Libra man and Cancer woman

Visitor experiences and questions on Libra man Cancer woman relationships

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I am a Cancer woman with the hots for a Libra man. I don't know if we could make a long term relationship work, but man I feel more chemistry with him than anyone else. I would really love to see what that would look like on a more intimate level.

I know our sun signs say we are VERY incompatible, but I have Sagittarius rising, so maybe that would help. I am not the typical Cancer woman. Sure I love my home, but I love being in the spot light and having good friends, things to do, and places to see. Who knows what will happen in the future, but man, I love being around him. It feels really good

I am a Cancer woman dating a Libra man. He is so charming attractive and very skilled in bed. I do get a bit put off by his flirtatious ways but he recognizes that and tries to control it out of respect for me. He is very considerate to my needs and helps control my moodswings.

I'm a Libra man dating a Cancer women. I have the best sex with her. We make each other smile. I'm always there to help and to make her happy so she doesn't feel insecure. When she is upset I make love to her to make it all better. She will be cheerful again.

im a Cancer women and been with a Libra man for 4 years. we had good times and the sex was amazing. we could talk about anything and everything but money was always a issue and intimacy. I felt he didn't show or prove he loved me enough. so when I met a Taurus man. he made up my mind that I can have better.

I am a Cancer woman and was involved with a Libra man for a little over two years. I recently decided that I should truly let him go. I gave him everything he needed, but I realized that he had the slightest idea as to what I needed. I constantly felt confused and neglected. He constantly had to have someone to feed his ego, but didn't really realize when I needed some attention too. And when I crawled into my shell to recover he would get upset and blame me for having mood swings. He would then feel neglected because I was not there to be his cheerleader 24/7. And then he would go out and get that attention from someone else and blame the whole thing on me. He would never try to understand or compromise so he constantly got what he needed, but I never got what I needed. Anytime I would bring up saving money, paying off bills or want to talk about something emotional he would literally close down, which would make me upset because I was trying to tell him w hat I needed. And I would get even more upset when I found out he would talk to outsiders about his feelings in reference to our relationship and not me. The worst part is that he talked to him to them about our relationship and wouldn't talk to me, the person he's was in a relationship with.

My advice to all Cancer women.....Stay away from Libra Men!! Then are selfish and they are oblivious to other people's needs. The world revolves around them and if they are not happy then neither are you. Cancer woman will always feel neglected with a Libra man!

hey! I am a Cancer woman. It is so normal to be attracted by a Libra man. Because they are so social, charming etc etc. Yeah we are so compatible in bed. But sex is not complete thing. We need to feel secure and lots of stuff. Is it so easy to repair heart after all break-ups?

There is no security in this relationship with Libra men. They are so selfish because.

Do not waste your time. Let him go.

I am a Cancer woman and have been with a Libra man for just over 2 months. I really like him and we really do get on. The problem is he does not consider my feelings, he is selfish ad it always has to be his way.

They are never good at keeping promises. He tells me he would do something but he never does and puts all down to his busy life.

Sex with him is great, we both love it and I feel that is the only thing that brings us together, but is it enough. Me as a Cancer needs a man to love me and make me feel wanted. If I have insecurities, it is because of the way he is. He has time for the whole world, but when it comes to me, I get pushed aside. When we are together we so enjoy each others company that we do not want to leave each other for a second.

I have now separated from this guy and am dating a Capricorn, guess what he is everything I was looking for in a partner. He listens to me, we talk and do things together and he makes time for me.

So Cancer women think twice before dating a selfish Libra man.

Cancer and Libra shouldn't be together, see that Libra wants a mentally connection and that Cancer wants a more emotionally connection. Libra men are not selfish trust me im a Sagittarius who's dated enough Libras to kno).but I've also had a Cancer friend who's dated a Libra for a year and a have and they were having problems. she thought he didn't know what he want and that he was selfish and he thought he was giving his best that she wasn't accepting the way he is. Libras might seem selfish but trust me they just need communication.

hi im a Cancer woman who has been on and off again w my Libra man for 3 years we are currently living together and although I am completely financially taken care of I'm dying to leave. He's not a bad person but a lot the things he does effects me badly. Also he's fine with watching t.v in separate rooms and keeping his work/friend life all to himself where as I want to sit and talk about my day and his as well. Also things that inspire me and make me emotional, I can tell him about when I'm being serious and he just kinda laughs at me like I'm stupid or something and that makes me really hate him and his personality. I am also turned off by him always sugar coating everything and trying to keep the peace. All brains and no balls... I hate it. I feel the need to want to fight battles for him at times because he will just go with the flow. Cancer women this is not the man for you. They will think they are inferior to you and will resent them.

im a Cancer teenage girl here and my boyfriend is Libra guy...I know him through internet and we started to dated after we meet twice...everything's runs smoothly at the beginning and things started to changed. me myself, trying my best to hold on longer with our relationship by giving him chance to change his egoness and the end, honestly I was really quite depressed and cried every time I trying to talk to him, he never understands and only knows he is right on everything and im the one who is wrong. I had broke with him few weeks ago and I found a Pisces guy. I had to tell you he is the nicest person I ever meet and know...if you are hitting on a guy that you liked. my suggestion is. checked out his astrology and don't take him rite away! man always act kind in earlier relationships and I don't want you to be upset at the end...this is my advice!

