Advice to Libra women dating Aries men
I am a libra girl and WOW all of these posts have seriously comforted me a lot so thank you. I now no longer feel that this is something I'm going through alone.
I'm kind of seeing a Aries male and at this very moment in time i am going through the horrible, heart aching phase where he has told me that things have started to become too heavy for him and so far not been in contact with him for 3days. I can't help myself, I'm going round in circles with this situation, its
frustrating, heart breaking and completely getting me down. I should have learned my lesson not to come on too strong towards him especially after the last 4 or 5 times that i have done this. This is the pattern - we start texting, calling, meeting up, dating, having the most amazing, hot, crazy, close and passionate sex anyone could ever imagine, he chases me constantly, texts all day for days and then i get absolutely nothing - no text or contact
sometimes for days on end, even a week, so then i begin to get insecure and it eats me up inside. This is when i start to ask him questions and ask him to make more of an effort and the reply i get 'please lets leave it for a while, this is all becoming too heavy for me' GRRRRR!
I know we will see each other again and the cycle will start all over again but every time it begins i know im going to come out the other end in so much pain. Each time i tell myself it will be different and that i will back off, play it
cool and start playing hard to get but i still always get myself into trouble with him. When this has happened before i have left it for a while and either i end up contacting him and have to sincerely apologize for my behavior or he
will contact me (i like it better when he comes back to me though).
It's so difficult to get the balance right i.e. play hard to get but show him you want him at the same time arrgghh almost sounds impossible. With this arian male when it's bad it's so bad but when it's good it's absolutely amazing beyond belief. It's the amazing part that i don't want to let go of and i'm hoping one day that i'll be able to master the way of handling this man because i am determined to keep him.
My advice to all you libran girls dating an arian male would be to learn that when he is ignoring you - don't take it personally and try to keep yourself busy, do not bombard him with texts or calls. This is the only way to ensure you won't scare him away. I really need to start listening to my own advice here.