Sagittarius men don't know what they want

I'm a Pisces woman "dating" a Sagittarius man for the last 9 months. We started off hot and steamy for a good 3 months. Something happened the next month, a flip of a switch, and he became Mr.. afraid of commitment. So then it was "casual" for a good 4 months. He has wanted to keep me as a friend and end the "relationship" we have because he doesn't want it to go sour and us not talk again. I have been extremely patient with him and he has become my best friend, and I am his best friend. We do everything together. Absolutely everything (yet there has not been anything physical between us for a good 2 months now) - not even kissing or holding hands, just hugs.

Sag men do not know what they want, but they don't want to let you go either. My interpretation of it, as I even called him out on, is that I was the reliable van and he's looking for a sports car. He told me I was definitely a sports car, he just doesn't know what he wants (when men say that, it means they do not want you ladies). Not to be cocky at all, but I am one to turn heads when walking in a room - so why waste my time feeling like a van when I know I am a sports car?

Don't hang on - as soon as you leave them to venture on to something "better" - they will chase you because that's what they love - they love to play the game.

If you want to keep your sag man, then learn how to play the game to keep him on his toes so he has to continually work for your affection and attention. It may be exhausting, but with an outcome that will be so great. :)

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Sagittarius men don't know what they want
by: Anonymous

Hell yea! I am a Pisces girl me and my Sagittarius guy just broke up. and I mean it was perfect, then out of the blue he cant love me or give me his all. that's a bunch of crap. it doesn't make any sense. then he tells me I don't want anyone but you, I cant see myself with anyone but you. he just want to be with me, but if he cant give me his all he doesn't want to be with anyone because I am all he wants. he says he is just going to be single. he wants no one else. that doesn't make any sense. and he still wants me to meet his family that's weird. any advice from a sag guy?

Sagittarius men don't know what they want
by: Anonymous

I m Pisces and my husband is sag. I do not agree with above experiences. I had married him since 40 years. they r really very nice.........

dating saggitarius man
by: Edith

yeah me and my sag man just broke up but the minute he even thinks im on the hunt for some1 new he will call n txt none stop..then when i let him know i wouldn't trade him he up and goes. feels like a game to me.

Sag girl dating a Sag guy
by: Anonymous

See this is my thing. I've been dating" C" for 1 year 1/2. To start off I didn't want a relationship just wanted to have fun. In the other hand he wanted me to commit to him. I would tell him calling me your girlfriend is just a label is was not needed. See its now complicated for me because I actually let him in and he basically grew on me with his charming ways, he tells me the same things, "your the only one I want" "I would never change you for anyone" "I want to marry you" "I want babies with yoU" I don't trust him , I know he is seeing other people he doesn't admit but I know my gut feeling tells me. I have tried to leave him based off the lies that I've caught him in , I have yet nothing solid to go based off and I think that is what keeps me their. Its a horrible feeling. I am happy but I am miserable because I know everything is a lie. I've seen other people myself but its not satisfying to me. I want him and only him. I know he is no good for me. I don't know why I can't just let go and not care. I have succeeded in the past with other ex's. What's going on? N e advice on my dilemma??

Confused about sag men HELP!!!
by: Anonymous

I dont understand this guy. We have been on and off for 4 years which is ok by me. Actually more of good friends and sex partners. My question is, do most sag. guys distant themselves? Meaning havent heard from him in 4 weeks. Needless to say I do most of the texting and calling. But this time Ive decided to see will he text or call havent heard from him. Is this typical of sag guys????

im in love with this Sag man!! HELP!!
by: Anonymous

Omg! Ladies i am a Scorpio woman who has been in love with a Sagittarius man for almost 2years now. we have been onn and off for almosta year now.The crazy thing he never officially broke up with me ,the calls just stop , the texting ,and even the sex(and sex btw was AMAZING!!LOL).He treats me like crap but i still find myself in love with him and its tearing me apart. Everyone tells me to stop calling and texting him and he will come chasing me , because that is just how Sags are. I saw a comment where a woman said just simply ignore them and they will comingrunning back when they ignore you. I will try this and hopefully he comes back. So i guess no more emails ,calls ,and text for me. I'll keep you guys posted

REALTALK
by: Anonymous

Biznitch i bet when a walk you probably turn heads... i would be curious too if a blue whale walked into my room... Maybe you dont know what you need? and it aint ben&jerry.

Re: Sag men don't know what they want.
by: N.

You probably are a real head-turner, but Sagittarius doesn't get along with Pisces. The whole "don't know what they want" bit probably comes from shying away from commitment. Pisces in general is a very emotional sign. Doing everything together was probably a very bad idea - the average Sag man needs his space. Keep that in mind if you decide to date another.

Information ladiies on Sag men
by: Anonymous

1. Ask your Sagitarius man about his friends.
2. How many of his friends do you know.
3. What is up with information on their past? Don't bother asking because he wont remember...
4. Break up to make up over and over. Really is it worth it?