I am a Cancer woman who has dated a Libra man for about 2 months.. I am totally confused. There are times that I think he is into me and then other times I feel like I do not exist. He had been married to a Cancer woman in the past and we have talked about our differences and how it would be work for us to make it happen. We have great dialog all the time but I did tell him that my one fear is that he will not be able to meet my emotional needs. As it turns out, that is true. I just don't understand how he is at times indifferent and other times so caring. It keeps me on edge and insecure which intern annoys him. I really do not think this will work so I am moving on. Too bad because I really, really like him but cannot stick around knowing my basic needs will probably never be met.

I'm a Libra man. I've just ended (I suppose) a 3 month affair with a Cancer woman. She marks probably the most interesting woman I've ever been with. She is an enigma. She doesn't say anything. She keeps her feelings pent up. She worries. It is charming none the less. She is pretty. Our relationship is/was extremely tender and affectionate at the tactile level. But her moods can turn her to be withdrawn and cool very suddenly. Changeable, as is standard of the Cancer woman. Our connection on the affectionate plane was astonishingly pure and open. We were like children kissing for hours, content in the release and giving for its own sake. But full sexual exploration was strangely obstructed. She couldn't open. She was fearful to let herself go. There was always a scary element for me too. My heart was full of butterflies day and night, sometimes with good feelings sometimes with fearful ones. The butterflies were the same whether good or bad feelings. Full-time elation. I couldn't take it. When apart we only wanted to be together. When together there was always uneasiness, a difficulty in communication. Kissing and hugging were our only sure link. The unexpressed sexuality grew to be an intense and upsetting factor. Our relationship ended one night on a bed. We had agreed to meet and finally spend intimate time together. But she was full of internal conflict. A much closed body language but other signals conveying the opposite. She was fatigued and frustrated, un-relaxed. I sought only to allay her tension. The mood wasn't pleasant but conflicted and tense. The natural underlying unexpressed sexuality combined with the mood. We rested on the bed. She wanted to go. I tried to allay her frustration and asked her to try and relax. We kissed, held hands and lightly caressed. It was finally too much for her. She sat up and declared she was going. I pleaded with her to stay and asked 'are you crazy?' she reacted very strongly - 'yes, I'm crazy!' nearly shouting. I affectionately pressed her hands between mine. She snapped -'don't touch me!' as if I were I were being aggressive. She walked out and has hardly communicated a word to me since. Story over.

I am a Cancer Woman and I have an internet connection with a Libra Man. I am really falling for him in may a fantasy. He seems to be the Practical Man that I am getting to know. We have been chatting and talking on the phone for a few months now, and very soon like in a matter if a week or two we will come together. Its a lot of sexual aggression there on both our parts. I am a very sociable Cancer Woman, He is a very sociable Libra Man. I think in taking our age into consideration both in our late 40's we have matured in many areas and I do fall into the emotional area but I am not needy...I do see that We are more in communication when it's convenient for Him. But I also take in consideration He is very professional and very busy and He does make this clear to me and keeps me at bay. So when I want to communicate and He is to occupied I just communicate with others but I keep my intimate communications exclusive only for him. I really don't quite know exactly where we are, relationship wise, He said He feels the way I do about wanting to be together but I'm looking for him to realize that once we become intimate I expect him to be exclusive and be my man. I don't care if he is flirtatious, it's actually helps promotes his business, but I want the understanding that I will be his one and only but don't know how to communicate that. So far I am content and happy to know him.

Cancer woman and Libra man is just a difficult relationship period. Im married to a Libra man. Yet they may like to work but all the other quality are negative. The sad part is deep down inside I know that one day this relationship will end in DOOM

So is it possible for a Libra and a Cancer to be together for a long time or possibly even maintaining a stable marriage?

I'm a Cancer woman trying to understand a Libra man that I have fallen so deep in love with! we have seen each other for 9mos. and its been a interesting ride! He approached me and obtained all of my attention from the start! He is a very hard working man but is extremely set in his ways...its his way or no way! Trying to compromise with him to do things I like sometimes is a no go. So I accepted it, and tried to develop a relationship with him. The sex was always awesome and the conversations as well, but it was always a missing link to this....then, just when I thought the relationsip could work, he tells me out of the blue that he wasn't ready to be in a relationship but wants to remain friends with me?? Yes Cancer women, be very careful when dealing with Libra Men. You will end up being very hurt!

im a Cancer woman dating a Libra guy for nearly 8 months, I am besotted with him, he is so lovely I don't think I will ever want to let him go. At the beginning he did kind of be really nice then all of a sudden he would not call or text me back but ther reason behind that was is that he wanted to see if I missed him and also im pretty sure he wanted me to chase him. Now its the other way round and I love it, he is also way too good in bed ;-) also he is a good listener and very caring towards me, but he is a very busy man whick is good for me as I know he is building for his/ours future. cancers and libras can definately make it work as long as you communicate well and try to understand and compromise with each other. My man definately likes to socialise and yes I am a very homely person but I do like going out with him & best of all he's the only man who has treated me very nicely.

