Can I get my Virgo ex back?

by Rasheed
(Germany)

I need help! I just broke up with my Virgo girlfriend after 7 years. Her age is 45 years and I am 46 years old. We spent a beautiful 5 years together without any problem. In the beginning of our relationship she was completely devoted and loyal to me. She gave me full her love. In the beginning she was with full of romance and she was ready to give her life for me. But the last 2 years of our relationship was very turbulent. We had lot of fights. I cannot get used of her critical nature and finally we broke up 6 weeks ago. I cannot forget her and I still love her very much. I did not realize how much I love her when we were together. In between we are still writing text messages and e-mails. She also says she misses me very much and she still loves me very much. However she don’t want to come back. She has refused all my requests for comeback. She stay hard and firm for her decision. I can’t understand how she can be so hard when she agrees that she still love me. I would like to know if she will still comes back to me. I am a Gemini man.

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Get your ex Virgo back....?
by: Anonymous

Cross your finger, remain faithful, and be true to yourself. Virgo sill have your picture in her heart. Nothing can change her but her. When she say she loves you-that what she meant. Virgo determine to her love one. Never betray her; love her for real. Just make sure that you don't misunderstand her. Virgo is the sign of service that doesn't meant she gives her whole body away. I'm sure your Virgo will come back to you in the right time. Since you are 46 and she is 45, ahah...I can see! that is a good sign. In Chines zodiac, you were born on the year #5 which is represent a dragon-that is the best, and she was born the follow year which is #6 represent the Sneak; that is excellent. These two signs are unbreakable. I believe both of you love each other soooo much. Probably, the dragon loves the Sneak more than the sneak does. I'm telling you don't loose contact with your Virgo-give her a call or do something to keep her well inform if you also loved her as she did for you., alright. Virgo already set her mind on you. You must believe and have faith. Virgo is not easy for someone to fool her. This lady is full of charm, make good decision, and very strong. She loved you and always as I read the zodiac compatibility. Who else is the lucky one? Try to call her as you usually did-morning or afternoon, whenever. It is hard to find a true love and partner....men and women today. Let me know.. take care. From: Saphire

To a Gemini man
by: Anonymous

im a Virgo and know how Virgo feels toward her boyfriend who she really Loved. im sure she will come back to you at the right time. im sorry to hear you broke up from Virgo. wondered why?? since you have such a wonderful and long term relationship. My suggestion is you need to spend time together with your Virgo and talk how do you feel about her. Virgo needs some attention from you before she able to trust you and wanted you in her life. Say and do something that you and Virgo usually did together. Virgo don't want anything from you; she wants your heart and honesty and makes love to you. Virgo may knows you liar or not liar to her. Remember, don't give up and try to recall what has she said to you for the past 5 or 7 years whatever. I'm sure she loved you and still.
You need to trust her. Call her!! Sweet Virgo always plane ahead. Please don't rush her. You will win her to come back to you. Be sweet and nice...Virgo and Gemini are sharing Mercury planet. Both looks as sister or brother. Alright??

Virgo woman
by: Rasheed

Thank you very much for all your sweet advises. I still don’t give up my hope. I still have faith in her because I still love you. I also know that she still love me. But what I cant understand is though how a human bean can be so hard towards the other one, which means a lot for her in the past. Everyday since we broke I use send her some nice text and e-mails. I tell you the truth she have never answered any of my mails or text. Few days’ back she wrote me if you did all this before would have been so great but nothing such will work now. My dear it is too late and I am so sorry for saying this. That’s all I get from her for my 40 or so mails

Virgo woman
by: Rasheed

Thank you very much for all your sweet advises. I still don’t give up my hope. I still have faith in her because I still love her. I also know that she still love me. But what I cant understand is though how a human bean can be so hard towards the other one, which means a lot for her in the past. Everyday since we broke I used to send her some nice text and e-mails. I tell you the truth she have never answered any of my mails or text. Few days’ back she wrote me if you did all this before would have been so great, but nothing such will work now. My dear it is too late and I am so sorry for saying this. That’s the only answer I got from her for my 40 or so mails.

