Scorpio mind games

by Someone
(Somewhere)

I am a Pisces woman who is in love with a Scorpio man. Why do they play so many mind games? I understand like to be in control and thats fine most of the time. But, one min he treats me like a special friend, next time he treats me like he likes me as much as i like him. I find it hard to ask what is going on? cause I might lose what I do have with him... I cant sort it out?

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scorpio female
by: Anonymous

hehehe i do this allot. what he is doing when you say he plays mind games is picking your brain on how you really feel about him. and were your head is at for future and he is looking for key points that he is in it. we play psychological puzzles with people is a better way to put it. we find out all we need to know when we do this. and even if you don't exactly say we are in it we can tell a great deal if we fit or not. its hard to explain. but we are very deep thinkers and puzzlers so i hope that helped. ok now on to why he treats you like a friend at some points and lover the next . i do this also that is us not wearing are heart on our sleep we don't fall in love easy cause we don't just give our heart to just anybody. i am 31 and only been in true love 2 times and that was because we got as deep as talking about marriage. you see us scorpios don't play games when we find a interest we are very loyal and will never detour the other way once we love you. so he is simply holding his feelings until he feels you have put him into your life for the long hall.
Scropio Mind games
by: Anonymous

Thanks, it helped a little. But then again it made me second guess things more. He knows I like him alot, and I feel that he uses it against me at times. He has also been 'in love' but the stupid females screwed him over, which in turn ruins it for the rest of us out here trying. Which I know I shouldn't fault him for, but it is frustrating. I feel sometimes I am walking on eggshells when I attempt to ask where we stand. But then I chicken out, like I said cause I don't want to lose what I have with him even though it is not healthy for me. I don't need declarations, but to let a person u have been chilling with on that level that u like them in return just a little bit would be nice. My head hurts to much. What makes this all more odd, is I am normally have no problem talking to anyone about anything, but when it comes to him I freeze up. Guess it shows I really like him, and not the way I like the others. This has been going on for almost 2 yrs now. Even got back together' after he ditched me for a 'younger' girl UGH!!!!!!
I hope I dont sound annoying about this, just trying to figure it out.
Be specific on what you want from him
by: Anonymous

I think your man behaves like mine too but I realised that they love tough and hard to get ladies. I was really kind and sweet to him and he kept misbehaving every once in a while but then I began being a psychological fellow too. I would sometimes ignore him and I was really forward to telling him what I wanted from him. Our last fight was to know if we are in a relationship or not, then he said he would think about it so I gave him the time in the world. I guess he expected me to call him once I was horny or lonely but I kept my ground. I refused to call him or even text him but was glad to answer when he calls. I would listen as he talked but didn't change my mind. I knew he missed me but a scorpio man will never say it in sentence! I had to teach him how to speak up. My silence treatment went a long way. It showed him that I could have others too if he didnt want me, I could live without him and his sexual prowess, I could be happy too and I guess that killed him more.
After 3 weeks of not seeing me, he demanded to see me and I wanted to hear him out and we talked things out.
So my point is, sometimes, they treat you like they are so good that you can take all craps from them but you just have to be tough---they love tough women they can't understand easily!
N/B; I love him to death but I'm really careful about it and very honest to him. I'm like his mirror. If he misbehaves, he will see me coming.
To what you want from a Scorpio man
by: Anonymous

The thing that I want from a Scorpio man are Loving, Concerning, and Caring. In addition, I want him to express more about how he feels toward Virgo in the privacy. Also, he needs to speak in a sentence to complete his though about himself and his lover. If he is hesitated to show, how does he expect Virgo or his Lover knows about him. I, Virgo, want a tough man, smart, and being able to talk about the important issue between the two of him and his Virgo to assure the security in the relationship.
Some how, I understand Scorpio very well. yet, I still ask questions. If there is no response from him, I would change the subject to avoid the inconvenience being an answer from the Scorpio man.
Because of his personality or nature made him that way, I would not change or withdraw from loving him. Virgo is honest to her mate and expects the same from him. Otherwise, it is all depends. Remember, not that I know any Virgo interested in playing a mind games. This type of Virgo do not like that, nah. Honest is the Best policy.
hmm..
by: xMarch16

I didn't read the other comments, but I just wanted to say make sure you TALK to him. I've been with a scorpio for over a year and communication was an issue because I was always afraid to talk about how I was feeling (since pisces woman don't talk openly so much).