My son's father is a Libra. Worst match ever. Firstly, he intentionally got me pregnant (took off the condom and didn't tell me until two weeks after the fact) because he thought that if I got pregnant I wouldnt go away to school. Then when I got pregnant by him three years later and asked him to keep the baby for my last two months of school (a senior in college) he told me no because it wasnt his responsible and that I needed to drop out, start studying to become a Jehovah Witness or else we were done. So basically he dumped me because he said that I was "uncontrollable/unpredictable" and because I wouldnt convert to his religion. (oh yea, I ended up losing the baby. According to him I killed it. How caring of him) Then he goes and marries an 18 year old Cancer. Maybe he can control her. Probably not! Bastard.

Hi there girls..Im a Cancer who was in relationship with a Libra man 4 yearsa ago...We were attracted to each other, had good long conversations but I always felt he was ignoring me at times esp when I wanted some emotional support from him.I felt that he was jsut not serious about our relationship.I let him go and believe me he wasnt bothered even to save our relationship which was once so fondled. But trust me girls we cancerians are emotional being I still think about him , miss him but its for our own good that we let them go..we cannot be happy with a Libra man...we need someone who shower love and care on us...they are not just made for us...take cautious

I'm a Cancer female, 21 years old. My best friend is a Libra guy, 24. We got along extremely well since the first time we talked. Instant chemistry. Hours of talking and laughing. No sexual attraction on either side, reason being why we're only friends. I feel very safe when I'm around him. Also, very excited and full of energy! I love it. We spark each other off in chemistry and can have sooo much fun no matter what we do just because we love each other's way of speaking so much. I truly think he's the funniest person I've ever met. We've never had any sort of argument and we always discuss things calmly and rationally. The first time I talked to him, I remember the first thing that caught my attention was how much he said things that I could relate to. I feel like I've found a soulmate. Every one of his friends is someone I find awesome as well and vice versa. There's a lot more I could say like how we talk on the phone almost every day and we just spend the enti re conversation laughing, how kind we are to each other, how open our communication is, and how much we trust each other. We are also very affectionate, though he seems emotionally closed and I seem emotionally open but mentally closed. We balance each other out. After every time we hang out we hug tightly and usually say something to make each other laugh one last time.

One thing I noticed is how we have so much respect for each other, we can have different opinions about things and I just appreciate him more for it because I respect his point of view and I instinctively feel he must have a good reason for feeling that way. He always has the best advice. You have no idea how much his balanced, calm, rational advice helps my imbalanced cancerian emotions. The things I appreciate the most are the trust between us and that we can laugh about anything, even serious subjects, meaning we can talk about anything and it never gets too emotional. I also love how much we have in common..we like all the same activities, the same exact kind of music, the same movies, the same tv shows, have the same sense of humor, and we also dislike all the same things lol. It's great, really!

Funny thing is, we not have only our suns squared but our moons and ascendants are square each other, too. Hahahaha. Yet this is probably the easiest friendship I've ever had.

Me: July 6, 1989

Him: October 10, 1986

The thing is that I have a Libra ascendant, while he has a Cancer ascendant. Libras with Taurus moons are double Venus people, so they are extremely charming. And in numerology the number 1 from his day of birth is ruled by then sun. The sun and Venus combine also to make a very likeable personality. He also has the Cancer ascendant whcih blends the moon with the sun and Venus qualities. I am also a sun Venus moon person, because my day of birth is 6 which is ruled by venus, and I have a Leo moon which makes me sunny and jovial. Of course my sun in Cancer comprises the moon part. Also, our composite chart which basically shows what the end result of a relationship will be shows a sun, mars, and mercury conjunction which shows our mental chemistry, and many nice jupiter, neptune and pluto aspects, which shows our good will and trust. Venus is also in the first house which means our relationship is based on love and affection and that we were very fond of each other from the first time we talked, and that is true.

I'm a Cancer woman divorced from a Libra man after seven years of marriage. Initially the attraction and physical chemistry was great but just as quickly, both fizzled. We had a bond of friendship for many years. But libras can never provide cancers with the emotional fulfillment that cancers crave and as a result, physical intimacy will not endure. The relationship will always seem 'superficial' and this is fine for libras but cancers will feel an emptiness. Yes, he's charming, witty and intelligent but I long for something more...

I'm a Cancer woman divorced from a Libra man after seven years of marriage. Initially the attraction and physical chemistry was great but just as quickly, both fizzled. We had a bond of friendship for many years. But libras can never provide cancers with the emotional fulfillment that cancers crave and as a result, physical intimacy will not endure. The relationship will always seem 'superficial' and this is fine for libras but cancers will feel an emptiness. Yes, he's charming, witty and intelligent but I long for something more...

hi. im a Cancer woman dating a Libra man, we have been dating on and off for almost two years. we just recently moved to chicago and are living together. he can be pretty selfish sometimes and sometimes I feel like I don't get any emotional support from him to be truly honest im happy with him when we are not fighting but deep inside he's not the person I want to be with forever and when we argue I literally want to take a baseball bat and beat him up its pretty intense but yeah cancers should stay away from libras the passion will eventualy disapear and there will be nothing left in the relationship.

I am a Libra man who was totally infatuated with a Cancer woman for almost a year. We hung out rarely(less than once a month on avg) because she was so busy with activities but managed to let her know that she was always on my mind. I would text or e-mail her just to see how she was doing. When we did hang out it was always fun and each conversation was filled with laughter. I thought I was gaining ground until she told me that she didn't have romantic feelings for me. I was disappointed and decided to give her plenty of space. I'm not bitter at all. She is a beautiful person who will make some lucky man very happy.