You welcome, Rasheed
by: Anonymous

Your Virgo seems pretty tough and hard on you. There must be some thing wrong in your and her Astrological chart. As you said, "she still LOVES YOU." The thing must be going wrong. You need help from Astrology or David; he is a professional. He can help you more than my suggestion, I guarantee.
I'm very truly sorry to hear that you felt disappointed with you Virgo. Since you are a Gemini and she is Virgo, I'm not too sure how is it going to work out. Some how I believed it will works if you don't give up. Just try and see how it is, alright. I'm a tender Virgo with understanding and forgiving. I'm not Perfect but try to be perfect.
There is other Virgo who is very nice, loyal, and faithful. Don't be worry for you always have more time to correct it okay. Take care.

To Rasheed
by: Anonymous

I am a Virgo woman. I dated a Gemini male when I was young. I prayed for God to make him mine because I loved him, but I knew it could never work because he likes too many other females. He was always honest but he had a wondering eye and he showed little interest in my needs or wants so that made me feel like an option. I ended my relationship with him and I was hard on him the same way he called me sometimes, I changed my number but he found me through a mutual friend. I wanted nothing to do with him tho because I felt betrayed. A few years past and he ended up working with me at an old work place and I allowed him to come into my life as a friend but that relationship ended because as a friend he became obsessive and I can't deal and I have enough insecurity I need to surround myself with friends who can help motivate me, I cut him out of my life permanently for his obsessive personality. I'm sorry to hear your experience and I hope you too did not have a wondering eye because that is the ultimate shame for a Virgo woman. We make our selves perfect for the one we love and would do anything and once we feel undesired because of another woman it is hard for us to come back because we feel used and unappreciated. I am not accusing anyone but this was my experience. Also if you did not show her enough interest she could feel you are playing games and only see her as an option, which is painful to digest. Take care.

Thanks for your comment
by: Anonymous

Thanks; this is very similar to my case. My girlfriend found me chatting here best friend. But I guaranty that there was nothing wrong doing it. I just had harmless chat with her, as she was also my friend. But my girlfriend feel it other way and she mean I have betrayed her. So my question to you is now shell I still try to convince her I am innocent or I must forget her completely? Can I still win her?

Virgo not a jealous type
by: Anonymous

Virgo is the least jealous type among the 12 signs but she could be JEALOUS to a higher degree to the one she LOVED-Remember that. As a result you will lose her. You said, "there is nothing wrong just chatted with other girl on the line or anywhere." But to Virgo lady, it is not alright. Virgo thinks more beyond and very deep at this moment and the future. If you really LOVE Virgo, there is must be NO ONE comes between you and her as an obstacle in the relationship. I'm Virgo as she and my problem was the same. I'm sure who am I; I let him go and never come back; he could not find any one better than Virgo. I don't beg and stop him to stay. This is just my experience. Otherwise, I believe Gemini and Virgo are not the BEST match maker. You need to check in the Astrologer web to find more detail. Best Luck!

if they still love u
by: G

Virgos are super loyal and as long as they still have feelings for u, they will come back but u just have to show them and follow thru with actions and words...but if u cant tolerate their criticisms or work with their slow way of doing things...then it really isnt any use to get them back...they arent the easiest signs to understand becoz they just hav this steel wall around them with one peephole...but once u see thru this peephole, u can slowly dig and find so much more to love them for.

To G
by: Anonymous

Virgo is super super loyal to the one she loved that I agreed with G. Other hand, it is hard to understand Virgo for she is very complex. Words and actions are a great impact on her. Any man who is involves with Virgo, better be smart-an intellect mind and with a good taste. Virgo's criticisms are very safe. Man needs to understand and be tolerate with that. I guarantee if Virgo still has a feeling and connection for you, yes, she will comes back!
Also, you need to work out. Virgo is an easy one or could not be depend on the situation. Virgo will be slowly decline when she knew a man that she loved is using her. Man can't win Virgo that way. Virgo is a microscope. Guys out there, don't try to play mind game with Virgo; I bet you can't win her that way. Virgo is metallic-can't melt easily but Loyal. Don't take her literally. Good luck to whom involves with Virgo.

