Virgo man and Aquarius woman

Visitor experiences and questions on Virgo man Aquarius woman relationships

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I have been seeing a Virgo man for about one month... the sex is amazing and he seems to come out of his shell completely in the bedroom, he is intense and passionate and an impressive lover and loves to please.

I'm not sure how it will work out in the long run as he does not say much about the rest of the relationship and being an Aquarius I have a terrible habit of fishing for answers! I will definitely miss the sex if we break up. Lee

I'm a Virgo man who dated an Aquarius woman for almost 8 months. The relationship had a lot of problems, though it had some really good parts. We had some very deep conversations, and the sex was mind-blowing. One of her favorite things to do was to tie my hands to the clothes rail in our bedroom closet and then blow me.. slowly, over the course of about an hour. When we met she realized I had trouble being very vocal or blunt when it came to sex, and she got some kind of kick out of making me talk dirty to her.

Sometimes she would make me finish in her mouth and others she would eventually undress and then back up to me. Ugh. It makes me shudder to think about it. We split up because she was way too unpredictable and volatile, but some days I still kick myself for letting her go. By far the sexiest woman I've ever dated.

I'm an Aquarius woman currently dating a Virgo man and he has the same issues with talking dirty or really getting into sex. The above sounds like an awesome idea! I'm going to try it LOL!! Thanks for sharing that. You rock =)

I broke up with a Virgo man a few weeks ago. And I swear I had a blast getting him to talk dirty to me. He seemed so chaste and innocent it was hilarious and yet really hot at the same time. I could tell he really liked me and I really liked him as well. It still hurts to talk about it because there was so much passion in that relationship and it's hard to forget about him.

Another Virgo guy I dated a while back was great mental stimulation, but unfortunately he lacked the intensity and passion I wanted. Which I'm attributing to his lack of a fire sign in his charts :P We're still great friends though.

I'm an Aquarius woman and I dated a Virgo man for 5 months. and it was 5 mths of hell. I mean the sex was AWESOME. but when it came to serious stuff, we always clashed. I love him 2 death, but not a good match from personal experience

Its funny about the talking dirty thing. My Virgo man surprised me one time and I LOVED IT. He thought he sounded funny but I was sooooo into it.

About going down on the Virgo man, I don't know about you Aquarian girls but I love to please my man! and vise versa with the Virgo man in my case. Sex is great, the intensity and the passion is something I have never experienced in my life.

All in all the only thing we really clash on is my need for reassurance of how he feels towards me. Sometimes he can seem pretty cold others I cant even get him off me and totally sweet. Drives me a little batty and unsure of the relationship sometimes.

Hope it works out, my research says it can be a bit of a battle but can be a good companionship if both people are willing to work on relationship.

My relationship with my (ex) Virgo man was horrible and wonderful all at the same time. As many good things about him as I grew to love, were twice as many bad things that I hated about him. But the things I loved kept me hanging on for almost 3 months. He was WAY too controlling, and we stimulated each other intellectually, but his ego never let him admit he was wrong. He had the need to be superior all the time. It was never equal. Overall, it was a mistake.

Hi I am Aquarius woman about to date a Virgo man but with the testimonies I saw here I don't know what to do

To the poster above, go for it! No relationship is ever perfect (how boring would that be anyway) and in my experience this one has a lot more good things than bad.

I just broke up with a Virgo man ive been dating for 8 months. The sex wasn't that great but our mental connection was really on point. But when we always talked about us it came to a clash, we really had no future together. We are too similar in what we think about relationships because we both are scared both to commit. Well I will probably be the best thing he will ever get. And I say that in all honesty! But I know Aquarius woman and Virgo man is a pair to avoid.

I dated a Virgo man off and on for about 1.5yrs.. he has a girl now but we still see each other off and on.. the sex was definitely mind blowing and many times I was the one to start things, he would never asked. We split because he always criticized everything and my mood swings never made it better. He always felt like he was right and After you cheat on me things will never be the same. It was definitely rough but if I had to do it again I would. He was my best friend. The best advice is to try to be patient with them and stroke their ego..

I dated an Aquarius woman....she was a wordsmith...could cut me in two with her razor sharp was the best I have had...she was totally uninhibited and great to work with :)

I am an Aquarius woman and I like a Virgo man. He seems to be too busy all the time.. So I am wondering if he's interested or not. Need your help guys :)

I am an Aquarius woman dating a Virgo man. Everything is true - most intense passionate mind-blowing sex ever -and I know he feels the same - we do things have never done before- he cannot get enough of it. Conversation is always stimulating and interesting. He can be a bit hot an cold at times - and he always has to have the last word. But the patience and stroke the ego advice is true. Luckily I am older then him - so I am not the volatile, unpredictable out their Aquarius girl anymore. We really are compatible - complete honesty and respect help. And it is awesome to meet a man wanting the same good traits, honest, loyal, faithful and genuine decent heart. Focus on the good and let the bad shit go when it happens.

I'm a Aquarius girl with a Virgo male. The first time we got together it was fast as instincts kicked in and we rushed into a relationship off of cold instincts. It was GREAT , sex was off the hook (on both ends), passion, flowers, open my door and the intellectual stimulation was there. He soon declared his LOVE for me and I returned. After about three mount's he ended it for some stupid reason r another ,saying we rushed. The problem was he kept on nick-picking at the smallest things, hard on himself about work and being perfect, gave me a hard time even if apologized for small imperfections. Me on the on the other had. I'm little bit more optimistic about life, aware perfection is non-existent in human form, I tend to look at the big mountain, instead of the little ant hill.

Now I'm not saying one is wrong and one is right, but what I am saying is it caused problems for us. Well now we are back together after 5 or 6 mount's away from me and, back with the X (the X had Cheated, Lied in the past, and of course she did it again, he forgave her (Libra) for what I call BIG and Small got me broke up with). I say this to say he learned a couple of few valuable lessons in life witch before we parted I told him) #1.U will figure out there is a difference between a traffic violation and a Felony #2.All you do will come back to you X2 #3.U will miss me #4Last but not least...U will be back, and humble. LMAO, needless to say all of with came true. Now he swears I'm Physic. Now he is back, we r taking it slower, he respects me, appreciates me, I learned from the first time to look over the nit picky-ness and the criticism, and he learned that there r bigger things to worry bout than a broken nail. like cheating. He says he thought about me all the time even with her. and I believe it cause I felt it even before he said it. He loves me I love him and despite everything we will be there for one another. Despite what most compatibility test say...I think this is my soul mate match. Opposite. he picks up what I leave behind and vice versatile. some simulators.. Yin and yang.

i am an Aquarius woman dating a Virgo man. currently been together now for one year 6 months ha. he is an amazing guy . I love the sex its mind-blowing as you've all stated its passionate. he's so romantic and aww its too hot haha. but I don't know when it comes to how our minds work its not so hot him and I click and clash very quickly. our begging months together where perfect or so I thought.. as time passed by I realized he did not really want o commit to this relatonship. no offense to any Virgo guys out there but they're whores haha. they know how to grab and please a girl. anywho ass time passes him and I decided to work things out and how he lacks to explain himself emotionally has always made me question where our relationship is going. him and I have very different perspective in life, he always thinks negatively and im always more cheerful and here to help him try and see the good of life. he always always wants the last word and everything and when he's wrong he ac its like the victim. any who it's funny because this relationship is strait up a rollercoaster ride it has many ups and downs. There are many many surprises in this relationship. and it's honestly fun to be with someone I can agree on and disagree on it makes this an interesting couple.. but over time I have realized I need to work on my attitude and my gulibility. with the experience I am having now .it's wow amazing there are days he can be so cold hearted and that he doesn't see the big picture but then there are honestly das I can't get him off me haha. there are days he is the most passionate and sweetest guy that I've ever met. he has an amazing sense of humor and can make a girl laugh. I don't know if this is what you guys want to know but it's honestly fun. I hear Virgo and Aquarius aren't the best match hahaha ..he is more outgoing and pshh Virgo is so not shy and I was at first.. his view on things aren't so hot but over time I've grew to love his flaws and admire him. ladies just incase please if your going out wiff a Virgo now learn to appreciate his effort 'cause they do try and it's like they glue on to your heart and can't leave. I love our differences and what's amazing is what he'll do to keep this relationship going.

I am an Aquarius woman and I am head over heels with a Virgo man. He already likes someone else but I am not going to give up. Its really difficult, seeing that Aquarius and Virgo are not naturally compatible and romance between them is highly unlikely. I have made the first move and hinted him about my true feelings since I didn't want to waste any time waiting for him to ask me out or anything because I knew that was never going to happen. He is taking his own sweet time to analyze me I guess. We have become friends but he seems disinterested. But the encouraging part is that he is not ignoring me. I think I need to be a little patient and let him take his time. I have read all about Virgos and I think I can make him fall for me, although how long that might last, of that I am not sure. But He is The Man I WANT and I am going to get him, by hook or by crook!

