Gemini woman

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Gemini woman profile - personality traits & characteristics

Gemini's are the intellectuals of the zodiac, known for their cleverness, curiosity and excellent communication. Always questioning and often insightful, they're typically fascinating and light spirited companions with a diverse knowledge. Highly adaptable, they’re fast thinkers and fast talkers, often able to get inside other peoples heads while discussing almost anything. Due to this your Gemini woman is likely to be highly adept at flirting and very hard to beat in an argument!

Being so insightful comes with a price. Everything has multiple sides, and often maintaining a fixed viewpoint is the only thing which allows order to made from chaos. While the meaning of the twins is often taken as being two-faced, it really represents multiple viewpoints of the same subject.

You may see a square, while your Gemini woman often sees a three dimensional cube. As such it's sometimes hard for her to say 'the sky is blue' - when she knows it isn’t. Nothing is straightforward to her, and she may often get so buried in details that she can’t see the big picture. She's equally likely to excitedly explain about gas molecules acting as a wavelength filter than to notice the beauty of the end result. Because of this she's likely to appreciate a person who can point it out to her occasionally.

In short, the price paid for her intellectual firepower is a relative lack of emotion. She thinks too much, and feels too little, which has some consequences in many aspects of her life. These certainly arent all bad, she's never too emotional or draining, and always quick to make fun of a bad situation and find a solution to it. Her mental complexity is however sometimes misconstrued as being contradictory, superficial or unreliable.

Dynamic and exciting she's easily bored, and favors variety in all things. She probably has multiple interests, each holding her telescopic attention for short bursts.

Gemini woman as a lover

Enthusiastic, charming and clever your Gemini woman will be an undemanding and flexible lover. She’s good at almost anything she puts her mind to, and can make anyone laugh. Add this to the light and inquisitive personality and she has a lot of sex appeal. She is very friendly and communicative by nature, and this can sometimes be seen as flirtatious.

Ideal partner

Deep, mysterious and interesting, without being too emotionally needy or intense. Someone who keeps her guessing, and allows her a lot of freedom. Ideally you should have your own interests, and be spontaneous enough to surprise her occasionally.

Gemini woman sexuality

Be as adventurous as you like! Your Gemini woman appreciates variety, and is a good choice to experiment with. She will prefer sex being somewhat unpredictable, and in the long term this can be a challenge.

One thing to know is that in some ways she enjoys the theory more than practice, and has a good imagination. If you like sex once a week, on Mondays, at 10pm, and only in the missionary position, you can still keep things unpredictable by talking about wild and unusual ideas during sex. “I’d love to tie you up in Bob and Stephanie’s closet the next time we go to dinner there” etc. Don’t worry, she won’t hold you to any of it, so be as outrageous as you like to keep her guessing.

Commitment and Long term

Gemini get some bad press in this area, related to getting bored with partners. Work on the assumption that the day your Gemini woman totally understands you will be the day she gets bored, and act accordingly. This isn’t a sign you want to bare your soul to, or share everything with. Be as mysterious and deep as possible. Gemini’s love puzzles, and the trick here is to be a human puzzle. See our seducing Gemini guide for more information on the strategy. While playing mind games is generally cruel, in this case it will be indirectly appreciated.

Gemini women gift Ideas

Generally, she'll like anything thought provoking or unusual - an odd ornament, puzzle or exotic conversation piece. You also cant go wrong with a book, or magazine subscription as she will almost certainly be an avid reader.

Using astrology to really understand a Gemini woman

It’s important to note that we’re only considering a persons sun sign in this article. There are many other planets which can have an equal or greater effect on their personality. Makes sense, as ultimately everyone is of course unique.

Your own personality is also a significant factor. How you see someone, and how they see you is a matter of personal perspective. It’s why you may think someone is wonderful, while your friend can’t see it.

To fully understand someone or how compatible you are with them (the two are ultimately the same thing) we need to calculate those other planet placements from their date of birth, and compare them to your own, and then interpret the results.

This unlocks the real power of astrology, and gives much more useful and specific information – everything from how they view you, how to turn them on, how to avoid arguments etc. If you would like to explore this further please see the astrology compatibility reports page.

Gemini woman - other articles and guides

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