Scorpio man Scorpio woman

I'm a Scorpio lady who has dated a Scorpio man. I am 6 years older and our birthdays are 5 days apart. He is kind and caring but not ready to commit to a serious relationship as he has been very hurt in the past. I have known him for over three years and dated him on a non serious basis for just on two years.

This man has been there for me through thick and thin as I have for him. We have made a pact to be lifetime friends and I regard him as my best friend. We are like peas in a pod because we understand where the other is coming from. He has been my rock in a sometimes stormy sea, with deaths in my family and the recent loss of someone very special to me. My friend and I will always be there for one another. :-)

I believe that the worst relationship I ever had may have been predicted prior to even dating her.  This was several years ago, where I had pursued another girl, but ended up dating a Scorpio, (I'm a Scorpio too).  Our birthdates were 6 days apart.  Of course, when Scorpios butt heads it is ugly, and this was particularly ugly.  

We dated for around 18 months, and I would say only the first 4-5 months were actually compatible, while three of those months we were both in other states and rarely talked.  After those 4-5 months passed, we were staying with each other occasionally, having a few fights but mainly getting along, although for myself I could say that I tired of her slightly earlier than most relationships, it was boring and not as exciting at first as my previous singles life.

After the new year hit (and 8 months of dating) the relationship was rocky, almost downright painful.  We would fight in public, she would often hit me or slap me and I would just have to back away, knowing that I could never touch a female.  In the meantime we started having sex, and even though it was great at first, it would often lead to fights or she would use it as a weapon against me.  

She craved attention, and demanded that I be with her constantly, which I could not do due to my personal responsibilities.  She finally gave up and broke up with me at the year mark, then started sleeping with other guys and telling me about it, just to get me jealous.  It was all a ploy to get me back with her, and I was dumb enough to fall for it.  We dated about 5 more months, it was the worst of my life, and ended when she drove away drunk with another guy and ended up passed out in that guys room.  

The next day I was called by her and she demanded why I didn't take care of her in her inebriated state, I relayed the story and was slapped in the face.  I said that was enough, walked away and would never get back with her.  We battled for a few more weeks, but then I told her I never wanted to talk to her again.

my fiance and i are both Scorpio's and get along most of the time but Scorpio's need their space and when you say you love someone you give them their space and we both give each other space it works out. All though sometimes i can be the clingly one he understands it. He is 4 years older and we are 6 days apart i couldn't be happier with him. Just because we are the same sign(at least for us) we understand each other better and love each other more for it but every relationship is different. I have never had a stable relationship a Scorpio man til him.

I just met a scorpio man and I am totally taken by him (especially in bed!) However, as someone stated earlier... I am more clingy and he wants his space. I give it to him and I don't let him see or hear my neediness. We are alike in too many ways but its good, except he is quiet and I talk more. But the connection is crazy. I hope it works but its still very early. But i must say the last time i felt this way it was head over heels love. i am excited!

I don't think there is more emotionally compatible relationship in the zodiac.

I dated a scorpio man for about 2 years. If it weren't for his extreme jealousy we would have been perfect together. We had such a great relationship other couples literally wished they were us. Without a question the sex was amazing. Unlike anything I've ever experienced. A great unspoken communication if our words failed us during a fight. He fell in love hard and was unsure of how he should handle it. So His agenda was to conquer me. I am a scorpio woman. I can't be conquered, If I go... I go willingly.

This frustrated him and he became manipulative and jealous. Which I found amusing. So I played his game for a while to teach him a lesson about manipulation. Long story short, I broke his heart, then told him why I did it, he stood looking embarrassed, with a lost for words and apologetic. Yet again, I ruled. But I made sure to end it on good terms. Scorpios are very capable of being dark and vengeful when scorned.

ive dated a scorpio man for now a year, we actually split for four months but now were back on. we were both jealous and he always wanted space while i liked to be clingy!! hes three years older and were born 5 days apart. hes real sexy and when were together we share some steamy moments. hes sexy and his whole sex appeal excites me , he knows exactly what i want and when i want it.

