Taurus makes me so confused and sad please help me

by Luana
(philadelphia, PA, USA)

So I've been seeing this taurus guy for a little over a month now .. in the beginning it was really good and he was very affectionate and expressive, but then he got distant. he said it was because he was dealing with drama with his family and stuff so I tried to be understanding .. and he did come back again, but then things started to be very hot and cold with him .. I heard that that is how they can be but I don't know if I can keep holding on because I'm not sure how he feels about me anymore. He had trouble saying he missed me (he would say his body missed a body and that mine was good/perfect instead of just saying he missed me) and he says he is bad at texting but last night he had no problem communicating with me that he needed help with an essay for our class that we have together so that pissed me off .. i sent him a facebook message saying that it was interesting that he blows me off sometimes and says its becasue hes bad at texting but when he needs something there is nothing wrong with his phone ..

so basically
1: when he was more expressive he said his heart would beat faster when i was around and that i gave him chills when we kissed
2: we had the best sex ever .. it was too hard for me to resist him so it ended up happening
3: we have a lot in common and have good conversations
4: but now he's making me feel confused and stupid for having feelings for him in the first place and i am very close to just giving up. i want him to know how i feel but i don't know how to do that .. i dont run into him often on campus (were in college) and i know texting him saying "i need to talk to u" is going to be scary for a guy so i feel like the only way is to call him and leave a message if he doesnt answer?