Aries man Virgo woman

I'm a Virgo woman, happily married to an Aries man. My husband and I have been together for seven years now, and each passing day brings us closer together and more in love!

I admire his strength, both physical and emotional. His passion for life, his extremely high intelligence, and his caring nature keep things interesting. He never fails to bring a smile to my face, and a simple wink at me combined with a touch puts butterflies in my stomach.

My husband is protective, and I know he would fight to the death for me, and our sons. He is tender, and a terrific teacher, taking all the time in the world to answer questions for our children.

We have an amazing marriage in which we share a true partnership and devotion, with a deep commitment to each other. We often joke that we share the same brain, each of us carting around half. We finish each others thoughts and sentences, and when I get stuck trying to express something, he can say it eloquently for me.

I only wish others could know a love as true and deep as ours, and the partnership that comes along with it. I recommend Aries men for any other Virgo ladies out there!

English is not my first language, so sorry in advance. I'm an Aries man and I'm dating a Virgo woman. It has been altogether a very interesting and exciting journey for me up till now. She is the first woman whom I have dated and I'm hoping to marry her one day. When I really look back at how things worked for us i really feel a little thrilled.

I'm an introverted kind of a person and one who never had enough confidence in approaching any girl. It was I think because of her very friendly attitude that we both are together and now we both really get along really well as we both understand each other and both are ready to make compromises for each other.

As it happens in every relation we argue a bit also but every time it gets sorted. We have been in relationship only for 1 and a half year only but we understand each other completely and she trusts me completely and because of this we share a very good sex relationship. She is the best thing in my life that i have got after my family and i never want to leave her I really enjoy being with her and still think what would i do without her?

I am a Virgo woman who recently entered into an online relationship with a very dynamic, passionate Aries man. He plays a prominent role in a social network that I'm part of and I'm constantly amazed at how many people look up to him. He is intelligent and has fantastic leadership skills.

Sexually he keeps me on my toes all the time. He is direct and demands what he wants - which suits me perfectly. I enjoy shocking him... and pleasuring him. We're both explicit in communicating our sexual needs and wants - and have been enjoying sensational cybersex. He can be very poetic at times and knows exactly how to reassure me when I feel like things are spinning out of control.

We have been communicating well in written form - it remains to be seen what communication with him will be like if we ever meet face to face.

I am a virgo woman and i'm extremely interested in this one specific aires man. There's just something about him! We don't hang out often, but when we do its amazing! He's really hard to read! I can't quite figure him out. I don't know the type of approach to use with him. When I'm with him I can really feel that he likes me a lot and we just mesh well. He is a CEO of a company and works all the time. I don't understand why he's not pursuing me the way I want him to! What do I have to do to get his full attention?! PLEASE HELP

I only do ok as being friends with an Aries guy

I'm a virgo female and I dated an aries man for three months and I wish I never met him the sex was embarassing and very quick.... he was a jerk

I am currently dating an Aries man and am having the time of my life. He and I have so much in common and he's very understanding, kind and all together a decent man. Whoever said that an Virgo woman and an Aries man couldn't be a couple obviously didn't meet one as worthwhile as my guy.

I read one post where someone could not read their Aries guy. I am going through the same thing. Only thing is he tells me everything I want to hear, and I know will give me the world. Although sometimes I feel as if there is something behind his quite demeanor, and it's killing me. Can someone help me figure it out!

I am a virgo. I have been dating an aries for almost three months. i know where a lot of you are coming from. initially, i was drawn to his demeanor, the confidence passion and drive. He just looked like he knew what he wanted out of life and i admire that.

In the beginning it was a cat and mouse game he approached me and i would be standoffish but flirty it was great but it took him a while to make a move. i over analyzed that for hours but i think they are slightly taken aback with virgo's mystique, so try to show some interest back. we started hooking up unexclusively for a few weeks. i am not the kind of person that wastes my time on a realtionship with no future. Once he realized i was" all or nothing" he committed.

