Sex with Aries man on a first date a mistake?
I met an Aries man 4 months ago. He pursued me on Facebook, we exchanged numbers, and two weeks later hung out. He is very attractive, successful, and always out and about with his male friends (Let me add that he is 29 and I am 20).
We did not go out on a date the first time we hung out and haven't since. His apartment building has a roof top, so there are a lot of lounge chairs, cabanas, and etc. We had too many cocktails and it happened to be that I ended up sleeping with him on the first night we hung out (this is sooo not a part of my character).
Since that day we talked everyday through text messaging. However, he does not like to speak on the phone because "he is constantly on the phone at work". Our friendship was amazing, but I started to like him. I never told him anything because I didn't want to scare him away. After all, Aries men lose interest quickly. When I was around him I acted like I didn't care what he did and who he hung out with. I tried to act like an ideal girl and hard to get with.
He told me that he does not want a relationship but a female companion. I asked him define a female companion? He said someone I can go out to dinner with, take vacations, spend time with his
friends, make dinner for each other, and etc. He then turned to me and asked me if I want to be his 'female companion'? I said maybe, I will think about it. It was weird, when I was with him I felt like a princess but then there were days where he wouldn't text me (Let me add that I hardly ever text him).
He said he loved me as a person because of my 'awesome personality' and told his friends about me. Sometimes he would go MIA on the weekends. I couldn't take the emotional rollercoaster, so two days ago I told him I couldn't be his friend anymore. He replied, 'Huh what do you mean? I told him that I couldn't do the whole texting and sex thing. (He wasn't opening up to me, so I assumed that it was just a booty call. But you never know.)
He said I didn't think it was just that, but if that's how you feel. Are you telling me you don't want to be my friend anymore? I told him yes I do not want to be involved with you anymore. He didn't respond and deleted me off of Facebook that night. If he thought I was an awesome friend then why would he not fight for our friendship? I text him the next day and told him that my reaction derived from built up emotion that was never communicated to him and that it is not apart of my character to drop someone from my life without a legitimate excuse. And I had to communicate that to him because I didn't want it to bother me and have bad Karma. I also said whether he cares for what I wrote or not or responds or not, I had to let him know how I feel like mature adults do.
He never responded. For some strange reason, I want him back! I need advice, please help me.