Virgo man shut me out

I am a Scorpio woman (late twenties) have been friends with this Virgo man for a long time almost twenty years. We grew up together as children, and were friends for a long time, i moved to another city and we lost touch, then we reconnected through a online networking site. Everything was fine but then the more we talked, the more I realized how much I really liked him. He is sweet and funny and a very deep and caring person. I finally told him how I felt about him and a "possibility" of us dating and then he revealed that he just gotten out of a long term relationship and did not want to be in another serious relationship. So i accepted that although it has been quite painful, and I told him I still wanted us to remain friends. But now he is acting very weird and distant, i text him occasionally and NOTHING. This lack of communication leads me to believe that something is going on. I think it is quite rude to not text someone back especially if it is repetitive. I am so confused, my heart says to keep being patient but my head says just let it go because i cannot see myself with someone who never pays attention to me. I understand his need for space, because I need my solitude at times too, but why wont he just contact me? He told me he is not into computers so we stopped e-mailing each other and now it is mostly texting but it has been a couple of weeks and nothing! He does have a very demanding job but i think he hides behind his work and uses it as an excuse to not contact me. I am so hurt that he is treating me like this. i have never pressured him or anything like that, I have tried to be there for him but he still pushes me away. I took a huge risk revealing my feelings, and now I am kind of wishing i never said anything to him at all. I just don't understand why he acts this way, does he truly not care for me at all? or is he trying so hard to not hurt me and say the wrong thing which is why he avoids me like the plague? I just want some answers, because this sitaution has been verys tressful for me and i can't deal with it anymore, if there is nothing there on his end, why is he acting so distant? why won't he open up to me? I am a very open and honest person and I expect that quality in whomever i am dealing with in any capacity it may involve, (friend/peer/lover). Someone close to me advised me to just step back and leave him alone because he obviously has some inner issues to deal with which go way beyond me. But this on and off thing is not doing it for me, I want to date other guys and not have him in my mind as a roadblock, does anyone have some suggestions? is it me? or is it him? who has the problem here?

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"Does anyone have some suggestions? is it me? or is it him?"
by: Anonymous

I believe you are open and flexible to Virgo man 100% because you love and have faith within him. However, seems not to care about you even email or text as a messages to keep both of you and him to connect. Sound you, Scorpio lady, gave him enough spaces. So, my suggestion is it's not you fault if you move on to date with a new person who you interested and can count on as friend and a lover in a new relationship. I'm saying-you are free to go and do whatever it is right for you- I understand. I admitted, I'm Virgo,pretty woman; I have the opposite problem from you. My Scorpio has no personal phone or email. I just cant contact him but anytime he can contact me; I'm open for him-only. I almost change my mind as you do....Sooner; I'm my own woman and reliable. Go a head girl...date with a better man and say goodbye to that Virgo man, I insist. Okay. I wish for my Scorpio man meet someone very nice, love, and faithful to him forever... don't be like me.

(Ms. Virgo cheers to Ms. Scorpio)

Reply to
by: Anonymous

Hi Scorpio Lady; If he's not contacting you at all, then he doesn't want to talk to you right now or for a while. You might have scared him off when you told him you wanted to date. You said to him that you understood, but maybe he's self conscious now and doesn't feel comfortable talking with you when he knows you want more. I am Pisces and I've been with my Virgo husband for several years. They don't express their feelings very well and it's hard to get it out of them, leaving you in the dark. I say 'move on' and try to forget him - I know that's extremely hard to do - but you have to take care of yourself and move on. Love yourself and get your mind off of him. Exercise, play good music, clean, play around on the dating sites, even if you're not going to participate in online dating; It will help get your mind off of him. It takes time, keep busy. Good luck and love to you Scorpio Lady.

To lady Scorpio
by: Anonymous

Virgo man must be pretty shock when he hear you asked him to go on for a date. You have to take time and be easy on this guy...and suppose you may find a difference words to express it to him instead of dating if you really want to meet him and know more about him. I'm sure he will not refuse. Now he is kind of shut down, so you have to leave him for awhile until he is cool off than try to be honest and nice to him once again. I bet you will win him. I understand about Virgo man if he like you, he will talk to you and at the same time, you may invite him for a coffer, dinner, movie or lunch, so at the same time you take this opportunity to know him. I'm not a Virgo male. As a Virgo female, I met one Virgo man; I found he is interested in me. He keep saying that one day, someone will take him to dinner." He did not know that I sheared his zodiac sign, geeh. He though I'm Pisces because I'm very nice as him. Ha, wrong guessed.
I hope you will win Virgo man; it depends on how you use the words and treat him. This guy seems easy but not really . wishing you luck.

calm down
by: Anonymous

Im a scorpion girl, my virgo has left me for a while before letting me come to him. Take it easy and give him a period of time to be alone, he will contact to you soon. Now, just keep silent, he need his own space to think and consider ab you before starting a relationship.

Important
by: Anonymous

Hey Scorpio Lady

Give him some space he will be fine after a while text him once in a while trust me he is worth the wait caus once he is back he will pay you back 10Fold for waiting and make up for evryting you feel you lost

Coming from a virgo
Wait for him dont make any rash decisions that you will regret

virgo men shut me out
by: Anonymous

So its been almost two months and im still waiting, i don't want to pressure him or stress him out in any way shape or form, so I have been keeping a low profile. I haven't called him, but I thought about texting him the other day. He is so aloof but i'm drawn to him like a magnet, i don't know how to turn off my feelings for him, maybe thats because he has been in my life for so long.

I'm a Scorio woman and am baffled by a Virgo man
by: Anonymous

Hi Anonymous,

I understand your pain. Let me say this: our sign is deep, passionate, and if anything, intense - whether we like that or not. The Virgo man that I just got interested in goes hot, then cold, then come here - go away. I have been more confused over these last 2 months and it has made me less productive and very confused. Not a good place to be. So, my suggestion to you is this - go about your life. There are so many men who will appreciate what you have and that you can truly "connect" with. Us Scorpios must connect. If the Virgo guy comes back around, then you know you have to stay back until he makes a subtle move - then your move must be somewhat subtle as well. I don't know about you - but this Scorpio girl is not very subtle - although I do try!!! Go find yourself a guy who you can get in the trenches with and if that Virgo man comes back around - then you can make a decision. My guess - you'll go with the guy who loves you.

Virgos stress me out!
by: had enough of virgo

Man today this virgo lady in my class stresses me out when she brings up my bad etiquette. I just had enough of her now! it drives me crazy erghh.

I also noticed that virgos want to be your friend then the next week they arnt

Why can't virgos bleach their mouthes for once!

Answer
by: Anonymous

You should just move on, he probably doesn't know how he should be feeling right now, that's why he's buried himself with work.

My Virgo Man
by: Anonymous

I have known my Virgo man for over 30 years and he has always been my best friend. We lost touche for a long time and I ran into him after my husband passed away. Lately we have become serious about our relationship and it seems that the things that I feel are important in a relationship he takes for granted. Such as calling me regulary or making time for me. It is nothing for him to be late or just not show up without a call to let me know. I have been told that Virgo men are deep thinkers which causes them to over think everything. They are naturally shy and like to make the first move after...they have checked you out for some time. They are perfectionist and they will not pick just any woman for a mate. So if he picks you that lets you know that you must be as close to perfect as humanly possible. It takes them a long time to get over disagreements, breakups or even criticism. You have to handle them with alot of care and adjust who you are to be with them. Also If you are with a Virgo man and you are an emotional or very sensitive person you will drive him away plus get ready for your nights to filled with heartache and tears. But all and all there is something about the Virgo man that draws you to them even when your heart tells you to move on.

All The Same
by: Me

Leave him.. and all the other Virgos who are making all you women feel the way you do..

Who the hell do they think they are, treating people in this cold clinical detached manner

We all have feelings and get hurt and need our ' alone ' time, but not all of us treat people in such a disgraceful manner.. they're just men.. and you're all worthy of much more respect

where is your self respect girls?

get tough get serious and tell them to GET LOST !

Virgo Man
by: Anonymous

I know this problem and have been able to see this up front and center with a Virgo man I know. We were around each other every day for months so I was "the safe woman" in his life as we were working on a project together. He came off very sweet, very caring, very sensitive too to me and to all the women he was texting, talking to, seeing, online dating - you name it. He is hot and heavy with someone initially with flirting, talking, texting, - and these women thought they "were special" for sure. As soon as they showed a real interest, he couldn't be bothered and moved on to someone else. He would share with me that he just didn't get it with these women who thought "they were with him". Yeah - of course they thought they were with him with all the attention. Little did they know he was doing that with about 20 others at the same time on the same day. I'm not kidding here. What I really got out of this experience (BTW we ended up with some very heavy feelings between us and he was "come here go away" so regularly that I was never so confused about someone in my entire life so I kept my distance) was that he really liked "the titillating" experience of it all. The sensations of texting and getting all that female attention was what he really liked. I've never really seen it before. I looked at his facebook page just for the heck of it. Every single person that was a "friend" - and there were around 300 - were very good looking women. Not average looking - very good looking. And of the 300, there were about 2 men. That spoke loudly to me as well. Scorpios are not about the flirting. We are about the "real, the depths, the good stuff". I admit, I was even confused with all the attention and I got to see it without being "in it". It's like they know how "to relate - to connect" and it makes you feel that you are so close and special. He said a few things one day that really got me to see that. Scorpios are sexy and we probably use the gift of sexy from time to time to our advantage too. But a Virgo man(not Virgo women) uses the gift of connecting that "gets you". Then they move on. Think of a spider web. The spider gets you into the web, then they either eat you or leave you there for something else while they go out for more food. So move on Scorpio girl to a man who embraces the good stuff not runs from it. I admit, the Virgo man can be a little hard to resist, but come on. Don't be confused any more. Use your power to move on to what you really want. Someone who REALLY IS close to you and you alone.

