Aquarius man and Gemini woman

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Currently I'm In a relationship with an Aquarius boy... I'm the Gemini,lol obviously. It's a really a great one, we fuss but It's always nothing too big toforget about.

He gives me my space and I give him his... Just the random thingthat happens, I enjoy my life outside of the relationship because I have a lifeto maintain on the outside too.

He Is always there when I need him, he Issocially active when we are together. we'll just get up and go anywhere justfor the thrill of being outside. I love the fact that he Is so original andunpredictable my god..... It's always a big party with him!

I find myself wanting him around because he calms my nerves plus other reasons. He Is like mybest friend and my lover, we can tell each other anything and I love that. WhenI'm with him sex Is the last thing on my mind, Its just not Important when weare together, Its just there, we have way better stuff to do than sex.

Before my Aquarius I was with a Cancer man and after a while I couldn't stand him, he wastoo emotional and too pessimistic. Wow he used to drain me, then I ran from his ass, straight Into my current boyfriend lol... I think I better stop because If I don't I'll fill up this whole page :)

Gemini woman here, who was with an Aquarius man for many years.

In many, If not most ways, he and I were very good for each other. Never have Iconnected with someone on such an Intellectual level, yet he also understood myneed for space and let me keep my secrets.

The only problem Is that neither of us Is emotional, and we both value ourindependence.

During our entire relationship I felt like we were In our "comfort" zone, but wedidn't really grow as people. Did we share wild and crazy experiences? Yes. ButI don't think we ever compromised or gave up personal space to accommodate eachother.

In the end I felt we were compatible rather than passionate.

This Is probably enough for some people but not for me.

I am currently with my Aquarius man. We dated for 5 years and livedtogether for 4. We have been married for 15 years this October and neverregretted one minute.

I am a Gemini woman who's In love with my Aquarius man. I love beingwith him every minute of my life and when I am not, I constantly think of him.We been dating for 2.5 years but It feels like 5 years because we have such astrong connection. The only problem Is that he's 17 years older than and he wasmy aunt's supervisor. eek! But other than that, we always have sex when we seeeach other sometimes even 3x to 5x a night. Its just that good. When we brokeup, I hit Into a deep depression like I lost my best friend and soul mate.Luckily, we got back together. But seems like we guna hit rock bottom againwith another break up. He's a mess with lots of past Issues and I (being theGemini) always willing to compromise to make this relationship work out! becauseit's well worth It! so hopefully It does last.

I'm currently heavily smitten, even In love with my Aquarius mate. Icall him aquaman, we met back In fall and when I first saw him, I t was likeseeing the sun for the first time. I feel so good when Im near him, that's why Ialways wanna be close too him, his body language towards me screams powerfullyand I only ask for him to let us grow Into something. he's young though but he'swise beyond his years. I just hope Im what he's looking for and more.

Gemini woman here, who was with an Aquarius man for 4 1/2 years.

We are no longer together cause he always want to be In control of everything.we would broke up, we got back together over 3 times. But It seems like we gunahit rock bottom again with another breakup for good. He's a mess with lots ofpast Issues that he can not let go. He would blow like stuff out of contentwhich made the relationship stressful.

im a Gemini and proud!

every time I talk to my bf he always says that the first time he saw me heliked. Even though we fought we still loved each other. I love being near him!

I have been In an online relationship with an Aquarian male for thepast two years. But our relationship was "open" Yesterday I came clean about athreesome I had last year In November and the way he looked at me was soulbreaking. He says he can no longer trust me and can not build a future with awoman who has been with two men on the same night and that all plans are off. Iwanted to fulfill a fantasy and not hurt him. He loathes me right now, will heever forgive me and will he ever forget about that Indiscretion. I love thisman with everything that's good Inside me. I've hurt him so much and now heregards me with contempt. Will he ever regard me with the love and care he hasdone before - will he ever love me again and see a future with me or Is myindiscretion the end of our beautiful union?

Im a Gemini woman and I have a crush on a Aquarius boy. I just don'tknow what to. Its hard for me to show him that I like him and be the first oneto tell him that and he's the same. I know we are attracted to each other butnow I wanna be his girl and I don't know how to make this happen. What should Ido? Any advice?? Please help

I am a Gemini girl and I like an Aquarius guy... I would love to tellhim ... I think of him day and night and those thoughts help me love him evenmore

To the Gemini woman asking If the aqua man will forgive and forgetyour threesome and will you thrive together....NO, It will not happen. It mayhave been said that It was "open", but that mans nothing to the Aqua. You werebeing tested, likely, to see what would happen during "open season". Its over,sweetie. He may forgive you, but you will be nothing but an acquaintance now.


Im currently seeing Aquarius he confuses me when we were on our datethis waiter came to take our order and he asked him If that I was hisgirlfriend and then couple days later I don't hear from him till 3 dayslater...what's the deal he would call 7 days a week and then skip 2 days, andbeen two days I finally called him and he hung up on me? what's his deal

I think I should just tell him that Im done with his game, I have better things to do to Invest with my time than to waste It on a Immature guy that's too gutless to tell me he's no longer Interestedthan being passive wuss about It..