Sneeky boys, loves all women.. They just can't have just one.

Make great friends with benefits.

Sag boys their just a bunch of players.

Sags Suck!
by: Leo Lady

Seriously ladies, unless you are a women who doesn't care about having deep and meaningful relationships then run for the hills when you see a charming Sag. I am a Leo woman and Sags are supposed to be our soul mate signs, HOWEVER, they lack every ability known to man to connect outside of sex and they are cheaters rather they cheat emotionally or sexually they will ALWAYS find a reason to talk to another woman. I was told by my fiance that I was everything that he could ask for in a woman and he chased me for 5 years straight!! I only wanted to hook up w/ him but he begged for a relationship. Once I gave in he became a real nightmare on elm street! He couldn't be romantic, honest,caring, or supportive if it could save his life!! Terrible experience and a waste of my 2 valuable yrs trying to be a good woman to this selfish man because no woman could satisfy him...I don't even think I really loved him after all of those years.

Sag men unaffectionate
by: Anonymous

I was seeing "CB" and it started off strong. We had an attraction for about 6 months. I noticed he was very direct, commanding and selfish in our sexual acts. However he would not see it that way. I tried to blame it on him being a Marine but that is clearly not the case. He flirts like no other and 90% of his friends are women.....hmmm. I'm so in love with him but he runs hot and cold. In Atlanta there are 15 girls to 1 guy but I can't compete for his affections. Thank goodness he is not there anymore. Its just a new cycle in his new location. He never compliments and only talks about himself. I don't think he's capable of settling down and loving me even at age 34. He doesn't even call me anymore but will text me to death saying that I am his Luv. I can't hold on any further.

sag & virgo
by: Anonymous

I don't know what to do. I'm madly in love with "ch" ever since I hooked up with him about a month ago. Then I really thought I was making real progress when we were both saying "I love you". Then he stopped texting me, and then he recently stood me up. I want him to fall in love with me but its been very hard for him to commit. What can I do??

leo /sag
by: Anonymous

hi every one. i am a leo lady. i really like a sag man. met him on a dating site. seen each other for a few months. sex is AMAZING!! but now i get no text, call,emails. ive been told to not contact him, they like the chase. i hope this true. ive seen him on the dating site recently chatting what do i do?

Sag men will BREAK YOUR HEART!!
by: Anonymous

Yes, Sag men SUCK! I agree!! I've been dating one for one year, my girlfriend has been dating one for 5 years. We compare notes and they are ALL very similar- A loner most of the time. Loses patience easily and will not take crap. If in a bad mood stay FAR away. Gets offended easily and remembers the offence forever. Loves deeply but at times will not show it, feels it is a sign of weakness. Has many fears but will not show it. VERY private person.
Notice that only ONE person on the comments states she has been married for 40years,obviously a RARE find!
It took him a LONG time(10 months) for him to tell me he loved me, uh yea after I asked him(I know,DUMB me). And he still does not say it, only "I DASH you"...WTF?!!
Mine is also a PLAYER, he texts and chats with other women. I don't think he is cheating with physical sex but it still bothers me and I deserve better. But I am addicted to him and sigh, I love him...yes the sex is also amazing! Damn Sags! So, I'm trying to do my best to chat and text other men to "wean" myself off. I also try to focus on his negatives to help me.

I will NEVER date another Sag....EVER, not even if he looks like Brad Pitt!!

wow its true lol
by: sag 12/15

Sag men will BREAK YOUR HEART!!,
wow u no us sag men
very well we love the chase and get bored of the catch predominantly if u try to make us show are feeling an what not or try to tie us down. when it comes to us flirting and talking to other women its just what we do sorry, i mean we like talking to people and end up flirting with them and don't even no it. all i can say is give us are space try to keep things interesting DONT tell us about your feeling or u think that were drifting or not showing love an all that, try to find a common ground between u and your sag and build it from there, be more of a friend at times, be more active in his likes hobbies an what not we love to travel play sports go out love the night life partying clubbing what have u and remember sag men are very honest very blunt at times if he wants to end your relationship he will tell u but most of the time he does this not because he doesn't like u its his way of saying he needs some alone time.

sag men are true indeed something else!!!
by: Anonymous

ive been friends/sex partners with an handsome sag for about 3 years now.. he doesnt know what he want although i never asked him about our relationship status.. really when i met him, we lost contact for a few months then we caught back up then he want to tell me that hes married, i was so shocked cause i was like you didnt tell me this when we met a few months back. but anyway i left it alone, although still to this day i dont believe hes married. i think he just says that because he dont want no commitment with anyone, he just wants to enjoy his life and have fun with different women..he has lots of women friend that he seems very close with(which i cant stand).. these women be all on his facebook page about to go crazy about him. everytime i look around theres some chick posting on fb asking him to hang out with them like they are desperate.. and the killing thing is that he agrees to hang out with, he truly does not act like an married man, plus he never wheres a ring. he also travels alot with his job so hes never at home most of the time.. (heehee) that just basically gives him more option to hook up with other chicks from different states,.. i really like him but i dont think i can no longer deal with what hes got going on.. im a sag woman and im not near the way he is.. i just dont know what to do.. lol