Great sex bad relationship..... I've dated several Virgos and it always ends up bad!! (GREAT SEX).. though

I fell in love with a Virgo man when I was 17. We were on again off again until 20 when we had twins together. He could not commit and by 24 I moved 2000 miles away from him. 14 years later much to my surprise I found myself kissing him on a beach and had the most romantic reconciliation with my Virgo man. It has been a year and a half since that fateful day and we are happy, madly in love and having an amazing time with each other. I find now that I'm almost 40 I have a new appreciation for the quiet loyalty and hidden passion of this man. His intelligence stimulates me and he lets me be who I am and loves me for who I am.

I always attract to Virgo. They are great lovers. I am with my Virgo man for 10 years. Still madly in love. We've been though ups and downs. But as we get old, we stop playing games and endure more. As well as appreciation.

I just ended it with my Virgo man. We got swept up in each other immediately we met eyes and went to another galaxy together. Almost all of the above is true. It's a very bumpy road. He swept me up and took me out to lavish dinners and came on sooo strong it scared me half to death. I could feel his desire for me all the time like I was his prey. I never did trust him. I think he likes to hook women and then string them along. After 3 weeks we slept together then he was distant almost broke up then he started to treat me bad making me lower than him. If he made something to eat he wouldn't offer it to me. Very selfish. And he even yelled at me for drinking after him even though we had been kissing for weeks. Weird. And the final straw that broke the back was I caught him on the phone with another girl saying " I told you I can't see you". I'm sure he had other women fall for him. And he told me out of blue " I'm not going to marry you." Hello we had only been dating for 4 weeks. Who says that? I know they say that Virgos will test you! Well that is all he did he drove me batty! But it's true my confusion and my heart keep me sooo interested in him. I can't get him out of my mind. I told him just friends but then I thought. I'm actually better then that and he should of treated me better. His loss. Good luck to the women who put with the critical side. Life is too short to hear that all the time! Mine was probably a sociopath. Very common and his traits were right on with that. I think I stayed cause I wanted to dissect him and our relationship. I'm glad to know other people have gone through the same thing. For now I'm going to leave him alone and move on!!

Was married to a Aquarius woman for 4 years. Was naturally attracted to her romantic nature. Ended up not working though Virgos are more analyzers than romantics. Up side though to this day she cannot say I didn't take care of her or had to worry about me cheating. So give a Virgo a shot :)

well I am a female Aquarius now dating a Virgo male and yes I can say the sex is mind blowing but Virgo loves to criticize too much.....but I don't think I can leave him!!!!!

Aquarius woman here. I was recently with a Virgo for 3 months. It started out really fast. He said he had liked me since the day he met me. Immediately started telling me he loved me, wanted me to move in etc. etc. The house with a dog and all of that. It was sweet for a bit. But something was going on behind those eyes that I didn't quite understand. I always felt like he was somewhere else...

The sex started off really hot and passionate. But the connection seemed wrong. I think that once the Virgo man gets the woman he wants, then he stops trying and starts criticizing. So, so, so controlling. Don't tell me what to do! "Take a shower." "We don't need to buy chicken today." "Don't put the jacket on the couch." "Go to bed now." I mean, come on! Constant nagging and wanting to be in control. Then it is like he is actually a psychopath or something. Trying to be so normal. "I watch football and drink water. derrrrrr."

I remember he wanted to be all PDA all of the time. And when I didn't want to hold hands he would whine about it. Why would I want to hold hands and be all "snuggle bunny" (as he would say), when I'm trying to hang out with friends? Way too affectionate in public. Save it for the bedroom, "sugar bear". (I have a name, you big dummy!) Then he would always use baby talk and be hyper around me. I'm like "Whaaaat??" Annoying. Then so negative talking about other people behind their backs, but very worried about his own reputation, so they never heard a word of it.

Definitely not a good match. Save yourself the time and find a fire sign. These earthy signs are not right for us fantastic air signs. They are borrriiiiing and too sensitive to handle us. The girl Virgos are awesome as stabilizing friends, but the guys are horrible for relationships.

hahaha. I just looked at the other posts. There is definitely truth to this Virgo/Aquarius thing. Man hooks you with sweetness. Gets controlling. Nothing gets much deeper than maybe some sensitive drunken confessions on his end about other people but not himself. Then when things go south acts like they were golden the entire time. But really had ex wives and girlfriends they were talking to and stringing on. (Not having sex with, so not in trouble in their minds...) But flirting like that is unacceptable. Seriously. And I think Virgos are liars. They really aren't honest. Not right for Aquarius.

im and Aquarius woman currently dating a Virgo man. . .i love him 2 death, sex is perfect (he was mi 1st) conversation is great, we never have a dull moment on da phone. . . So far ii cant find anything to complain about, besides him always being out "making money"-we always talk about our future 2gether. . .looks bright from here

I am an Aquarius woman who was dating a Virgo man for 4 months. One day we were hugging and kissing, the next day I didn't hear from him. It's been 3 weeks, still haven't heard from him. But I will honestly say that the sex was very good, steamy, and passionate!! The conversations were really great too. I love the time we spent together and the things we would do together, especially with the kids. He had kids and I have kids and we all were getting along. Just don't know what made the Virgo man disappear, but I truly feel he's going to contact me again.

Virgo men pretend that they are loyal and good, but in reality, they are cheaters and want to have all kinds of women waiting around for them. Don't get wrapped up in their games. They will string you on and never really let you in. They will disappear for days and expect for you to think it is okay. They will text or call constantly and shower you with attention, then not be in contact for a while and think you will just play along. They are horrible people and deserve to be single. Aquarian women are way too special for them. Virgo men are boring and not intelligent. They are the perfect example of a man being a dog. Yet they believe they are always in the right. And very good at keeping their trails clean. Sneaky gross Virgo men.

I am an Aquarius woman with a Virgo man.. and let me just say I have never found anyone in my life that has completely undone my walls the way this man has. He challenges me and makes me open up no matter how painful it is and I LOVE it. As an Aquarius I am extremely stubborn and I know Virgo men have a hard time seeing *the other side* and apologizing, but he does. We talk things out and use our intellectual sides to sort out the problems we are facing. It's hard because we are both on different planes as far as mind-set (and he is 11 years my senior) but we have way too much common ground to just throw it all away. We both love to travel and be in the social scene but at the same time a good bottle of wine and a House marathon seem to do just nicely for a break once in a while. He is amazing and he possesses qualities that I am learning to possess while I am teaching him patience. We frustrate each other to NO end but at the end of the day we are closer than we started. I, for one, am not discouraged by any negative stories I have read because regardless of sign, we are all individual and should take into account MORE than just astrological sign. Astrology is just a jump off point.... matters of the heart are far more complicated and should be handled with passion, respect and optimism at all times. Give until you cannot give anymore....and if you reach the point where you can't give anymore, it's time to move on.

Well, being a Virgo man, being as a gay. As a young Virgo man, they act as somewhat like a girl and very funny as a nerd. Virgo sign rules by Virgo-sun. Whatever, the symbol of Virgo is not that bad among other eleven signs, but we don't know how is the Virgo guys effect by that Virgo sun. For the opposite, I saw a lot of Virgo women are very smart, attractive, and full of charm, even though they are small; that okay because they are feminine; not all, many guys feel for Virgo. However, it is not okay for guys, haha. Being a Virgo guy is very sad. If I, I will never ever date a Virgo man for some reason. So, I date a Virgo woman instead because they are smart, generous, loves with care, and also beautiful-good as a mother of my children. Anyway, I don't know exactly how Virgo guy act but I can see some of the movie stars, singers, actresses, they are awesome Virgo! Virgo never play game of heart. I'm on the third weeks of Libra; I knew Virgo very well because my sis is rule by Virgo in a 2nd weeks of Virgo; she is the head of a house; she is a Virgo that we can depend on.

Best luck every one who date a Virgo, man!

I just reunited with my "friend" whose a Virgo man. we talked 3 years ago before I had my daughter and I can remember talking daily and exchanging freaky texts and videos. we had a long distance thing. now im newly single and connected with him again and its great he's funny thoughtful, sweet, a go getter, he just says the right things and I already know he will be a great lover because we both love sex-.... I can see where you guys talk about them rushing- he wants to come here to where I live-now closer to him- and have a serious relationship. I would love that closeness but like I said its just been a long distance relationship and we never have met. we met online three years ago and we still have a lot of flirting left over. I hope we can grow because yes I like my space but I also love a man to adore me and respect me as I will do the same- good luck yall

I'm a Aquarius teen Aquarius girl dating a teen Aquarius boy. we are no longer together, our relationship was like heaven but also like hell. we cant agree on nothing. but we love each other to death

dating a Virgo man, (or in his eyes married) these men are loving yes but extremely controlling almost scary. There also very manipulating, the type that do something wrong and make you feel guilty. As an Aquarius we identify there flaws yet still hold on for the ride because we know it'll be exciting and we all love a bad boy from time to time. Virgo men put so much time into there women its like were there investment. They'll spoil, romance and stimulate are minds but as free as the Aquarius woman loves to be the Virgo man will try to cage us but we wont even see it coming because they do it in a sweet way. This is my second Virgo relationship the first ended with a child, (I know im brave to go back for more) this guys like a carbon copy but I don't know why I cant resist these sexy, ambitious, romantic, controlling Virgo men...o careful when drinking with these guys they will spill there lives to you and expect you to never leave them because they've done to much for us or we know to much about them. CLINGERS. anywas just having fun for now the attention and sex is great and who doesn't love a man that is open to advice in the bedroom and will do anything to please there woman. Wouldn't really call Virgo men cheaters because it takes a lot for them to open up to a girl but there definitely flirts, and over to know girls are lusting after them but if you're there special girl he'll tell the world and everyone will know.