Hello, I am a Scorpio (True Scorpio) 1st Decan, and I am dating this Scorpio Male who is also a (True Scorpio), our birthday are 1 day apart (10/26 & 10/27).We have been dating for about 2 months and I am head over heels for him and am so excited to talk to him on the phone as well as seeing him in person. The thing is that he is so secretive, and I am the one that is very outspoken. His gaze is very intense. I know that he likes me and is very experssive physically when we are together. I think that I am in love with him, but refuse to express this to him for fear of rejection. I do not know how long I will be able to contain these feelings that I have for him. I do not want to be clingy, but I want to see him all the time. We had our first misunderstanding, and I felt his wrath, but did not ignite it any further, all was forgiven, and what we both feel has become deeper. I know that he want to reveal his love for me, but he is also protecting his heart for fear of being hurt. I believe that 2 Scorpios can definately have a long lasting loving relationship if the two are willing to put fourth the effort to make it work. Wish me luck. 2 TRUE Scorpios ;-D.

I would not recommend for the same sign to dating for a relationship. Since Scorpio is a water sign and it is very emotional. As I knew, Scorpio man is very secretive and barely expresses about himself to his lover of how he feels. He is not afraid of getting hurt but he doesn't want his lover crazies about him or he may be takes this advantage and try to gain power with his lover. I don't think it is a good Idea by not expressing to your lover by just saying a three simple words-words are important; it shows how you feel for each other-for the soul; either too much space is not good. Since you are a Scorpio woman, why don't you try to look for a different sign as Cancer, Pisces, Virgo?? There are other signs are good. Other hand, Scorpio man will fight for an uneasy one-a unique and a difference one. He is very honest to someone he loves. Whatever you do, it is your choice. You decide it.

Lady Virgo, wishes you Good Luck with a Scorpio man.

I was married to a scorpion lady for 19 years. She took care of me and I returned the gift as well. The sex was out of this world, all of the time. We had 4 children, and it did not slow her down in bed. But let me warn you guys, I cheated on her and she came very close to ending my life. So the lesson here if you would like to link up with a scorpion, do this at the end of your running around because they mate for life.

I'm in love with a scorpio man. He's 2 years younger than me. He's typical of his sign. He's a champion kick boxer and boxer, and a humanitarian development worker who's always pushing himself.

He doesn't come out directly with his emotions, but shows his comfort in other ways. He doesn't like to be judged, or told what he is or isn't. (e.g. that he's guarded). He gets a bit defensive. Maybe that is seen as a form of domination/pidgeon holing.

I'm a scorpio too, but have too much sagitarius for my own good. I can't hide how I feel, and have been making a heroic effort not to tell him I love him top to bottom and inside out. I'm not sure I can ever see him expressing the same thing, it's almost like it's a form of weakness, or that it reveals his vulnerability. Anyway, he refered to me as his girlfriend in my presence the first time, two days ago, while we were haggling over the rent for a potential crappy flat for him to live. I was so elated, that I asked why we didn't just get a place together (cheaper, nicer, subtext). He smiled and said it was ok with him. So looks like we're moving in. But I should add that he's only in the country for another 6 months.

Can I just say at this point that not all scorpio men are gagging for it all the time? This one is so disciplined with the rest of his life (e.g. boxing training), that there are times when there is a real dry spell. I think it can be as damaing to have unrelialistic expectations about male scorpio sex drive. It's all present and correct, but as with everything, he's in control of it, not the other way around.

I am just trying hard not to be my own worst enemy at this point. He hasn't expressed the same enthusiasm as openly as I have, but there are a lot of signs that things are positive. But I worry, about how I measure up to all his exes, about whether he is as interested as I think he may be, about whether he'll just find me boring after a little while, and that I care about him so much more that I'll seem needy and clingy and he'll loose all respect and ditch me. But I'm so elated by him. Of course he can't be controled or dominated, and I would never want to do that. I feel like a hawk has landed on my shoulder. I have no idea if it wants to make it a permanent resting place, or if one time it may fly away for good, just leaving me with a memory I can hardly believe happened. But I'm holding out for option 1.

Wish me luck, and best of luck to others in my situation. Let's try to live in the present, and not anticipate the future.

Im dating a scorpio male. Our birthdays are 2 days apart. Its weird because I have dated other scorpios before but never like this. We have a naturalness between us and an emotional link, that Ive only felt with a cancer. I didnt think anyone would be able to get me like this again but it happened and its almost scary. Im a little more clingy then he is, but he doesnt seem to mind. And of course the sex is no other way to explain but spiritual and explosive at the same time. The nice thing is we can talk about anything and its ok. Even if we dont agree. Its a nice change. Hope its stays this way. Its only been a month.