Im a Gemini and Im very driven don't have time for screw ups... that's badbusiness If he was a part of my company he would be fired long ago

I am a Gemini woman, with Aquarius man for a couple of years. When wemet everything was great, he called me all the time, visit me at work for hours,suggested we have a baby and get married, so I got pregnant right away and hada lot of emotional Issues during the pregnancy, and lost my job a nd car andinstead of being Independent like I was became really needy. During thepregnancy he pulled away a little and I was going to leave him. He cried andbegged me not to leave. So we stayed together and moved Into our own place andeverything was going great. Until... his friends starting coming around and Itcaused some problems. Around that time we moved Into his moms house to save forour own bigger place. Everything pretty much went down hill from there. Hestarted using coke and being a jerk and hanging out with his friends. Hedecided to break up with me but said for me to stay at his house for the amonth till I was able to move. So I left a week later and have not really gotten any type of emotion from him since. Emotions are hard for himwhen things are good so when they are bad It worse. I have nothing to go on. Iam wondering If he will come around and come back to me or If I should justmove on all together???

Married Gemini woman and Aquarian singleton ten years my junior. Heis Intelligent and Inspiring, encouraging and a beautiful person. When we arearound our mutual friends he says things that mean something to me, but othersdon't know about us. How can I trust this man? He has been In a relationshipwith another older woman who now has a three week old baby by him. He sayshe's on the way out of the relationship with her, but I know there must belingering feelings. He's already told me he has several female relationshipsbut that he doesn't sleep around. I can't know If he's being honest with theway he says he fell In love with me at first sight or not! Help!

Aquarius male. I have been with a Gemini for 2 1/2 years now and wehave been having some problems lately. I hate It when we fight but It Issometimes just how things work. she asked for some space about a week ago andwe have been taking a break since. she broke up with me tonight for a Cancer.kills me cuz I love her more than anything but there's nothing I can do. TO:Gemini woman. watch out some Aquarius men seem controlling but most of the timethey just say the things they say and do the things they do because they careabout you. be careful and don't take what he does the wrong way...

To the Gemini woman asking If the aqua man will forgive and forgetyour threesome and will you thrive together....My Suggestion 4 u >> You know whathe was kind of right that he cant trust you since you just had an onlinerelation with him. Put yourself In his shoes and It will all make sense. But atthe same time he will always have a soft corner for you even after yourthreesome relation which he might have never let you know. The reason Is thathe feels that you might take It as his weakness. So If he Is a real Aquarian,you just need to prove your worth. You need to show how sincerely you love him.An Aquarian will forgive you forget the Incident. But be sure you don't makesuch mistake again. He will leave you In fraction of a second. All the best.

An Aquarian guy!

OMG! He Is NUTS!!! LOL. He Is controlling, jealous, andterritorial. And the twin In me loves to hate him. He got the right onebecause I never back down from a good fight but the other part of me loves hisprotection, his Intelligence, his eyes, his smile, the way that he loves me andprovides for me. And when he tells me he loves me, I hear It for the firsttime, again. I'm crazy about him.

Im a Gemini woman dating an Aquarian man for over 6 years, he Is fiveyears elder than me and lately each time we have a fight he says that we areover and that he doesn't want to see me anymore, he swears at me and constantlyaccuses me of being childish and Incompetent decision maker. I also feel thatno matter how much time I give him and how much I put myself to the side hedoesn't appreciate It, and that Its somehow Insignificant to him. He sees onewhole negative picture out of a situation which was wholly positive but with anegative occurrence. I love the guy deeply and we seem to fight In relation toinsignificant things, but I feel that I cant be with someone who does notadmire me for who I am. I constantly feel at fault because I am not an olderand dominant woman as Im sure he would long to have. I feel alone.. I feelconfused

it's In the eyes!

what? what's In the eyes?? Tell meeeee..

Gemini Woman In Love with a Aquarius Man, we met at work and he Islike no one Ive met before.. We became Lovers and friends and as Time goesBy. and we Go on living our separate lives... No matter what.. we always seemto come back to each other.... I Feel So Close to him, I'll be thinking abouthim.. and Missing him.. and He will "IM" me or send me a text saying Hey... Idon't know what any of this means.. But all I do Know Is that forever he willhold the Key to my heart.

I am a Gemini woman who was dealing with a Aquarius man he was greatI would play games with him just so I can prove that he was really Into me andnot playing games but as the relationship went on he really started to love mealthough he didn't use those terms he said "I live you" I live completely andtotally for you I thought It was going great until I got pregnant and all hellbroke loose he basically threw all the bull that I was throwing at him In thebeginning of the relationship back at me he got a girlfriend and he would putpictures of her on Facebook and he would cheat even on her I don't know Ifsomehow I effected this behavior I really don't know If there Is any hope forus as a couple he Is the only man who can truly drive me wild I love to hatehim he Is also 17 years my senior I'm young and hott I'm to young for thecraziness and I'm too hott to be crazy over one man whom can easily be replacedSOMEONE HELP ME I know he loves me I love him I just don't know how to get through to him

I have an Intriguing situation with this gorgeous Gemini girl. Wehave everything In common when It comes to our minds. We know what each otheris going to say most of the time. At times we even say that we are perfect foreach other. I think so. If I could have It my way I would spend everyday withher. Problem Is she lives an hour away. And our lives are on different paths.Either way she Is beautiful, smart, energetic, charismatic and funny... sheshould be mine. I want this Gemini girl. Time will tell.