Virgo
by: Me

Very well said regarding the last comment .. you had a very good insight into the Virgo nature.. Like me I knew a Virgo male, it was nothing physically intimate but boy did he want to.. it was everything you have already described but I was too clever for him and he couldn't out-wit me.. I knew exactly what kind of material he was and he too got fed up, backed off, bored and lost interest simply because .. he couldn't profit from me..Just like you.. I'm genuine always honest and open about everything with no hidden agendas and thats all what most Virgos are about .. Agendas, whats in it for them.. they're living Wimps.. they love no-one but themselves

Deeply insecure fragile creatures and dont deserve a kind word from anyone

As I stated in my last post

Tell them to GET LOST

Make him aware of it!
by: Anonymous

Recently I've been dating a Virgo Man, I am an Aquarious woman. At first he started flirting and getting my attention all the time, texting all day long, I was feeling he was too clingi. Text after text that I could even coupe with so much of him telling me about how georgeous and beatiful and amazing I was, etc. It was love at first sight. After couple of weeks he started changing, I notice he was texting not as much and became a little distant and stopped saying sweetie or mija, or those romantic sayings to me. I thought he is no longer into me as he was before and got me kind of outguarded. So I did made him aware of it. RIGH WHEN I FELT HIS COLDNESS I TEXT HIM BACK and MAKE HIM AWARE OF IT in a nice way though. I said Honey, I missed the sweet way you used to talk to and text me. Is it everything ok? Do you want to let things off and not keep in touch with each other, or is there anything wrong you would like to talk about when you have some time? I feeling you a little distant once again. Is there something making you unconfortable we can brake things off. I don't want to make feel unconfortable, nor you have to respond to my text for courtesy, and if it is do to it, I better don't want to be around, I'll better leave the relationship, I am very mature enough to understand you are not confortable with this relationship, so I better leave. Guess what he immediately appologise and became the romantic Virgo he was before once again, they sometimes don't realized they become cold sometimes until you make them aware they are doing it. If a Virgo loves you he will make everything possible to make you happy. TRUST ME IT WORKS!!!!

why does a virgo man get physical and them stops
by: Anonymous

I was physical with this virgo man for months and then he just stopped comeing over.And then he came over again six month after. We are still in contact with each other and i told him how i felt about him he says he does noy want a relationship right now. I have fallen in love with this man and i have not told him this i dont want to let this go. We are friends what should i do?

why does a virgo man get physical and them stops
by: Anonymous

By the way im a taurus women.I feel this man fail for me before i fail for him. Please help.

They seem to do that
by: Anonymous

Hi Taurus lady. I think that's what Virgos do a lot of the time. They are into you, then as soon as you are into them, they don't want you anymore. I'm not saying it happens that way every time - but with the Virgo guys I've been around, that's the way it's been. It's too bad, really, because they can be so charming and sexy and into relating to women at a close level. Then boom. Cold, distant, mean really. Go find another. If there's anything I've learned along the way of life, is you can't make someone like you or love you no matter how long you "hang out". So, go find someone else who really appreciates you and someone you can be "real" with. Time is something you can't get back once you've spent it. Don't waste any more time. Best to you.

Take action on his behavior!
by: Anonymous

I'm here again. I'm Aquarious dating a Virgo. Last time it kind of happen again,I started to feel he was cold once more. He sent me a text message that only say GM "good mornig"
nothing else just those two words GM. I reply and said, "good morning how is your day going?"
and hour passed and did not receive a reply, and he started to show that behavior, not answering a phone call nor replying to a text. So I didn't wait too much and sent him a simple text that says like this:
Wow, do not make me think that you are like any other man. But if it is true you are like any guy out there, I'm sorry, but I do not want to continue getting to know you. Treat me with respect and be honest, I am a very smart wowan to understand it. I do not play games, I wish you best of luck. But this won't work for me. I truly apreciated you don't make me waste my time if you really do not wish to get to know me better. I won't bother replying to your texts nor bother you with any future calls, best regards, Me.

Gues what happened, he apologised to me! and he is constantly calling and texting, and when I reply to a text he sent me, he makes sure it gets replied too. Amasing huh, but it works!!!

Thank you for posting!
by: Anonymous

That's awesome! I think we can all learn something from that. My friend, who is a Virgo woman btw, tells men pretty much what you just said when things start to get wobbly with them and it totally works for her too! Thank you for posting!

virgo man shut me out
by: Anonymous

Well I have read every comment on here since my original post and followed some advice that a good friend said to me, and i just left him alone for a while. Then we had a brief period of endless communication for a whole month which i was fine with becuase he never used to do that text and check in all the time, then out of nowhere, he went MIA. So we did not speak for a good 2 months and then he texted me a few weeks ago, but I did not respond, because I honestly don't know what to say to him anymore and after 5 years of this crap, I have decided to get off this emotional rollercoaster that I jumped on.
I have thought about confronting him about being so unresponsive, but i'm scared that i will just get more of the same silent BS, and i'm too old for mind games.
If he wanted to be with me, he would. I am not a fan of so much inconsistency, we are not even in a relationship! I don't even think we can remain friends because I am still so hurt and confused by his actions, it is just going to be a long process of letting go of the idea of "him" and the idea of "us" I would much rather just move on from this and be alone.

Same story
by: Cancer lady

O my my I think this virgo men are really cruel creatures..Ok heres my story- I met this virgo guy very nice and charming and so magnetic 3 yrs back in 2007,we were just friends, then suddenly he started to stalk me. I used to ignore him for the reason that I was not at all interested in him, then he started to call me and text me regularly and we became close friends. At that time he was going through a break-up with his 4yrs old girlfrnd,he used to cal me and cry like a baby and say how lonely he was. I was relly bothered for him and thought that his grl frnd must be a relly bitch to leave him in such a bad condition. I started liking him deeply. Then he came to visit me at my place and I got physically involved with this man. After that I proposed him and he accepted.We planned to get married after dating for five months..we hve had sex and I informed him that I was pregnant with his child..he told me that he has nothing to do with the baby and asked me to have a DNA test-it was really shocking for me..and I broke up with him after 15 days of break up I texted him and said sorry for breaking up with him(which was very wrong I know)and asked to take me back but guess what He told me that he is not thinking of a relationship right now and he wants to be alone..I am an emotional cancer woman I hve forgiven him for wht he did to me becoz I loved him so much..After our break up I was the one who tried to contact him now and then .He made empty promises to me and I trusted him .I cried I begged I almost killed myself but he was not at all bothered.He just used me.He took my innocence and left me like a thrash.Its been 2months now we broke up and he has completely shut-me-out of his life. I am going through this horrible pain right now,hope this passes soon.I just want to move on.Hats off to you ladies who have survived the disease called -VIRGO MEN

Virgo Men Are Cold
by: Halo

In January ran into my old virgo friend that I once dated but things ended because he was a player. At any rate, ran into him in January. We had our first date and from there dated this virgo man for 7 months (not a committed relationship, just a getting to know phase, per him); had an amazing time...he was so charming and so attentive. Well I had a incident with a family member, which landed me in the hospital and I made the mistake of telling my virgo man and also had the doctor speak with him. Shortly, after he broke up with me. Said that I care to much for my family and that he will never want to meet them. Said he can't deal my issues and his, but that I should seek therapy and he'll be more than happy to join me. In short, he said we will never ever date or be in a relationship. Didn't hear from him for a week and then out of the blue he sends a texts saying "he's a good man and I'm a beautifuly woman, but unfortunately "damage goods"...not a word since them. Needless to say I was crused. NO closure, nothing... How could he be so cold and heartless. I'll never have an answer. I love him very much and it hurts, but I refuse to reach out to him. And anyway, I'm sure he'll just not respond. This really sucks. Someone you trust and felt was a friend and cared about you...can just toss you like garbage.

virgos
by: Anonymous

Wow, its been super hard, one min here, next gone. This has been going on for over a year....my head tells me let it go, and my heart can't...so the latest craziness, he invites Me to come over the last min, I couldn't I had plans, so two days later I invite him to join me @ an event, still haven't heard from him, there hot, there cold, they love u, they don't. I'm so tired and confused....I think it just the way virgos are. They say sensitive, and try to keep u close, but far enought away that they don't get hurt.I tired of all the guessing

That is just rude and mean
by: Anonymous

Hi - It just pains me to hear that another human being would even consider that he is better than you. Damaged goods? Are you kidding? It sounds like this man has some serious intellectual challenges. Look - I don't know you personally, but I have to believe that you want to spend time and share your heart with someone who wants to do the same with you. Someone who has your back, loves and appreciates you for everything you are and everything you're not. We've all waited around for, chased, prayed for etc people that don't treat us right to come back. Why do we do that? Well you don't have to any more. When this type of situation happens - just run. Seriously. From now on when these situations come up, just walk away because your time is precious and a gift, and that person is actually giving you a gift at that moment in time. Think of it as him wrapping up a present and giving it to you saying "here is every reason in the world that you don't want to be with me or someone like me". Accept the gift, thank him for showing you so you can move on to sharing your time and your special gifts with the right guy (s). Virgo or not - just walk away and say "thank you". Wishing you happiness and joy, and I hope you will embrace the message I am sending!

