Scorpio women - suspicious and arrogant

by Anonymous

I met my ex Scorpio through friends. She looked innocent, full of life, and had a devil may care attitude. I found that attractive. We got married soon after. She challenged every bit of my existence. Disaster.

Once married, her real self showed. I have not, in my entire life, met someone so conceited and arrogant - by their own admission, their friend's admission, and my observation. I have not met someone so vindictive, scheming, and calculating. I have not met someone so narcissistic. I have not met someone with such bottomless low self-esteem. I have not met someone so suspicious. Thinking back, I do not believe she lived one moment with me genuinely. Thinking back, now that my head is clear from her influence, she conducted her life in threads of unfathomable convolutions. She fed on dark matter.

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Scorpio women - suspicious and arrogant
by: Anonymous

Definitely you met a wrong scorpion girl. I feel sad for you. As long as I knew scorpion girl, a few are my girlfriends and one of them is my ex-girlfriend, I never face any of the problem or character that faced by you, I feel really sorry for you.

I admire Scorpio women so much, yes I knew they are sometimes so suspicious and can be arrogant, but man they only show their dark side to the person they hate not to the person they love. Maybe u have difficulties to understand her needs. Anyway man, good luck for your another searching. But I still hope you could find a real scorpion girl because they really will love you with passion. You need someone who can argue with you, life will be so boring if you want to be happy all the time. And don't forget that a lot of argument and disagreement makes her alive in bed too ;) haha.. Good Luck man..
Scorpio women - suspicious and arrogant
by: Anonymous

I'm a Leo man dating a Scorpio woman. At first, everything was great. She seemed to be sort of shy at first but there was never any problems. Sex was great. But she is so stubborn sometimes, and it makes me ignore her, so she ignores me back, and since we are both stubborn none of us would give in... so eventually we made up, but I want her to take me more seriously.
scorpio woman
by: Anonymous

im a scorpio woman and everything that first guy said about scorpio woman is true but we can be caring, loyal and spontaneous. the key here is knowing how to treat us and totally depends on how one is approached. if you wana keep scorpio woman you have to be HONEST because she will know the truth and of course GREAT IN BED!
To the Original Poster
by: Hope

Did you ever learn enough about your Scorpio friend to glean an understanding about what was behind all the anger and depression? I feel sad reading that because it is indicative of incredible pain and sadness.

And furthermore, that can't have been much fun for either of you. I hope you have since met someone who was ready to be in a healthy relationship.

~Hope
I'm a scorpio woman
by: Anonymous

Ok, being a scorpio woman, I have been down every road that is being talked about. A scorpio needs CONSTANT admiration. Being that they live with intense passion, they will give you the world just to see you smile, but not without cost. They have to be the center of your attention. They don't play games, but will test to see how loyal you are with them. My advice from past experiences, NEVER let a scorpio know that theres an interest, physically, mentally, or emotionally with anyone else. If they even suspect it (which they will before you have even conjured the thought), they will investigate. You will never even know what they are up to, until suddenly, they end it. We are investigators, and will know exactly what goes on behind your closed door. To avoid this, make sure you are absolutely 100% sure you want them. If you are even 99% sure, get out, or else you will lose them forever, and will suffer everyday for it. My last couple of exes tell me this every day.
Compatible signs
by: Anonymous

Sorry that things did not work out for you.If you were compatible with her things would have been different for you. After all we scorpios are at our worse when we are involved in a relationship which is going no where.We are most compatible with Cancer, Pisces, Capricorn and Virgo. Try to find someone who is compatible with your zodiac sign.GOOD LUCK!
Scorpio
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I'd like to hear what she has to say about you! I definitely don't like how you listed everything you dislike about her. That is so annoying. Maybe you shoulda shown a little compassion. huh?
Scorpion Woman
by: Anonymous