If he's making you nervous, you gotta not freeze up (like I used to). Tell him he's making you feel a certain way and you HAVE to tell him why or he'll mess with you (play mind games) again. He'll play around and tease me but when I stay silent and just stare at him, he gets mean about the teasing. I finally asked him what was up with that and he said that when I DON'T talk, he feels like he should do it more. Just the way he is. Now I just tell him to shut up when he does it :-) Communication!

Not sure every Scorpio is like that, but....Scorpions have that stinger, remember?

I love love love (most) scorpio men as men so I hope it works out for you!
what is it about scorpio men that makes up pisces women weak in the knees
by: Anonymous

I feel for you...I have been in a very weird relationship with a scorpio man for 2.5 years and have the same problem- but have also noted that the softer I was the more he teased me and played mind games with me. As I have overcome my signature 'pisces' forgiving kindness, he has been begging for me more.
The trick is to do it with tact and delicacy...use your strong femininity that is pisces' strength. Whatever his mind game is, act cool about it as though you will be happy to accommodate it [you just have to put on a mask] but give him a hint about the negative consequences. For example if you sense his need for 'privacy', arrange something fun with your girlfriends; like a girls' night out or even a Vegas trip. You are sending the message that he is not the center of your universe [even though we know he is like Lee Anne Rhimes' song "I need You"] and you are gently playing on the jealousy making him try hard to get back to the center of your universe. You may also through in a little joke like it was his choice to not have you around to love him up when he is dealing with a problem, otherwise you would prefer him over your girlfriends any second...hence 1. he can't blame you 2. he will know that you know him well 3. you actually make him realize you are doing this for him!
Understanding the scorpio man better
by: Anonymous

Just like I said above, allow them to be the man because they are always in control one way or the other. Imagine I asked him what he wanted from me and he told me NOTHING! Yet he spent the whole day indoors with me watching movies cus it was raining outside. Scorpios are very tough men but just let him be, be yourself and act as if he doesn't bother you and with time you will get so used to his behavior. I'm sure I might not be seeing him again for the next one week because he will change automatically and the next he will crawl in like a baby. Be frank about what you want to talk about with him; he will pretend to be tired, to want to sleep, to not listening and all sorts of distraction but make sure you send your message across. If he sees your seriousness, he will focus! They are all the same one way or the other. The final thing is PATIENCE! be patient enough and he will come around because they feel that no one understands them, but the truth is that they guard themselves so well that no one would understand them. Most of them find it serious to apologise, or even feel empathic, not that they are not inside but the way the present it is often not sweet enough. If he doesn't want you, he will tell you frankly. Just allow him to behave like a bird, they will fly back when they are ready.
Scorpio in jail lol
by: Anonymous

well my story is a lil crazier i am a cancer woman and im dating a scorpio man and he is in jail i go see him i been seeing him for like two months now and for real it was like love at first sight like he even talk about the future wit me like when he get out he going to get his on place and im going to move closer to him and have my own place till im ready to move in. but in these pass couple months i done alot for him i know it may seem like any man in jail just want to use you any way but it always been more than that at first we where chillin and i wanted to start doing stuff for him that be cause the female he was talking to he left her alone for me so felt like it was meant but we have a great conection and he came out first and told me he loved me i told him if he dont mean it dont say it cause me a being Cancer woman we are very sensitive and clingy so i tell him i loved him to and i really meant it i was just waiting for him to say it but every since i told him that i been reminding him that i had my heart broken before and like he dont say any thing like ill tell him dont get another woman...cause he tranfering to another jail two hours from me compared to the ten mins he was away but when i say that to him he dont say anything and i asked him why he do that he says somethings are just meant for an answer tell me if that not mind games or what like im so lost!!! may be it me and my trust issues but i just want him to understand this scorpio man!
Advice to the Pisces girls
by: Current girl friend of a scorpio man who cheated a Pisces girl