I am a Gemini girl and I have been best friends with my Aquarius guyfor two years now. We talk every night on the phone and have the BESTconversations. We share a lot In common and always crack jokes. We seem tospark off one another a lot. Whenever we're around each other, we're a littlenervous, but very comfortable at the same time. He always keeps me guessing andI try to even It out by making myself just that much moremysterious/interesting for him too.

The reason we're not together Is because of distance. We would probably be avery compatible and happy couple If we could, but we're an hour away, young,and don't feel like risking the heartache. If I had It my way, he'd live withme. Our visits to see each other always end up being out of nowhere and we tendto do other things than planned when we do visit.

We've never kissed and to not have ever kissed and stay so true to someone fortwo years really feels like an accomplishment, especially being a flirty littleGemini girl. I love his mentality and he always makes me feel comfortable. Asfor the emotional level, we do have It. So If we were to be together, I feel Itwould be quite perfect. Especially from what we've been reading about our signsas a match.

My mom and my best friend, two of the most Important people to me, have told methat I should really marry him. They feel he loves me, them, and my prizedpossession, my dog, Jack. My Aquarius guy Is great, he always listens,interests me, keeps me coming back, and makes me smile continually. We've hadbreaks from each other but our connection Is too strong and we truly are amatch that Is far beyond this world. I believe It.

He's truly my best friend and hopefully my future love of my life. I know withhim there will be loyalty, happiness, trust, apparently good sex, good laughs,great conversations, and an awesome friend. Every thing I want In a guy.

I'm a Gemini woman that's been with my Gemini man for 5 years. we metonline and were Immediately best friends for 2 years talking on the phone,chatting online and writing each other. It happened that we both ended up In thesame city and started dating and finally got married. I dated MANY differenttype of guys before him and It never worked out because they always wanted tomove to fast. With my Aquarian husband he was always my best friend so weclicked right away. One thing I did notice about him was that he was one personas a friend and another as a husband. As friends he always told me that hedidn't care If a girl had a lot of sexual partners or had experimented. As soonas we got married he wanted to know exactly what I did and with who? Of courseme being a Gemini I know how to keep some secrets that you should never tellyou husband. All In all he's been there for me and I have for him, he makes melaugh, he Is sooo loving and sexually keeps me guessing and excited!

well, I dated my aqua man for a year, and things became tough when Ientered the military. the distance killed him. so, we broke up. but, we startedtalking again, at the end of 2009. sad to say It didn't work out. I broke Itoff. If, I were to put all of me In our relationship, we would still betogether.

I am a little bit more than friends with an Aries (I'm a Gemini). Hejust split up and told me he doesn't want to be tied to anyone and his heart Isstone cold and emotionally closed at the moment. Yet, he's around me everysingle moment that he can. Head banging behavior! I'm being a little distantand just friendly and keeping romance out of the picture for now, but I FEELour connection would grow Into something huge. Just don't know when! lol

Im a Gemini woman totally In love with my Aqua man!!! He Is sosensitive, sweet loving n faithful. The only thing I need to do Is give him hisspace n love him for all that he Is , even some of his wacko Ideas. Just lovebeing near him!. Once In a while he needs some radical change to keep ourrelationship going....

We have been together for 2 years now n I hope to God we will be together forever! I love him sooo much. Take care of ur aquaman dats all he needs n hewill love u forever!

I am an Aquarius woman and I have a friend who Is a Gemini man. Thefirst time we met, I really felt there was something about this guy thatconnects me. But he Is already married so we just treat each other as friendsuntil now but we know In each other that we are really attracted to each other.Once he had ask me out we really cant help each other to hold hands and hugeach other. I am right now confused because even though there's a lot of times Itried to erase him In my mind, he still there like a magnet to me. I hope Icould.

I am a Gemini Woman In love with my Aquarius best friend (Man). Thishas been going on for 3 years! I am scared to tell him because he rejected me2 years ago - but It seems like everything has changed. Should I let him cometo me?

He Is my everything. I must marry this man. The connection Is Incredible, weunderstand each other so well that we don't even need to talk. I love him andtrust him more than any other person on this planet.... the universe will tellme when the time Is right... but I'm am Impatient Gemini ;)

Aquarius man Gemini woman-he acts a littlejealous, possessive, needy, overly Interested, then alternativelydistant, rational, non-emotional, Insensitive, self absorbed. Aquaman seems a bitself Indulgent with need for Immediate gratification at times--even when he'strying to do something for me/us-it still feels like ultimately It's for him tofeel happy. Has strength, courage, independencecreativity, intelligence, masculinity, but can be a little

sensitive & play verbal games to try to get his way & make you feel a littleguilty, can be a little pouty as well. I don't have patience for Aqua-men b/cthey seem unpredictable, scattered at times, distant, moody, stubborn, possessive.As a Gemini I think I'm much more mutable/flexible than he could ever be. Ithink something Is wrong with our planets for compatibility.