Im a 40 year old Cancer woman, was with a quiet Libra man for the last seven months. Unfortunately we could not get past our issues and never really understood each other even though for some reason I still took him back after several attempts at a break up. There is a weird bond between a Libran anc Cancerian but Libra will never satisfy the emotional needs of a Cancerian as Librans come across as selfish and cold sometimes but it is not the case just Librans don't think. Ladies reading this, just be wary when dating a Libran as they have roving eyes and always distracted by other women. You must be a very confident Cancer to be with a Libran. Also they hate confrontation and will never satisfactorily solve or compromise on an issue. Will tell you they will try their best to change but in the end same issue comes up again and again. But I will give my ex libran this compliment he did try his hardest in changing things. But we are too differenct and will never fully connect on any level.

Hi girls, I'm a Libra guy that married a Cancer girl. She was very sexy looking and loyal. I never had to even give that a thought. I knew she was all mine. A great home maker too. Would do anything to please me. We met when I was 28 and she was 25. I got rid of her a year later. Drove me crazy being so needy. It was easy to read her feelings. But most times she put my feelings first anyway.The easyest way to make her feel not needy Or insecure was to make love. She was very tender and real in that area. Although not confedent with her body. But while making love I would really have to lead her past being this way by not giving her that option. Very female and intamate. In the intelectual area I was not stimulated by her. Not that she was not smart, because she was! Just not on the same operating level. Our big connection was honesty of feelings, tenderness and lots of sex, all the time!! We are both in our fifties now, she never remarried, I have a couple of times . I know that we could pick up right where we left off. But I know the relationship would again feel empty in that one area. I feel sad about that because everything else we were very tightly connected. Something I have never since had. The reason I've come to this site now is because I've met anouther Cancer girl. And really we are just friends, one main reason for me and I'm sure for her, is because I'm 54 and she's 25. But I see the same kind of tender sexy female with her too. But again I have yet to see that comunication style or what have you, that makes the hours out of bed, as close, fun and stimulating as in bed...

Cancer woman dating a Libra man. We have been together four years. Its not easy but it is rewarding. I do struggle with mood swings and he doesn't ever let emotions speak for him, instead he is rational. Its frustrating at times because arguing is an easy solution to me, duke it out, get all your feelings on the table, and then make up. He doesn't allow me to get all my feelings out on the table therefore I have learned to solve a lot of our issues on my own. This can cause a boiling pot that explodes... There has always been an unsettled feeling, I wonder if he is the right one for me. All I can say is we have grown up a lot together, he is my support system being so rational, and he does truly love me a lot. He complains to me that i've made him sensative! I think our oppositions give room of growth. Having a family together one day will allow our kids to see both sides, both emotional support and rational support.

I ama Cancer woman, my boyfriend is a libra-man.We have been together now for almost 4yrs.i are thinking about getting married at times I do feel as if he doesn't care about my feelings even when we talk about them or I express it in some way or another but after a while he will start to show me that he really do care. For example, I love it when my man calls me first thing when he just wakes up. he likes to call me after he gets everything done and have time for himself to relax. I told him when he wakes up he can just call and say good morning and then calls me back when he has time. some days he do other days he don't...

he said that I am the best woman that he had ever met and like many other cancer/libra relationships we fell inlove right from the first time we met.

tonight we had a dissagreement he hung up on me and then call right back to say good night... I love him and I know that he loves me too. we strongly believe that this relationship will last for ever but it will need some comparmising and more understanding from both ends..

I m a Cancer girl 20 been dating a Libra man 20 for three months now we get along great and have amazing sex but besides that how we communicate sucks big time I like to know the person I m with is all mine and that I can have full trust in them but after being hurt to many times I feel like if I let my gard down again he could hurt me bad at times I do feel like he is selfish I Try and express to him how I feel and he always says okay I will Start talking more and calling a bit more he does for a about a couple days then goes back to his old ways o feel like my feeling don't matter like it's his way or no way I love him so much and when we are together we have a great time and it's full of nothing but laughs and smiles but once he live it's like pulling teeth to get him to talk to me I know he loves me cuz he got me a ring and he tells me but sometimes I wonder what he really wants with us he has to be the most confessing sing I ever dated. I m not ready to throw in the towel just yet but how to I keep feeling alone with I m with him I shouldn't feel like that any help pls?

Im a 24 year old cancerian engaged to a 26 libran. When are good, we're good, but when its bad its Bad. when we first started dating it was GREAT! We talked daily and didn't want to be apart from each other. We could talk for hours on the phone about anything, laugh and joke about anything. But one thing about the Libra men is they can never comprehend how we feel, even when we are telling them upfront exactly how we feel. We are still currently together trying to make it work, but there are doubts on my part because he doesn't feel like the one for me because issues that I may feel passionately about he just blows off like they are small. He constantly tells me how he is gonna change but a few weeks later we are arguing about the same thing again. Also with the moodswings we have, for a libran man it's hard for them to deal with because they are always trying to fix things and often times say the wrong things (which makes the situation worse) when all we want is for them to just understand.