When we are together it is amazing! He makes me laugh all the time. He likes to try new restaurants he even convinced me to skip work and go to the beach. fun adventures like these are great, i cant imagine having so much fun with anyone else. aries are so well rounded and as a virgo i look for perfection. I've found a person plays an instrument, is intelligent and opinionated a phenomenal athlete and attractive yet has a caring air about him. it's all every charming. i can't get enough of him. good luck to everyone here. i know i have found something special and real in an aries man

I am a virgo woman trying to date an aries doctor. It sucks for me if it wasnt that I really had feelings for him. He ignores me all the time, to the point that I am starting to think he is not interested.

Well, I dont know what to say, we didnt even get the time to get to know each other

I am an Aries man and I have been married to my Virgo wife for 7 years and counting. She is awesome and very caring. She does critic me a lot but thats okay because I know thats what Virgos do. She knows how to make be a better person and I bring out the Fire and Passion in her. She is very sexually satisfied and looks forward to being in an intimate situation with me all the time. We make a great team together. I boldly lead and she analyzes every step I make.:)

I've just started dating an aries guy a few weeks ago. And I'm a virgo. Even though our signs don't match up very well, we have a great time when were together! We always find something to do, and are never really bored. All you virgo girls out there looking for a man, try to pursue an Aries. They will complete you! :)

I am a Virgo woman with an Aries man... I totally relate to the girl who said she met her Aries man online and how everyone looked up to him, and that's how we met... I came to where he lives and met him 4 mos after we met online.. stayed for a week came out another time for a week a few mos later and on the 3rd Visit I moved in. We have been together for just over a year now!!! I Love him Very much, and hope things work out as well for us as for some of you that have been married for years!!! We have a Good relationship and well the Sex is AWESOME!!!

well im a virgo and i can agree i get bord easy but ive had a on and off again boyfriend that is a hot head aries i think we click because were a perfect match besides his hotheadedness im not a very faitrfull partner only because my boyfriend isnt very attentive and sort of mean but im very strong minded lol a hypocondriact lol a really strong thinker i find thats one of the reasons its hard for me to move on from my boyfriend because i hate change and im pickky lol hope you enjoyed send feedback to [mod edit: Please dont post email addresses here. As this message board doesn't require a login we get several hundred advertisements submitted each day, and so will you if give out your email here...]

I'm Virgo woman, dating an Aries Professor ten years. He is very intelligent; devoted, protective. But too jealous, hard head, quick temper; criticize me too much; that is getin' in my nerves..lol. i don't like his personality at all. Arise man talks too much..I'm tired of listening to him.

Intimacy, he is so quick.. fast like a thunder; three minutes that all..lol. i didn't feel how is the dessert tasted like..lol; i felt incomplete..lol; i decided to give up. he needs a technique..for longer; why not longer than 3 minutes. Aries is not a great lover whatever, I guess..Ha,hes. i like him because he is educated...

Aries man is very interesting; he is very intelligent, care, supportive, and very nice with a lots of knowledge; I just met an Aries man who is older than me two years; born on March 25 and good looking; he is a white guy; still a student. We still still chattin' on the line. He gave me a supports. I'm too disappointed and feel to talk to someone who is really care; fortunately, I met him. I don't think he is married or maybe ...I can't say... I feel that I like him. I'm alone and cold. In fact,he call my name; I like him.

I'm a Virgo woman; I believed for all the 12 zodiac signs are interesting. These 12 signs are showing the different of individual personalities and traits. As a human, we have a difference, DNA; well we are not the same anyway; and it is very hard to get a compatibility.. only if it is duplicate as a cell division... together, we need to use our knowledge and ability to solve the problems in order to make our sexual relationships work. We need to respect our partner opinions.

So, we got to be careful before making a selection for someone to love. Check background or blood test...

That's an interesting point. There is a school of thought which argues that's how astrology works. The universe provides the DNA, whether used for a human or a solar system. Astrology, within this viewpoint, is nothing more than a clock which can measure that DNA on a cosmic level, the results of which can be extrapolated on a human level. Our how does astrology work? page covers this in slightly more detail.

