Scorpio mind games

by Someone

I am a Pisces woman who is in love with a Scorpio man. Why do they play so many mind games? I understand like to be in control and thats fine most of the time. But, one min he treats me like a special friend, next time he treats me like he likes me as much as i like him. I find it hard to ask what is going on? cause I might lose what I do have with him... I cant sort it out?

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scorpio female
by: Anonymous

hehehe i do this allot. what he is doing when you say he plays mind games is picking your brain on how you really feel about him. and were your head is at for future and he is looking for key points that he is in it. we play psychological puzzles with people is a better way to put it. we find out all we need to know when we do this. and even if you don't exactly say we are in it we can tell a great deal if we fit or not. its hard to explain. but we are very deep thinkers and puzzlers so i hope that helped. ok now on to why he treats you like a friend at some points and lover the next . i do this also that is us not wearing are heart on our sleep we don't fall in love easy cause we don't just give our heart to just anybody. i am 31 and only been in true love 2 times and that was because we got as deep as talking about marriage. you see us scorpios don't play games when we find a interest we are very loyal and will never detour the other way once we love you. so he is simply holding his feelings until he feels you have put him into your life for the long hall.

Scropio Mind games
by: Anonymous

Thanks, it helped a little. But then again it made me second guess things more. He knows I like him alot, and I feel that he uses it against me at times. He has also been 'in love' but the stupid females screwed him over, which in turn ruins it for the rest of us out here trying. Which I know I shouldn't fault him for, but it is frustrating. I feel sometimes I am walking on eggshells when I attempt to ask where we stand. But then I chicken out, like I said cause I don't want to lose what I have with him even though it is not healthy for me. I don't need declarations, but to let a person u have been chilling with on that level that u like them in return just a little bit would be nice. My head hurts to much. What makes this all more odd, is I am normally have no problem talking to anyone about anything, but when it comes to him I freeze up. Guess it shows I really like him, and not the way I like the others. This has been going on for almost 2 yrs now. Even got back together' after he ditched me for a 'younger' girl UGH!!!!!!
I hope I dont sound annoying about this, just trying to figure it out.

Be specific on what you want from him
by: Anonymous

I think your man behaves like mine too but I realised that they love tough and hard to get ladies. I was really kind and sweet to him and he kept misbehaving every once in a while but then I began being a psychological fellow too. I would sometimes ignore him and I was really forward to telling him what I wanted from him. Our last fight was to know if we are in a relationship or not, then he said he would think about it so I gave him the time in the world. I guess he expected me to call him once I was horny or lonely but I kept my ground. I refused to call him or even text him but was glad to answer when he calls. I would listen as he talked but didn't change my mind. I knew he missed me but a scorpio man will never say it in sentence! I had to teach him how to speak up. My silence treatment went a long way. It showed him that I could have others too if he didnt want me, I could live without him and his sexual prowess, I could be happy too and I guess that killed him more.
After 3 weeks of not seeing me, he demanded to see me and I wanted to hear him out and we talked things out.
So my point is, sometimes, they treat you like they are so good that you can take all craps from them but you just have to be tough---they love tough women they can't understand easily!
N/B; I love him to death but I'm really careful about it and very honest to him. I'm like his mirror. If he misbehaves, he will see me coming.

To what you want from a Scorpio man
by: Anonymous

The thing that I want from a Scorpio man are Loving, Concerning, and Caring. In addition, I want him to express more about how he feels toward Virgo in the privacy. Also, he needs to speak in a sentence to complete his though about himself and his lover. If he is hesitated to show, how does he expect Virgo or his Lover knows about him. I, Virgo, want a tough man, smart, and being able to talk about the important issue between the two of him and his Virgo to assure the security in the relationship.
Some how, I understand Scorpio very well. yet, I still ask questions. If there is no response from him, I would change the subject to avoid the inconvenience being an answer from the Scorpio man.
Because of his personality or nature made him that way, I would not change or withdraw from loving him. Virgo is honest to her mate and expects the same from him. Otherwise, it is all depends. Remember, not that I know any Virgo interested in playing a mind games. This type of Virgo do not like that, nah. Honest is the Best policy.

by: xMarch16

I didn't read the other comments, but I just wanted to say make sure you TALK to him. I've been with a scorpio for over a year and communication was an issue because I was always afraid to talk about how I was feeling (since pisces woman don't talk openly so much).

If he's making you nervous, you gotta not freeze up (like I used to). Tell him he's making you feel a certain way and you HAVE to tell him why or he'll mess with you (play mind games) again. He'll play around and tease me but when I stay silent and just stare at him, he gets mean about the teasing. I finally asked him what was up with that and he said that when I DON'T talk, he feels like he should do it more. Just the way he is. Now I just tell him to shut up when he does it :-) Communication!

Not sure every Scorpio is like that, but....Scorpions have that stinger, remember?

I love love love (most) scorpio men as men so I hope it works out for you!

what is it about scorpio men that makes up pisces women weak in the knees
by: Anonymous

I feel for you...I have been in a very weird relationship with a scorpio man for 2.5 years and have the same problem- but have also noted that the softer I was the more he teased me and played mind games with me. As I have overcome my signature 'pisces' forgiving kindness, he has been begging for me more.
The trick is to do it with tact and delicacy...use your strong femininity that is pisces' strength. Whatever his mind game is, act cool about it as though you will be happy to accommodate it [you just have to put on a mask] but give him a hint about the negative consequences. For example if you sense his need for 'privacy', arrange something fun with your girlfriends; like a girls' night out or even a Vegas trip. You are sending the message that he is not the center of your universe [even though we know he is like Lee Anne Rhimes' song "I need You"] and you are gently playing on the jealousy making him try hard to get back to the center of your universe. You may also through in a little joke like it was his choice to not have you around to love him up when he is dealing with a problem, otherwise you would prefer him over your girlfriends any second...hence 1. he can't blame you 2. he will know that you know him well 3. you actually make him realize you are doing this for him!

Understanding the scorpio man better
by: Anonymous

Just like I said above, allow them to be the man because they are always in control one way or the other. Imagine I asked him what he wanted from me and he told me NOTHING! Yet he spent the whole day indoors with me watching movies cus it was raining outside. Scorpios are very tough men but just let him be, be yourself and act as if he doesn't bother you and with time you will get so used to his behavior. I'm sure I might not be seeing him again for the next one week because he will change automatically and the next he will crawl in like a baby. Be frank about what you want to talk about with him; he will pretend to be tired, to want to sleep, to not listening and all sorts of distraction but make sure you send your message across. If he sees your seriousness, he will focus! They are all the same one way or the other. The final thing is PATIENCE! be patient enough and he will come around because they feel that no one understands them, but the truth is that they guard themselves so well that no one would understand them. Most of them find it serious to apologise, or even feel empathic, not that they are not inside but the way the present it is often not sweet enough. If he doesn't want you, he will tell you frankly. Just allow him to behave like a bird, they will fly back when they are ready.

