Scorpio women - suspicious and arrogant


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Scorpio women - suspicious and arrogant

I met my ex Scorpio through friends. She looked innocent, full of life, and had a devil may care attitude. I found that attractive. We got married soon after. She challenged every bit of my existence. Disaster.

Once married, her real self showed. I have not, in my entire life, met someone so conceited and arrogant - by their own admission, their friend's admission, and my observation. I have not met someone so vindictive, scheming, and calculating. I have not met someone so narcissistic. I have not met someone with such bottomless low self-esteem. I have not met someone so suspicious. Thinking back, I do not believe she lived one moment with me genuinely. Thinking back, now that my head is clear from her influence, she conducted her life in threads of unfathomable convolutions. She fed on dark matter.

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Scorpio women - suspicious and arrogant
by: Anonymous

Definitely you met a wrong scorpion girl. I feel sad for you. As long as I knew scorpion girl, a few are my girlfriends and one of them is my ex-girlfriend, I never face any of the problem or character that faced by you, I feel really sorry for you.

I admire Scorpio women so much, yes I knew they are sometimes so suspicious and can be arrogant, but man they only show their dark side to the person they hate not to the person they love. Maybe u have difficulties to understand her needs. Anyway man, good luck for your another searching. But I still hope you could find a real scorpion girl because they really will love you with passion. You need someone who can argue with you, life will be so boring if you want to be happy all the time. And don't forget that a lot of argument and disagreement makes her alive in bed too ;) haha.. Good Luck man..

Scorpio women - suspicious and arrogant
by: Anonymous

I'm a Leo man dating a Scorpio woman. At first, everything was great. She seemed to be sort of shy at first but there was never any problems. Sex was great. But she is so stubborn sometimes, and it makes me ignore her, so she ignores me back, and since we are both stubborn none of us would give in... so eventually we made up, but I want her to take me more seriously.

scorpio woman
by: Anonymous

im a scorpio woman and everything that first guy said about scorpio woman is true but we can be caring, loyal and spontaneous. the key here is knowing how to treat us and totally depends on how one is approached. if you wana keep scorpio woman you have to be HONEST because she will know the truth and of course GREAT IN BED!

To the Original Poster
by: Hope

Did you ever learn enough about your Scorpio friend to glean an understanding about what was behind all the anger and depression? I feel sad reading that because it is indicative of incredible pain and sadness.

And furthermore, that can't have been much fun for either of you. I hope you have since met someone who was ready to be in a healthy relationship.

~Hope

I'm a scorpio woman
by: Anonymous

Ok, being a scorpio woman, I have been down every road that is being talked about. A scorpio needs CONSTANT admiration. Being that they live with intense passion, they will give you the world just to see you smile, but not without cost. They have to be the center of your attention. They don't play games, but will test to see how loyal you are with them. My advice from past experiences, NEVER let a scorpio know that theres an interest, physically, mentally, or emotionally with anyone else. If they even suspect it (which they will before you have even conjured the thought), they will investigate. You will never even know what they are up to, until suddenly, they end it. We are investigators, and will know exactly what goes on behind your closed door. To avoid this, make sure you are absolutely 100% sure you want them. If you are even 99% sure, get out, or else you will lose them forever, and will suffer everyday for it. My last couple of exes tell me this every day.

Compatible signs
by: Anonymous

Sorry that things did not work out for you.If you were compatible with her things would have been different for you. After all we scorpios are at our worse when we are involved in a relationship which is going no where.We are most compatible with Cancer, Pisces, Capricorn and Virgo. Try to find someone who is compatible with your zodiac sign.GOOD LUCK!

Scorpio
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I'd like to hear what she has to say about you! I definitely don't like how you listed everything you dislike about her. That is so annoying. Maybe you shoulda shown a little compassion. huh?

Scorpion Woman
by: Anonymous

I cannot speak for all scorpion women, but as for me I know that my dark side shows when Ive been wronged or hurt. My last major relationship was with my child's father who cheated and lied, lied, lied. I believe that the suspicious characteristic in scorpios is triggered. Yes, scorpian woman need lots of attention and if you're her man she should be your center of attention, without complaint; at least thats what I would expect. As a scorpion woman, I have high standards for myself and my man. Confidence and arrogance is two different things, don't get it twisted.

Agreed!
by: RHMC

Reading the characteristics and personality traits of a Scorpio woman outlined here in their general profile was like a description of my ex too! I agree with your observation and like you quickly got married and found out her true nature later on.. although in hind sight the tell-tale signs such as the jealousy, moodiness where there from the beginning because i chose to ignore them, later on the vindictiveness, secrecy and compulsive nature self-destructive behaviors manifested. I have since dated another woman whose mom was also a Scorpio and her observations match yours and mine. It seems the basic problem with Scorpio women is that they love too deeply and will always question your loyalty and if you don't match her intensity she will dig for evidence of infidelity and after having found none, her arrogance and pride will never let her apologise and admit when in the wrong. The vindictiveness is definitely legendary and has a very dark foreboding element to it...self-harm in pursuit of venegance is an ever present danger...be warned. They are very intelligent and intuitive and will definitely find any skeletons you have in the cupboards and then woe be unto you! Smart, sexy, committed and unselfish but sadly compulsive jealousy and possessiveness destroy a lot of their relationships!

