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Hey there, I'm an Aries female and my now ex boyfriend was Aries aswell. We met over the Internet, he came to my city after a month. We went outthe first night, just talked and laughed and the very next day we ended up Inbed. So my point being Is that the word action Is In our nature and the sparksflew like crazy the very second day.
He told me about his ex girlfriends and howthey were In bed, some were experts which made a challenge for me If not to topthem than at least try those things with him, so we tried one or two positionshe told me about, but now thinking about It makes me a little bit embarrassed.
He had to return to his city, but came back a month later and that's when he movedin with me. So we lived together and got along pretty well If not great and thenhe had to go back again. We didn't officially break up but we live on differentcontinents now.
So my ranking would be: sexual activity 10 out of 10, sharingthe same sports spirit 10 out of 10, wanting the same things out of life 5 outof 10.. Would I go through all that all over again? Maybe...
Did I love him? I think so ... I don't know If It's a typical Arian trait but Ioften have difficulty defining what I feel, as I myself can't come to that conclusion.
Yes, compared to most other signs, Aries aren't prone to over-analyzing, categorizing or dwelling on the past. On the flip side you can easily focus on and enjoy the 'here and now' where more analytical people sometimes struggle to do so. Most analytical folks will tell you they're actually very jealous of your gift In this area!
I am a Aries woman I have a Aries man. we have been together for 6yrs. here lately I've been asking myself how long will this last. we are sodifferent, In the beginning everything was so good, I couldn't love him morethan what I did and now I'm not sure If I even like him. he Is boring and rudeand I am unpredictable and outgoing, Im not afraid of change and he want to dothe same old stuff all the time...what are we going to do? we can never seem tobe apart for long. we he leaves me he finds his way back. almost like It'sconvenient for the both of us to be together. when we really are not sure If wewant to be together.
Im an Aries girl and I fell In love with an Aries man. The fucked upthing Is that we didn't really have a friendship It was more like a fuck buddything we only have fucked 2. But I feel like there Is a connection between usbut since he's not pursuing me or chasing me who knows If we do or not ya know?but Im not gonna chase him anymore I don't. I think we are to much a like andthat's why we will never work but he was my first love so no matter what I willalways have love for him and he will always be on my mind but Im moving on cuzit the only way I can move forward
Well the funny this Is I am an Aries myself and I laughed out so loudwhen I saw the first comment box ....(Did I love him? I think so ... I don'tknow If It's a typical Arian trait but I often have difficulty defining what Ifeel, as I myself can't come to that conclusion.) This Is so me hahahh !!
I 've had a fair share of men In my life and I am yet to officially be with anAries Man (although one Is pursuing me for like 7 yrs now ) I think all thecomments here are great !!
But I can def tell you about Cancer, Gemini and Libra...chk out the msg board!! lol
I'm an Aries woman unhappily married to an Aries man for fourteenyears. Here comes the crazy part... a year ago I met and fell In love withanother Aries man (I know.. groan) on the Internet. I thought I knew all therewas to know about Aries men but this guy....woah! one minute he's 'I love you'and talking about being with me, the next he's off to God knows where as If Ihardly exist! .Every time I decide to try and forget him, and believe me this Isvery hard for me, he's back with a vengeance and the cycle starts all overagain. The sexual chemistry between us Is amazing and I totally like my ownspace as does this guy, but I just don't know where I stand with him.
I am an Aries man. Married 14 years to an Aries woman. We've beentogether for 20 years. Now In our late 30's. We've managed to raise 2 wonderfulchildren and reclaim love lost (without divorce). It Is my opinion that theinstability between Aries people comes from the desire to hold on to theexternal lives that we have Envisioned for ourselves; our desire to see whateveryone around us Is not doing what we would have them do, as according to thepeople (we are), the tendency Is to forget that we all have free will to makeourselves happy. We need to learn patience. Let go of constant desire to willpower over the other. To bring an Aries close let them go. To have them want tobe with you, fill your hands with those things that they have need or desireof. In other words, pay attention to what they want, not what you want,sometimes. Be willing to put pride 2nd to the well being of therelationship. Most Aries people I know are spiritually aware. Begin and end the day In prayer with each other. Its far more Intimate than sex. Its also aplatform for reconciliation. I hope this helped a little. Good Luck! Godbless!!!!!!!!!!
I am an Aries woman, dating an Aries man going on 3 yr's now .....well when we first got together I was always trying to end the relationship but was still very drawn to him... I didn't really love him as much as I knewhe did me. But his love for me eventually I fell In love Into our second yr andits what has kept It still going, I don't want to hurt him and he doesn't want tohurt him. always making me feel bad about wanting to travel or go anywhere elseother then CLOSE relatives as In mommy. which I hear there's a lot of Issues withthat... but I know Its going to end and dreading the outcome I do love him andpanic at time of thinking of pre-break up Im honest with him about the way Ifeel and he seems to be ok with It but ... I don't really know how to read him.. at times I feel like he's treating me like a child.. at others I feel likehe just doesn't have anything In him .. It like a win lose though for me becauseI cant help my fire side of new Interest.