I have had situations were there were disputes between my fiance and his family & ex-girlfriend. For example: He was friends with his ex-girlfriend, they had been friends for 11 years and I had accepted that but my only issue was there was no boundaries. She felt she could call and text whenever and at any time she wanted, and he allowed it. So I spoke my peace and his fix for the situation was to tell me I was overreacting and he would tell her to stop (and he did) but she kept it up and I finally told him to cut all ties with her (he did for about a month) until she text him and he decided to write her back behind my back (I found out because he forgot to delete a text were he was talking about our relationship to her) BIG NO NO!!!!, which in turn made me feel like he was choosing their "friendship" over our relationship even when he was telling me he Loved me.

I don't know where we stand! I know he loves me, as I do him, he will do anything to make me happy but his selfishness and inability to understand how emotional us cancerian are is making it hard for this relationship to work. If we can learn to communicate better and he respects my emotions instead of trying to make me feel like what I'm feeling is wrong that I should let everything go.....

I'm a Cancer woman dating a Libra woman I can say its the best relationship I ever expireance not only is she the first girlfriend I ever had she is the love of my life she attends to my every needs I might have she is always putting me first than anything also security with a Libra man / woman is always ther she satisfies me in

every way sex wise and all the above so Cancer woman should try it with a Libra man / woman

I am a Cancer woman who was married to a Libra man for ten years. I was attracted to him because he was charming, fun, and the life of the party. We had a great friendship....but he definitely had a wandering eye. We both liked having a beautiful house and throwing parties--where he would entertain all of the guests and I would do all of the work. Sex was good in the beginning, then non-existent after he started going off trying to bolster his ego and I was left at home wondering what happened.

We are now in the middle of a very ugy, bitter divorce. If you think your Libra man is selfish now, just wait til you divorce him. We are a text book case of Libras and Cancers as a BAD ending.

I've been with my Libra guy four months. We met online at a time when the last thing I was looking for was a relationship, but we talked everyday and it looked like things were heading that way albeit, very, very SLOWLY. Took months and months of chatting online, demurely flirting before we finally met up.

In the beginning it was amazing. He was so attentive and caring, I couldn't believe it. He'd text me everyday after work, tell me how happy I make him and how gorgeous I am and surprising me with gifts.

After a couple months though, he seemed to pull away a bit. He tells me he loves me, but that's's like a switch went off and it's left me wondering if he is still happy...

I love him and care about him a lot and want this to work but it's definitely been very trying. I do feel that he is kind of selfish. The key though is communication. When I feel unsure or miffed I want to retreat and I can't do that here. I have to talk to him and tell him why I'm upset. It feels weird to do so, but it's part of a healthy relationship.

hi! I am a teenager and I am a Cancer woman dating a Libra man. we have been only dating for a month and it is amazing! he puts a smile on my face everyday. to be honest, when I have boyfriends I am really shy but with him im not afraid to be myself. we had been friends for a couple of months and then that day came and he asked me... for him being a Libra I must say he is very loving and caring. the only thing wrong is that when im upset or crying he seems to ignore me instead of comforting me. other than that he is the sweetest man I could of ever dated. my heart is so happy and so am one saying says "be with who makes you smile;be with who makes you laugh; with the one who makes every minute ofevery hour of everyday wothwhile." I know not all libras are the same. it depends on the personality.



I am a 24 year old Cancer woman in a confusing relationship with a 25 year old Libra man. We met when we were 15 years old at a high school dance and our relationship has been magnetic ever since. There has always been an intense sexual attraction and during the first years of knowing each other our relationship was mainly physical although we developed a unique friendship. I have always had deeper feelings for him but was afraid to tell him for fear of loosing any contact with him because he seemed to always be a very independent person.

We went to college in different cities but he would still call me every once in a while to see how I was even if I had a boyfriend or he had a girlfriend. I became used to keeping some distance with him and gaining satisfaction from a flirtatious relationship but deep down there was always hope in my heart that he would fall for me as I had for him. He is by far the most charming man I have ever met and very successful with work. I, being a shy but still social Cancer woman find his personality magnetic and I'm always somewhat in awe of him.

After college we moved back to our hometown and began seeing each other more. I had another boyfriend for a while and we remained friends and I'd sometimes ask him for romantic advice although he was never very serious about it. I always felt there was something more with us but being insecure and hurt in other relationships, I doubted anything would ever come of it. A few months ago he began calling more and wanting me to spend more time with him. Our random steamy hookups turned into him asking me to stay the night and spend more and more time with him. I was confused but went along with seeing him more because he is very irresistible and we always had a good time laughing and being together. One night he asked me to come over so that we could celebrate the new jobs that we had both just gotten. The catch was that his job would make him travel for the next 6 months. I was heartbroken when I heard this but despite a great deal of inner emotional turmoil I decided to still sp end time with him before he left. That night was by far the best of my life. He revealed his feelings for me and told me that he loved me and he always had but that since we met each other when we were so young, he knew that our relationship would never work if we had been together then. He said he'd always pictured himself ending up with me and that if he did he would essentially be marrying his high school sweetheart. His parents were going through a divorce at that time and he said he didn't want there to be any resentments between us that would tear us apart like it did them because we are both still young and have a lot we want to do (he wants to become more established in the business world and I am waiting to hear back about veterinary school and could potentially move out of state). I understood where he was coming from and was too happy to really disagree and insist that we be in a full blown relationship right then. After all, he is truly charismatic and when I'm around him I find most of what he says to be a good idea.