I am an Aquarian woman who has been with a Virgo man ever since I was 16 yrs old. I have to be honest and say it has been very hard with this Virgo man after all these long years. He is VERY attractive but also VERY dense which makes parenting, paying bills and everyday life a power struggle more often than not. Many Virgo men that I have met over the years have reminded me of my husband in more ways than one. Sexually attractive, very humorous, caring and passionate but also clueless about what's important and dim at the same time. He constantly criticizes other people but when he is criticized he really goes nuts. I have read all these posts and everything the Aquarian women have said is so true! Virgo men are very controlling, ego maniacal, lying, opinionated but also very passionate lovers. It's true what they are all saying about the is VERY MINDBLOWING! He is the only man that has ever given me a G-spot orgasm and even though I have tried [unsuccessful y] over the years, never has anyone come remotely close to pleasing me in bed like he has always done. Now, Im almost 40 yrs old and find myself involved with a younger man romantically and I don't know what to do. I've had a very tough time with my Virgo husband since day one and I do love him in a lot of ways but his bad habits are really beginning to irritate me too much and I'm seriously thinking about moving on and letting go! If you are an Aquarian woman and think you want to be with a Virgo man please consider another sign all together. I think after 23 years I know that Virgo and Aquarius are like water and vinegar-they don't mix well together.

Im a 20 yr old Aquarius woman and let me just say I had a Virgo man hmm interesting two yrs of my life. This man was the only man that I never got to figure out !! and wanted and never GOT ! he was the weirdest individual I had ever came across in my whole entire life ! We had been together for two yrs not really together because he was in a whole diff state but I would travel back and forth constantly. The more I went to visit the less and less I saw him and once It was time for me to leave he would call me that last day arguing with me telling me I had changed when I would call him plenty of times to see him and he was "too busy" he would speak to me the whole time I was in the airport telling me how sad he was and wished I never came into his life etc . I would try to end things with him but he would come back to me with these long and beautiful sms or emails etc. He was the only man that I ever broke down to and I mean really broke down to. He would constantly criti ze me because I had a really good life ( daddies spoiled little brat) was what he would call me he would be mad when I would be out shopping with my girls or because I was driving a Mercedes at the age of 16 it was a constant problem all the time ... but something about him kept me stringing along I think the relationship was played out in my head than it was in reality .. but honestly I think I wanted to dissect him and it kept me intrigued because I never could .. He never spoke about his life I felt like he was ashamed of the way he lived because he felt like my parents were so wealthy, I never met his parents .. I never really even knew him now that I think about it .. the sex was BAD BAD BAD ! he was a boring intimate person .. he stated he loved me but would talk to all these other girls but still be completely honest with me about it well not completely honest but to me there is a difference between a lie and telling the truth ( not the whole truth ) but its still not a lie you just leave a few things out . We had fell for each other so quick in a matter of two wks after that it slowly went downhill.. I completely lost myself in that unhealthy relationship when the time came where I was back to ME where I didn't care anymore, I wasn't nice to him anymore I told him I didn't want to speak to him three months had passed we met eyes again I was completely over it, but his eyes cried to me he explained his love for me, and how he didn't understand why he was the way he is but that he couldn't hurt me because I seemed so innocent and in his eyes he had never let me go and he will never meet another girl like me, how sorry he was bla bla bla .. It was already to late all I could tell him was " what do you want from me? You broke my heart what else is there to sdo between us two " I had been picked up like a little flower and slowly with all his criticism, rudeness, and cruelty he picked at my petals by the time we stood in front of each other that last time all those pretty little petals had been all gone all that was left in his hand was a strong little stem and she was no longer foolish .. I don't regret him .. If I could take it all back I would still do it again he was a lesson that I learned .. he gave me the chance to love again after a first loves heartbreak, he made me realize that I could feel alive again after your heart had gotten broken, he broke me ... broke me down so low that it was incredible I was a in my room for wks .. I couldn't understand how someone could treat someone so nice, so kind, so cruel .. he broke my heart, but I learned .. I learned that I will NEVER EVER love a man who shows no love for me ! to all those who have a successful relationship in this compatibility I give you much praise good luck x Just because it didn't work for us doesn't mean it will not work for you

Im an Aquarius women dating a Virgo male. We have only been dating for about 3 months. Do you want to know how I make it work???? Be emotionally detached from him. It will drive him nuts! I'm not ready to be in a "relationship" anytime soon and neither is he. But the fact that I don't hound his phone, text him all the time, get clingy when we are at bars with mutual friends, is what I think he likes best about me. He flirts shamelessly with other girls and I in turn do the same with other men. The sex is INSANE. Sweaty, lusty, passionate, gentle and rough all at the same time. We have a great mental connection. I admire what he does for a living and he admires what I do. He knows he can't f*ck with me mentally and I know the same about him. We respect each other above all else. I think the aqua/Virgo combo is better left as friends with benefits. Hey ... its working for me ;)

I have an addiction to Virgo men, for some reason they always find me. Im an Aquarian Girl with Virgo Rising dating a Virgo Male with Aquarius Rising. When we argue especially if he knows I am hurt he will be on me like a rash. When the dust settles do does he back to being a prick. But the prick I love. He says he can not commit as his eye may wonder. But I get bored VERY EASILY, so much so that I will let him go. He depends on me for so much in his life and takes it all for granted. Because of this fact I smile because he will miss me when I am gone. If he commits I'll stay but being 26 and he 23 I really don't have time for games I. I give him his freedom to do what he likes "What's done in the dark will come to light"

Ill keep you updated on what happened lol


The worse relationship I ever had...a rollercoaster...a liar, selfish, self-absorbed, treated me like an ornament, super controlling, picky, a social misfit, lazy, a couch potato, sometimes unclean, detached, not a match at all for an Aquarius. There are much better, sexier, men out there

I dated a Virgo man 8 years ago for a year. We were friends then he chased me so I gave him a chance. The sex was GREAT. Then its so clise like all above. He criticized me a lot, he had no direction, he felt lower than me and finally he cheated with other girl. So I asked him, did he want it on or off he chose off. Then life goes on. I got married to an amazing Scorpio man and have a son. But then out of nowhere he showed up after I never heard any about him. He said he s much better now and he did all that for me. I got drifted a while, but then found out that he just wanna tested me out. He's going to get married but when I added him in my facebook, I noticed he still platonically flirts with other girl. So I better really cut it off once and for all. I think Virgo man and Aquarius woman can make it for passionate fling and stimulating friendship. But for long lasting relationship Aquarius woman won't find depth with him. Virgo causalities can hurt Aquarian's value of honesty. And the soft side of Aquarius will spoil Virgo's tendency of his ego and perfection.

Im a Virgo male 33 and I met a fantastic Aquarian female 31... 5 days ago!!!! She is cute and sexy but its but not just that, its her personality and inner spirit that is like a powerful magnet to me... her vocal control and inflection is medicinal to me.. she is intellectually deep but still emotional and sensitive all at the same time.. lol

She is my new co worker so im not gonna push for anything but I know already that this is the kind of woman I would marry..

We connect in this odd level instantly its like we can read each others faces and we are both very expressive.. we talk all the time as though we met in a previous life..

Well im gona cross my fingers that I can have her or a woman just like her..

Oh boy, what a perfect site this is! I have googled many a question into the Google box, about my Virgo, hoping to get the magical equation, the mystical answer to fix all our ills!

I knew my V since about 10, felt an attraction as I grew up, never knew him at all though. I kept in touch after I moved away from the farm (he lived two farms down, 10 years older). Always when I returned to visit his dad and him, (his twin married at 25 or so to an Aries-whoa they have it hard!) always I felt a connection, and even brought a boyfriend I was about to split up with, on a trip down memory lane, and I felt zinging with them both in the room!

