Virgo man and Virgo woman

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I'm a Virgo woman and I met a Virgo guy he seemed cool but he just too touchy feely for me and he talked too much never would let me get a word in any ways he was a liar he told me he his own place that a lie he told me he had a car and that 2 was a lie he was just big liar so I confronted him with his lies and he responded with some dumb stuff I wasn't even trying to hear because I already lost interest but he keeps calling and texting me.... ugh if you're a Virgo do not date a Virgo

PPPhhh maybe your a closet lesbian, you should be so lucky you get touched at all let alone affection.

Get real woman! excitement makes people do all sorts of things, talk, touching , caressing, kissing, abundance of sexual activity, because it will balance out later when you let time give you the opportunity to adjust to each others liking of different things. I am Virgo man & with a Virgo woman, she can't get enough of me & vice versa.

I am with a Virgo man on and off for sixteen years. I am also a Virgo by the way, we cannot resist each other over the years. We are so attracted to each other in a very spiritual way and I fully understand him. We break up and vow never to get back together but always find a way to each other. Nobody has explained this attraction to me, its so overwhelming but I know what tickles him and he knows which buttons to press.

I'm totally agree with the first Virgo woman.... It is not a good idea to date someone with the same sign.. Virgo lack of security and never even trust himself even though he is right; he never reveals or gives a truth answer to someone that he doesn't suppose to; other people don't understand him; he doesn't mind if people say that he is a liar. Virgo want to protect himself. I don't know what kind of Virgo man you dated. A real Virgo never lie to someone that he/she loves; believe me!!! He will lie to some body that he doesn't care; A true Virgo will keep the true to himself and honest to the one he/she loves deeply. If you are a Virgo woman, get a way from a Virgo man!! Virgo is very intelligent and many of them are beautiful-younger than their real age. I just want to say... Virgo only keep every thing within himself. I have a sister who is also a Virgo very pretty, loving, caring, understanding-married but many men are flirting with her. She always lie to those guy; she always know the right button to press back. As a big brother, she always told me, "I'm not dumb or stupid with those jerk," Virgo always says thing opposite depend on the circumstance. And it hard to fool Virgo. For a Virgo men maybe different from a women. Not toooo good to date the same sign, believe me or not. I'm an old Aquarius will be 31 on Feb 16. Gook luck to you... lady Virgo.

A Virgo man.....A little advice for Virgo man and Virgo woman relationships...If both Virgo don't make a big issue out each others faults... You will a better relationship...Trust your Virgo woman .If she messes up she will make it up to you .don't gotta worry about it...and Virgo man do the same....VIRGO MAN DO NOT COMPLAIN PERIOD.

I was married with a Virgo man for 21 years we had 3 children. Good relationship but because of distance our marriage was broken so I tried my very best to be a family but because of his family interfere most likely the sister I don't know how can I describe her not a human maybe animal no heart the worst he doesn't communicate with his own children. I don't regret marrying a Virgo man but it just doesn't work when the trust and confidence is over.

Yes, I agree with you -Virgo man, so does Virgo woman; these sign as a Virgo- Virgo never COMPLAIN. But other eleven signs need to handle Virgo gentle if each of them involve with Virgo. Virgo is fragile easily as porcelain. Someone is lucky if Virgo surrender his/her love. I'm lucky to be a Virgo woman. I communicate very well with my love one; it doesn't matter how tough or hard he is or even his heart as animal. I will break him from the worst to be perfect-perfect man.

The right communication and patience are the most important in the world as well as knowledge. Man has a power to train the lion-vicious heart. I believe human is not that worst but precious.

I am a Virgo girl in a great relationship with a Virgo guy. We have been together for 5 years, we get along great, we have many things in common and that works for us and at the same time he has his uniqueness and I have mine. Sure we have misunderstandings, they don't happen very often and when it does, it does not last. We concentrate on the positive aspects of life, on our goals, we communicate well so that way we are growing together and becoming better individuals. I give him his space and I have mine. We love ours hobbies and learning new things, some things I am into and he is not and that is ok. The house is always clean and serene, he does most of the cooking and I like to clean and organize. Our home is our sanctuary. We love to read and be physically active. Life is great as long as you concentrate on the positive things. Life is not always perfect but we strive for the best. We choose to be mature, without lies and all that negative junk!