We spent the last few weeks that he was home virtually inseparable. He told me he loved me all the time, was very romantic and sweet, and made me feel completely satisfied and happy. I've never loved anyone so deeply and completely in my life and I'm not sure I ever will but there are definitely some problems with our personalities. I'm not 100% sure what he would say from his end but now that he is gone, we don't talk as much as I'd like to. I want to be emotionally connected to my partner and I'm affectionate too. I don't think I'm overly needy for a Cancer but sometimes he is distant and it drives me crazy. I get very angry with him but don't express it very well to him and when I try to I think my emotions overwhelm him even though I tone them down quite a bit. I think he is selfish and I don't understand why he told me he loved me at such an inopportune time and how he can say he loves me yet not lock down a relationship with me or call me daily. I do know he really love s me in the way the he believes love is (which I wonder if it matches mine) and he has told me he isn't ready to be married and I understand that. But I do expect more of a emotional commitment than I feel I'm getting and this is torturous. From a man's perspective, he has told me that he feels I am the only person who he feels truly understand and accepts him for who he really is. He says I'm his best friend and he has never been as attracted to another woman as he is to me. I agree that Cancers and Libras have an intense sexual attraction that is unparalleled and can last. I think though that our relationship may not make it if he can't make more of a commitment to me and learn how to be more giving and less emotionally evasive and selfish with his time. I don't feel like his priority a lot of the time. I give to him unconditionally and I feel that he gives when convenient but is much more inclined to take. I think I am too moody for him and although I don't show him a lot of my moods, I know our relationship is affected by them.

My advice to Cancer women that love Libra men is to be cautious. I'm not sure how this one will work out and even though I really want it to I have strong doubts and I know it will most likely be the biggest heartbreak of my life if it doesn't. The funny thing is my past 2 boyfriends before him were both Libras....go figure. Be cautious Cancer women because this can be an exciting and intoxicating ride but it can also be very painful.

In the meantime since he has been gone I've met a Pisces man that is interested in having a relationship with me. Since I'm not technically a girlfriend to the Libra, it is something that I'm open to because I am lonely and also hurt by the Libra not securing a more permanent relationship with me. I must say he is the most emotionally open and giving man I have ever met. He is sweet, sensitive, and gives me as much communication and reassurance as I need and I do the same for him. We both seem to agree that this is new for us both and pretty amazing. He seems to be ready for commitment and very loyal. I'm still not sure what to do because my heart is still with the Libra who I'm hoping is my soulmate and things will work out. All I can say is that reading other peoples experiences has just confirmed what I've already observed myself and its good to know that my feelings are somewhat validated by our signs. I wonder if he can ever make me feel as secure as a Pisces man does without hardly any effort.

Only time will tell.......

I am a Cancer woman and have been dating a Libra man for the past five years. This relationship has been a roller coaster of up and down emotions. He's everything I want in a man, caring, giving, exciting, polite, a good provider, and great with our son. But every few months or so I feel like somethings missing. We've been on the brink of breaking up so many times. I just feel he doesn't understand my feelings (although we communicate constantly) and he feels im not outgoin enough (i guess typical crab)Alibra man doesn't understand a Cancer womans emotions and eventually he becomes so consumed by them I think he just gives up caring about them. it seems the more I express myself to him the more cold and distant he becomes. leaving me to feel he doesn't care and very alone. He drives me to the point of nagging because I don't understand why he is not getting it which drives him to completely ignoring me. this drives me to the edge of insanity. Most times I feel beside myself when we go through our rough patches. I find myself lashing out in ways ive never imagined. We're starting to feel this relationship has become unhealthy for the both of us but neither wants to leave. we both feel incomplete but see things in each other worth holding onto. we try and try again but yet we always end up back at this point. We are currently trying again. we are destined to MAKE THIS THING WORK. GOOD LUCK TO US!!!!!

hello every one. I'm a Libra man 26 and falling in love emotionally and dedicate with my net friend Cancer Woman 22. She has a beautiful characteristics, charming, friendly, religious,dedicate for family. The thing is she lived in Pakistan and im living in Bangladesh. Far difference for booth we are. She called me a good friend and we have a good understanding. For that im falling in love with my friend. Im so emotional and she impress me so fast. She can understood that im falling love with her, she avoided my love every time to tell that we are god friends. I do share with her everything of my life, ill be honest with her, because I love her. She has all the things that I want from my partner and I know my compatibility. But I want to try. Im doing a job. For her if she gave me a chance, I will go to her country and try to find a job and want to marry her and make her happy. I don't know that she is trying to watch me all around or she really look me as a friend. So, ill do patience for her. Which is not well in relation with a Libra.But a Libra can make struggle which he really like.

I was with my Libra man for ten years and he was fun when we were together and he took care of me. But the sex sucks he would never want to have sex, he would always say he was tired and he would sleep lot, I started cheating on him and I would still come home like nothing ever happen. I really think he didn't like sex and he was gay. His family would say the samething, but I didn't stick around to find the end results. so I am a very sexual person and thats were thr conflict come in at. and yes he wanted it to be all about him and it could not work like that.

WOW this website and all your comments and stories just helped me realized few things !!!!

I am a Cancer woman and have to Libras in my life that I love!! one Libra (man) is the love of my life and my best friend Libra (woman.