Toxic virgo man
by: Pink

I will never date a virgo man ever again, they chew you up and spit you out. I really don't know how these virgo men portray themselves as being that humble and shy, when all the while they are manipulating you and are very controlling and say everything is your fault. You're damned if you do and damned if you dont. They claim to be faithful,loyal and innocent which is not the case. When they pull back they are pursuing other women behind the scenes. They are commitment phobics and transfer their insecurities onto the other person in the relationship with criticism and toxicity, cold blooded and detached and extremely self absorbed, in a narcissitic way, full of self importance and arrogant, sucking the life out of you, take, take, take and throwing a few crumbs back.
I was with a virgo man for two years in a relationship, then i was demoted to a 'friend' for another couple of years with no sex.In the beginning he was very attentive, paid me compliments and was really into me, then all of a sudden i was cut off at the knees and said he only wanted to be friends and no relationship, but they will only be friends when they have nothing to do and are bored, so you feel used and abused. I put up with it for a long time. He was always blowing hot and cold and was the catalyst in arguments, causing embarassing situations when we were out,and turned it around saying it was my fault. He took great delight knocking my confidence and self esteem. When i stood up for myself he didnt like it. Once they have spoken all about themselves, and you have fed their ego, they get bored and move onto someone else for a narcissistic topup. He says he has now met someone else (it wont be long before hes looking around again) and i really feel for whoever this is and other potential victims. They seem to like their women not to have a voice and stay mute, as anything i wanted to talk about it, he told me to shut up or storm off. They can't deal with 'life' at all and think they should stay away from women and i feel sorry for their next victim, as i would not wish any of it on my worst enemy, they cause the worst damaging pain you can ever experience After this all took its toll on my wellbeing I am now just beginning to recover and slowly repairing my confidence

Bitter experience of a virgo man
by: pink

Dont make any excuses for the way Virgo men act, they are selfish, takers, pretending they are vulnerable, humble and shy, what they show on the outside is not what is going on in the inside. They are commitment phobic, takers and drain your resources and energy and give nothing back, if there is nothing more to profit from you, they will move onto their next victim. They will disrespect you and humiliate you. They have narcissistic tendencies, where they need their ego boosted, then they get bored, they are not stayers, but like to think of themselves as players, plotting behind the scenes with manipulation and control and looking for other vulnerable women. They dismantle your personality and confidence/self esteem, leaving a trail of devastation for us to deal with. cause problems and then run away and hide, like a coward, and it is all of their own making.

Virgo Man Dumped Me & Shut Me Out`
by: Halo

I totally agree with the posts that I have read. Virgo men are selfish, self absored, narcissist, takers, have low self esteem, though pretending otherwise. I didn't realized this until after I was dumped because as he said "I'm beautiful, damaged goods!" Some nerve! Yes, I have issues, but we all do. It pains me that he ended our relationship so cold and nasty. Like why? I've been nothing but sweet, loving and genuine to this guy. But as many of you have stated...they are commitment phobics and users. What you see on the outside, that charming and shy personality is not what they are on the inside. I loved him for 7 months, dealt with him on his terms, boosted his ego and this is what i get in the end...nothing, coldness and ugliness. I'm finally getting over him, though I think about him periodically because I genuinely thought we had a connection...being I'm capricorn and he's a virgo (we're supposed to be very compatible...far from it). I don't think these men are compatible with anyone but themselves. I feel I need closure, but I should accept him saying "we'll never date or be in a relationship" as closure. Why do I still love him? I don't know. So I tell myself "I forgive him and I forgive me for not loving me enough". There were all kinds of red flags, I wished I had paid attention and followed my gut. He's 48, never been married, had tons of female friends "strictly platonic"...sure. We only went out once a week, rarely talked on the phone because he doesn't like to. I only heard from him when I called. Otherwise, he didn't call me. OMG, why did I fall for him. I'm just so disappointed in myself. I believed him, thought if nothing more he would be my friend. But I was wrong...he completed shut me out...no response to my texts or calls. As I said, I forgive him and I let go of him...just be glad when I can stop thinking of him. Wished I could text him and say "Thank God you blew it, thank God I dodged the bullet,
I'm so over you, so baby go lookin' out! you turned out to be the best thing I never had,
And I will always be the best thing you never had." (smiling). But knowing him...he wouldn't be phased a bit. What you think?


Toxic virgo man
by: pink

I totally agree with the response above. In the beginning of my relationship with Virgo man, he had no problem with talking on the telephone, and as time went on, he treated me like crap, he claimed to 'not like talking on telephones or texting'(how convenient)!!!.....but he spoke to other people just fine on the phone and text people all the time. They are cold, manipulating and arrogant and feel they have the right to treat women as low lifes, when they are 'low life' themselves. They should not be let loose into society to interact with women. You would have thought that not every woman is wrong the way they are treated by these virgo's, and if I were a virgo man, i would go away, redeem myself and make myself a better person, but this will rarely happen, because they have no depth, and suffer from emotional and communication constipation. They very rarely compromise in a relationship, its either their way or the highway!!!!They act like spoilt brats to get what they want, and if you have your own opinion on something they go hide and sulk. If i had a virgo child, i would make a conscious effort to teach them proper values and respect, but who knows? is there any hope. They know exactly how they are treating women, but the audacity of it is they think and act like they are the Victim!!!! They slag off previous ex partners like it was all their fault, i.e. saying they were nut cases and causing problems, when the reality is that the most level headed, easygoing woman can become very unbalanced when involved with a virgo man. The Virgo man will be the catalyst of an argument or heated debate, push your buttons, and just sit back, cold and detached with a slight grin on his face, and say 'you're mad'!!! and so the trend continues, afterwards when he has sabotaged the relationship, he pursues his next victim, repeating the same old patterns. I am, like lots of other women, very balanced and grounded, and this experience left me going through the most painful experience ever!!!and if i get into a relationship again, it won't be with another virgo!!!

Toxic virgo man
by: pink

Hi Halo

If i were you i would not text or call him again. Trust me, i have tried every angle with sending lovely texts messages, and covering everything else, analyzing etc. He is expecting the text or call to come, but this will make no difference and will not make him come forward or change his feelings. Take a giant step back and do what he doesn't expect, regain your strength, and you will also be able to regain even more clarity into what type of person he is and the situation. They absolutely hate being ignored. When/if he contacts you, don't respond straight away, make him wait a couple of hours or so, because if you reply straight away, he will know you are there waiting for him. Give some time out and be kind to yourself. If you feel like you have the urge to contact him, just come onto this site and write everything down, and afterwards you won't want to call or text him. This will re-balance you and enable you to reclaim your power, instead of giving it all away to him. I will help where i can, as i am going through the same thing. I hope this helps Pink x

Virgo Man Dumped Me & Shut Me Out`
by: Halo

Hi Pink! Thank you so much for your wise words! Reading your comments has helped me tremendously!!! I've never been in a situtation like this, rather a seperation ending on a nasty note with any man. I'm just shocked and appalled as to how cold I've been treated. I mean I made love to this man, shared my heart with him, treated this man like a prince. We all have issues, but as a friend you don't bail on your friend during a crisis. So maybe he was never the friend I thought he was. And to end our relationship all crappy...hurts. But I thank you for your wise words and I will certainly take your advice. I will not text or call him again. And quite honestly, I'm sure he could care less. He's probably on to next. So as you've said... I need to take a giant step back and regain my strength. I'm definitely working on me and being kind to myself because I know I'm a very loving soul and what he did to me was not nice, nor necessary. I think of him, though I try hard not to, but I am proud to say, I have not had the urge to call him...I wouldn't dare give him the satisfaction of ignoring me or hurting me. You've been a tremendous help! Thank you so much Pink!

Toxic virgo man
by: Pink

Hi Halo,
You are most welcome anytime. These virgo men that we have experienced transfer all their insecurities and baggage onto the likes of us, saying we are damaged goods, when in reality it is them who are damaged, and through ignorance and conveniently being in denial, it is an easy cop out for them to blame us and exploit us rather than them admit any kind of responsibility. My situation very much mirrors yours with being dictated when we could see each other, i.e. once a week, then it gradually became less, he was the catalyst in arguments, sat back with a smirk on his face, chipping away, sabotaging the relationship, manipulating me saying it was my fault, in order to push me away. They are not only incompatible with anyone, but they are not even compatible with themselves. You are a very valuable, very caring, loyal, intelligent and lovely person with great attributes and you should hold your head up High, he should be the one who should be ashamed X

Virgo Men
by: Halo

One of the most difficult things we humans are ever called upon to do is to respond to evil with kindness, and to forgive the unforgivable. One of the keys to longevity and good health is to develop a habit of gratitude and let go of past hurts. I want to live a long, happy life. So I must forgive the unforgivable. It really is the kindest thing I can do for myself. My enemy may not deserve to be forgiven for all the pain and sadness and suffering purposefully inflicted on my life, but I deserve to be free of this evil. This Virgo man that crushed my heart. This too shall pass! I forgive him and I forgive me.

virgo men are losers
by: Anonymous

WOW!!!
It has been quite a while since my original post and nothing has changed. My virgo man doesnt want to be a part of my life and I sure as hell dgaf about being in his.
After reading all these posts I am stunned that grown ass men act like total a**h***s!!!! Deep down I realy thought my virgo friend was a good person, but he just reinforced my negative view on men and my lack of faith and trust has now returned into my life and i highly doubt that it will leave because of him. We STILL have not talked, but I had a moment of weakness and texted this fool on his birthday and NOTHING. Also my birthday just passed and again, he did what he always does, He totally ignored me, but its all good. He is a piece of shit and I wish him well in life because he will need it especialy if he is even remotely considering settling down with a woman, he really needs therapy because he has MAJOR issues. I am very disappointed in myself for putting that much time and energy into his ass, when I could have focused on myself. But NOW that time has come and after 5 years, i am ready to move on. On to the next one and i can only pray he will be a real man. WOMEN PLEASE STAY AWAY IF YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR SANITY VIRGO MEN HAVE RABIES BE CAREFUL!!!!!!!!

