get a bite and we were chilling and talking and all...that's when he caught my attention- I LOVED his sense of humour, it was great..and from that day I was stuck to him..we hung ouot the nx day..and he just fascinated me and I was so curious to learn so much more about him.

We hung out more and more each day and one night he told me he loved me..i didn't take him seriously..because it was too early for him to be in love with me..so I said ok. and asked him y. his answer was beautiful.. I think he's the most charming guy I knw.

We went to the pond one day and I really wanted to kiss him, but I never initiated those things b4..so I sent real obvious gestures showing that I wanted to..but he didn't understand.. idk...so I just finally decided to..lol..i guess I wasn't myself that day...he's too charming and him not giving me want I wanted made me want it more...

The kiss was dif though. and later that night I asked him if he was a virgin.. he said he was.. he asked me y I asked the quess ..and I told him I was curious(would never want to hurt his ego).

Weeks went by and we spent much time together, being that we had the same classes etc, we'd talk everyday and then even in the nights.. He was a great conversationalist..and being that I was usually on the quieter side..i loved it- he made me feel so special.

One night I asked him what his fantasy was and he said to lose his virginity.. I told him I would fulfill it.

When we did do it, he reminded me of myself when I lost my virginity.. a bit shy at 1st..but then after getting comfortable things were great.

we decided to become gf/bf and our relationship was wonderful, I loved him and would try and do anything to help him to me he was everything... things went like that until the 8th month.. then everything changed.. I didn't understand it all. I felt like I didn't know him anymore.. he didn't trust me and that left me frustrated and confused..caus I was so honest to him...I told him everything about me. I guess he couldn't let go of my past. and would get jealous (example. I have a friend who I send forwards to as well..so I guess fr always seeing the name he started to assume things)but the guy was just my friend.

I started getting real emotional..too emotional I think..i always felt hurt..and I would tell him and he didn't seem to care..everything just went torturous..and he left me confused most of the times.. he started to neglect me and made lil disrespectful comments. he didn't want to show too much affection to me..i was practically dieing inside.

the relationship became really unhealthy to me so I decided to end it. He was the 1st guy I ever really loved though..and well I still do.. but things just changed and too drastically. I think the person above me summarize the libra man well..thats just how it was..



Well, I'm with this Libra man whom I absolutely adore. I must admit though, he comes off as really jealous at times. I think I'm pretty free spirited when it comes to the opposite sex, so I feel that there should be no problems with male friends, but he is not having it! lol

He does have a lot of good qualites though. He gives me the security that I crave. I do feel that he does move fast though when it comes to marriage and taking our relationship to the next level; but that may just be my issue with not accepting that we can actually have a good marriage without having dated for a set amount of time.

He can be very childish at times and I find my self being mother like to him. I handle all of the finances as far as making sure the bills are paid on time and all. He just goes to work and makes the money. I allocate the funds.

I love the way he takes the authoritive role naturally. It takes a lot for me to want to step out of the driving seat, but he does it. I like the way that he's a manly man.



I'm a Virgo women an I love me a Libra man..he is the best partner I ever had in the bed...he's caring an so easy to talk to



I'm a Virgo women who went out with a Libra man. He hurt me so bad and cheated on me many times. He was a liar and used his charm just to get me in bed.One thing that I have to say is the sex was very good. But all Virgo women stay away from Libra men!!!!!



I am a Virgo woman dated a Libra man for three years. honhestly they can be loving, but one thing I don't understand is the fear of committement from them they don't have the drive to fix thing they don't talk about their feeling therefore as a Virgo woman you end up insecure thats where all the relaionship problems start he pushes you away does not give the woman a chance to be herself and to show her love for him this suffocate a Virgo woman.



Hello I'm a Libra man and I've been with my Virgo lady for 5 years now. She is the most beautiful, sexy, lovable woman I have ever met. She is, however, terribly critical which causes me some pain as I find critisism sometimes hard to take especially if it seems unfair. I know I can sometimes be argumentative especially if she gives me generalised opinions or if the critism is unjust. I try hard not to do this because when she is annoyed with me she can be in a dark mood for several days. I find moodiness hard to accept in anyone and sometimes will try to lift her out of her mood by joking. This often makes things much worse!

I have never been with anyone who can make me so furious at one moment and the next make me want her so badly.

Sometimes it feels as if she cares not one bit for me and at other times I feel loved as I have never been loved before.