Looking for some advice here... My Aries man and I met over 3 years ago, we had so many similarities - both from Chicago, both in relationships we aren't really happy in, both stuck in the relationships because of the devotion to our children and "family unit" - not necessarily our significant others.

We flirted for about 2 years and now for a little over a year, we have been in a sexual relationship, but can talk to each other about anything, though we dont find/ have the time to do it, since both of our spouses now suspect an affair and we are acting like we arent in contact at all with one another.

We see each other at least 2-3 times a week, text almost every day. He has said he wished that we could have met before his son was born, and that I am the type of woman he wants and needs. I have let him know that I have feelings for him (never said the "L" word to him though). He has told me that he has never been with anyone like me (sexually). I love this man, but I have realized, that if he cant give me himself to be my man, then why am I STILL giving him my goods?

What is it about him? I am a Virgo/libra cusp. I dont know what to do to let him know that I need him to either step up or step back.... he got upset with me once before when I told him that I am falling for him and need to back off... needless to say, being a hunter, he was there the same day making sure he still got some. I feel like its all physical. But some say that Aries equate love to sex (the men anyway)... is that true... how can I win him totally over, if he loves me... I KNOW that I am no competition when it comes to his son, but I want to know where I stand with him and he wont tell me when I ask, what are some things I can look for or ask him, that he might answer? Why wont he open up a little more? Does he care or am I just a booty call to him?

[Reply from David]

That's a complicated situation on so many levels, with many factors which are going to pressure both of you to act out of character. Aries are notoriously direct and fearless, however, this situation is far too complex and the stakes too high to want to rely on a broad and general personality trait.

The first thing to be clear on here, is what outcome you're actually looking for. Lets assume he said "I'll do anything for you" - are you prepared to end your own marriage, start custody battles etc? Is your existing marriage bad enough to be worth that? Or, is he just forbidden fruit? I'm not saying that's the case, but it's possible that it's the thrill of the affair for one or both of you which is the main attraction here.

Affairs are in many ways much easier than normal relationships. You get all the good part, without the bills, laundry, dirty dishes etc. Over the years I've helped a lot of people turn affairs into relationships, and to be blunt 9 out of 10 times they haven't lasted 6 months once they became a normal relationship. Only you can answer that question. If you could wave a magic wand and replace your husband instantly with this man, would you want to do it? Or, does he just provide some excitement and passion?

Based on your description, I'd say he cares, but not enough to jepordize his lifestyle or family. It sounds like you're in the same position (otherwise you would have already ended your marriage in order to pursue him etc). Given that situation, I'd suggest your two options are to either a) end the affair or b) decide to just enjoy it for what it is. Rock the boat too vigorously in any other direction and things will get ugly.

Can astrology provide a better answer than this? Yes it can, but I will need to prepare charts first for you with your husband, and second with your lover (takes about six hours) see the compatibility reports page if you want to pursue this. What I would say meanwhile though, is that often those comparisons reveal that the existing spouse is actually far more important to you than you realize. The study in this respect is very useful, as it removes the heat of the moment factors and lets you see the pros and cons of each partner in a more objective light, often making the decision much easier.

In a brief: Aries and Virgo have a complicated situation in a relationship; Aries and Virgo never been happy. An educated Aries never ever leave or walk away from his family because he is value what he has - his pride. He is a man who is in charge and taking a responsibility in the house or at work... means he loves you and his family, he is a leader; Aries do not show his weakness by saying "LOVE" For Virgo lady, she is loving, caring, nurturing, and has lots of sympathy with understanding toward her children and her Aries man. In that aspect, Virgo and Aries are as different as water and oil. Aries doesn't want to compromise but action/ bold/ scare less. Virgo is into a detail and worry too much - leads to depression. She is fear of making a mistake. So, let me say something: Aries will look for the outside of the relationship if his partner doesn't treat him right; However, he never leave his Virgo sweat heart. In sort, Both of Aries and Virgo weakness is family value is the most important for both of them. It's up to you Virgo! You are the one who decided; or back off...? Or speak in a logical, cool, and calm way to Aries if you want him to open up; don't show him your attitude; you can win him in a diplomatic way. I think this maybe helps you a little bit, Virgo. I'm a Virgo lady/Libra cusp... I'm not an Astrologer or any thing. Astrologer maybe has a better answer.