Scorpio in jail lol
by: Anonymous

well my story is a lil crazier i am a cancer woman and im dating a scorpio man and he is in jail i go see him i been seeing him for like two months now and for real it was like love at first sight like he even talk about the future wit me like when he get out he going to get his on place and im going to move closer to him and have my own place till im ready to move in. but in these pass couple months i done alot for him i know it may seem like any man in jail just want to use you any way but it always been more than that at first we where chillin and i wanted to start doing stuff for him that be cause the female he was talking to he left her alone for me so felt like it was meant but we have a great conection and he came out first and told me he loved me i told him if he dont mean it dont say it cause me a being Cancer woman we are very sensitive and clingy so i tell him i loved him to and i really meant it i was just waiting for him to say it but every since i told him that i been reminding him that i had my heart broken before and like he dont say any thing like ill tell him dont get another woman...cause he tranfering to another jail two hours from me compared to the ten mins he was away but when i say that to him he dont say anything and i asked him why he do that he says somethings are just meant for an answer tell me if that not mind games or what like im so lost!!! may be it me and my trust issues but i just want him to understand this scorpio man!

Advice to the Pisces girls
by: Current girl friend of a scorpio man who cheated a Pisces girl

Pisces girls dont cry for the scorpio man any more... If they left you, please leave them too.. dont go behind them with your emothional blackmailings and tears ... Atleast give peacefulness to the new girl friends of your scorpio men who knows how to handle the explosive feelings cracker with care.

by: Anonymous

So I was reading this and I have been talking to a scorpio man for about two months. (And we never had any intercourse because I dont want to come off easy) At first he showed interest and would call or text me everyday then he started backing off and when I confronted him about it he said "I'm not going to lie sometimes I see myself open up to you and then I tell myself I need to back off". He has shared with me about his surgery and problems with family and has been distant. For some reason I still find myself wanting to gain his trust and maybe build something with him one day. When I told him this he said he needs time for himself and is not ready then the next day or so we start texting again and he said he missed me. Just yesterday I asked him how he was and said "I'm sorry if I'm bothering you but I often wonder how you are. I think I'm going to delete your number because I feel stupid well God Bless take care" and his response was " your not bothering me just taking care of some things" I feel as though hes trying to keep me around cus when I try to let go he contacts me back. Not to mention he was in a two year relationship in his past and cheated on. What should I think of this? What should I do? Is this games or...?

i understand why...they love a challenge
by: LADY M.

LOL..well speaking from a scorpios point of veiw I completely understand why they play mind games.Im a female scorpio and we are as much of game players as the males are.My scorpio and I have been 2gether for a year and 9mths and it wasnt easy at all getting him to commit.first off one thing about all scorpios we love a challenge!but u must understand they dont play mind games for no reason...they wnt 2 kno if u are mentally and emotional strong for them.Male scorpios only understand one thing...strength!...any sign of weakness they will take advantage.remember! they're very manipulative so u must stand your ground especially in arguements.True enough male scorpios are VERY min. we were all caked up nxt min we would end up arguing...its like they put u through many tests b4 they truelly commit 2 you.And hes one of the scorpios that was once hurt before and thatz why i kinda understood why he was acting the way he was.careless at times and he neva expressed his feelings to me.And male scorpios have a tendacy 2 hide their that leaves you confused.And by me being a scorpio as well it was very difficult for us 2 move 2 the next level(commitment) both of are stubborn and dnt like 2 compromise easily if not at all there were times we went weeks without talking.and eventually he made the first move...a plus!...they love wen u play hard to get they dnt like n e thing that comes easy 2 them.and if ur scorpio misbehaves stop doing certain things u wud normally do...thats rite punish him!...or else he will continously do it...take it from a scorpio!

need help for my very first scorpio guy and me
by: Anonymous

hi..I met this Scorpio guy 2 years ago due to work related issues..he is a married man with kids..he is married to leo..i was single at that time and being a Sagittarius ,i was busy playing around with other guys who is interested in me and do not even bother him since he is out of my category..

however one guy who in love with me that time had nasty comments about me and that Scorpio out of jealousy and thus making me surprise..because i do not interested in that scorpio at that time at all..however time goes by ,i noticed that he was taking care of me in work related matter and my interest shifted to him..

one moment he noticed i have some interest in him thru our eyes contatct ,he started pulling himself away from me and even often mentioned about his wife or kids during i was kinda alert and confused..but on the other hand i-my heart or six sense- can feel that he somehow had the attention or feeling towards me...i knew it but i cannot prove was not 1st or 2nd or 3rd time..several times..he was kinda unusual whenever i am around or he pretended not to see me blur blur blur kinda mind games-while i was knowing it from my heart that his mind was wondering around about me..

sound crazy but i did feel it and see it from some of his hidden reaction towards me..once he even misled some of our common friends of having us affair or sex in his car -yet it was not happened at all yet he drove me home on that night-however the way he put it was kind of joking so everybody confused why he got to joke that way,,, thus even making me wondering about him rest of the time why he said so..

I was just married not long ago to my long term boyfriend..he congratulated me..and now we are contacting each other in sms (less than 10 times) trying to find a way to meet for normal office related lunch date (initiated by me in order to fulfill my word to him a year ago i will buy lunch for him)..i felt more than that..i am so excited..i can feel that we want it more than that..sound so crazy and naughty and unfaithful..i can't help it but i really want to have experience with any advice? how do you think of his intention /feeling towards me? I am a type of girl who accept people like me or love me only when people mention it..or else i will not assume..i do not know how to assume or how to play mind i know i want him even thou i got should i read his signs?can u read his signals?? please feel free to advice and guide me..

still confused
by: Anonymous

I'm a leo and i commented on here about a guy iv'e been to for two months who is a scorpio. I'm still confused. So after 5 days of not talking he texts me and asks if its kay for him to come over after work which was late at night. I honestly thought he was trying to get some but he didnt make any move at all and we never even kissed that night. I was a little flirty with him but we just talked and watched tv joking around for an hour. I don't get it?? Why is he so complicated? haha I dont know whether to let go or still hold on. It's like one minute he talks to me the next he goes days not talking to me. He claims hes going through a lot with his job because his job requires a lot of traveling and he has family issues.He says hes messed up in the head when I ask him why he pushes me away. I even told him how I turn down guys for him. I don't know what to think this.A part of me thinks what if its just a game and hes keeping me around for his benefits. I still never gave it up and I plan not to because I don't want to be easy. 2 months isnt a lot and were not even going out to be giving it up like that. But apart of me doesn't want to let go because what if he just wants somoeone to break that wall. I'm so confused