Annoyed
by: pisces

i read this and i hurt my virgo man. Alteast i think i did i broke up with him because (i am a pisces )somewhow is sensed his manipulation an cheating ways and i never fully trusted him. he has not cheated but i really saw that they do throw their insecurities and blame them on you.they are insecure and really have terrible self esteem issues. i BROKE UP WITH HIM AN I WAS FINE !! He called me an texted me all the time after letting me know he still loves me and he will never stop and how much he ,misses me an the hurt he felt making me feel guilty for dumping him the way i did. -_- and it worked. I still do love him -_- and now he is with someone else. And i do miss him an ahve alot of feelings for him.All of a sudden he stops replying or texting me.Virgo MEN DISGUST ME.urgghh

DITTO
by: Anonymous

I was in a brief but intense involvement with a Virgo. We met online & though he wasn't my type, we hit it off. He was passionate, funny, attentive & loving for a while then began to show insecurities like none I'd ever seen before: he harassed me for going out with friends, spending time with my child, criticized my clothes & began talking obsessively about his ex & talking poorly about all of his friends, while telling me he'd like me to meet them. He took issue with my background & education & questioned every aspect of my judgment while seeming to convey he did so out of love...

We had fights almost every week after the first month & I suspected that he was using me as a stand in for his ex. If I cried (Cancer's emote) he attacked me, if I put distance between us to stop the fight, he'd accuse me, he'd say horrible things about my body to shame me, then tell me how sexy I was...I just couldn't win!

One night I drank too much & let him have it, full blast in texts the next morning... His weight, body, health issues and the fact that he ate his emotions while persecuting mine (he had diabetes, glaucoma, high BP, weighed 245 at 5'11" & 43 years old, erectile dysfunction & his late disclosure about having had an STD. We'd had the talk long before intimacy & he denied ever having anything; then recanted to win a arguement... His health issues are from food addiction, yet expected me to be perfect. I hold an MA, successfully raised a college enrolled child by myself, travel extensively & take pride in my appearance... And have never had an STD or had the need to compare the man I was with to ones I'd left long ago.

He refused to speak to me or to repair the relationship after the blow up. He told me he called the police because he thought I was bipolar, but the truth is that he wanted to destroy my career because he wanted to win a fight. His friends all verified that they told him that I was just drunk & blowing off steam, to get over it & learn a lesson, but winning & being right were super important to him. He villified me just as he had each & every other person he'd known so that he could view himself as righteous & perfect.

In the end I realized that he was/is a toxic person in every imaginable way & that I never deserved his particular brand of love. It's been a few years and I'm doing fine. I've met & dated a few really great guys but have not settled on one yet.

My experience & reading these posts tells me that Virgo men are best avoided and that the first time you feel negated, challenged in your humanity or abused is the best time to let go!

DITTO
by: Anonymous

I was in a brief but intense involvement with a Virgo. We met online & though he wasn't my type, we hit it off. He was passionate, funny, attentive & loving for a while then began to show insecurities like none I'd ever seen before: he harassed me for going out with friends, spending time with my child, criticized my clothes & began talking obsessively about his ex & talking poorly about all of his friends, while telling me he'd like me to meet them. He took issue with my background & education & questioned every aspect of my judgment while seeming to convey he did so out of love...

We had fights almost every week after the first month & I suspected that he was using me as a stand in for his ex. If I cried (Cancer's emote) he attacked me, if I put distance between us to stop the fight, he'd accuse me, he'd say horrible things about my body to shame me, then tell me how sexy I was...I just couldn't win!

One night I drank too much & let him have it, full blast in texts the next morning... His weight, body, health issues and the fact that he ate his emotions while persecuting mine (he had diabetes, glaucoma, high BP, weighed 245 at 5'11" & 43 years old, erectile dysfunction & his late disclosure about having had an STD. We'd had the talk long before intimacy & he denied ever having anything; then recanted to win a arguement... His health issues are from food addiction, yet expected me to be perfect. I hold an MA, successfully raised a college enrolled child by myself, travel extensively & take pride in my appearance... And have never had an STD or had the need to compare the man I was with to ones I'd left long ago.

He refused to speak to me or to repair the relationship after the blow up. He told me he called the police because he thought I was bipolar, but the truth is that he wanted to destroy my career because he wanted to win a fight. His friends all verified that they told him that I was just drunk & blowing off steam, to get over it & learn a lesson, but winning & being right were super important to him. He villified me just as he had each & every other person he'd known so that he could view himself as righteous & perfect.

In the end I realized that he was/is a toxic person in every imaginable way & that I never deserved his particular brand of love. It's been a few years and I'm doing fine. I've met & dated a few really great guys but have not settled on one yet.

My experience & reading these posts tells me that Virgo men are best avoided and that the first time you feel negated, challenged in your humanity or abused is the best time to let go!

Virgo Man
by: Anonymous

Wow - that's an amazing Virgo man story. I believe I've seen every trait of that in one Virgo man that I know. I'm glad you got away. I walked away very quickly after experiencing some very confusing and mean behavior. Virgo man or any other - any of us who experience really bad behavior like this need to move away as quickly as possible and find the love we all deserve. Happy Holidays!

Virgos are What You Allow Them to Be
by: Anonymous

Hi,I'm currently in a relationship with a Virgo.I'm a Scorpio lady. Our relatonship started off crazy. He liked and wanted me badly, but I didn't feel the same. But, Virgos have the power to get you crazy in love with them.

Eventually, I fell in love with him and I gave him all of me. Every day he texted me and acted passionately. He is a hard person to understand, but I know he wants me and wants me to understand him. I slowly gave him me, that way he didn't get bored too fast.

Now, he is a little distant, but only when I allow him to act distant. Once, I make him aware of his aloofness, he's my little puppy again. Virgos just need to know that you love them. Don't over crowd them and when they treat you wrong give them some pay back. Most of the time they are insecure or afraid to scare you off.

And it's okay to not talk to them for a day or two or maybe even a week. They are the type of people who think they need space, but when you give it to them they want you badly. You just have to learn their hearts and learn how to kind of manipulate them. Beat them at their own games.And if you know your heart can't take their aloofness, insecurties, etc. they are not meant for you.

Selfish Virgo
by: Anonymous

I made a mistake to get entangled with a Virgo. He got with me after I lost my dad and he caused me further pain, he devastated me and dumped me over the holidays. I made sure he knew what a low life he is. I don`t know why I was with him because the sex was not great. Now I have moved in. He is very fat, I think he weighs 500 pounds but I dont know why I was so hooked on him.
R.N if you read this, I hope you burn in hell.

Selfish Virgo
by: Anonymous

I made a mistake to get entangled with a Virgo. He got with me after I lost my dad and he caused me further pain, he devastated me and dumped me over the holidays. I made sure he knew what a low life he is. I don`t know why I was with him because the sex was not great. Now I have moved in. He is very fat, I think he weighs 500 pounds but I dont know why I was so hooked on him.
R.N if you read this, I hope you burn in hell.

no more virgos for me
by: Anonymous

Thanks pink reading your comments today made me understand what im going through alot better. I am a sag woman who dated a virgo for a year.and feel the same exact way you do they are very selfish and cold. I always gave and gave and never felt that i had a partner in my life.

Run girl run
by: Anonymous

I had the same problem when I was 21 years old meet Virgo got on so well friends and lovers . But not answering tex and email got on my nerves in the end it took me 8 years to brake this relationship and it was the hardest thing to do Mr big ..... From sex in the city .
I then settled down with a man very happy the virgo man emailed me after 8 years .... But not this time I blanked his email ... I think they have to many female friends and they are very selfish ...
Please don't waist your time like I did .I settled very late in life because of it ...

Stay away from virgo men
by: Been there

http://beyondjane.com/relationships/dating/i-would-rather-be-dateless-than-date-a-virgo-man/
^^^^GIRLS THIS A VERY GOOD
SITE WHERE THE TRUE NATURE OF VIRGO MAN IS REVEALED. PLEASE TAKE A LOOK. AND PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM THE CREATURES KNOWN AS VIRGO MAN

Virgo Man
by: Halo

Hi Halo again,(I posted my heartbreaking Virgo situation 6 months ago). Update, after 6 months of no contact with the virgo jerk I thought I was dating, but found out we were only in the getting to know stage (crazy mind games). Well, out of the blue, this virgo narssasitic jerk sends me a text asking "how are you doing?" Unbelievable! Why? I'm damaged goods as he said. At any rate, I responded simply & politely. End of story. He and I will "never be in a relationship OR date" as he told me 6 months ago. A person only misses you and your value when you're gone and over them! I wish him nothing, I'm just indifferent.

