Libra man and Aries woman

Visitor experiences and questions on Libra man Aries woman relationships

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I am an Aries woman and my husband is a Libra. We've been together 15 years now , WOW , its been tough . He is too slow, too cold and too lazy for me, and very indecisive even in the smallest issues like should he have a beef burger or a chicken burger? He can't decide!

I'm very outgoing , fun loving and he is not . I like to go out every day he wouldn't mind staying home for a month . the romance is the best part, he is very romantic and I love that. the big issue is that he loves women and I'm very jealous

I am an Aries woman, and I've dated many Libra men. They have been extremely selfish, lazy, thoughtless and non-committal. I am so tired of meeting them; what gives?

My Libra man lied about having a girlfriend until I was in love with him. I broke it off, but I see him at least 3 times a week...

I'm an Aries women, my husband is a Libra. We are married for 15 years. We had so many fights, we even got divorce once then we got back together again, the truth is we love each other so much but we can't live together. He is lazy, very selfish, indecisive and a liar, he lies about everything. Sex is great but that's about it. Our biggest issue now is that he loves beautiful women and he flirts A LOT!! And it's TOTALLY NOT acceptable to me.

To the poster above. Ugh. Almost identical situation here. Been together on and off for over 10 years, divorced and back together.

The sex is incredible, but everything else sucks. We both know it won't work, but somehow end up back together every time one of us leaves.

Some friends are jealous and some feel sorry for me. lol....

I am a Aries women , I have been dating a Libra man off and on for 3yrs now he asked me to marry him several times , but the problem is we can not get along , he always states that he is the man, I know that but he does not seem to believe that around me , he complains all the times always nagging he also drinks and is a flirty but claims he is not, he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend while I was staying with him, she told me when we finally came face to face all he talked about was me she said and she told me she called me a bitch because she got tied of him coming over her house telling her about what I have done now, but he know what he was doing he could have found a lots of people to talk too , he wanted her to get jealous to get what he wanted from her which was money like in the past she knew about me but I did not he kept that hidden he admitted he needed someone to talk to , but her ain't that a trip. I admit I am jealous but I did not him see it, he is always telling about who likes him to see my reaction , but I don't let him see nothing , when he drinks he have talked to me so bad until now I miss him we just broke up again , we had just got back together three month ago before that we had just started talking again three weeks ago I see childish shit here he tell me I am selfish because I want let him move in after talking to me like a dog. help!!!!

WOW! I'm kinda dating a Libra man. He is seems to be very balanced and business minded! You know WE Aries LOVE THAT! My ex husband is a Leo and we got along GREAT! Perfect match! I LOVE BEING AN Aries AND I think because we are Lambs people try to take advantage and WE'RE not having it!

well!! all the boxes above, "I agree".. the thing that works with me and him, a Libran is the fact that the 'sex' is great- he is the sensual one.

The part that he is lazy works well for me cuz when I want to do things on my own he doesn't even bother being around ..and its ok with me cuz I get to go places without him and maybe even with my Ex but the problem starts when we are together and then he starts being lazy!! selfish !! and indecisive.....never able to take control of the situation.... never will say Ok this is what we are doing , this is where we will go, everything thing is 'its ok'

well but he still likes being the man of the house, unsaid respect is what he wants, and I don't give respect when you are not due!! As much as he is logical and intelligent he can be downright rude when he wants to ... he guards his EGO and when hurt will use his cocky tongue and be a bitch lol!!

but the good side of it is, sometimes u need balance in life esp when you are the crazy one... he is logical and is calm..... and when calm and nice he gives you good massage

I'm an Aries women and my guy is a Libra men. Sometimes I'm so confused about him. At times he seems to be sooo loyal like he'll send me love message each and every day and talk to me on the phone everyday. But at the same time he would flirt with other girls (like treating them super nicely and giving in to them), but he wasn't like that at all with guys! when I told him I wasn't happy and confessed that I hated his flirtiness but he said he wasn't flirting!! I just don't understand how Libra men defines the word 'flirting'.

Wow from all above post it seems that Libra and Aries are hard to get along. Well this is disappointing since I like a Libra guy myself. By reading all this has kind of made me negative :(. But being an Aries female don't u agree that we mostly get attracted to those guys who knows how to keep us on our toes, we Aries long for excitement I think Libra guys are good at it. it's in our nature that we go too fast and where as Libra prefer to slow down a bit .hmmmm do u guys agree with me :s

I suspect people in unhappy relationships are more likely to post complaints than ones in awesome relationships are likely to post good comments. Having said that I've seen a few message boards here which are just huge worshipping sessions. Makes you kinda jealous lol. I love my Aries woman, but all things considered I'd say I'm fairly neutral on recommending vs. not recommending the relationship. Crap lol that's what some of the posts above have been complaining about isn't it? Doh! Haha

I was in love with a Libra man until he cheated on me with an Aries. I felt bad, but yes, our relationship was rocky because he could never make up his mind on anything. Being a cap and seeing that made me very depressed. But after the cheating scenario I got really depressed. He ended up staying with the Aries. In a funny way, after him I ended up meeting the real man of my life. I feel now every moment is heaven. And I feel sorry for the Aries woman who is staying with that Libra. they keeping breaking up and arguing and what not! He cheated on her and then she cheated on him. Its crazy for them. It is unfortunate for her that now she constantly has to hear what a good girlfriend I was to him. He still has feelings for me. Chased me a bit. But the diamond I have in my life is incomparable and I would die but never leave him.