Go for it all girls who love scorpio
by: Anonymous

I am in the same situation As you all who is now madly in love with scorpio even though I am not sure he likes me or not,, anyway I will go all the way to dig out his emotion as long my heart is longing for him.. No point guessing games and sad in one corner.. Btw I am a saggitarius girl :) I do love him,, I am really crazy now so I got to take risks to explore his world :) let me know if u are interested in my love update I do not mind sharing.. Dear girls go for it for your love ,,take initiative if u really want him,, do not care or guess what he thinks ok,, u will fail in his mind game,, so use ur own strategies to win over his heart! Cheerssss :)

Endless possibilities with a scorpio man
by: His Wife/honey baby

Wow its official the on again off again intrest in you that keeps you wondering if they are interested in you in that special way.Let me start with married to a scorpio 20 years now and the game continues today but I know after all these years he not only loves me, he adores me and still finds me attractive, fun and even witty now and then. He gets moody I love on him, he gets angry everybody gets stung so i dont take it personal,anymore. Thankfully a majority of the time he is easy going, quick witted with a sometimes funny but ouch and true all at the same time. I'm a stay at home mom and kinda fragile emotionally, he takes care of me and in return I constantly reassure him he is still the center of my universe which he is. He is loving, warm, silly and serious, he calls me usually 2 or three times everday form work still after all this time, and he has to get on me about spending money a lot but his frustruatios never last long. Of course he is charming and passionate and playful and intense. My scorpio man is wonderful & together we love life. I'm am a pisces thru and thru.

Stop playing their game
by: 0hLeo

If there's one thing I tend to assume about a Scorpio man it is that he will always try to win, even if I don't realize we're competing. This is a really complex kind of guy who is intuitive to all your sensitivities, but expects you to be able to rise above them (because if you're not in better control of your own feelings, you'll never be able to handle his mixed signals).
To the girl who recently got married and yet is still into some other ALSO married Scorpio - forget astrological advice and get yourself a shrink. Or a divorce lawyer. Either way your post says more about how emotionally weak you are than anything, and Scorpio men do not stick with emotionally unstable people (even though that IS something that can attract him to begin with).
And to the girl who's been holding out on the Scorpio man for a couple months because he won't commit, well that's just the norm for him and if you want him you'll have to find away around it. Absolutely the Scorpio man will like a girl who can be vulnerable and sweet, he may even sense that your 'nervous'ness is just a representation of how deeply you care about him, but you have to step up and show him that you will not always wilt like a bad flower every time he pulls away (like maybe NOT telling him you're done and just plain be done with him, try dating someone else too). Keep in mind that they tend to be very sensual people, and so two months with not but a kiss and some fondling will not peak his interests.
Let's face it, Scorpio can be an awesomely amazing partner or a lurid/deviant ex-, but they seem to know how sexually, intellectually and philosophically awesome they are, and that will make them very choosy about who gets to share in their life. Speaking as a Leo, I think that's one of the few traits we have the most in common, our egos are such that choosing a long term partner means having to put that person through the ringer a few times and see if they can handle/deserve us.

by: Anonymous

I am posting this because I am also in exactly the same situation with a scorpio's mind games. We are friends and yes i have this gut feeling that he likes me is his eyes that sparkle when he looks at me (those girls who are with a scorpio know exactly what i mean!!). I know for fact that he is extremely shy. What I don't get is why one day he talks to me and he is trying to find out everything about me and he cares too much if I am ok , and the next day he will not even say hello - he is trying to completely ignore me!!!Friends do not behave like that...or is it normal for these guys to act like that if they like you?

RE: confused
by: Anonymous

Your Scorpio friend is unsure about your intentions with him. I'm a scorpio. And most of us have an "All or Nothing" attitude. So unless he's for sure you want more than a fling or a friendship, he's going to keep backing away. My best advice, show him you are for real about him. It won't take much, trust me, we can read intentions and motives in people like a sixth sense. But you need to always be real and never let your mood affect the way you interact with him. A change in interaction will keep making him second guess. Therfore creating a loop. He needs you to treat him the same way every time you're together.

just be up front
by: scorpizo

im a scorpio and i got to admit i always have my guards up. its funny tho cuz as soon as a woman shows the slightest interest in me, i subcounciously begin to like her back... and catch myself thinking about her more and more. from experience, even lost love crosses my mind a lot, but anything new and exiting will consume most of my thinking.

my advice to winning a scorpio over is to be honest and give it a few days (literally, maybe even a week), and he'll come around if he's interested as well.

i once read that to seduce a scorpio you should rub their genitles, lol, sounds vulgar, but its very true. any kind of kissing, foreplay, or sexy reminder will definately catch my attention, and keep my attention.

after a scorpio has opened up enough to further go more than kissing, at some point he is thinking about sex. if it happens to go that far i can assure you he'll be thinking about you after sex too... and by that point he's open for anything. anything meaning, not just a one time thing. scorpios always ponder about "what if?" but we're never the firsts to talk about it because you dont want to be vulnorable.

the simple fact of a scorpio having sex with you is proof alone that he's opened up... it's what you do after that determines how we perceive your intentions and play it how we see it getting played

This submission is long, but I'd like some advice please :)
by: Anonymous

I'm a pisces woman with a scorpio friend who confuses the hell out of me.
I can remember the first time I ever saw him and it was so unreal, I was drawn to him like a magnet. There was just something there that made me want to get to know him more. I even remember before we formally met, we crossed paths and the way we had looked at each other literally gave me cold chills. Our eyes just lingered and kept locked onto each others.

A few weeks passed and from a mutual friend of ours we met. I just remember ever since we had become friends we always hung out and were around each other constantly. It just worked and we both felt comfortable being around one another. As the weeks passed our friendship progressed and he started to ask me questions about any past relationships i'd had, if I was "talking" to anyone and so forth. Of course me being all shy and quiet I didn't really say much. During one of our breaks from university, out of the 7 days we had off we hung out 5 of the days. He had called and texted me all during the break and I eventually ended up staying over at his house multiple times throughout the break. Nothing physical ever happened, it was just us enjoying each others company.

All the times that we ever hung out I always felt that he was interested in me. He would flirt and I figure if he's comfortable enough to invite me to stay at his place than he must have somewhat of an interest. But I always played it cool, never wanting to be vulnerable and really show my true feelings because I didn't want to lose what we already had.
Well one particular evening he and i went to a party with a bunch of our friends. We both got pretty drunk and during the party I had told him I'd never really been in a serious relationship before. (At the time I had no recollection of this ever being said until the next day when he told me what info I had willingly shared with him.)