I never have been in love with an Aries women and am presently with a Sag. Things with us seem to go up and down. I did however, I am sorry to say, have a fling with an Aries woman who was with someone also. We were friends at work but I always fancied her and then some stuff happened. I don't really know to judge the whole thing really. Part of it makes me guilty but it was at a bad period of my relationship. The sexual stuff and general feel of things was fantastic, but I didn't find it easy to discuss things. It was a very emotional/interesting experience but it might of been because it was secret. I really tried not to stray and kind of told my girlfriend I was gonna do it, but I don't know if she knows the full details.
im an Aries girl and I went out with a sag. in the beginning it was very interesting! he was very adventurous!. but then it started becoming dull and boring. and you know how us Aries CANT BE IN A BORING RELATIONSHIP!. soo I ended it!. I went out with an Aries man and the beginning wuz great but he was 2 much like me!!. demanding and domineering. we had 2 break it off!!.
Hello, I am an Aries girl who was with an Aries guy my age for 3 years. At first, the conversations were great and we got along great. Behind my back though, he told his friends he was using me and could drop me whenever he wanted to. He was deceiving and an absolute coward. He couldn't even defend me when his parents criticized me. He knew they had no reason to do so but kept his mouth shut. Then I found out he had cheated on me during out relationship with a handful of girls. I was the most devoted, and caring girlfriend he could ever find! That asshole.. anyway when I dumped his sorry ass, he couldn't stop crying and his friends sat there and remembered when he said he could leave me anytime. He always said I was weak minded because he had the ability to convince me to believe him. I didn't have a weak mind, I just loved him and he saw this as a weakness. That fucker had a weak heart though, because he couldn't take it when I left. Just goes to show that us Aries women can be quite strong, and too caring and easily lead, to the point of being deceived, but we are strong enough to get through it. I'm not saying all Aries men are like this, but watch out. After 2 yrs almost now that we've been broken up he still wants to talk to me and see me, but being the strong headed Aries I am, I won't give him the satisfaction. He hasn't heard my voice, nor seen me in all this time. Take care of your Aries woman! Once you've hurt her, she'll be cold to you forever, and you'll realize what a woman you lost.
I am an Aries woman and have fallen for an Aries man. We met online and both started falling in love, but then he got scared and backed off. I am mad about him and have even suffered a heart attack since I met him. I am sure it was a broken heart as he stopped speaking to me and it nearly killed me. He has finally started to say hello again to me but not much more. His ex died of Cancer and I know he is scared to be with someone again. I am so full of love for him, its just so sad :(
I just found out he is already dating someone else after literally us only not talking for that month and a bit and he has been with her for a month. So I have wished him well and sent him on his way with much love. He is definately not the man for me if he can do that so quickley then it shows he was not falling in love with me or even cared for me. Atleast I know I can love someone and I am a good person... I suppose that is my lesson from this and not to go falling in love with strangers online haha. Lucky my heart still works :)
Im an Aries woman who got married very young to a Cancer man...so wrong...wasnt ready for it...need my independence and have had a few affairs which Im not proud of...have met an Aries guy who is also married...was texting flat out and very intense and now sudenly he ahs backed off...this hot and cold thing is very frustrating...
I'm Aries woman I'm invole with Aries man we so mush a like and the crazy thing is our bday is only a day apart. He was born on da 8th and I was born on da 9th of april. But he not talkin to me rite now cause I say something about how I was feelin. I told him I think you not good for me and now he's so mad at me he don't even want to see me. I don't know what else to do or say to him lettin him kno I'm sorry. So I quess that was end of my lil fairytale. More you can keep you're shout sometime
I am an Aries woman with an Aries man. We started out friends And ended up dating after three years of a good friendship we've been together for two and still feels like the first few months. Sometimes we fight if we have boring days or conversations but make up easily. The sex is lovely and it scares me to read how a lot of these Aries relationships have flopped! I think it can either be really good or disastrous. But currently I am loving this. The one thing you should never do though is make an Aries man feel like he's your everything. Because they try and try to be for years to come. And it's true I love my boyfriend but my art and job comes first. But he's definitely half of my heart. We do well like this. But without. Doubt it does take some work to keep it full of fire. But I have always loved this challenge :)
I was in a relationship with an Aries man, and I absolutely fell in love with him. He was everything I ever wanted, and even though in the short time we were together I fell deeply in love, maybe it's just my Aries ways of believing in "love at first sight" and I did put him up in this pedestal and I showered him with affection which in return he broke up with me because he said I was "crowding his space". I just wanted to love him and treat him good, that's all I ever wanted. I would've never broke his heart, hurt him in anyway because I loved him too much...but I must've bored him since there wasn't much a chase, but I just wanted him to know he will probably never meet another girl who will love him as much as I would've, and who would've done as much as I would've. Til this day, I still can't let him go...it's not just him, it's all this emotions and hopeful wishes I have for us that still exist. Hopefully, this Aries man will recognize his mistake soon and turn back to me.