Aries women, when it comes to choosing a mate go for someone who has it all. Libra men are way too below average. You will understand it only if you open your eyes and see the real kings of other signs waiting for you.

Well...I can definitely say that being in a "relationship" with a Libra man has it's good and it's bad....I've been seeing a Libra man for almost a year...not committed but very devoted to each other....yes...they are very flirty and at times it's hard to handle...but the weird part of it is he wants me around him all the time...even when he may be seeing another female....I will go out with him and the girl...him showing both of us the attention we crave...but he goes home with me....the weird part is I don't mind....I have a very high self how can I be okay with his flirting?....he provides for me like I need a man...and we are really good friends....??????

all of these stories sound so similar to mine. I am an Aries woman and have been married to an Libra man for 3 years. we are now currently separated, thank god! it was a dramatic relationship. it was all good in the beginning but then the ugly evil side came out. lazy no ambition and ouch mean with his words.. for some reason we just cant get along, but why do I miss him?

Wow, this is sure surprising! I am an Aries woman and I seek out Libra men. I get along with them fabulously and find them hilarious, classy, very balanced, and extremely intelligent. I had a Libra boss once, and he was the best boss I ever had. What I've read here is so polar opposite to what I've experienced. I'm not discounting the posts at all, I just have had different experiences. What attracts me most to Libra men is that I find them anything but lazy (I trait I despise). My last boyfriend (four months) was a Libra ... the challenge was that I was not physically attracted to him (no chemistry), yet, I loved being around him. Sure, we had to end it because he wanted more than I did out of the relationship. Now, I am seeing another Libra, eight years older than me, and he, too, is extremely ambitious (investment banker), is hilarious, very refined and classy, a real man. Oh, did I mention that they are fantastic in the sack? All I can say to other aries women is "don't give up".

My Libra man always pushes me around and lies about many things. He is charming to me in the earlier marriage but his charm faded away as he becomes a married man maybe because he thought he got everything he wanted from me. He is delightfully sensitive but can be very stubborn. We fought so many times, ending up hurting ourselves but he'd never wanna divorce me. I don't know whether that makes a good marriage or not.

Aries female and Libra man are very compatible. They are both Ying and Yang, and opposites do attract. My Libra Man is extremely caring, loyal, considerate and attentative. We are both very attractive people, and we bring out the best in each other. He is very calm, and I can be crazy, but it balances out. Which needs to be the case. I do not think you can base everything just on star sign alone, it also depends on other factors of such as time of birth, sun rising etc. When Aries women and Libra men generally meet, it is always like an electronic spark..... do not be deterred by the Libra Men, they know how to flirt, but they know who they love !

I have recently started liking a Libra. The first time that we met (we have a few mutual friends) I ended up snapping on him because of a smart remark that he made. I am not sure if he is interested in friendship or romance because we have only ever hung out in a group consisting of me, him, and my best friend. I can't tell who he likes or if he is really interested in either of us. We communicate via text every other day but honestly he seems like the type that would have a lot of female friends. I am going to stay close and see if he makes a move...

After reading all of those posts, I am now absolutely completely terrified. I just started dating a Libra man. We have an electric connection. Great kisser. Actually wants to take the time to make out. However, not to say there hasn't been times that something has been said or done by him where I don't go hmmm... was that just a red flag? He was married before. Haven't had to nerve yet to ask how or why it ended. So, far he's very sweet, funny, artistic, scholarly, works a lot. All the things that I've read about the Libra Man, like the ones that are on this site paint a prettier picture than those stories above, sorry ladies. Time to find out his birth time and place so I can get the real run down. Wish me luck!!!

Wow reading all those post makes me sad. I am a Aries women an my Libra man treats me like the queen I am an spoils me cause he knows I deserve it. These two signs are very compatible I feel as if there our soul mates, even though there lazy an indecisive, for a Aries women we need that cause we love to be in control an love to cater to our men. Another thing they may be flirts but so are we an you cannot say this is not so cause we are outgoing and we need our space, we always have too get our way because we need our attention.=) so there for there is hope take control in the relationship ladies the Libra man will love you and start act3ibg right when you show him you don't need him he needs you lol

I have been seeing a Libra man since March. It can be so easy and electric. We both can't stop talking when we are together. We laugh together, we tell each other stories, it's just fun. And yes the sex is amazing. But I can't deal with the disappearing and indecisiveness. He sometimes loves me to death then disappears for a week. He wants me as a friend but wants me as more at the same time without committing. He hates fighting or disagreeing, and ignores problems. He runs from problems, but loves to start fights. I wish it would work but I have given up. It's just hard to get rid of him once I start to ignore him, because he becomes very sweet and cute and charms you all over again. Love/Hate