I know this is long, but bare with me please. I'm in need of some advice.
by: Anonymous


So anyways we are walking back from the party to go back to the dorms and he walks beside me and links arms with me. Then he tells me he's going to sleep with me tonight. But just straight up sleeping, he didn't mean sex. So we get back to my room and we listened to music for awhile and then I decide to just lay in my bed. I was about to pass out and then he wraps his arms around me and is just laying there for a few minutes. While we were laying there with the music going on in the background, I said to him that he was really warm and within about 10 seconds he gets up and goes back to the music playing on my computer. I found it odd, but we were intoxicated so I didn't make much of it. Well then he decides that he's tired and wants to sleep so he gets in my bed with me and is just laying there, one arm draped over my waist. I felt kinda hot so I went to turn on my fan and reached my hand towards it. Well I don't really know why he did this but I guess he thought I was reaching for his hand and he went out and grabbed my hand a bit. I eventually gave up on the damn fan and just left my hand barely gracing his.

So anyway, I'll cut to the chase. He has moved to Florida about two months ago to go live with his mom. He had to leave school so thats why he's gone. One week before he left I decided that I needed to tell him how I felt about him because it was just frustrating having to keep all my feelings to myself for so long. I tell him over text message this " Look I have feelings for you and I would appreciate it if you wouldn't call me cute and whatnot if you don't really mean it, I just don't want to get hurt."
He then replies with "I didn't know you felt that way. When did I call you cute? I'm sorry if I upset you :("

Sorry for it being soo long :/
by: Anonymous


I forget what I had sent him or maybe I didn't reply. I honestly can't remember, but he ended up asking if I was ok and if he could call me. I told him that I was ok and that I didn't have any minutes left on my phone, which I didn't. So then I asked him later on in the night if I could call him and so I called him using someone else's phone of course. I call him and he's at a friends house watching a movie. So I tell him that I'll just call him later because it just isn't the right time to talk to him while he's busy or whatever. And he said "No just talk to me now" and I was very adamant about just waiting until the next day or whatever. Then I just rambled and said how frustrating all of this was. Then he wanted to know why and wanted me to elaborate more, but I told him that I would just call him tomorrow. So it's about 4:30 pm the next day and I call him and ask him why he did and said certain things. All I got out of him after everything I brought up was dead silence for about 20 seconds followed by either an "I don't know" or him trying to change the subject. I decided I'd had enough because the conversation wasn't going anywhere. During the conversation though, he had asked me if I was going to visit him one more time before he left and I said to him that I wasn't sure because now it's going to be weird/awkward between the two of us. He got angry and irritated and said that "awkward" was just a word used for essentially weak, stupid, self conscious people but said that he didn't think of me that way, just others. Not applying it to me or whatever, so the night before he leaves he invited me over to his house. I hadn't even noticed that it happened to be Valentine's Day, but unfortunately it was. So I get to his house and his parents are there and I had met them several times beforehand and according him he says they really like me. His dad puts in this old home video of him and it was quite humorous watching, but eventually he left us to ourselves. We just spent the evening hanging out as usual and listening to music, talking, etc. I gave him a hug before I walked out the door and he just let out this deep sigh when he hugged me and I just felt really bad because he had told me previously how much he was really going to miss me. I left and he stood by the door as I got into my car and drove back to school.

When he was gone at first, we texted each other everyday and he would tell me how much he wished he were still up there and that he missed me.

by: Anonymous


Eventually I got sick and tired of being the one to innitiate any kind of conversation and thought to myself that I should just stop talking to him and finally have some control in this situation. We haven't spoken in almost a month now. I mean I feel better about it because I don't have the uncertainity of his feelings about me lingering over my head. He never even has bothered to own up to anything. He never said that he didn't like me nor did he say that he did. Which left me hanging and it made me so frustrated once again. So as the weeks have gone by and we haven't talked to each other it's just so bittersweet. I miss talking to him and everything, but there is a weight lifted off my shoulders. I don't think about him nearly as much, but I still care about him deeply. I just don't know what to do. Maybe not speak to him until I'm ready? Just cut off all ties now that he's so far away? I don't know. I'd just like some feedback or something...

For the sag girl who wrote "All girls go for scorpios"
by: Anonymous

heeeeey!!! i wanna know how u are getting along with ur scorpio coz im a sag too head over heals with a scorp but wont ever admit it unless he does it first coz i kno he does like me :) pliz kip me updated!!!


Ok i met my scorpio male after a club about 4+ years ago.A week went by before I actually talked to him. The first week we hung out,and even had sex once. I'd just gotten out of a relationship so hangin out was cool with me, never cared if he called or not. We continued hanging out, he then began confiding in me, now we're seeing each other like every other day. We even worked together for awhile. I always knew I wasn't the only one he dealt with, it was obvious. However, he always made me feel nervous and excited to see him, simply cause we would spend hours together. My friend said that he really liked me, but he never expressed it. There were times where he would even get jealous around other males. Then he got weird, sometimes I would'nt hear from for days. Suddenly, he'd call me all excited and hang out with me like all day, sex and all. A yeat later, he gets a girl pregnant, and I go back to my ex. My ex and I break up again. Here comes Mr. Scorpio,in my world again only more intense, we pick up where we left off. Year three he has another baby same girl, we're still spending time and having sex together. Now I realize I love him,yet we only act like friends, but never apart. He stares at me as though he Loves me too, his friends even think so. After dealing with his mind games,I go back to my ex who really loves me,I tell Scorpio this, he gets upset and walks away.He always kept intouch via phone,even still, I cant get rid of him. So,I lie to him that I broke up with my BF to get his reaction,and immediately he wants in. He's in my mind everyday,I cant seem to get rid of him, and I still dont how he truly feels. Im a Virgo and I still dont know what to do with my SCORPIO.....

scorpions! and a piscean
by: TaurusGirl

ok Pisces girl you had better look after yourself around a Scorpion!
Pisceans are very sensitive and Scorpions can be dangerous creatures.
I have a Scorpion shag buddy - we have been hanging out intensely for a few weeks and after he did some ridiculous 'test' on me over the weekend I completely saw red and lost my temper with it. Which is rare for a Taurus, but hey, Scorpio and Taurus together are very intense.
As Taurus don't like mind game BS etc I lay it on the line to the Scorpion.
I had a go at him and we sorted it out and I am glad. He actually really appreciated me being honest, and I know that was genuine. He isn't booby trapping my house at the moment, LOL!

He appreciates honesty though and I think they all do....I think the Scorpio girl who posted giggling to herself :D is right, sometimes they are being mean but sometimes they are also scared of their own heart and seeing how you feel.
I think the best move is to be honest with them.