Pisces girls dont cry for the scorpio man any more... If they left you, please leave them too.. dont go behind them with your emothional blackmailings and tears ... Atleast give peacefulness to the new girl friends of your scorpio men who knows how to handle the explosive feelings cracker with care.
Confused
by: Anonymous

So I was reading this and I have been talking to a scorpio man for about two months. (And we never had any intercourse because I dont want to come off easy) At first he showed interest and would call or text me everyday then he started backing off and when I confronted him about it he said "I'm not going to lie sometimes I see myself open up to you and then I tell myself I need to back off". He has shared with me about his surgery and problems with family and has been distant. For some reason I still find myself wanting to gain his trust and maybe build something with him one day. When I told him this he said he needs time for himself and is not ready then the next day or so we start texting again and he said he missed me. Just yesterday I asked him how he was and said "I'm sorry if I'm bothering you but I often wonder how you are. I think I'm going to delete your number because I feel stupid well God Bless take care" and his response was " your not bothering me just taking care of some things" I feel as though hes trying to keep me around cus when I try to let go he contacts me back. Not to mention he was in a two year relationship in his past and cheated on. What should I think of this? What should I do? Is this games or...?
i understand why...they love a challenge
by: LADY M.

LOL..well speaking from a scorpios point of veiw I completely understand why they play mind games.Im a female scorpio and we are as much of game players as the males are.My scorpio and I have been 2gether for a year and 9mths and it wasnt easy at all getting him to commit.first off one thing about all scorpios we love a challenge!but u must understand they dont play mind games for no reason...they wnt 2 kno if u are mentally and emotional strong for them.Male scorpios only understand one thing...strength!...any sign of weakness they will take advantage.remember! they're very manipulative so u must stand your ground especially in arguements.True enough male scorpios are VERY moody...one min. we were all caked up nxt min we would end up arguing...its like they put u through many tests b4 they truelly commit 2 you.And hes one of the scorpios that was once hurt before and thatz why i kinda understood why he was acting the way he was.careless at times and he neva expressed his feelings to me.And male scorpios have a tendacy 2 hide their feelings...so that leaves you confused.And by me being a scorpio as well it was very difficult for us 2 move 2 the next level(commitment) both of are stubborn and dnt like 2 compromise easily if not at all there were times we went weeks without talking.and eventually he made the first move...a plus!...they love wen u play hard to get they dnt like n e thing that comes easy 2 them.and if ur scorpio misbehaves stop doing certain things u wud normally do...thats rite punish him!...or else he will continously do it...take it from a scorpio!
need help for my very first scorpio guy and me
by: Anonymous

hi..I met this Scorpio guy 2 years ago due to work related issues..he is a married man with kids..he is married to leo..i was single at that time and being a Sagittarius ,i was busy playing around with other guys who is interested in me and do not even bother him since he is out of my category..

however one guy who in love with me that time had nasty comments about me and that Scorpio out of jealousy and thus making me surprise..because i do not interested in that scorpio at that time at all..however time goes by ,i noticed that he was taking care of me in work related matter and my interest shifted to him..

one moment he noticed i have some interest in him thru our eyes contatct ,he started pulling himself away from me and even often mentioned about his wife or kids during meeting..so i was kinda alert and confused..but on the other hand i-my heart or six sense- can feel that he somehow had the attention or feeling towards me...i knew it but i cannot prove it..it was not 1st or 2nd or 3rd time..several times..he was kinda unusual whenever i am around or he pretended not to see me blur blur blur kinda mind games-while i was knowing it from my heart that his mind was wondering around about me..

sound crazy but i did feel it and see it from some of his hidden reaction towards me..once he even misled some of our common friends of having us affair or sex in his car -yet it was not happened at all yet he drove me home on that night-however the way he put it was kind of joking so everybody confused why he got to joke that way,,, thus even making me wondering about him rest of the time why he said so..