I am dating again with my Virgo
by: Rasheed

Thanks for all your very kind comments. My Virgo is dating me again. However she mad it very clear that there are no chances for coming back. Should I take her words seriously and be pessimistic now?

To Rasheed
by: Anonymous

I believed your comment must be very true and honest for you dating Virgo once again. It is hard to predict Virgo. She said,"No chance to come back." Some time her word is an opposite from what she said. Her word is a building block to protect and defense herself from being easy. Only you who knew the situation very well with your Virgo. Should you take her words seriously?? Or listen to her other words as a clue, okay. Virgo is very hard when dealing with Love, I'm telling you. I'm myself is Virgo believe me-external looks cool and smooth but hard core internal. Any man can't fool her.
You think about what she said and make your own decision nicely. No one but you. Best wish for you.

Young
by: Anonymous

Hi Rasheed, I knew you and your Virgo are very young at that age-emotionally strong and very dependable. I'm almost retire. I have a girlfriend who is Virgo like your-she is far away younger than me, smart, and full of charm. I'm afraid that one day I might loose her as you. I gave her a hard time and give her emotionally trouble such as possessive jealous which she doesn't like at all. I found she is too cool-unbreakable and never show that she is angry with me. This girl asked me very nicely to breakup our relationship but I never took her words seriously. She said,"the time will come soon." If i don't leave, she will leave me. I never admitted that I treated her badly. Also, she never confront me that I did caused her pain. Virgo never fool around-trust me but guy crazies about her because she is super naturally loyal,love,and care; I cant find other lady to compare in my experience. Fast-mind-hard to fool her; she makes note in her cells memory. I feel Virgo will breakup from me soon. I never being say, Sorry to her at all even though I got wrong. Don't let this be. Virgo is a real lady for you-a man knows.

Hard to understand Virgo
by: Anonymous

It is very hard to understand Virgo. Some time she speaks very directly and some time she says thing totally opposite and mean in a difference way of what she meant. I found it is too difficult to open and speak with Virgo; not too easy. But when she loves you, she means it. If you doing something wrong, she will not comes back. You have to understand Virgo before dealing with her.

gemini men
by: Virgo Woman

I agree with the post above regarding Gemini men. I dated a Gemini men and he was the stereotypical player...never like to stay home and always has an eye for pretty ladies. One is never enough since this sign does have a aversion to boredom. lol. I ended it also because of this reason. It's tough to win back a Virgo's trust. :(

Virgos don't come back !
by: Virgo Lady

Yes, that's my experience ... as a Virgo woman I have never ever gone back to an ex. If he is an ex ... then there was a solid reason why he became an ex. If that reason exists there is no point in going back.

And I believe, Virgos are serious people. We just don't break off a relationship. It is a carefully thought out decision. So we abide by it.

Good luck with your Virgo-ex :)

To Lady Virgo:
by: Anonymous

Same here. I have learned about a Scorpio when the relationship is intense, Scorpio acts and withdraw as not care anymore. I'm Virgo taking relationship very seriously and never want to break. I took my precious time to ponder for the right decision before I give in. Finally, I see his true color that Scorpio lacks of commitment, so I decided to ended up and never ever come back. I wasted my time because I trusted Scorpio who I always want to adore and cherish. I am absolutely not coming back to Scorpio without pursuing and confessing for a reason. I took time to give myself a chance to cure my emotional and mental. Now, I'm perfectly fine and HAPPY-FREE. Wish you luck! Virgo Loves

To give and to receive as well as
by: Anonymous

Virgo is one of the intelligent creature among the twelves signs. Virgo is not always loyal, devote, and love you as well anyone might think. Virgo gives you a lot of love but expects a lot in return.
Don't be surprise or happy when you see Virgo devotes or loyal to you. Virgo will criticize you from the start to the end if you are worth it for her/him as well as Virgo is worth to you. Simple, Love needs to treat each other nice equally. In other case, sex alone is not always win Virgo. You have to have qualities that you receive from Virgo. If not, stay away from Virgo, please. Virgo never shows off that she is smart. I bet you will lose if you think Virgo is too shallow. Noooo!!!