Well, I wanted to return to the country to live for years, and had been looking for somewhere to rent as a weekend getaway, and since his dad died earlier in the year, I decided to ask to rent a room. He thought the idea would be good. Not very verbal, very to the point, (Scorpio rising, and me Cap rising). Well, I made the first move, and he didn't see it coming, but liked the idea, but got scared because I wanted to move to the relationship phase. He kept turning it on, and shutting it off every other weekend, and I would drive back to the city crying, only to return to try to get him to act better, which he would. Slowly, over the year, I moved in stuff, and then moved out stuff. All my stuff is gone now. I think he is done, although if I initiate sex, of course the passion, affection and cuddling is there even stronger. Then he shuts down. At least I got my say in, he now knows what a Virgo is, I think it makes him feel better about who he is, and at least he knows that I will meet him half way. I don't know if I will be there for him if he is ever ready. I don't think he wants it. The last time we "broke up" he went on a phone dating service and set up a profile. I found the piece of paper, he said he hasn't done anything, but he made the move away from me by doing it!

I have been frustrated, heartbroken and mystified by his ambiguous actions, but I feel so good in his arms, and in his presence. I know life with him would be boring, but I know myself that I can make my own interests keep me busy, and I would have liked to get used to his grumpiness over time. I wasn't patient enough. The only reason I stuck it out was because an Aquarius girlfriend who is a horoscope queen told me it was a no no with a Virgo. I used the researching to help our relationship, and he even found it all fascinating when I related some of it to him, but perhaps my girlfriend was right, it just can't work, esp. with our rising signs clashing. I like that he was always a good man, with good ideals and ethics...

good luck, try it, esp. with all this ammo, you will no doubt fare much better. I would do it all again too.

In love with a Virgo guy, am Aquarius girl. Been a crazy relationship ride, meeting officially at 15 years old drunk in the back of a car but he dropped me home in the cab when he lived in a total different direction, then met again at 18 was friends with my then boyfriend, yet I had a dislike for him for some reason, then became friends at 19 after he randomly called me to talk, hooked up at 21, we're born same year so same age. now at 25 things have taken a turn of confusion (we have never dated, both been in and out of relationships but always kept speaking to each other strangely, even thou we had mad fights where we stopped talking for long periods of time, as if we were a married couple lol)...but im just totally in love with him, I know that now, there is no explanation, he is the one I know it and I understand him and I just believe that when its the right time things will be but I know he loves me he just needs to figure himself out. But I have to say he ha s never lied to me on what he does and who he does it with. I can be scared, I have been scared about my feelings for him cuz I did think we were just best friends and I know he is more scared even thou he can hide his feelings as good as I can. I leave it in the hands of the universe.

When your in love your in love, and even through the hurt and confusion. you somehow understand when you do connect with someone and accept them. don't let other ppls views confuse you, follow your gut, its your heart not anyone else's. Everyone's story is written for oneself.

I'm an Aquarius woman, and Virgo men are like my kryptonite. I would never wanna be in a relationship with one. They're too picky. But that's how I always get sucked in. I like the challenge of making someone that hard to impress want me.

Needless to say I keep my relations with Virgos purely sexual, and it all works out fine. ;)

I am a Aquarius girl who's really is in like with a Virgo boy, I never experience a relationship with them.. but for some reason I am curious about them now that I met him. I don't know what it is that attract me to him so much. I know why I like him but he always on my mind and I don't want to be just his friend. I am not trying to rush in a relationship, I just want to know if we could go somewhere but like they say Virgo's don't express their feeling so I don't know what to do which is an issue for me. Another issue that I have is that I think that he has a physical attraction to me because he trying to take my v card and when we do talk for hours we end up having a conversation about us having sex again. We have tried attempts but I was doing it for him to make him happy and a closer way of making him mines. Reading about Virgo man or boys, I can see some stuff that can relate to the person I am talking to right now. We both are in college so I don't know if he just trying to explore first before he ready to settle down. Also, he tells me he like me and I am everything he looking for in girl but he's not doing a good job of showing it. i want just forget about him but its hard.... Do any one have any suggestions that could help me with this situation because its really stressing me out..

I'm an Aquarius girl who has been trying to get over a Virgo guy for the past several weeks after almost a 1 year relationship. It has never, ever been so hard for me to get over a guy, but this Virgo really made is so difficult! Reading these posts have shed so much light onto what was going on and what went wrong. There were many, many red flags (way too controlling, picky, critical and possessive) and instances where I second-guessed myself but because the sex was so mind-blowing and he was so sweet and intellectually stimulating at times, that I just ignored the warnings. I really think that he strung me along after about 6 months, after "loosing" his job (more like getting fired, which seemed to be a regular pattern for him) and I actually thought that I had a real connection with him and truly wanted to spend my life with him. What a huge mistake! All the while I was intrigued and was trying to figure him out, as most Aquarius girls like to investigate. Now that at I look back, I would not do it again. However, have to say that I learned so much after being with this Virgo guy, especially about heartbreak. I definitely agree that it's better for a "friends with benefits" situation, because Virgo guys are not worth the time and effort for Aquarius girls, we have way too much to offer someone who will actually have a deep connection with us, can look at the big picture, know what is truly important in life and love unselfishly.

I'm a 21 year old Aquarius woman, and I seem to have a thing for Virgo men. My first 'love' in 8th grade was a Virgo. long story short (and for the sake of this post), it didn't work out...

I lost my virginity to a 27 year old Virgo when I was 20. Yes, big age gap, I know. We knew each other from work. and we didn't officially date, we just had some sort of casual relationship. He was clear about that right off the bat, though. and I knew that's all we'd be. I still really liked him though. He'd go out and hang out with all these girls and I wasn't allowed to get jealous. But then one of his close friends started really liking me and took me on a date. he got a little jealous. he got REALLY jealous when I slept with one of our mutual friends. hey, he was allowed to bang all these chicks, but god forbid I sleep with one other person! after that he got all moody and jealous whenever I did my own thing and talked about guys at all. then at some point he decided to get back with his ex, and he just kinda peaced. we parted as friends, but he was so obnoxious in front of me about getting back with her that I told him to go away and leave me alone and just have a happy life with her and ignore me. He said 'deal' and unfriended me on every social networking website we were friends on, and gave me the silent treatment at work. Talk about an immature reaction. we went back to talking for awhile, but we absolutely don't anymore, and it's possible we never will. But...the sex was GREAT. He knew what he was doing.

I am now in the beginning stages of a relationship with another Virgo man. So far, things have been great. The sex is awesome and he really cares about me. it's not perfect, he does the thing where he texts when he feels like it, he's a typical workaholic Virgo, he works two stressful horrible jobs that have been taking a toll on his health. Also accounts for his odd texting habits, he doesn't usually text me at work, which is like the majority of his life. also he's not ready to make it official yet, because of how busy he is with his jobs and how sick he's been. also we live about an hour away from each other, I live in a city and he lives south of the city, by a beach. He considers us a long-distance relationship. (I don't :p) I have faith in him, I feel like as long as I have patience, he'll make us a relationship. He's mature and responsible, unlike the previous Virgo in my life. I feel like I've dealt with so many emotional issues regarding Virgos that I kind of know what I'm doing with him. I guess we'll see. I'm staying positive and confident. I feel compelled to mention that I'm sure I won't marry him or anything. He's not my soulmate. but he's cute, funny, sweet, and I like being around him. So I'm just here for the ride, and to make things the best they can be. :)

I am an Aquarius woman who was married to an Virgo man. We were married for 20+ years. Reading thru the above, I am proof that it can work. Sex was great thru those years and even though we didn't agree on some things we found a balance between us. We raised 3 beautiful children. It all fell apart with drugs. True Aquarian style I walked away with my children. I have now fallen for another Virgo. After being with one for that period of time I have taken on some of their qualities. This is now an advantage for me. I read thru what an Aquarian is suppose to be like and only half of me identifies with it. You do have to teach a Virgo man to show his love, but it is truly mind blowing when you reach him. You will think about him 24/7, and of course he will never know! All I can say is assess you situation and if this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.....stop reading and do.

Ok so I've been dating this Virgo guy for maybe almost a month now. everything seems great. We got out on dinner dates and soon we're going the zoo and to the circus lol. We haven't had sex or anything like that (yet), I'm kind of taking it slow with this one. I've never really had an experience with a Virgo man before but he's putting all my other ex's and past relationships to shame.

He makes me feel appreciated even though we aren't an item! and I love it. He calls me while he's at work and tells me how much he misses me and has me call him when I wake up, get to work AND get off of work. Might sound a bit much but I love a man who chases me lol it's like a big rush. Oh and he is extremely affectionate (holding hands and lots of kisses). I absolutely adore his conversation and his ability to communicate. As an Aquarius, I love an intellectual person.

But on the other side of things, reading these posts have really made me a bit scared to continue with him lol. Now we both want a relationship and want to build a family in the near future. we're both 21, which is an age that everyone wants to "explore" unfortunately. The only thing that turns me off about him is his dry sense of humor lol. im like oh my gosh shut up already (in my head of course lol). Just today he told me that he wants to know my sizes in everything so that if he sees something he would buy it for me!! I've never had anything like this before I feel like I'm falling for this guy even though we "supposedly" wouldn't make a good match. not sure where to go from here. Seems like the whole size thing is the next step? lol or maybe I'm thinking too much..