Im an Aries woman with a physco crazy Leo boyfriend. I have been with him for 8 yrs but have been so in love with my Aries man. ive tried to let him go several times but as soon as I think I am good he somehow pops back up into my life. when he's not around I miss him so much he's my best friend. me and my Leo have 2 amazing kids together but I hate him. he is so possessive and controlling he has even become violent many many a times. he wont just leave me the hell alone but wont let me go either... at least not alive anyway. my Aries guy isnt ready for my package deal, not really the kids but the crazy baby daddy drama. me and my Aries have the craziest amazing sex. he thinks so dirty just like me. he is the love of my life just wish I could be with him and get rid of my crazy leo! ew!
I'm an Aries woman involved with an Aries man. Our birthdays are one day apart (April 9 and April 10). We started out as friends in high school and fell for each other our senior year. It's been 4 years and we're planning on getting married in another year. I love him so much! I never thought this would work. We have different interests and are not always so pleased with each other, but it all works out in the end. I love that we're also the same in a lot of ways. It's enough to be saying 'Aw, me too!" but it's different enough to keep it different and shake things up a little. It would be no fun if we were the same person, just different genders. I think that there are so many failed Aries-Aries relationships because people don't try to make things work and prevent the obvious problems that we often have. We like dominance, and when we get it, we're happy. Just make sure you share this treasured power and the relationship will be as smooth as butter.
I'm a Aries woman born 4/18 and I have found that most of my fiery edgy relationships came from dating Aries and Scorpio men. The Aries men that I dated and seem to attract are the March Aries, the chemistry, intimacy, and SEX was all there and off the chain. The problem I had with my Aries men were it was like being with myself. All the stubbornness, selfish attitudes, outspoken, and very FLIRTY tendencies(mine being more subtle of course). We constantly bumped heads after the "honeymoon" phase was over. I think because we are both fire signs the initial contact is so passionate, raw and engulfing, but as time progresses the fire sizzles out. The one thing about the Aries/Aries hook ups are that we both respected each other's space, I didn't have to worry about being smoldered or suffocated by the relationship. Now with my Scorpio men can say AWEMAZING!!!! The conversations, the intense love making, the CHEMISTRY.....I think I'm gonna need a moment,lol Now there's an everlasting pleasure you can reference back to. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE Scorpio MEN!!!!
I'm an Aries woman in love and in an "its complicated" relationship with an Aries man. We dated for almost 2 years in college and recently broke up, which he initiated. Besides the combination of our age, early 20s, being in college and him being a college athlete, our personalities ALWAYS clash. He wants to lead the relationship without any qualms from me, which as an Aries women you KNOW is virtually IMPOSSIBLE. But our love is undeniable, insatiable and extremely passionate. Nevertheless, his immaturity is a problem, he is a self proclaimed "ladies man", he loves the attention and must be the best looking, best dressed man wherever he goes. let's just say, this is not a recipe for faithfulness. Faithfulness is a constant struggle for the Aries man, no matter how much they love you, which is a lot. HE comes first and he loves the attention more. I am stuck with a man who I know loves me, but maybe our natural Aries personalities just don't match right now.
I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend is 28. He is also Aries. We've been together for nearly 2 months. The first time was great, I thought he was my soul mate, a mature guy with such a good job and very responsibility. After 2 months and many things have been happened, I realized that he loves his job so much and hate chatting with me when I have a problem. So that I feel so tired, until now, although there isn't anything wrong between us but not thing is interest at all. Sometime I think of breaking up with him but i'm not sure if it is right or not
I am an Aries female and dated an Aries man for 3 years. We started hot and heavy like the rest of these posts and it eventually turned into the perfect relationship for me... until I found out he had an anger streak. I myself have a temper too, but his temper was out of control. I didn't realize it then, but the entire time we dated, he was emotionally abusive to me. I didn't see the signs until he started becoming physically abusive to me. I called the police multiple times, he spit in my face, and broke my things. I finally broke away from him 2 months ago and it has been the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. He was the perfect man with an unforgivable flaw. I believe the ONLY reason I was able to leave him is because I'm an Aries woman. It took me a while, but just like everyone else says here, once you've hurt an Aries, she will turn cold on you forever. I hope I find another Aries man, but next time, someone who's not such a sociopath. Good luck in lo ve everyone.
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