I cannot speak for all scorpion women, but as for me I know that my dark side shows when Ive been wronged or hurt. My last major relationship was with my child's father who cheated and lied, lied, lied. I believe that the suspicious characteristic in scorpios is triggered. Yes, scorpian woman need lots of attention and if you're her man she should be your center of attention, without complaint; at least thats what I would expect. As a scorpion woman, I have high standards for myself and my man. Confidence and arrogance is two different things, don't get it twisted.
Agreed!
by: RHMC

Reading the characteristics and personality traits of a Scorpio woman outlined here in their general profile was like a description of my ex too! I agree with your observation and like you quickly got married and found out her true nature later on.. although in hind sight the tell-tale signs such as the jealousy, moodiness where there from the beginning because i chose to ignore them, later on the vindictiveness, secrecy and compulsive nature self-destructive behaviors manifested. I have since dated another woman whose mom was also a Scorpio and her observations match yours and mine. It seems the basic problem with Scorpio women is that they love too deeply and will always question your loyalty and if you don't match her intensity she will dig for evidence of infidelity and after having found none, her arrogance and pride will never let her apologise and admit when in the wrong. The vindictiveness is definitely legendary and has a very dark foreboding element to it...self-harm in pursuit of venegance is an ever present danger...be warned. They are very intelligent and intuitive and will definitely find any skeletons you have in the cupboards and then woe be unto you! Smart, sexy, committed and unselfish but sadly compulsive jealousy and possessiveness destroy a lot of their relationships!
Scorpio women - suspicious and arrogant
by: Anonymous

My experiences is that Scorpio women get themselves tangled in web with the CONSTANT digging and searching for proof of infidelity. I found myself ending up having to lie to give a "better" explaination as to why i was 10 mins late for appointments..already her assumption was that i was upto no good and if the real situation/event as to why I was late could POSSIBLY be MISCONSTRUED i found myself offering a safer explaination to avoid the inevitable interrogation and investigations ...its so emotionally draining and destroys relationships unnecessarily. Scorpio women need to understand themselves and their natural inclinations so they can take corrective action. I tell you this I now avoid Scorpio woman like the plague...and its a shame because they are so sexy amazing partners in bed, loyal...but so many relationship-ending and self-destructive behaviours.
Scorpio women - suspicious and arrogant
by: Anonymous

As a Scorpio woman I do pick up on the traits that you listed. It's very hard for us to correct these traits because they are what you called "natural" to us. We seriously don't mean to! I try to correct these little habits of mine like suspicion but it isn't the easiest thing in the world.

Not to sound arrogant or anything but maybe you could have been more honest yourself. If you make yourself assertive when you answered her question she might not have had any reason to question. Just a suggestion.

Hope you find someone for you!
suspicious and arrogant
by: Anonymous

Well guess what...maybe you just haven't realized how much she's been betrayed and hurt in the past to make her like this. We as scorpions, once hurt and betrayed, never give out trust as easily anymore.
To the original post
by: Anonymous

I am a scorpio woman and no one knows better about our vices than we. I acknowlededge the fact that what you say about us is true. I've noticed these traits in myself. Especially the part about being vain. lol. But what it sounds like to me is that you didn't understand your scorpio very well. Scorpios, both male and female, see everything in black and white. Something either is or it isn't. So when dealing with people we see them in two catagories, weak and strong. We respect, but sometimes still dislike, strong personalities. But we cannot stand the weak. Maybe because we do not tolerate weakness within ourselves so its hard for us to understand weakness in others. We have our weaknesses but we will never show them to someone we did not completely love and trust. I come from a very big family and I have a lot of friends but if you ask any of them if they have every seen me cry, only about 2 of them could say "yes". We have very deep emotions which would be damn near impossible to explain. So when we hurt, we hurt to our very core. When we hate, we hate with passion and vengence. But on the positive, when we love. We love like no other. She may have been a bad choice for you. The phrase "If you can't handle the heat, get out of the kitchen" can describe any relationship you have with a scorpio.
Re: Suspicious and Arrogant
by: Anonymous

In my case, you are 50% correct. The sign of Scorpio includes an extreme compulsion to protect – both ourselves, and the emotional and physical safety of those in our charge (family, children, friends, the infirmed, etc.) I am naturally suspicious of everyone’s motives and tend to look for congruency between what they are saying, and what remains unspoken – body language, actual facts, real motive, etc.

