Confused by Virgo man who just wants to be friends

I have been crazy about this Virgo man for two years now. He started off coming on so strong. it was wonderful. he said we should be friends and if we find we are compatible enough, we make it official. for the past six months, I have fallen so deeply for him. I go out with other guys but non is like him. I am constantly thinking about him. I asked him one time if he thinks I am someone he would want more than just friends from, he did not say anything. now I am terribly confused. I love him like I have loved no other. please help me guys..

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Confused by Virgo man....who just wants to be friends
by: Anonymous

Lady!!! Virgo man already answer in his mind that he wants you as friend or more than friend. You can't push him just take it easy; just keep communicate with him in the right way; don't lost touch. If you read Zodiac personality trait; all signs are not the same. you know Virgo fall in love very slow after he has done his evaluation on someone he suppose to fall in love...If you are the lucky one you will get him. Virgo is naturally has a logic mind. Also, you are right, Virgo is different from other signs. once, you get him, you never forget him. I speak as I knew him or because I'm a Virgo lady. Good luck with Virgo man.

same situation
by: Anonymous

i would like to know what has happened so far after your post. i am in the same situation. the first time i saw your post i wanderrd if i posted it myself. mine takes me out with his friends and to his family parties and everyone refers to me as his girlfriend yet he doesnt say anything to me. i am hurting so bad right now i decided to tell him how i feel about him. i heard a high school sweet heart broke his heart so many years ago. i do not know if that has to do with anything. its almost three years now. his parent treat me like a daughter and i love his family. would really like to know what to do. virgo's out there please help me out.

Three years Long enough
by: Anonymous

Virgo's family and friends refer you as his girlfriend or daughter. That is a good signal that his family and friend really like you and wanted you to connect with Virgo-the son. Yet, you haven't hear a word from Virgo whether he cares or interested in you; you have no clue from Virgo who you feel for. Please allow me to speak about your situation about Virgo. It's simple to notice if Virgo interested or in LOVE, he will constantly does the thing for you or someone and will express his word with someone who he is fully trusted to show that he likes you or someone. In your case, I think he is not ready to let you know if he is interest or not. Virgo is very slow and difficult when it comes for Love. He is not picky but very selective. Your Virgo is still calculating in his mind before he says a Yes or No!! Otherwise, he might experienced with a previous relationship or his heart still wounds that you may not know. Virgo doesn't want to hurt himself. He is wise and perfect. He will leap when he is ready. Use your communication with him to express your concern and how you feel about him. Your words are important, please express only safe words. Virgo will analyzes your words.
Remember, Virgo is a microscopic, so just let you know. But when he loves you, he will love you for real. The Love is hardly find and will be last forever. Okay. i'm myself Virgo and feel as he is. Wish you best of luck.

ar virgo men very selfish
by: Anonymous

one guy who is virgo proposed me and pretended that he loves me so much.this continued till now.he used to say that he cant live without me.he will marry me only.but in between he also said that he loves his parents only and will marry wherever they feel right.now he has suddenly stopped contacing me and says that his parents have seen some girl for him and now he will marry her.he didn't even talked to his parents about me.he introduced myself as his friend only.he dont want to continue relation with me.i love him so much and cant think of living without him.please suggest what to do

same situation
by: Anonymous

I sent him an email, telling him how i feel about him and how i feel we are both holding back on each other. i know he cares about me and i do care about him too but i want us to try and leave all reservations and how much i don't want to hide my feelings anymore.

i also told him how i don't want to end this single opportunity to life knowing i did not have some good time with the man i truly love because i was holding back my feelings from him. its been 24hrs and i have not heard from him. i guess he will need some time to think about it because i know he certainly has seen the message as his email is the first thing he goes into every morning.

he said you are the kind of girl guys want to marry!
by: Anonymous

Hey everyone,

I met this virgo guy online on net. We had a great understanding from the beginning. We also exchanged pics then. After seeing my pics, he said so many beautiful things to me, like I look like a dreamgirl, that I look like a girl guys want to marry and that he would see me now in person he would ask me for a date etc etc....
Then suddendly I didn´t hear from him anymore, so I sent him an e-mail, how he is doing and if he did forget about me with a wink smily.
He replied back, but now he talks like I am a stranger.... what does that all mean? Am I just a flirt for him? I even sent him another e-mail few days ago, saying that I like the man he is and want to get to know him better. but if he is not interested, it´s okay...
He just replied back that he is very busy now and will catch me soon. 4 days passed by, nothing! I am so mad at him, but somehow can´t forget him :(