All of this has me wondering! I am an Aquarius woman who has been talking to a Virgo man for a few weeks. He is very smart but not nerdy, can hold his own in a conversation with me, which is hot. It scares me to think he would be ice cold towards me though. Ouch. Maybe some of the control issues aren't true. I know I am totally the opposite of what everything says about Aquarians running from commitment and structure. I will give it a chance and then let you know how it's going...

I am a teenage Aquarius girl who is, as of recently, dating a Virgo boy. I had been chasing this boy for months and finally about a week ago, we started dating. He always seemed interested in me, but too scared or something to ask me out until the other night we spent together making out and it was more of a physical time spent together and then we started dating. Now it's hard to make conversation and plan things with I'm wondering if our relationship is purely ment to be physical. That is somewhat of a disappointing thought because like I said, I put so much effort into landing this relationship and I really want it to work. It's just that recently when we've spent time together, he's not as out there as he was the first night we hung out. I wonder if it's because he's nervous or if he's not interested anymore but too scared to say so. please help, tell me what I can do to make this work!

I nearly didn't start dating my perfect Virgo man because of my ex Virgo who I was in a six year relationship with. They are very different people though... Although both I had/have a great sexual relationship with. We sometimes joke about the fact he's a Virgo. This is because the second time he asked me out, at a party, I asked him his star sign, when he said 'Virgo' I walked away saying "It'll never work." 8 months down the line its going really well!

I'm 26. Started dating my first Virgo at 15, baby at 16, married at 17! Hmm... We had a strong physical attraction from the beginning 'til the end.. we were both too young, he had OCD and we both had tough family backgrounds. We were madly in love, but when he was disloyal to me, that was it. He tried so hard to win me back writing songs, he is a great musician, sending flowers and chocolates. I couldn't go back. I have two lovely boys from the experience and lots of happy and sad memories. We split when I was 21 and divorced by 23. My first date after was with a Virgo but that only lasted a month. Dated a Capricorn for 10 months he broke my heart. But now fond myself dating another Virgo. We have taken it slow because we both have kids. He is 11yrs older. The sexual attraction is again very strong. It started 8 months ago and I love him. We give each other plenty of space and I'm in no rush to move in together. We have a mutual respect for one..... so fingers cross ed!

I am a Aquarius woman and I am talking with a Virgo man and he is nice and thoughtful, but not sure of his direction. He is a truck driver, therefore you never know what is going on.

where are the Virgo men?

I am a 30yr old Aquarius and was dating a Virgo man for almost 6yrs. And let me just say it has been the worst but yet so weird the longest relationship I've ever had! 1st of all he's CHEAP CHEAP CHEAP! Lazy, selfish, UNFAITHFUL, arrogant, cocky, unemotional, manipulative, & the list just goes on & on!! Yes the only good thing we have is sex! Honestly, the BEST lover I've ever had. But that's where it ends. They will NEVER commit & just LOVE the attention they get from women because they are insecure and need constant reassurance from a woman that they are so hot & so great! They are the charmers!! Therefore they have MANY female "friends" are very flirtatious & you will go crazy trying to determine which ones he's sleeping with! But in all honesty they are complete failures and once the gig is up and you find that he's nothing but a LOSER you will be very mad at yourself for even meeting this trash! They are NEVER wrong always right very critical. He will always ta lk down on me about everything I say or do. Will always find something negative to say. Basically Aquarius sisters run far quick fast the other way!! I'm really upset that I didn't leave his sorry butt much sooner. The signs were all there from the very beginning!! What a waste of time. I seriously HATE HIM! They are SICK PATHOLOGICAL LIARS!! But will always make it seem like you're the one with the problem. They will not try and fix or hear about any issues in the relationship because remember, they are NEVER wrong!! So please believe that he will fell very SECURE in the relationship that you will not go nowhere and never leave him! Umm case in point look at my situation 6 freakin years!! This is how cocky they are!! They are way too BORING for us lively FUN Aquarius women. BORING BORING BORING!! I'm now 30yrs old and have to start all over again which really saddens me. But whatever I rather start all over again and make 30 more mistakes with 30 different dudes than to be 1 more day with his sorry no god BROKE CHEAP trifling behind! I'm good! I don't need him for nothing more than just SEX!! Which dammit I will sure miss! Hehehehe! But I'm VERY happy I finally womaned up & freed myself from this 6yrs misery I was living in. I was living a lie!! I was miserable sad sad sad!! I was settling for so much less and putting up this big front like everything is great & I was starting to lose myself & my own identity of who I REALLY am!! They will take our light ladies our special unique gift that NO other female sign has! Great lovers YES but that's about it!! Thank god I am free of this man, this evil misery!! FYI they say are love matches are GEMINIS, ARIES, & LIBRAS. Happy hunting my sisters!! xoxo

27 year old Virgo man here! Just met a sexy Aquarius a couple of weeks ago. We ended up falling in love in 1 night (scary) She told me that it is hard to have feelings for any guy and does not understand how she can have so much feelings just from 1 night. I have to admit I don't get attached easy either and do feel emotion for her as well. It's going to be interesting....

I am an Aquarius female, dated my ex for 4 years on and off. The physical and mental connection was on point and we were very much in love. He did get controlling and I LOVED it because he wasn't over controlling. We never had sex but the intimacy was THERE (no doubt about that). I loved him the and I love him now! Hands down the best I've ever had. Ladies go for it,there will be a lot of down but the ups will overshadow those downs. Be careful though because they are very flirtatious and may cheat.

To my Aqua girl from a Virgo male: I do miss you every day and it feels like you have been gone for years, You broke my heart when you doubted my love for you, You told me that you don't trust me and that I lied to you and cheated on you. I got tired from your nagging and insecurities, all you had to do was to believe in me but you took the easy way out... I never had children yet you expected me to be a dad to your child, I tried so hard to keep you happy, I gave you all my money and even borowed money when times got tough, what I did for you was never enough, You told me you slept with another man a few days after we broke up, you told your friends I was beating you up and you caused me to loose a few friends. I bought you a car that you sold because you thought you where spitefull, still paying for that you know, two months later you declare your love to me again , telling me that you had to do it for me to move on with my life and hate you, the next thing is you ask me for money again? And why did you take my dog? All I can say is that Aqua girls are evil and always playing it so that they can get simpathy from others and as soon as they see through you, you take of like a bird.... not the way I would like to live my life sweaty...

I love my Virgo man!!! He's great!!! He spoils me like crazy!!! He takes awesome care of me. He's honest and loyal and he makes the effort to please me in every way. He always makes me laugh. Treats me like a lady and is very passionate. He was sooooo shy in the beginning, but that's what attracted me to him, his manly good looks that goes with his cute shyness. I don't always believe in astrology, but its interesting to read what they've got to say about our signs, and not everything is true. People who love each other will make the effort to make it work despite their signs.

I dated a Virgo man for 6 months. The first 3 months were amazing. There was an instant attraction, we got hot and heavy right away. AMAZING SEX. But happened. I started noticing little things...receipts...stories didn't really make sense. I felt as though he was lying to me all the time. Although when we were spending time together it would be so great and so perfect I would quickly dismiss my weary feelings and enjoy our time together. After 3 months he asked me to move in with him. I hesitated and said that we should wait at least until we've dated for 6 months to make sure we weren't rushing into anything. This is when things took a turn for the worse. He was very over protective of his phone and his computer, he had lots of baggage from his previous issues..and for Virgos and Aquarians TRUST is a HUGE deal. He became very withdrawn. He never talked much of his personal life, getting any kind of information or history about him was near impo ssible. I tried so hard to understand him and compromise where I could. Things didn't add up for me,looking back on it now they never did. We were supposed to move in together after 4th of July weekend 2010. He took me to California to meet his Uncle and childhood friend. I thought this to be a huge honor. Meet part of the family and the grade school best friend. Then I found a receipt in his wallet...3 days prior to our trip, he took "someone" on a date to Sushi and Sake at the same place where we had out first date. I was FURIOUS. How could he take me to Cali, a week before we are to move in and take someone else out for a date?????? I didn't bother confronting him about it...I had enough suspicion and gut feelings to know that this was not a casual meet with a friend. It was a date!! Plain and simple. I was so angry, I wanted to make him cry! So I sent a nude pic to a random guy friend. I started behaiving very suspiciously, hiding my phone, put it on viberate...basically I was behaiving like else would he know that I sent this pic if he didn't go through my phone. SO I purposfully left my phone out, while I showered, giving him the perfect oppertunity to snoop. Which of course he did. Mind you we are 2 days into our 4 day vacation in Cali. He never mentions snooping through my phone, and I never mention the receipt. We both knew what was up. The rest of our vacation was like a play...we played nice and polite, we hugged, kissed and held hands. I was just waiting for him to explode on me. Much to my surprise he never did, not while we were on vacation. It was quite the opposite, the rest of our vacation was better than great!!! Until we got home. He text me that we were broken up and all this bs, how I hurt him. GOOD!!!! He was a lying, coniving, decietful, POS. He got off on playing mind games with people. Of course the saga continued after we broke up. He turned it all on me as if it was all my fault, that I ruined something hoo. He tried making me feel guilty as if I was supposed to win him back. I later found out that he was a sex addict and a swinger. I think he was also bi-sexual or bi-curious. Towards the end he wanted me to use a strap on didlo...on HIM!???? WTF is right. In any case. I will never date another Vigo man. The sex may br great..but I can do with out the mind fuck. They seem like your dream man at first and then turn into these maniacal,sociopathic bastards. I should have known he was a sex addict...even after having sex 14 times in 4 days...a day later...he still masterbated. He admitted that he masterbates 2-4 times A DAY! If that's not a sex addict...then shit....I don't know what is. Stear clear....lots of head ache, lots of heart ache...and LOTS of bullshit lies with this Virgo. I hope his dick falls off. It's been 2 weeks since I broke it off with him I hear he's already got himself a new victim.

