Getting my Virgo man back

by Kayla

I'm a Capricorn woman with a Scorpio rising and Sagittarius moon... im still in love with my Virgo ex (he has a cancer moon) after like.. 8 months. he's dated a few other girls since me, but none have worked out yet... every time he has a break up, we seem to end up talking again, but when I tell him I miss him (NOT in a obsessed sounding way, lol) he says has not sure if he can trust me again, and that we are too different. we had something special, I almost feel like I wont ever feel like that again.... I just want it to be him that I end up with... idk how to make it happen... im persistent in a way that's not overbearing. I know a lot about the Virgo man... but truthfully, im stumped. PLEASE HELP ME :(


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Trust is an issue
by: Anonymous

I'm a cap. too and the man I want back is a virgo. He told me that he doesn't trust me and that I don't trust him. I told him we can try to re-build trust... Anyway, I was wondering how your situation was going... My virgo left 6 months ago and he's dating too, nothing serious though. We decided to not talk to each other, so he can see how life is without me. After 3 nights he called, but didn't leave a message or text. I called him the next day and apologized for missing his call. He sounded so excited to hear from me and said it wasn't a problem. I went to see him and we hung out, but nothing serious. Well, I haven't heard back from him yet... All I know is with Virgos you need to give them their space to think and I wasn't until now. I can only pray that he comes back... However, I'm scared that he won't... How are things in your front?

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love him
by: Anonymous

I am Virgo man, if he said he can no longer trust you the first thing that comes to mind is you cheated on him, if not you are not out yet, we need to be needed, try calling him and asking for help with something (be sure its something he can do if he can't he will get depressed) then don't mess around tell him you want him and/or need him, he may not show it but he is weighing it in his head, then you have got a 50/50 chance as apposed to none, you can build on that.

I agree
by: Ronnie

I'm a virgo man, with a capricorn women right now. And there is a trust issue at hand. she seems to love me but yet, she still talks to a lot of other guys, giving out her number and says they are just friends. sometimes she makes me wonder. She is everything i need and I give her my all. I'm very loyal, but doing stuff like that makes me unsure at times. And to me that i a form of cheating. If you want to keep us, loyality is a big issue with us. You need to make us your eveything, make your friends second in your life to you virgo man, show us that we are really important to your and that you really need us, and for that your will be treate like a queen that your are to us in your eyes. To us you are perfect, but if we don't fell wanted and loved by you then will leave to find that girl that will give us with what we are desperately searching for.

To correct my article above
by: Ronnie

I have discussed this issue with my girl, and I found out that this is just something she like to do for fun. My initial reaction to this, was she was doing this because, I wasn't good enough for her or she wasn't happy with me. But this is not the case at all, she just gets a kick out of this. She doesn't hand out her number or nothing like that, she is just having a little fun and I can except that, for I know her true nature, and totally trust her now.

And I know that my girl would never cheat on me unless she broke up with me first, which is very important to me because, I'm a loyal guy. And that would show me respect if she told me first before that would come to pass.

Therefore after discussing this issue with her I have banished all my forms of jealousy. I'm very happy now and feel a lot more secure with her.

She thinks jealousy is not sexy, and I totally agree. Think about it people. If you are to insecure with your other half, then they will feel that you don't trust them. And that will go back to the trust issue, so it just becomes a repeated cycle.

So learn to trust each other in every way or form, that is the utmost importance.

So you see, it is very important to communicate with your significant other to clear things up like this, to assure that you have each others trust.

Trust if a very important factor in a relationship that can either make it or break it.

The more you understand one another, the better your results as a happy couple will be.

by: Anonymous

It's so crazy how these comments are so similar to what is going on with me.

I was dating a Virgo man for ten months and I can honestly say I did a lot for him. His license got suspended so I would drive him everywhere. I would pick him up and take him to work and pick him up again and take him home. I trusted him completely even though the first time we met he failed to mention he had a girlfriend. I didn't talk to him for 2 months and then when we did (and he was single now) we hit it off. He has said a lot of awful things to me and I was always able to forgive him. Then as soon as things got better, we broke up. I mean we did argue a lot, but I never thought it was SO BAD as to break us up. He said he doesn't want to be with me and is unsure of how he feels. I just don't understand...I don't know what I did wrong. Was it the fighting?

-Thanks for taking time to read.

get my virgo man back.
by: im Veronica

Im an aries im very independant
I want my virgo man back n im pregnant but
He doesnt trust me help plse.

i totally feel you ,im a cancer female...
by: Anonymous

I also fell in love with a Virgo guy,and I helped him out a lot ,I gave him money because he didn't have enough to pay rent n I bought his medication and took him places . He greatly appreciated me and we would hangout three times a week ,for fun we didn't go out ,we would stay at his house n cuddle n watch movies or sit outside n talk or cruise around,enjoyed his company he made me feel so secure ,relationship wise ,and gave me an amazing feeling inside . But after a month he told me "can we hangout right now?" N it was two in the morning and I was sleepy so I said no and then he went off on me and said "I don't want to see you :.." and I got sad and I said what why not,what did I do wrong?' N he said " I don't want to bring you down,but I need space ,I have a lot of shit to deal with and fix ." He always told me that he needs a job n stuff so I understood him. N I just told him how I felt about him and he said he felt the same but tha. He just needs space. It breaks my heart cuz Idk if he's gonna come back or not n he always accused me of lying to him ,I'm a very honest person ,it made me mad n sad when he would but other than that he's amazing n I need him back