Me and my man met 10 years ago.... I like him from day one, but never told him how I felt, we became good friends, 2 years later he told me he liked me too. We started seeing each other once in a while here and there and I loved spending time with him but when it was time to talk about friendship, he would shut down, tell me that he is not ready and doesn't want to commit yet. Make a VERY LONG story short..... Now we are together and been dating for the last 2 years now. We love each other very much BUT we fight and argue a lot !!!!! and when we fight we break up !! When we are apart we can not be without each other and always get back together.... I can not imagine my life without him and I still believe that we can be together if we work hard on it !!!! We both like to spend time togther ( just the two of us) and we have the best time !! we can not get enough of each other ..

The biggest problem that I have is HIS friends !! sometimes I feel like they r more improtant than me and can not control my anger.... and he hates that !!!

On the other hand - my best friend - Libra woman !!! THE BEST FRIENDSHIP I EVER HAD !! we can understand each other without words, we never argue, we like same things, we can be together 24/7 and never get sick of each other.... People call us twins even though I am blonde and she is brunette. We think alike, We do everything together.... and people just know there;s nothing can get between us....

Wow ... well next time me and my man break up .... I wont feel as guilty after reading all you're comments.... Its just not meant to be for Cancer and Libra !! very Sad !!!! but I will still fight fo my love till the end

Hi I'm a Cancer woman and I have a Libra boyfriend.We just met online and had 6 mos conversation through the internet before we decided to meet up.Sex is good,we're compatible.He's happy with me.We do lots of cuddling and we're affectionate with each other most of the time. I like it whenever he gaze at me adoringly when I'm not aware and I just catch him doing it.I'm just frustrated about his attitude sometimes everytime he doesn't text me or email which I understand,he's too busy at work and working the late and early shift. But I want his attention all the time and I keep on telling him that.But he's still the same he seem to neglect me.It's like I had to message him first before he could message me back and start up a conversation. My Libra man doesn't want me to nag at him all the time and he hates negativity.He's always telling me to relax with him and not give up on our relationship. I easily withdraw whenever I feel hurt or disappointed. I appreciate his ways of making it up to me. We love each other and I think we just need to work it out. Accept each other's differeces whether our signs are compatible or no.

I'm a Cancerian woman, 30, and I have dated 2 Libra men in my life. The first one was my first "serious" boyfriend and was the best one I had ever had (I thought), but he was sensitive to a fault and had NO backbone. The second one was very similar, but even more sensitive and had a very "woe is me" type of personality. To put it best, he was CHRONICALLY SAD!! It was such a downer everyday. All he talked about was who hated him and how everyone was alaways against or out to get him. I will never date a Libra again. I am currently with a Taurus, and he is the earth to my water. He is the best boyfriend in EVERY WAY. We have known each other for 7 years, and it gets better and more exciting every year. We were off and on (on good terms) for years, but remained friends. Once he decided he wanted something permanent with me, he changed into a different person and gave his all to me 1,000 percent. He showers me with compliments,cooks for me, and is such a great friend. I have no worries, insecurities or anything with him. I have NEVER been more happy and satisfied in my life. The sex is PHENOMENAL, by the way!! GEEZ! Go and get you a Taurus, Cancers!!

I am a Cancer woman and met a Libra man for like 3 months ago. Actually, I am not that interested in astrological beliefs before I met this guy. But then he introduced me to this and made me more interested because I've been searching and reading so many post about Libra - Cancer relationships and most of what I've read ends up so bad. Libra man always makes me feel very special. I've met him through the internet and he is already 27 and I am only 20. This man gives me a lot of his time in talking and chatting. And sometimes I just don't feel writing a message to him when he's offline but he always insist me to do that. Our country is way too far from each other. He's in Turkey and I am here in Philippines. But he's doing all he can just to come here in our place. He decided to go to Malaysia which is nearer in here and from there travel here to Philippines just to see me. And he's really serious about that because he's already fixing all his papers for traveling.

The truth is our relationship is very illegal, both our parents doesn't know anything and it is because his family is Muslim and I am Catholic and we are both scared that they might just want us to separate. And besides that, I am also in a relationship with a Virgo man which is working in US. I am very confused who to choose right now because my Virgo man who I've been with for like 5 or 6 years is not giving me all the attention that Libra man is giving me. Libra man knows I am in a relationship with this Virgo man and still wants me to stay to him. Sometimes I am telling him that we should end everything between the two of us as early as this before it gets worst and be more painful but he always say he can take all the pain. And he don't force me to have break up with Virgo man. Also he always tells me that staying with him is what's really important for him.

Libra man is really sweet, caring, funny, and yes charming. Also this guy is a very good looking guy. He talks about so many sweet things he wanted to do with me. He always tells me I am pretty and he think like I am the most beautiful girl in the world even if I am really not that pretty. He always say he loves me and no words can tell how much love he have for me. And every time my mood swing goes, he tries to understand. Also when he thinks I am mad, he comes quickly in the internet cafe and goes online and talk with me and ask why I am mad. When something goes wrong he always try his best to come quickly in the internet cafe and tries to talk about everything. And we spend like 5 hours in the internet talking, laughing and sometimes we just even stop and just stare with each other then smile everyday. This relationship is like a fantasy to me and like a dream to him.

But reading a lot of post that Libra sometimes can't be contented to one makes me really not just think twice or three times but more of that. I do admit that as a Cancer, I demand lots of attention and time from my partner and if I don't get that, I felt like I am being forgotten and set aside. And now, Virgo man is not giving me what I want while Libra man is giving me all this stuff. Although I also think that maybe Libra man is only acting like this because we're just new in the relationship while in Virgo's case, we're already in years of that.