Gemini woman here, I have met this aqua man 4 years ago. It's very difficult to deal with an Aquarius man he is possessive, controlling and moody. but despite it all I loved him so truly, we have this deep connection that I have not felt in any other guys. We have a son together, but during my pregnancy everything falls apart. he cheated on me and even hurt me physically. and then I told myself one day you will know how I feel, you will love me and need me more. and yes the day happened I left him and he's begging for me. we got back together and it's not really working out, we got back together and broke up more than 4 times. and now we are good friends just for our son. so now I'm moving on, I met this new guy and guess what? he is an aqua man! haha I can't believe it, I fell in-love with him and got really crazy. but he told me that he likes me and all but not ready for a commitment so I was clueless. he told me that if he would've a girlfriend it would be me...... we are g old friends till now and I am just got sick of waiting for him so I moved on. now I met this guy and he keeps asking me to go out clubbing and I keep turning him down. then finally we had a chance to hang-out and it was fun fun fun. we had a good sex and man, I'm the one who's asking him to see each other. then I asked his zodiac sign and he said AQUARIUS! oh my! this is the 3rd man I know.... Gosh I guess aqua man is the best for me huh.. haha anyway we are dating right now, it was just weird that he told me we are matched!

we both busy working and never talk on the phone we just text each other. being a Gemini woman, I wanna make sure what is his next move?... is he a boyfriend type or just a fling type. he actually see me every weekends and we both enjoy our company. so good luck to me!!!!!

I'm a Gemini woman and I've been seeing my Aquarius guy for 2yrs.We've met in High School, but didn't start seeing each other until my junior year he graduated 2 yrs before me). We started out great. He would call or text me every time he got a break from work. When we spend time with one another, I value every moment of it. I feel warm and somehow I gotten attached to him. However, He had bit of baggage on the count that he has two children by two different women, which makes me a bit iffy about trusting him. About a year into the relationship, he admit all of the things he's done in his past and everything that has happened in his life. Though we've had our fights, I still love him. Even though he'll blow things out of proportion, gotten out of line and even acted very cold towards me whenever I was wrong for something. There were times that he's gotten possessive and bit controlling, but I manage to tell him how I felt on about it. Til this day, We're still together and hopefully we'll last.

I am a Gemini woman, who has met a taken aqua man. my relationship with him is like no other because it feels like I am in the relationship with him. we began as friends and it was completely random, and I have fallen for him and he for me. I feel an unusual feeling with him, like a deep bond or comfort that ive never felt with another man. I cannot stay away from him due to our connection or my emotions. he cares about me a lot and I know that if he is not the man for me he is at least the prototype. he has taught me a lot about the world, about growing and maturation and I will never forget him.

Well I am a 27 year old Gemini woman who's in a relationship with a 19 year old Aquarius!! I am totally in love with him, though sometimes I have to catch myself when showing too much emotions. He is a bit detached when it comes to showing his feelings but I learned his ways and know when to give him space and how to love him! He has a tendency to want to know my whereabouts sometimes which doesn't bother me cause I do the same with him but I must say this " if you are in a relationship with an Aquarius, it requires a lot of time & patience! We been together for 6 months and broken up 2-3 times but for some odd reason he & I keep coming back together. I learned they show their love in different ways and my boyfriend talks to me as if I am just one of his friends, at first I didn't like it but as I began to understand him I know that's a sign of him being comfortable and getting close with me.. We are like best friends and talk about everything which means a lot to me.. He is my second Aquarius but treats me better than the first one I was with and their ways are very different in a lot of ways! He is stubborn and seem cold-hearted sometimes but I know the real him and the funniest thing is he actually knows me well enough to predict some of my actions when I get upset as well!!.

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I am a Gemini girl totally in love with an Aquarius guy. we have been in a long distance relationship for over 3 years now. We were good together had loads of fun and I was very open about my feelings but he only expressed his occasionally. A couple of months back I started hearing he has been seeing the particular girl and he got so defensive insisting they were just friends and we went on a break for less than a week. We got back together again and I snooped on an old phone and realized he was flirting with this same girl. When I told him what I saw he totally flipped saying I should have trusted him calling me all sort of names and said he still loves me but thinks we should take a break. I love him and want him back! Its all my fault I should not have snooped. don't know what to do :(

I'm a Gemini woman. I've been off and on for five years with an Aquarius man. It's very true that these signs spark up great conversation, and there aren't many dull moments. . but I think both would do better as just friends. Gemini's love to express their emotions and will always say how they feel. They're able to translate their feelings into words very easily. Whereas Aquarians have a very hard time wording what's on their mind. As a Gemini this frustrates me, because we're so extravagant with how we express our feelings, I feel annoyed and let down when an Aquarius man only mouths out one boring lifeless sentence of how they're feeling. Aquarians carry a huge ego as well, and it usually takes them a while to admit their faults. They're also very prone to putting their friends before their girl, and will do whatever their friends want. They usually don't stick up for themselves which is a turn off because Gemini's are all about saying what's on their minds. Honestly y I don't think Aquarians can live up to the expectations of a Gemini. We need someone just as extravagant as us! Like a Libra ;)