Not coming back
by: Anonymous

She is not gonna come back unless whatever made her criticize you so much changes. We get tired of talking

Absolutely not come back
by: Anonymous

You insisted that Virgo is not coming back. Probably you are correct!! Virgo is silence and only criticize you just in her head that you may not know. If you are up to Virgo standard and able to devote as much as she does to you or someone, both of you must be a heavenly made. Virgo never cheat or lie to herself. i'm tired to talking too. good luck to all.

Use Reverse Psychology!
by: Greg in Atlanta

She might be resisting your efforts to reconnect. If she knows you want her back, then she knows you're suffering, and she likes it because she's punishing you. (You're begging her to get back together, and she's giving you the middle finger!)

You've got to flip her thoughts and feelings about the situation!... Use some reverse psychology and give her what I call a 'cool shoulder' and then she'll have nothing to resist. There's an old saying, "If you keep on doing what you're doing, you'll keep on getting what you're getting!" Chill out on her and maybe she'll get her fishing pole out and try to reel you back in!

dont awake the other side
by: Anonymous

virgos has all the possitive treats, they do have a long patience, better dont push them too hard till they reach the boundaries coz once they turn their back on you, you wll be surprise that behind of their soft and innocent looks the other face of them lying in there...remember that virgos has a dual personality, better dnt awake the other side of them coz they are worse than scorpions when being revoked...

being provoked
by: Anonymous

PROVOKED***LOL...

Dual personality
by: Anonymous

Yes, of course Virgo has a dual personality as well as other signs or can be worse than Scorpio. Play or talk safe with Virgo if you don't want a strike back from Virgo. A true Virgo always think before doing an action. So, all signs have a negative and positive effect(hot and cold). Virgo can make you happy or sad by walking a way. Virgo,higher mind can spot your tricks a mile away, don't make mistake-not one or twice. Virgoans don't believe themselves or not anyone out there. Haaa. Better to confess and lots of bagging to Virgo if anyone wants him or her, lol,lol.

True Virgo women
by: Anonymous

Virgo women are very loyal, but are very short with nonsense and can be very inforgiven. Virgos are very intuitive, if you think you can get over on a Virgo, pls dont try it! I am the type of Virgo that just because I dont say anything, doesnt mean that I dont know! and I will wait until u just ask for it and then I will really give it to you. Virgos will also cheat, if they feel that their mate is cheating but they are very discrete! So if you r the type of mate that is always lyin and seekin, dont think for one minute that a Virgo is sittin back and u r getting over, pls think again. Once you betray a Virgo women, no tellin what can u will open up! Be Careful!!

"Will really give it to you. "
by: Anonymous

Virgo is a wonderful person-very kind and faithful mate. But watch out!!! If you r cheating/lying on her, she marks it down in a mental note-she will continue the investigation until she gathers all the facts then Virgo will strike back and will not forgive. Virgo looks like an easy creature but not; though, also not too easy to step on or fool them. Virgo analyzes every single thing, in the head. They don't like surprise and it is hard to impress them. If they love you, their love is real and won't give you until asking for. In Love, Virgo is too choosy-discrimination.

putting in all of my efforts
by: Anonymous

I'm a scorpio & she's a virgo,
We've dated for 6 years but our relationship came to an end 5 months ago. Everything was my fault I became a very up tight person but everytime we get into it I would always be the one to apologize because I hate it when she gets upset.
I didn't know how much I loved her until it was to late. Now all I want to do is to win her back but she is refusing to give me another chance. I'm putting in all of my efforts to change my old routines and to do what all I can to show her that i still love her. Thinking back to the past I've relized how much pain I caused, it was all because I was insecure, jealous, & obsessed over her. She knows how miserable I've been for these past couple of months, she's standing her grounds hard and firm! I'm being told by her from time to time that "we're just friends for now" but now her temper has been so short with me she called me all kinds of names when ever I tried to compromise with her. I'm willing to do what ever it takes to prove to her that she still means alot to me, right now the only thing that matters most to me is seeing her happy & to hear her voice. Even though we broke up unlike her relationships from the past she cut off all contacts from her Ex's but towards me she still calls me once or twice everyday
to see what I'm doing & to tell me goodnight! Do you think my Virgo will give me another chance if I keep putting my efforts into repairing our relationship?