You also need to lay down the law about what you will accept in a relationship or a lover with them....don't mess them about, they won't mess you about. You need to be very careful as you can't be crying in the corner and being wounded as you have to bear in mind Scorpions are VERY full on people.
I am ok as I refuse to take BS and as a Taurus we are just as headstrong as a Scorpion.

have fun and be honest and brave with your Scorpion!
if he ever makes you feel bad leave him.
best of luck honey xx

15 years and counting
by: Anonymous

I met my love 15 years ago i was a single mom and he a single dad and both very young 18. We hit it off right away saw each other all the time but i want commitment and he wouldn't commit so i did what a leo will do stayed around but messed around to when he caught me red handed (in bed with another ran) he destroyed me found the first person he could to say he was commited to and wanted to marry. That didnt last (cause he is mine) and we stayed together for a few more years me ready for commitment agian confronted him he told me he'd never be commited to me so i walked away and married the first man i could. Now 15 years later from our first year i am still married but with my scorpio in a relationship for the last 2 years i finaly am getting the i love yous and have never loved him more we were made for each other. The piont of all this is that i have been to hell and back for him and cant live without him

Taurus Woman Scorpio Man
by: Anonymous

Met a Scorpio man approximately 3 months ago. Upon our meeting we engaged in some pretty indepth conversations about relationships. We seemed to have so much in common. It was almost as if he read my mind uncovering all of my innermost desires. He mirrored me as I him. Finally I thought to myself, I meet someone who shares the same interest and physical attraction for. He wanted to know my whereabouts. However his approach was very subtle. He'd pick me up, take me to work and other places. He knew where I was, what time I'd be there and when I would leave. At the time I had no idea about his little plots. During this three month period we have been intimate twice. It was the most intense sessions I have ever experienced in my life. Needless to say the games began almost immediately after the first session. He backed completely away. No calls. And when I called him, he'd blow me off . Little things that he would go out his way to do for me, ceased.

Taurus female Divorced falling for a Scorpio man
by: Anonymous

So ive known this scorpio for like a month now.. i just cant get him out of my head!.. he is 2 years younger to me and i just hope that is not a turn off for him!.. in the begining he was sooo into me, texting me constantly and asking about me.. and now its like he goes days without speaking to me.. we dont know much about one another apart from the fact that we study in the same area. I want to get to know more about him, but i cant seem to get him to ask me for a day out.!!?? ive also known that hes been single for like 1 year now and me being a divorced woman dont know how to tell him! im scared what if him finding out about my marriage which only lasted 3months be a turn off??!! he has asked about my past though and i cant tell him about it just yet seeing as i want to be certain whether hes in it for the long haul! please HELP!! how do i know how he feels about me?? and how can i tell him about my past..(that being the main issue.. dont want him to find that offputting)... me being a taurus woman and him being a scorpio man, i have no idea how to confront him... also when im around him i gooo completely blank!! have no words to say... HEELLLPPP

sad and confused
by: piscesfemale

I am 26 years old pisces female, been seeing this 38 scorpio male for 2 months. He makes me feel so safe and happy when I am with him. The sex is great. He is so nice and loving when he is with me, but I feel he is so cold to me when we are not seeing together. I am always the one text him first. I do everything to please him as much as I can. I got hurt a lot before so I am really worried if it is just fling to him. I asked him after a month we go out that if he just want a fling with me or something. He told me that it is a fling than he wouldn't keep seeing after the first time we slept together, but everything need time. He sometimes tease me by making me jealous about how girls fall for him and stuffs. I am so depress with this relationship but at the same time, I like this guy a lot. I am really patient with him, he seems to open up to me a little better now. He once told me that I am one of the rare people that make he feel comfortable. He changed his flight time early so he could see me, and he told me that i have to feel special cause he doesn't normally do this to anyone. When i am with him, i feel like i have him, but when we are not, he make me feel so cold. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me please!!!

Virgo female with scorpio boyfriend
by: Anonymous

ok so i've been doing alot of researching on scorpios and they are so hard to really figure out.
I'm currently dating a scorpio and I need advice on what's going on with him. so me and my bf now have been talking for months and we recently decided to start dating he texted me everyday we talked all the time he was super busy working two jobs and he would still find time to talk to me, well he decides to tell me that he really wants to date / persue me and I was ecstatic he told me that I was in shock because believe it or not scorpios really are good looking no joke. well anyways I was kinda wary of dating because I have such bad luck with dating...well so I figured to give it a try, so then we started dating. I was so excited about dating him because he has a really unique personality and I get along with him really well.
so we spent the weekend together that weekend and the chemistry was insane! He couldn't stopkissing me and he was just so sweet to me,more than any other guy I've ever dated! it was a pretty amazing feeling, scoprios truely make you feel like you're special. so anyways we have an intimate relationship which is great but I also don't wanna end up being cheated on or something because I have heard of scorpios cheating. But I really don't think he's that type. well we've been dating for a good while now and he hasn't introduced me to his parents which I was confused about seeing as how we've been dating for awhile now, but I figured I'd let him introduce me when he felt the time was appropriate. I'm scared so fully like fall for him because I really don't know if he would feel the same about me, but I did tell him that I was starting to have serious feelings for him and I felt like I might have scared him but I know scorpios like when you're honest with them about your feelings and everything else. He just replied with I hadn't scared him or anything by telling him that and that he didn't wanna rush things and go too fast with the relationship and that hwas kinda serious me telling him that and that he felt that would be taking the next step in the relationship and that he wants to make sure I really feel that way about him. anyways he still acts pretty normal towards me I've kinda backed off because after telling him that I felt like a complete idiot. I really am serious about him and he drives me wild because he's soooo incredibly sweet, he gives me this really good feeling, something I've never gotten before with any of my ex's, so it's new to me. But I've noticed lately he hasn't been texting me as much or anything, I'm kinda confused because the otherday he was being sweet but we've also gotten into it a few times this last week over dumb little things.