I am a Gemini woman, who for years had a crush on this Aquarian cowboy. He is tall, dark, and rugged. He's the leader of his crew out in the country, and im the artistic go getter. Our friendship began when I started to work for my papa out in the country, aqua would walk in with a strut that would make my senses jump all around my body. So the courtship began, I told him I wanted him, he was cool with it. But of course Aquarian men have slews of women, and mostly ones who are paying him. So he parade around in there cars and that sort of thing. I would get jealous, but hell im 28 and gorgeous, so I wasn't gonna trip. eventually he came over and I put some air on his water that made my place in his life. It must've been good because that next morning he was at my job before I was, and his father could see that I had his nose wide open. So then I continued to keep my usual intellectual self, going on about my days, only giving him some twice a year, while he ran himself into the wall with the older women who was paying him. Well, after 2 years, he would come in and say, baby you gone have to give me more attention than you have been. I played him off again for some weeks, all the while our friendship had been growing, he went from barely talking at all, to telling me everything. I knew about all the girls, what they give him. where he messed up in past relationships, and all that. One day I told him if you want some more I want to have sex in the middle of a beautiful field, in broad daylight. After work he took me to the most beautiful place ive ever seen here in oklahoma, and we made love underneath the trees, where the sun was sneaking onto our skin from inbetween the leaves...This started happening more and more. Before I knew it, he was even making it evident to our society that I was his. Now, we are still the closest of friends and ive never wanted him to change, I only wanted him to be himself, and if he's for me then one day we will be old, and sipping lemonade on our porch. We still have the most amazing sex, and the last time he was inside of me, his usual silence broke, and he said my name, then said, sugah, I don't want nobody inside of you but me. Ive fallen in love with this man, but I know just like anyone should that Gemini's and Aquarius value our individual freedom. So I ain't gone try to fix what ain't broke. I love him, and we are close friends, and what more does romance and friendship really need but two willing participants. Here's to going with the flow!!!

I am a Gemini woman and I have been with my Aquarius man for almost 3 years and I love him!...yes we have our differences but we always seem to get past them every single time. I will never leave him no never! :)

I am a Gemini woman who has been seeing an Aquarius for about 4 months now. The way we met was such a GLORIOUS tale. I had met a woman from work who wanted me to come with her to meet her boyfriends friend. obvious set up) When I saw him for the first time when he first looked at me there was this spark in his eyes, and I knew he wasn't expecting me to be as pretty as I was. After that I knew I had him on the hook and couldn't wait to bust his head open to see what was inside We started talking on the couch and we clicked instantly it was like id known here for years or he wasn't the other missing half of me...we both moved into to kiss each other but we both stopped before our kiss and just stayed close with our foreheads touching staring at each other. It was the most surreal experience of my life. Since then it has been us driving around laughing and having a ball, talking about anything and everything under the sun, and having sex in the most random places. last week we had sex in his friend closet when he was in the other room! hehe! this man drives me wild and I know I do the same for him because he expressed emotions for me I know were real, and I know it was hard for him to admit! We hung out pretty much day in and day out for 3 months both being our typical elusive/detached selves until one day his friend called him on the phone and he told him he was with his girlfriend. hehe. I was so secretly happy because I didn't want to be the first one to express how I felt for fear he wouldn't feel the same. We did have one problem where he asked me out the day before he went to Las Vegas. and didn't call me until the 5th day. which obviously made me worry and hurt me thinking he forgot about me. He also has trust issues, so he does tend to get a little protective and needs to know my whereabouts, but I don't mind giving this to him. he's everything I want in a guy, we have the most passionate and kinky sex..and we can feel each other when we are apart, he understands me better than any man which I love because I don't feel the need to lie to him about anything...or hide anything from him which is a first for me in relationships. he wants me to move closer to him, and im so excited yet nervous. because im realizing im in love with his man, and he has the power to destroy me im in so deep. god though our conversations.....and adventures...and oh Jesus the sex. im in love! this one was made for me, he's my fucking king!

Gemini women please stay away from this zodiac sign. Gemini women need water in your life. the Aquarius man may meet our intellectual needs but fall way short on the emotional ones they are very controlling men. I've been married to one for 15 years he is a great provider but he will not let go of past issues I find him to be very detached and distanced. I have stay this long because of my own neediness but this is not a relationship were a Gemini women can grow on the emotional level and this is so needed in our lives.

I have met my soulmate from the first moment we begin to talk, I knew he was the one for me. We plan on spending our lives together, he really makes me happy he is the light at the end of my tunnel, I would not trade what we have for any thing he is younger than me, and someone who I would have never in a millions would have talked to, we come from very different back grounds but we have so much in common, I can truly say this is love at first sight, I cannot beleive that I have found someone who makes me feel so complete, he is the void that has been missing in my life and I am so gratful for he love.