As an Aries woman who has been with her Libra man for almost 2 years now, I have to say, that there are times when I hate him, and there are times that I LOVE him..! We're like magnets, sometimes we get pulled closer and sometimes we can't get close, like those magnets that wont stick together, you know, you try to push them together, but they just wont stick.. But I would say that it is a good relationship because we Aries woman like the drama, the excitement and that its always changing.. I have also tried many times to end the relationship, but it's like magnets, I just cant let him go, even if I do hate him at times.. :) The biggest problem we have, is that the communication isn't great.. Sometimes its like he speaks Russian an I Chinese.. But we/I am working on it, and it has improved so I am hopeful :) We Aries woman also like a challenge, and what greater challenge than a Libra man? ;) I feel great with him, I feel like I am the one woman who can control him.. t hat he listens to.. that he will change for.. and that's a great feeling!

I am surprised, everything that you have mentioned is what I have experienced with my Libra man, especially the flirting issue and it hurts me so badly. he spend most of his time with friends that sucks!He is sweet,classy and intelligent.

I am an Aries. Met this Libran guy when I was just in my teens.. Both of us were of same age . He was 7 months younger to me. We had great time... Hugging, kissing whenever we got a chance. Was always crowded with my brothers that he hated but never told me. Unfortunately we never had sex. We broke coz of him flirting with my cousin.May be it was my perception seeing them together once.Had great fight. We separated. Met after 25 years. He is sattled I am sattled.Both staying in diffrent cities. But werealized that we both miss the presence of each other in our lives. We talk on phone, send texts ,exchange emails. We are like lovers whithout meeting physically. He wants to come down to meet me. We planned to stay together for 2-3 days. BUT damm , my morals don't allow me to do so. He keeps on telling me to say yes for this. Let us make up for the time lost. But I simply cant understand is it true love from his side or he just want me since we never did anything wron g during that time? I don't know I am confused. Should I go and stay with him for 2-3 days or should I say no . Mind you both of us are married and have Kids also. Tell me what to do. I want him desperately no doubt but is it right?

I have been married to a Libra man for 3 years. He is a wonderful man at times I think he lies in order to avoid conflict but he is more transparent now since I won't let him get away with it, He treats me like a queen, he is very loving. He doesn't flirt at least in front of me. We both like to have fun and go to the movies. It is true that he expects women to be perfect but we are working on that issue and he has improved. I want to be married to him forever. I think it depends on the person, they might have similar traits but not everyone is the same. I am an Aries woman who loves her Libra man.

You guys have me scared to death. I just me a Libra man and he is all that is discribed above, the laziness I can't speak on thst just yet. A part of me wants to pursue this then the other half of me wants to run for the border. LOl. I am undecided at the moment from what i've read, I would like a lasting relationship that is fullfilling in every aspect.

I am an Aries girl . and I though im in love with Libra . I thought he was perfect. but all he was perfect at , was faking his love. so I told him "ciao" :) but oh , he was a great kisser and I bet great ******* . since I totally got over him , even now I would for sure go for some "fun - nothing serious" affair. he's too fake for real love

Libra men and Aries Women!

Ok Hons.....let me lay it on the line about men and Libra men. Yes I have been involved with a Libra first I was not attracted to him...we have sex a few times and still I wasn?t that attracted to the man....he wasn?t the attractive thing in the world and he was a horrific kisser. I was involved with another man at that time that didn?t seem to care about me. And bet this Libra man. To make a long story short. I continued to have sex with the Libra man....and 6 months into the love thing, I was hooked! It was like a butcher drawn to a piece of meat. I wanted a relationship but he continued playing emotional games with me and we just became only Lovers. I stayed with him for 5yrs and walked way because he wouldn?t commit his heart to me. I am not sure what I wanted at that time, I was just in love. Once I fail in love he started making me feel bad, cracking colored jokes with his buddies in front of me. I was devasted! But still continued to see him. He would c ause problems and every time I got upset he would accuse me of being volatile. It was almost as if the man was wicked! And perhaps he is wicked! My heart ached so much in that relationship I thought it was going to come out of my chest

One day ladies, I picked up that book, why men love bitches. And I used some tactics in that book. I put distance between us and packed up every little gift he ever gave me in 5years, I waited until he missed me, made love to him, and never returned! This devastated him! I was ok for 3 years, after I begin to since his spirit of him calling me back....I would phone him and see if he wanted me back, he never found the right words to say, I felt his spirit for 7years and once a year I would phone him. One day ladies, I was taking a shower and felt and over whelming vibration coming from him....and I just started crying my eyes out. I cried because I realized that I still loved him and I also realized he was not good for me and I knew that I couldn?t go back.

So I begin emailing him and my intuition was correct. I see that he loved and miss me. He wanted to come visit him, he tried to visit me...he would make excuses; he would speak about marriage and children indirectly to me through email. Some of emails were telling him how much he hurt me, some told him that I still loved him; others told him that I hated him, others were encouraging.