Too Little Too Late, Buddy. NEW
by: TheOneThatGotAway

Like many women above, I am dealing with the exact same crap where Sagittarius men are concerned. Been seriously seeing one for almost a year now and suddenly he told he's slept with ANOTHER woman (I was stupid enough not to walk away when he did it the first time. I thought if I was patient with him, he would change but hell no). I thought that was the last straw (especially when I've been sexually-faithful to him) and so I told him he treated me like crap and I dropped him then and there (he didn't see it coming at all) and now he won't leave me alone. Talks to me almost every single day (previously, he would only talk to me when he wants to make plans, that's it) and he had the cheek to ask me out a few days right after I told him I never want to see him again. What a jerk. Now he realizes what he had in front of him all the while (called me the "perfect girl" for him) and only now trying to scramble to hold on to me. He's texting me right as I'm typing these away, BTW. Too little to late, buddy.

LE0 NEW
by: Anonymous

HELLO EVERYBODY I'M A LEO&I HAD BEEN DEALING WITH A SAG FOR ALMOST A YEAR ITS FUNNY HOW DEY SAY LEO'S&SAGS ARE COMPTABILE BC THEY ARE REALLY NOT ANYHOW EVERYTHING WAS SO RIGHT WHEN WE FIRST STARTED OUT HE MADE ME LAUGH HE WAS SUCH A CHARMING GUY I LIKED HIM ALOT WE SHARED ALOT OF THOUGHTS&DREAMS TOGETHER HE TOLD ME THAT HE WANTED KIDS FROM ME ONE DAY,I ENDED UP GETTING PREGO FROM HIM&HE DIDN'T WANT DA BABY HE STARTED SAYING THAT HE WAS NOT FINANCIALLY READY REALLY YEARITE HE JUST DIDN'T WANT DAT RESPONSIBILITY WELL ANYHOW I ENDED UP NOT HAVING DA BABY WHICH I'M REGRETTING RIGHT NOW AS WE SPEAK:(ANYHOW I DIDN'T TALK TO HIM AFTER THAT FOR ALMOST A MONTH I DIDNT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HIM BUT THEN HEKEPT TEXING AND CALLING A LIL SO I GAVE IN.SO AFTER THAT WE WAS BACK ALLRIGHT WELL ATLEAST I THOUGHT THEN COUPLE MONTHS AFTER THAT HE STARTED SAYING THAT HE DONT WANT ME TO BE WITH ANYONE ELSE BUT HE WOULDNT STAND N DA WAY OF MY HAPPINESS MAN WTF??I WAS HEARTBROKEN DIDN'T NO WAT TO DO THEN HE TOLD ME IF I GET A MAN I'M JUST GONNA HAVE 2 MENS HIM&SOMEBODY ELSE WTFFFF?THEN I FOUND OUT IT WAS ANOTHER GIRL BOY O BOY WAS I HEARTBROKEN:( HADN'T SPOKE TO HIM IN 2 WEEKS THEN HE TEXED OUT OF DA BLUE HEY....I DIDNT RESPOND I'M NOW GETTIN OVER DA SITUATION......STAY DA FUCK AWAY FROM SAGS DEY WILL CONFUSE DA FUCK OUT OF U..

I WOULDNT CHANCE IT NEW
by: Anonymous

MY SAG WAS A COMPLETLY DEMONIC EVIL FORCE IN MY LIFE NO LIE. ONE ABORTION AND A BABY LATER HE IS THE SAME COLD HURTFUL NON EMOTIONAL BITCH ASS MUTHAFUCKA I MET. IN THE BEGGINING I CAUGHT A BAD ASS VIBE AND AVOIDED HIM. THE CHASE MADE HIM MORE PERSISTANT AND HE END UP POURIN ALL THIS "LOVE" OUT OUT OF THE BLUE WTF?? I WAS ATTRACTED SO I STAYED. NEXT THING U KNO HIS COLD HEARTLESS DEAMEANOR STARTED TO RESURFACE AND HE BEGAN TO HATE ME FOR SPEAKING ON IT AND STANDING UP FOR MYSELF. IM VERY OUTSPOKEN AND STRONG AND I FOUGHT BACK FOR YRS. WED BREAK UP GET BACK TOGETHER AND IT WOULD BE THE SAME WAR. tHE SEX IS PASSIONLESS I GUESS PPL JUS LIKE THAT HEARTLESS POUNDING BUT I DIDNT!! NO REAL FOURPLAY!! JUS AN OVERALL EMPTY EXCPERIENCE. IF UR INTO REAL SHIT DONT GET INVOLVED IF UR A HOE OR INSECURE BE MY GUEST

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