Capricorn man Libra woman

I'm a Libra woman, married to a Capricorn man.

I have read your articles with interest, which say this match is a disaster waiting to happen. We have been married for 8 years and I can say this much, it isn't easy going. I love him more than anything, but we certainly are incompatible.

Our interests are rarely the same. He is happy with electronics and television, while I am an arts and book kind of person. Probably the only thing we really agree on is that we both love music, but even the variety of music often varies greatly.

We did indeed struggle for the first few years, both of us were unhappy. It took us probably 5 or 6 years to really fall into a pattern where we can both be happy pursuing our interests and we are no longer afraid we will grow apart.

It has in fact made us grow closer by spending more time apart. Arguments however are another matter entirely. I am a woman with a temper, and he is a man with an ego. He often times doesn't know when enough is enough and I have to get really ticked off and to the boiling point for him to finally get the point.

He almost always takes a few days to apologize simply because of the ego I guess. I rarely tick him off, I am a pretty sensitive person and can't stand for people to be mad at me so in the past 8 years there may have literally been 3 times he was mad at me. He has matured in the past few years and that makes things a little easier. He tends to be a big kid and while that is okay in certain instances, there comes a time when you have to an adult and take care of your responsibilities.

Sex is normal, nothing out of this world, but not terrible. He is often more shy in the bedroom where as I am more take charge and like things a little rougher. It took us a few years to adjust but we did. I would overall have to agree that a relationship with these two signs is often exhausting and sometimes we wanted to give up, but if you are dedicated and determined to make it work, you can. Each person just has to compromise enough to meet in the middle etc.

I'm mainly posting to say thank you for telling it like it is. I'm tired of people who say every relationship will be beautiful and easy. Accepting the challenges is the first step to making a marriage work. It doesn't just happen on its own and expecting everything to magically fall into place is what makes many couples give up too easily.

I am a Libra woman and date a Capricorn male. It is a very roller coaster like relationship. It is fun because he is always challenging what I do and why. When we come together on an idea the goal is usually met and met better than we thought it would be.

We get along because both he and I are very quiet people. He likes to play video games and I like to read and we respect each others need and time for those things.

Sex is great because it is always unexpected. It has happened in places I would not even do it in if I wasn't riled up. It's always a lot of teasing before hand, which makes it more exciting and explosive.

Overall he is a good guy. Yes, there have been rough spots where he has done some things that were inappropriate, but I believe in giving people a second chance. I'd recommend him because he always is willing to lend a hand to help out a person, whether he knows them or not.

Its nice to see a man help an old lady get something off a shelf because she can't reach. It's just too sweet. He's a neat freak and I am not. I like my clutter and he just doesn't understand that. But that is about as bad as he gets and he is one in a million.

I dated a two Capricorn men. One was born in January and the other was born Dec. 22, on the cusp. My January Capricorn was the one who I met in my early twenties. He was a musician and a very good one. He had a day job in the aerospace industry and ran a band in the evenings and weekends. We got along great and the sex was wonderful. He was social (contrary to the homebody reputation). I was invited to many of his gigs. We attended concerts together. Music and art was what we had in common. We also both loved football and basketball and attended season games. Our relationship probably would have turned to marriage, however, he developed a rare form of Cancer and passed away. I was with him until he died. It was an easy and loving relationship.

I later on met and dated a December Capricorn. Started off great but the man turned cold on me. Lack of communication. Rude and mean. Obsessed with video games. A grown man playing video games for hours at a time. Insane. I was many times put on the back burner so he could finish a level in one of his video games. This was a 35 year old man which made it worse. Between his obsession with video game playing and his very dry personality, I ran for the hills. Not a good match for a Libra girl. Too many differences in temperament.

I am a Libra woman dating a Capricorn man. This relationship is like no other. I am a fun person and he is too but I am more out going than he is so that kind of a problem. He goes o ut more than I do, always at the club with his friends. Matter of fact he is always this his friends and when he is not with his friends he is on the field doing what he do best. He is so caught up in his soccer sometimes I think he forget about. Like if I don't call him he wont call until couple days after with the I am so sorry and his list of what he had accomplished. For the first couple months we spend hours talking about soccer, I swear if i w as a soccer ball he would married me. I have to demand my time with him most of the time, but when I do get some us time its a beauty.