I was just married not long ago to my long term boyfriend..he congratulated me..and now we are contacting each other in sms (less than 10 times) trying to find a way to meet for normal office related lunch date (initiated by me in order to fulfill my word to him a year ago i will buy lunch for him)..i felt more than that..i am so excited..i can feel that we want it more than that..sound so crazy and naughty and unfaithful..i can't help it but i really want to have experience with him..so any advice? how do you think of his intention /feeling towards me? I am a type of girl who accept people like me or love me only when people mention it..or else i will not assume..i do not know how to assume or how to play mind game..now i know i want him even thou i got married..how should i read his signs?can u read his signals?? please feel free to advice and guide me..
still confused
by: Anonymous

I'm a leo and i commented on here about a guy iv'e been to for two months who is a scorpio. I'm still confused. So after 5 days of not talking he texts me and asks if its kay for him to come over after work which was late at night. I honestly thought he was trying to get some but he didnt make any move at all and we never even kissed that night. I was a little flirty with him but we just talked and watched tv joking around for an hour. I don't get it?? Why is he so complicated? haha I dont know whether to let go or still hold on. It's like one minute he talks to me the next he goes days not talking to me. He claims hes going through a lot with his job because his job requires a lot of traveling and he has family issues.He says hes messed up in the head when I ask him why he pushes me away. I even told him how I turn down guys for him. I don't know what to think this.A part of me thinks what if its just a game and hes keeping me around for his benefits. I still never gave it up and I plan not to because I don't want to be easy. 2 months isnt a lot and were not even going out to be giving it up like that. But apart of me doesn't want to let go because what if he just wants somoeone to break that wall. I'm so confused
Go for it all girls who love scorpio
by: Anonymous

I am in the same situation As you all who is now madly in love with scorpio even though I am not sure he likes me or not,, anyway I will go all the way to dig out his emotion as long my heart is longing for him.. No point guessing games and sad in one corner.. Btw I am a saggitarius girl :) I do love him,, I am really crazy now so I got to take risks to explore his world :) let me know if u are interested in my love update I do not mind sharing.. Dear girls go for it for your love ,,take initiative if u really want him,, do not care or guess what he thinks ok,, u will fail in his mind game,, so use ur own strategies to win over his heart! Cheerssss :)
Endless possibilities with a scorpio man
by: His Wife/honey baby

Wow its official the on again off again intrest in you that keeps you wondering if they are interested in you in that special way.Let me start with married to a scorpio 20 years now and the game continues today but I know after all these years he not only loves me, he adores me and still finds me attractive, fun and even witty now and then. He gets moody I love on him, he gets angry everybody gets stung so i dont take it personal,anymore. Thankfully a majority of the time he is easy going, quick witted with a sometimes funny but ouch and true all at the same time. I'm a stay at home mom and kinda fragile emotionally, he takes care of me and in return I constantly reassure him he is still the center of my universe which he is. He is loving, warm, silly and serious, he calls me usually 2 or three times everday form work still after all this time, and he has to get on me about spending money a lot but his frustruatios never last long. Of course he is charming and passionate and playful and intense. My scorpio man is wonderful & together we love life. I'm am a pisces thru and thru.
Stop playing their game
by: 0hLeo