I don’t mean to be harmful or disrespectful (unless and am convinced you are up to no good). It’s just that I tend to not take the important stuff at face value.

Embellishing a good story – I applaud and admire that. Hiding a birthday surprise or romantic scavenger hunts – I love a challenge of that nature.

However, asking about my maiden name, my address, or any other personal information at a first meeting does make me suspicious. If I understand why you want to know (and how the info will be used), I can relax. Those that know me will ask, and if they see my eyes narrow, will quickly add, “I am asking because…” I tend to give others that some courtesy.


I have never been accused of arrogance – unless being playfully flirtatious with a partner. I am acutely aware of my strengths and shortcomings, and assume that others are as well. However, I do tend to speak with authority and conviction. I wonder if that gets mistaken for arrogance.
a demo of how a scorpio can be
by: Anonymous

hello...
im a scorpio woman n im dating a saggittarius guy we been 2gether for 4yrs. i use 2 b deeply inlove with him but he jus go against all of my morals he lies n lies n like the other guy said he had 2 lie so it could sound better than the truth is funny because he does that n only makes things worse so now i think everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie...he says over the yrs i've become crazy i ask who,what,when,where,n why. im not very vindictive i just like 2 get my anger out n act like nothing ever happened..im very suspisious im like "soo who was that on the phone? what did they want? so why did u walk away when they called? so why did u look at me when the phone rang? so why did u say u was going 2 call them later?...sometimes i dont wanna do that but its like hard 2 control...no scorpio woman should ever try 2 have a relationship with a sagg. n then he doesnt express himself 2 me n that drives me nuts...he jus brings out the worst in me n he developed a guy phobia n me n makes me treat n think all guys are the same and mind yew this is only my 1st boyfriend!
What is Up?
by: Anonymous

I am a gorgeous hot scorpio woman. I have not been in a relationship for 2years. The last guy was a crummy sack of shit!!

I cannot seem to meet anyone that holds my attention or that makes it all about me. I want to love. I want to be loved.. But at the same time, I will need my space.

I can be attracted to someone get the know them a little and not even be interested anymore.

Any suggestions???
Sorpio women with Sag man
by: Anonymous

I am a Sag man and have been going out with a Scorpio lady and she is so lovely but after nearly 1 1/2 yrs of going out I still dont know where I stand ? I know she has been hurt before in relationships and I remember reading somewhere that you should never talk about past partners so i dont know where/what the hurt has come from, all I know is that I want her to be my centre of attention. She talks easy face to face but when we are not together she uses texts rather than talk on the phone, its almost like it is difficult for her to talk ? An (eg) of one of my text messages would be to say; that I care for you deeply and enjoy your company everytime we are together, then I would go on to say how is your mum dad or children, her reply would be the children are good, and mum or dad are doing very well, been to visit etc. Its as though she didnt get to read the first part of my text. I always treat her like a royal lady, open car doors, push her chair in at the table, while walking down the street I always walk on the side close to the road, my jacket over her shoulders if she is feeling cold, while in a restaurant if she goes the the powder room I always stand on her return to push her chair in once again,while at the theatre I will always support her arm closest to me while going down the stairs ,all of which I love to do.I have not slept with this lovely lady as yet, am I too much of a gentleman ( nice guys finnish last ) or is this what little scorpio ladies do when they have been hurt ??
like me
by: lily

am a scorpio and that lady of yours is just like me. i was hurt in the past and trust me, when guys text love messages and other logic ones, i ignore the love part and answer th ones which mean business, its b'se i was hurt for 3 good years, i dont think i will even get married!! but the advice i give u is to be like that and take your time, once u win our trust back, then u have us for good!!
Capricorn man
by: Anonymous