I feel like I am riding a roller coaster dating this Capri, but there is just something about him that keeps me wanting him. Our sex is not the greatest but it works. We both busy well mainly him so we don't have sex that much which is fine with me. The only thing I don't like about him is that he doesn't express his self to me, but I think that comes with time. I have my way of knowing how he's feeling about something. Basically I have to test him to get what I want. I like the fact the he is very determine but sometimes he doesn't realize that I am human and a Libra female too so I need that attention from him. Its hard not to linger but I am trying my hardest not to. And another thing, he's doesn't take the time out to know me more as a person, I wish he did cause if he did there would be not arguments most of the time and I wouldn't have to think he's cheating or even think about cheating myself. Its a challenge dating him but he is worth it. I am working us working as a team but a t the same time I support him in whatever he's doing and stay focus on my goals as well. This is the roughest but most loving relationship I ever been in, its crazy and nerve rocking.

I just started dating a Capricorn man. i am a Libra. yes they hard working and would work over time for fun. sometimes rather stay in doors than go out. And a little off in bed meaning they do things backwards. but we have passionate sex. I can work with him as long as he don't cheat. I wanna build a friend ship as well as a romantic one.

"a little off in bed meaning they do things backwards"

Okay, I gotta ask. What exactly does that mean? I've been pondering it for about 5 minutes and... lol

I'm wondering too. How do you have sex backwards? Orgasm first and then foreplay? If it's anything kinky, I'd rather not know.

Appreciate the posts. Some have me laughing because YES, backwards!!! Initiating sex with my cap is sooooooo slow but then WHOA! Huh? I am a 5'11" Libra. Divorced. Dated all Virgos, married a Gemini. My best friend is a Cap. So is my sister. I adore their wisdom and pragmatic approach to life. Lovers have always seen me as a challenge, a little detached and whatever...I have a lot of male friends, whom I adore. I don't get any of it.

He wooed me out of a 4 yr celibacy and then.. I don't know...settled in? It's has become weird. He loves that I am (his words) "self aware, sincere, selfless, loyal, smart and steady". But something changed. He "loves me". Okay.....neither of us wants to marry again, we have responsibilities that preclude this, and it is a long distance relationship. He is just so odd sometimes. Even for me. And I write for a living and need a lot of alone time for work.

Capricorn men are liars cheats and only have feeling for themselves and people love them coz there so wonderful until they get behind close doors and you see their other side which is very possessive, caps can be mind abusive to they are manipulative and once riled up can be very vindictive they can be quite boring preferring to sit in front of the TV for hours, where Libs are up for spontaneity . on the other side very hard workers intelligent and most will move mountains for you and the family. caps and Libs are not a good combo 2 very different people with different outlooks on life I know I've been married to one for 30 years, my mothers is a cap to

im a Libra woman engaged with a Capricorn man. its quite interesting. we have a lot of differences but im trying to work on those.. he loves video games.. and so do I. he loves to cuddle...and very sweet in private...he's my little baby. he loves to sleep on my stomach...but it public he's very formal. very shy.. wouldn't even hold my hand. having a relationship with a Capricorn is very challenging. but if you two really love each other differences isn't a big deal...

I am a Libra Woman dating a Capricorn man.. I think it will lead 2 a marriage though he's very quit and shy person and couldn't express his feeling the way I can do. its a big challenge for me to make the marriage works. I am afraid that I will get bored one day .. and I need an advice

I have dated a Capricorn man and he was mean at times he came off as mean because he didn't want others to hurt his feelings....he always wanted to be in the ruling chair didn't really find him as boring bit as far as sex I was WAAACCK...Capricorns have really big insecurities ...he always threw his insecurities to me so I could feel them too...other than that I like him a lot he was just to shut in for me