If there's one thing I tend to assume about a Scorpio man it is that he will always try to win, even if I don't realize we're competing. This is a really complex kind of guy who is intuitive to all your sensitivities, but expects you to be able to rise above them (because if you're not in better control of your own feelings, you'll never be able to handle his mixed signals).
To the girl who recently got married and yet is still into some other ALSO married Scorpio - forget astrological advice and get yourself a shrink. Or a divorce lawyer. Either way your post says more about how emotionally weak you are than anything, and Scorpio men do not stick with emotionally unstable people (even though that IS something that can attract him to begin with).
And to the girl who's been holding out on the Scorpio man for a couple months because he won't commit, well that's just the norm for him and if you want him you'll have to find away around it. Absolutely the Scorpio man will like a girl who can be vulnerable and sweet, he may even sense that your 'nervous'ness is just a representation of how deeply you care about him, but you have to step up and show him that you will not always wilt like a bad flower every time he pulls away (like maybe NOT telling him you're done and just plain be done with him, try dating someone else too). Keep in mind that they tend to be very sensual people, and so two months with not but a kiss and some fondling will not peak his interests.
Let's face it, Scorpio can be an awesomely amazing partner or a lurid/deviant ex-, but they seem to know how sexually, intellectually and philosophically awesome they are, and that will make them very choosy about who gets to share in their life. Speaking as a Leo, I think that's one of the few traits we have the most in common, our egos are such that choosing a long term partner means having to put that person through the ringer a few times and see if they can handle/deserve us.
confused
by: Anonymous

I am posting this because I am also in exactly the same situation with a scorpio's mind games. We are friends and yes i have this gut feeling that he likes me back...it is his eyes that sparkle when he looks at me (those girls who are with a scorpio know exactly what i mean!!). I know for fact that he is extremely shy. What I don't get is why one day he talks to me and he is trying to find out everything about me and he cares too much if I am ok , and the next day he will not even say hello - he is trying to completely ignore me!!!Friends do not behave like that...or is it normal for these guys to act like that if they like you?
RE: confused
by: Anonymous

Your Scorpio friend is unsure about your intentions with him. I'm a scorpio. And most of us have an "All or Nothing" attitude. So unless he's for sure you want more than a fling or a friendship, he's going to keep backing away. My best advice, show him you are for real about him. It won't take much, trust me, we can read intentions and motives in people like a sixth sense. But you need to always be real and never let your mood affect the way you interact with him. A change in interaction will keep making him second guess. Therfore creating a loop. He needs you to treat him the same way every time you're together.
just be up front
by: scorpizo

im a scorpio and i got to admit i always have my guards up. its funny tho cuz as soon as a woman shows the slightest interest in me, i subcounciously begin to like her back... and catch myself thinking about her more and more. from experience, even lost love crosses my mind a lot, but anything new and exiting will consume most of my thinking.

my advice to winning a scorpio over is to be honest and give it a few days (literally, maybe even a week), and he'll come around if he's interested as well.

i once read that to seduce a scorpio you should rub their genitles, lol, sounds vulgar, but its very true. any kind of kissing, foreplay, or sexy reminder will definately catch my attention, and keep my attention.

after a scorpio has opened up enough to further go more than kissing, at some point he is thinking about sex. if it happens to go that far i can assure you he'll be thinking about you after sex too... and by that point he's open for anything. anything meaning, not just a one time thing. scorpios always ponder about "what if?" but we're never the firsts to talk about it because you dont want to be vulnorable.

the simple fact of a scorpio having sex with you is proof alone that he's opened up... it's what you do after that determines how we perceive your intentions and play it how we see it getting played
This submission is long, but I'd like some advice please :)
by: Anonymous

I'm a pisces woman with a scorpio friend who confuses the hell out of me.
I can remember the first time I ever saw him and it was so unreal, I was drawn to him like a magnet. There was just something there that made me want to get to know him more. I even remember before we formally met, we crossed paths and the way we had looked at each other literally gave me cold chills. Our eyes just lingered and kept locked onto each others.

A few weeks passed and from a mutual friend of ours we met. I just remember ever since we had become friends we always hung out and were around each other constantly. It just worked and we both felt comfortable being around one another. As the weeks passed our friendship progressed and he started to ask me questions about any past relationships i'd had, if I was "talking" to anyone and so forth. Of course me being all shy and quiet I didn't really say much. During one of our breaks from university, out of the 7 days we had off we hung out 5 of the days. He had called and texted me all during the break and I eventually ended up staying over at his house multiple times throughout the break. Nothing physical ever happened, it was just us enjoying each others company.