I am a Capricorn man dating a Scorpio woman.I have been experiencing the best sex in my life and have been honest and straight with her.but she's been hurt from former lovers and makes it impossible for her to trust me. In the meantime she puts all the blame on me every time we face difficulties.I really can't rationalize her way of thinking and though i am deeply devoted to her I will keep my self from walking down the road life with her.such a pitty.
sorry for your luck..
by: a Scorpio male

Quit belly ache'n to your Scorpio girl, then maybe she'd have a little more respect for you, and treat you to.. "life". If you don't understand the person a Scorpio is, you should most likely look for a more passive, boring mate or lover. That one you may be able to put a leash on like a pet, but not a Scorpio..man or woman. Scorpios are strong intelligent individuals, good luck trying to hide any BS from us.. We have no time for superficial nonsense. Get yourself a band-aid for the sting, a tissue for your eyes.. If you have trouble hearing it like it is, a Scorpio is not for you. Respect, empathy, loyalty, be there for her, protect and nurture her feelings, encourage her every chance you get.. She can be moody sure, and what do you think she needs then?? I just told you. And what's so difficult about those things?? You ain't going to the candy shop if you can't give her all you got bud.

I love my Scorpio girl, there's no other woman in the world but her.
From a Scropio Woman
by: Anonymous

We scorpio woman can be a lot of things. From the woman that can create your fantasies to such evil that the devil himself would cover in fear. The key is to learn to read us. We are proud, strong woman but if we love a man or woman enough we would even consider sharing the control of the relationship. Attention and constant assurance that you want us is one of the keys to keep yourself alive.
Sadly, you are exactly right.
by: AmethystAscension

I have experienced extreme abuse from three Scorpio women so far, one being a man who is basically a woman. One of them was my grandmother, the other two friends.
My grandmother is this sicko with all of her teeth rotting out who never cleans her clothes or house or takes showers.
Her life consists of manipulating her children and pitting them against each other and trying to deface her sister who cared for their sick dad because she inherited their father's house even though she did not ever take care of him when he was old.
She sits around and watches soaps in her trailer all day and can turn on your in a split second over anything.
She comes over to my parent's house uninvited and begs my dad to buy her things. She has beaten and hit me for as long as I can recall, told my mother that she is no good because she doesn't let my dad, her youngest son order her around all day like a slave.
She and the other two are all you have described and above.
They were all three hideous inside and out, two of them with an entire mouth of rotting teeth which they seemed perfectly happy with including junk food and drug lifestyle, self harm, gossip, hurting others closes to them, etc.
They truly did feed on dark matter.
My grandmother used to bring g-strings to my mom she found at the thrift store that were 5 sizes too small and call them gifts, only to laugh at her and say she would give them to her own daughter who at least has a figure when my mom turned them down(ironically, she is about 290).
I have autism and have been called a witch/demon possessed by her for as long as I could remember.
She and the guy were both bi polar and would use that as an excuse to physically and psychologically abuse me and others.
All three were extremely jealous, vindictive people who hated themselves more than any other people I have known. Poor body image, spreading vicious rumors, all trying to get close to me and say we were in the same boat just to tell me to commit suicide or spit on me.
I used to like them because of their strength as you say, but I have learned otherwise.
My grandmother told the entire family that my cousin's daughter had Down's Syndrome even though her eyes were just swollen after she was born.
She went up there and embedded herself in the guise of helping which is what she always does, but went home and made sure all of us knew their dirty secrets and all of the contents of the fights, cabinets, what they did every day, IN DETAIL over the span of a month.
She will do anything to get the attention off of her and loves watching her family go at it so they won't see what a low life she is.
They all three love fights of any kind and generally hate me because I do not go along with it.If you do not wander in their filth and sex perversion with them they will sting you.
She married a man that abused all four of her kids and her. She feels sorry for herself and blames him completely and never once apologized to her kids.
My aunt
by: AmethystAscension

My aunt is also a Scorpio and has stung both my mother and myself on numerous occasions.