I Am A Gemini woman I met My Aquarian man when I was a sophmore in highschool. I mean love at first sight I saw him and I tld my bestfriend he will be mines. 2 days later he was mine. It was love at first sight I mean we talked on the phone to early in the morning everyday. But the onli thing is he was a big flirt, and mi bestfriend said she saw him on the school bus kissing another girl, so I cussed him out and broke up with him. The same day he told mi I shuldnt listen to mi friends.. Blahh.. blahh.. So I took him back a week later they seen him huggin on the girl. SO this time I really just ended it with him.. I was depressed also, but than one night I was sittin watchin t.v and he calls and says come outside I need to talk to yu. I went outside and he was lik I miss yu and I love yu. Me bein a Gemini I was like yea watever. So he tried to get me to take a ride with him it did not wrk. I went bac in the house. PLayin hard to get is mi true speciality. I gues it work ed because we stayed bestfriends, I always believed if its meant to be dan let it go and if it comes back hold on to it, and never let go. So we dated other people but he was lik mi bestfriend + great sex. I mean amazing. These guys really do hit the spot, I mean we did everything together. There was never a dull moment I would always be wifey..One day I gt fed up wit waitin and told him im goin to leave, he begged me not to go, he said im da onli person in da wrld he has, he said that he would always love me,Just please don't leave him. I believed him. Than it happened he met someone new and she became wifey he basically threw me to the curve I vowed I would never fall in love again nomatter what.He got locked up for a year and I moved on I had a baby by someone else, I had met way before him.(which today I truly love and could never imagine life without him) When mi Aquarian was locked up he told me I was always da onli one for him, and I was trifiln because what he had with that girl was puppy love, and I knew he would always come bac to me. And that I hurt him. So I took him back we dated off and on for almost a whole year more on than off. We was so perfect. Than one day it came crashing down we was having the perfect summer, we did everything together because he lived in the next complex over from mi bestfriend. One night we had came bac from the pool from drinkin, and he was really gettin on mi nerves so I told him I jus wnt to go to sleep, becuz he had threaten to leave so many times that night I was fed up.( I mean I truly loved this man, I would even bring my son around him. We could make love all night long and stare in each other eyes. sorry im off topic...) so HE WAS talkin to me to I turned mi back on him to go to sleep he started a big argument which ended up in him slapping me. He had never dne it before so I was in shock. Than he called me spoiled, and im a brat. SO I told him just to stay away from me. I mean yes I seen him now and than but after that it was never the same. I cant even imagine a future with him. It broke mi heart into pieces I mean da one man I loved more than anything hurt me so bad. So now he calls me and says he loves me and wants me to have his child. So I told him that will never happen becuz I don't love him anymre nor do I want to be with him. and he asks why I said I don't know what kind of females you have been with before but yu promised me you would never put you're hands on me. you're wrd is everythng to me. I feel bad about it but I will never love him again, I don't even careabout him nomre and that was mi soul mate. Now I am happy wit mi sons father he is a Sagittarius He is difficult at times to get along wit because were so strong minded but I could argue wit him into ole age. I love this man to death.

I'm an Aquarius man with a Gemini woman. We met through friends/family trying to make it so neither of us would be third wheels. It's been a year-and-a-half since we first met, and we started dating (with some secrecy) a couple months ago. Like the article says, sex did come about fairly quickly, and it's good.

My previous relationship was with a Virgo, and she didn't have nearly the enjoyment or interactivity as this Gem. I always am thinking, and have my concerns and hopes both. I worry about boring her, or us not working as time goes on. Also, I wish she would talk to me more, as I find her interesting but it's rare she actually communicates the same way.

When I felt somewhat dull compared to what I'd want to be, she still finds me very exciting and a stand-out of the men she's known. She's afraid of things I find exciting or interesting (bridges/heights, caves, creepy-crawlies like snakes and bugs, etc), along with broadening her tastes or facing fears. For example she has tried different vegetarian foods and doesn't mind them, crossing a 730-foot tall bridge, or going into a pet store to look at tarantulas, snakes, and scorpions. Likewise I face my fears and consider things she'd like.

We don't say "I love you" much, but it seems it doesn't need to be said often, as it's over done sometimes and is thus diluted. She's good as both a friend and lover, and I hope to see how it does in the long run, even if I have my fears and doubts at times.

I have recently started a relationship with a Cancer boy. He is 5 years younger than I am, he's 20 and im 25, but i've made my peace with that. We have only been together for 2 weeks and have met once. we kissed and now I feel more closer to him. I luv the funny things he says and the way he shares his feelings with me. Thing is, I met this Aquarius man, he's 25 like me, he's really into me, he feeds me these sweet words and is also very affectionate, we met twice, he came to my uni and drove me home, he held my hand, he spoke sweet words of promising everlasting luv, and it blew me away. I like his charming ways and conversations. im captivated. He told me he's developed these feelings for me and I told him I hate the way he makes me feel because I know that its wrong, since I have a bf. He's been very persistent asking me to give him a chance to prove to me that he is the right one for me. I told him I cant because im already in a relationship and I have to give my boyfriend a chance first, I have to try. He says he's not going to give up that easy.

i know Gemini and Cancer isnt a very good match up, while Gemini and Aquarius is wonderful.

am I wasting my time trying to make it work with my Cancer boy? or did I make the right decision?

Shud I stick to my boyfriend and see what happens and if it doesn't work out I can run into the arms of the aquarius? or will that be uncool?

i like them both. my Cancer boy is all about feelings and emotions and mixes it with sum cute humour, Aquarius is more charming and makes me feel like no one cud ever love me more and like im the luckiest girl alive!

p.s. I really don't want anymore bad karma in relationships, I think ive had enuff in my life, I want to do the right thing from now on. and im thinkin the right thing is trying to make it work with my boyfriend first. ?