Any Virgo ladies out there, any guidence you can give me would be gratefully received.



my Libra I fell in love with him...but he thinks in his head its ok he always gets his way nothing he does is ever wrong ..we are both very stubborn and our personalities are challenging but being single 8 years I can look past those if he could meet me halfway I finally met the man I know is worthy of my love he's charming I give you that much listens but how to get him to see through my eyes you tell me



okay so I am an 19 year old Virgo woman dating a 20 year old Libra male... honestly,.. we are nothing alike!! he is sooo sociable, very flirtatious, and doesn't like to be told what to do, well basically constructive critism... he likes going out to parties and meeting new people and I normally shy away from that stuff..

we have been dating for five months now and the begining was really hard! I just felt we would never work out because of how different we were and because he would never express his feelings to me which being a Virgo I need because I hate second guessing someones feeling for me. words are just words, you need to show me!

but one thing I am gonna say is that he was deff willing to compromise with alot.. we both came to a medium in our relationship and it couldnt be better now... I always heard that you normally find a partner that has the personality traits you lack because you want to gain those in one way or another.. and now I believe that is true because now I do like going out more often and he likes staying in. it couldnt be better!

if your having some difficulties ladies, do not worry!!! with time and patience you can get the man you always dreamed of! it just takes a little more effort to make this realtionship work but its worth it.



Libra men are the best at charming the virgo. Lets face it Virgo women we fall for the Libra man very easy and I would do it again in a heartbeat no man can treat you as good as a Libra can.



I met Libra man he is sooo perfect 100% my type but I only spend tyme with him only twice and I be callin him he. he somtimes soo rude I just wanna get an attitude but I try to be nice I also have this personaltity disorder that he mite hates.

ps.CAN YOU SAY A Virgo LADY LIKE MI SHOULD BE IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY



I'm a Libra guy and I have dated this Virgo girl for nearly four years and even though we broke up almost 4 months ago, we started talking again. All I can say is, be VERY careful with this relationship.

Libra guys, we have charm, grace, and handle every social curb ball thrown at us. We have the tendency to become the person you want most in life and that can be good and bad. You must remember to be open and honest with both yourself and her. We balance things. Therefore, we tend to put ourselves in positions we don't really like just to keep the peace, and end up hating it later without warning. Being open and honest from the get go will prove to be better for the both of you.

Virgo girls, you are beautiful and comforting to be around, but you have to work just as hard as libra. Libra's like advice so they can make up their own minds, but hate when you dictate or offer ultimatums that don't allow them to consider other options. You need to learn that while you're opinion is valued, you should consider the feelings of others before you become too blunt. And when you're Libra guy is spontaneous and charming to you, he secretly wants you to do the same for him instead of waiting for what he does next.

Libra balances life while Virgo puts the rest in order. Both are good thinkers and have great conversations, but remember your strong points and don't hold back. Not being honest and open will undo you, but keeping the line of communication open like a highway will bond you both even more. Neither one of you should "settle", and it takes time to understand each other. This relationship is like fine wine, it takes a while to get where you want to be, but once you wait and then pop the cork, it tastes so sweet.



I'm a Libra man and my beautiful, sexy, clever, smart mouthed, annoying, caring, frustrating, and sensitive girlfriend is a Virgo woman. Lol, nice description, right? Anyways, I love this woman to death and I'm pretty sure she feels something similar as well. I've known her since 10th grade and I couldn't stand her; her constant maiking fun of me during class was annoying as hell and it surprised me because she was the first girl I ever was mean to... that I can remember. Besides her, the only women to get me so frustrated are my mom and sister... so yeah... Throughout high school she was like the arch nemesis. But we made up on our senior year and became some what friends during college. ( We ended up going to the same Community College.)

I've read through these post and I gotta say much of these Virgo womans traits are nothing but at the same time some what relative to my girl... weird. When we first tried to talk it was horrible! She constantly made fun of me, I could never get a straight answer from her, it was a challenge just to keep eye contact with her, and whenever I tried approaching the topic about us she would evade evade evade. Needless to say we never got that chance to actually become boyfriend or girlfriend. A lost cause is what I figured.

So two years passed and we barely spoke to each other in those years, but then one day a friend of ours comes to visit from school and something clicks... We're constantly flirting with eachother, we keep looking at each other from acroos the rooms, and when we talked their was nothing but laughter. Yeah, our friends were pretty annoyed with us.

