Scorpio women move too fast

Hey I am a Virgo man and I have dated a Scorpio woman for 3 months...at first I really liked her...we had a great connection but after a few weeks I have noticed that she wanted to see me too much and she was way too close to me. I don't know what happened but I'll break up with her but then I would want her back (its weird) but after the 3rd month...I broke it off and after the 4th day of being single... she told me that she was going to see other people which bothered me... and I don't know why but it did...but the bottom line is Scorpios like to take things too fast and they get close way too fast for my taste....

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Scorpio women move too fast
by: Anonymous

Hey, Virgo guy!! You are not too sure that you want a Scorpio lady. I understand that all Virgo need time to analyze in every angle and not like to rush. Virgo takes times until it is right; that is a Virgo culture or nature. But let me say something: Scorpio woman is very intense both physical and sexuality; she must be in love with you that is why she wants to get fast and very close to you. "She went to see another people as you said." That is her trick to you; means to make you jealous and make you wanted her even more. I think she plays a mind of game with you, Virgo. For more, Scorpio lady is out going and have lots of friends; especially is 'male' Believe me, I'm Virgo woman and I knew how Scorpio lady well because I have a girlfriend who is Scorpio. Scorpio loves me so much even though we are the same gender. I cant talk to a boy; she smother me. Finally, she cheated on me. I cant stop you, Virgo man! You need to think; it is up to you. I'm a pretty and talented Virgo woman don't want you to end up with a broken heart because of a Scorpio lady. I knew you are smart-intelligent. Good luck!!!!

confused
by: Anonymous

I'm a Scorpio woman, I've been talking to a Virgo man I met online. We haven't met and we mostly chat about day to day things. I subtly suggested meeting but he shyed away from the idea. I shared some personal things about myself that I think made him uncomfortable and has made him retreat from me. I don't know if I will hear from him again and the sad thing is that we really seemed to have a lot in common, I'm confused...

scorp clinginess
by: rox

i have the best of both worlds with a scorpio sun and virgo rising. i don't attach too quickly which sometimes is too my detriment.

my advice to you would be not to just dump her without reason but to try and communicate how you feel. once she trusts you, she will be able to let go of you a little and will be far less needy.

Understanding Scorpio women & Virgo men
by: Anonymous

Hey Virgo Man! Interesting that you say she was too clingy. I'm wondering if you ever communicated that with her? I don't think I am that clingy (I'm a Scorpio Female)... but I might come off that way if I feel that I am not getting the whole story from my partner. If I feel that something is not right, I will ask more questions like a detective and it makes me uneasy. So, I am wondering if that is what you did?

I was really confused with this guy that I went out with for about 3 months as well. He was very attractive and all the girls at the dorm were chasing after him... so, I was not interested. Instead, I wanted to be his friend. Until one night at a party I was sitting on the bed and he on the floor and asked me if I could give him a massage, so I did. And when I did, he grabbed my foot and started massaging it. I was so surprised because I never thought anything could come between us (since he was so picky and never fooled around any of the love puppies PLUS he was exclusive with a girlfriend he had in Japan). Anyway... after he massaged my foot, he pulled me towards him and whispered in my ear "let's get out of here" and grabbed my hand. We started making out uncotrollably seconds after leaving the dorm and that's when it started. Our relationship was amazing and we got along unbelievably well. But at the end of the semester he was going to go to Japan to study the language and meet up with his girlfiend. His roommate (a pisces) was my friend and in love with me so, when he would see me with Mr. Virgo he would pout and storm out of the room. Mr. Virgo really enjoyed that for some reason. He also talked about us getting married some day. All these things came from and started from HIM not from me. And when it came time for him to go to Japan... he became cold and uncommunicative. I suggested that we remained friends because I couldn't see it any other way... but he said NO. He left and I was heart BROKEN. We had another friend in common and I told him how I felt, so he suggested messaging Mr.Virgo while I secretly watched. Mr. Virgo said the most amazing things about me and raved about how hot and beautiful I was and how lucky the man would be to get me (go figure!). Nothing negative. I was happy to conclude it that way, but the mystery of why he did what he did so coldy perplexes me to this day!!

Reply to "Scorpio women move too fast"
by: Anonymous

Mr. Virgo, Not all Scorpio Women move too fast. Don't confuse passion with moving too fast. She was very much in love with you, and Scorpio woman tend to want all or nothing. They don't fall in love with just anybody, so you was lucky she chose you. Scorpio woman know how to be reserved and take their time with things, you may have given her signs or something that made her move fast. Scorpio woman go off actions and not words. Mr. Virgo, you hurt her when you broke it off. So this is her defense mechanism. She is going to see other people, so that she can be distracted from her strong feelings towards you, and so that you won't be able to hurt her again (She doesn't mean to intentionally Sting you, but it happens, she's a Scorpio, they can't help but sting under attack). At this point, you're lucky if she ever comes back and gets very close with you. She's not doing this to get back at you in any way or make you jealous, this is truly a defense mechanism. What most people don't understand, is Scorpio are the most misunderstood sign. Because of their strong character, they are often misunderstood...people think she is doing that to get you jelous, but not the reality at all. Hopefully you get her back if you really care, but it will be work, and you will have to work on regaining her trust...Trust as in "she wants to trust you will never hurt her again".
Good Luck.

~ Ms. November Scorpio

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