Horrible experience
by: Cancer woman here

I can relate WITH each and every post here.
I was with my VIRGO narcissist creature ex for 6 months.
He stalked me and didn't stop until I gave up.
I gave him my heart ,my trust ,my soul to him but guess what?
in the end he crushed my heart under his cold feet. He used me to get over his ex.
I was just his rebound. I thought he genuinely loved me but I was very wrong.
He played with my heart,used me, manipulated me,
played the victim, talked rubbish about his girlfriend (he is obsessed with his ex till now).
He is a big commitment phobic man , strange ,cold ,weird, narrow minded ,stingy ,pathetic,critical,liar,
very negative about everything around him, never happy,
self absorbed,robotic,totally devoid of empathy and compassion for others,stubborn,
full of talk time but no actions...I can go on and on and on.
While being in relationship with him I was lonely and never felt happiness, he never cared about me,
I felt like I was trapped,
though my gut feeling was saying me that something is wrong with this man but
I never listened to my head I followed my heart which lead me to my heart break.I was left hurt and lonely.
Nothing was about "US",
Everything was about "I"(him). He only thinks about himself and nobody else.
I was hospitalized and was under treatment for 5 months(due to trauma) when he left me in to dust.

Now when I look back I see what this man was all about.He was
so "BAD LUCK" for me that I lost my Health and Happiness within a short period of time when he was around me.
He took away my Smile.
But now I have recovered from his addiction and I am back on my right track.
He is still the same negative
unhappy man. I will never ever go back to him or date another virgo creature again.I am
enjoying my life once again and hoping to meet somebody in future to spend the rest of my life with.
I am happy again, I have regained my independence ,I am free from all his negativity.
Thanks a lot to almighty for giving back my own self.

Girls its not hard, just try you too can recover from your virgo addiction trust me.
I have done it you can do it as well. Just believe in your self, shut these men outaa your life completely.
Spend more time with your loved ones, do something new And drop that man outaa your life just like bad habit.
Cut all the contacts with them and never look back.Remember they are just big time "WANKERS".
Mind you -- they are stalkers and comes back to your life again and again like spirits.Beware Of that.
If they try to get back to YOU just ignore and avoid them.

"GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU ALL"

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

Hey girl I know what you are going through. I have the same problem with my Virgo ex. He is always on and off, appearing and disappearing. But now I have given up on him as I am very very tired with his mind games.It really hurts deep inside.Its been two years with this on and off thing. He is 31 but is still a very good player in mind games. I gave him everything my heart my soul and my love but in return I got nothing except mental abuse and coldness. I am a very warm ,intense, passionate and deep person. And I know how much loyal and Honest I am when in relationship. He first came to me crying about everything that he is going through a very rough time, every one is against him (his colleagues,family,friends), every one is envy of him.According to him everybody is selfish towards him. He made me believe that how vulnerable and needy he is with manipulation though he was not. I was a big time fool to trust him blindly and all his bull shits.I literally believed each and every word of him blindly for which I regret now.He is so self absorbed and 24/7 thinks of himself and how to make his own life better ,how to be the number one.He is so immature emotionally and probably he is a bipolar too which I found out later.He had all the narcissist symptoms which i ignored and put up with his bull shits for two long years.I have wasted these two years of my life on a jerk.He used me and threw me away after wiping his shit.My main problem is that I am still obsessed with this guy and can't take him out of my head because he keeps coming back.I think of him 24/7 which is not good I know.He is not letting me forget him,when I think he has now gone forever then bam!!!! here he appears again with all his baggage of bull shits. But I can't deny that I was really in love with him and cared for him deeply.
But now I have realised that he is not worth my love,time and attention as he is totally an emotional rollarcoaster.I have wasted enough of my time,energy and emotions over this guy. Now its my time to move on and this time forever.I am working on my messed up emotions and I know I can get out from all these crap.My family is with me ,they are my treasure . My mum hates him to death. She says that his bad karma will backfire on him soon .I believe in karma as well as in God and I know that intentionally I've never hurt anybody so I know God has a better plan for me in future .
So scorpic girl this is my story , hope I helped you. I can only say that just cut this worthless guy out of your life completely and don't look back. He is not worth your love and sacrifice. You are a beautiful young girl and I know god has plans for you too.Right now just think about yourself and what is good for you. I know you are intelligent enough to take the right decision for you.So Good luck to you sweety.

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

Forgot to mention that virgo men are very insecured,have very low self esteem and confidence,have major trust issues. They don't trust people in their life and are always suspicious about everything and everybody around them. Its so sad but true. They portray themselves as kind, humble,down-to-earth,manly and strong but in reality they are total opposite. They are indeed very critical and controlling.

My advice to all woman out there please stay away from Virgo men if you want to live a healthy and happy life.Because they suck all your happiness and take away all good thing you have in your life. They will drain you and then leave you forever.

Virgo Man
by: Halo

Hi CancerSun, I totally understand how you feel, but trust and know that in time you will heal and get over this unfortunate relationship experience with your virgo. It took me 5 months to get a grip. And out of the blue he texts (smile). Felt good to see his text and be able to think to self and know that I'm so over him. Even though he didn't deserve it, i Killed him with kindness.

And yes, virgo men are very insecure,have low self esteem,low confidence,and MAJOR trust issues. Sad indeed! Though they portray themselves otherwise. I always believed that my guy was caring, kind, loyal, humble,down-to-earth, and strong but I was fact wrong. They are cowards, selfish, manipulative, critical and controlling. Total ASS clowns!

Karma is a real "B". That said, I could care less if he Karma hit him or not. Just glad he's my history. :)

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

Hi Halo thanks alot. Yep I know that I can get over that sh!thloe and I am trying my best to do so. I am just wondering how many women out there are still suffering from this incurable disease known as virgo men.I really pray for those women out there.

Virgo Men
by: Halo

Tons of women Cancer/Aries! Tons. Even I on ocassion suffer oVer my virgo ass clown. Time...

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

My ex have 5 placements in Virgo - Sun/Moon/Mercury/Pluto/Saturn.. And he was the meanest person I have ever seen. He was freezing cold and distant.Selfish, Self absorbed. He was totally devoid of affection and empathy. He never even bothered to care about me or my feelings.He only bothers for people from whom he can benefit something. He loves only himself. I never thought that such human beings exists on this Earth.This break up led me to trauma and I was under treatment for 6 months and lost major amount of weight.He is the worst incident of my life.He is the Devil in disguise.
The funny part is that -The sex was horrible,he was totally robotic.He lacks passion and affection.. Nobody will be happy with him I guess.

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

I know my virgo man hurt me. He didn't loved me ,he used me but I don't know why I still love him .I think I have gone crazy in my mind but I can't deny the fact that I love him .I don't know whether I'll be able to forget him or not ?? It's becoming too hard for me day by day.

God knows........ :(

Please tell me what it was
by: Anonymous

Hello Cancer Sun. I'm sorry for your hurt - I've been there too. Yes, the Virgo man hurt me and they are weird!! I am very curious now, though, as I have read everything you've written. Tell me, what did you love about him? Please explain.

Scorpio

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

@Please tell me what it was

I just don't know. I mean he was a really smooth talker and have had a great personality. I thought that he was my soul-mate. He made tons of promises which he didn't fulfilled. I don't know why I am so much attracted to him though the sex was horrible. He is like a magnet to me. I really miss his talking. It took me too long to commit to this guy but when I committed he just shut me out and left. . I am really very confused right now and trying my best to get over this guy but the pain is so deep .I just want to get over this sh!t as soon as possible but it seems very difficult for me .It seems that it will take forever to get over him. I think I am obsessed.Please give me some tips. Help me please.

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

And yes he keeps coming back like ghost.

List It
by: Anonymous

Hi Cancer Sun. Oh I have been crazy obsessed myself over a man too - and he was a Cancer! It took a while believe me. And my whole body system was not right during that time - negative emotions can really hurt your body! If you'd like to know a powerful tool to get you past where you are right now I'm happy to share. It's part one of a series of stepping stones to get you past the deep hurt and pain, and keep you moving in the right direction for YOU. It sounds like you have a deep feeling of betrayal - and that is a very hard thing to face. Stepping Stone Number one is a tool and the tool is to make a list. Yes a list - I know this sounds old fashioned - but it's absolutely not - and done correctly will get you to stepping stone number two. Here goes: On ONE piece of lined paper, you draw a line down the middle from top to bottom. On the left side you write the title "The things I really like about Virgo Man" and list them one by one underneath line by line. On the right side you write the title "The things I really don't like about Virgo Man" and list them one by one, line by line. You can keep adding to the list as the days go on. I realize that this is a logical exercise and that emotions are illogical, but this is a powerful expression of what you know inside and once it comes from you and then to the paper, it is like a mini exorcism. Just do it you for and to get you moving on to your happy life. Then every day (yes every day) you look at the list and review both sides, acknowledge that you wrote down what you know to be true, give yourself a lot of credit for doing the exercise and put the paper down and go about your day. You can schedule in obsessing about him AT A PARTICULAR TIME OF THE DAY and add those obsessions to the list - good or bad. But when you put the paper down, that's your cue that your obsession time is over for that day and the entire rest of the day is for YOU. If you start obsessing again during the day, you will need to take the paper with you and keep it in your purse. The minute your mind starts going crazy with "this and that" over him, get out the paper and look at the list. Stay focused on the list and keep doing the exercise. Let me know how it's working after one week, then if you like, I'll give you stepping stone number two.