I want my virgo man back
by: Sae' nyka

Ok! I was in a distance relationship with a sagittarius guy and there was a virgo man that was just telling me to be with him i was hesitant towards him because i did not want to get my heart played around so i gave the virgo guy a chance omg! he was the best bf i ever had things statred out so lovely and serious like we just fell inlove like we were sould mates. The thing is he's in the army i could not do the distance relationship i ended cheating on him i told him i did and i'm really sorry i did and i really love him he said he cant trust me but we still talk he says he has love for me whatever that means i only ended up cheating becuase of the distance relationship but i love him he just recently got a gf he said he cant trust women because of what i did him but i want him back in my life i believe we are meant to be he has a gf loools but he still talks to me last nite he just showed up at my home thought that was cute. how to win him back help? Imagine this virgo has been eyeing me from a young age when we got together he end up telling me he always wanted me.

I miss my Virgo...
by: Anonymous

I fell in Love with my Virgo two years ago. He is really busy and I didn't see him for 5 months. He started cancelling on me at the last minute all the time so I broke up. He asked me not to so I said ok. Another month went by so I assumed he wasn't interested so I broke it off again. He said if I ever needed anything not to hesitate to ask, What does that mean? I had major regrets because I love him. We still email but he hardly says anything. Says he isn't good at messaging. I recently sent him an email asking if we are still friends and he said Yes, please don't worry. I feel like I am on the back burner and he has someone else. I decided not to message him anymore and I am hoping he will decide we make sense and come back. I hope I am right. I never loved a man more than I love him. I just got frustrated when he didn't have time for me anymore.

Libra in love with a virgo
by: Anonymous

Hello I'm dating a Virgo September 15 I'm a Libra October 20 we've been dating for almost 3years We had a lot of drama but we got past it. I've been pregnant by him fought him damaged his clothes and called woman he text/ talk to. But I've always paid for anything I've done and took full ownership for everything. He was having a fight party and didn't want to invite me I was thinking because he had invited other women but we were just now getting back on good terms I told him if he didn't invite me I didn't want to talk to him anymore because if he cares for me so much why does he try to keep me away from major events. He said because your so extra at times and he doesn't want that awkward feeling, between his family and I . I was getting upset He started acting a ass and kept talking about if I left him he wouldn't care nor would he trip so I changed my number While having a conversation with him about rather he wanted to talk to me or not. He ended up inviting me and the party turned out great, he said he like how I was changing and how we were getting along none of the females he invited showed up or I'm just assuming he told them not to come because I came. For the most part I've been working on my anger and I've been changing my ways Also walking away from any fight he tries to engage in . But recently he took me there. For his birthday I hired chef to cook for us and tried to make his bday special But as the chef was cooking for us he was texting a women asking if she was gonna give him birthday sex, I didn't trip I continue making sure he had a great bday. The next day he got drunk and we were having a conversation about men nd how (single) men and have many women they keep around when I asked him how many did he have and where did I fit in he had he avoided the question just to say he don't have any other women it's just me. He finished drinking and wanted to use my car to go to the casino So he went in my purse and found a condom and went nuts I still didn't fight back I just cried after being annoyed with his name calling and crazy ways When he calmed down I told him where it came from He expressed how it made him feel and how he understand where I come from now. The next day I called the women he texted to see if they were using protection because I was having surgery the following day. He called me mad that I did that and said I was acting insecure and I'm not his girl yet, he also said that I make him feel if he does commitment I'm gonna always call his friends to see if they are really friends . I said whatever and left it alone. The. Next day I had surgery and he didn't call or. CHeck to see if I was fine so I called him, we were arguing about me calling the girl and me wanting him to feel sorry for being in pain, I got upset and said that's why I slept with some men in your bed while you were out doing you! He was pissed! Ignored my calls / texts and everything The next day he changed his number on me. When I went to get my stuff from him he called the police on me Assuming I was gonna be acting crazy because he wasn't trying to talk but I didn't I just left He didn't or won't say why he stop talking to me and I don't know what to do I contacted all friends and things to see rather I should pursue him or leave it alone. I don't know what to believe anymore. I don't know if he cares or he's just playing me and this other women he really wants and he's mad I contacted her or he just doesn't know about me because of everything we've been threw. I have his back I'm always there for him He always has me up under him all the time I'm just lost and I want him back. Even tho it's only been 4days. I think he's gone for real this time. What should I do

im in shit with a virgo man
by: Anonymous

its been 3 years when this virgo man befriend me and did almost every thing a loving partner can do. at first i wasnt sure of my feelings until running on the fourth year when im 70% decided to formalize our relationship and have a baby from him thou i didnt tell him that. He suddenly reverse his nature. he became distant, quiet, irritated, lacked interest of almost all the things we enjoyed doing together. It really affected me knowing im now beginning to feel the true love and caring for him but he seem so very far now that i cannot talk to him. the almost every hour calls he make before became less and less to zero. for 3 months now he went out of our place. first saying he needs some space alone then eventually he dosent love me anymore, i kept the crying with me, after two weeks he sees me at my office saying to just give him a chance to sooth out his life then he will come back to me. and after that 3 weeks had gone we did not even speak a single word he dindt call me even once. while i maintained my pride distance. i feel the eagerness to call him im near to depression i cried a lot but i managed to keep silent. hes a virgo i am an aries now i can feel and say im still inlove with him but i dont want to chase can he be so tough 4 years he just threw it away. any advice? ill appreciate it very much if somebody could talk to me.

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