Dated a Virgo man for 7 years and is going to get married to him soon. Can say that our relationship is 10 years since we were best friends for 3 years first. He's sensitive, egoistic, controlling and nags all the time but is caring, supportive and willing to join me with my crazy adventures. Hihi, most of time, I just ignores his instructions and nagging since I value my freedom.

First 6 months of our relationship was crazy! He gets jealous too easily. However, after the years past, we learn about each other bad habits and develop tolerance. Lovemaking was out of this world!! Intellectually, we connect deeply but he can be pretty boring at times.

Overall, it TAKES TIME and A LOT OF EFFORT to know each other first to make the relationship work but it was worth it.

First of all Sarah Palin (aquarius) and Todd Palin (virgo) have been married for 21 years. I am a Virgo man and I must say we fuss a lot about small things and critize a lil too much sometimes. But if you can work pass these imperfections of the Virgo male. You the Aquarius female will in time in learn how loving a Virgo male can be to you. Just as you can be to him. The Virgo male just wants to feel appreciated. The Virgo male will not show their feelings until they are sure that you are who they want to be with. It takes a lil patiences. Somethg that we know Aquarius don't have.Though the Virgo male strive for perfection he know their is no such thing. We are just neat freaks. BUT I MUST SAY I TRUELY LOVE AN AQUARIUS!!! THEY ARE SOME OF THE COOLEST people YOU WILL EVER MEET!

Dated a Virgo man for a few months. They are mr. perfect at first. classy, reserved, manly, hardworkers, never broke, will provide for you. not big on emotion, but express their affection through small, daily sweet things, a thing I had to catch on to. don't be fooled, the silence on the outside is a mask. Virgo men have very intense feelings, and it take a long time for them to feel comfortable revealing them. Often they never do. Understand though, that if a Virgo didn't think you were worth some of his time, he wouldnt be spending it with you. Aquarians can be insecure too. Hide this from the Virgo for a while. as time continued he seemed so into me. things got intense, then he disappeared. found out he went back to being a whore with women that he had around for years. he wasnt ready for anything serious and didn't want to cheat on me. he also had trouble expressing himself, and I got tired of pulling teeth for info. very critical but couldnt take the Aquarian toun ge. very smart though. I always learned something when he spoke which was nice. and what he said always had a purpose. but omission is a lie, and Virgo will keep a secret as a means to protect you, but as an aquarius, we place a high value on honesty and would rather you tell us youre being shady than we find out on our own, because once Aquarius doesn't trust you, its hard to come back. he was also very manipulative, which I really didn't like, and being a pleaser, which is an Aquarian trate, it took me a minute to realize what was going on. would make you feel like it was your fault. insecure and too hard himself. as an aquarius, I actually liked his flaws, when he would show them. I also found him to be very attractive, and although he was confident, as the relationship continued I saw that he was physically insecure. BEST SEX EVER. I IMAGINE CALLING HIM JUST FOR THAT LOL but not its not worth it. Even though I know he and I would never work, I would like to get back in a relationship with him for a while, It was and will be such a good learning experience for both of us.

Me and my Virgo boyfriend/best friend have been living together for one year now. He is wonderful and treats me and my daughter very nicely. He has been the father shes never had. He is passionate, talented and extremely loving. Though he can be hard on himself and others when mistakes are made. He blows of steam and then he's done. he's not one to linger and be jealous or untrusting. I love this man with all my heart and hope that one day we will get married. He has been my support, my shoulder to cry on and so much more. I believe we get along so well because we are so different but at the end of the day we have the same purpose.

I am a Aquarius woman and engaged to a Virgo man. He treats me like a queen and we had a connection the first day we met. He was shy in the beginning but the perfect gentelmen. Our communication is great. We talk the good and bad through. I am very open with him and so is he with me. We really have a understanding. I am not saying we are perfect but I never had a connection with a man in so many positive ways. He expresses himself to me all the time and so do I. I hear some views from the Aquarius women. Some are nothing like me at all. My advice to all those Aquarian woman. No matter what your sign is. If you have respect and know how to communicate it shouldn't be a problem with any man. As far as a Virgo man goes. I do know that they wouldn't enjoy a nag or rude woman. You have to give them time. Be quick to listen and slow to speak. Have patients and they will be heating out of your hands...God Bless and Best wishes to you all..

I am a Aquarius woman and engaged to a Virgo man. He treats me like a queen and we had a connection the first day we met. He was shy in the beginning but the perfect gentelmen. Our communication is great. We talk the good and bad through. I am very open with him and so is he with me. We really have a understanding. I am not saying we are perfect but I never had a connection with a man in so many positive ways. He expresses himself to me all the time and so do I. I hear some views from the Aquarius women. Some are nothing like me at all. My advice to all those Aquarian woman. No matter what your sign is. If you have respect and know how to communicate it shouldn't be a problem with any man. As far as a Virgo man goes. I do know that they wouldn't enjoy a nag or rude woman. You have to give them time. Be quick to listen and slow to speak. Have patients and they will be heating out of your hands...Oh one more thing the Sex is AMAZING.. God Bless and Best wishes to you a ll..

Let me try to explain some aspects of a Virgo man's personality, because I have had it with the repetitive misunderstandings listed here.

One thing to keep in mind is that Virgos value integrity. Not because they believe that are infallible, but because they MUST follow their instincts, which they trust and which their supreme confidence often stems from. This confidence stems from a deep understanding of our needs and often appears as absolutism and arrogance.

Further, Virgos cannot make sense of anyone who does not say what they mean and does not mean what they say. The may appear impenetrable, but deep down they are dying to be understood. The reason they shut off communication is that they abandon hope of deeper communication and understanding from their mates. We find little respect for people whose actions and words are inconsistent. If we don't respect you then we shut down.

As we are very detail-oriented, this means that we are technicians in bed, but that we also find problems that most people ignore. In our minds these problems are signs of deeper incompatibilities, which are quickly linked together. This results in despair and withdrawal.

The problem with this relationship is that Virgo man needs details that the happy-go-lucky, random and optimistic Aquarius has never thought of, or even worse, has no interest in.

Virgos' primary mode in life is to UNDERSTAND. That is how we know ourselves so well and that is why we are impatient and withdraw easily. Aquarius' main mode is to EXPERIENCE. This pairing requires tremendous effort to work. In this era of instant gratification and materialism it will take two special people for this and most other relationships to work out.

An Aquarius woman will offer a Virgo man a way out of his detail-oriented microcosm and will soothes his constantly-on mind. To steal from another zodiac sign this earthly soothing trait is why you find so many Virgo men attached to Taurus women.

As long as his integrity is not compromised a mature Virgo man will know so immediately and will try to compromise some of his beliefs to hang on to her. She will need to persevere after her initial curiosity about the knowledgeable Virgo complexities fizzle.

As you read above, intimacy is never a problem between these two...

21 Year old Virgo male here. I'm currently dating a 18 year old Aquarius and have been for 1 month. Im addicted to her confidence and unique approach to things. I always feel like she's too good for me and I've been trying my hardest not to show it. Our connection in the bedroom is amazing, it's like we can't stop messing around and I know every button to push to make her want me.

One thing to note, I feel like we can't really have a conversation, we contradict each other 24/7 which is fun and keeps the attraction there, but I feel like it can't last in the long run. I just really hate setting myself up for failure, and I really tear myself apart, Her last boyfriend was an outgoing jerk off so im always beating myself up with inner thoughts of "you're not as buff as him", "he has a flawless social status", "I wonder if she rates me compared to him in everything we do". It's just these things that really bring me down when I should be happy and enjoying my relationship.

I think my main problem is that i'm at a part in my life where I want soo badly to be successful but I can't just be there yet without some trials, i.e. completing college. Ever since graduating High School I've felt like the structure I had grown up with grades k-12 has disappeared and i'm lost.

I really hope things turn around, I want so badly to be successful and have confidence to keep my Aqua girlfriend. Im just kind of sad and I hope I can figure myself out before it's too late.

I have been dating a Virgo man for 3 months now. So far the relationship has been amazing. I am so blisfully happy. He opens up to me 100% to me. He pleasess me in ways no man as ever.

