Pisces man advice from Scorpio women please?

by anonymus

Any Scorpio women able to help please? I am a Pisces male currently in a long term relationship with my Sagittarius partner, (11 years). Over the last 3 to 4 years, things have definitely cooled off considerably between us as far as our relationship goes. We don't seem to be, what I would call, 'connected' anymore. The 'love' is just not there anymore.

Some three and a half years ago, my partner was diagnosed with breast cancer. She subsequently went through all the treatments, including a full mastectomy. I am very happy to say, that as of right now, she has a clean bill of health, although there is another 18 months of the 5 year remission to go. I know it has been a very difficult time for both of us. And we have gone through a lot, not to mention her personal dealings with it, mentally as well as physically. She has been incredibly strong throughout it all.

Just over 2 years ago, we had a new neighbor move in. I called in on her one day, just to say hi and to introduce myself etc. As soon as she opened the door, I knew who she was. As time went by, my partner and I started to get to know her better and so now, we are all very good friends. Socializing together regularly, through meals at our places or hers, occasional outings etc.

I have done a lot of things for her at her house, as I am a builder by trade. I guess we get to see each other just about every other day. Not romantically by the way. She is single, divorced twice, no children, the last bit the same as me. I also later found out that she was a Scorpio and I wanted to know what it was that made us get on so well together, as there was a definite..... something!

It was about 3 months ago, while we were all together one evening having a meal, that I realized that our body language was incredible!! She was copying my body language. Catching glances, looking each other up and down, the whole bit.... Flirting! I also, had 'that feeling'. The feeling that happens when your heart misses a beat etc? I was so sure of what was happening.(All of us have just turned 50 by the way). I let it go for a while, and tried to forget about it, brushing it off as wishful thinking on my part, bla bla bla. But the body language just seems to be still there, and sometimes very strong indeed.

This feeling of her checking me out and me checking her out is overwhelming. I started researching body language and flirting. I have been aware of this type of body language for many years, but never really looked into it until lately. It was incredible just what I was discovering. I have also gone on to research compatibility. To say that we click is an understatement!! And as to say whether we are compatible?.....maybe someone here can confirm or reject this scenario.

I don't want to rock the boat here, by up and leaving my current partner. Although the last few months especially, she has said some nasty things towards me after a few glasses of wine. I try to put it down to her post reaction to her treatment etc. Nor do I want to make to many obvious moves towards our neighbor. But, I just know who she is. And, I am also sure, (if the flirting body
language info is correct), that she is very attracted to me.

But I just don't know that for sure. I would love to know what she really thinks of me. I have considered just having a talk with her one day, you know, all friendly as we always do. But then to tell her how I feel about her. I am not afraid of rejection, but I don't want to spoil a very healthy, fun and flirty, friendship either. But I also know, we would make a great couple should the opportunity be presented!!

We laugh when we are all talking sometimes, as my partner would say to her, 'So what are you looking for in your man then?' She replies. 'Tall, dark and with prospects! Who am I? Tall, dark and I like to think with prospects!!

Any advice gratefully received.