I have a relationship with a Virgo man and im also a Virgo we're the same age.. well I don't know sometimes if he telling me the real thing or always lies we've been together for four years from now but I still don't know if I will take him seriously or not because he already had a child but not married I thought im also had a bf and he knew it... he liked me and always telling me that he loves me and want to marry me but I always take that for granted because of insecurities and lack of trust with him likewise and I keep pushing him to anyone...well I liked him for the very first even though I hate him and he does too but I love her, playing games or whatever... is there someone there understand me and give me some advice..

hi guys im a Virgo girl and im with my Virgo guy what do u think is more important to him and who attracted him most and more he love? ye he's a flirt I think and he surrounded by many woman with whom can be say much more compatible with him like Capricorn, Taurus, Scorpio etc. as a friends, colleague or any. What can u say guys thanks.

Im a Virgo girl and for the last 6 months I've been talking on off with a Virgo guy or at least trying. he's great! smart sweet attractive ect. The only problem is he is still stuck up his Aquarius's butt...He doesn't lie but he only tells half truths. at times he will be very open with me and tell me how he feels and he will fool around with me too admit he has heart for me too...I just don't understand why it is he isn't anymore attracted to me then he is. I think I am to give up. I've also tried to talk with other Virgos but I think the first Virgo comment on top is right! its no good trying to be with another Virgo if you're a Virgo...

I am a Virgo woman with a Virgo man and let me tell you I have never been happier before but at the same time no one has ever pissed me off like he does. Our communication between one another so not all that good. And we are so much like each other that we are almost hypocritical. He is a very hi strung person and I am more laid back. we have been with each other for almost two and a half years and we have split up once. He isn't very affectionate and it bothers me a lot. he also is a flirtatious one too. I have low self esteem and I try to explain to him that he can help me with my self esteem issue also of course I have to work on first and foremost but he can play a big part in it. If my self esteem could get better the jealousy would go out the door. I need some advise. please write

Like the compatibility article here said, all Virgos are not the same. Some are going to be much more sensitive than others due to moon and other planet placements. I've dated two Virgo women and they were very different emotionally, though the communication was excellent with both. The more I learn about astrology the more it seems that sun signs are just the first piece of a much larger puzzle and trying to see the picture from just one piece is pretty difficult. The only common factors seem to be the communication and attraction, for me anyway.

I'm a Virgo man, and I have a thing for another Virgo woman. She's beautiful and it's chilling how much I understand her at such an innate level. It's just intimidating because another Virgo can make you feel very vulnerable (being so like-minded can be really shaking to experience), which unwittingly puts back up our aloof-like facade. It's not intentional, but we are creatures of habit and we're so used to doing so that we immediately resort to that habit when rattled to that level.

It's hard to be the strong pursuer when you're a Virgo man, but I'm pushing myself to do so, because I know a good thing when I see it, and she is that.

I am dating a Virgo man and he confuses me so. The half truths and the lies drive me crazy. It is very hard 2 win the heart of a Virgo. I have been dating him for 2 years and it seems like we r just detached from each other. I was preg with twins, and because Virgos strive for perfection he still tried 2 push when I need him not 2. As a result the stress was 2 much for me because I tried 2 match up 2 what he wanted so I could prove that I was that perfect person he wanted I gave birth 2 my son and daughter and the died. I think 2 signs that date can be difficult cuz you guys always knows what the other is thinking. That could be good and bad. As for and this guy I don't think we will work. If you can make it work make it work. I know me and him cud be great business partners and friends. Virgo and Virgo just tread lightly.