Virgo female with scorpio boyfriend CONT...
by: Anonymous

I also thought he was about to open up to me a few days ago because he was asking me some person questions and he's never done that and supposedly that's good when they wanna know personal things about you, or so i've read. well anyways I answered his questions because it's stuff you need to let your bf or gf know especially if you're in a relationship well somehow he brought up his ex and how she was in bed and I was sorta surprised because i didn't wanna know that and it was kinda dissrespectful because I mean he dated this girl for a couple years and they were the "it" couple pretty much perfect toegther and so i'm sorta jealous of her because she was perfect even down to her looks and not to mention they were really serious not like me and him are. I feel pretty much like im just a girl nothing special to him. the only thing that's made me happy lately is when he tells me he misses me, but another reason why I won't fully fall for him is because I think he stil might have something for his ex eventhough shes with someone else right now, I feel like I won't amount to as much as she did. I'm still super sweet to him but he kinda crossed the line by telling me about her and how she was in the WHOA MAN! TMI! and it honestly hurt my feelings pretty bad and then to say he didnt mention how she was in bed. I don't get him I feel like hes really playing mind games with me. I don't like it, I'm honestly kinda fed up with it and i'm starting to wonder if i should end it or just hang in there and just tell him how i feel. I need advice anyone! please help!

pisces female in a relationship w/ scorpio
by: Anonymous

like the other female who said that when scorpio's get mad, it's just not personal.. Ive been with my scorpio man for almost 7 months now.. its true they like playing mind games but that only shows that they are interested in you. I once asked my man if he would tell it to my face if he doesnt love me anymore and he said yes. i asked him bec i read once that scorpios are so honest that it sometimes really hurst and its true.. my man is very good looking and im not so pretty myself and i already have a baby but i am sure that he loves me and my baby. he doesnt say much compliments to me, actually, i dont recall him telling me i look pretty so when there are times that he says nice things abt me, i know he's sincere bec he doesnt do that all the time. and when he holds my hand, i feel his passion and love for me.. im so used to him not wanting to have an argument with me and if turns off his phone, i know that he just doesnt want to be disturbed and i learned to respect that. they are private and doesnt like their stuff being checked every now and then.. so i try not to getr caught when i check his phone.. hehe.. goodluck to all of you and i hope to be married to him someday!

This Pisces is fed up!
by: Pisces78

I love all of the other comments and feedback. My issue is I have a male best friend who is a scorpio and he plays the mind games where he acts like he has deeper feelings for me. He has even kissed me before and I was like..Ohhh okay!. Nothing has become of this and being a friend is easier, trust me. BUT his focus on things, and his distraction are driving me nuts. He has asked for a lift home when he didn't have his car. I waited and waited for his call, texted him to ask when he would be ready. Wasted an entire morning only to find out he had worked out another ride. He never told me ... never apologized, he just went on with his day. The scorpio also IGNORES questions he does not want to answer and thats that. Or he will disappear for a few days and suddenly show up like nothing happened. Im finding this relationship to be tiring and I don't know if I should back off and disappear? It hurts to know how much I am always there for him with that huge pisces heart, but he just takes it for granted. ADVICE please.... Thank you!

Sag woman in Love? with Scorpio Guy
by: Anonymous

So,I have been getting to know this Scorpio guy for almost 2 months now. We met online and then in person. About 2 days later,I was at his apt,we played board games,drank,and when it was time for bed he gave me his room and slept on the couch. Next morning,we laid around naked,he fixed breakfast,and we talked,I told him the worst thing about me: that I had been raped/molested and had HPV. None of this deterred him,20 min after that,we had sex and it last for at least a few hours until I had to leave. The next day,I told him about another guy I had been seeing prior to mtg him and he decides that I have too many men in my life and says we can just be friends bc he ddnt think he would be able to trust me,eventhough I had been nothing but honest with him. So I got pissed and walked out,we ddnt talk for a week until he invited me over. Another great weekend ensues and we begin to talk somewhat regularly. Long story short,we have several things in common including wanting to settle down and get married. His mind games include,not speaking to me for days at a time. I told him how I felt about him and he told me dont expect reciprocity of feelings bc I could walk awy and he wouldn't care

Sag woman/Scorpio man cont'd
by: Anonymous

And he wouldnt care,which I find strange bc when we are together he tells me I am his dream,perfect for him,and am all he thinks about. I am a very emotional Sag,so all this back and forth crap is driving me crazy! He knows this about me,so I don't know if he is using my emotions against me bc they are my weakness or what. Bottom line I am getting fed up! Any input/ advice? I would really love to see where we could go,but I can't with this game playing. Thanks!

Sag woman/Scorpio man cont'd
by: Anonymous

And he wouldnt care,which I find strange bc when we are together he tells me I am his dream,perfect for him,and am all he thinks about. I am a very emotional Sag,so all this back and forth crap is driving me crazy! He knows this about me,so I don't know if he is using my emotions against me bc they are my weakness or what. Bottom line I am getting fed up! Any input/ advice? I would really love to see where we could go,but I can't with this game playing. Thanks!

by: Anonymous


heartbroken aries
by: aries

I'm an arise and in love with a Scorpio. I have been since we were kids. It took 7 years for us to finally start talking relationship wise. He mad me so happy when we were together but then he started going out of town a lot with friends. So I cheated on him and I regret it very much. I was confused about his feelings about me. So I left him and now be is back with his ex girlfriend. He came to my house a few days ago and we made love. I feel horrible! I'm just hoping some day we get back together

Mind Games
by: Spyce girl

Scorpio men sit up at night trying to figure out how to get the best of everyone and everything. When he's being nice and wanting to get close it's when he needs nurturing. Once he gets it he goes back to his scheming and planning. It's him against the world. My Scorpio man has been in my life for years and we moved from friends to lovers quickly. But he gives me hot and cold. I do my own thing and it drives him nuts. When he tries to pull me back he says amazing things that thrill me to the core. But I can never pull him back. He's just conquering the world and comes back when he needs to be held and love.

My advice: if your scorp tells you he loves you, he's thought long and hard about it. He means it beyond words. He won't cheat unless you pick at him and threaten to leave. That scares him. Being abandoned by his woman is scary. So he'll cheat to get back at you. If you love the scorp you gotta be patient and learn how to do you when he's off conquering the world.

aquarius girl and scorpio dude
by: Anonymous

I've been talking to this scorpio male for about 7 months now and I am confused about whether or not he really likes me. He is constantly complimenting me and always say he wants me but then when I ask him what I am to him he says we are just friends. When we are talking face to face he says and acts totally different, as if he is enamored by me... We argue sometimes about feelings and how he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but neither do I and he is constantly assuming I do. He knows this and we talk about feelings all the time. Sometimes he answers, sometimes he doesn't. I feel like he listens to me bc when I don't text him or call he'll text me saying he's thinking of me. He's opened up to me, told me he'd be upset if I stopped talking to him, always nice to me and telling me how beautiful I am. I can't seem to believe him bc then there are days where he wont talk to me at all which is cool bc I am constantly being occupied but I can't seem to get over him. I don't know what to do and I just want to know if he genuinely likes me like I like him. I wish I could say more but everything is always positive when it comes to him, just the hot and cold act of not answering or not letting me know how he really feels. I need all the help I can get because at this point as much as I like him, I'm so close to giving up.