So what I'm planning is that, I'm gonna be wise in everything. And hopefully, nothing would change with this Libra man because I'm really loving the way he treats me. I'm like a princess in my own fairytale story. But yet, this is a real life. And people can lie and say things even they're not real. And reading all the post of people who have been in Libra - Cancer relationship makes me do more cautions. This stuffs really helps a lot.

Libra man are selfish in nature and unwilling to give in, Im a Cancer woman and whenever I talk about my experiences in life he would also talk about his and made me feel like he's more superior and knowledgeable than me. He never understands me most of the time. How I feel whenever he ignore or neglect me. I feel like after I gave him sex he lost his interest in me. And whenever I try to open up with him about my feelings he just tell me to relax and don't worry too much. I love him and I want our relationship to work he also tells me the same. But it's really really a requires hardwork..

I am a Cancer female age 30 I have a the moon Mars and pluto in libra. I also have an Aries rising and a Gemini Venus so in essense I think this makes a huge difference in the way I come off the way I show my love and also how I operate. iwas the biggest 'playa' in my younger years and me and my Libra actually met in high school and had the hots for one another but I was afraid of EVERYTING back then. Now that we reconnected I am not doing any of the things I used to do any more. I just want to be homemaker a wife and the mother of all his babies...! Go figure XOXO

Cancer Woman Libra Man...intriguing relationship. I'm with Libra man for nearly a year now. I admire his strength of not being so emotional and sensitive-like me. He's attentive to me and is the first man I've ever know to initiate communication. I love him with all my heart. He's passionate, athletic, charming, intelligent, ambitious, funny, generous and financially responsible. I crave constant security, attention and stability from him which makes me seem needy at times. Libra crave the same but they get that security/fulfillment by being social, successful and intellectually stimulated. I am absolutely smitten by my Libra man and when we disagree-I try to understand his perspective and he does the same for me. Then everything is fine. I find that we balance each other-he's not emotional but he wants emotional security. He's not as affectionate as me, but he loves when I touch him. You don't have to be exactly like the person you're with. There just has to be a and atural connection and chemistry-we share that. I could see myself marrying this man. He is incredible. The Cancer-Libra relationship is a very passionate and loving one. I'm a lucky lady.

Been dating a Libra for a few weeks (we were friends for four years) but to be honest, I don't have any feelings for him at all, or that it doesn't feel right. The moment that we had our first date, my mindset changed to being 'not interested at all'. I think I would rather be friends with him.

Don't think that this Libra Cancer pairing will work out.

I read most of the other comments, and just wanted to say that I feel you Cancer women are wrong about Libra guys. Have you ever tried asking him why he acts the way he does? In my expierience, the Libra guy is a very good guy, always thinking about how to not hurt your feelings and how to make you feel comfortable. But he is extremely passive and shy. I have a Libra rising even though I'm a Cancer sun, so I understand them better, I think. It is quite difficult at times since you are bot so needy and insecure that you can't give each other what the other wants because you both spend most of the time being cautious of how to act. Libras seem cold and distant but its only because they are extremely shy. I've had four good Libra friends and I felt that they were always there for me emotionally. They are very easygoing and accepting, but I do feel they can play emotional games like Cancer does because they're insecure about how much you care. Cancer and Libra are actually v ery similar. And perhaps that's why sometimes it doesn't work out.

Cancer women here, I see more woman have commented seeing all the unsatisfied emotions coming out is only natural of course. So my Libra man, not so charming but we have very similar tastes so it's very appealing to me. For about 3yrs together now and I just try and find what interests him and I together. I give him respect(space to talk) and he gives me mine. Lots of hard as any but we are in for long run. I don't try and force my feelings on him, more so try and relate to his feelings so I am more easy to understand. Some men are just dumb to girly feelings with an ego an all. Anywho, we are doing great and i'm proud to say my loyalty is with him always. It helps when you bud family and friends out of relationship, on his side as well.

it seems you guys don't really understand Libra men it's all about loyalty and respect and 50 50 on a relationship, communication I speak for the mature ones. And when those things are broken the Libra will just flip on you won't give the same treatment but will still stick around for his entertainment we become skeemful but if you play your cards right LIBRAS will change your world and how you feel/think about men Just watch out for a Libra with a broken heart there the ones who are controlling and jealous only because of there past......

Hi I am a 42 year old Cancer woman in love with a 43 year old Libra man. We have been friends for over 20 years and I think now we are feeling a little more for each other. We have been intimate on several occasions but he said that we could never be together because I know him too well!. By that he means I know that he loves the ladies and he will never be faithful. Over the years he has always had more than one woman and for the last three years I was the other woman. He was not married to any of these women and he had no children with any of them but I was still number two. For a while I was cool with that because I was in a relationship as well, but now he is not with anyone at all and my relationship is very rocky. The sex is so wonderful but sometimes I feel that's all we have in common. I think he does have some feeling for me because we spend a lot of time together, but I feel that he will never verbally say this to me. I won't tell him either how I f eel because I I may run him away. I value our friendship so much and I don't to destroy it. Eventuall I know something has to change but for now I guess I will suffer in silence. A lot of what you all describe about Libras is true but not all Libras are created equal!

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