Scorpio

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

@ List It, scorpio

Ok I will try my best and do whatever you said :(

Thanks.

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

Wow !! why am I not at all surprised to see my likes & dislikes list about him??? So far I found out that I just love only 10 things about him and my dislike(37 things ) list is much longer than that and its increasing. Wow!!!

Keep Going
by: Anonymous

Hi Cancer Sun. Congrats on starting the process! Keep the list going as it might take a few days until you feel that you've written down just about everything, but that's okay. You might even need to carry it around with you so when you think of something you can write it down, but that's how it works!

Scorpio

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

( 45 things )Dislikes.....

Wow
by: Anonymous

Wow - great work!

Scorpio

virgos sure do try and bug you after.
by: Anonymous

I like coming back to this whole thread my virgo man has been texting me again lately. I don't want him back but i do answer. I am trying to be friends i guess. but when we talk it seems like hes just wanting to vent about problems in his life so it helps remind me of what a downer he really was and i am so happy to be single. I hope you get stronger from your list. I did a list when we first broke up in december and it has helped me move on.

Oh Yeah
by: Anonymous

LOL!! My ol' Virgo does the same thing. It's one whine after the next - and when I try to show him how to fix it, he just won't do it. Good thing they are just texts!

Lol yes
by: Anonymous

Lol yes i just come to the conclusion he wants to
Stay miserable and i cant help him. Im much to positive for
Him. Its like the smallest things can drive him crazy.
Im glad its not my problem anymore sure i miss going to
The beach and a few lil things but the negative outweighs the
Positive. Life goes on :)

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

LOL..50(DISLIKES).I FEEL MUCH HAPPIER TODAY.


THANKS SCORPIO YOU'VE HELPED ME LOT. THOUGH I DON'T KNOW YOU PERSONALLY BUT STILL I'LL PRAY FOR YOUR WELL BEING. MAY GOD BLESS YOU GIRLY. :)

Happy Too
by: Anonymous

Great to hear Cancer Sun! I'm happy to hear you are doing great. Just keep moving through it and you will come out all done and ready for new and exciting adventures. Thank you for the prayers and I pray that we all have happiness and joy in our lives always.
Scorpio

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

@ Scorpio - :)


Lol!!Its so true. My Virgo man did the same thing, he loved to stay miserable,whenever I tried to help him with positivity he really didn't seemed or tried to be positive or took my words seriously.It all fell in to deaf ears I guess . He is like that (Negative) and will be like that always. I am happy that he is not my headache anymore. O boy did I mentioned how critical he really was/is ??? I am a very positive person but while being with him was such a negative experience for me. Gosh I felt so depressed and gloomy when I was with him. Now I feel free again. Ohhh God what a relief.

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

I came to know that I was just his REBOUND girl.One of our common frnd told me my VIRGO ex is not over his ex and he is back with her( ex ) again. She(frnd) saw them in a Cafe. My God what kind of human being he is.How could he do this to me? He just used me as an option and I thought he loved me...wow!!! Its so hurting man. I think I'm not more than an object to him.I am such a fool.

Not a Fool
by: Anonymous

Cancer Sun - when a person "uses" you and then walks away, it is a reminder how badly human beings can behave and how more aware you will be and probably are right now about that fact. Life is really a journey and we are always learning. I seem to learn something new about people every day. You're not a fool - you are a person who feels deeply. He's the fool. And I feel sorry for his "ex"! Be very grateful that he is not in your world anymore. OK Cancer Sun - here's Step Two: Grab that piece of paper you wrote all the negative things on. Grab a new piece of paper and draw a line from top to bottom. On the left side write as the subject line "Don't Want Anymore" and list the negative things. On the right side goes the title "What I Want In My Relationships From Now On", then list the trait that you WANT in your partner that is the exact opposite of your ex line by line. So for instance, if the negative trait is "he's cheap" on the left side. On the right hand side exactly opposite on the same line you could write "he's a generous man". Another one on the left could be "he lies". On the right side, you write "he is honest and has high integrity". Another on the left might be "the sex wasn't that great". On the right you put "we have awesome sex together". Keep it going as this will help you really focus on what you WANT and let go of what you don't.
Scorpio

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

Yah Scorpio I am a very deep person I can't even think of hurting people like my ex did to me. I become so naive when in love and that is my biggest weakness I know.Yep its the biggest lesson of my life and I've learnt not to trust people blindly.

Thanks a lot for your help and support I really appreciate Scorpio. The previous list has helped me a lot and I am ready to make the next list as you have described. Thank you n love you.


will give you update. Tc

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

What I saw from my list is actually I didn't liked anything about my virgo except his talking.O my God he was so fulllll of talk time but no Actions on his part. Only empty promises.How didn't I noticed that how fat and ugly he was ??? I was blinded by his charm. WOW

I am deeply hurt too
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

you'll never know what you have until its gone......


Today he textd me and asked me How am I doing?

wow so kind of him ..

I just gave a short and sweet ans that "I am doing great". (with a smiley :) attached to it)

{[(and said in my mind that-I am doing great without you,I don't need you anymore jack ass and smiled)]}

I just can't believe myself that I am finally over him and his dark world.

Over Him
by: Anonymous

Hi Cancer Sun. It's good to hear that you were able to text with him and feel good about everything YOU are up to! Virgo men come in and out a lot, so it's important to stay on track with where you are going. The thing about our hearts is they get broken. When we love, we become vulnerable and open to possibilities, so we have to choose wisely when we offer up our hearts. When you are ready, the second list is really important because that's when you get to really think about the man you DO want in your life. The person who matches up with you. When you are feeling inside yourself what you want in a man, interesting people show up in your life. For those men coming up next for you, you will be able to really consider if and why you will or won't want to spend time with them. You'll wait a little longer before you fall in love - and that's not a bad thing.
Scorpio

I am moving on
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

Hi scorpio thanks. You've helped me a lot.

Yes I know virgo men have bad habit of coming in and out. I will keep my eyes open for that and will stay on right track . Actually I don't need that Robotic sh!thole anymore to ruin my beautiful life.Yeah I need some more alone time and then I will think about dating again. I want to keep it slow. I want to fall in love again and I know it will happen, till then I just want to give time to myself and my needs. And when the right man will come I will surely know because now I know my priorities very well.I still have my list.... :D


GOD BLESS YOU ALL , TAKE CARE

Take Care
by: Anonymous

God Bless You Cancer Sun! May you find the love and happiness you deserve

Scorpio

I am moving on
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

Today I've changed all my ph- nos so that my virgo ex can never ever contact me again. I've cut every connection with him. I am just crying right now coz its feeling like that the real break up just happened today. I just can't help it and hold on my emotions let it be all out ,all out.

O god its so much painful but I know its for my own good.I did it because I can't keep waiting for my ex who has just kept me hanging around him for nothing .

Its over. I have accepted it.



I've moved on
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

Wow feeling great these days. I'm HAPPY again. I've regained my self-esteem and organized my messed up emotions. I'm going busy with my life these days(studies,family,friends and new music class). I've gained weight and I'm back to my original normal shape.I've started loving myself again. Glad that I'm over my past. I'm dreaming again and waiting for "my man who will love me for the rest of my life"wtith out hurting me and with full devotion and dedication.......I'm just HAPPY....:)

Feeling Good!
by: Anonymous

Hi Cancer Sun. It's so great to hear you are back to loving yourself! Sounds like you are on the road to where you want to be and aren't stopping until you get there!!:)
Scorpio

Thanks Scorpio
by: CancerSun/AriesMoon

Oh I am so much feeling relieved. When I think all about my past now I can clearly feel that my Virgo didn't have had protective instinct for me. They are just piece of shit womanish cowards without spine and balls. O my my They can be so deceitful and fake just to get what they want and when their need is fullfilled they just drop you like damaged goods. They never stop searching for their perfect women (which really doesnot exist in this whole world) but still they think they will find that woman some day(morons). I am happy that he is not my headache any more. He is the type of guy who can never be happy with any woman in this world,and he can't make any woman happy and satisfied either.I'm just praying for his new victim. THANKS SCORPIO LUV U.

beware from the word virgo
by: Anonymous

Yes virgo men are toxic, venomous. They suck all good from you, inhale all good and exhale all poisonious things for their partners/love mates. They are selfish, cruel , unkind, shameless, pretentious in front of public and are image concious all the time, double faced,runs from commitment, liars, deceitful,fake, plays the victim,manipulative, obsessed about their exes, have major trust issues, have OCD, sexually frigid, emotionally rigid and retarded, narrow minded, have very high standards for themselves, are mammas boy,disappear all the time and comes back after years when you are all setteled and already have a family, are sex addict but lacks sexual skills, cold, devoid of affection and emotions, lacks sensitivity for others, self absorbed, narcissists, spine less , cowards, escapiests .....I HATE THEM.