I'm a Gemini girl talking to an Aquarius guy. I have best female friends who are Aquarius but I never had an Aquarius guy friend until now and its the best damn thing I have ever experienced in my life.we have only been talking a month but it feels like a lifetime and it feels like we both know each other only thing is we have never met but we have pics of one another and he lives in a whole nother state and there is 13 years age difference but I don't care cause he's older,more experienced so he knows what he wants.i know if we were in the same state we would be together and it would be the greatest thing ever cause it already is. we feel so good about each other and I know there is already feelings cause I see and feel them. he's the one I know it and feel it. people always say when you meet "the one" you will know it. I always thought it was bullshit but not anymore. this is some real shit. he is the one I know it. he's already my knight and shining armor. I think of him day in and day out. I always said i'd never get married but with this man I would. i'd do the unthinkable with him and whatever else. we are already happy with one another and we are only friends but we both know its more than that,now I need to go cause I will have a novel wrote on here but there is just so much to say but Gemini and Aquarius people need to be together. its the realest thing ever,for me anyway.

Gemini lady with an Aquarius lad. I met him a little over four years ago at work. While he fell in love at first sight with me, I was bothered by his presence. He annoyed me for the longest time, but he was always there to comfort me. I left for school 700 miles away and he kept calling me and sending me letters just to show me he still loved me, but I couldn't say the same. He surprised me one night when he called and said he was outside my dormitory just because he loved me and needed to see me.

Two years went by and I didn't see him, one year went by and I didn't hear about him or spoke to him. It was only when I lived the worst days of my life did I realize he was the only one that could ease the pain. I changed 180 degrees and saw him for the person he was, brave, courteous, honest, hard-working, and loving. I thought I had lost him forever. I prayed that he'd be safe where ever he was. I knew I'd find him one day.

And I did. He called me up a while ago and I apologized for being so mean to him. The first thing he said was that I am still the love of his life and nothing's ever going to change that.

We're more than 700 miles away now but I'm planning to see him soon.

I am a Gemini woman of 42yrs... I look like I am in my 20's tho... and this is one reason why my Aquarian man of 43 likes me so much. I take excellent care of myself spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically and these are the traits that attract me to him. I also have a lot of Cancer traits... I am extremely loyal, sensitive, very grounded and love affection and am highly sensual with high sex drive. I am extremely passionate, compassionate, kind, sweet, positive, open, trustworthy and all about truth and honesty. The stability, family, home and security within a relationship are crucial and non-negotiable for me. I am not flighty nor am I wishy washy and I do not like lies and dishonesty. I dislike manipulation of any sort. I am extremely emotional and sensitive but yet I am highly evolved emotionally and mentally and know when to pick my battles.... truthfully, I do not like confrontations but will be truthful about my feelings, even if it will rock th e boat.

The man I am dating or rather, no longer dating... we are now "friends"... he is so afraid and constantly pushing me away, but not too far. He is always sending me confusing signals... very hot and then distant and cold. Yet, now that we are friends... he is a lot more flirtatious and friendly and even affectionate like he used to be, which I missed so dearly. When we do get together once a month... he is flirting with me constantly and the passion and chemistry between us... is not to be denied. Even others on the outside looking in, have commented that they can tell he has the major hots for me. It's uncontrollable... we just cant seem to help ourselves. Even when he says he is trying so hard to respect me as a friend and not hurt me in any way, he can't help the chemistry and we end up being intimate and spending the night. He does not want any confinement or to feel obligated to anyone in anyway... he wants total freedom and does not want a relationship right now. Ev en the friends with benefits thing he is uncomfortable with. He does not want to answer to anyone or feel like he has to call anyone of see anyone in particular... which I totally get and am ok with now that I understand how aquarians are.

When we first met, he did offer me exclusivity and introduced me to his friends and family members within the first 2-3 days of our dating.... for the next 4 weeks, we were spending every weekend together hanging out with his closest of friends and then things started to wane. He no longer called and texted me 3-4 times a day and that's when I started to ask what was going on.

Then soon after... we broke up, became friends, got back together again for another 2 weeks, broke up again and were friends again. And now... he doesn't even want to engage in any kind of sexual activity cause he feels obligated to call me, text me and go out with me even when I am ok with his need for independence. Mind you.... I have not asked for any commitment, I have not asked for him to call or reach out more to me... I know better now... as he did make it clear months ago that he can not provide any of this. In my mind, we were just friends who can't help the chemistry and passion btwn us... and I was ok with that. I didn't expect anything beyond this nor did I misunderstand the intimate situation recently... and he made sure I understood this before engaging in sex this last time. I was well aware of what we were doing and that it was not going anywhere or changing anything.

I don't understand why he is now asking we be only friends... platonic, non-sexual friends, when I have not asked him for anything in return. Why is he feeling obligation and confined when I have not asked for anything. He says, it's weird that a guy is asking for no-sex instead of the girl in the relationship. I know the sex was amazing... it was so obvious, it felt like old times. I know when I am with him, he loves it... has no complaints... it's when we are apart and gets a chance to analyze things that he then breaks up with me.