She claims to be a virgin and is in her mid-50's.

She lives alone in her dead mother's house in TN where she makes 5.50 an hour working at this Church of Christ church office.

When I was up there as a teenager, there was this Scorpio man she was obsessing over. She went to my 12 year sister and started asking her relationship advice such as when to ask him out and how, etc...yeah..

Anyways, they "went out" but he was always hitting on me, telling me how hot I was and how I needed to come with them on dates.

He totally obsessed over me, talking to me and ignoring her and when we were eating out and she went to the restroom, he out of the blue told me that he was just leading her on because her mom was about to die and he thought it was too soon to break off their imaginary union (apparently she had been telling us a lie the entire time and he was just playing her out of pity but it was good enough for her since she had never dated before).

I stayed in my room as much as I could the rest of the visit, avoided the guy, who also had rotting teeth...coincidence?

Anyways, my aunt has always hated me, but then she really began to hate me. It was like the guy was feeding off of her jealousy, trying to fuel her. It made me so ill.

Her jealousy took a toll. It is sad because she was so beautiful. Amazing. She looked like Audrey Hepburn but now she is just a withered, bitter old woman living alone because as she puts it, no one is good enough for her. Thinks she knows everything and is very detached from reality.

She does not take care of herself and refuses to see a doctor for her extreme fungus that spread to hands and feet. It is like she is in a dream world, always hoping some man will come along and worship her...

She only has my mom for her friend but she mistreats her, calls and wines every day even though my mom is the youngest sister. She despises her because she married and had three kids.
ooo Calm down!
by: Anonymous

lol bitter are you? your scorp must have seriously hurt you eh. All scorpio's you say...As far as i was aware 'like attracts like'. As for hating on all scorpio's because you met a bad person, well that tells me just how immature you are,and that would irate any sign not just a scorpio. I am Aries with a Scorpio man and so far it's been heaven. :)
Scorp girl
by: Anonymous

I gotta say first off I'm a Libra guy and have dated a Scorp girl before and while they have good traits in them like being truthful, loving etc.. they show there bad traits 10 fold over all the time. They somehow seem to keep track of your shortfalls or problems, if you do something wrong get ready to put that into writing in there brain for a long time, they will pop this situation up where you messed up even months later if need be. Somehow they don't like to communicate, they tend to stay quiet, like to avoid working something out even in tuff times, I think it's the side of them that they feel they are stronger and won't show weakness while typical Libra's like to compromise and show fair game through everything, always coming to a winning solution for both ends so be warned this right off the bat causes a lot of issues when you pair the 2. I notice she will love but always 2nd guess the other partners love back as if it's not up to part with her. I have dated way worse women, but the sad part is the Scorp girl like other's have said has this charm and trustfull relationship but then kills it with a lot dark emotions.
Scorpio
by: Anonymous

I am 1005 with you.Love the comment about she like to hear what she has to say about you. Thing is it doesn't matter what she has to say. They are prone to destroy their relashinships based on the fact that the love strife and if there is too much harmony, they will find a way to turn it into some kind of make belief conflict that was never there in the 1st place. I know 17 Scorpio gals, good distant friends but all single and no prospect of love anywhere in the horizon. Confident about what? how many Scorpios are heads of states? Booze and a lack of respect for their bodies make them age a fast. very knowledgeable in current world affairs but not much curiosity in true self development and facing their inner self away from material matters. I'm free of that experience and thought it was such a waste of energy in finding fun in quarrels cause things became too boring. We could of created fun in other areas such as activities , travels or other things. At the end of the day, people work hard all week and long to find peace and give peace in each others arms. Imagine the dreadful experience of coming home and having to be irrated by major insecurities and having alot more attention that we would usually give other zodiac signs. In astrology it says they have to overcome their meanness and vindictiveness and insecurities to be balanced.
Yep
by: Anonymous