All the times that we ever hung out I always felt that he was interested in me. He would flirt and I figure if he's comfortable enough to invite me to stay at his place than he must have somewhat of an interest. But I always played it cool, never wanting to be vulnerable and really show my true feelings because I didn't want to lose what we already had.
Well one particular evening he and i went to a party with a bunch of our friends. We both got pretty drunk and during the party I had told him I'd never really been in a serious relationship before. (At the time I had no recollection of this ever being said until the next day when he told me what info I had willingly shared with him.)

I'LL PUT THE REST IN A SECOND SUBMISSION
I know this is long, but bare with me please. I'm in need of some advice.
by: Anonymous

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So anyways we are walking back from the party to go back to the dorms and he walks beside me and links arms with me. Then he tells me he's going to sleep with me tonight. But just straight up sleeping, he didn't mean sex. So we get back to my room and we listened to music for awhile and then I decide to just lay in my bed. I was about to pass out and then he wraps his arms around me and is just laying there for a few minutes. While we were laying there with the music going on in the background, I said to him that he was really warm and within about 10 seconds he gets up and goes back to the music playing on my computer. I found it odd, but we were intoxicated so I didn't make much of it. Well then he decides that he's tired and wants to sleep so he gets in my bed with me and is just laying there, one arm draped over my waist. I felt kinda hot so I went to turn on my fan and reached my hand towards it. Well I don't really know why he did this but I guess he thought I was reaching for his hand and he went out and grabbed my hand a bit. I eventually gave up on the damn fan and just left my hand barely gracing his.

So anyway, I'll cut to the chase. He has moved to Florida about two months ago to go live with his mom. He had to leave school so thats why he's gone. One week before he left I decided that I needed to tell him how I felt about him because it was just frustrating having to keep all my feelings to myself for so long. I tell him over text message this " Look I have feelings for you and I would appreciate it if you wouldn't call me cute and whatnot if you don't really mean it, I just don't want to get hurt."
He then replies with "I didn't know you felt that way. When did I call you cute? I'm sorry if I upset you :("
Sorry for it being soo long :/
by: Anonymous

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I forget what I had sent him or maybe I didn't reply. I honestly can't remember, but he ended up asking if I was ok and if he could call me. I told him that I was ok and that I didn't have any minutes left on my phone, which I didn't. So then I asked him later on in the night if I could call him and so I called him using someone else's phone of course. I call him and he's at a friends house watching a movie. So I tell him that I'll just call him later because it just isn't the right time to talk to him while he's busy or whatever. And he said "No just talk to me now" and I was very adamant about just waiting until the next day or whatever. Then I just rambled and said how frustrating all of this was. Then he wanted to know why and wanted me to elaborate more, but I told him that I would just call him tomorrow. So it's about 4:30 pm the next day and I call him and ask him why he did and said certain things. All I got out of him after everything I brought up was dead silence for about 20 seconds followed by either an "I don't know" or him trying to change the subject. I decided I'd had enough because the conversation wasn't going anywhere. During the conversation though, he had asked me if I was going to visit him one more time before he left and I said to him that I wasn't sure because now it's going to be weird/awkward between the two of us. He got angry and irritated and said that "awkward" was just a word used for essentially weak, stupid, self conscious people but said that he didn't think of me that way, just others. Not applying it to me or whatever, so the night before he leaves he invited me over to his house. I hadn't even noticed that it happened to be Valentine's Day, but unfortunately it was. So I get to his house and his parents are there and I had met them several times beforehand and according him he says they really like me. His dad puts in this old home video of him and it was quite humorous watching, but eventually he left us to ourselves. We just spent the evening hanging out as usual and listening to music, talking, etc. I gave him a hug before I walked out the door and he just let out this deep sigh when he hugged me and I just felt really bad because he had told me previously how much he was really going to miss me. I left and he stood by the door as I got into my car and drove back to school.