As we were whining things down we were talking outside and then I noticed something really different about her... She was looking me in the eye the whole time we were talking and I saw it... She wanted me to kiss her. I don't know how I knew but I did and I wanted to so bad! But I kept my distance for a bit cause back then she use to have this weird policy that she doesn't kiss anyone if she's not going out with them. So I mulled it over and I think to myself 'screw it!' So I kissed her... It was... crazy. I never believed the whole spark from a kiss thing, but my body and mind was on auto-piolt cause next thing I know I'm picking her up and setting her on my car( While kissing mind you.) and we're lost into eachother. Call it pent up emotions from those years of not getting that kiss out of the way or maybe the fact that we're just good kissers. Whatever the reason I knew from there I had to make her mine... and I did.

We've been going out for 11 months now and it's been fantastic! Of course we've had our petty and big arguments and I know theirs plenty to come. But I love this Girl! She's the best and I tell her that whenever I can. She can still be pretty reserved when we talk about sex or her feelings at times, and I know I have to be patient with her since I was the one who took her virginity, which I'm working on and she understands.

We constantly argure but its very normal since we've done it for years, and she's very clever with comebacks which I find annoying and equally endearing. Lol, we're complicated.

Anyways, I know I wrote a whole essay just now but my main point is to the people that believe a Libra and Virgo relationship is blasphemy. I'm sorry but you're wrong, I believe that these horoscopes have some good points but it doesn't only describe who that person is entirely. I believed that the reason my girl and I are so good together is because of those years we had apart from eachother. We matured and saw what else was out there and thanks to God we were brought together again.

I believe with time, patience, and understanding the most uncompatible of people can be the best of lovers.



I'm a Virgo girl and the one guy I fell for happened to be a Libra, but he played me and once I fell for him and told him I liked him, he tried to get me to have sex with him...I didn't of course, but for a while he would do stuff with me and kiss me... but then totally started to ignore me and told me he can't have a relationship with me, but went on to date other girls soon after...I personally think they're bad news and I wouldn't trust another Libra guy because they seem to lie and are selfish attention-seekers...



I am a Virgo woman and from my experience Libra men can be very selfish, self absorbed, pulls away then comes back like nothing ever happened. Libra men loves to be the center of attention, doesn't like to apologize, and when it is time for a serious conversation they seem to get defensive and to sum it up in a nutshell it's been a terible experience. Virgo woman are the perfectionist of the zodiac and we deserve more stabilty especially when it comes to the meeting of the minds our best trait.



Where do I begin, I have fallen completely in love with an older Libra Man. I am 49 and he is 66. Can I just tell you that I believe it's more about individuality. Every one is different. There is NO book, are NO words, that can possibly be right for Everyone. It could'nt be that simple. Life is not that simple. I have had many, many men in my life. Never, ever, have I had any love like this before. He is always thinking about me and how to make me happy, and in return makes me want to do the same for him. Maybe it's the age difference I don't know. This TRUE Virgo Woman thank's you GOD for sending me my almost perfect Libra Man. INCREDIBLE!!!!!!!!!!! C.B.



To "Libra man in love" from Virgo girl's point of view to catch the heat of that girl, help her try to get into her work worried, and you well see that she can doubt the trick, Virgo woman always cares for her work, to share with her that important experience and to help her more over would mean a lot to her, she always search for that person, who can take care of that thing with her, lover cry with her laugh with her and even make her world easier and share the success with her. Believe me she always wants so, but she never say. Step by step she will be forgetting all her work worries and she will turn to that hero that was always there for her and you will see yourself "obligatory" involved with her even without saying anything, because that kind of woman believes in the world of actions that speak louder that words



I agree with the person above. They are selfish, shallow and crave attention, also cheaters... you can't trust them.



