Libra men are confusing

by Cookie Davila
(Bronx, NY)

I have dated Libra men well twice, I am a Scorpion woman my first time he was absolutely romantic in every way. At times very jealous and always tried to justify his reasoning though I think its the latin in him on this one. I found myself always in a debate with him and due to my personality I can't shut my mouth but never the less we are still friends 13 yrs. later. I can say he is one of my best friend so now for my second Libra man, I just ended a relationship with him who supposedly was married but not married. He can be a giving person but with intent in other words "what will I get in return", extremely lazy and into himself. Actually not at all into the social circle in fact barely had any friends. Always made me feel as if I had to second guess him my gut feelings were always on guard and leary about him even when he was attentive to me I was suspicious. Two Libra men and quite the opposite of each other, the only one thing I found they had in common and according to the Libra sign is they like to dress nice and shopping is definitely true. Out of curiosity I wanted to read about the signs and compatibilities and to see if maybe just maybe I should go along with the choices that are recommended for my sign. From what I have read Cancer and Pisces is one of my perfect match as far as Cancer they talk too much and very moody. Ahh yes then there is Pisces how I know them well, I married one for 10 yrs. and he tried to cheat on me and I know this Scorpio woman was not taking it lightly, I believe one of our qualities is loyalty. If I become jealous you can best believe it's for a reason. I am not a overly jealous person, that for me is too much work to be on a constant watch towards you partner.

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no go
by: Anonymous

I am also a scorpio woman and my libra man i've been dating for 10 months is also rather introverted. He doesn't like to go out and ignores his friends alot because he would rather just hang out with me one on one..which seems nice but when we just sit and watch tv and he cant come out of his shell to just conversate with me its frustrating. I'm actually the social one yet he has impeded on my social life because he is so jealous, suspicious, and controlling. While he may shower me with nice gestures...flowers occasionally, telling me I'm beautiful all the time, opening doors etc. I find I'm always craving a deeper connnection b.c ours feels rather superficial. Nice gestures and good sex do not cancel out poor communication, lack of trust and respect, and consideration for my feelings. He seems very self absorbed and knows how to manipulate with emotions to get what he wants. For months I put every ounce of effort into our relationship and it became exausting, and when it come time for him to step up and give in return he is always hesistant or unwilling. We are in a long distance relationship and he NEVER calls, and his texts are often one word answers or simple msgs which really bugs me b.c i need to feel emotionally close. He just seems so aloof to what I need to be happy and when I try and mention things he could do he accuses me for making him seem like a horrible boyfriend and nothing gets resolved b.c in his eyes he is perfect and so is our relationship so nothing needs to change. This inability to compromise is extremely frustrating and his posessiveness is hard for me to handle. He is also very hypocritical and cannot take the blame for anything...always turning it around on me when I try to discuss an issue I have with him. LIBRAS AND SCORPIOS ARE NOT GOOD MATCHES (I have begun to realize this, but it is hard for me to break it off with him cuz he always uses his charm to talk me out of it). Any good stories seem to be when the libra male is more mature and willing to be understanding, communicate and compromise. My 21 year old libra is definately NOT.

Dating a Libra Man
by: Leo Woman

I've been dating a Libra man for a couple of weeks now. Since he works in the justice-related field, like the Libra article implies is the best workfield for them, he might be leaving soon so we're keeping it light.
My initial reaction to this guy was that he was a walking ego. He definately doesn't like to be argued with so it was pretty rocky in the begining since being an egotistical sign myself who likes to argue for the sake of being right, it definately has taken some getting use to his character. He is the first Libra man I have dated.
As far as I can tell, he's not the jealous type. But then again, that might be due to the fact that we haven't made anything exclusive yet, it's only been about 3-4 weeks.
The Libra article did say that fairness as a big thing for them so maybe that's why one of your guys does things for you but still has that "what will I get in return kind of mood".
My Libra guy is slightly the same way. It is true that he seems to really enjoy the finer things in life: he likes going out to eat to fancy restaurants and doesn't mind spending money on lavish activities. But he also had that "what's in it for me?" kind of prespective.
Now that he knows I'm not into him for what he has to offer but because I like him, his attitude has changed drastically and now treats me how a woman should be treated.
He's very caring, thoughtful, and generous.
But since we are still in the early stages, I can't know for sure that it's all real.
Well Scorpion woman, I wish you luck that you will make the right decisions and that they bring you happiness.

is he "into" me?
by: Anonymous

fellow leo i cant tell you how glad i am to see your post! lol i am also in the "early stages" with a libra man... well to tell the truth i met him six months ago at a club... at the time i was in a messy relationship and just recntly got out of it... he knew all about me and my ex! but he would still take me on dates and call me and treat me like a queen! the only difference is he never really showed that "what do i get in return" side to me... he actually seemd as tho he just genuinely wanted to spend time with me...when i finally got out of my relationship i began to REALLY pursue him... we had "relations" the other night but that was only becus I was the agressor!(the leo in me)our phone conversations are ALWAYS short and light... nothing to deep... he is soooo reserved! and im not sure if that is becus he is a libra or becus he is a marine or becus hes just not interested in me..... i mean i just dont get it! what do you think this man wants from me...

This is to No Go...
by: Anonymous

You hit the nail right on the head. TOTALLY! I too am in a long distance relationship and mine is EXACTLY the sme as your's is. Hoever, he will not commit to me. He does spend every weekend with me though. How totally weird! Whatever you do, you MUST have your own life and be able to be fulfilled with your own life to be with one of these guys. Have your own friends and hobbies that make you happy. Because they will only go so far and then put on the brakes.

DUMP HIM!!!
by: Anonymous

You have to dump him and show him that you don't need him. He's playing a game with you, and using you to fulfill his insecure ego. With Libra men, it's always about THEM, never about you. Subconsciously, he prefers a strong woman, but because he NEEDS to be reassured all the time he strings along women who are more open and expressive.

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