Although I have not returned in 7 years, we are speaking to each other as if we never departed. I feel close to him but we are far apart from each other. There is allot to this story.....but I want bore you.

Although I am No longer in love with his man?....something keeps us drawn to each other. It is an unusual attraction. He's not in my heart but sometimes I feel that I cannot live without his communication. And I am sure sometimes he feels that he can?t live without me. I am Aries a woman, strong willed with direction! And my man here is a Libra man with revolving doors with everyone women he ever slept with. He is hard to deal with but very charming at times. He has two different personalities a serious side that makes you think that you have real man and a boyish character with a reticent ,collegiac like charm that draws you back in. The arguments between a Libra and and Aries Women is both want to be in charge of the game.

He?ll secretly would want to dominate you and control the situation and once you give him that control, he?ll play the game and want commit to you and will chase other women, take them to dinner, lunch and have sex with all his old girlfriends! This happens once he?s not ready for a life long commitment!

But once he?s ready?..he?ll become very insecure, he?ll test your love for him and see if you truly love him or Not. He?ll do all kinds of strange things pointing to the direction of a lifelong commitment leading to marriage. He would want to know if you are 100% available.

It is important to never allow a man to know that you?re waiting for him. Always let him know in your own way that you have options. Know man want a desperate woman, regardless if he is a Libra or Not!

Now I want you to understand about a Libra man....they can be faithful once they fall in love and once they know that you are the one.

They will buy you everything and will want to be with you every step of the way. Once you capture their heart, you have they?re heart the rest of your life. Make No mistake about that! Even if they are seeing other women?.if they love you, they will talk about you to the other women that they are sleeping with. Sex is just sex with a Libra man. And just because they are sleeping with another women, it doesn?t mean they she has his heart. The one with his heart is who win?s his every lasting love.

All you have to do is keep yourself grounded and on top of the game, and you will Win everything including that life commitment leading to marriage. Girls I want you to also understand, Libra?s aren?t the best lovers?..women are the ones that set the tone behind closed doors?and we make our men into good lovers. ?wink? so don?t sike yourself out to believing all Libra men are good lovers because they are NOT! What draws them to women is there charm and ability to understand women emotions. Libra have the ability to think like a women?.and they know that women like what they can?t have. So they play that game to keep your interest! Ladies, you have to flip that script!

If a man play to hard to get, than stop contacting him?. When he calls you ?treat him as if he?s your brother or buddy. If you need to cry, cry to your girlfriend or behind closed doors. Tears are ok once you have captured your man in a commitment leading to marriage.

Let me tell you what my Libra did today to me? 3 days ago, I emailed him and told happy birthday, I was nice and flirtatious?.and he responded back nice and flirtatious. I have been telling him for 7 years ?that I just wanted to be his friend. I haven?t made any provisions to see him?.we?ve just been going back and forth though email conversations. Today I?d emailed him and all of my emails were blocked! He had all of my emails blocked at his job. I was in state of shock! It was just so unusual. So I set up a different email address and ask him?.was he writing me out of his life and I told him that it was ok, if that?s how he feels.?..and he responded with ?NO WAY that he would want me out of his life? ?the fact that he responded told me that he was playing games and was testing my love for him. He wanted to see what I would do??!

This is what I mean, when a Libra man loves you?.they are too insecure and they play strange games.

Although this might of made him feel good today?.It is still in my best interest and the game is still in my favor because now I know his true feelings. The best thing to do in such a situation like such is too stop contacting him! Let him come to you and express his undying love.

Aries, you understand that we like challenges and we like to conquer! This is why you are drawn to a Libra man because of the challenge to conquer him....BUT once you get him...I kid you Not you will not want that Libra man once you have captured him.

So enjoy the chase and the drama that goes along with it. And if you are serious about this Libra man and you are sure that you want to spend your entire life with him: Understand a Libra man enjoys the chase from a woman?they want you to pursue them. Don?t be afraid to phone them but don?t call all the time. Act Rich, powerful, but still be feminine and needy of his love.

Here are things that you need to do to capture him.

?Always smell and look sexy

?Be confident

?Never be jealous of his flings act like you don?t care!

?Never allow him to disrespect you or crack under the belt jokes.

?Don?t let him get away with anything; bring everything to his attention, nicely without blowing up.

?Show a little intelligence but let him think that he?s more intelligent

?Say everything he wants to hear and Never give in to him

?Stay distance and he will always miss you

?Let him know that you need his love. Libra?s are Lovers and it?s important to them to know a women appreciates there love making.

?Talk sweet nothings to him but do nothing about it.

?When you see him?kiss him passionate and don?t go home with him, make up an excuse- this will make him crazy for you.

?VERY IMPORTANT, ask for a commitment before sex

?Give him glowing compliments about his love making and kisses

?Tell him you need him but don?t fall to his feet

?Give him the impression that every man wants you.

?If you are with him, and another man smile, smile back at him

?Play the same game that he plays but better.