I have been off and on With my Libra man for 6 years. We have been through numerous arguments and countless hours of driving each other nuts.!! through it all he has showed me a part of myself that I wish I had an do have but may not always show it he is my other half."People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life." That sums up how I feel about him Yes he has jealousy streaks but we make it through everything together I am planning on marrying this man and spending my life w/ him. You gotta take the good w/ the bad people and just drop your fears and start working together w/ your Libra man believe me he may be up and down all the time but you will know when he truly loves you because he will understand you for your Virgo traits as will you, and you too will come toget her on things. Believe me it's CRAZY but works. :)



I'm a Virgo girl and my Libra man I've loved since I was 12. We are 30 now. He relentlessly tormented me in school he always would do things to get my attention but then some days he would not pay me any attention at all. We werent as close in high school but we always had an understanding and a bond that was unspoken were just never ran in the same circle of people. After high school we were seperated for about 10 years then we reconnected under some odd circumstances. but it was like a head over heels type of situation when we did. Then after about a year I became scared of the obvious social differences and level of commitment he would have to our relationship. we took about a year and a half break then he came back with a vengence! He was ten times more than relentless making it known he had to have me in his life. I encouraged him not to try to make a commitment with me because I have such high expectations and I've been hurt before. I'll admit i'm a lot to han dle. But he wouldn't hear of it. So I gave in because its not like for a minute I ever stopped loving or wanting him but since then we're about 4 months in and I'm bracing myself constantly for heartbreak. He is very affectionate and openly afectionate and that gives me security but I have some self insecurities that leak into the relationship and it drives him insane. I know I may push him away before too long. I want this to work becaus eI've always loved him always wanted to marry him and have his children but I fear we wont make it a year this time...



I am a 22 year old Virgo woman and I've been dating a 28 year old Libra man for the past 2 years we just recently got back together after a three month break-up but while I was single I realized my Libra was THE ONE for me other guys just don't appeal to me anymore. One thing I realized being single again is that all guys have issues no one is perfect but I would rather deal with my man knowing his issues then to start all over meeting someone else that could be worse off! Now he does drive me crazy being indecisive but I know he loves me so I just try to be patient with him which was actually pretty hard for me at first. At first my Beyonce Virgo instincts kicked in I thought He Just Doesn't Deserve My Love but anytime I attempted to leave he was always doing what he could to keep me (while we were broken up we still never completely stopped talking to each other) so I don't think its that he doesn't deserve me I just think that sometimes we get to a point in our r elationship when we decide to make the next step (which he always offers the next step ex. he asked me to move with him because his job relocated but now that I have agreed to move next weekend he isn't answering the phone) and he freezes up on me as if he doesn't know what to do with me I urge him to just talk to me but he still runs and duck for cover till he comes up with a plan and he feels its safe to come out LOL. This used to drive me up a wall because I don't like being left in the dark but anytime he has done this he comes back so charming and smooth just thinking about it I have to say I hate that I love him so much:) But for those seeking a Libra man or already dating a Libra man just know to be patient and I promise you'll love your relationship both the good and bad about it!!! God Bless!



I used to date a Libra man. they're quiet romantic. but I don't know. he was too romantic and clingy. and dramatic. so yeah. I don't think Libra works with virgo. but my most of my friends are libras. sometimes they tick me off. so rude. but fun.



Im a Libra guy with my Venus in Scorpio & my girl is a Virgo sun/Libra Venus. We have known each other for a few years, our friends tried to hook us up then & that did not work out at all. Fast forward 4 years & the attraction is still there. We have been together for almost a year & I love her very much. It is true about both signs being a mystery to each other?. We are very much different creatures. One of her favorite things to say is ?walk in my shoes & you would understand? well to put it simply, you cant & probably never will understand each other. She is shy, irrational, outgoing, critical, clever, funny (sometimes at least), & very devoted all at the same time. She can be the girl of my dreams & my worst nightmare, all in the same night. It?s the most ridiculous relationship ive ever been in but I absolutely LOVE this girl.

That being said, there is most defiantly a dark side to this relationship. There are many bad traits which we both have that could be described as less than perfect. Im a guy that can usually admit my faults, I can be an overly sensitive, emotional, argumentative, cynical, sarcastic heathen sometimes & worst of all im prone to jealousy (thanks to my venus) but WOW she is one critical female with a sharp tounge if provoked. I really think that she somehow ?tricked? herself into being my girlfriend. Don?t ask me, I couldn?t tell you how that happened?.All I can say is enjoy I enjoy my Virgo girl for what she is, I don?t have any expectations of her because I am not guaranteed any. You will most likely be engaged in stimulating conversation for 2 or 3 days, they use that as there foreplay & then once she is comfortable she is the perfect person for me. She is a girl with options that is high in demand, no doubt that she chose me. She knew that I was crazy about her before we ever got together.