I am a Virgo woman and I was with a Virgo man for 7 years but he passed away. Our relationship had extreme highs and lows. I experienced some of the same things as some of you have mentioned... with the lying. I think he never felt like he could share everything with me the way I did him, but that is because I'm a "critical" Virgo. On the other hand, I don't think I will ever experience such a closeness with anyone else EVER! We were very connected spiritually... thought and felt the same things at the same time, had the same beliefs about life, love, and religion. There were times that we broke up but our hearts always called out to each other at the same exact time, and we would get back together, and when we did, that first hug after not seeing each other for a week was a feeling of pure bliss, safety and the sense of being at home; everything was right, how it was supposed to be again. My Virgo man was very fun, playful, sexy, independent, and a neat freak... whereas I am a little more serious, sexy as well (if I may say so myself!), a little more codependent, and messy! So we had our differences but balanced each other out and kept the other on our toes. Oh, how I miss my soul mate Virgo......

Umm what can I say? There are different Virgos. Some will marry numerous times and others will never marry. One should not take the sun sign to heart. A complete natal chart must be done! I am a Virgo woman compatible with none and incompatible with all. Some signs have the compassion I seek while others have the level of communication I desire. But when it comes to intimacy there is no sign like a Pisces.

I urgue each of you to order natal charts and get to know who you really are that way you will be better equipped to deal with whatever sign comes your way.

We are all so quick to denounce others based on their Sun Signs. We must also look at how the person was raised. These factors do play a part. As a Virgo woman I say I like all signs because they all have something special to bring to the table.

Aww all of your stories were soo helpful. I am a Virgo woman and I met a Virgo man. He seems very nice, not critical at all like myself. Things are just getting started between us but I am hoping that it will last for my lifetime. I'm getting older and I don't want to spend my life alone forever. I Love how a lot of the relationships mentioned lasted very long. I am apprehensive about how honest this man is that I met, not because he is a virgo, but because he is a man. wish me luck! ~Derrti

I am a Virgo man and have recently been reunited with a Virgo woman. We had been physically apart for 13yrs but somehow we have stayed connected emotionally. Before we stopped seeing each other some time ago, we spent everyday together for six months straight. when we separated I cried for a week. It is impossible to describe how she is strong where I am weak, and I am strong where she is weak. This woman is my soulmate and I will never give her up! Our relationship has many people envious. I AM SO IN LOVE WITH HER!

I'm a Virgo woman , & I've been with my Virgo GUY for 3 far. he's the sweetest person ever... He'll do anything for me, if I'm mad at something he's done , he'll fix it. No one is perfect, But I believe this is the best match. At first we weren't attracted to each other I'm 1 tough cookie... I waited a while for him to ask me out. He cares for me. We were 1st friends & now we're much more. Its rare for a Virgo woman & man to come together because they're so critical. But after they've let their guards down its a whole different story, They Love w. Their hearts. They might come off as flirty, but they'll never imagine cheating in a million years. I advise you, to keep this relationship going at its best, You need to be spontaneous... do something out of the ordinary ! Two Virgos can get really tired of each other, Travel a lot, have amazing sex , live your life to the fullest with your virgo. If you've already got him.. what's there to lose? Have Fun ! x

xox ~Ur Virgo Friend :]

I have a Virgo guy friend now. And he always says he hasn't had sex with anybody since,we been having sex. Yea Right!!! He is selfish and has no home training. He is very flirty and open wit it. I'm a Virgo also. And tend to do things back in return to try and piss him off. He acts as if he doesn't care. Butr I know he does. He only cares about his needs. Plus I'm pregnant 7months by another guy witch is a Virgo and I was so in love with him. Except he was kinda the same. Virgvo men are to secretive, They hold a lot in. I'm a very special lady and the type you can lean on and talk too' why won't they open upĀ¤ unless there mad?

married a virgo. boring. just plain boring. we are great co-parents though.

virgo woman.