?Be a lady with a gentleman?s charm

?Make him think that he?s the One.

I'm an Aries female and was in love & engaged to a Libra male. He was exciting, made me feel things I'd never felt before. Uh, but he wasn't a great kisser, have to say as he never spent much time on the kissing part. He was fabulous in bed, when he wanted to be... other wise he was very selfish in bed, very. He lied, he flirted, he made me wonder several times about his fidelity. Oh but he was a challenge, gotta give him that. He could really pour on the charm! And like the gal's input above, his spoken love... some how never had the ring of truth to it. Was it real or was it a means to an end... a well practiced art. And I know full well the difficulty you speak of when trying to break free from your tie to a Libra male. Don't fully understand it, but do know it is possible to hate them and love them at the same time. Wanting them and knowing full well you'd be smart to run! They need you so much, want you with them every moment, but you're not sure they are in control of their urges... What do they do when you aren't looking? But FUN! Oh they are so much fun... until your heart hurts so much even that isn't enough. You hang on to them until they break your heart and move on to the next gal who isn't savy to their ways... and the next girl...and the next.

Omg....where do I start. 1st let me say all is not bad. I've known my Libra man for 6 yrs plus and we were 2gether for about 4 months day and night for those months. We had growing up 2 do so we split and I hated him. We became friends when we saw each other and agin but I was in a serious relatioship @ the time. When we finially got back 2gether I had 2 get used 2 the new him. But since he had all the girls he was ready 4 the real thing. I was ready 4 an attentive loving loyal man. I'm still young and sexy and so is he so we'll never what will happenbut Its been a year now and he's my best friend and lover. Always 2gether and I pray it goes well. Were not perfect but if you want it enough you'll make it work.aries women and Libra men forever. But mine is taken so good luck and god bless

To the gal who started out with the comment: "Ok Huns".I'm hoping you wrote this recently, no dates on this site! I would like to ask you some more specific questions about your experience with your Libra man. I have a very new Libra experience who is already doing some strange things and wanted to ask you for your input. If you see this message perhaps we can find a way to communicate in a less public way such as email or something. If I see a response from you here, I'll try to think of how we can do that. Thanks

Aries women, help! i'm a Libra man who is attempting to date a young Aries lady. i'm older than her, and definitely not looking for quick fling. we work together and i've tried several times to send her messages through the internet, which she rejected vindictively. she flirts with me everyday in work, and is obviously in love with me, as I am very much attracted to her. I sent the internet messages so there wouldn't be an issue at work, but it appears she wants me to pursue her openly at work for everyone to see. what's your opinion ladies? thanks

Hmmmmm, very interesting. I have been with 2 Libra men in the past and now it looks like I might be beginning a new relationship with another one. Every time it seems to be different but I am definitely seeing a pattern with the "man of the house" attitude. It seems to me that it is very important for Libra men to come off like they have it all figured out (even if they really don't). In one of my relationships with a Libra I became very submissive and insecure. I always worried that I was not the 'woman of his dreams.' In hindsight I realize now that I was actually showing him the time of his life. He loved my fiery energy as long as he had time to recouperate afterwards ;) Sometimes I get the feeling that Libra men look at Aries women like we are the tasmanian devil or something--always spinning around in circles and saying crazy things and just generally being wild. Luckily my moon is in Pisces so I think I am a little more mellow than the typical Aries w oman. I am also on the Aries/Taurus cusp (Apr. 19th) I'm feel instinctively hesitant about this new Libra but I am going to give it a shot. he is very much a hard worker--he's a young physician who likes to stay in good shape and travel around the world. So far I like who he is as a person. He has a paternal side and seems to want to baby me, which I soak up like a sponge. I dunno..we'll see! Wish me luck! :-D

Libra men AND Aries WOMEN.!!!!

Well I Am an Aries Women. I've Been with my husband for almost 3 years been married since aug. of 2010. Anyways his younger than me. I met him when he was 17 turnin 18 the nxt month. and I jst turned 20. BUT I didn't know he was 17 he acted so mature looks it his just so SEXY as I say... VERY CHARming. in the beginning of our relationship he persude me.. He'll Do annything I wanted. a year later ....... >>( THIS IS WHEN IT GOT CRAZY ) >> EVERYIME WE FIGHT AND HIS WRONG HE WOULD FLIP IT AND MAKE IT SEEM LIKE ITS MY FAULT LOL. AND THEN HE WOULD BREAK UP WITH ME.... BUH WE WOULD GET BACK TOGETHER!!!!!!!....

He did this 8 times. and he would make cry and all that.

But I realizd he was playin a game to test me.

to see if I love him and if im not just gonna go and sleep with anybody coz im sad. So the 9th times we broke up.! I never cald him nor text him. 3weeks later he started sendin me songz. still no reply. Hed send angry text cute text jst anthing to get my attention.! don't get me wrong I wanted to reply. BUh I know I shouldnt.!! Finally I did He came to OUR house. I didn't hug or kis him.!! he was dyin jst fo me to touch him. 3 weeks lata we got married.!! =DD

Right now his is the living room PLAYIN XBOX! ugh! LOL. !!!