Me also a Libra dated a cappy for 8 years, all I can say is everything had to be his way or the highway, very one-sided, I don't know how I got through it. Everything was about him, him, him. But I loved him anyway and still do. If only he could of gave a little. They are very self serving, moody, mean, hurtful, uncompromising, the list goes on. But they do have something wonderful things about them I just can figure out what it is. The sex was great, but scarce. Cappies can go forever without intimacy, that's just the way they are. I can relate to just about every relationship ive read about cap men and women {not just Libras, all signs}. They are same way no matter who they are with. To bad their wonderful qualities are so short lived. Their problem is they are searching for the perfect women {which don't exist}. He always told me I was perfect in every way {which I was "my bad"} with an exception of working nights which kept us from being up each others ass all the ti me. Who wants that anyway? I blame myself for our breaking up do to the fact I was too easy going, always giving him his own way. I do thank god for one thing, we never moved in together, that would of lasted all of 5 min. Which would of probably saved myself 8 years of heartache. But it wasn't all bad we had some great times, just not enough of them {his choice}. I wont get into are break-up, it was horrible, but I will say the reason we are not together is because for the first time I refuse to crawl back, begging, pleading, writing letters etc. God forbid if he would do any of those things, never in a million years, he's to good for that. What a shame, that's ok, I don't want to be with somebody that wouldn't do what ever it takes to be with the person they love more than anything {especially when their wrong} because of their stubbornness. All I can say its his loss and I think he know that. I think it shocked the hell out of him that I made no attempts to reconcile COL{CRY OUT LOUD}. I don't know if I won, there is no winner when it comes to broken hearts. But at least I got the last laugh. {so to speak}.

hey! I am a Libra woman married to a Capricorn man for the last four years. It has been a relationship full of ups and downs but I feel that our relationship is worth the try and I have been trying my best to work things out...yes, we do have our differences. actually everything he likes I dislike and vice versa...but girls, its quite fun to do his thing once in a while and he will enjoy doing our thing too.......love is the only thing that can make anything possible...and have faith...he is the best husband material u can ever have but don't expect him to know any gentlemanly manners....u might have to be careful while entering doors, cuz he will enter first and might bang the door on ur face...he does it without meaning it...he's not courteous at all....bless him...he is adorable...

I am a Libra female, I have been with my Capricorn man for over 4 years now, actually till be 5 years that we met in July of this year. O my gosh. Well anyway, it started off where I was just so intrigued by him, he was much different from what I was normally used to, I am extremely social, I have more guy friends than I know what to do with, I mean it....of course no new boyfriends will like this, of course I am also packed with grace and excellent debating skills, so he sees it and now he is proud, he thinks I am an elegant host. He loves that people admire me and surround me at parties. People do that to him too, he is so brilliant. The more that I love him, the more that I see, Astrology and the chemistry that makes it up, isn't always accompanied by love. Love changes everything. You can be completely opposite signs and be completely in love, and its not good or bad, its whatever you want, and for Libras, that's just insanity. because NOW, Mr. Gemini comes a long. While Im all innocent, loving on my cap man, pretty sure we will do everything together.....it does get a little boring, and so I was seeing this Gemini guy while me and my cap took a break...I would never take things inappropriately far unless I knew it wouldn't hurt anyone, so this Gemini...we talk, we hang out, we laugh for hours....he is showing me things I forgot about. I am in a dilemma. What should I do? I cant treat my cap this way. I must be honest.

im a very sexual romantic Libra girl and my new Capri boyfriend is content with once a month sex. he s great in every other way so far so im really confused.... is sex a determining factor for relationship longevity or not. for the first time in my life actually don't want to cheat so im stuck being unhappy in the bed but always happy during the day. what should I do?

I've been dating a Capricorn guy who is 16 yrs older than me from the moment we met we had the best chemistry talking flirting...got to the point where we cant keep our hands off of each other. I was a little on the fence about everything only because I could tell I could really fall for him If I opened myself up...We've been together and un separable now but also give each other space. He is very into work which is not a bad thing at all. very outgoing personable well mannered...good looking and loving to me. He treats me unbelievably well. the sex is absolutely amazing and the best ever he has unbelievable stamina. I am a younger charming above averagely attractive female 5'7 weigh 105 23yrs Libra I don't know if that has anything to do with the success of us so far but im sure its contributed. we laugh together ....smile so much and talk about a future together .... we both are falling in love very fast and it feels so right like we've been together for along time . we are so comfortable people automatically assume he is my husband.. we both have separate interests sure but that's healthy in any relationship to be independent and self sufficient. very compatible when love is there.

I've been with my Capricorn man for 3 yrs it was like love at first sight.. we are engaged.. but not even married yet.. like how long do I need to wait?

we've had our ups and downs.. he doesn't like me to have fun as I am a very social being.. I've put with all his hurtful words.. and moods.. I would be the first to always crawl back to him whenever we broke up... but now I've given up... last break up he crawled back to me coz I think he knows im so god damn good to him, and no other girl would treat him like a king like I do. He is very controlling needs to have his own way .. needs to know where im going .. what im doing and who with! it used to drive me insane coz he acts like my parents haha. He can be boring at times always wants to stay home if his not out working. like he usually is.. and sometimes he'll want to spend time with me .. then other times he just gets moody and not want to see me seriously who does that?? please someone explain? he tells me he loves me more than life itself etc... next minute he gets in his stupid moods and like I don't even exist!!

