Virgos are often slow to fall in love. Conservative by nature and cautious with themselves (their hearts) to a certain point, they benefit from a more flirtatious aggressive partner to start things off. They appreciate a direct and tactful lover, prizing honesty and openness over outwardly outlandish flirting styles.
Virgos are known for being intellectual in the sexiest of terms. It is said that the mind is the sexiest organ in the body and this is most evident when dealing with the seriously brainiac Virgo. All this sharp intelligence make them keen conversationalists. They enjoy a partner that can hold their own on subjects of interest.
This 'smartness' makes them wonderful partners, as their opinions are well crafted and showing appreciation for your Virgo's views will score you points. Also because of this keen intelligence, they usually highly value the qualities they do not possess themselves, and when their partner has such qualities it makes said partner irresistible to a Virgo. For example, if your Virgo is a very hardworking and shy type, a more outgoing confident partner that is flirtatious while still being smart enough to banter would likely spike their interest and keep things interesting versus two such shy and hardworking types in this instance.
Just because Virgos may seem conservative, this doesn't mean they are so in intimate relationships. They know their mind and their emotions run deep beneath the surface. Virgo's sexiness isn't an 'in your face' style, but more about action versus words. Virgos are 'earthier' than most other signs and as such value stability and loyalty from their lover. As pertains to romantic intimacy this means they are more of a 'quality vs. quantity' lover and prefer committed relationships over one night stands. Expect to be loved solidly by your Virgo. They may not verbalize their adoration as much as other signs, but they will still show the strength of their love via actions and gestures.
Virgos value perfection in themselves and at times can be very self critical, so having a partner love them unconditionally brings about a healthy rounded Virgo. Treat your Virgo gently and tread softly if/when problems arise and your loving bond will strengthen instead of weakening as a result.
Virgos especially appreciate a mature partner that they can trust to not go off the deep end over every minor crisis. This enables them to focus on the important things and the teamwork element of the partnership will flow strongly. They prefer substance over drama. Discretion is important to Virgos. They tend towards modesty and so they will need to be lavished with praise and love and under such treatment, their bond and love blossoms for their partner.
For details of the most common pros and cons of relationships with each of the other signs we have a separate index of articles on Virgo compatibility
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Virgo and Sagittarius compatibility
Virgo and Capricorn compatibility
Virgo and Aquarius compatibility
Virgo and Pisces compatibility
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