HIS VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY FAITHFULL AND LOYAL! now THAt were married. I cant even Lie before OMG. his was a Flirt!!!!.....

I'm an Aries woman and have been with my Libra man for six years. And now, we are currently engaged!! :) Not only is he my best friend, he is the love of my life. I admire his poise and diplomatic approach to life. The relationship has not always been easy. Our emotional temperaments are vastly different. It's like I am fire and he is ice. Yet the key is that we both try to learn from each other. In truth, nothing worth having in life comes easy. He is the most incredible man I have ever known. I think the key is to try start off as friends first and try to build some camaraderie - then go from there. :)

I think that the success or failure of the Aries / Libra dynamic also depends on the Sun - Moon aspect between the two people in love. You also have to consider the Rising signs of the two people in the relationship. There are other variables to consider besides the Sun Signs of two people when considering compatibility.

I'm an Aries woman and I LOVE Libra men...and they frustrate me the most. They are beyond charming, artsy, intelligent and the most sensual in bed. As a writer and someone who adores the finer things in life, I could never deny a Libra. It's always electricity at first sight; pure romance follows. Then they discover that I'm fiery and independent and the request is made to tone it down which leaves me feeling inadequate up against their graceful and charismatic tact. I'm so jealous of that particular trait they posess. I love hard and they romance hard and always end up breaking my heart and then years later proclaim their love for me. I've had two do this so far and I'm currently in a tug of war with a Libra male and I find him fascinating because he plays so hard to get but I see straight past that to the vulnerability and it is amusing to say the least...His kisses leave me speechless and light up the darkest places in my heart. The sex resembles something you wo uld only be able to witness in a movie and is replayable over and over again in your mind. His touch is electric. But he's critical of me and it hurts at times and Libra men will never admit an Aries's great qualities due to intimidation I think and then later they will admit what a great woman you are. By then it's too late. Aries women are sentimental; sure...but it's hard for us to be rejected and that pain would only linger in a reconciliation.

To all the woman out there complaining about their Liabra boyfriends or husbands, I disagree with all of you that complain. Two people have to work on a relationship regardless of what sign they are! It takes two to make it and two to break it and it is that simple. I adore my Libra man and worship the ground he walks on. He treats me with respect, loyalty, honesty and most of all showers me with his divine Love. All you women out there complaining, the grass is certainly not greener on the other side. If you are a complainer, then that is just what you are and what you practive "complaining" -

I love my Libra man and we will be together for many years to come and grow old with each other - so there!

Married to a Libra - As Oprah said, when a person shows you who they are, believe them. A lot of red flags appear during courtship (which is the best time this pair will see). Even if loves you, Will flirt with yr friends, Will go where he pleases as he pleases, will keep secrets, will hurt yr heart. And still tell you that you fascinate him. We feel out of love into codependency, hard to live with, hard to live without. Not the healthiest place to dwell.

how can I get my Libra man back in my life? even though I messed up the relationship? im an Aries will he come back and give me a second chance or do I wait and give him space please someone talk to me im in love with him so much I don't know what to do or say to him to get him to respond back to me!!!!

There are a lot of Aries posts on this forum.

As a Libran man, please allow me to speak from the other spectrum.

I have been married to an Aries woman for almost two years. There are goods and bads. I am fully aware there is a reputation of the Libran to be manupulative and to lie, but the basis is because they don't want to hurt anyone. So a lot is seen as a white lie, which causes more trouble. I've been caught up in the same situation - and now I know the truth is far better. I will definitely agree with being indecisive more often than not.

For me and my experiences, I have been told as a Libran that we're funny, exciting, intelligent, and we're more often positive and "everything is alright" in our outlook.

The Aries is a firecracker. Which is good because they'll step to bat for you and fight for their cause. I love this about my wife.

BUT, sometimes an Aries wants to stir things up and Libra just isn't in the mood. Too much fire in your personality burns bridges. My Aries wife would be the first to say something out of line or outlandish. And their pride/ego is just as important as they claim the libran to have.

The sex life is great but librans are born to love and seek love. This leads to flirting. But if you keep your libran's libido happy, he'll give you no reason NOT to trust him. I'm a tattoo artist and I see plenty of body parts. So, it takes a lot of trust.

Positives: yin and yang effect - Opposites attract. Great sex. Good conversations. Love for the creative. Romance.

Negatives: when it's bad - it's bad. Arguments are intense. Both need persistent trust and COMMUNICATION. Differences in libido - again, if you keep communication and can talk like adults and reach a middle'll work great.

I love my wife. I just have a love/hate for the Aries attitude. A little kindness and love goes a long way. You can be an asshole to the outside world, but once you're home... leave your Ram horns at the door.

I just recently started up a relationship with a Libra man...and here are my issues with it so far:

-he wanted to wait, and take things slow, and not rush into a relationship- now we are official, but we are still taking it slow, and that has held me back from being as passionate as I'm used to.