Yes I have met a fer share of Virgo men and not all of them are the same. There is a few dogs out there that only want one thing and then you meet the one that changess everything.

If there is an Aquarius woman out there who met a Virgo man give him a trie he might suprice you ;).

I was(and am) besotted with a married Virgo man for about 18 months. he felt like my soul mate almost from the word go. I've never felt so attrated to a man in my life.In fact I felt he was the man I'd been waiting for all my adult life(and I'm 52 so that's saying something!) But it turns out that he's been having affairs for twenty years which his wife pretends not to know about. He spun me all kinds of tales about not being able to leave his children etc but I think he's just caught up in a co dependent relationship and wouldn't really know the difference between comfort and love. He was really only into it for himself, which might make you think that I'm better off without him. And still, like many of the people above, I am absolutely convinced he'll be back, because somehow this connection demands to be lived and if I can't forget him, I don't know how he can forget me. But of course I may be wrong and I do endeavour to let go as best I can. We only made love on ce(kissed a lot) and though it was awkward and I was pretty terrified, cos I was so unsure of his feelings, still, he reached me in a way I think no man ever has(and again, that's saying something) I know that when we see each other agin(which we will, cos we live 5 minutes away from each other), the attraction will be exactly the same. And by the way, we could talk about anything and everything, make each other laugh and inspire each other in all sorts of ways....

I am a teen Vergo and it really breakes my heart to find out this is how the relation with my first love might end up looking like.

She was interested in me about 38 months from today when I am writing this, and we developed mutal interests in each other. 6 months ago we finally made it clear that we like each other, and guess what we were expressing how we felt for each other all that time through the little things ( communicating through mental relams ) Aquarius way) and boy was I too enjoying it. We haven't gone out on a single date because it's almost like there will always be something to stop it from happening. But now I'm a bit afraid to do it. Because of all the above comments, ----- the one that scares me the most is showing love too much/ because these days all I fantasize about is loving her.

I've always been attracted to Virgo males. :/ They just have this 'confident mans-man' thing going on, and this charm I couldn't pull away from. I fell hard for a Virgo man who couldn't make up his mind about me. I've given him hundreds of chances, but it's always "I don't know." Then I moved onto ANOTHER Virgo man. He was more mature than Virgo Man 1, but he irked me because he was so expectational of me. He told me I wasn't his type: "A Tomboy" which confuses the living hell outta me seeing how he apparantly does have feelings for me. I don't know why he does. I thought he was always annoyed with my presence and ironically he got upset because he thinks I find him 'repulsive' which is beyonf the case. They are confusing, but it's better than the Libra man or Cancer man who declare his love for me so often.

:im Aquarius woman and this is my 2nd Virgo,we been together for 2 years now and we have are ups and downs,he is a soft spoking Virgo,he never seem to have anything on his mind and his never to hard on himself unless he never shows it,he have cheated before in the past but his smooth and soft ways always bring me back,it a crazy thing,i love him to death,the sex doesn't play a huge part in our relationship,our goals do,we spend time working on our future,his a weird Virgo,that I can say.

This is funny to read I am an Aquarius woman and my ex of 3 1/2 years was a Virgo male. I loved him deeply but apparently wasn't fulfilling some part of the relationship he needed . He claims I wasn't affectionate and once referred to me as the girl thats in a box in his bedroom which I though was hot ! but from his point of view spoke to my detachment from traditional relationship behavior and public affection?? We also wanted different things in life apparently regarding kids and where to live and travel etc. BUT THE SEX WAS WONDERFULLLLLL > The best Ive ever had hands down! He was so willing to do what I asked and took direction well without compromising his masculinity ! AWESOME SEX did I mention . I also thought he had wonderful ideas and a very innovative mind and sincere spirit , he also was crazy loyal , Damn I still miss him and would definitely date a Virgo again . I think perhaps thats my match??

My Virgo man, an amazing photographer, writer and thinker, captured my heart from the first moment I met him, we were tight friends for three years before he confessed to love.

I had never even considered it....but when he said it I though "Yeah that could work" and a little sparkle of excitement kindled.

Sex was incredible, words & ideas flowed like a waterfall

We had an amazing three months of loving, the sort that will stay with me forever, I don't often say that.

Then he went back to live with his ex girlfriend due to financial issues, and I couldn't forgive him for the betrayal of safety over REAL mind and body love

She is safe, practical, dull and reliable

I'm a writer and an artist and an accountant all in the same company ha ha typical really.

I was never going to be the one who could offer him financial refugee status.

I miss him like I lost a part of my heart, but I'll never tell him that. He thinks I was able to just cut him dead with no pain.

He's wrong

I miss him every second of every day.

But he will never ever know it.

At the end of the day giving people freedom to make their own choices without emotional hooks is our forte.

What other sign could withstand the worst most hurtful decision in the world without argument & leave him to figure it out alone.

I still love my Virgo man.

He is a beauty & his girlfriend is one very lucky lady.

He was the 2nd great love of my life and I am 39.

I miss him like I'd miss the air I breathe.

Acquarious female 27 fallen for my Virgo flatmate 34, I only kno his birthday is sept but he can't be anything other than virgo. The positives are he is cute, modest, quietly confident, unassuming, hard working, very funny, interesting, intellectualy stimulating, socially unaffected if that makes sense, we seem to hav fun and a good connection, I accept his flaws. The negatives, he can be really distant aloof and cold, no texts etc so I hav no clue how he feels. Also maybe more fundamentally I kno him thru my ex wgich conflicts with his integrity? Is there anythin I can do to attract him? He really is truly a beautuful person, any feedback appreciated. Frustrated aquarian, 27

Aquarius female here. I was introduced to this Virgo man by a mutual friend. Even before he came over, he was staring me straight in the eye and smiling! So direct and confident, I couldn't ignore it, yet there was something shy and sweet about his demeanor. I knew from the moment I saw him, something inside me jumped and got excited like I had been subconsciously waiting for this. We had a lot of exciting sex. He exuded sensuality and was so confident. He's intelligent, kind and sweet. To make a long story short, our job led us to opposite sides of the US and we lost contact, but I never stopped thinking about him. Fast forward 9 years were both married, have children, don't live that far away from each other, and our marraiges aren't doing so great. I find him to apologize for cheating, (I did it to get him to let go because we were so far away from each other) and feelings rush back in and feeling like im going to explode from all these feelings, had to see him again. we did, and had some of the most amazing sex i've ever had. It was a one time thing even though we both want more. He doesn't want to give up his current life/leave his child and wants to be friends with benefits. I don't agree, so I am extremely hesitant to continue. Im wondering if he loved me at all, because I loved him. That is why I did it. Now I feel like I should let him go, but I don't want to hurt him by throwing up the peace sign, and in my heart I really don't want to. I thought seeing pics of him and his family would bring me some closure. I wish it did, but I think it is...slowly. I really want to do the 'right thing' and I feel like I screwed up again by cheating. He already has 'trust issues' I screwed up the first time and felt it would never work. Again it happens, but WITH him. Life would be less complicated if he wasnt in it. Problem is, he has a place in my heart. We connect more than just sexually. I just want to give up, but I cant imagine my life without him...even if were just friends.

I am married to a Virgo man, and he is loving and caring and good in bed. he is also shy and keeps all of his feelings inside, I am a Aquarius and I cant stand that stuff! its annoying

I´m Aquarian girl & was with my Virgo in over 3 years, but we broke up & I tried to contact to ask him if we can still be friends & but he never answered, I still havent talked with him, he ignores me. we had our best amazing & worst times. I loved my virgo-man with all my heart & I never cheated on him, I was awfully loyal to him. Our sex WAS AMAZING. & we love talking a lot, we both seeing the world as the same. He´s really sexual-active & he love to do some sexactivities all the time. I don´t know what to say anymore Virgo & Aquarian sex compatibility is very hot. I´m seeing another Virgo right now, he is so sexy :P

I've known a Virgo guy for about a year, we're good friends. We flirted CONSTANTLY, and eventually he asked me out, I said no. But now, a few months have passed and I now regret my decision slightly, I'm just worried about being bored and being critised because he is a super perfectionist and has a massive ego -.-'

My relationship as a Virgo man with an Aquarius women was just a mess. I loved her mind and was envious of her ability to succeed at things. I wanted to love her, but she was very distant. Her family and friends were more important to her. She was extremely selfish and thoughtless. Worse yet, she was a terrible lover and when she actually seemed to enjoy herself, she was only concerned with HER pleasure, not with mine.

After close to three months, I called it off after she broke off yet another get-together. What stuck in my craw was that I had to call HER to get the news! She followed me around online constantly after that, using an alias so I wouldn't know she was there, skulking me. After smoking her out by insulting her in front of a stranger in a chat room, I received an IM, blasting me for being controlling and pig-headed. As if I could ever control her!

