Virgo relationships

Partners of different zodiac signs bring out slightly different facets of the Virgo personality. Some elements however are fairly common to all Virgo relationships.

Common features of Virgo relationships

Virgos value perfection in themselves and at times can be very self critical, so having a partner love them unconditionally brings about a healthy and well rounded Virgo. Treat your Virgo gently and tread softly if/when problems arise and your loving bond will strengthen instead of weakening as a result.

Starting Virgo relationships

Virgos are often slow to start a relationships. Conservative by nature and cautious with themselves and their hearts, they benefit from a more flirtatious and aggressive partner to start things off. With that said, they appreciate a direct and tactful lover, prizing honesty and openness over outwardly outlandish flirting styles.

Day to day Virgo relationships

Virgos are known for being intellectual in the sexiest of terms. It is said that the mind is the sexiest organ in the body and this is most evident when dealing with the seriously brainy Virgo. All this sharp intelligence make them keen conversationalists and they enjoy a partner that can hold their own on subjects of interest.

This keen intelligence also makes them wonderful partners, as their opinions are well crafted and showing appreciation for your Virgo's views will score you points. Also because of this logical and analytical intelligence they usually value the qualities which they themselves do not possess. When their partner has such qualities it makes said partner irresistible to a Virgo. For example, if your Virgo is a very hardworking and shy type, a more outgoing confident partner that is flirtatious while still being smart enough to banter would likely spike their interest and keep things interesting versus two such shy and hardworking types.

Virgo relationships in the long term

Just because Virgos may seem conservative, this doesn't mean they are so in intimate relationships. They know their mind and their emotions run deep beneath the surface. Virgo's sexiness isn't an 'in your face' style, but more about action versus words. Virgos are 'earthier' than most other signs and as such value stability and loyalty from their lover. As pertains to romantic intimacy this means they are more of a 'quality vs. quantity' lover and prefer committed relationships over one night stands. They may not verbalize their adoration as much as other signs, but they will still show the strength of their love via many daily actions and gestures.

Virgos especially appreciate a mature partner that they can trust to not go off the deep end over every minor crisis. This enables them to focus on the important things and the teamwork element of the partnership will flow strongly. They prefer substance over drama. Discretion is important to Virgos. They tend towards modesty and so they will need to be lavished with praise and love and under such treatment, their bond and love blossoms for their partner.

Virgo relationships with each of the other signs

As mentioned earlier different zodiac signs bring out slightly different facets of the Virgo personality. As these are fairly detailed I have a separate page for each combination:

Virgo and Aries
Virgo and Taurus
Virgo and Gemini
Virgo and Cancer
Virgo and Leo
Virgo and Virgo
Virgo and Libra
Virgo and Scorpio
Virgo and Sagittarius
Virgo and Capricorn
Virgo and Aquarius
Virgo and Pisces

For a comparison of average compatibility scores of each Virgo match please see the Virgo compatibility table.

Virgo men and women also tend to handle relationships differently. My Virgo man and Virgo woman have details for each.

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