-I find him hard to read. He is not the most expresive person...where as I express myself every moment I feel something...I can't help it.

-because I find him hard to read I am always worried about how he is feeling about the relationship, but he assures me he's fine, but I expect fine to be him being lovey.

-When he gets angry...he really does, and its not a firery Aries anger, its a cold severe anger.

Good parts:

-He balances me out and grounds me -He is a consistent person -We can spend tones of time together, and not drve each other crazy -He is always what you need him to be when you need I the most

I am an Aries woman and was in love with a Libra man. He was controlling but I didn't need it so gave it to him. I supported him emotionally, was patient, and enjoyed the simple life he led. After a while, I had problems with the feeling of him losing respect for me, of him being unappreciative of me, and him being verbally mean. He was very moody and could push me away without any feeling whatsoever. I was one to say what I felt when my feelings were hurt in hoping he would understand and treat me differently. I don't know what happened and will never know. It's like he started resenting me. There was a distance in his personality and I always felt it was fear of commitment and feeling emotions. I was always looking at the glass as being 1/2 full when he would see it 1/2 empty. I tried to be a friend but it was always on his terms, and I was always asking for his friendship at the wrong time. I'm still hurting because we talked everyday for 5 years,I tri ed so very hard to understand him and wanting to to work. He's now with someone else and he turned on me very badly making me feel as though he chewed me up and spit me out. I would explain how I felt all of the time and he would never treat me any differently. It was the hardest relationship I've ever been in. I wasn't afraid to love and I feel I may never trust letting my heart feel for anyone again for fear of feeling the pain I'm feeling now as a result of a failed relationship that I had hoped so much, would have worked. He just said one day, this is as far as it's going to go, it didn't work.

Well I'm an Aries woman, and I'll say that my Libra guy can be definitely harsh when in conflict. But that's just fine with me because I'm equally as harsh. Besides, the makeup is always worth it ;)

I am an Aries woman, I have been with an Libra for 6 yrs. We were young wen we got together but sometimes I wonder what else do I get out of this than ummm the great sex...... but I'm sucker for him:-\

Wow, you Aries women are absolutely crazy!!!! I'm a thrity year old Libra man who is getting divorced from a cheating Leo succubus, and I have to admit that I'm very happy to be talking to my highschool girlfriend (Aries girl). I have thought about her off and on for years, every time I seen her even though I was with my wife out shopping at times I would see her and smile and remember all the fun I had with her. She is a wonderful women very attractive red head with green eyes and completely awesome at everything she does. I've read a number of your posts here and I have to agree with a majority of them about "us" Libra boys. But I can tell you this much about Libras its true they are very sentimental, romantic, intelligent, and perverted. If you show them you show them you love them you'll get back everything you put into it. They will ALWAYS remember their first like I did (my Aries girl)and not matter what they say they will always care for you in some way

Ok so I'm not an Aries I'm a Taurus Female however my mother is full on Aries(yes we clash, but I always want the best for my mom). Anyways she was in a relationship with a big jerk of a Libra man for about 4 years. He lied to her, he would belittle her, cheat on her, allow her to do all the work around the house (even mowing the lawn). This big deuch was so annoying to be around with. I just don't think that was a good match from the start, because from the start he was very unstable. Always would leave her with doubts and never had a straight forward answer. From a 3rd person perspective:ARIES + Libra = NOT A GOOD MATCH (run for the hill). Just my two cents, but for who ever it works for hoping for the best. Much luck to you all :)

I agree with just about everything said here! It's crazy! I'm an Aries woman, I got no problem getting a man. But I've been with my Libra man for 3 rocky years. He's a liar, he's a cheater, he's disrespectful, but demands respect, I love him and I hate him, he is my crack and I am addicted. Me, who has always been so good at leaving, always had so much self confidence, didn't rely on anyone else, ever, is so dumb f@#k in love, I make myself sick. When you love a Libra man, when is enough, really enough? From the sound of all these posts, the answer is never.

You women are obviously average Western probably typical American - so there's the fist problem!

I can't stand the dominant nature of some western women. My woman is a Japanese Aries and she knows how to let me feel like I am her god, king of our castle. But make no mistake - I know she's the strength and backbone of our relationship. I truly honor love and respect her coz she has the humility to let me be the man. It makes me want to listen to her and accept her thoughts and wishes more.

Everyone above needs to quit bitching and learn how to do what the love of my life does!

I'm a Libra man and I can say that half these women on here are uneducated dipshits..especially the one writing all the mouth vomit and question marks in her verbose essay full of baloney..

Libra men ARE the best lovers. For many reasons, one it they are born under the sign of Venus..and the art of making love is their game. Two most of them are extremely intelligent and intuitive, and can understand women quite well, while still maintaining their own sense of masculinity ..they are good judges of character, they commit when they want and play the field when they want. They are usually chivalrous, strong willed, socially refined and very articulate.

