Leo woman dating a Scorpio man

by Friday
(San Francisco)

I'm a Leo woman and have been dating a Scorpio man for the past 2.5 years. It's been the hardest struggle of my life! I believe this is primarily because he does not know how to profess and express his love for me. We have a great time together for the most part, and the sex is wonderful. However, he can be very quiet and to himself which makes me feel uneasy and unloved.

There's almost a mystery there that cannot be solved. It makes me think that he's just not that into me or even that he's interested in another woman. As a Leo woman, I believe I have it all - everything a man could ever want. I'm always catering to him, trying to ensure that he's comfortable. When he's working late I bring dinner to his office. I never come to his home empty handed. I nurture him almost as if he's my own child. I'm loyal, respect him, and greatly admire him. I'm always telling him how smart and wonderful he is. But there's this side of him that always makes me think that I'm making the wrong decision. I hate it!

Just recently I went off on him by questioning his manhood and telling him that he wasn't "man enough" for me. That was a week ago. I haven't heard from him since. His response was zero. He had nothing to say. Has returned any of my calls or text messages. These Scorpio men are very odd birds. I honestly don't know if I'll ever hear from him again : (

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WOW!!
by: Pure Scorpio Male

Just recently I went off on him by questioning his manhood and telling him that he wasn't "man enough" for me.

I would have to say that you are finished or should I say he is finished with you.
Love you yes he prob did.
But this statement just finished off your little scopion with the heal of your boot

Not Cool to ?? Manhood
by: One Native Scorpio

That was the absolute worst thing to say. I know exactly what that man is thinking. I have always been sensitive to my girls' feelings to the point that it takes longer to word thoughts in a conversation because I don't want anything I say to hurt her, offend her, or tempt her to wonder if I'm anything but devoted to anything she needs to become the happiest, most fulfilled & contented she has ever been, and ever likely to be. She (whoever she may be in the moment) LOVES this about me...until an insult or offensive word brings forth a pitiable response. Then, most likely because she feels guilty for generating the look on my face, she resents me. And the worst thing she can say in that moment is that I'm a baby. I HATE that...lol. I feel that if the sensitivity is loved and appreciated when she wants it, she should respect that it exists in those other scenarios which she may be irritated by it. If I am chastised for being "too sensitive" even once, then the sensitivity goes bye-bye. And the next time she is struggling and needing my soft, sturdy shoulder to cry on, she finds it is gift-wrapped in sand paper. If I'm invested in her I will remove the abrasiveness eventually but everyone has to take the good with the bad. I can't speak for every scorpio but I know I don't have a toggle switch for those native elements. I have a kill switch and if she loves me she will respect me enough not to throw it. Some men may be able to shrug off that insult, but scorpios work too hard being emotionally available to our women to be slapped in the face with it when it doesn't suit them. To me and probably a lot of scorpios, women who take that road seem scizophrenic. You adored me for it yesterday but resent me for it today. Not cool.

I think you blew it
by: Anonymous

I am a Leo woman. and I would never ever dream of saying that to any man let alone my Scorpio man..
You are done like a dinner my friend..."Ouch"!!!!

my scorpio man
by: lioness

hi.
im a leo woman. ive been dating, and now engaged to a scorpio man. we've been together for about two years now and we have a beautiful son.

but my scorpio man just doesnt want to open up to me no matter how hard i try. our relationship has started to fall apart recently...he treats me like im invissible, and when i try to talk to him about whats bothering me, he just basically ignores me! he doesnt seem to notice how much he is hurting me! and he lies to me alot...i feel like im about to break into pieces!!!

please help!!!

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