This was such a mistake. I should have ended it much earlier, and I regret not doing so sooner. I knew it was a going to be a problem when she told my friends that she ignores me when she doesn't feel like listening to me. I purposefully ignored her to make a point, and it was like I poured acid over her head! Her disloyalty and lack of humor or romantic acumen should have been huge warning signs to stay as far away as possible. Unfortunately, I did not heed my own observations.

I'm a mature Aquarian lady who has been knocked around in life and has learned several hard lessons (Gemini husband cheated on me). I've met a Virgo man who is a few years younger than me and I must say that the animal magnitism is there, but I'm so leary of Virgo men. We shall see where this goes.

Im an Aquarius woman and I've been dating a Virgo guy for six weeks now and our relatonship is boring. We just started having sex bout a week ago and so far I feel left out. I get no pleasure out of it seems like its all about him. He's a sweet guy and I think thats y Im hanging on but I don't know how much longer I can put up with the boredom.

I've been in love with my Virgo boy for almost 2 years and everything is awesome! He is just the man I always needed and we are going to marry soon!:) He is very caring,attentive,loving and you know, all I can say that don't believe astrology too much, it can be wrong sometimes too, it says that Virgo men are cold from times, not romantic, don't give presents, are predictable, but it's not always true!The main thing is that you get along with the person you like and is what you do for your relations to be alive. And it doesn't depend on astrology at all!:) Good Luck!

I dated a Virgo man for six months. The first three months were great because we were still in the honeymoon phase. But I already started to see things in him that I knew I would never be able to get over. Extremely judgmental about others and me. Very inhibited in bed, after a while he came loose, but it was still a lot of work. Very set in his ways despite being 9 years my junior. As an Aquarius I really can't handle this sort of fixed mindsets. And the judging, my god! He could not handle my volatility, it drove him crazy. And he would become very detached and I would feel him silently judging me. After we broke up, he would not give me another chance, and would flat out refuse to even talk about our break-up. Bleh, I still have a lot of resentment towards him. Aquarius and virgo: not a good match! Go for a Libra or a gemini, a world of difference, I swear!!

Aquarius female here. (I started my previous post like this) Well, here is an update. Instead of it being a one-time thing, we ended up having sex two more times. Since we are both married, I wanted to do the right thing if we were going to continue like we were and be honest with our significant others and then be together. I hated feeling like I was this floating mistress. I pushed for an answer, and for wanting to be honest and no longer disrespecting our spouses, he cut me off and said he loved me but he couldn't see himself being 'in love' with me. We had such an intense physical and mental connection it was hard for me to swallow, but I knew he would decide to cut it off because he values security over love and in a way I wanted him to be the one to cut it off because I couldn't keep going on the way we were and I was the one who cut it off before, so I didn't want to be the one to cut it off this go-round. He told me he'd rather be in an unhappy marraig e at home with his kids rather than be away from them. I can respect him loving his kids. Fly away little birdie, what we were doing wasn't right, anyway. In case you're wondering, I confessed everything to my husband and Virgo was upset about that but oh well. My policy is honesty, I tried it his way, and it went against all I am about. There was no way I could live a lie, and I wouldn't want to. When I confessed to my husband, he confessed he had also been unfaithful. I found out he was unfaithful, first, so I don't feel too bad. Were working on our marraige one day at a time. Me and Virgo haven't talked since that day he messaged me and cut it off. (two months ago) I don't know why, but I still miss him, think about him, and deep down, I feel like he lied to me when he said he wasn't in love with me, but that's okay. I know our prides will keep us from ever contacting each other again, so it's weird to know that this goodbye is permanent after carrying a torch for him all these years. I will NEVER contact him again after him telling me he cant see himself being in love with me, and I'd be surprised if he had the audacity to contact me again. There is nothing he could say to me after that. I guess its for the best, anyway, for all involved. Virgo is hard to forget, and I still love him, but I am working on that.

I am an Aquarius woman dating a Virgo Man ... I hate the scoundrel .. he is cheap ... he is a cheater .. he likes porn ... he cheats online .. I want to get rid of the beast BUT I love that scoundrel .. he presses all my buttons ... the sex is the best I have ever had ... it's mind blowing yet I know this has to end sometime soon ... it's a very volatile - crappy type of relationship ....he is insulting, he can be mean spirited and hurtful - he is controlling ... and I also tell him to piss off constantly ...

Okay, so I have read what all of you are saying about the Virgo man and a lot of you said that they are unable to commit and make it clear in the beginning that marriage is out of the question. My Virgo man is just the opposite; he has already proclaimed that he wants to marry me one day, yet we have only been dating three months. He don't seem controlling but I can tell that he likes to have control over most situations. He is an overall great guy, likes to pick up the tab when we go out to eat, likes spending a lot of time together, etc. He is quite distant though, it bothers me because I can't tell how serious he is sometimes but at other times he is passionate and mind-thrilling. He always makes it clear that he wants to be with me and only me but he is flirtatious with other women... I am flirtatious too! The sex is beyond amazing, I have never been as sexually stimulated as I am with him. The Virgo description is wrong about his sexuality, he is more outgoing in the bedroom then I have ever been. I think reading all of this has confused me even more with this relationship.

I am an Aquarius woman. I met my Virgo male very suddenly at a convention and it felt like love at first sight. I assumed he lived close by or at least a state or two away from the convention but it turned out we lived on opposite sides of the country. That did not stop us. A lot happened the night I met him, it was crazy. I was being followed, being offered drinks by estranged men, and I was given the tickets to the convention by an ex-boyfriend who cheated on me. I almost didn't go. I'm glad I did.

We talked for the length of the night and hid from my companions and stalkers. He was dark and attractive, intelligent, and courteous. I've dated a lot and for the first time in my life I felt like there was true spark. As I was packing my bags to leave, I felt so much sorrow. I had the deepest hunger to see him again. If I hadn't I would have felt like I had given up the only person i've ever truly felt passionate about.

We stayed in contact and I visited him in his state and met all of this friends. His enviroment was pleasant, his friends were geniune and smart, and he was perfect. Our interests were the same, our views on life were the same, and there were plenty of differences but he did not pester me about them, he only respected me for them. Some months later I moved in with him and dropped everything in my past life.. We have been together everyday for the last 2 years and if we reach the 5 year mark he will propose to me. Trusting doesn't come easily for me and I am super independent. It feels like he is the only person in the world I can depend on. We always meet in the middle and he is super respectful of my decisions and needs. He is attentive to detail and when i'm detached he gives me some time and comes in and swoops me off my feet. He aids me when I am sick. He is artistic and talented and I think he would sooner kill himself than cheat, especially on me. He isn't clingy and I s always productive. We do have fights but in my past relationships I didn't tolerate squabbles and simply left immediately. We converse and solve all of our issues right away. When we first started dating he was a little rage filled and overprotective. I told him not matter how much I loved him it was something I wouldn't tolerate and it would be the only driving force to make me move back home. He cleaned up his act and is rarely upset now and we've been together long enough that he truly feels like there is not reason to be protective of me from other people. I respect him and try very hard to make sure he is happy. I know what he finds discomforting and though I enjoy many of those things, there are plenty of other things I can thrive on so I make sure not to push those things on him. My only complaint is that he isn't very sexual. When we do have sex it is amazing. I don't feel like it's adventurous but every time seems very sincere and a wealth of great warmth and mutual understand for one another. Completely equal. I always tell him if he wants to go off the deep end and have intense traumatizing sex, I would be okay with that. Every once in a while he indulges me and it keeps things spontaneous and interesting with such a routine sex life to compare. It drives me crazy but at the same time I know if he gave it too me too easily I would probably be less happy. I traveled across the country and I truly believe he is my soul mate. I am stubborn and sometimes moody with him but he realizes I am detached from everyone else and knows he is seeing a side of me that I don't trust with others. I can't foresee our relationship failing. As an Aquarius this is super comforting because I know how fixed we are.

I will do anything to make this relationship last. I would put all the effort in the world to preserve this bliss. I never want to go back to isolation I faced in the past. It seems like 2 years has effortlessly gone by. In truth I know we try very hard for one another and this is why it feels so easy. We have much to show for our combined efforts.

If our relationship ends, it will not be the end of the world, time will continue, I will continue, he will continue, all things will continue even if our time together ends. I will be shaken and sad but I will have already experienced a terribly wonderful joy. I will know it exists and know what love looks like if I see it again. I honestly think this is my one chance but all i'll have is hope left over if this chance is passed by.

This is happiness. Always fleeting but never truly lost.

I abandoned rationality for an unstable dream.

Now everything is perfectly stable and better than a dream.

I'm glad I quit college, moved out of the state, quit my job, and left behind my friends and family.

Now, I have my own friends and family, a new job, a better community, and an education I desire.

This is happiness.

Shedding the things that do not matter.

And completely diving into everything that does.

I am the same person with a different outlook. I am happy.

ive dated a Virgo guy for years and it works. I know exactly what buttons to push and not lol. Virgo guys like a challenging woman but one thats very loving and don't take issues to serious. they go in there caves a lot to think and when they do leave them to come out when there ready.

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