Be careful with this relationship, it can blow up in your face if you are not careful but it has so much potential & as a ?true? Libra I rolled the dice with my relationship. It is a very difficult & complicated relationship, but with love, understanding, patience & a LOT of communication, well I believe a mutually beneficial Libra/Virgorelationship outweighs the risks. If you are a Libra or a Virgo & you are considering the other as a partner, I would recommend reading a book on your candidate?s sun sign, then one on your own. Like I said before these two signs are different creatures altogether.



I'm a Virgo gal with a Libra guy and I love this pairing. Maybe it's because we're both older and have figured out what we will and won't tolerate in a relationship and partner that it works so well but it really does. Virgos tend to be very practical and pragmatic but secretly we want to be doted on and taken care of just like everyone else - it just tends to be us who do the lion's share of the caring most of the time. with the right Libra guy you'll be showered with affection, sweetness and security. Libras want to take care of people too, and often put themselves completely off kilter to do it. This is where the partnership aspect of relationshipping comes into play heavily. A Virgo knows how to say, and mean, the word no. Libras really don't. Virgos can help the Libras achieve that all important balance they're always striving for in caring and being cared for. And in return you will have someone who literally make you their priority in life. I have never been treated more respectfully, complimented as often or taken such car of in any relationship as this one. Libras do tend to be possessive, but so do Virgos - they'll tell you they aren't but we are. we all are. :) Libras also like a lot of attention, and a lot of your time so if you're the type of Virgo who cannot handle someone who wants to wrap themselves up in you that's something you need to share at the very start of your relationship. Libras are incredibly affectionate people and want everyone who sees you to know that you're part of a couple, this can be a bit much if you're a hands off in public kind of gal - just work out what is acceptable PDA to you and it all works out. Personally I really dig the fact that my guy likes to dote on me by doing the things that are important to ME. A Libra listens to what you like because he truly does want to make you happy, and he wants for you to make him happy in return. Virgos like practical demonstrations of affection, acts of service ? and Libras like affection, and they?ll happily trade you what you want/need for what they want/need. Remember it?s all about balance to a Libra!



I'm a Virgo gal with a Libra guy and I love this pairing. Maybe it's because we're both older and have figured out what we will and won't tolerate in a relationship and partner that it works so well but it really does. Virgos tend to be very practical and pragmatic but secretly we want to be doted on and taken care of just like everyone else - it just tends to be us who do the lion's share of the caring most of the time. with the right Libra guy you'll be showered with affection, sweetness and security. Libras want to take care of people too, and often put themselves completely off kilter to do it. This is where the partnership aspect of relationshipping comes into play heavily. A Virgo knows how to say, and mean, the word no. Libras really don't. Virgos can help the Libras achieve that all important balance they're always striving for in caring and being cared for. And in return you will have someone who literally makes you their priority in life.

I have never been treated more respectfully, complimented as often or taken such care of in any relationship as this one. Libras do tend to be possessive, but so do Virgos - they'll tell you they aren't but we are. we all are. :) Libras also like a lot of attention, and a lot of your time so if you're the type of Virgo who cannot handle someone who wants to wrap themselves up in you that's something you need to share at the very start of your relationship. Libras are incredibly affectionate people and want everyone who sees you to know that you're part of a couple, this can be a bit much if you're a hands off in public kind of gal - just work out what is acceptable PDA to you and it all works out.

Personally I really dig the fact that my guy likes to dote on me by doing the things that are important to ME. A Libra listens to what you like because he truly does want to make you happy, and he wants for you to make him happy in return. Virgos like practical demonstrations of affection, acts of service ? and Libras like affection, and they?ll happily trade you what you want/need for what they want/need. Remember it?s all about balance to a Libra!



Well I am a Virgo female and the guy I'm into is an amazing Libra. He confuses me so much, so I came here to see if anyone can offer feedback. I notice that when I talk about things I'm passionate about with enthusiasm he gets all goo goo eyed like he's in a trance for a moment. He's always complementing me and we both love talking. When we make love it goes on forever, and yet I am not completely sold that he feels the same for me. So, I don't tell him my deep feelings because the last thing I want is to scare him away too soon. I told him that I was moving to the West coast and he said he wants to come out too for a little while. I mean does he feel for me more than he shows? He likes long hugs and is very affectionate, but I stay a bit distant since it's still early. He also plays this silly game where he pretends to be aloof, and not care, but then will start kissing me out of nowhere and gets all passionate. I don't know what to do now, I don't want to be just another pretty face in his gallery. I can really see a future with him, and would do anything for him, but he has no idea... How do you keep a libra? lol


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