I'm a Virgo man and recently met a Virgo woman the first couple of meetings we just talked and talked and have so much in common but we have our differences in opinion also which made us more attracted to each other now when we are together the compliments just wont stop their is no criticizing of one another it is like a match made in heaven and behind closed doors she is the sexiest woman in the world to me!!!so as a Virgo I can say it could definitely work with another

I am a Virgo woman with a Virgo man,it will be 7 yrs.We have a kid together and sometimes I believe I just want to give up.I believe that he lies alot.Hard for me to trust him.He flirts a lot to.He isn't very affectionate-don't know how to show love but he loves sex.Sometimes he could make you feel like you matter to him and other times,like he don't care.When we are apart for awhile,he will come find me.To get to the point I believe I deserve better.I could be myself when I'm around him,that's what I like.It's like we know each other so much.If I do let him go,I know I'll miss him but I deserve a man to show me love to,because with me if I don't get the treatment I want,I tend to lose the feelings I have.

I am a Virgo woman and had been mariied to a Virgo man for 8 yrs. Divorced for longer now. Main reason: habitual lier! Never a word of thruth. Even when it doesn't matter! Never keeps his word. Very cocky, self-asured, and "know-it-all" a lot of the time. Generous! Very charming! At times sweet and caring but always with an agenda of his own. Seemingly cares about social perception of him, yet, most people who know him well know him as a liar. I don't think Virgo/Virgo is a good combination.

I am a Virgo and so is a friend of mine that I am so completely enchanted by. He is a typical Virgo man and we have been friends for the last 4 years. During that time I have discovered that he is very passionate, caring, and loyal. As to our attraction to each other, the only thing I can say is wow!!! I have never known someone as passionate in all areas of their life other than myself. It is strange simply because I just divorced my husband, another Virgo and I have never known two Virgo men who were so different. Take time to get to know the Virgo you are interested in and build a friendship, going slow is always the best option. We want stability and love just like anyone else. Virgo's are easily hurt; take it from someone who knows. Do not rush things and do not be afraid to be yourself. Virgo's cannot stand fake people. Be real, open, and caring this is the best advice I can give anyone interested in either Virgo male or female. Being clean will only get you more attention from us, just something to remember.

Hello, I'm a Virgo woman and I met a Virgo man at work about a year ago. We started dating back in august and everything seemed perfect. He said he didn't want to have a title with me (boyfriend/girlfriend) But he acted as if he was my boyfriend (wine and dine, staying over, taking me out) so everything was great for about 2 months I was really into him and i'm pretty sure he was into me, also. But than he got some really bad news and he completly shut himself out. the texting/hanging out stopped for over a month. I know virgos well so I gave him all the space he wanted and tried to be supportive from the side lines. at work, he'd tell me it wasn't me, he was just going through sometime bad. He seemed apologetic, he even went as far as kissing me in private at work. But I started getting edgy with him ignoring my texts...i was worried about him, and missing him terribly. I sent him a text one day and it was I sent him a not so nice text aft er that and...suprisingly...he text back, calling me self centered and dramatic. He said since we didn't have a title than I didn't have the right to get upset with him not texting/hanging out with me. I guess you can say we 'broke' up at that point. for the next two weeks after that I didn't try to communicate with him, even though I missed him and was upset about our argument. at work we just acted like nothing was wrong, being polite and conversing about work related subjects. I started missing him to the point I actually got the guts to ask him out for coffee to talk about 'us'. at first he didn't give me a straight answer, he just tiptoed around the question. but by the end of the conversation he agreed to meet and talk to me. that was a week ago and he never answered the text I sent to him. ugh! I'm so frustrated! I want this guy back but i'm unsure how to go about doing it...I'm trying not to seem desperate or needy but this situation is making me unhappy

I am a Virgo woman who is dating a Virgo man. The experience in the beginning was kind of scary because he seemed to be a little cold hearted and had this ego that he knows everything. However I always attractive to his intelligence and his sexiness. Most importantly the sex is the boom! We have a lot in common and when a issue arise we communicate! We canbe happy just being in each other presence, he makes me feel protected! I know this is going to lead into a long term relationship which I desire. But have patience Virgo men don't express their feelings upfront.