I love the karma that ensues and when they walk with their head down in depression after.Quit the crying and get the lol aid for your sting lol.At the end of the day they always get crushed based on the karma of their actions. get yourself a an other boring sign. Nothing is more boring then a female Scorpio.Boring trips abroad, boring conversations boring sex life. They want to possess your soul by lovemaking. dude it gets so boring. Anyways female Scorpio are the most fun to watch how they keep on kicking themselves by not applying the principles of positive karma and skillful sleep. when they get theirs, and it happens very often not too many people feel sympathy.They grow into old age and still have not learned the lessons that they need to truly change their lives . Aggressive divorce, getting played by bad boys and just being lifelong children.They seldom change their destructive patterns. They feel victimized by a mate who is just as straightforward and point out their faults too. One that is indifferent to their getting even and accusations if they are not true. They then say that we don't love them or don't care about them when we give them back their money's worth equally of just ignore the destructive dramas. cycles.
Scorpio
by: Anonymous

At the end of the day the Scorpio ladies i had to deal with at the work place or my friends are great people. They give great advice, are attentive to listening to others problems and are good lending ear keeper of our secrets.Dependable workers and very organized.I just finished dating a female Scorpio and fell into the negative perceptions based on the games and lies that i was put under in order to prove my love all the time. The answer being,people have their lives to live too Scorpio gals. We are put on this earth to grow, balance our karma's and learn through experiences. If we devote more energy or time that would be required in a relashionship, then we are not balancing our own selves therefore we feel like we are getting drained.Spending too much energy on someone else and forgetting ourselves is a form of draining energy drama in itself.All signs have challenges that would take a lifetime to overcome cause the emotions of our flaws are so deeply rooted in our psyche.You are beautiful and sensual beings and we appreciate you. What the gentlemen is expressing is his frustration that his efforts and energy spent were not met halfway. I had to go through something similar and its only been 3 weeks since we are apart. I broke it off cause it was too hard to handle put my life aside and always be overly attentive to hers,but i do want the best for her and to be happy. I can let my frustrations get the best of me, but if we are not together means destiny was not in agreement with our union. I miss her and still love her,you should see her she has the most beautiful eyes and complexion.They are who they are and we all have a negative side to our astrological signs that could create forums like this one with people who dated our sign and have horror story's that would make us look at ourselves and see that we too are just as bad in a certain way. Have a good summer all i'm Taurus the opposite to Scorpio and i send a passionate kiss to all of you.Last thing, its not true that Scorpios are ruler of sex. They are not as wild or kinky as other signs.
scorpio corrections
by: Anonymous

Ok I am a scorpio and yes everything that is said about us is true. But for the ones who have had a messed up experience with us know nothing as to why we are the way we are. Again it is said we are the sign of the unknowned. Sometime we too are confused as to why we do the things we do but mostly its for our protection aginst getting hurt again. We learn early on in life that once we show too much of ourselves we end up getting hurt, so we have this big firewall up.Yes that can't be good as we get older we tend to get bitter; but for a reason. So before you go saying how we are. All signs have their flaws. We are the sign of rebirth it takes up time to transform into a true GOOrD scorpio. So stop all the demeaning us as a whole because you experience was not good. But overall we are relationship push aways, we learn from our mistakes like anyother sign so back off
same happened to me, except I was not married to her
by: Anonymous

same thing happened to me so I know exactly how you feel, I feel sorry for you, I was not married to the girl, but you are.

I think the most caring and nice sign that cause the least problem is Libra.
can get ya every time... NEW
by: Anonymous

Us scorpios, can tend to do alot of assuming. Alot of the time were not exactly patient when it comes to what we want. We have high expectations an dif we think you arent keeping up then well drop you. Simple as that. It dosent mean we never cared in the first place though

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