Scorpio/ the misunderstood sign
by: Anonymous

Being a Scorpio woman I find certain things that need to be said. First I rarely make a relationship decision based on someone's sign.
I think there is a bit of missing information. I am a very self contained person and guarded. I do always think about things until I see multiple angles.. I am very cautious and practiced about the people in my life and the more imaginative the sex the more I like it. I am fiercely loyal and dedicated to a fault and if you cross me it's lights out. I also am very empathetic to others however I do not handle weaknesses well. I believe a weakness is a sign of vulnerability and neither are allowed in my world. Also I believe if you can't control yourself and work towards overcoming weaknesses and fears there is nothing I can do for you. I will however help anyone anyway I can. The information that I think is missing is how to get to a Scorpio. Being intuitive about people is a double edged sword. If you want to date a Scorpio being upfront and honest is your only option. One hint of deception and typically I'm done. People who struggle to stay on their feet are a rough read but those who get up everyday and fight the good fight I can be very Supportive and encouraging of. I am a deep thinker and appreciate a challenging conversation. I need depth and an open mind that's willing to grow and explore with me. Emotionally I am not your over the top hugger, cuddler or snuggler. That said if I tell you I care for you, I care for you in every way. If I tell you that I love you I will love you for life. Getting to a Scorpio isn't about playing head games. If you feel you are being played look at the situation again. Your Scorpio is trying to figure out something. Maybe they are trying to figure out an emotional response you gave or a look. Or just thinking about the next step. We are meticulous planners and very controlled. Finding themselves lost in a new person requires a lot of planning and thinking. We may not send flowers or sing songs, but we do something else. We stand for you. We will take a hiit for you, we will protect you and we will fight for you. All we ask in return is loyalty, dedication and trust in return. We need to know that when we are pulling a dagger from our back your fingerprint is not on it. Scorpions are very strategic everyday is a battle field and we need to know where you stand no matter how many times we ask you. May the Lord bless you and keep you should you ever betray us or abandon us.

scorpio wtf ?
by: Pisces 2012

My scorpio boyfriend of 2 and half years is really making me crazy. I am pisces boy, Lately we keep breaking up cause he is trying to control my every move and gets really moody if i go see my friends, i havent made any new friends in all this time and now im like a house wife just cooking and cleaning for him as he 'finds it hard' yeah right. ive been so obsessed at trying to keep the magic of when we first met alive that ive forgotten who i am and what i was doing before we met. i am totally loyal to him but he always is suspicious of me and thinks im going to leave him, but he is the one who kept calling his ex for a whole year into our relationship till i finally made him stop, not because im controlling but cause its just not right and i tried to go along with it and be cool but man, thats like emotional affair or so,ething, anyway, now i am accused of being controlling and lately of being borderline, i think thats mean because i know im a little crazy sometimes but im pretty cool at heart and just want to be happy and feel the love, i try to keep it all like the future is good for us but then he just changes and i am shut out and hes all moody again, last week i had a dream that he was emailing somebody i didnt know and i checked his phone literally for the first time ever as i had this weird feeling about the dream and lo and behold there were texts from someone like all about sex talk, i said to him sorry i looked at your phone but wtf? he said i got it all wrong and these were just random people texting, i wasnt even angry, i love him so much that i just said, look kid, you want to do that ok, just let me know cause i hate lies, he said sorry and we tried a bit more to be ok again, but then the other day he went all moody again and wouldnt talk to me, i totally lost it and told him to grow up and said i was leaving as i dont deserve that silence whatever that is, now i dont know what to do, feeli like i blew it but i havent done anything wrong i dont think, thing is he always makes it my fault and i give in, im not gonna do that now as i do respect myself though ive let alot of things hit my self respect over the last year. any advice? its like we were made in heaven but now we are living in hell.

by: Anonymous

Evil cheap trix the scorpios can go straight to hell for all i care. I HAD ENOUGH OF THEIR BULLSHIT

Does he like me or hate me?
by: Anonymous

This Scorpio that I like played a mean prank on me at school and, he would say I love you to me. I'm a Pisces moon so I'm a bit psychic and I never said it back because that part of me knew he wasn't honest. Anyway, he never talks to me anymore but he checks me out and stares at me whenever he gets the chance. When I see him I get this weird feeling and I can't stop thinking about him. When he's near me he seems jittery and like he's showing off. But he never says anything. Also he stared into my eyes for a long time three times. I really want to know what's going on.

Does he like me or hate me?
by: Anonymous

This Scorpio that I like played a mean prank on me at school and, he would say I love you to me. I'm a Pisces moon so I'm a bit psychic and I never said it back because that part of me knew he wasn't honest. Anyway, he never talks to me anymore but he checks me out and stares at me whenever he gets the chance. When I see him I get this weird feeling and I can't stop thinking about him. When he's near me he seems jittery and like he's showing off. But he never says anything. Also he stared into my eyes for a long time three times. I really want to know what's going on.

Does he like me or hate me?
by: Anonymous

This Scorpio that I like played a mean prank on me at school and, he would say I love you to me. I'm a Pisces moon so I'm a bit psychic and I never said it back because that part of me knew he wasn't honest. Anyway, he never talks to me anymore but he checks me out and stares at me whenever he gets the chance. When I see him I get this weird feeling and I can't stop thinking about him. When he's near me he seems jittery and like he's showing off. But he never says anything. Also he stared into my eyes for a long time three times. I really want to know what's going on.

Scorpio man has gone after I gave him a second chance !
by: Patrosina (UK) Leo female

I met this guy from a dating website, we chated online and then by text after he offered his number. We arranged to meet a few days later for a drink I remember I kept him waiting for at least an hour whilst I got ready.
I finally met him and when our eyes met I knew he was the one for me ,weird I know it was love at 1st sight for me we spent the whole day and evening to walking taking going for dinner and drinks as far as 1st dates go it was fantastic never thought I would meet anyone who was on the same wavelength as me . Great.
He said he would call me the following day but never did however I could see him back on the same website I found him on ! I tried to make contact via text and phone no response so I just thought oh we'll I had a good time and best I put I'd down to exsperiance.
2 weeks had past and I had family over so we decided to go for dinner I have left by bag with my mobile at home on my return I had a text message saying 'are you still talking to me' I was quiet blunt and replied have you finished dating all the women, he said that he got scared / bottled it but he missed me.
Like a fool I gave him a second change as I thought I have to give him the benefit of the doubt he seemed to really into me with him every day calling my work , waiting outside my work constant calling and coming to take me out after work all of this was very indearing ... Then we said he had to talk his parents for the weekend as they are elderly not a call on his return even I tried to call him his phone was off ! Then he finally sent a text message after a week and said he couldn't handle a relationship !! I have been slating him ever since I now do feel guilty for doing and saying things to him but I also never knew where I stood I'm totally totally confused please help me 😞😞

cancer broken hearted by scorpio man
by: Anonymous

Can some one please help me and give me advice on my ex-scorpio man. I was with him 5 years it starts telling me all these lies because he wants to leave me. We were suppose to get married he broke my ehart into when I found out that he left me I am 47 for a 24 year old temp girl of his at work where we all work together this has decistated me I have lost form 159 to 120 pounds. I been thrown in jail by them and had police called on me cause i want to actually hurt them both. He still lies says they are not together even though i been to their house and seen it with my own eyes, He left telling me he loved me but so many lies and he has cheated but I am still in love with him madly but now i been so hurt he wont talk to me or akowledge me at all he treats me like crap as 6 months has went by still can not be friends and now i am with a new man what should I do pursue this scorpio man or just let him go with the hoe and be happy. cause i was calling everyday telling him I loved him and crying begging all he could say is I am not feeling in love with you right now I need time and space.It has been 4 days I gave up the chase I am feed up please give me advice i need it badly...