Virgo woman pursuing Aries man

It starter in high school. I was a freshman he was a junior. He fine as ****! He was always a Gentleman. I say was because that's how I remember him. We lost contact, here we are 2 yraes later back in touch. I'm feeling him not sure what he really feels. He takes my calls and respond to my text. Agreed twice to me me for lunch one day. We haven't done it yet. Each time he said he would call me back if he became available before I had to go to work he didn't. Don't know if he really intended to or if he was just being nice. Thing is I get really nervous talking to him. I know I want him in my life, does he want to be in mine? It probably would be different if I wasn't married. Married and wanting out the biggest part of the time. But what about the 3 boys and everybodies feelings? My husband and I been together since high school years after me and my aries friend lost contact. My husbands an Aquarius I know him very well. Now p want to really know this Aries who told me I was taking from him and asked if I ever tried to find him. What am I the virgo woman to do for the aries man 20 years later?

Does anybody out there know?

I am a virgo woman dating an aries man. He is so sweet but he drinks a little to often and he loves hanging out with the guys. He has already ask me to go out but it has never happened, don't know if he forgot or whaT. anyway he takes care of his responsibilities and does what is right. He loves his mother and respects her so this is a good man only if you are not the type to have all of the attention.

My response to a Virgo above. If you are not involve with an Aries yet, please don't waste your time with Aries. Virgo and Aries cannot be tolerant. However, you can be just a friend with Aries. You are very lucky with an Aquarius husband. My sister has been with Aries 18 years ago; she got nothing from Aries in 18 years later; she can't go out for a socializing; emotionally, she is suffered because of her husband jealous of her when she speak with the opposite sex. She tried to break from Aries husband but she can't because she is stock with her children. Virgo is an honest, smart, and usually beautiful by nature but she is some how discrimination; though is not the case. Virgo adores, loves her family, and value education. I tried to give my advice but no....way.. she never takes it-only listen. I'm a Gemini brother I feel bad for my sister, Virgo. My brother-in law, Aries is too greedy, stubborn, and selfish. Virgo above, you will have no future with Aries, belie ve it or not, you decide...hes, hes, Lol..Ask Astrologer for 20 years later; they have the birth chart by the stars for who is the best for you Compatibility basic-main key for relationship. Good luck to you Virgo!!! (^_^)

I am a virgo woman married to an aries man.. and it sucks.. there is nooo chemistry, nothing really.. the relationship is intense at first then it starts to wear off.. for women who have been with an aries man, have not been with them for too long.. because in the end it's a love match made of hell!!

I'm a Virgo woman stuck between two Aries....one's an ex-boyfriend one's an ex-lover, talk about driving me crazy!!! Both are great loving men who love me so very much but definitely have no patience for me what-so-ever. I needed time to figure things out and either of them is willing to give it to me. After 2 1/2 months Aries exbf jump into a relationship with a foreigner (who needed a visa) that gave him a gush-full-of attention and "love" that he wanted...and now we're all in an emotional mess bcause I don't trust her at all and ofcourse I still love and care so much about him....Aries exlover is constantly bickering w/me not loving him, not picking him, so on and so forth. They both are exhausting me to death...I feel like I can't pick my exlover for fear that my exbf will be extremely hurt and I can't pick my exbf for fear that my exlover would be wounded. LOL, I honestly fear too much for the last 8 months when in reality it's not all that hard for an Arie s to move on.....it's me that's hard at moving on. *sigh* Sticky-icky situation.

I'm a Virgo woman and the love of my life is an Aries man.

I met him when I was 13 and he was 15. At first, I was like "agh, we're so different." but ive always been the more outgoing one of the two...anyway.