I am a Virgo woman, I am a bit...picky, fussy, choosy, all that stuff that some of you are aware of. and when I am in love, I m passionate, faithfull, loyal, but never try to fool with me. Ok, I met a Virgo man on a dating website, and we had many similarities. To start with, we were born on the same day, different year, but same weekday. when we met, was like...well I could barely breath, we could feel each other very well. As the days passed by, he started analysing...well virgos do analyse, think a lot, critique. And then, he just stepped back, since then, it s been difficult to get him back, unless I make him mad, which I did, not very good experience, for a Virgo woman's point of view. It hurts too much, coz I still love him. He thinks I do not. how can I prove I do? yes, he seems pretty insecure, coz he kept saying that I did not like him, when he felt I did. It is not that I am desperate for a man, I can have any man I want, but it seems that the ones I reall y want/love just goes away. Do I scare them off?

I am a Virgo man. Recently I was emotionally connected with a younger Virgo woman of the birth date. Our connection was eerie. I think we could feel each other as the other article mentioned. The chemistry was fantastic. We could not moved forward because I am married. Wow! The pain was exquisite. For other Virgo/Virgo relationships, one Virgo must be courageous and break the silence. A few tries should do the trick but don't be critical for a while.

I'm a Virgo woman married to a Virgo man for the past 22 years. I'm quite certain we both have very compatible sun signs because we've always intuitively understood one another. Even though he is very cerebral and I'm more of an artistic thinker. We have always gotten along quite well, fought fairly, picky about completely different things. So we're not anal about the same things.

We have three great kids, pets, a very happy life. You would think two Virgos under the same roof would be a bad idea. But neither him nor I are pure Virgos. I have an older sister who is a more purist Virgo who cannot tolerate fault in male relationships at all. Which is why she is single to this day.

My hubby and I tend to let a lot of things roll off each others back. Probably because our respective personal worth to one another is quite high.

A very happy life we have.

im a Virgo woman dating a Virgo man..he is very hard to understand at times and a part of me feels like he doesn't even know himself.were so connected and it was love at first site but someething about him gets underneath my skin..we had trust issues from his past relationship and its been hard for me to move on from that..i feel when somethings wrond and even though he seems to be committed I still feel like he tells half the a little child who doesn't want to be on punishment..we barely ever argue and when were around each other its hard to get us apart.were both workaholics but on my off days he's priority and he never has time for me. I feel our relationship is suffering cus we dnt see each other and he's constantly analyzing me and the relationship..i feel at times he's sloppy at handling situations and im more accertive together we can be incredible but fear of being hurt is constantly in the way.. I need more love and affection and I only want it from him. . He drives me crazy but he is my medicine

I'm a Virgo woman and I met an old friend, who is also a virgo. The similarities are unreal! We have serious conversations and playful ones. The attraction felt between the two of us is crazy! We are both in other relationships. (not good) We can't seem to not talk to each other. We have made friends for life possibly more in the future. The was amazing! Never thought someone of the same sign would be so great.

I fell in love with my best friend who was a Virgo and im a virgo. We had a connection I have never experienced before but he would lead me on and then tell me he only cared for me as a friend but we would spend everyday together and sometimes sleep together. Then he would say but there is something there I just don't want to lose you blah blah. Anyway I picked not being friends because if he couldnt see the connection thats his loss. He used to always say its caus we r so like!! I miss him though but he wont admit he cares and I feel like a fool because odviously I cared way more than he ever did..'

hi...i met this Virgo guy through a social network..hes a year younger than me. the mental/emotional connection was amazing...hes just digging me,and we talked for hours on fone. we lived in different countries though managed to communicate and going well I must say. he said that I am a very strong woman. the first guy to say that to me. and that he doesn't know why he opens easily, and was comfy to tell me anything on his mind. religious, creative, eloquent, freaky, looking young for his age. he said he found his soulmate. were gonna see each other soon coz he's gonna visit me. hope it will turn out right... much love, virgins!

im a Virgo women who dated a Virgo man for 6 yrs he was my first of everything to ever do in life..i think we r so much alike we were born same yr,wk,month,3 days apart from each other.he acts as if he don't care but deep down he really does.he's a great person when it comes to it you never make him not trust you its officaly over!they never show you they love you its in there own way of showing you they care.they r sneaky flirtatious,some do you know a Virgo man really love u??

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