cancer broken hearted by scorpio man
by: Anonymous

Can some one please help me and give me advice on my ex-scorpio man. I was with him 5 years it starts telling me all these lies because he wants to leave me. We were suppose to get married he broke my ehart into when I found out that he left me I am 47 for a 24 year old temp girl of his at work where we all work together this has decistated me I have lost form 159 to 120 pounds. I been thrown in jail by them and had police called on me cause i want to actually hurt them both. He still lies says they are not together even though i been to their house and seen it with my own eyes, He left telling me he loved me but so many lies and he has cheated but I am still in love with him madly but now i been so hurt he wont talk to me or akowledge me at all he treats me like crap as 6 months has went by still can not be friends and now i am with a new man what should I do pursue this scorpio man or just let him go with the hoe and be happy. cause i was calling everyday telling him I loved him and crying begging all he could say is I am not feeling in love with you right now I need time and space.It has been 4 days I gave up the chase I am feed up please give me advice i need it badly...

Leo and Scorpio
by: hopefulromantic

These comments showed me that Im not alone in the scorpio world...sinking and wondering if Im floating to shore with him or being drowned by his We met months ago but only after 3 years of him admiring me from being a leo female, I figured if he now has his chance with me he will be enamored and shower me with attention and adoration...right? Wrong... But he did come to my home, sweep me off my feet with his intense sensuality and always gives me something to remember him by... He does not date me, nor get involved in my life. He remains distant yet when we are together he says, I make him want to be a better man and he is trying...trying trying to be better for me.

I am very independent and agreed that we would just have a love affair with no strings...but being the loving lioness i am...I can not resist loving him. Our chemistry is amazing...we can not stay away from one another when in the same room and see each other twice a week...When I ask for more...he runs...He told me he is afraid of getting hurt and that the intensity of what we have is confusing him...He cant seem to find the balance of chasing his career and not getting sidetracked from this love affair with a lioness.

He said his career comes first and he didnt seek a relationship...Well, after months of this back and forth and me not being clingy or needy...I felt him doing his usual distance thing after a very loving evening together..I then saw him pulling into his home with another woman in his car (we are neighbors btw)...and me watching wondering why her? This lion heart is hurting and I can only blame myself...i think the bottom line is this...If a man cares about you and respects you...he will go to the end of the earth for you...The excuses he uses are just that (excuses). If a Scorpio or any man for that matter loves and wants a relationhip with you. You will know it...and if not..move on because you might just be preparing him for the next woman who will win his heart. Good luck to you all!...God love those Scorpios...they do have a magic.

safe not sorry no mind games
by: derek hicks

while for starters my name derek and i m a scropio born november 7 and 25 gone on 26 this year just make it special you know candle light dinners or spice it up by being sexy like some beauitful under clothes for a romantic night

Where do I go from Here
by: Anonymous

I am a Pisces woman and met a Scorpio guy. He was very shy and asked me if I would consider going out with him some time. He took me by surprise because I knew he was married, so I told him I was really busy and I would call him.
I did call him and we talked a little while. I asked him about being married. He said his wife had been disabled for the last 15 years and her condition had gotten so severe he had to put her in a nursing home. She was at the point where she didn't even recognize him.
The fact that he was married bothered me, even though I know his wife would never find out about us so she wouldn't get hurt, so I told him I didn't want to see him because I was way too busy and it wasn't fair to him for me to keep stringing him along.
About 3 weeks ago I started thinking about him. I couldn't not get him out of my head, but I wouldn't call him. I saw him again and he asked if I reconsidered going out with him. I told him how much I had been thinking about him and invited him over to my place that Friday night. We had contact almost everyday with a phone call or texting and then I didnt' hear from him for a couple of days. I texted him saying I hoped he was having a good day. He sent me back a text that he probably would not because his wife died the night before.:( I told him I was so sorry and I'm here if there is anything I can do to help. He said OK and that's the last I heard from him. That was 2 days ago. I know he has a lot to do these next few days. What I don't know is how long should I wait before letting him know that I hope he's okay. I dont' want to intrude, but I don't want him to think I don't care. I just think he needs space right now. Should I wait for him to call me?

by: Anonymous

he will only call if he wants to make himself feel better, what ive learned is that they have MASSIVE egos and you are just a reflection of their ego, if you are upset with them they are only concerned as it makes them look bad, not you, really scorpios can suck my d13£

by: Anonymous

sorry, didnt meant to be mean, just that sometimes love is hard but at least it is real. scorpio pisces is about as heaven on earth as could be for two but takes alot of spiritual discipline to attain the prize, no good staring into each others eyes if its only for pleasure as these two are hardcore spiritual warriors, theu must always be friends as they are blessed to help each other grow in love. i have learned that when the ggoing gets rough its best to pray in your heart for the one you love as if you beleive in your heart they love you too then they will always hear you in the spirit. i hope all you scorpios take a chill pill and trust and all you pisces dont forget your indepen dance and love.

scorpio in saturn placement guy
by: glittergirl

I've known this guy for about 5 years now. Although he's a not a scorpio sun sign he does how have scorpio in his saturn and psyche sign.

There is a chemistry there between us and an emotional connection which he's in denial about.

He has feelings for meand has had all the time in the world to tell me but he still hasn't done anyting about it. He's tried to play mind games with me by making me jealous and me being pisces has always been pleasant to him without resorting to his level.

He talks to me when it suits him. He's quite selfish with his time and i've figured that he wants to be in control. He's trying to break me when he ignores me to get a reaction out of me but what he doesn't realise is that i've had enough of him now. He's blew it big time, while i thought i would still want to be friends with him no matter how he behaves now i'm thinking i dont want anything todo with him anymore.

If a guy truely wants to be with you he would not resort to all this blowing hot and cold crap, it boring and emotioanlly draining.

I just these scorpio placements for men dont represent control but their just a bunch of pussies who dont have any backbone. Real men would not act like this to a woman they want. Girls understand the difference and get away from all this dysfuntional crap.

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