I am so confused.... I can clearly see he is so attracted to me, he says he cares so deeply for me and doesn't want me to get hurt and is trying so hard to be proper and respectful of the boundaries... he says he has too many things on his plate and doesn't want to get involved with anyone right now. I have not asked for anything at all... we are just friends.... still he pushes me away simply because we spoke 2 days in a row after our last sexual encounter. Can anyone interpret this for me? Am I crazy or is he really afraid of his feelings for me?

Can any Aquarian male shed any light on this situation? Can a female Gemini who's been in these situations shed any light? I feel like he doesn't appreciate my friendship or who I am. I have so many other men chasing after me... and of all the ones I like... it is the one who doesn't like or want me back? Why am I getting so many confusing messages from him... that's what I don't understand.

Please help me understand this man if you have any insights to share.


Gemini confused....

I am Gemini woman and I was in a relationship with an Aquarius man. Everything was perfect. We used to go out together, we talked all the time about everything, we were inseparable.In July we got into a minor argument and he broke up with me for a week. He took me back and things were good as new. In August, we both went to different colleges 4 hours away from each other but he remained together. Things were still going good. we talked all the time, always talked on skype, saw each other at least once or more a month depending on money and our schedules. Well when xmas break came we had so many plans and most of them worked out. We saw each other almost everyday he always called of txt me, it was good. Then on new years eve we got into a huge fight over nothing and he told me he did not want to be in this relationship with me anymore, BUT that night he offered me to stay the night at his house and I did but he said he did not want to have sex because he would feel be ad because we were no longer dating. Then new years day he text me saying he loved me and he still really cares for me and he sees me and him being together in the future but right now he needs some alone time. Then today before he went to bed he text me saying "I love you goodnight <3"

im so confused as to what is going on or what will happen. I really love him and care for him so much and I have been depressed and devastated since he left me but he is giving me mixed signals. can anyone help me understand?

To the Gemini woman asking If the aqua man will forgive and forget your threesome and will you thrive together....NO, It will not happen. It may have been said that It was "open", but that mans nothing to the Aqua. You were being tested, likely, to see what would happen during "open season". Its over, sweetie. He may forgive you, but you will be nothing but an acquaintance now.

I am a Gemini woman I am currently in love with an Aquarian man he means so much to me he knows exactly HOW TO SATISFY ME ON EVERY LEVEL we do almost every ting together we have been together for 3 years and stil going strong we've had our ups and downs but thats normal in every couple we are having a baby on the way soon enough I am guesing he's going to propose to me being with him is like waking up to a new person everyday he is so unpredictable you don't know what he is going to do next I love him so much he knows me better than any one else we are the perfect couple....

Gemini woman with an Aqua man. Our intellectual connection is like nothing Ive ever seen before. It's like we're on the same wave length. We just click and can talk about anything and HAVE talked about everything. My experience is the same as many others above. He's jealous and possessive and I'm more emotionally in tuned with my feelings and express them much more easily. I seriously doubt that we work out in the long run, as we live far apart and it takes a lot of effort to see each other, but for now the relationship is ok. The sex is phenomenal and the best I've ever had. Overall it's a very good match. Very compatible but life is not easy living far apart.

im a Gemini girl and I have been talking to three different Aquarius in the past two years and its so hard to choose becasue they all captivate my heart and make me feel so amazing. ultimately they are my firends first like nothing has happened between me and any of them but the feelings for each individual boy is driving me crazy. ughh. what to do.

Gemini Young woman, I dated an Aquarius boy (around my preteen years)and we lost contact after My family moved out of state, but reconnected online again, and now weve just been talking as friends ever since, and its like he's my best friend, but I stll like him and Im assuming he still likes me because he says he would be with me but im too far away, but my question is do you think this great friendship could actually bloom into a great relationship?

Gemini woman, 28yo I am so in love with an aqua guy (22yo). He is the absolute love of my life and I pray future husband. He understands everything about me, is supportive, and my rt hand and heart. I haven't a clue how I got here.. we met strangely I guess that makes him love me more . ok long story short-dated mostly crazy Capricorn men who drained every emotions I could think of. had a beautiful lil girl with my last cap. she's 14mths. Him and I don't get along at all, and tries to still be a thorn in my side. I met my aqua man a mth ago but feels life I've known him from my very existence. its like looking in d mirror, like breathing for the first time. a psychic told me months ago that I would meet my husband and complete a lot of work together, and that he would be easy to recognize. omg was she right. I know his every move, lol. I have him wrapped up, but he has the ability to tie this floating Gemini down, and we all know that takes a gift. I did date an aqu a man a few years ago that was complete opposite, complete jackass, hot/cold flashes without warning, left him alone after bad argument regarding other women...of course he didn't lie, but sure did avoid d truth. Very cunning individual. But back to my love, of course I haven't told him this, I don't have to. It's just there, BTW the sex is just beyond amazing. We can't get enough of each other. We plan to do many business endeavors together along with many other things. Only sad note is that I'm movin 800 miles away, but I truly don't think that will stop us at all. I can go on for days about this connection. So so happy.

I like an Aquarius man. I would love to tell him my feelings, but, I just don't know how..... any advice for me?

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