Virgo Gemini

Virgo Gemini Compatibility

Virgo Gemini is a relationship which is highly dependant on compromise. Fortunately you're both gifted in this area.

Compatibility	3
Sexual chemistry	2
Communication	3

(All scores range from 1=low to 5=high)

Note, this article is written from the viewpoint of the Virgo man or Virgo woman. There is a separate article from the viewpoint of the Gemini man or Gemini woman available here Gemini and Virgo

Mentally you're on a similar page with this partner, both of you have fast minds and are excellent communicators, and both of you are very flexible in a relationship. While your temperaments are fairly different this is solid platform to build upon.

You both tend to think with your head rather than your heart, and as such neither of you are very needy emotionally. With that said, your Gemini may be somewhat of a flirt, and may bring out your possessive side more than most other partners would.

You like some regular alone time to recharge, whereas your Gemini is a lot more outgoing and likely to often want to go out to play while you don't. As in other areas this is a fun loving partner, who you may find wears you out sometimes, though not necessarily in a bad way.

You both prefer a rational style of conversation and argument, and neither of you hold a grudge. You'll probably find this is a partner who is a master at debating (anything!) so don't be surprised if they tend to win often.

You're very likely to feel that your Gemini is somewhat unpredictable and in some ways irresponsible. Keep in mind however that you're very practical and down to earth, and if you can meet somewhere in the middle you'll both benefit from this. If you aren't willing to bend in this direction however you may find this partner somewhat flighty and disorganized.

In many day to day areas it could be said that you almost take things too seriously, while this is a partner who often doesn't take them seriously enough. Again, if you can meet in the middle it's a good combination, encouraging you to relax and let your hair down occasionally, while encouraging your Gemini to get a little more responsible and organized.

You like routine, whereas this is a partner who often welcomes change. This can create a fairly chaotic and even nomadic lifestyle, and you can certainly add some structure and stability in this area if they are willing to let you.

Virgo Gemini sex

In the short term sex with this partner is likely to be light and fun, although in the long term you may question how seriously they view it. Neither of you tend to be very emotional, and in this respect you may find this relationship somewhat 'shallow' or empty feeling occasionally. There's a good chance that you will both enjoy some sexy conversation before or during, and if things get stale it may be a good way to add some spice.

So is this article conclusive?

No! This article is based only on sun sign interaction. In order to provide a lot of people with information it's a convenient and fast way to generalize, but it's far from conclusive at this broad level.

To get a complete picture we need to take all the other planets and their interactions into account. If you would like more information for your unique relationship please see the astrology compatibility reports page.

Other resources

Often the hardest questions to ask are the most important - for example, what are their views and expectations for raising children? sharing housework? saving money? career goals? etc.

One subtle and fun way to approach this is by working through a couples question book together - that way it's not really you asking, and delicate subjects can be covered easily. The best book for this I've found is Michael Webb's 1000 Questions For Couples

For reviews of this and other relationship ebooks on subjects ranging from improving your sex life to getting an ex back please see the relationship ebook reviews page.

A third method of further research is to share experiences with other couples of this same sign combination - you may be amazed how consistent they often are. Please see the links below for visitor experiences and questions.

In any relationship there are also very significant external factors. One of these is how well you understand yourself, your partner and your partnership - the more you do, the easier it is to make the relationship more exciting, fulfilling and satisfying for both of you, regardless of your starting position. The articles on how to Make him fall in love with you and Make her fall in love with you have information on how you can use astrology to revitalize a relationship.

Virgo man and Gemini woman

Learn more about Virgo men on our Virgo man page.

Learn more about Gemini women on our Gemini woman page.

Virgo woman and Gemini man

Learn more about Virgo women on our Virgo woman page.

Learn more about Gemini men on our Gemini man page.

Related articles:

Our guides to seducing Gemini or, seducing Virgo

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