When he was gone at first, we texted each other everyday and he would tell me how much he wished he were still up there and that he missed me.
LAST ONE, PROMISE!
by: Anonymous

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Eventually I got sick and tired of being the one to innitiate any kind of conversation and thought to myself that I should just stop talking to him and finally have some control in this situation. We haven't spoken in almost a month now. I mean I feel better about it because I don't have the uncertainity of his feelings about me lingering over my head. He never even has bothered to own up to anything. He never said that he didn't like me nor did he say that he did. Which left me hanging and it made me so frustrated once again. So as the weeks have gone by and we haven't talked to each other it's just so bittersweet. I miss talking to him and everything, but there is a weight lifted off my shoulders. I don't think about him nearly as much, but I still care about him deeply. I just don't know what to do. Maybe not speak to him until I'm ready? Just cut off all ties now that he's so far away? I don't know. I'd just like some feedback or something...
For the sag girl who wrote "All girls go for scorpios"
by: Anonymous

heeeeey!!! i wanna know how u are getting along with ur scorpio coz im a sag too head over heals with a scorp but wont ever admit it unless he does it first coz i kno he does like me :) pliz kip me updated!!!
SCORPIO MALE
by: VIRGOWOMAN

Ok i met my scorpio male after a club about 4+ years ago.A week went by before I actually talked to him. The first week we hung out,and even had sex once. I'd just gotten out of a relationship so hangin out was cool with me, never cared if he called or not. We continued hanging out, he then began confiding in me, now we're seeing each other like every other day. We even worked together for awhile. I always knew I wasn't the only one he dealt with, it was obvious. However, he always made me feel nervous and excited to see him, simply cause we would spend hours together. My friend said that he really liked me, but he never expressed it. There were times where he would even get jealous around other males. Then he got weird, sometimes I would'nt hear from for days. Suddenly, he'd call me all excited and hang out with me like all day, sex and all. A yeat later, he gets a girl pregnant, and I go back to my ex. My ex and I break up again. Here comes Mr. Scorpio,in my world again only more intense, we pick up where we left off. Year three he has another baby same girl, we're still spending time and having sex together. Now I realize I love him,yet we only act like friends, but never apart. He stares at me as though he Loves me too, his friends even think so. After dealing with his mind games,I go back to my ex who really loves me,I tell Scorpio this, he gets upset and walks away.He always kept intouch via phone,even still, I cant get rid of him. So,I lie to him that I broke up with my BF to get his reaction,and immediately he wants in. He's in my mind everyday,I cant seem to get rid of him, and I still dont how he truly feels. Im a Virgo and I still dont know what to do with my SCORPIO.....
scorpions! and a piscean NEW
by: TaurusGirl

ok Pisces girl you had better look after yourself around a Scorpion!
Pisceans are very sensitive and Scorpions can be dangerous creatures.
I have a Scorpion shag buddy - we have been hanging out intensely for a few weeks and after he did some ridiculous 'test' on me over the weekend I completely saw red and lost my temper with it. Which is rare for a Taurus, but hey, Scorpio and Taurus together are very intense.
As Taurus don't like mind game BS etc I lay it on the line to the Scorpion.
I had a go at him and we sorted it out and I am glad. He actually really appreciated me being honest, and I know that was genuine. He isn't booby trapping my house at the moment, LOL!

He appreciates honesty though and I think they all do....I think the Scorpio girl who posted giggling to herself :D is right, sometimes they are being mean but sometimes they are also scared of their own heart and seeing how you feel.
I think the best move is to be honest with them.

You also need to lay down the law about what you will accept in a relationship or a lover with them....don't mess them about, they won't mess you about. You need to be very careful as you can't be crying in the corner and being wounded as you have to bear in mind Scorpions are VERY full on people.
I am ok as I refuse to take BS and as a Taurus we are just as headstrong as a Scorpion.

have fun and be honest and brave with your Scorpion!
if he ever makes you feel bad leave him.
best of luck honey xx


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