REALITY ABOUT ALL VIRGOS
by: Anonymous

Virgo - The Censor
When Virgo falls in love it is purely for sex. The lover must be able to satisfy Virgo's considerable sexual needs. Each new image arouses sexual desire, but so long as you can remain sexually attractive to Virgo, you will retain his love. The slower you are in yielding your gifts, the longer you can keep the affair alive. Nothing is more unattractive to him than easy surrender, which stamps you as cheap and worthless. Virgo can be either chaste or promiscuous, one extreme or the other. There are many spinsters, one-man women, and confirmed bachelors in this sign, but there are also the chasers who frequent bars or pickup joints in the search of a one-night stand. This type can be quite degenerate in his sexual appetites. Despite this, Virgo ranks lowest on the scale of sexual prowess. He is not romantic except as the chase itself is romantic. Sex is something to be done as quickly and efficiently as possible. When Virgo says he loves you and behaves in a jealous manner, do not be flattered. This usually simply means that you are serving some useful role for them and are considered a piece of their property. Anyone who tries to lure you away is depriving Virgo of a useful tool - no more. For both male and female Virgos, true love is not involved; they are never tender or sympathetic unless there is something they cannot get without showing affection.

cold blooded
by: Anonymous

I have been chased around by a virgo man for ages, when he finally got me he was sweet, attentive and loving. But I have to say it does not take long for thier true colours to shine through.

Its all about them, you can text he will not text back, he will cancel nights out be cold detached and not even kiss during love making.

If you can be bothered the only thing that will piss him off is if you ignore him, don't text don't call. I have met a leo during the madness who is romantic, does text back and calls.

I am going to blow virgo out because thats just the way the are. This is the only sign I have met who is so self centered that the world revolves around him. If you get with him you will only be an extension of him. Get out while you can.

eXACTLY
by: Anonymous

I can bet that no other zodiac sign is as Evil as Virgo. I've also noticed that thing with my virgo ex- he didn't kissed while having sex. No smooching or other physical display of affection during sex. Only hard core f***** (which was really humiliating and disgusting).After sex he used to roll back and go to sleep. I felt like a prostitute (paid and used). I have never met such a weird animal known as VIRGO male in my entire life I swear on God.

thanks everyone
by: Anonymous

thanks for sharing your comment i used to tell my virgo that he didnt know how to make love he just knew how to do it. and at first we kissed but dated a year and didnt after a few months and i was thinking hmm maybe he doesnt like the way that i kiss? I am still trying to get him out of my system. because i have been trying to be friends. but it has now been a week with no communication. and the more i read peoples comments i realize its for the best to keep moving. thanks to everyone for thier honesty and sharing thier experience. I text him last week that he was one of the most selfish people that i ever met and he has stayed away from me because of that,so i am doing the same.

Virgo men are D.bags
by: Anonymous

VIRGO
If you're looking for a man that no other woman will ever want to steal, you've finally found him.

Ever wondered what goes on in the mind of a serial killer? Find out what Interpol has been trying to discover for
years and date a Virgo . If you are currently in love with a Virgo and you don't want to believe the truth,
pick up any detective novel that features an ice-pick-wielding nutter and then try telling us he doesn't remind
you of someone you know and it's all just a bunch of coincidences. If he looks vaguely familiar, that's because
he is. You probably saw an artist's sketchy impression on Crimewatch the night before and faintly remember words
like 'bludgeoned', 'manhunt' and 'Virgo'.




THE VIRGO

(AUG 24-SEPT 23)

WITH the psyche of a serial killer, Virgo is to be avoided at all
costs.

Scarred by an unhappy childhood (caused by his own weirdness) he's a
loner, a perfectionist and a nit-picker. His obsession with your
hygiene boarders on the pathological.

If this wasn't bad enough, he's so tight he'd steal the coins from a
blind beggar's hat.

How to spot one

LOOK look for the cool, calm, collected one staring disconcertingly at
you from across the room.

How to attract one

MENTION your inheritance while seductively running your finger on the
bar, commenting on the disgraceful amount of dust.

The first date

THE cheapest place possible.

When to bed him

DON'T. The Virgo is to sex what mad cow disease is to beef burger.

When to pop the question

WHAT question? "How come I'm paying for dinner again?"

If he dumps you

HE'LL never get round to it. If he does it's probably because you
haven't cleaned the bathroom properly.

If you dump him

JUST when you think you are rid of him he'll appear but don't think
he'd hiding flowers behind his back ... think ice pick.

Distant then disappeared
by: Anonymous

I'm a Cancer who was dating a Virgo for 6 weeks at the start he was always the one who wanted to see me, making me future plans about all the things we should do together, even when he had to go away on work for 2 weeks, he wanted to see me before he left and keep contact with me every day whilst he was away. Wanted me to get a passport sorted he said incase he wanted to whisk me away.

I would say thing were going great but there were loads of red flags I seen how he'd always say 'agree with me' after he said something I never knew if I was supposed to agree or have my opinion, yet when I didn't agree he acted like a child but 5 seconds later got over it. How he'd tell me to **** off then say he was sorry and he didn't mean it, how he liked blaming everything on me and much more. But he sort of creeped in, he acted very slowly and I never felt rushed with anything which is what eventually drawn me in.

The last night I spent with him everything felt how it usually was he kissed me goodbye and he was then to go away on work for a few days followed by going back to his home town for a week.

During the time he was away on work we text a bit and things seemed fine apart from when I text him saying I wish they were real kisses he questioned me asking if thof the week and he said he was away on work and askedat text was meant for him which was sort of insulting as I'd already told him I really liked him and didn't want to date other people. Then he went back home, he said we would have to arrange meeting again when he come home well he come home acting distant told me he had been busy with work, asked how I was. I could tell he was off so I just said I was glad he was okay and all was well and decided to leave him for a week, I tried to text him again at the end how I was again. I tried asking if he was free one night the current week to see me.

I waited 4 days for a response then told him it wasn't working for me and I didn't think it was for him either, that I thought things were going okay, but since he'd been back I didn't feel that way, I told him to correct me if I was wrong, but if not then I had some fun times whilst it lasted and to take care. He couldn't even dignify me with a 'I agree, take care of yourself' reply. I could write a book on how much I have physco analysed every moment in my head, I've broken everything down, come to every conclusion but I still have un answered questions. Things that don't add up.

What is wrong with these men, why can't they just give you closure how hard is it to send a text agreeing and wishing me well too, I don't know how you could mean so little to someone. The thing I don't get is Virgo men are so critical of others, so why would it be so hard for him to say to me, they don't care about hurting others feelings with there criticism.

Aries Girl-Virgo Soulmate
by: Anonymous

Ladies, I have to say I feel your all's pain when it comes to dealing with the Virgo man. I met my Virgo in high school and it was a whirlwind romance. We lost our virginity to each other and he was the greatest boyfriend I have ever had, even to this day...and I am 26 now. I ended up breaking my Virgo's heart my senior year of high school because he was younger than me and I just couldn't deal with the long distance romance for 2 more years. Well, a couple years later we both landed in the same city for while attending the same college and re-connected. I have now spent the better part of 8 years trying to mend what I did by breaking up with him all those years ago. We will "date" for months and months and he refuses to commit. He will tell me he loves me but then not text me for days on end. He continues to say he knows we will end up married one day, but will not say he is my "boyfriend." I have been in an endless cycle with him for all these years where we will "date" for months and then I will get tired of his commitment issues and break it off with him. I have dated many other guys over these last 10 years, but I always end up back with Virgo and the cycle repeats. I am an Aries so I am very impulsive and want things right now! It's very hard for me to wait around and hope he comes around. I guess the reason I do is because I know how great he is when he is fully committed. I know that he would be the best husband, father, friend I could ever have, so I just have to stick around. Once a Virgo fully commits, he will be the most amazing lover you have ever known. I guess my advice to you ladies is to stay patient, and if you love your Virgo man as much as I love mine, then trust me, it is worth the wait. If you are unsure about your feelings or don't know for sure that he is the one, then get out! He will never come around to you if you aren't in it 100%. It seems unfair, but that's just how it is. Be prepared to be highly criticized and constantly under a microscope. Love yourself and be the best "you" you can be. Virgo's like confidence and strength so keep the faith and he should come around eventually. Good luck girls!

Emotional Relationship
by: Anonymous

I am an Aquarius. I started a relationship with a Virgo man that I work with. He lives in another state but came into town for business for a week. We started texting each other a lot and it got to the point where we wee talking about personal things, even what we would do if we saw each other again.

The problem is we are both married. my husband and i are having issues and so is him and his wife. He indicated early on that he adored me, even dedicated songs to me but that we could only be friends and that we needed to put our relationships with our family in perspective. Timing and our not living close was an issue. Plus, would we really leave our families for each other. He has a daughter with his wife.he got her pregnant by accident 14 years ago, but only married her 6 years ago.

We decided to be friends, but I was the one who initiated things and he reciprocated. I was already head over heels in a crush. We kept texting and the texts got more heated. His wife saw one of our conversations and he told me we needed to stop. I did, but then he started calling me at work instead. Multiple times and we would talk for an hour each time.

All of a sudden one day he starts ignoring me. I kept trying to call and talk and finally he told me off and said he's over this emotional relationship. We fought all day, over text! He was always flirtatious but claimed I was taking his friendly nature the wrong way. We still work together but he told me we can only email, no talking on the phone. He made me feel like it was my fault and I was making up what we had in my head. I still adore this man and am trying to get over it. But I don't like to be rejected... It makes me crazy. So I kept texting him, and finally he told me to leave him alone and to move on... Any chance he will change his mind??