Well I suppose It depends on what kind of Libra you are versus what kind of Capricorn you are. Some traits stand out more than others. As for me and mine. I been with him for almost 4 years now and we are planning on marriage after I get my degree. It has been so amazing. We are completely compatible. We are silly together which is so much fun. I'm of course a Libra and I love life and love happiness, I'm rarely angry nor sad. I sing out randomly and dance when I feel like dancing. I'm meet a Capricorn who does the same thing :). The funny thing is after reading this post I found out many caps love video games it's true for mine as well. The thing is I love them too so I make it interesting.. If you want to get them away from the video games use your body. That works for me every time. Or if you can cook lure them out with food lol. Yes they are very hard workers and I'm willing to work but I can be extremely lazy. But he helps me with that, in a way he helps me become a better person. I'm not as lazy as I used to be and in return he takes more time out for us. He is incredible in bed because whatever I want I get it. And I do the same for him. He is unselfish in bed and just wants to see me satisfied so he does whatever he has too. It's a give and take relationship, sometimes he can be extremely romantic and sometimes I wonder if he has one romantic bone in his body. Sometimes he can be very aloof in public other times I can't get him off of me. He is a born leader hard worker and very social, so we are both social butterflies. But when he's upset you just leave him alone and let him come to you. But I supposed that's with all men. The thing is I feel like people look at the sign to much and not the people themselves, honestly I didn't know that Libras and Capricorns were supposed to be "incompatible" you could have fooled me. Libra's tend to be lazy while Capricorns tend to be hard working but if you find someone that willing to work with you and meet you at least half way then it shouldn't matter. He says I make him a better person everyday and if I wasn't brought into his life he would be set in his ways. I feel that same about him. You can't go into a relationship closed minded expecting someone to change for you but you don't change or compromise for them. So find someone that's willing to love you for you and in the process make you a better person. When the love is there the zodiac sign does not matter.

I am also a Libra girl date with a cap boy more than 1 yr.. and I have to say, I still so love him!! even he is not romantic.. actually he is working very busy, but he is not a home person, he is very social. he got a lot of friends. but I am kinda shy and quiet. so its quite different! and if I didn't call him first, he will not call until when he wanna meet me! I don't like this, but now I get used to wait!! coz he worth it. so if you date with a cap boy, its very big challenge. but when u look back, u will find its still sweet, coz LOVE LOVE LOVE!!

I have recently met a Capricorn man, he is my fiance and we will have an arrange marriage next month. I have been speaking to him for quite a long time. Yes I agree to the fact that caps want to control the relationship but its mainly because they are insecure all the time. My would be says that he does not want to hurt me but I have anticipated rightly that he is too scared to be hurt himself. Caps look out for a carrier women but after a while of analysis get insecure by that fact as well. I think they just want to be loved by their wife and want to work hard for their family.

mmm.... I know a Capricorn man, and he is very controlling, when I first met him, he said he loves me straight out, didn't give me enough time to say anything, he is very insecure with himself and life, but this guy is now harassing me and ringing me and texting me everyday..... they are also threatening people who can't control their own actions...... they do lie a lot and try to be very charming to get where they want you, they are cheaters and most of all, they crap on about stuff that isn't true.... if you do not do what they want you to do, they try to destroy you and any possible way they can find it! they aren't good people to certain people, they love to take advantage on certain people, I have to say but he is so much of a home person, doesn't go anywhere, he always stays put and think about the next girl he can hurt!!!!!! it is very true they don't like Libra's being social and having fun, they are jealous people, I will never be with another Capricorn man again, as they are very hurtful and moody! and I can't not stand that! and yes He is very controlling needs to have his own way like all the time.... and he always needs to know where im going, what im doing and who with! it drives me insane cos he acts like my parents, I really hate that!!!!!