Scorpio women - suspicious and arrogant
by: Anonymous

My experiences is that Scorpio women get themselves tangled in web with the CONSTANT digging and searching for proof of infidelity. I found myself ending up having to lie to give a "better" explaination as to why i was 10 mins late for appointments..already her assumption was that i was upto no good and if the real situation/event as to why I was late could POSSIBLY be MISCONSTRUED i found myself offering a safer explaination to avoid the inevitable interrogation and investigations ...its so emotionally draining and destroys relationships unnecessarily. Scorpio women need to understand themselves and their natural inclinations so they can take corrective action. I tell you this I now avoid Scorpio woman like the plague...and its a shame because they are so sexy amazing partners in bed, loyal...but so many relationship-ending and self-destructive behaviours.

Scorpio women - suspicious and arrogant
by: Anonymous

As a Scorpio woman I do pick up on the traits that you listed. It's very hard for us to correct these traits because they are what you called "natural" to us. We seriously don't mean to! I try to correct these little habits of mine like suspicion but it isn't the easiest thing in the world.

Not to sound arrogant or anything but maybe you could have been more honest yourself. If you make yourself assertive when you answered her question she might not have had any reason to question. Just a suggestion.

Hope you find someone for you!

suspicious and arrogant
by: Anonymous

Well guess what...maybe you just haven't realized how much she's been betrayed and hurt in the past to make her like this. We as scorpions, once hurt and betrayed, never give out trust as easily anymore.

To the original post
by: Anonymous

I am a scorpio woman and no one knows better about our vices than we. I acknowlededge the fact that what you say about us is true. I've noticed these traits in myself. Especially the part about being vain. lol. But what it sounds like to me is that you didn't understand your scorpio very well. Scorpios, both male and female, see everything in black and white. Something either is or it isn't. So when dealing with people we see them in two catagories, weak and strong. We respect, but sometimes still dislike, strong personalities. But we cannot stand the weak. Maybe because we do not tolerate weakness within ourselves so its hard for us to understand weakness in others. We have our weaknesses but we will never show them to someone we did not completely love and trust. I come from a very big family and I have a lot of friends but if you ask any of them if they have every seen me cry, only about 2 of them could say "yes". We have very deep emotions which would be damn near impossible to explain. So when we hurt, we hurt to our very core. When we hate, we hate with passion and vengence. But on the positive, when we love. We love like no other. She may have been a bad choice for you. The phrase "If you can't handle the heat, get out of the kitchen" can describe any relationship you have with a scorpio.

Re: Suspicious and Arrogant
by: Anonymous

In my case, you are 50% correct. The sign of Scorpio includes an extreme compulsion to protect – both ourselves, and the emotional and physical safety of those in our charge (family, children, friends, the infirmed, etc.) I am naturally suspicious of everyone’s motives and tend to look for congruency between what they are saying, and what remains unspoken – body language, actual facts, real motive, etc.

I don’t mean to be harmful or disrespectful (unless and am convinced you are up to no good). It’s just that I tend to not take the important stuff at face value.

Embellishing a good story – I applaud and admire that. Hiding a birthday surprise or romantic scavenger hunts – I love a challenge of that nature.

However, asking about my maiden name, my address, or any other personal information at a first meeting does make me suspicious. If I understand why you want to know (and how the info will be used), I can relax. Those that know me will ask, and if they see my eyes narrow, will quickly add, “I am asking because…” I tend to give others that some courtesy.

I have never been accused of arrogance – unless being playfully flirtatious with a partner. I am acutely aware of my strengths and shortcomings, and assume that others are as well. However, I do tend to speak with authority and conviction. I wonder if that gets mistaken for arrogance.

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In my case, you are 50% correct. The sign of Scorpio includes an extreme compulsion to protect – both ourselves, and the emotional and physical safety of those in our charge (family, children, friends, the infirmed, etc.) I am naturally suspicious of everyone’s motives and tend to look for congruency between what they are saying, and what remains unspoken – body language, actual facts, real motive, etc. I don’t mean to be harmful or disrespectful (unless and am convinced you are up to no good). It’s just that I tend to not take the important stuff at face value. Embellishing a good story – I applaud and admire that. Hiding a birthday surprise or romantic scavenger hunts – I love a challenge of that nature. However, asking about my maiden name, my address, or any other personal information at a first meeting does make me suspicious. If I understand why you want to know (and how the info will be used), I can relax. Those that know me will ask, and if they see my eyes narrow, will quickly add, “I am asking because…” I tend to give others that some courtesy. I have never been accused of arrogance – unless being playfully flirtatious with a partner. I am acutely aware of my strengths and shortcomings, and assume that others are as well. However, I do tend to speak with authority and conviction. I wonder if that gets mistaken for arrogance.

