How do i get a Taurus man interested in me again?

by Nina
(NH)

I've been seeing this Taurus man since July he pursued me and admitted to me he had strong feelings for me and that he really loves me. And for me to admit all the sexual chemistry between us. He kissed me I was shocked I was married at the time but the marriage was on the blitz and he knew this. We have been friends for over 32 years. My husband and I separated and the Taurus man was calling me all the time. we did get together and we were seeing each other every week he was calling me i was calling him and we started dating. everything was going well. One night in November he called me when i got home from going out with my friends to make sure I got home ok. I ended up going to his house and we had relations it was great we were hugging each other holding each other he told me he love me but he cant commit right now the sex is great. we please each other tremendously.

He started backing off not calling me as much I saw him thanksgiving made his favorite dessert and bought him his favorite beer and a card. HE told me he really cares about me and he really loves me but we need to take it slow.and he cant commit right now and I asked him if he would ever commit and he said yes just not now he hugged me real tight kissed me a lot and wouldn't let me go he said he would call and he didn't. I did call him after a week and he said he has too much on his plate and that he feels i want a commitment and he doesn't want it.

What should I do? I did everything he wanted me to do. I backed off gave him his space. I'm confused. I love him so much.

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Update
by: Anonymous

I wrote this comment.I sent him a Christmas card letting him know how much I cared That I loved him and that he was the only one I wanted to be with and I know he doesn't want a commitment and I was fine with that. So I backed off. I saw my Taurus Man on Christmas Eve.We spent a few hours together it was nice. for Christmas I bought him tickets to a Hockey game . Because he alway wanted to go to one. I told him they were his tickets and he could take whoever he wanted. He said I want to take you. It's something we can do together. I was happy he asked me. we saw each other again on 01/08/11 and He couldn't stop hugging me, holding me, kissing me and he Talked I listened. We are going to the hockey game on 01/22/11. I offered to make him dinner before we go out and he said sounds good but I'm leaving it up to him. Nina

Wait I say, wait!
by: Anonymous

I have been in love with a Taurus man for the majority...no wait....my entire adult life. I fell in love with him when I wsa 20 and I am now 42. I can only give you my experience and maybe then, you can think of what to do. When we were together, 20 years ago, my ex did the same thing. We were a couple, we broke up because he wasn't sure about what he wanted. I knew he loved me, but in our case, with us being so young, I think he just didn't want a heavy commitment. He broke up with me, a college senior a few weeks before my graduation, for a sophomore who was in college in another city (see my point). We kept going and coming, seeing each other and not seeing each other...I couldn't do it, so I met my now husband, married and moved away. I moved back five years ago, my ex ran into a friend of mine and told her he was "lookig" for me. he is married now, and has a child. I heard from a relaiable source that he is not happy. My marriage has its challenges too so I am sort of glad we do not keep in constant contact. I see him ALL OF THE TIME now. He works near my job. I told him that he was special to me and that he would always be special to me. Am I proud that I told him we could get together (intimately) any time he wanted (voicemail)...no, but it was how I felt and he doesn't seem put off by it. I say all of this to say that if you truly love him (Taurus' are irresistable) then you need to wait. I didn't and I regret it every day of my life. Save my two children, I would have waited on him until pigs started to fly.
If he is not ready, he will not be ready until HE is ready. You have to make up your mind if you want to wait in that day.You also don't want to push him away.

thanks for the advice
by: Anonymous

Thank you for the advice. I have decided to wait for him.Because he is worth the it and I love him so much. I don't want to be with anyone else. I like the fact that we are taking it slow.

Thanks Nina

back again
by: Anonymous

My Taurus man and I had a misunderstanding back on aug 9, 2011. I called him to let him know i had a rough couple of weeks and i really needed someone to talk to. So if he didnt mind I would stop by his house to talk. And to call me if he didn't want me to come by. He didn't call so I assumed that it was ok to come by. Thought about it and called him back and said no I m not going to come by because you are probably working and cant get to the phone. and that is why you haven't I said I dont want to cause any friction. I said im am going to the gym instead and So I went to the gym worked out went to shaws decided to go back roads home thinking he would call me. So I pulled over to the school by his house and called him to Make sure he was ok left a msg as i was leaving a message I saw his truck go by so I followed him to his house. Not thinking anything of it. He got out of his truck said I told you I ve been working.I said can i talk to you for a minute he said ok. He asked was that your truck at the school I said yes I told him I was calling him .to see if everything was ok he went off on my saying i feel like im being stalked i said no he would let me get a word in edgewise he said your freaking me out here your freaking me out I cant talk to you right now i'm really upset. I said are you kicking me to the curb he said no. i cant talk to you right now I will call you. I called and left a msg the same night. I said im not stalking you i am telling you the truth i went to the gym then went to shaws decided to go back roads which i do always i decided to call you and see how you were doing that is why i pulled over to the school parking lot. I saw you and i didnt think you would mind me saying hi but i guess i was wrong I sent him a letter and a card telling him i was sorry about the misunderstanding how much i cared for him and loved him. a wk before that I went to his house told he said he misses me and he loved me he has just been busy talk to him about 15 minutes gave him food for his lunch walked me to my car

Moody
by: Anonymous

Honey, Taurus men are very moody and they misunderstand a lot. But you are right to give him his sapce. Their bulls they need room to graze.

Update
by: Anonymous

Update. My Taurus man Finally called me. We talked about everything that was going on. he was still upset with me and he let me know he was. I listened to everything he said I told him again I was sorry and how much I loved him and wanted to be with him and only him. He said he needed some time to think about things.I said ok he said we will talk in a month. I said ok. He called me almost exactly a month like he said. He told me how much he missed me and how much he has been thinking of me.I told him how much I missed him and how much Ive been thinking about him also. He is taking me out for my birthday in a couple of weeks. I told him if he wanted to see me before that To call me.I told him its up to him. He said ok.

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