Are aquarius men always aloof?

by pisces luvs aquaman
(san antonio tx)

Ok, so I'm dating this Aquarius for about 10 months now, I've been very patient. In the beginning he catered to me. Then all of a sudden when I asked him what he felt for me he kinda backed off. Didn't call me, didn't text me. He did the whole disappearing act most aquarians do.(from what I've read). So I figured he didn't want anything with me. When I leave him alone, he starts looking for me. Its true, that if you don't smother them with affection and questions or talk about your relationship they do seem to come around. But how would I know if he really does want me and only me? At first I have to admit that I was too emotional in the beginning (I'm a Pisces by the way). But this has gone on for too long.(or at least for me it has) I've learned not to be so clingy(as u know its hard for us Pisces to do) I sometimes feel as if this is always going to like this. Does it ever change? Do Aquarius ever stop being aloof ? My aqua man has told me he liked me but I was only able to get it out of him once. I love being around him, because we do have good conversation. We laugh together and I feel we have great chemistry. I've also learned not to be so emotional and have not called him like before. I'm just wondering, if I've made some changes to try to reason with him, will he always be like this?

He has proven to me that he hasn't cheated. So I'm not accusing him of that, but about him being a bit aloof, is what gets to me.