I met a male Virgo 9 months ago and from the moment we met, I knew I liked him. Fast forward 6 months, we are "talking" exclusively. He gave me his couch. We went to Miami for my birthday (OCT 31ST!) and had THE best time a couple could possibly have. Our sex was AMAZING! 2 weeks after our magical vacation he breaks up with me for no reason. I still don't know why to this day. He stated that he didn't think I was "committed" to us. Which is bs because I had already expressed I was VERY done with the single life. The whole 6 months he would act somewhat aloof. We didn't talk on the phone nearly as much as I would like but when we saw each other he made me feel like a queen. Take me out to eat, go to movies, hold me and watch T.V. When I was sick he was upset that I wouldn't stay with him (I was trying not to get him sick!). He doesn't have a driver license nor an official job. Two things that are quite important to me but I told him I would still be with him regardless.
I truly cared for this man and put just about all my requirements aside so I could still support him and be by his side. After the break up in Nov we got back together that weekend. I personally feel the break-up was part of a game to see if he had control over me. For the first time in my LIFE, the man had the upper hand in my relationship. Ultimately, he was arrested a few months later and I was by his side during that. I ended up going to the hospital because of all the stress. He even came and saw me while I was in there! 2 days out the hospital he "claims" one of his friends saw me out on a date with someone else and broke up with me, for good. I know I haven't been cheating or doing any disrespectful acts. Its like he WANTS me to say I've been a whore and did all these devious things.
I personally think he was never that into me. But when I think about how he was there for me during my times of need (flu, jail, hospital) its hard to understand. Why is the Virgo so fickle? Is he intimidated? Did he ever really like me??? By the way, I WOULD go back to him, but only if he got past his insecurities. In the mean time I've been trying to figure out how I can get him to sleep with me one more time ;) Can this relationship be salvaged? Should I even try?
Game-playing Virgo man. Strangely, caught-up Scorpio woman..
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