Mr
by: Ararat

I am Virgo and observing this post to see how it goes on & would be pleased to offer any kind of help if needed.
But noticed that there's no time/date label to show how old this blog is!

To: Ararat
by: Anonymous

Ararat,

I posted the last comment about putting in all of my efforts.
What do you think I should do to help get my ex virgo gf back?

To Rashid
by: Ararat

If I have a few words only to advise, i would say:
apologise apologise and apologise and apologise and again apologise.

Note: apologies must be honest in action (not faked in words), which means, you must show/proof you will not be "wrong" again like you were.
As Virgos are loyal 100%100 they are very sensitive too they can pick up dishonesty easily, so if you really are sorry you must show that in an actual way.
However, Don't expect her back if happened and you did that previously, you had her back but continued being "wrong" again, as Virgos don't like wasting time in concepts they are certain about.

I wouldn't mind to quit even my progeny if they refuse to behave accordingly, in the other hand, I would give total freedom to whom may not appreciate my leaving way. BUT once accepted it has to be binding.
Considering Virgos are so merciful, they almost always are open to forgive BUT ONLY with logical motives.
In the end of the day Virgos have simple prima facie hope towards human's life, appreciate it to be appreciated. Ararat-

Virgo Insight
by: Anonymous

I am a Virgo woman. I can give you some insight into this. I have no idea how old these posts are, but there is a bit of truth in many of them-except the "spell-casting" ones. I have a question about that. If you have to resort to the equivalent of emotional rape in order to FORCE someone to love you, how much "love" is there, really? Anyway. We Virgos really do feel things deeply. We don't show it well, but it's there. When we are hurt, we hurt deeply. Being people that serve, we give and give, and if nothing is given in return, find no reason to go on. We simply walk away because the resources have been used up and there is nothing left to give. As far as keeping a "wronged tally" in our heads-absolutely. Not for revenge, but to make sure others aren't taking advantage of us. We can spot a liar from 10 miles away so don't even bother. If you are trying to win her back, apologize, but make it genuine. Make sure you want her back because you love her, not to inflate your ego or keep from being lonely. If it's anything other than love, she will see right through it. When we close a door, it is not only closed, it is locked. Not all Virgos close doors, or close them in the same time frame as each other, but if it's closed, it's for good. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. It isn't cold-hearted to us, it's a form of protection from further injury. Hope this helps you understand a little of what might be going on in her head.

To Ararat & Virgo Insight
by: Anonymous

To Ararat & poster for Virgo Insight,
I had written the post for putting in all of my efforts.
These past couple of months have been hard on me....
I've apologized, begged trying to compromise, I've even been willing to do what all she said to do what ever she wants, cherish her everything on the above list. Just so I can get her tov give me one last chance....
Now that we're not a couple I seen things in her perspective. All I want to do is to take wonder care of her, I never want to see her sad or stress when I sense her sadness all i want to do is to take all of the burden off of her shoulders and put them all on mine.
But she kept trying to chase me away with her vague words and attitude, i can tell that it hurts her more when she treats me they way she did, I would help her in anyway I could be cause i know its tough on her being the oldest having to take on more responsibilities its not far for her and not fair for me. I really care for her alot, i know deep down in my heart that I do love her. Taking care of her is my priority, she's my priority i made the dumbest mistakes in the past i dont want to make the same mistakes again, every little things that i know she loves and likes I would go out of my way just to find and get for her! Even if it takes a while but i will manage to get them for her. What more am I to do? I admit before I was an ass but now all i care for is her happiness! Everyday i want to tell her that I miss her but I cant!
If we were still together next month would of been our 7 years anniversary...............


To Rasheed & Virgo insight
by: Ararat

Rasheed, is it possible to send her this page's link, so then she may appreciate your case?

Virgo insight, u saying "a bit of truth" describing what u have found in Virgo's comments!!
How come that I find all what Virgos say here matching myself accordingly including ur views?

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