Need advice from a Libra woman!

by Anthony

Question for all of you Libra women - I am an Aries Man who has fallen for a Libra, but, surprise surprise, I've messed up and now need some keen advice.

My Libra woman was in the process of getting a divorce and I was her first choice of who to be with. So she was the agressor. This was before I knew anything about Libra's (I had never dated one before) and all I could think about was being in the "rebound" position ... usually certain death. So, I played it as cool as possible and, in short, ended up not giving my Libra woman the attention she really needed ... and to top it off her ex cheated on her. Our sex was great and she said many other things were great, but I wasn't completely fulfilling her. So after a six months of courtship (we became very very good friends talked a least an hour each day) and six months of dating she started pulling away and she went silent. Five weeks later she contacted me via text, and we began talking again intermittently (I think whenever her new boyfriend isn't giving her attention) and so on until we saw each other "as friends" but did not really do anything ... I told her I thought she was seeing someone else, she admitted that she was and then I asked so why are you talking to me ... she said "I don't know" She did say she was conflicted. I told her I think you love me and I now know that I love you. She didn't deny this, but she did say I cannot give you what you want right now. She told me that she's had more fun since high school with this guy but there are a lot of things she does not like about him. Even though she said she can't give me what I want right now, I know she was very much considering moving back to my town and in with me to eventually get married. I KNOW deep down inside my soul this Libra woman loves me ... they went on a weekend trip together and now she's cut off communication again so I guess he's cleaned up his act. I started sending her a note every day (email) letting her know one thought of why I love her ... after four days I haven't received a response ... though I did receive a text from her while she was on her trip. I'm frankly at at a loss of what to do. I told her I was committed and was not going to walk away this time...but I don't want to risk pushing her away or if I should continue to send her daily emails, poems, etc. If she needs time, I'm willing to give it to her because my ultimate intention is that we are eventually together.

Just to make sure it's clear ... I live in one state (her former) and she leaves in another state. She doesn't live with her new boyfriend but they do live in the same town so he has the conveniency factor. I personally think he's a distraction but I don't know the best thing to do here. Also, she does have a child.