Scorpio Gemini

Scorpio Gemini Compatibility

Scorpio Gemini is one of those cruel matches. Tons of initial attraction, an intrinsic fascination, earth shattering sexual compatibility, and the ability to totally frustrate and annoy each other in a million small ways.

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(All scores range from 1=low to 5=high)

Note, this article is written from the viewpoint of the Scorpio man or Scorpio woman. There is a separate article from the viewpoint of the Gemini man or Gemini woman available here Gemini and Scorpio

Your Gemini will be very attractive to you – charming, intriguing and best of all.. mentally illusive. This is someone you’ll have difficulty understanding, and their ‘depth’ in this area will be a misleading portent. As time goes on, ironically you’ll come to think of them as lacking depth in almost all other areas.

The real irony of the relationship though, is that you’ll often criticize your Gemii’s superficial and flighty ways. There’s no question that you’ll be the more possessive and jealous partner in the relationship, and yet eventually it’s more likely to be you who will want to end things! Giving your Gemini ‘the last laugh’ in this way will push your buttons and be the cherry on the cake.

In many ways then, this is a combination more suited to a casual affair or one night stand, though that’s not likely to interest you or be of much consolation.

Sex

There will be a lot of chemistry and attraction here, and in the bedroom neither of you will have any complaints! Your passion + your Gemini’s imagination is a great combo, though you may find your partner a little bit too adventurous and unpredictable for your taste in the longer term.

Longer term

You may start to notice that your Gemini is really too superficial for your taste, you’re on different wavelengths when it comes to communication. You like the intense and direct approach, and your partner likes anything but that! Worse on some levels, you may feel that your partner actually is enjoying the difference, and perhaps even taunting you with it!

This will be just the first of many areas where you start to realize that your Gemini may be too fickle for your taste, and you’ll almost certainly have to make a conscious effort to give your Gemini more space and freedom than you’re comfortable with.

Areas such as socializing and friends may be a hot topic in a Scorpio Gemini relationship. In short your partner loves both, and you don’t. Similarly, you like some privacy and time to recharge alone, while your Gemini really prefers to be out in the world and playing with people.

On the positive side in this area, if you can compromise then this can be a solid team, with your Gemini acting as your social eyes and ears, keeping you updated, while you provide insight to help them when handling people. That’s the theory, but in practice issues such as jealousy and possessiveness will almost certainly make it challenging.

So is this article conclusive?

No! This article is based only on sun sign interaction. In order to provide a lot of people with information it's a convenient and fast way to generalize, but it's far from conclusive at this broad level.

To get a complete picture we need to take all the other planets and their interactions into account. If you would like more information for your unique relationship please see the astrology compatibility reports page.

Other resources

Often the hardest questions to ask are the most important - for example, what are their views and expectations for raising children? sharing housework? saving money? career goals? etc.

One subtle and fun way to approach this is by working through a couples question book together - that way it's not really you asking, and delicate subjects can be covered easily. The best book for this I've found is Michael Webb's 1000 Questions For Couples

For reviews of this and other relationship ebooks on subjects ranging from improving your sex life to getting an ex back please see the relationship ebook reviews page.

A third method of further research is to share experiences with other couples of this same sign combination - you may be amazed how consistent they often are. Please see the links below for visitor experiences and questions.

In any relationship there are also very significant external factors. One of these is how well you understand yourself, your partner and your partnership - the more you do, the easier it is to make the relationship more exciting, fulfilling and satisfying for both of you, regardless of your starting position. The articles on how to Make him fall in love with you and Make her fall in love with you have information on how you can use astrology to revitalize a relationship.

Scorpio man and Gemini woman

Learn more about Scorpio men on our Scorpio man page.

Learn more about Gemini women on our Gemini woman page.

Scorpio woman and Gemini man

Learn more about Scorpio women on our Scorpio woman page.

Learn more about Gemini men on our Gemini man page.

Related articles:

Our guides to seducing Gemini or seducing Scorpio

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