Me being a Libra girl who dated a Capricorn man for 2 months what a waste of time that was, all I can say is everything had to be his way or the highway which is a true fact I hated it, very one-sided all the time, I don't know how I got through it but I did. Everything was about him, him, him. I don't love him I really didn't from the start but I do care, If only he could of gave a little it would of been a lot better for both of us. They are very self serving, moody, mean, hurtful, uncompromising, the list goes on and on. The sex was great or I should say wonderful, but scarce. Capricorns can go forever without intimacy um no they can not..... that's just the way they are. I can relate to just about every relationship ive read about cap men and women some do match and some don't. To bad their wonderful qualities are so short lived. Their problem is they are searching for the perfect women {which don't exist}. He always told me I was perfect in every way, I was too easy going g, always giving him his own way I had enough so I said it's over. I do thank god for one thing, we never moved in together, cos he did ask me to move in like straight away and I said no and thank god I didn't it would of been the worse mistake of my life, it wouldn't of lasted anyway and it didn't, and now I am very happy without him, Which would of probably saved myself years of heartache anyway. But it wasn't all bad we had some great times, just not enough of them. it was the most horrible time being with him never again I will ever go back to it!!!! but I will say the reason we are not together is because for the first time I refuse to crawl back, begging, pleading, writing letters etc. God forbid if he would do any of those things, never in a million years, he's to good for that. What a shame, that's ok, I don't want to be with somebody that wouldn't do what ever it takes to be with the person they love more than anything {especially when they are truly wrong} because of their stubbornness. All I can say its his loss and I think he knows that and I so do not care. I think it shocked the hell out of him that I made no attempts to reconcile. and he said I am his life, I am so not, I wonder what other females he would do this too.... I feel sorry for any girl that has to put up with a guy like this, But at least I got the last laugh. good luck and god ridding to you Capricorn man.....

I've been seeing this Cap guy for about 9 yrs now. We met each other very young and weren't ready to settle down but we always kept in touch. We've seen each other through some tough break ups and other life changing situations. I say that to say we never put pressure on each other to title our relationship. He does his own thing. I do my own thing. But at the end of the day his loyalty is what I love!! He allows me to be me and doesn't verbally tear me down. If I do something he doesn't like he will say it very sweetly in my ear while rubbing my chest..TMI??..my point he finds a way to say it while also letting me know " hey, were not arguing about this " cause I'm good for flying off the handle with other people and he never wants to get in that line of fire. Because no yelling at him or chastising him will cause him to go silent for days! When it comes to his work, it literally comes to bed with us. He's a writer and he's always talking about a story, poem, screen play or some other ambition of his that he's working on. I jus fall asleep on him...lol but us Libras hear everything anyway!! I love how different we are. We both love to talk and crack jokes so our convos are never boring. We believe in each other and encourage each other to always be at our best. I'm not as lazy and more patient. He on the other hand, has let me into his world (which took a long time) and provides me with the stability and responsibility I need in my life. I love him for who he was, who he is, and for who he will be!! He is my angel baby!! P.S. The sex is mind blowing and the man has stamina for cross country running

I'm a Libran and my boyfriend is a Capricorn. We do have a lot in common which I've read is unusual for our star sign compatibility g as a unique couple. I don't think we've ever had a fight. From reading about people who have had trouble with a Capricorn man I feel special that I have a one of a kind guy.

I am a Libra woman, late twenties, 8 months older than my capri. Wow! what a surprise he was! Very passionate, loving, and much more social than these other capri men. Balanced in entertainment and work though extremely driven and loyal to his career advancement. He has been very vocal and upfront about his feelings for me (all good :))though he tries very hard to hold back. At first it was all about "trust". All I had to do was let go and be completely open to him, allowing him to take me as I am. We now have an immense trust for each other and I would tell/show him anything. I can sense his desire to dominate me but he is careful with this as he can sense my need for independence to balance my extremely deep feelings for him. He brought up all the tough questions right away, and we both thought we "just knew" it was right as soon as we began dating. He is exceptionally driven and gifted in bed, our physical connection is undeniable and very satisfying for me. He d doesn't always require satisfaction though and this is the only thing my scales are tipping over. He is determined to continually improve himself and cares deeply for his family. These might be two of the top five most attractive things for me about him. We are just getting started but I know he's the one for me! I have never felt more alive or more beautiful in my life and each day is better than the last, even if we have a little tiff. He always says the right thing and can own up immediately to his faults. For someone so confident, he really has his ego in check! Immensely masculine affect, convivial and inclusive. Does that sound like your average Capri? He is only 3 days into the sign, so maybe its a cusp thing. wish me luck