Cancer women and cheating

by priscilla
(cleveland. ohio, us)

I'm a young cancer female and i want to know if there are any cancer women who consider themselves as a cheater. I've had a couple of relationships where i felt that i was with the right person but then got my feelings hurt and ran to someone who i thought would help fill that empty feeling. this has happened time and time again with me. I've looked it up and nothing states the disloyalty or dishonesty of Cancer women.. could i get some help please?

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Cancer women and cheating
by: David-admin

People of every sign can and do cheat. Generally younger people do so more often as the stakes are often lower at that stage of life.

There are many different reasons why people cheat. Some signs (eg Aries) are more likely to do so for the excitement and challenge. Some signs (eg Libra) are more likely to do so for the ego boost. In the case of Cancer men and women the most common reason is emotional neglect, whether it's real or perceived.

With all that said, it doesn't always make it your fault. There are men and women who are very good at identifying such vulnerability in Cancers, and taking advantage of it. Each case is slightly different.

Your sun sign is just one tiny element of your personality. Every Cancer woman is slightly different. As a rule, Cancer women are amongst the most loyal, so no it's not in your nature to cheat, but.. just like everyone else you have certain buttons which can be pushed.

It's a complicated subject and I've written over 100 articles on different signs cheating, which at some point I need to upload here. Meanwhile though the short answer is you're only human. I'm not saying you should make a habit of it, but.. stuff happens.

me too!
by: Anonymous

omg i am the exact same..i feel like im with the perfect guy but as soon as he screws up..i run to someone else..until things get back on trck in my relationship..and obviously i am also a young cancer female.

Cheating
by: Anonymous

That is so true! i find myself cheating not because i do not love the person i'm with but because at one point or another i am feeling neglected and find that someone else is willing to give me the attention i want. However in the end it turns out bad as any cheating situation would and i end up hurt in more ways then one. It's difficult cause cancers are dreamers and if we dream of something we want then we try to create that with people we love and if it doesn't tur out the way we want we tend to run away.
It's hard being a cancer women.

Agreed
by: Anonymous

I feel similarly to all of you. I have never cheated, but I find myself flirting with other men or wanting their sexual attention, and it is certainly not for my ego. It is always when I feel like my Aries man is either uncaring or cheating (like you said, Aries tend to cheat because they enjoy the challenge). I am quite sure he has not cheated on me, but emotional neglect and my Cancerian imagination causes me to suspect it. Mostly, I feel like I search for others because I am defending myself. I think it will hurt less if I cheat too, just to even the field. However, I know Cancers are emotional, and cheating will not help either of us. I will just end up even more hurt. I sometimes hate being with an Aries because he does not understand my emotional needs at all, and sometimes I will be really upset for no reason. He doesn't know how to handle it so instead of reassuring me, he just pulls away. I love being a Cancer because of our intuition, but I hate that no one else understands us

Ah Cheaters
by: LadyCancer

I Am A 22 Year Old Cancer Women. And I Have Never Cheated. I Been In Three Serious Relationships And Even When I Was Having Problems With The Men I Were With Cheating Never Was My Way Of "Dealing" With Those Problems Or My Way Of Reciveing Something They Weren't Giving Me. Personally Think That Women/Men Who Cheat Are Disgusting. Why Cheat? Well, All I Know Is That I Will Never Cheat Even If I Was Cheated On. And To The People Who Cheat Is It Really Worth It? Because When Your Husband/Wife Or Girlfriend/Boyfriend Find Out Is It Really Worth All That Negative BullSh*t That's Bond To Happen! Plus You'll Always Be Known As The "Cheater".

it's hard 2 be a Canceranian.. T^T
by: Anonymous

it's really hard to be a Cancer sign woman, as in super, the moody changes is the number 1.. I'm also a certified NBSB(No Boyfriend Since Birth) since i let God choose the right person for me, i'm afraid to be hurt.. but fortunaley, even though i'm an NBSB, the attention and love I dearly crave for is given by my family, friends and God.. hehe.. that's why i'm super happy with my life.. O:D <3

Very True
by: Anonymous

I agree with the above comments, excluding LadyCancer's (which is simply judgemental). By reading these comments, I'm glad to know why I feel the way I do sometimes. Often, I will think to myself, and think so much that I get lost and confused in my own thoughts. Then I wonder if there's just something wrong with me, or if it's the young Cancer woman in me. Although I'm not agreeing that cheating is right and justifiable, we have to be realistic and accept that fact that it can happen, even if it's others who are cheating. Thank you all for posting your comments. And thanks to Dave-admin for posting his reply, initially.

agree
by: Anonymous

I agree with lady cancer, I am a young cancer women also. I've been in three relationships and I didn't cheat or think about cheating, or felt the need to do it. I also believe why is the reason for cheating on someone you claim to love? Even if that person is not loving you or treating you how they should its obvious their still doing something to trigger your love for them. Cheating is just a cheap move to do to someone because their not doing something for you. Plus what kind of person falls for someone whose in a relationship?!! Cancer women are all about being faithful, Yet, some "feel" the need to want to cheat or flirt. Not all cancer women are the same but, I know couple and they would never cheat, their satisfied with being with just one person and that's the beauty of being in a relationship no matter what sign you are.

what happens when a cancers needs are not met?
by: Anonymous

I AM A CANCER WOMEN. I do find my self cheating when I feel my needs aren't being met. Our sign says we are loyal and honest as long as we are happy. what are we like when we are not happy or satisfied is what I would like to know?

I guess it depends on the person
by: Anonymous

I am 28 and I have had several long-term relationships. There was one in particular: he ignored me most of the time, and I knew for a fact he was cheating on me. (I only stayed with him because we had a baby together and I was scared to try to raise her by myself.) At any rate, I wanted to cheat on him in order to have someone to adore me (my unmet emotional needs talking I guess), and also to get even(I was only 19 and still acted like a child sometimes). I met someone online, we talked for a long time, and then we decided to meet. We barely even kissed before the guilt overcame me. I just couldn't do it, no matter how justified I thought it was. And now, almost 10 years later, I still have never cheated on a man. Had an open relationship once (I have Gemini in my Venus, maybe that's why it appealed to me.)

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