I've been in love him since the moment i saw him; from the moment he walked right up to me and embraced me. i rememeber everything he was wearing that day and when i recall the whole thing, my heart begins to race again. Just like I did that day.

Everyday is a new adventure. It took us a while to really put a label and admit our feelings to each other. But, I'm 25 now and he's 27. And we've "officially" been together since my Senior year of high school/his sophomore year of college. It's our differences that bring us together at the end of the day; the fact that we always have something new to talk about.

He's the love of my life. The way he looks at me...makes me feeling like I'm the only woman in the world.

So...uh...yes....

VERY GOOD MATCH! If you've got the open mind and patience.

I have been in a relationship with an aries man for nearly the past year, I would have to say we can both be equaly detached from each other and i can be extremly emotionaly cold hearted towards him,(I'm not proud to say this about myself but its unfortunally true)

Whenever we get to the point were we are "comfortable" we both seem to get scared and retrack from each other and its like we are at the begining again both pyshicly and emotionaly, Its not that hes got problems being in a relationship as he was in a four year committed relationship before and had some brief encounters with women after that (hopefully putting the brief down to rebounds as it was only one two week relationship and one for about a month) and i know i'm not scared of being committed, I would love nothing more than to be comfortable enough to be with him whole-heartedly and i'm sure he would want the same or he wouldn't of stayed in this relationship for so long as its going to be a year at the end of january 2010.

Part of me think's its just us together but i can't help but think its more than that and reading some of the stuff i've found on the internet about "astrology compatibility" is making me think i wouldn't exactly say i'm one for things like star signs and what not but maybe it could be! We get on so well together and the is never a dull moment when we are together we truely are in love, Yes i must addmit we have our moments but no more than anyone else, I feel as if we arn't meant to be when things get like this maybe it is just us being scared but i wouldn't exactly so the romance is dead all i have to do is think of him and i get all love sick and i know he feels the same about me, Does anyone have any ideas to make things work? We have already tryed Counseling, time apart, Time with just us together, Even sat down and spoke for hours and none of this has worked, But neither of us are willing to say goodbye as we really do love each other and we want to be together but we both wont more than what we have and are Willing to try anything at all,

We just can't help but pull away from each other when things get good its almost as if its become a terrible habbit any ideas how to break this cycle we seem to be repeting? thank you. I know its not an advice website but i would reallt appreciate any advice at all, thank you so much to everyone who replies, by the way my name is Ella.

I've been reading these articles and found that every individual sign has a different kind of problem in the sexual relationship. I believed if we can see thing that happen before it happened, so all of us may not having a problem some how in the relationship. My zodiac sign is Virgo; I understand Virgo and Aries relationship very well. Aries may fall in love with Virgo at the first sight. After all there is going to be rough as a bumpy road. Aries is very impulsive , aggressive type and no patience not as Virgo. These two are not the best match; it is hard. I'm a Virgo and my fiance is Aries-educated person. His nature drives me crazy as hell; he always look for a fault and unreasonable jealous; this hurts me so bad; I swear to god that don't want to have sex with him. I'm very sick and tired to provide him a healthy nutrition and forgive him. I'm young than him 14 years; when he is making love, it is very suck; sex once a year and less than five minutes, hes, hes. .. and is not great. I don't know for sure if he has an outside sexual relationship somewhere or places that I didn't know. I love him but it might be wrong. If he willing to change his negative habits, how much would I love him? I gave him a lot of example but it doesn't work and I don't want to try anymore. All I have to do is to leave him...or what? Hes,hes, very serious. Whatever he does, it is very hard for me to look for someone else or cheat on him. Though, I'm not an object; I'm perfectly feminine; affection. i need love and attention from someone who love and care; especially, my fiance but he is the opposite. Or does he think that I'm a spear one or reserve for him. If that, it is mean!!! I'm not desperate. Nooo!

I feel this is not right. He is not too old-in his 40s.

I need your opinion or advice, please. What is wrong with my Aries??

