Aquarius, or just selfish?

by Alison
(England)

I dated an Aquarius guy for eight months, during which we spent lots of time apart, due to circumstances. He originally was from a different country, although has been living here for a long while now.

After four months of dating he went back to his home country, to see his dad who was ill. He initially said he was going for a week, but once over there kept changing his mind and eventually came back seven weeks later.

We did split up briefly while he was away, but got back together. But he didn't understand why I was so annoyed at him disappearing like this. So is this just typical Aquarius behaviour, or is it just pure selfishness. As a Taurus I wouldn't have minded if he had said he was going for that long, but it was the sitting here not knowing which got to me.

When he got back, things were ok for a while but then we started niggling at each other over stupid things. He seemed to have a problem over the fact that I had ended it while he was away, and kept questioning me over whether I was seeing other men.

I also felt ready to move our relationship on and have more of an involvement in each others lives, but he was not ready. He thought I wanted to move in together, whereas, I just wanted to spend a bit more time together.

We are not together anymore, I got tired of dealing with someone who wanted things all his own way. I still love him but can't see anyway we caould be together.

Any views welcome