Wasted 5 months on Virgo Man
by: LeoGirl

I was online dating a Virgo man for 5 months.. Since he lived in another country, we kept in touch everyday till I finally can get to visit him. At first he was charming, sweet, funny, told me he loved me the first week of talking. He also stated I was his soulmate.. Bullshit!! His previous ex-girlfriends cheated on him, broke his heart.. All the sob stories.. That in time I fell for! His mom passes away just like my mom, so I felt we had a connection.. Anyways when time went by I realized he would act rude and nasty when he drank.. Call me up and called me horrible names, then apologize the next day. He would go out and never answer my call till the next day, tell me he was asleep.. Always asleep !! Then I finally went to visit him, and he had somebody else.. Found her two days before I flew in to see him. He used me the night I saw him then tells me afterwards that he has "Morales" and I need it to leave .. He threw me out and went on with the new girl!! Emailed me telling me he disposed all my contacts.. And wanted nothing to do with me!! All I did was love him, and wanted to be with him.. What the heck happened to being his Soulmate!! Virgo men really are confusing!!

virgo man left me(virgo female)pregnant
by: Anonymous

So I've been going thru hell with my virgo... our relationship began in chaos but I didn't know it before I cought feelings.. he was married and had a 6 yr old and his wife at the time was preg and he said it wasn't his... their marriage was for 5 yrs and the married bc he got her preg in the first couple months of knowing her.. long story short they were never in love and the just never got divorced and they cheated on each other the whole which led him to believe the baby wasn't his.. well it was his baby and we met while she was 5months preg and we fell in love before he told me about his past. I stayed bc we believed we were soulmates. Well he got me preg before they divorced and I couldn't abort and he started to distance himself until now we just don't speak. I'm due to have our baby any day now and he won't answer calls or texts... will he come around? He said we had the closest union ever and I feel the same. It sucks

I feel you but here's my story (btw not all virgos are horrible, just the majority. There are still good, kind and passionate virgos out there worth loving)
by: Anonymous

I totally understand how you feel. I started school last year and I caught this virgo guy staring at me( I knew he was a virgo 2 weeks later when he added me on Facebook. At that time, I was dating someone else and so I kept my distance because the guy I was seeing used to get so jealous if I talked to any guy. So around 4 months later, me and that douchebag; I am a Gemini and he's a Pisces (another bad match, I knew but I still tried),we broke up. So I was free to make friends. I contacted the Virgo guy on FB and we started chatting on the web as well as on the phone. He was so friendly and truly I thought we had a wonderful friendship going on. I didn't like him any more than a friend. Since we were schoolmates, I used to meet him for lunch and after school. We talked about everything,family friends, existing problems etc .He introduced me to all his friends. I felt like I belonged, like I had someone for me. He said he never kissed anyone, and started to pester me to kiss him. A kiss is nothing too sexual so we kissed. And then as time when by he wanted more, he wanted to see my boobs and I was very reluctant to do so because I felt it was really wrong. After I refused repeatedly he backed off and he continued to try to kiss me; he'll just force himself on me and kiss me anyway. Also, he used to make all those remarks about going into a handicap washroom and having sex. Like I was someone for him to experiment on and to do things he couldnt do to anyone else. But deep down I did like him, but I didnt show it. As the saying goes, that Gemini are flirtatious and daring and they talk alot of dirty talk, its true but this time I was really shy I kept it to myself that I sort of liked him more than a friend. After a while, things started to change because he was posted to do an attachment at the hospital (he is studying to be a nurse), he told me he was too busy and to let him be. But finally I got to it, and I told him I had feelings for him. He said he didn't see me in that way. I was like, hmmm okay nevermind. But I had some notions that he sort of had feelings for me if not I would have never told him. I don't know if its because he was pretending to not like me or if its genuinely true he is not interested in me. Still I was happy to be just friends with him. Boyfriend to me is just another word anyway so I wasn't too hung up on the fact I was rejected.

continued
by: Anonymous

Alas, from that day, around the end of June 2012 till today he has been avoiding me, I have texted him so many times, fb msged him, whatsapp, I called him and he called me back after a few hours and said he is too busy. I got mad and I told him to get lost. I was sitting around the house moping around and I couldnt even go to school because I knew he wouldnt be there and I totally missed him. And today, 13 Aug 2012, I saw him at school, I was going down the escalator, he was coming up and when he saw him he just hung his head down and ignored me. I was really heartbroken. I broke down. I am never one to cry easily or in public unless I am really broken up inside. Like the time my douchebag ex bf slapped and dragged me around the mall because I went out with my childhood best friend whom i dated for about 2 years. That was one of my worst moments when I cried my heart out in the washroom cubicle and I hated him from the moment that I never patched back with him even when he tried to. I just wish he would just give me an explanation for acting like this. I can't deal with it. It really hurts. I wish I never opened up to him because it feels like I was being used all those times, as if I never meant anything to him. I guess this is the only place where I can finally say how I've been feeling and thinking. I seriously hate myself for acting this way.

Guardian Angels
by: Anonymous

Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. The reason your Virgo man shut you out is because your Guardian Angels were looking out for you. You have been spared deeper heartache and catastrophy. Count your blessings girl.

Virgo truth
by: Anonymous

Hey gurls the whole web world is full of virgo shit and their pattern of emotional abuse. Just read each and every virgo website and u'll know their real truth. Nothing is hidden anymore.Virgos are getting busted big time.

My one true Virgo love
by: Anonymous

We dated six months last year before he and the ex wife finally got divorced, and I became an emotional explosive person he could not deal. He did cry a lot when he told me in person that he had to leave me since he was not happy and could not deal with my jealous problem. He himself is Virgo, but he did apologize for hurting me several times and had said/hoped the best for me. We always have been staying in touch since he dumped me until he said how much he missed having sex with me. So we did, that was when I got my high hope for us to get back together, but no luck. After that, he started being distant that caused me a lot of pain all over again. I kept on and on texting him over and over, blowing up his phone all the time, being so emotional including a lot of anger and pain. He put up with all of them and still texts me, never cut me off for good. That's not bad about him as the Virgo man. I really hope I will win him back one day when I know how to control my emotions. Wish me a good luck. He told me he still cares for me.

@My one true Virgo love
by: Anonymous

Its not your problem sweety. Being emotional is not a crime.Its a part of Human nature and virgos are completely devoid of it. They are emotionally blocked folks.They are ruled by their heads not by their hearts.Their ruling Planet is Mercury. So they are masters of deceit and lie. People ruled by mercury can appear charming and to good to be true but mercury has no depth when comes to emotions. They can tell things with out meaning them and just to please you to get their way.Be careful your virgo is just using you.

"He said how much he missed having sex with you"-that means he only missed your body? but what about missing you as a person? He just used you as a sex buddy. Nothing more. Move on for your own good.

Polo bear Cold
by: Ronel

Virgo men disgust me. The way they think they are better than everybody else. Untouchable creatures. All they want is to use you and sex, sex, sex!!!! After they conquered you, they dump you for the next person wearing panties.

virgo men are the worst
by: lotuslilly

I've read all these comments on Virgo men and what these women say about Vmen are really true.
They are narcisstic selfish mean cruel and cold emotionally devoid of any warm feelings can hardly fuck or kiss and wrapped up in their own world till they suck u dry... and not even where it counts!!

i was with a VM for 1 1/2 years and gave him every benefit of the doubt to the last minute and nth degree for him to come up shining to prove himself that he wasnt a douchebag like I thought he was.
His best trait is a selfless kindness and consideration to others and really want to serve and help others. But this comes to him naturally as a Virgo to please.... .However.... he expects reciprocation for what comes naturally to him and demands it from others in the same way. If this is not a natural trait to you but other forms of affection is like kissing and cuddling talking spending quality time with a significant other , He will not accept it as expects you to reciprocate as he does. THerefore what u do in the relationship will count as nothing.
He came on fast and serious in the beginnign you will think "wow" finally a man who is serious and wont srew your heart over but be warned
then the push /pull, cold/ hot games will begin...
U know like the song.... well he epitomizes the katy perry song....
when you try to reach out and communicate he will refuse to talk or as he says "kill the talk" so u are lefft with little option but to follow him around with no opinion except the one he has. Then he will begin to poison the relationship when he sees that you are being rebellious i.e not conforming to what he wants or expects in a woman... mainly a spineless mute woman...
that has been my experience with a Virgo man. Grant it he was hot, intelligent and very rugged and handsome looking...that kept me hooked but UGH ...everthing else was a real pain....
The last straw was the alcohol and weed. All the verbal abuse that came with that...cause like he needs these props to block out emotions or pain.
And he totally ignored me for my birthday 2 weeks ago...september 2012. not even a call text visit ... he was out with his buddies drinking.
i told him its over and get out of my life.
maybe that was the best bday present he could've given me
......
I could write a book. But not me again.
Libralass

A seemingly different Virgo Man
by: Anonymous

Virgos love intensely but when it isn't there, it never will be. Commiting to someone by trusting our emotions is the main problem. Virgos are not emotional beings; we think, we don't feel. We are careful in love relationships, but I wasn't when I met a virgo man. He was so kind, charming, goal-oriented, positive, smiled all the time, was popular, great body, cute puppy eyes, simply likable. He gave me my first REAL kiss. It was a deeply passionate intimate moment we shared. He even got sexually aroused. Days later we became girlfriend and boyfriend- I fell in love so quick and so hard. Then when he invited me over his apartment,I didn't show up and he disappeared without warning. He never confronted me, just stopped texting and calling me. When I first saw him again, I ran away. Then he started ignoring and running away from me. I deleted his number and sort of regret it.

As a virgo, I am a bit cold natured and unemotional. My libra man dumped me because of it. He was too needy and emotional for me anyway. I do not usually fall in love at all, but I did for virgo man and he has made me emotional. I'm so angry & depressed. All I want now is closure and he can't even give me that. Do you think he will come back? Many of them reappear after disappearing.

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