Advice for Scorpios dating Pisces
I'm a SCORPIO woman and I've been dating a PISCES man for a little over 5 months, but we've known each other for a little over 9 months. We first met at a lounge and while he was having a drink alone after work, I was dancing with my two other girlfriends. He eventually approached me somehow?, we talked and he got my number. We're both very attractive and get a lot of attention from the opposite sex, especially me because the female if typically the prey. I did not take him seriously initially because I wasn't really looking and just saw it as a good time like whatever. That's the funny part! We went out on two dates a week apart after meeting and we was charming, romantic, polite and all that good, mushy stuff. He took me around his closest friends on the second date and we also had sex on the second date. It was great! After that I figured nothing much would come out of it because although I carried myself, as I am- a lady, the entire time, I also felt a typical guy will not take a woman he had sex with on the second date after meeting her too seriously-so I felt like we'd remain cool, as he had mentioned. After that he called me 2 days later and from then over 3 months the majority of our relationship was via text and we would talk on the phone here and there. I thought this was extremely weird and random, as I've never experienced it, but I went with it anyway, while feeling strangely into him. He said he was single, but based upon actions, I felt he was in the middle of something or a break up or some strange relationship scenario because he was keeping me around making daily contact, but keeping me distant by barely talking on the phone and standing me up a couple times and then giving excuses-which never happens tome. He's great at playing the victim! After the 3 months I felt myself more drawn, but my patience ran thin so just as I was going to break it off because I can be an all or nothing type person if I feel, he invited me to a vacation with some co-workers and friends of his and he paid for everything. However, an older woman called me prior to the trip and left me a threatening VM that she was his girlfriend and I'd better leave him alone...WOWWWWWWWWWWWW I was like this is some crazy shit...he denied it all of course and I was like, well this guy is random and already in something, but shoot, I just won't take him seriously and at least go on a free trip HAHAHAHAHA We hung out a couple weeks before the trip and had a great time and then went for 5 days and had a great time. We got into a relationship a week after the trip, as I decided to take a dive and give him the benefit of the doubt like a sprung female, lol! What really prompted my decision was that I felt it was not going to last long anyway and prior to him, I had been dating all the "right" guys, you know-successful, rich, responsible, dependable, parents would love them-but I felt no passion and I was tired of that-safe guys with no emotional intensity or passion and me eventually breaking it off with them and hurting feelings, so I said well at least I feel something with thins guy. When we first entered the relationship, we experienced dramas-that same girl called me again and my old college roommate told me he tried to hit on her at the club. Those were the 2major events, but the other minor dramas were just a passionate scorp and laidback pisces adjusting and feeling each other out. This all happened when we first got together< oh I got him back, but I won't go into that. lol< So now we're even in my eyes< It's funny, he pursued me then for three months it seemed I was passively pursuing him, then he made me insecure then I made him insecure and after all these games, emotional rollercoaster's, dramas and what not, the results are beautiful thus far. I now have what all Scorpio women need, CONTROL...I tell him all the time he can leave and let's be friends and whenever I'm upset he does anything to appease me and win me back. I went from having a random man that I wasn't sure if he was so into me, to having a PISCES man who calls ME daily, leaves messages, takes me out weekly and gladly pays ALWAYS even if he's broke, introduces me to any and everyone as his lady, never does things to spark my jealousy-protective, openly affectionate all the time, gentleman and considerate of my feelings all the time, wants to meet everyone I know and simply can't get enough of me. I'm a bit cocky with it now; sometimes I almost dare him to break up with me because I'm that confident that we both need each other now. It's great not, but it had better be after all the shyt it has taken us in this short time lol! ALTHOUGH I was the one to tell him I wanted to be in a relationship and he was like OK, he has been the one bringing up on several occasions moving in together, taking care of me, kids and marriage. I'm not sure if he truly means it, but at least he is thinking along those lines lol. These are the following bullets that will get the SCORPIO woman very far with the PISCES man from my experience:
*DO YOUR HOMEWORK-reading up on astrology helps
*COMMUNICATE-the more you do the more they will
*NEVER ACCUSE-Pisces men look guilty even when they're not-it's almost funny-also no interrogations
DON'T SMOTHER-it's in our nature to be suspicious, jealous when in love, but the more space and freedom you give them, the more they will want to come to you and wonder what you're doing-I've learned with him you can control a Pisces but you can't seem like you are, instead you must be happy, confident, do your own thing & let him yearn 4 u
CONFIDENCE-walk that walk; talk that talk lol this is sexy to any man-when he makes u mad, act as if u don't care and if he loves u he will fight 4 u-he wants to look up to u as his goddess not a desperate woman
STAY HOT-there's nothing like a beautiful woman to daydream of
DANTINESS-PISCES men love to help and feel needed, but not overwhelmed, so let him take charge at times and let him be the man and feel appreciative toward his efforts
*SEXUAL EXPORATION-you be the one to fulfill their fantasies or they may stray
MYSTERY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -even though talking is important, make his mind wonder here & there
*LIKEABLE- they love it when they can bring you around anyone anywhere and your liked-makes life easier
LADY- they love lady in street freak in the bed they never want to worry about u being a scandalous hoe if they're in a committed relationship with you
SPONTANEOUS & ROMANCE- A MUST!
HONESTY-over time they will let their guard down and welcome you into their world once deemed worthy
INDEPENDANCE-there is nothing more sexy to the PISCES man like a woman who has goals, is making that dinero, busy, school, hobbies/interests has a life besides him and can stand on her own 2 feet
NEED/DESIRE-reassurance without spoiling is great-it's like the push pull effect-remember they are driven by being stirred emotionally
I know this sound like a lot, but this is what I feel from reading and experience...
Men want what they can't have, even in a relationship, so in one sense you need to make them feel secure, but from time to time stir them emotionally to keep the man's natural need to chase alive without playing too many games
*BOTTOM LINE= PISCES MEN NEED A SCORPIO WOMAN WHO IS BEAUTIFUL, CHARMING,NON-PUSHOVER, MYSTERIOUS, INDEPENDANT, GOAL ORIENTED AND RESPONSIBLE, FUN,ROMANTIC, SPONTANEOUS, LADY, EXCITING AND A HUGE FREAK IN BED AND YOU WILL HAVEHIM FOREVER...the real question is, will we want them forever because we love money and power???