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a demo of how a scorpio can be
by: Anonymous

hello...
im a scorpio woman n im dating a saggittarius guy we been 2gether for 4yrs. i use 2 b deeply inlove with him but he jus go against all of my morals he lies n lies n like the other guy said he had 2 lie so it could sound better than the truth is funny because he does that n only makes things worse so now i think everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie...he says over the yrs i've become crazy i ask who,what,when,where,n why. im not very vindictive i just like 2 get my anger out n act like nothing ever happened..im very suspisious im like "soo who was that on the phone? what did they want? so why did u walk away when they called? so why did u look at me when the phone rang? so why did u say u was going 2 call them later?...sometimes i dont wanna do that but its like hard 2 control...no scorpio woman should ever try 2 have a relationship with a sagg. n then he doesnt express himself 2 me n that drives me nuts...he jus brings out the worst in me n he developed a guy phobia n me n makes me treat n think all guys are the same and mind yew this is only my 1st boyfriend!

What is Up?
by: Anonymous

I am a gorgeous hot scorpio woman. I have not been in a relationship for 2years. The last guy was a crummy sack of shit!!

I cannot seem to meet anyone that holds my attention or that makes it all about me. I want to love. I want to be loved.. But at the same time, I will need my space.

I can be attracted to someone get the know them a little and not even be interested anymore.

Any suggestions???

Sorpio women with Sag man
by: Anonymous

I am a Sag man and have been going out with a Scorpio lady and she is so lovely but after nearly 1 1/2 yrs of going out I still dont know where I stand ? I know she has been hurt before in relationships and I remember reading somewhere that you should never talk about past partners so i dont know where/what the hurt has come from, all I know is that I want her to be my centre of attention. She talks easy face to face but when we are not together she uses texts rather than talk on the phone, its almost like it is difficult for her to talk ? An (eg) of one of my text messages would be to say; that I care for you deeply and enjoy your company everytime we are together, then I would go on to say how is your mum dad or children, her reply would be the children are good, and mum or dad are doing very well, been to visit etc. Its as though she didnt get to read the first part of my text. I always treat her like a royal lady, open car doors, push her chair in at the table, while walking down the street I always walk on the side close to the road, my jacket over her shoulders if she is feeling cold, while in a restaurant if she goes the the powder room I always stand on her return to push her chair in once again,while at the theatre I will always support her arm closest to me while going down the stairs ,all of which I love to do.I have not slept with this lovely lady as yet, am I too much of a gentleman ( nice guys finnish last ) or is this what little scorpio ladies do when they have been hurt ??

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I am a Sag man and have been going out with a Scorpio lady and she is so lovely but after nearly 1 1/2 yrs of going out I still dont know where I stand ? I know she has been hurt before in relationships and I remember reading somewhere that you should never talk about past partners so i dont know where/what the hurt has come from, all I know is that I want her to be my centre of attention. She talks easy face to face but when we are not together she uses texts rather than talk on the phone, its almost like it is difficult for her to talk ? An (eg) of one of my text messages would be to say; that I care for you deeply and enjoy your company everytime we are together, then I would go on to say how is your mum dad or children, her reply would be the children are good, and mum or dad are doing very well, been to visit etc. Its as though she didnt get to read the first part of my text. I always treat her like a royal lady, open car doors, push her chair in at the table, while walking down the street I always walk on the side close to the road, my jacket over her shoulders if she is feeling cold, while in a restaurant if she goes the the powder room I always stand on her return to push her chair in once again,while at the theatre I will always support her arm closest to me while going down the stairs ,all of which I love to do.I have not slept with this lovely lady as yet, am I too much of a gentleman ( nice guys finnish last ) or is this what little scorpio ladies do when they have been hurt ??

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like me
by: lily

am a scorpio and that lady of yours is just like me. i was hurt in the past and trust me, when guys text love messages and other logic ones, i ignore the love part and answer th ones which mean business, its b'se i was hurt for 3 good years, i dont think i will even get married!! but the advice i give u is to be like that and take your time, once u win our trust back, then u have us for good!!

Capricorn man
by: Anonymous

I am a Capricorn man dating a Scorpio woman.I have been experiencing the best sex in my life and have been honest and straight with her.but she's been hurt from former lovers and makes it impossible for her to trust me. In the meantime she puts all the blame on me every time we face difficulties.I really can't rationalize her way of thinking and though i am deeply devoted to her I will keep my self from walking down the road life with her.such a pitty.