Aries women are a good match for Libra, if they will just accept that they are not going to lead a man. No man will put up with that nonsense from a woman, so if Aries women think they pee standing up, that's a problem. They will soon find Libra causing them jealous rage fits...

people why isnt there anything about an Aries guy and Libra girl .. im a Libra and have a crush on a Aries guy and theres no adivce .. if you have an stories pls post .. I want to know what I might get myself in to ...

im a Libra girl and have this crush on an Aries guy and I want to know what I might be getting myself into .. please guys help!! there isnt a story I can look on to for advice ..

Hi am an Aries women got engaged with Libra men am dating him past 1yr he is very confused about all the things in his life But he is a very kind hearted men no one can beat him but he always want to test my love in all senses he never show's me his feeling but sometiime he suddendly shower unlimited love on me by kissing hugging sayin many good things an some times he very angry that no one can understand him. We Aries need always need attention that Libra guys never do it.

However they are Libra guys are very good life partner in all sense & Aries can compromise in with them a little tah life will be Jannat :-)

They are very romantic & Faithful once commited to you

I wish more Libra guys would leave comments. I am in love with my Libra boy. He isn't mine. Not at all but that doesn't stop me from wanting him to be. He confuses me the the point of madness and my heart is repeatedly broken. I have never fallen in love with anyone before, and I am almost thirty. I think that I should run away far far away and never see this boy again. I love him more than I can bear and he just messes with me. I work with him and so I have to see him. It would be much easier if I didn't. I don't know what to do! I remember the first time I met him, and then I did not see him for almost a year and then one day he saw me. I mean really saw me and made it very clear that he saw me. He stood and looked at me for four hours. After that day he hasn't gone away. He also hasn't arrived and I can't deal with that. He is hot and cold. He does thing that make me think he is madly in love with me and never acts on it. He looks at me as if He has found a treasu re. He can hold my interest for hours. I hang on his every word. He has these gestures that make my heart race, and breathing hard. Sometimes he looks at me and I just blush. Everytime he is around I just want please him and fantasize about the two of us, Not even just sexually but about our imaginary life together. I want to participate in his day to day activities. I want to meet his mother. I want to meet his cat. After 6 months of this I started seeing a normal boy. He was alright. I hadn't seen my Libra in two weeks and was certain moving on was in order, and I was seeing this other boy regularly and then I saw my Libra across the office and later I was making out with the other boy and everytime I closed my eyes I saw my libra. I left and havent been back since. I told my Libra about this honestly and he never came back with an answer. that was two months ago. he also didn't stop the staring, the chats, the following me around, the over all Libra creepiness, I sent him an email asking that he leave me alone. That he stop all of the things that I love about him. He did. He went away completely and I felt so alone. I felt empty and abandoned, like I had went through an actual break up even though we have never even kissed! I kept avoiding him and have several move on stratagies. I have been on a couple of dates. am trying to hate him, and was making some progress, when he purposefully stopped in the hall and looked at me, one of those long body caressing looks, and smiled that smooth disarming I want you to think I love you smiles that just melt your heart and turn your legs to rubberbands and cause your heart to skip a beat and then he waved and walked up the stairs. I am back at square one. Hopelessly in love. unreturned love. and I should hate him. He knows how I feel.

Hi I'm a forty three year old Aries women and my guy is a 45 year old Libra man. We reconnected on FB, what a uion. I mean put it all out there the momemt we reconnected. We are currently in a long distace relationship, which I don't mind. We are mature enough to and creative enough to get through until we see each other again. However I find he's a procrastinator, which bothers me. He's not very good a planning either, example payed me a visit about a month ago without any money, which left me to foot the bill for the entire weekend including his hotel stay, needless to say I spent about $400.00 that weekend, not happy. I stewed over it for a day or two as I had to tactfully gather my words as well as my thoughts. I had long talk with him helping him to understand that maybe when he gets paid try saving a dollar amount that he's comfortable with, so that way on the next visit, not having money itsn't a strain on one perosn. As I really wanted to black out on him, h owever I really love this guy I feel good when I'm with him, he's funny, very charming. However I've noticed that he's not fully intuned on the true romance of a women, what I mean by that is It was my birthday, his visit was the next month air fair was a little high so I stated to him not to worry about a birthday gift right now, make it a later date here it is months later no birthday gift, when I made mention he states and I quote you said that I didn't have to get you a gift, there are somethings that I'll have to teach and or make him aware of but all and all I love him.

In a relationship with a Libra Man for a year and he is very sweet, caring, giving and loves me very much. I feel it! He is very supportive in everything I do and want the best for me. He is not lazy, so far, when I met him he said he was not in a relationship, but had a sex partner with no string attached. OOOHHHHH by the way he proposed marriage within a mont in a relationship and because of planning and involving our families, we only got married three weeks ago. We are happy together, but I have seen that he flirts, or gets attracted to beautiful gals as he can not get his eyes off them and he tells me every day to trust him and to not worry about him cheating on me. Because I have talked to him previously about cheating and that I will not take it well if it happens, and that our relationship will never be the same if he cheats. He doesn't want to get close to my friends or mix with them. I love him so much because he gives me a peace of mind. Should I get worri ed?

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