My Aries man is: Absolutely Amazing! Incredible! Blood pumping! I absolutely ADORE him!! Been married 23 years to a Leo. We met when Mr. Aries spoke a handful of words that I happened to overhear (He was physically located behind me). I turned around, out of curiousity, our eyes met and all of a sudden nothing else existed. I dropped the puzzles that I was working on and jumped into the bar stool next to him, that he pulled out for me, like the classic gentleman that he is. I was the aggressor. He just decided not to let me go. That was over a year ago and WOW I am still intensly attracted to him. I find his jealousy absolutely charming in that it is unnecessary. I'd walk out on my Leo without thinking twice and give my Aries all my love and adoration for the rest of both our lives. He really makes me want to "live life". Incredible! Even if it doesn't work out in the long run... I'll NEVER regret the experience with him. I love him madly, and always will.

Its been a month and I dont know if its because Ive been single soo long or what but this man is very complicated,,he tells me he has different personalities and I believe it,,one day he is talkative the next he's quiet and withdrawn,,I like attention but not to much but to me if we are not being intimate then we really dont have anything in common,,I better just walk now,,Hungry for LOVE!!

I'm a the Virgo.. Aries man are VERY complicated & send mixed signals. but i believe it can work. it's all up to the person, put effort into the relationship. I agree with most, sexually, Aries doesn't please me, but i don't care about that to be honest because i love HIM. There's something about him that gives me butterflies & i wouldnt trade for anything on this world! He makes me feel save. I'm pretty sure this is the man i'm going to marry:)

Good luck everybody!: )

I am a virgo woman and i have just recently started seeing a aries man. So far so good! He is always up for a good time, The way he looks at me with his smile and gives me a wink makes me feel like im the only person in the room! He's very polite and has great respect and loyalty for his family.and i am very much the same .And he loves his mum! Always a good sign! He opens every door for me, pulls out the chair and carrys my bags. Great listener, has been honest with me from day dot, hes protective but not over powering which i like. We both have common interests but also like to do our own thing. We always have something new to talk about. He is opening up a brand new world for me, i normally put up a brick wall and keep my feelings and thoughts to myself once i have worked out the situation but his honesty and caring ways makes me feel safe and free to say what ever i am thinking. The sex is great, we both take the time and effort for each other to enjoy it very m uch..we never stop laughing..Im interested in knowing if anyone has been in the same situation and if it has ended good or bad...Does this sound to good to be true??

i'm a virgo girl in love with an aries guy 4 yrs older than me.whenever we meet he treates me really well,crachs jokes and behaves like i'm a cut above the rest.but i don't know what he realy thinks about me.what should i do?

I'm a virgo woman, and my husband is an aries. We weren't together a long time before getting married, but I guess you can say we both clicked in the first few moments of meeting. See i play video games, and that to him was a "turn on", i know i can be picky like most all virgos, but he loves it. Says i keep the house in line. He does things for me, and treats me like I always have wanted. Flowers, always hugging and kissing, just an all around "man", and i love it. Love how protective he is of me, and how the little things i worry about, he makes me realize i shouldn't as much. We talk, all the time actually, but when we aren't the sex is by far amazing. So much passion, and feeling almost dominated by his actions at times, makes it sorta hot. :) Everyone says our star signs wont work, but really, the ones who were supposed to match up with me, were the worst. So, yea. I love my aries man, and i think were perfect for each other. Im just going to miss him while he is in Iraq. Pray for him, love always. Happily couple.

I am a Virgo woman and the best relationship I have ever had was with an Aries man. I think the reason that it worked is because were so different we never got bored. I always felt special around him it was like I was the only person in the room, and I even caught myself telling him things I would never tell anyone. I think that's because were both honest and straight forward people. I felt safe to say how I truly felt. Everything i've read about Aries and Virgo's compatibility must be completely off because we were perfect for each other. It had to end because he had to go back to New Zealand and I feel that if he had stayed we would still be together. I'm just happy that I could experience such a feeling of love and contentment. So good luck everyone!!!!