Virgo man is so difficult
by: Anonymous

Hi!
I like a Virgo guy and he asked me all those questions like do you want a family later? how do you feel about cheating? stuff like this . And I asked him what he feels for me and he said he likes me. BUT he doesnt give much news at all... at the same time I showed him that I was not really stable and reliable in my life. But I make him laugh and I see in his eyes the sparkle when he looks at me. But we speak on skype (long distance) and he connects only once a week this drives me crazy because I wait everyday. The 1st time he was really mad and said he didnt want to see me anymore because he received some unwanted email. the next week he talked to me (after 1 week being worried i could not see him again)and seemed in a good mood. and last time he was cold also then i told him i miss u and he said how come u miss me we didnt do anything together!!!
AAAh he gets me confused but i dont want to give up on him do you think he likes me or i should give up?

Virgo's are,....
by: Melga

I have read all these comments,and I have gone thru some of the same. But listen,..I am an Aries,who has been in a over the phone relationship with a Virgo. It started out fine,and HE INITIATED ALL the PROMISES,and other lies. I was shocked because We went to school together and he never said a thing to me. Yet HE SAYS ,HE was INTERESTED for a long time. Okay and thing s got deep.I share what I felt. He said he felt it too. But when I start asking those tough questions,all of a sudden HE SAYS HEis DISAPPOINTED in me. Wow! Then man up and answer when I want an answer. And don't play games with me.Don't start something he cannot finish. Okay I let that slide,and now I am not even calling or texting,cause when I do,..He's with his son,or watching some game,or just too busy,well okay. I will do fine.He may have to think about a lot,but I don't want to be guessing what about.Then I get txt only if I text after long periods of time. I cannot do this anymore. All that I'll send for you, I like you,man,..really?Comments are welcomed!

very impo to know
by: Anonymous

hey all I am a virgo man and I know virgos are not easy to deal with at all we r very mysterious but heres a tip of advice if u r interested in a virgo man and u know hes interested then u have to take the first step and by making him feel that u want him or ur interested in him but dont be so obvious about it just be subtle about it if u feel uve pushed it too much then BACK OFF AS SOON AS U CAN then he will come back i promise % sure bc virgos analysis every single theing so when he realize why rnt u there and ur not acting the same why THATS WHEN THE ACTION BEGINGS bc he doesnt wont to loose u

This is Wht he told me
by: Anonymous

Met this guy on twitter. I ws interested in him instantly but somewhere I got a feeling that he's being very cold. I emailed him telling him that I'm really interested. He's in his early 40s. He wouldn't reply at first. Then he replies saying he's ok with just normal msgs or tweets. Nothing more. We've stopped following each other on twitter. Its been 8 days now. He refused to part even with his email Id. Should I just be forgetting him?

i am in the same situation
by: deanna p

I am a capricorn I have been datin a virgo male who i have known pretty much my whole life. i was bff s with his younger brother. well now im grown and we met there was a connection instantly with him.We had a mutual friend who was doin some he said she said mess .now he says that we need to be just friends after 3 months of kickin it. we both have said we love eachother. i got into what was a relationship with out any strings. he says that we cannot communicate together right because when I tell him something i always forget how or what I tell him . which is untrue because i have a very good memory.this makes me think that he is scared that I am the one. hes told me that he loves everything about me except that . When i think about it every capricorn has the same problem with these men do they ever come back I mean I still am still intouch with him he says we'll see what is gonna happen so i have been tryin to find a way to prove him wrong about what he says and catch him when he has made a mistake so he can see that it is not me who is the problem. my best friend says we are battling overs who is the smartes or has the best memory. if i could go back over all the things hes said im pretty sure all the capricorn women have experienced this

what can i do about it any suggestions

virgo guy like me or not?
by: Anonymous

Hey there, just wondering if someone can help me. this virgo guy talks to me online so much and adds me on fb, but in person he doesnt really talk to me and trys to avoid me. does he like me? should I approach him in person and ask? or will he just push me away?

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