Tips for dating a Virgo man

From a Virgo man: please remember we seek perfection in everything including our mate. This is why we can all of the sudden disappear. We may like you more than any other woman... the moment something comes up that doesn't fit our vision of what we seek in our woman... our engines shut down. I didn't say cool off or take a time out, I said shut down. Much like a cracked glass, the odds of us placing you back on the pedestal we had you on are close to zero.

This is not your fault. Its our damned Virgo nature. We don't like it either. You think I like it when after months of having amazing times with a beautiful woman, I lose all the attraction for her for the smallest thing!!! Yes my feelings and memories are still present, but we are ruled by our minds, so if our minds don't give us the go, our feelings stay locked in.

Perfection is equally infinitely beautiful and delicate, this is why it is unattainable. yet , us Virgo have it built in our minds that we should only settle for this. We don't like it either but we're built this way.

Now some tips:

Communicate honestly and clearly with your Virgo man. When you trust us, we feel proud and protective over you, thus we want you in our lives. Do not try even for a minute to deceive us.

I wish I were dumber sometimes, but my unstoppable brain always figures out the schemes of those around me. Its like a supercomputer analyzing everything you say and your actions, telling us if it all matches or if you are full of bologne. Don't try to play any mind games, because as soon as you make us think, you awaken our mind - the gatekeeper to our hearts... and you miss out on an incredibly loving man.

Second, if you have any defects (smoking, laziness, cheating) just open up and talk about it with your Virgo man. We love open, honest communication - it shows you trust us and are willing to at least put your cards on the table. Plus it will save you time. If you hide your defects and have a great time with your Virgo man, as soon as your lies comes up, he will drop you at the snap of the finger.

Be genuine. Us virgos can see right thru fake people and we don't want them around us.

If a Virgo man is with you, then you are already on the right track because we don't waste our time. Likewise, if we don't make a move, we already thought it thru and don't want you as our mate.

Be loving. We might appear cold and calculating but underneath we are full of warm feelings for those we love. I love being held and kissed for hours and love doing so in return.

Good luck to all of you Virgo chasers.... be patient.. in the end you will have a loyal, caring man like no other.

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by: Anonymous

I am Virgo 46 years old. I have to admit, we Virgo are not easy. In my case I would say I am very analytic and a good observer. I hate lies because sooner than later I will catch you so why to bother? I don't like games because I respect other people feelings. If I feel I have to play with you I would rather walk away from your life.
As a good observer I can almost read anyone only by seeing you moving around.

I'm very sensitive with refine taste and when I decide to learn anything is because I'm will be the best and because I'm choosing something is according and tuned to my nature and has root to the universe and belong to me more than with anyone else. someone else will miss 80% I wont but you wont see it?.

I love perfection in everything...I really value good art, music, painting, good design good taste but at same time I'm realistic and have my feeds on the ground. I don't need to be a million are to be happy.

I don't like fake and plastic people because I can read you...

I consider myself romantic and caring but with the right will decide the limit not me. I'm loyal and take seriously a friendship so you better be a good one or walk away.
I hate communism, socialism, and all social tendency in which people are encourage to thing alike. I am an individual you are another.
I love clean fresh food, fruits, vegetable,, not process food, or plastic fast food.

Love to travel and I am very attractive to other cultures. but when traveling I will coexist with people instead of going to a fancy predictable hotels. visiting to another country has a meaning and a reason.

If I don't like you will notice it immediately I don't know how to lie. I'm not a hypocrite.
this is a real virgo.


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by: Anonymous

I appreciate you sharing the traits of a virgo man. I do have a question. If he doesn't call or text, should I worry? When we are together, he can't seem to keep his hands to himself, he tells me how much he cares and how much he loves me, but afterwards, it's like, "out of sight, out of mind." What is that about?

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by: Amy

I have been dating a virgo man for a year now. We met in Oct 2012 and I've never been happier. I totally understand his ways of thinking and feeling. It comes as easily as breathing, maybe b/c I'm a Libra female & I have a perfection thing going on to & I'm mature. I've been through hell & a lot of loss so being with him makes me feel safe & secure. And I love that being with him has put the umph back into me & I love how he helps me with getting my life in order & he isn't controlling about it either. Being with him has made me happily step up my game, I eat better, sleep better, manage my money better, just everything better & I love it and him. He is truly my one and only, til death do us part.

by: Anonymous

I met up with Virgo for a date and it went really well I hadn't felt a spark like that for many many years we have text each other each day (recently me being the one that starts the conversation) but he always replies is he just him being nice replying to me? On the date the eye contact was amazing I had never had someone stare into my eyes like that before and he went in for a kiss once it was finished but was only a lip one that was nearly 3 weeks ago can anyone give me advise?

Thank you

by: Anonymous

ive been dating a Virgo man but he's so mysterious, says something and next time totaly different from the previous. it's like he doesn't know what he wants. when he asks for space I give him but when I assume so much he feels bad cause it seems I'm always the one that should look for him.

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